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Plan your own life bro. I get where your coming from but nobody can give you advice that’s relevant to you. I can tell you everything that I did and point you in that direction, but it won’t bring you the same fulfilment. Don’t be a delicate flower waiting to blow around in the breeze in any direction. Be a fucking massive masculine as fuck tree bro.
/r/askTRP10/08/20 09:06 AM
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Buy some resistance bands and work on your foundations. Scapular strength, rotator cuff, rear delts. Often muscles that get neglected but after 3 months of shut down, working out these areas really allowed me to push more weight at the gym with no pain when I finally returned.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 10:58 PM
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It depends who you allow in your life. I don't waste my time with girls I don't find attractive. Meaning if shes smoking hot but smokes crack, I'm not going to plate her or associate with her. I'd rather have a plate whos interesting like, comes from another country, academic high achievement, prestigious career. Accepting everything and anything is a recipe for exactly what you've described.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 11:41 AM
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Errr, you mean when you did something wrong? You apologise and move on. Like an respectable human being that you'd ever want to associate with.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 11:38 AM
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Lol. Joe Rogan played video games. He quit because it was taking up too much of his time as he was becoming obsessed. This is when he lived in Colorado. If he didn't quit, he probably wouldn't be as successful as he is today. Thank you for illustrating my point though. Do some research before raising an argument and calling bullshit. ;)
/r/askTRP09/06/20 03:11 AM
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They're not bad. It's just that the time spent, isn't spent elsewhere, doing impactful activities. Nobody who is super successful plays video games on a regular basis except those for which it is their job. And the likelihood of you replicating that as opposed to you replicating success in other ways is so minuscule that the chance of it happening is not worth forcing.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 12:05 PM
1

What the fuck is woke?
/r/askTRP08/06/20 12:02 PM
3

Small amounts, yes
/r/askTRP08/06/20 12:02 PM
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Does that really work?
/r/askTRP08/06/20 11:42 AM
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Your only doing things that give you immediate feedback. Try abstaining and put yourself through the pain period. The other side of war is comfort.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:39 AM
3

Buy a reflex ball (one the the ones that have bumps instead of a smooth surface) then throw it at a wall and use your reflexes to catch it. It's completely random and you get a different bounce/catch each time. Most ball sports, especially on uneven or unpredictable surfaces will improve your reflexes. Reflexes will decline with age however, so largely your reflexes are defined by your genes.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:38 AM
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Dude its the same for men and women. This not a good observation. The statistics for obesity, happiness and life satisfaction is the exact same between men and women. All species are supposed to do the best they can. It's the rules of the damn game. It's not that men are supposed to be of high value, it's that all species are balancing between what they should do and what they actually do. If you buy into evolutionary psychology, these theories of human evolution can guide you more deterministic…
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:36 AM
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You already know the answer man.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:33 AM
2

You break up and stop dating them. They're not right for you. Every relationship I have ever had where I felt the need to check a girls friend never ended well.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:32 AM
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With older women, keep it simple and don't try to game her or be clever. Be very straightforward, these women have seen it all and games are not the modus operandi.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:30 AM
3

She's fat. You can always check by the neckline. Fat women is just skin. Skinny women have defined neck muscles, collarbone, clavicular notch, clavicle, anterior sternoclavicular... etcetera.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:29 AM
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I wouldn't degrade myself to that level.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:27 AM
1

You can do it
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:24 AM
3

You're basically saying that being unhappy is better than being poor. Honestly if you've never worked a job that makes you want to kill yourself, but pays amazingly well (think abbatoir work), you need to work more high paying jobs and see if it's worth it. I agree that working for yourself is a lot better, but it's subjective. Many people strive under strong CO's or love the fact that they're the best plumber in their town and everyone respects and relies on them. I think the blanket statement …
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:23 AM
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I mean do other peoples homework for them, as a business to make money. I know some people in Pakistan who make a killing in USD due to the currency exchange rate doing this kind of work.
/r/askTRP07/06/20 04:20 AM
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I wish my life was boring enough to contemplate nonsense like this. It would be quite amusing.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:29 PM
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Don't do it. I swear 90% of this sub can be summarised by "just do/don't it". Humanity lacks discipline and it is evidenced greatly by this sub.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:28 PM
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biology organism
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:27 PM
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Youtube is basically a library that you can access anywhere anytime. Also, the internet. It has only existed the past 20 years, enjoy it. God knows how hard it would be pre-internet.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 01:26 PM
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Don't try to be the winner. Try to fix the situation. Don't compare yourself to her or anyone. Compare yourself to who you were yesterday. If you do that, the bricks on the wall get built quicker than you'd expect.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:48 AM
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Models by Mark Manson.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:46 AM
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It's not as good as you think it is. It's mostly just hormones and biology.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:45 AM
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No, and I probably never will. All the power to you if you do though. I think the consequences if you fail can be cataclysmic because there is an infinite record of your DM, should she chose to screenshot it, not delete the DM etc. Now your information is permanently in her hands. She can send it to her friends, ridicule you, blackmail you when you're rich etc. It's just not how I like to extend myself. If anything is worth doing, it's worth doing in person. I don't think young guns really under…
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:45 AM
1

Alcohol and weed will not help you to feel horny, start with that.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:39 AM
1

Why do you want to be more social? Why is more important than the how.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:39 AM
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Myself, I don't need anything external to perform tasks. It's within me to have the mental fortitude to conjure a mental environment where everything I desire is possible through action, practically of course.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:38 AM
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Get a job, any job. See if you like it. Make a list of what you like and don't like. Learn everything you can from that job. Move on to a new job. You keep leap frogging until you find something you're good at, pays well and isn't a total chore to perform daily.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:37 AM
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Do it and come back in a year. I did it over the course of 5 years. Jumping in and out and now I just don't. It's just an addiction, it's pulling you in because you probably crave connection with other people. Social media preys upon the humanistic urges of connectivity and uses it to make money.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:35 AM
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Be honest, be direct, be concise and don't play any games. If you can't respect a human being enough to that, especially one that you had a humanistic bond with, you are a terrible human being and are doomed to the fate of similiar experiences.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:33 AM
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Re-read this in 6 months. You'll see what you're typing is the answer to your own question. If you're feeling lonely, then you know why that is. You know what you're doing is adequate for your unique biorganistic DNA and you should take charge of your life instead of looking for external ideologies to attach to that are misaligned with your personality.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:32 AM
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Happened to me. Like 7 years later she hit me up. Probably because she was approaching the wall. The idealistic view I had on her for the better part of a decade was wiped off the face of the earth by enduring a terrible relationship with a shitty woman for 3 years. It taught me to never idolise other people because there's a reason things didn't work in the first place.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:30 AM
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Practice makes perfect.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:28 AM
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Keep educating yourself. The pareto distribution dictates a universal law that in a company of 100 people, 10 people do 80% of the work. Be one of those doing the majority of the work. Discipline is very very important. Be careful what you wish for.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:28 AM
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Keep swinging your bat. You'll hit eventually.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:26 AM
1

It sounds like you have ADHD.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:26 AM
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As many as you're comfortable with.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:25 AM
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Do it anyway and prove yourself wrong.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:25 AM
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Say goodbye.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:24 AM
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Start a service where you do other peoples homework for them. Start doing it yourself, then start sub-contracting. Rich high school kids will and do pay well in USD for essays, assignments etc. You get to learn about the subject yourself and expand your world view and you get paid for it. Money is important to think about, but don't focus all of your attention on it. It will make you do something you hate, just for money. And that is a terrible terrible life man.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:24 AM
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Impulsivity is a trait. You either drown it out and numb it, or you find healthy ways to fulfil it. The later option will require more willpower than you're willing to give currently.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:22 AM
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All good except for the last thing you said, it makes you look like a bit of a creep lol. Personally I wouldn't have responded, also, im not much a texter for this exact reason. It creates too many environments for things to go wrong. But everything else was good.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 11:21 AM
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How old are you?
/r/askTRP03/06/20 12:16 AM
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Move. You won't regret it
/r/askTRP02/06/20 11:29 PM
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Move out. More responsibility = better for you. Feeling depressed and isolated is your biology telling you that something you're currently doing isn't worth it. i.e: your current situation. Just throwing this in, in case it catches - Mum is paying your rent and probably your bills and you're calling her toxic btw. Disrespectful attitude imo. Be grateful to her if you can find it within yourself to do so. Internal attitudes reflect external situations...
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:35 PM
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Spend less time doing things by yourself, and more things doing activities outside or where you meet new people. Like walking, or working out, or fishing, or studying at the library. You might not think that going for a walk can help you meet friends, but it happens, trust me. Say hi to everyone and after a few days you can get to know people. "How's that garden coming along this week?" etc.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:31 PM
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I played WoW, BF2142, BF3, BF4, LoL and CS:GO. Combining all of those hours would be over 25,000 hrs played. At least. ​ It took me about a year to get past my gaming addiction to a point where it's manageable now. Only now do I realise it was an escape from life and from success. I still game a little bit, I sold all of my gamer gear a year ago. I just have a shitty laptop now but it runs hearthstone and I'll play a few hours during the week sometimes. It's enough for a mini escape if I need it…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:30 PM
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Marriage as a concept? Yes. Marriage as a legally binding contract? No.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:21 PM
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If you can't bring them to your place, then why even use tinder. Always have logistics in mind before interacting with a women. You could try taking her to a hotel?
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:50 AM
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Most of the science on nutrition is conflicting. The general consensus is that we need to eat more vegetables (particularly green leafy and cruciferous ones). Everything else is free game. The more diversity in your food intake, the broader nutrient profile you'll get, meaning a more well rounded food intake. Restricting yourself to only 4 foods and 1 supplement seems a little bit stupid, considering you'd be severely lacking some of the essential vitamins and minerals that are necessary for opt…
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:49 AM
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You can't change other people. They have to change themselves. ​ #DailyAnswer for any questions the relate to fixing other people. zzz
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:45 AM
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Let me teach you something that nobody wants you to know, especially the education sector: You never have to pay for knowledge. It's free. It's called the internet. The only time you ever have to pay knowledge, is for accreditation in a field.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:36 AM
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How old are you? Maybe it's just what your friends and family spend their time doing? "Like dude! You don't like football?" coming from a group of guys at the bar watching football. I mean thats as simple as I can go with your question. It's a very basic principle of tribalism in humans.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:33 AM
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Study. Work. Gym. Girls. Always have 1-2 hours (hopefully) at the end of the day to watch some youtube or read. That's my entertainment quote for the day, right before bed. Once or twice a week I'll just relax for a full day and do whatever.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:32 AM
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Talk to your doctor about this. There are other medication available, and treatment of sexual dysfunction as a symptom is an alternative option. ​ Check your thyroid hormone level and personally, I would not accept that symptom in any medication. Personally I would push to fix the symptoms or change the medication. There are other anti-depressants which don't influence sexual function as much. Bottom line, talk to your doc.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:30 AM
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Interesting guy.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:27 AM
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Break out of your routine and do unpredictable things.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:27 AM
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The more uncomfortable life situations you undertake, correlates with the removal of bitch from man. Consider this concept for a while; Boys grow into men by their experiences. Girls become automatically women.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:26 AM
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Omlala's tinder strategy was 4-5 years ago. There have been huge advances since then, within the literature. This approach is not suitable for todays climate of online dating. Omlala's other content however, holds true and is considered a valuable resource.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:24 AM
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Prioritise yourself and take time off from anything. Don't allow yourself to get overwhelmed which can pop up from time to time without realising how much of an impact your stress levels were having. It's a man thing to be like everything is fine and move on logically. But this is actually a rare moment that emotions have a lot of weight in your life and you need to take that seriously.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:22 AM
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Polite indifference.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:19 AM
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Whatever keeps you motivated. Ideally, you should be doing it for yourself.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:14 AM
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I don't see why not. Just make sure it doesn't come from a place of insecurity or expectation.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:12 AM
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It depends on your criteria and boundaries. I wouldn't throw that plate away, but treat her as a disposable asset conceptually, but your game and the way you treat her should be the same as your other plates. Sexual frame, provide value and no neediness/weak behaviour.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:11 AM
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The scars that are mainly colour will fade over times. Any deviations in the surface of the skin, such as box car lesions or dints, probably wont. It takes a long to heal all scarring and but even skin deviations will become less pronounced as time goes on. A lot of it depends on your skin care (do you use moisturiser on it?), genetics, diet, sleep and stress levels.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:09 AM
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a text?
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:06 AM
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Talk to him, move out, change your sleep schedule, buy earplugs, play music to drown it out. All viable, logical problem solving options.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:28 AM
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Tinder is my slaying ground. I've been on there for years and have been evolving my profile and photos for over 6 years. I was doing this before redpill and whilst PUA was telling everyone to approach. It is literally so easy to fuck hot women if you a) live in a big city with lots of girls (2 million +) and b) if your photos are hot and you can text minimally. That's it. Nobody wants to put in the time though and real life interactions are easier to influence with things other then just photos …
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:32 AM
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Move.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:28 AM
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Discipline. No easy answer, it's control of your thoughts and doesn't happen overnight. Stay busy and it'll come.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:28 AM
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Schedule within 3 day timeframe. Flake rate is reduced, dramatically.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 04:27 AM
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Don't be a jealous piece of shit. She's going to leave you, I can see it all now and I've only read 2 paragraphs about your relationship.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:39 PM
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1) you don't ask, you lead. 2) talk to everybody, not just the hot girls or your boys. 3) in case you skimmed over 1, you never ask, you tell.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:38 PM
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Loser mentality. Don't spread your weak ass pussy boy vibes here. You're a virus. Either sort out your mentality but don't bring it here and infect innocent people with your negativity. I'm all for helping people when they ask for advice on an objective issue, but when it's this emotion "why me?" garbage, we should not be sending messages that this sort of stuff is welcome here in RP.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:36 PM
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They're attracted to status.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:34 PM
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It's more of a conscious effort thing. If you go out of your way for a great sex life with your LTR than it will work. If you're asking and not receiving or sex life is shit then this tip is the furtherest from your probems.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:33 PM
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Do whatever you can to not do it.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:32 PM
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Do it. Nothing more needs to be said.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:30 PM
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You respond with thank you and then you go off and find one of the other 3.7 billion girls who might actually like you.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 01:30 PM
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Get rid of your scarcity mentality. You're talking to 5 girls aparently... who cares if you fuck up? Failure results in success. Trying to salvage failures is loser mentality.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 05:22 AM
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This is cognitive dissonance. You need to decide on a dominant thought process and it'll go away.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 05:17 AM
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The only persons opinion that matters is your own. Your brothers are just quiet considerations.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:45 AM
1

Vitamin B complex. Fitness.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:44 AM
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Only if it's a course which gives you accreditation. You can find any information online for everything, so university/college is only worth it for the accreditation. i.e. doctor etc.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:42 AM
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Don't wish it was easier, wish you were better. - Jim Rohn.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:41 AM
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Be a decent human being. Only apologise if you're truly sorry and you've done something wrong.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:41 AM
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Nope.
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:40 AM
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Don't worry about what other people think. Why are you so invested in another persons opinion?
/r/askTRP09/05/20 04:40 AM
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4 months isn't long enough if you don't have experience to carry you a lot of the way. If you're great at marketing, accounting, have access to cleaning supplies, building websites, tax and law, transport then go for it. I'd say you'd need to have a good chunk of those listed to make some decent cash. ​ No matter what, it'll be a learning experience and it'll be more valuable than the money itself, if you went for it. Experience is way more valuable and almost a form of compound interest which w…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:19 PM
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Girls don't want you to be perfect, they just want you to be the man. Don't sweat it about slipping a little either side of the ratio, as long as you're continually bringing it back to where it should be, it's no big deal. Good luck with your exams bro.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:14 PM
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See a healthcare professional who specialises in elbow pain. Physiologist, doctor, sports therapist etc.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:11 PM
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Is there a question here? This is just the sweat and tears of a child who doesn't know how hard life is about to get in a few years time...
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:10 PM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:09 PM
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Do things that are intrinsically motivating and interesting to you. You need purpose. More than that, you need a bigger struggle. If you have a difficult task that you're grinding away at each day, it takes all the suction out of that hollow emotional dark feeling you're describing. It gives you self-respect and self-confidence. Especially mastering something really difficult. Otherwise, if this is a depression issue, make sure you see a healthcare professional. They're a lot easier to get on to…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:09 PM
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Just do it. The world needs more truth and honesty and less "making people feel good" moments.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:02 PM
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Any woman who quote: "can't wait to do x", won't wait and will find a way to fuck you no matter what. Remember to judge a woman on her actions and not words. Those are just that, words. It seems like you've got your shit together based on your cognitively evaluative academic writing style and the things you've mentioned. Also, just because I like to get my dick wet during quarantine because there is an overload of pussy not getting dicked down, doesn't mean that you have to do. Just be aware tha…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:01 PM
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If men could do it, we would.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:56 AM
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It makes you someone who is looking for a LTR.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:56 AM
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Do you want to spin her? Or do you want to find a better one? ​ She sounds fucking crazy imo.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:54 AM
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When she mentions coffee, you have to ask her for coffee. That is female language for, "ask me out on a date already".
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:53 AM
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You're attracted to what you are.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:52 AM
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I continue to have sex. If you don't watch the news or read the newspaper it's pretty easy to escape the fear mentality that is making these big corporations so much money. Live life on your own terms, not the terms of other people. You're letting big brother tell you you can't have sex? Fuck that. I live for myself.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:50 AM
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Poor troll or autistic man. Let me spell it out for you in case you're the former and I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. Women will go for the best option they have at the time. You were not her best option. Don't hate the girl, she's just doing her job as a female. Your job is to be as attractive as possible, which clearly wasn't enough in this situation. Great men don't wish it was easier, they wish they were better. Furthermore, if women didn't pick the best option they have, the world w…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:09 AM
2

You are a walking meme dude.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:02 AM
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Any LTR still in contact with their ex is not LTR material. You know what to do.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:01 AM
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Insult = emotional investment. You investing in something that isn't real is pretty sad dude.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:01 AM
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Boundaries are healthy. Block everyone who stands in your way.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:00 AM
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It's just like once you fuck a 6, you know you can fuck 6's and the pressure is no longer there because you've done it before. Same thing for 7s,8s,9s and 10s. It's just a higher level of difficulty and personal investment required to hit that level. There's no real answer except once you've done it, you're good homie.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 05:00 AM
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Pickup your shit and get the hell out of here.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:06 AM
1

Retired.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:05 AM
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Set the frame. Get out of scarcity mentality. Do what you want or find someone that is in line with what you want. Theres 3.7 billion women, if a plate breaks dont worry so much about it.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:02 AM
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You have status and people want to be part of that.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:01 AM
3

Whatever amount is right for you.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:00 AM
1

It's what you do after the loss that counts, my man.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:00 AM
1

They don't differ. Except for the fact that you have years to come into contact with women naturally through social contacts or class work, make sure you're ready and don't squander those opportunities. If you're a real alpha big dick monster you'll just approach and they'll love you for that confidence. But nobody is like that in high school and everyone is generally insecure about women, especially men.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 03:59 AM
1

Not really, prefer to find out naturally. She's fishing and if you submit you're falling into her frame. If she's looking for a provider, she'll respond positively, but if you're not then the game just isn't right for the player. If she's looking for a strong male, she'll admire your subtle shifting of the conversation.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 03:57 AM
1

Be direct. Like an Aaron Rodgers hail mary down the field. Then move on to the next game if it misses and never think about it again. If it hits the target, enjoy the adrenaline rush and dont spoil the celebration.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 03:56 AM
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You're using logic to try and understand an emotional creature. Stop that.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:41 PM
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She's fishing for attention. Her other orbiters aren't doing the job or decided she wasn't worth it or found someone better. Dude you're just the orbiter. Move on to someone who actually likes and respects you.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:23 PM
2

All hail the virgin knight
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:16 PM
3

You can't. You can't change other people, only yourself. Set the example and if she looks up t you, she'll follow your actions. It sounds like you only care because it's impacting your personal brand though, and that's kinda selfish and doesn't appear to come from a good place.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:14 PM
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Move her out, give her a weapon, break the lease, just anything to get her away from x person. These scares pop up every now and then with plates but I've never seen it actually escalate and generally it's because the girl hasn't been careful enough with her info or never had to deal with a creeper before. Nonethless it usually never escalates. You just gotta move her out if it worries her and think of any vulnerabilities. Like does she walk home from work? Where is she vulnerable? Come up with …
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:12 PM
2

Don't focus on the results, that's where 99% of people fail. Become invested in the journey. The destination is never as good as it seems.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:59 PM
3

You get numbers, the girls feels great. Then the next day they're in a completely different place, emotionally, physically, mentally. These things happen, move on and don't take things so personally. I mean a girl didn't text you back. This is so juvenile and emotionally insecure. Fix that.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:45 PM
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Why are you emotionally invested in this? Why are you butthurt? This is scarcity mentality. 1) who the fuck cares man, go out and fuck some real women instead of taking scraps from women like a homeless dog. 2) You should never talk to her again until you figure out your weak ass mind. 3) Don't play games with her. Are you a fucking psycho? Dude you really need to work on yourself. You'll never find good quality women doing any of the stuff you just described. I mean getting blue balls from a wi…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:43 PM
1

If you arm is being twisted you have two choices. Go with it and submit to higher power. Or you can un-twist is and make sure it never gets twisted again.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:36 PM
1

They're being babies because you're rewarding them for that. You're giving them what they want. To put it in your words, " I just comfort her and say "You are beautiful" or whatever the fuck I have to do. It's like I'm playing some bullshit pathetic game, looking after a child." You are playing a game and yes, it's immature. You're supposed to be the fucking leader, the one who guides the interaction. Not the fucking participant who just gives women exactly what they think they want. Imagine the…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:34 PM
1

TRPCops TRP's finest
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:30 PM
2

Women will show you what they want with their actions. Pay attention to what she's doing.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:29 PM
1

What is the point in being in a LDR I dont get it
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:28 PM
1

Noooooope. Not even if it was a 10, on a stand, on a one night stand.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:27 PM
1

What is your reason for quitting masturbation? It seems like it's causing you pain lol. I don't know why you'd do something that makes you unhappy with a low cost to benefit ratio.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:27 PM
1

Why are you concerned about her, you should be concerned about yourself?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:25 PM
2

Take what you can get and keep improving your position in life.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:25 PM
1

You never chase? Dude your post suggests otherwise.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:24 PM
1

Don't cause conflict with women. They tell their friends who tell their friends and all of a sudden you're an asshole when the whole thing was supposed to be about amusement. It's not worth it.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:18 PM
3

You'd have to be an insecure asshole to use this. I mean the personal issues that one would have to have to even consider this are immense. Unless your dating underage girls (which you shouldn't) there is no way RP'ers should be doing this. If you're willing to violate the law, your girls privacy and your own personal ethics to do this, then you're one seriously fucked up individual. How can you ever expect high quality plates when your trust issues surpass any notion of a healthy plate with a h…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:16 PM
1

Listen and be listened to.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:09 PM
1

Do something meaningful in your life that gives you purpose. Mastering things are to men what attention is to girls. It builds self-confidence. Check your diet too. Zinc is important for cognition, might be worth looking into as it boosts working memory which will allow you to problem solve your issues better.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:05 PM
1

Thyroid issues?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:03 PM
1

Don't invest in the outcome. Invest in yourself. Also, remember this rule: don't waste time. Everything you do should serve a purpose that has a good cost to benefit analysis behind it. This way you don't get fucked by your emotions. Painful emotions are there for a reason, what you did is not right. Listen to them and learn.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:53 PM
2

Time to profit ratio isn't worth it. If you're doing this for fame, likes, women, money, all can be achieved as a man much faster by avoiding instagram and social media completely. The cost benefit just isn't worth it bro.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:51 PM
2

Stop getting drunk and fucking. If you have dopamine peaks consistently then homeostasis occurs whereby you'll only derive a certain level of enjoyment during those drunk/fuck moments. Quitting alcohol is one of the best things you can do for your body and mind. Your future self will thank you later.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:49 PM
2

Streaks.... are you a man?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:46 PM
1

Just go over there and fuck her.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:46 PM
1

Cut my hair increasingly shorter and went to better barber shops. Initially it helped with confidence. Now it's the norm. Taking care of your hair regularly and having style always boosts SMV and it shows investment in ones self. I'm used to the value of that now so it's become normal.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:45 PM
2

Porn is porn. Like girls are girls and ice cream is ice cream. You can find reasons to love them or hate them. It's up to you to decide it's worth.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:43 PM
5

Would you date you?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:42 PM
1

Don't worry, just text and let your SMV do the talking, if it doesn't work out there'll always be something better.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:41 PM
7

Girls come and go like the seasons of change. Whether you close your windows and doors depends on how you feel inside.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:40 PM
1

Become a police officer.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 01:39 PM
1

Well, what do you want to externally produce?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:04 PM
2

I can give you an entry into the US National Library of Medicine here
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:10 AM
1

Ask.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:07 AM
1

"my mental health is not that good at the moment" .... Is there any chance for this one month probation period to flourish into a working relationship? .... no Work on yourself dude. You can't have a functional relationship that's intimate in the forms of an LTR without being mentally stable. You, I and everyone else expects women to be mentally and emotionally stable, set the fucking example first.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:07 AM
1

Study things intrinsically.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:04 AM
2

Write down your thoughts and examine them. Create mind maps. Structure your thoughts and weed out any cognitive dissonance.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:03 AM
1

Fail so hard and fuck up your life so bad that when you catching yourself fearing failure over talking to girls, texting girls or anything you'll always know that nothing could be as worse as your past, and that you can handle any situation no matter what happens. This is called becoming a man. Realising that you can weather any storm and that taking the risk is the easy part. It's what you do with the opportunities that is the hard part. You can't get opportunity without risk. Also, being alive…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 11:02 AM
1

Unique sensation, builds the orchestra of emotions and feelings
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:59 AM
1

You'll find the right jigsaw piece later in life if you keep engaging with people. I was very popular in high school and when I left school at 18 I struggled to have a social life or maintain relationships into adulthood due to moving city. I'm a different person than I was back then. I have a very unique personality which isn't compatible with most others due to my boundaries. I fell into bad situations and habit by having no boundaries and being social with everybody. That turned out bad. Now …
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:59 AM
1

Be assertive
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:56 AM
1

LTR's allow more scaffolding and consistency. Plates are more finicky and prone to unpredictability. Plate = fun LTR = productive
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:55 AM
1

Take some thiamine and find a better way to reduce stress.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:53 AM
2

Practice makes perfect. Maybe this will help? https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4864984/
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:52 AM
1

You'll learn either way.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:52 AM
2

Anybody who has disrespected me in the past is not welcome in my present or future.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:51 AM
2

Ask a psychiatrist. TRP is not a substitute for medical advice or diagnosis.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:48 AM
1

Slow it down.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:47 AM
1

LTR gives support and stability. Sex and nurturing women are scaffolding for a successful man. Plates are more emotionally engaging. More spikes of dopamine. More highs and lows. The chase breeds an inner wolf. I get more done with an LTR but have more fun with plates.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:47 AM
1

Live by yourself.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:45 AM
1

Ask and you shall receive. The art of asking is worth mastering for more than just women.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:44 AM
1

Nope. Stoic alpha-wolf loner is much better than social idiot pig
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:43 AM
0

Don't care about other people. Care about yourself and those who you deem worthy to care about.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:41 AM
1

Social life. Embraced working at night which helps me focus more. Gave up on societal norms like waking up in the morning and having breakfast in the morning. Sacrificed a lot of mental health in the beginning while I adapted to it.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:41 AM
1

The Behavioural Neuroscience of Motivation: An Overview of Concepts, Measures, and Translational Applications. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4864984/ Read up young grasshopper.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:39 AM
9

Socialise. Don't become osama bin laden hiding in your new cave
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:39 AM
1

Leave her alone
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:37 AM
3

Get laid more
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:37 AM
2

I like to compete. I like to be the best at something. I like to challenge myself.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:36 AM
1

Exposure therapy.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:36 AM
5

Let her go and find someone more compatible for you. There's 3.7 billion women. Move on. Each one is better than the last.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:35 AM
1

All men desire sex, it's in the hierarchy of human needs. Emotional connection and marriage or sex are not intermingled concepts. But they can be. It's completely subjective and there's no one size fits all when it comes to this.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 10:34 AM
1

You have to provide value to receive value.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:12 AM
1

is there a question?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:11 AM
6

This is a great post.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 07:07 AM
1

I think men are supposed to be more stable and they are for the most part. Women are more on the emotional side. They are capable of logic but it's not the default. As for calling girls out, it depends on what you're trying to get out of the relationship. Long term, yes, it's important to discuss standards of behaviour and expectancy. It also depends on what you mean by "okay"
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:48 AM
3

No. You need coding language + experience in coding something.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 08:23 AM
7

Never get into a LTR with girls who go to clubs frequently. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 08:22 AM
2

That's a fair analysis of the situation tbh.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:22 PM
0

Conflict implies 2 people. If it's not your fault than it's just assault, defamation, abuse, w.e.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 10:11 AM
1

I mean, if you're having issues with conflict and you've literally done nothing wrong whatsoever than it's not longer conflict is it? Conflict involves 2 or more people. Otherwise it's just abuse, assault or defamation?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 10:11 AM
5

Phase out artificial sugar. When you get sugar cravings, eat natural sugars like apples and bananas. Then reduce those.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 10:07 AM
1

Find something you enjoy and are good at. Find a way to make money out of it. Do it.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 10:06 AM
2

I have and this has always held true.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 09:25 AM
3

It doesn't look like you're covering it up in the photo. If you have this issue, usually having a really short hair cut (think number 2 on the sides and back and number 3-8 on the top) works well. To me, your hair looks messy and unkept. It doesn't look like a clean cut that ladies seem to be drawn too. Self investment in appearance, especially the face and hair is genuinely equitable if done correctly.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 09:03 AM
3

The only way to solve that is to try lots of things. You don't know you favourite flavour of ice-cream is chocolate until you try it. Finding what you're good at and what you're meant to devote your time to (purpose) is no different.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 09:01 AM
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You told us what happened. You didn't tell us how you feel about it. How do you feel about? And by extension, are you asking us to tell you how to feel about it? Lol.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:53 AM
2

Well what bothers you the most? Work on that first.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:48 AM
1

You're an idiot. Don't mix drugs that mess with blood pressure. You only drink when you're with women, yet claim to not have issues with alcohol. You're recommending this combo to your friends. You're a troll bro.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:43 AM
1

Why do you drink whenever you're having sex with women?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:18 AM
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Rule 1 of conflict: People don't come after you unless you've given them a good enough reason to. Rule 2 of conflict: Retaliation always makes things worse. Rule 3 of conflict: If something is severe enough, always go to a legal practioner, police and have the law take care of it. Rule 4 of conflict: Stay as far away from it as possible.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:15 AM
1

Your life up until college is based upon receiving external validation. Your exam marks are based on another persons opinion, the content is based on another persons opinion etc etc. Now you're in the next phase of life which is that you need to think for yourself and get internal validation. I'm at university, so can't answer the TL/DR question of your post just yet.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:13 AM
2

Maybe you should do something about your alcoholism. Treat the source, not the symptoms.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:11 AM
1

So then to answer your question: "im not sure if i can still get a hard on if I wont take it, any advice here?" Just don't take it when you have sex and find out... It's not rocket science bro.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 06:00 AM
1

That was never the point I was making.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 05:59 AM
0

Viagra doesn't make you last longer. It just relaxes your blood pressure around your horn so that blood can run easier. It'll make you harder but not make you not cum for 4 hours like you describe. I don't think you understand what viagra is and/or what it does. So yes, I would stop taking a medicine if you don't know what the fuck it does and how it interacts with your body.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 05:50 AM
6

You both did the exact same thing. You both missed commitments. You both freaked out at each other. Instead of getting frustrated at her, why not have indifference? You're the prize. If she doesn't show up, you still had a great time right? I'm assuming you did. Whether it's a party, and you had an epic night. Or a date night with your friends, where you met this waiter who was hilarious that she wants to grab drinks next weekend. I mean contextual wise I can't tell you without you volunteering …
/r/askTRP19/04/20 05:48 AM
5

Be respectful. Dress nicely. Treat it like a job interview but you're allowed to joke and laugh. You want them to like you.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:59 AM
1

For how long has this been happening?
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:57 AM
1

yup.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:56 AM
1

Eat below your maintenance calories. Eat what you enjoy.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:54 AM
1

Internal things.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:54 AM
1

That lifestyle attracts women, no doubt. Until you're dead, break your neck, start having mental problems, get lung cancer or age. That stuff doesn't look so cool or attract a high caliber of women when you're 50. RP is about living healthy through diet, career, relationships, exersize and having sex. It's more long term. Don't ever think you need to replicate bad habits to get ladies. It might be easier and more fun, but trust me, you pay a price for that shit later.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:50 AM
1

You make some excellent points bro.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:46 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:43 AM
1

Every individual is different. Blanket statements don't apply.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:39 AM
1

Mad bruh? Evolutionary biology doesn't begin in 1754 BC. / face palm
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:35 AM
7

She already has lost respect for you. Once this happens, it's hard to bring it back. You already lost. You lost because you said “next time I don’t wanna hear annoyance come out of you when I have issues making a commitment” Those words are beta plays bro. You either be assertive or passive. This comes accross as aggressive or passive aggressive. She's tightening the thumbscrews on you bro.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:33 AM
3

Get a tan, it'll help with any skin scarring.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 04:31 AM
2

Thank you also for sharing. I think when you spend more time with different women you will get there. I used to seek emotional connection and prioritise it in my relationships. Over time I learned that it was not something that was helping me, anybody or the relationship. Women want a stoic rock. Anything weak or vulnerable is 9/10 times not beneficial to anybody, unless it comes from a place of intention, abundance and congruence.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:35 AM
2

I want to help people, that's why I give advice on the sub. I don't want myself or OP or anybody else to waste their time. Especially with something that isn't within the scope of RP. Medical questions should not be encouraged here. Why do you think I'm salty?
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:31 AM
1

Why are you asking in this subreddit then? If you're saving yourself for marriage then RP is definitely not for you. Go out and ask a doctor and find a group in alignment with your belief systems. I don't know why you're here apart from trolling. That or mental health issues.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:12 AM
6

I always refer to this. As time goes on though, women rarely bring the subject up around me anymore. They notice my alpha traits and my abundance behaviours; it's never really talked about. Plates either assume they're exclusive (whether they have their head in the sand or they don't) or they're fine with sharing an alpha. Remember: women would rather share a high value male than be stuck with a beta provider. I think if you keep having these conversations with plates it's because you're the pas…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:57 AM
23

From the sidebar: Strategies for dealing with female demands for exclusivity (which she is absolutely not entitled to): Head it off before it starts. They often start subtle by implying you are a player (chuckle as if it's true even if it's not). Or subtle expectations of current exclusivity (chuckle as if it's not true even if it is). As much as possible attempt to neither confirm nor deny. Frame your relationship ambiguously from the start, by refusing to define it at all. Neither confirm not …
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:57 AM
1

Why wouldn't you figure out what you want to do with your life yourself? You know you better than any of us do.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:53 AM
5

The OP is asking if ignoring girls will attract women. If you ignore girls completely, they're not going to be attracted to you. If he ignores women, whether it's because he is a high value male, he isn't a high value male or he is faking to be a high value male won't matter. You're missing the point though. The idea of RP is to build an attractive life. Not to fake having an attractive life.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:50 AM
3

I second this. When people have been a loser somewhere and has fucked up enough, the best course of action is to move. You don't have to worry about anyone except yourself. Unless you plan on spending your time changing lots of people's opinions. I'm guessing you or anybody else doesn't have the time to do that.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:42 AM
2

Cardio will give you the stamina. Working out your abdominal and upper leg muscles, including glutes will also assist.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:40 AM
4

Are you asking why humans (specifically RPers) have morals? You sound like an idiot.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:37 AM
7

How often do you masturbate, watch porn and have sex? Also there is zero chance you're telling the truth. 20-30 head jobs and you're a virgin? That is ridiculous. Be honest in your posts bro so we can help you better. This is a brotherhood, we're here to help. If you lie, you're doing yourself a dis-service.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:36 AM
6

It sounds like you asked her out through technology.... otherwise why would you post this? Lol. Are you asking her to be your girlfriend? Or on a date? Either way dude it's just a human being, talk to her. Make your own mistake, it's how men are made from boys. Struggle. Reply with what you think within the framework of RP and it'll be fine either way.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:33 AM
4

It sounds like you might have ADHD. ADHD is characterised as someone who has difficulty with long term rewards, instead opting for short term "highs" or immediate reward systems. Things such as video games, alcohol, drugs, sex, porn are all instant artificial rewards, whcih flood the brain with dopamine. This can sometimes be challenging to remain disciplined to refrain from for a normal person but those with ADHD struggle severely with discpline especially for these sort of things. It's a milli…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 09:30 AM
1

Moisturiser every day. Getting a good tan will reduce their perceptibility. Take zinc and use vitamin E and hyalauronic acid moisturiser. Surgery is an option but I don't think it's necessary.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:14 AM
2

Tell your family and calm down. You're going to deal with a lot more difficult situations like this and if you automatically go into freak out mode you're going to struggle. This is the real world with real situations. Have some fucking self-awareness. You're in a country renowned for its health care systems, it's one of the best in the entire world. And you are fucking complaining about a lump in your throat. You're in the best place to have that problem. Have some self awareness man. Be honest…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:13 AM
1

Time
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:07 AM
1

You have blind spots. Practice self awareness. An analogy for you: If you're great at swimming, and you practice every day, you don't have trouble winning competitions, finding swim teams/societies to join, gaining entrance to swimming events etc.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:07 AM
1

It could be anything. RP is for practicing belief systems and implementing them. We are not doctors or health care professionals. We are guys trying to improve ourselves. I'm not sure why you thought posting here was the solution to your problem. This is a severe misjudgement on your behalf.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:04 AM
2

That is not a common RP belief. That is a PUA belief. PUA's act. RP'ers are.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:02 AM
1

Write down your thoughts. Examine them. Get to know yourself. Some people's DNA is more prominent with anger. Men typically use anger to mask sadness. It could be anything, you really need to figure it out for yourself. If you can't then see a therapist if it's interfering with your life.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:00 AM
1

Direct has worked better for me when approaching women specifically. In-direct is only useful in environments where my intention is not specifically on the woman.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:59 AM
6

Call it quits. You're a beta orbiter. Before you lose all of your dignity and respect.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:57 AM
2

Don't get into a LTR for a long time. If you're choosing this women now, you have at least 5 years of spinning plates before you can really understand and evaluate women effectively.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:56 AM
3

1) Learn to be uncomfortable. Do difficult tasks. It will spill over into other areas of your life, such as honesty. You're already halfway there by realising this isn't who you want to be anymore. Instead of dealing with that discomfort, deal with a seperate type. You're currently struggling with cognitive dissonance, look it up. 2) Be honest and congruent with her.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:55 AM
3

If you're high enough SMV and have created a level of attraction then yes. It's not about games or lines. It's about having value, creating attraction - that's the whole hook. Whether she takes the hook or not will depend on how well you did the first two things. What you're implying is that if you completely ignore a woman will she want you more. The answer is no. She will either maintain the same level of attraction or it will degrade without some degree of investment. If it grows, she is bat …
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:52 AM
3

Because they're high value and have busy lives or better options. People want what they can't have. If somebody is high enough SMV then he/she will always be sought after.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:49 AM
2

What I described is a form of cognitive behavioural therapy or CBT. You can figure out anything deep in your consciousness with a bit of writing. It's very powerful. There's a reason why correct use of CBT can be beneficial for things such as PTSD, depression, anxiety etc. often more so than conventional medicine. But because CBT can't really be monetised, it's mostly a secret. Capitalism has promoted the fuck out of all the other solutions for figuring yourself out. Capitalism ruins everything …
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:47 AM
2

It's taming the beast and making use of the situation as best you can. The other thing that comes to mind regarding this is that I've read in a lot of books that one of the contributing factors to people becoming their richest, later in their lives, is that their sex drive calms down a lot and they can think with a lot more clarity and focus on their goals.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:43 AM
1

It's self awareness. I'm not cognisant of it anymore, mostly.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:40 AM
2

It's too personal for me to give out that kind of information here.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:37 AM
1

I don't think so. Abortion is a different set of rules. Most women are deeply affected by abortion since it operates under a different hierarchy. Most women won't talk about it at all. Men > women > children
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:36 AM
2

You use your the energy that sexual frustration is providing for physical energy in the gym. It's one of the best preworkouts there is. Frustration and anger.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:31 AM
0

A LTR is worth it, but 99% of the time guys don't go down the path of the LTR that is actually worth it. Cheating is only bad if you see it as such. Western culture has cultivated a culture of entitlement. "This car is mine, this house is mine, this IG account is mine" and we value these things as individuals looking at others. This is social conditioning. Cheating has and always will exist, just like a mans desire for sex and womens desire for status and attention. Don't see it as bad, see it a…
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:30 AM
2

The younger generation of men are competing with the growing rise of feminism and so there is a considerable amount of push back happening. However, there is a larger portion of the population (think: 23+ years old and above) who are heavily blue pilled. Things are evolving as they always have and will continue to. The internet has given power to man, more so than women. We can now share information about what's happening with society, which helps with our future actions.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:15 AM
2

Write down your thoughts. It helps. You can analyse them and re-arrange them in front of your eyes. Start drawing flow charts of your emotions or thoughts and draw lines to their potential outcomes.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:12 AM
2

Find out for yourself. When you're back home, hit them up and set up a date. We can't deduce their motives until we're with them in person. Then we can steer the ship. Anything up until that point is just baking cakes.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:11 AM
3

Lift hard.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:09 AM
2

Move on to something else in your life. Anytime you have these feelings engage in an alternative task. It helps and it's better for you in more ways than one. Don't message her and stay busy. Don't build shitty and un-useful habits man.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 06:09 AM
1

That's how parts of the human brain operates. At least when functioning for a powerful male. If you need to sit down to do this as a seperate activity each day, not as you're living your life, then that's okay too. Maybe you need to train yourself. The act of discipline encompasses checking in very very regularly with yourself mentally. Without it, discipline is improbable on a logical basis.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:34 PM
3

You're either in the business of making people feel good, or you're in the business of truth. Pick your poison. I know which one I prefer to operate under.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:21 PM
7

Talk to your sister man. Be assertive, be honest and be open. She will respect you for it. Effective communication with family is something I see most people struggle with.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 07:09 PM
7

From sidebar: "Always set boundaries, with everyone. Do not be a pushover. This is probably the most important bulletpoint here." If they're holding you back then you're not being assertive enough with implementing your boundaries.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 06:40 PM
14

"Me: Got your answer." You basically cock blocked yourself by turning a light and playful conversation into a real one where you're invested enough to take a playful answer as a serious one. Never do that. Always re-frame. It should be: "You don't need money where we're going" Her: "Oh yeah? Where's that?" The wheel keeps turning.... EDIT: To add a few points. Ensure that your texts are open ended. Mysterious works well at the moment because not many guys are doing it. When she asks if you have …
/r/askTRP17/04/20 06:26 PM
2

A course of action. Price = free ;)
/r/askTRP17/04/20 06:21 PM
2

Continue on with your life.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 06:20 PM
2

"you obviously can't do them all every single day". Yes you can. I'm checking in with myself mentally anywhere between 10-200 times a day. I'm checking my energy levels, my lingering to do list tasks, my emotions, my stress, my goals, my progress, how I feel about watching tv for an hour, weighing up whether to work out now or to ask a plate to work out. If you're committed to a goal/s. You'll do this mentally anyway. If you don't truly believe in who you are, your purpose and what you are here …
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:57 PM
1

Is age a red flag? It depends on your values. Do you value youthful appearance? Do you value wisdom and maturity? Do you value life experience?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:53 PM
2

Yeah it is. Time machines don't exist though, right? On to bigger and more pressing and important things right?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:49 PM
1

No problems. Take lots of photos and upload the best ones to a "Ratemyphoto" type of website. I used a free one a few years ago to get my feet off the ground with a great photo for online dating. Allowed me to meet many women, when prior my access was extremely low. Great photos (for guys) take many months or years to cultivate. Just get into the habit of taking more photos when you have an opportunity. While you have time during quarantine, make a real effort to take some photos: Take some of y…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:48 PM
3

Not sure why downvoted. The stigma against medication within communities of men is alarming. I'm a firm believer that when all organic approaches have failed: diet, exercise, cognitive behavioural therapy, talk therapy, meditation, working, socialising, working out, supplements and braving the storm for 25 years... to try a medication to help solve a problem where all else has failed, should be encouraged. Sure; pharmaceuticals are over-medicated and medication is just a tool, but there is a leg…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:38 PM
1

Not fantastic. Not terrible. I've got exams currently, so negotiating those without my usual gym session for stress reduction has flowed into my diet. As long as I get a large amount of protein each day, that's enough during these times, I'm not too concerned with giving my diet a rest. Anything to reduce stress to perform in online exams.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:27 PM
8

Self discipline. In isolation you have to face your true self. You see who and what you truly are. This time is exposing the fuck out of people and industries. Anybody without strong internal framework is going to have a hard time. Great news! Now you know what some of your weaknesses are.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:24 PM
0

Spin some plates, take some photos, do fun stuff. A guy had a post about it but for tinder: He had one photo as a drone shot. He had a tripod and took photos at the beach. He took family photos when he came home to see family. etc. What are the pictures for? You never mentioned that. I'm struggling to understand why better pictures are important right now in your life? Didn't you just move.. why is this your priority?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:22 PM
1

It's literally just salt.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:19 PM
2

Ahhh understood. While we're here, What do you mean by characteristics trauma?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:18 PM
1

Stupid. Why would you do that? You're going to waste so much muscle mass due to insufficient protein intake. Don't do something because it "apparently benefits..." Is your time not valuable enough that you don't have things that definitely benefit you?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:17 PM
1

Tinder. Hit up those old numbers that have been in your phone for ages but you haven't followed up on. If you ran game correctly before coronavirus, you should have plenty of options with plates
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:16 PM
2

He wants pussy. Not to spread coronavirus. That's a gross misinterpretation of what he's asking bro.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:15 PM
1

The truth is always best but make sure she really wants to hear it first. Otherwise just be mysterious and light. "Yeah, you're gonna be one of the 10 girlfriends I've seen this week". If pressed, and she really wants the truth it's best to give that to her. If we expect women to have certain standards, we need to hold ourselves to those standards too.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:14 PM
2

Western female entitlement, this is what the concepts and branches of feminism is breeding in our youth. I've been observing behaviours like this evolve for quite some time and it's getting worse as time goes on.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:10 PM
6

You looked butthurt. You look like an idiot. Why do you have time to leave comments on tik tok videos? That's sad man. Some points for self awareness at least.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:08 PM
1

I don't text girls like that. I haven't for over a decade now, apart from maybe one girl. Humans want what they can't have. If you're constantly talking, then you're too accessible. There's multiple other reasons too. Anyone with high SMV doesn't have time for that. You're also an orbiter if you text like that. She's only reaching out because she's in dire need of attention. Most women love attention. That's why beta orbiters exist, basically. It why this situation even occured. / thesis over
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:07 PM
1

beta testing?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:03 PM
1

Forums evolved into social media. Reddit is the closest thing to a forum anymore. The only forums existing are ones that have been around for over a decade. It's a dead medium otherwise. I'm with you though, as someone who was a regular in forums during 2000-2012, I do miss them. Loved the concept and design. The functionality was great. Capitalism ruins everything in time. Reddit is the best we've got man.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:00 PM
3

Don't be so dramatic. "I'm being forced into making an impossible decision" No you're not. There's so many solutions and you're being dramatic. There's obviously a compromise somewhere. Some ideas off the top of my head: Self isolate in your bedroom when you get home from school. Eat there. Only leave for the bathroom or to wash. Wash your hands and do the easy stuff. Move your granny someplace else. Defer for a year. Accept that this is real fucking world and real fucking decisions like this ha…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:57 PM
1

Be congruent. If you're telling her how you feel, don't do it from a needy, weak or beta standpoint. Don't do it expecting something from her, like how she'll tell you everything is okay or w.e. Do it without expectation from a place of security, confidence and sturdiness. Remember it's never about the words, it's about what the emotions are saying underneath.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:50 PM
3

What you described about negative self talk, random anxieties and lack of self acceptance resonated with me. It described how I used to feel. Very lucky to have crossed paths with an experienced psychiatrist who gave me the correct medication and freedom to find the right amount that worked for me. Everything since has been nothing short of amazing. Everything in my life has improved on all levels. I'm very lucky.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:46 PM
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bad troll
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:37 PM
1

You fix it by moving on to another task as soon as you start thinking about a woman like that.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:36 PM
2

I plate, but only 2 at the moment. One is staying with me for a while. We both are isolated together. I'm studying and working while she's in my bedroom. When I finally retire for the day/night, she's so nurturing and a great stress relief. It's my solution for now. Downside is: no more plates coming over for the time being.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:35 PM
4

The best time to take action is when you feel the strongest about it. So make sure you take some steps towards that. I plan on chatting up some girls at university I've had my eye on. oh and gym: lots of gym.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:33 PM
1

It's a concept, a theory. Understanding the concept of it, will help you steer things to where you want them to go. When there's something I really want from another person, particularly women, is the only time I actively think about push/pull. Show some desire, withdraw 50% of it. An example: Touching a girls neck and body. Then stopping and saying to her... we probably shouldn't be doing this. The push is the touching, the pull is the words. After delivering the line correctly, the girl will l…
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:32 PM
1

The correct medication fixed everything.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:29 PM
1

you have a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:28 PM
1

I can't control the actions of other people. I can only control the actions of myself.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:27 PM
1

Don't mind it. She may have been raped. She may have been intelligent enough to realise she's not ready for that. Her parents, family, friends may have pointed her in the right directions, confirming that she has a stable support system. Without context it's hard to make a call but abortion happens for many reasons, don't jump the gun just yet.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:26 PM
1

Oneitis. Also dude... don't ever ask or expect a woman to walk by herself alone, on foot. It's not safe for her, especially for an attractive women. Very few women I know would ever walk somewhere by themselves. You fucked up with your expectations. Also snapchat is for children, why are you doing back and forth via SM? Surely you have a busy life and can't orbit women all day...
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:24 PM
1

I would choose to behave in the way that I needed to at the time. My time is valuable so I'd probably just be assertive. If you're ever stuck in one of these situation and can't choose, the route is always: be assertive.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:20 PM
1

Women's emotions vary. It's illogical to ask why. Take your pick out of a million reasons. Unless someone here can physically ask the girl in person, nobody can tell you. Even if they did, I wouldn't even trust the response. Move on.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:18 PM
5

Post this to an education or investment subreddit. Why would you think asking for advice on the best course for finance on RP is the best idea? You know yourself better than any of us do. Make your own decisions in life for your future and your time, don't value the opinions of others.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 04:16 PM
3

Nope, she will see you as more of a fuck boy if it's messy though. Shouldn't matter if your game is tight and is even a plus if you're an alpha and you've got your shit sorted...
/r/askTRP12/04/20 10:12 AM
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It is awkward to say that because everyone assumes everyone has it. What you say doesn't make you look like a loser, unless you already are a loser.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 02:05 AM
2

no worries. best of luck.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:02 PM
2

self control. start with books, goals, habits, diet and then see a mental health professional who will probably recommend CBT, then therapy and then possible medication. if you have an issue with your personality, or anything brain related, try fix it as much as you can yourself and if that fails, the pros always have better ways. that said, it's gotta bother you enough to even reach that point. ​ read about ADHD and sexual impulsiveness, sounds similar to what you're describing.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 01:01 PM
1

best of luck
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:58 PM
1

don't know don't care. 2 options. be honest and talk to her about it like an adult. other option: ignore and continue to work on your own life. if you have a great life, you're not so worried about other peoples lives.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:58 PM
1

exactly. all outcomes are improved and it's the only way to do it.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:56 PM
1

everybody treats me differently. i get more respect. women are more open to advancement. men don't try to sabotage you in your career/relationships/education. people open doors for you. people say sorry for walking in front of you. ​ its day and night bro
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:55 PM
4

see a psychiatrist. ​ TRP is not a substitute for a doctor/diagnosis/professional. either is google. TRP has literal teenagers, autistic and mentally challenged people on here. don't get advice from the void. see someone who has spent a portion of their life studying and treating this stuff. just print off this post and show it to them. they'll give you the answers you're seeking.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:53 PM
1

study
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:51 PM
1

it will take years. it will be worth it. it will get better with time and effort. no shortcuts or advice from me. just do what you can each day.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:51 PM
1

it shows off a more enhanced jawline which is a biomarker of female attraction ​ it'll help you a fair bit but only if you're doing everything else right. ever seen a crack head with low BF and a sharp jawline? yeah, not pretty.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:50 PM
0

ask your ex to send you a sex video of her getting fucked ​ ​ might help...
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:49 PM
0

how old are you? lol ​ "i can get sick and die from corona"
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:48 PM
1

1000000000000% beta and nerdy
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:47 PM
2

dude, you should have just said don't call her. you need to take lead of the situation, tell her what you want. guide her. lead her. ​ sounds like some teenage immature shit man.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:46 PM
2

you've got to be less defensive and insecure. who cares? ​ if it's brought up, act with indifference as you should have done from the get go. ​ yes, insecurity lowers your SMV
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:44 PM
1

handle it by getting better photos so you don't need to place so much importance on this one poor girl and your conversation.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:43 PM
2

1) no, there's 3.7 billion women. there's always going to be one better. 2) having the talk isn't bad at all. being clear and concise is a respectful consideration, if you value integrity and honesty. remember that behaviours in yourself will manifest in the women you attract. if you're always lying, you'll attract those kind of girls/people. 3) they become more isolated because they receive intense desire from others. this is isolating for women because it's hard to find out who's worth your ti…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:41 PM
1

work on yourself
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:35 PM
1

sounds like a teenager with an attitude problem. next.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:35 PM
1

"humans"
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:34 PM
2

women respect a mans investment in himself. a man who chooses a good haircut, is well groomed, has well fitted clothes is fucking hot for girls for example. in some case beating the handsome athlete who doesn't shower and dresses like shit.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:34 PM
3

keep trying things. 21 years old is baby age. I've lived and learnt so much between 21-27 years old, and i barely did anything with myself. ​ be patient and follow your nose. it's normal to have these feelings at your age.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:33 PM
2

in evolutionary psychology, simply put, social ties are what protected and lent safety to women. a support network.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:32 PM
6

shes in another country.... what are you going to do? mail her your penis covered in oneitis beta boy wrapping paper?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:30 PM
1

impulsivity, fix that
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:28 PM
1

be honest with them. builds up your courage and they will respect you more for it. they won't talk shit about you either, since you're letting them down. ​ if you ghost or do some shady shit; you're now the asshole to her and all her friends. that can bite you in the ass one day.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:28 PM
2

you're using logic to understand an emotional creature. stop that.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:27 PM
3

they just come along during my daily life activities. i don't go out of my way to pursue them unless i've crossed their path organicly.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:26 PM
2

doesn't necessarily mean you have high testosterone. ​ personality traits such as impulsiveness, issues with attention and hyperactivity all are associated with higher libido. furthermore, drugs such as alcohol can exacerbate libido. to deal with it? have sex. masturbate. keep busy or treat the underlying issue. this is very rarely a testosterone thing.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:25 PM
9

diets are ridiculous. the only way to lose body fat, is to be in a caloric deficit. ​ Simply, eat what you enjoy, below your maintenance calories.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:22 PM
1

if you refer to china or hong-kong as a "chinese speaking country" i wouldn't advise you to move countries. in fact, to believe that taxes are a reason to move countries is juvenile at best. hong kong is in the middle of significant legislation revolution. netherlands or china? really?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 12:21 PM
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It's self imposed dude. If you stop thinking that way then it won't manifest itself in your behaviours and subsequently your friends too...
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:28 PM
0

if you don't give a fuck about everything then you would'nt chase girls or anything in life. it's a stupid analogy. ​ the 1st rule does not mean to have a IDGAF attitude, that's an incorrect evaluation. I don't know how you've taken a simple logical concept and managed to misinterpret that.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:27 PM
4

listen to our uncle
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:26 PM
2

reconnect? you sound like a pussy dude. ​ send her a message... it takes 10 seconds and then erase her from your mind because you have more important things to do right? if she replies great, if not, you've only wasted 10 seconds. ​ jesus christ dude you're already so invested and you haven't even talked to her yet it stinks of insecurity bro
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:25 PM
3

its never the words or the logic, it's the delivery tone and emotions behind it. ​ you can tell a girl how you fuck donkeys but if you deliver it in the right way they will find it funny or philosophical or disgusting. same words, just depends on the delivery...
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:24 PM
1

Yeah, should use it as fuel though
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:55 PM
1

she's telling you this beta, talking on the phone and texting shit isn't what she wants. she wants your cock and to be fucked. set it up. she's basically doing what you should be doing to her.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:54 PM
3

you don't need an answer, just laugh smuggly and continue on... ​ not everything is a game dude, you don't have to win shit-tests. the answer is simple, ignore them or amplify them. so just say " oh yeaaah, i'm the weakest little human there ever was, how does it feel to be in the presence of the weakest man in the universe. scratch that, weakest organism in the universe?" i mean take it wherever you want to but the idea is outcome indifference. remember: amplify or ignore. they're your only two…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:52 PM
-1

Fuck those guys
/r/askTRP04/04/20 02:48 PM
2

Either. It doesn't matter. It's impossible to know. Move on and game other chicks and stop thinking about her. Each interaction on a dating app should consume 10 seconds of your time max. Because knowing what to say on there comes from volume, not quality.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:20 AM
3

Big connections aren't formed without small connections. Links in a chain bro. The thing to take away from my post mainly is: there are many ways to receive the things in life that others don't have. Find what you're good at and do that. You only need one thing. Some people are really good at throwing a ball. They get paid millions to throw a fucking ball. They get access to almost any girl, mansion, company, investment that they want. All because they got really good at throwing a ball.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:19 AM
2

Why would you ever ask a plate that? Let alone many LTR's. Asking that quesiton screeeeaaaaammmmssssss insecurity bro. Not good.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:16 AM
7

Anyone who hates on tinder is just ugly. It's perfectly simple. Anyone with good photos will fuck for days. Anyone who isn't getting laid easily on tinder has ugly photos. Anyone downvoting or disagreeing is in denial of their level of physical attractiveness. I've been on the app for over 6 years and have been honing my craft for that entire time. I see the difference a new better photo has. Only thing to add is that the past 12 months tinder has been changing things slightly so matches will dw…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:14 AM
1

rona is the ultimate slut test. the girls willing to come out are hungry for that dick. Plate material. the girls not willing to come out are responsible. LTR material.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:11 AM
5

If you can't finish during sex, you need to fuck hotter women.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:09 AM
5

Don't read into it. It could mean a million things. 7/10 tinder chicks will be vague with details of when she can meet. Usually she wants to see if you're a potential orbiter or she's waiting to see if the other more alpha dudes will meet with her and your her 3rd or 4th fall back option. Numbers game dude.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:07 AM
2

The most important person is yourself.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:06 AM
5

Living in the past means you can't live in the present.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:06 AM
16

It's like explaining the dominance hierarchy. For example let's look at chimpanzee's, the closest relative of humans: The alpha chimpanzee climbs the social hierarchy to the top rank in many ways. One way is physical dominance, by bullying others and exploiting others weaknesses. Other ways include intelligence, good social skills, access to females. Sometimes a blend of 2 or more. Sometimes a chimpanzee will be crowned an alpha simply because he is great with the female chimpanzees and has acce…
/r/askTRP04/04/20 04:05 AM
5

do you know what a pre-requisite is?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:28 AM
4

The passport feature is free now, people are just playing with it... probably girls sub 20y/o with no dick to keep them busy and no life aspirations
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:28 AM
3

learn at your own pace?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:27 AM
3

Bye? Thanks for calling us all losers on your way out, that was a nice touch.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 05:00 AM
36

Congratulations. You are now an orbiter. Enjoy giving her attention while you receive nothing. ​ side bar /facepalm
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:58 AM
6

Make your decision based on abundance, not lack of it. Date multiple girls and see if she's still so special.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:57 AM
12

Higher value on a plate that knows their a plate. They know their place and don't try to push things further.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:56 AM
2

Anything is possible mate
/r/askTRP02/04/20 05:11 PM
2

yeah sometimes there's just friction like this. i know a girl whos flying back to switzerland in 3 months who I've been spinning. her visa expires and there's nothing logical we can do about that without stretching ourselves to do something we don't want to do. with things like this, just have an open dialogue and if one of you wants it bad enough maybe you'll cross paths again... generally speaking though, high status men and high status women move on pretty quickly with a plethora of sexual da…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 05:04 PM
1

you have a self limiting belief system then, keep doing this until one day you convince yourself you have treatment resistant depression and end up in an ICU breathing through a tube. or..... get your shit together
/r/askTRP02/04/20 05:01 PM
2

how can i get in contact with you when you're home? cool, I'll message you in 3 months and we'll set up a date. i'm a busy guy and don't have a lot of time to chat these days so i'd prefer to talk in person. if you can't wait, its ok, I have no expectations. 3 months later.... you fuck
/r/askTRP02/04/20 04:55 PM
3

dude you need to grow a pair. any woman worth waiting that long for or obsessing that long about is never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever worth it no matter what movies and the media portray.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 04:51 PM
1

girls see much more than the appearance. you're thinking about it like a guy. for guys it's all about physical beauty first, everything else is a bonus but attractiveness is the pre-requisite. for girls it's different. they like a man with purpose and drive. they're not going to be seeing these stretch marks until you're naked in the bedroom right? she's already made up her mind at that point. tldr: it doesn't matter at all
/r/askTRP02/04/20 03:59 PM
3

try everything, start doing work experience or studying these things you're into. at your age your basically still a baby.. don't try and figure it all out now. follow your nose and don't be afraid to switch it up if its not right for you. just don't be lazy and switch when things are hard, that's when you find out the most about yourself.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 03:57 PM
3

Biomed job prospects are awful in most countries. ​ Engineering always a good one.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 03:55 PM
2

You might be looking for spikes in certain neurotransmitters such a norepinephrine and dopamine which make you feel alive. These spikes are even necessary for those with ADHD to even focus. Because there are more chemicals in the synapse this can lead to fight or flight responses that make you feel alive. Maybe you're just an addict in search of the next hit. Pretty common in thrill seekers and risk takers. The idea is to control it and not let it control you and ruin your life and affiliations …
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:24 AM
11

You're using logic to understand an emotional creature. Stop that.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:18 AM
1

We've messaged back and forth which she initiated. We haven't spoke in about 3 days though. She asked what I did before uni, I replied, a bit of this and a bit of that. She didn't respond to it. Wanted to play a mysterious hard to figure out card but didn't work out. I'm a bit older so texting/messaging isn't natural for me.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:17 AM
5

Hospitals are looking for workers in most places.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 02:15 AM
1

Forget about it. If you catch yourself thinking about her, go lift, run, study, work or something more productive. It's the best way to weed it out of you.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 08:27 AM
2

Practice socialising. Then analyse yourself after the interaction/s and see how you could have improved.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 04:54 AM
0

Do what you want. Do you want her for a fuck? Hit her up.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 04:53 AM
3

Mindset is influenced by emotions and if your emotion are bringing you down you need to lift, eat healthier, run, improve your lifestyle, improve your results. If that doesn't fix it you need to see a doc about your mental health but cross that bridge when you've done everything you can elsewhere first.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 04:51 AM
2

Use the anger and self loathing as fuel to fire you up. When you hit the gym, you'll be able to recover your gains faster. Also after an injury, you rebuild muscle fairly quickly due to muscle memory, so don't sweat it too much.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 04:50 AM
2

Ignoring you is the opposite of attraction. Don't get yourself into that situation, move on to greener pastures.
/r/askTRP18/02/20 04:49 AM
1

Make your life busier so you don't have time to worry about stuff like this.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:20 AM
1

Depends on the girl.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:19 AM
2

Social Media is such a cunt. The nuances of it such as this are so complicated that they aren't worth describing here. Humans can innately sense social proof through a normal human interaction in person. That's why SM is mostly a waste of time. I give women only one chance to judge me, in person. Because I can control that outcome. With social media content you have no opportunity to influence someones opinion of it once it's posted up there. Why risk it??
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:17 AM
1

It's better with out SM. You don't need it. If you're insanely handsome like top 1% it can be a goldmine. Otherwise, stay clear. These types will always beat you in the dating market on SM.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:15 AM
1

Don't be selfish or insecure man.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:13 AM
1

Any girl who induces this kind of reaction in a guy is never worth it.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:13 AM
1

You have 2 conflicting ideas or belief systems. Only one can survive.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:12 AM
6

Why do you need to socialise? Just do what you enjoy. No point wasting time, only got one shot at life. Do what you enjoy.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:11 AM
2

End it.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:10 AM
2

Discipline is a skill. It must be managed and improved over time.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:10 AM
3

If she sleeps with a cocky douchebag she's a slut. If she sleeps with a "cool guy "it's okay.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:09 AM
1

lol
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:07 AM
1

Set up a date when you feel like it or when you have time. Keep texting to a bare minimum. In special circumstances I might respond at a 30% investment level in comparison to her but I have no time for small talk. I'm busy living my life. :D
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:05 AM
2

So before you met this girl you had a super disciplined mind. Then after you guys started dating you started becoming depressed and anxious? Break up with her. Lol.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:04 AM
5

It isn't a logical conversation, you're doing it wrong. You need to get a girl really horny and as long as you have a strong dominant frame, she will be willing to do anything for you. Make sure you tell her what you want her to do in a strong deep certain voice. Approach it that way.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:03 AM
4

Build more comfort/attraction. Maybe is a polite no. So she likes you enough to be polite, but not enough to go on a date. Keep improving your SMV.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 03:01 AM
1

You're still doing it. Lol.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 02:54 AM
10

Women think and make choices based upon emotion. Not upon logic. You're trying to understand her words using logic. Just accept that it was something said as the result of an emotion. Therefore there is zero point examining its meaning. It has no reference to the future, past or current really.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 02:33 PM
17

You're using logic to understand an emotional creature. Stop that.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 02:09 PM
3

I did once. Fucked it up with a girl when I was in my teenage years. I finally got over her and was building an incredible life. What do you know? She pops out of fucking nowhere. So, then we dated. And I moved states to live with her. It was fucking awful. The worst relationship ever. This girl I lusted for over half a decade or more was nothing more than a creation in my mind. Needless to say my life turned to shit. My career and progression was now suffocated by this girl. She took so much un…
/r/askTRP16/02/20 02:06 PM
2

Not everyone wins the biological lottery. Keep working on yourself. Look for the positives. Men are visual creatures and we get turned on by what we see and how it moves. Women are much more into style, self-investment, confidence, assertiveness, self worth and emotional concepts such as these. This is good. So stop thinking like a guy and realise women think vastly different to us.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 02:02 PM
1

Odds are against you. But not by much. Money is just one marker of SMV. There are many others..
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:59 PM
1

You think jealousy is cute? Goddamn insecurity is like the plague. I agree on all your other points.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:58 PM
1

It sounds like she's being selfish and wants you all to herself. Which means a) she's really insecure and not LTR material or b) you need to build more attraction with her. Women will let you off the hook for pretty much anything, as long as you're a high value man.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:55 PM
7

It's impossible to hold frame 100% of the time. If they like you, they will give you every opportunity to recover. Like they will hand you all sort of concessions and let offs. It's all about how you built a foundation of attraction in the beginning. If she likes you, you don't have to worry. If you break frame and didn't create enough attraction, GG. Also.... condescend you in front of others? Not the girl I would be spending my free time with imo...
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:52 PM
1

If everything is great why change it
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:27 PM
0

Learn from your own mistakes and don't repeat them
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:27 PM
3

Piano is fun. Learning a new language. Self learning physiology or biology could be great. Drawing. Creating. Building things, learning things or sporty things are my go to.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:26 PM
8

Lifting you to the top comment
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:25 PM
35

Lift. Talk to hot girls. Take risks. Do challenging tasks. Also everyone at 18 is insecure, so don't beat yourself up about it.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 01:24 PM
3

How many girls does this happen with? Be honest.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:04 AM
2

If you're not having fun don't do it. There are plenty of places and ways to meet women. Some men are just quiet or not into the intensity that is clubbing. It's okay. You practically answered your own question. Forget clubbing and hit the gym/sleep. Then just go somewhere else to pickup.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:42 AM
1

Just testing your frame. Sounds like an insecure girl. Almost comes across as looking for drama of some sort. Steer clear probably.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:40 AM
1

this
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:39 AM
2

Be more specific. "lets hang soon" is attention seeking. lets hang at X place at X time. That is straightforward, confident and shows you wanna meet again. That's a mans move right there.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:37 AM
2

Some people just prefer their own company. Nothing wrong with being a quiet stoic man. Girls really respond to that, and others tend to observe your inner strength or integrity and kinda just leave you alone to do your lone wolf thing.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:35 AM
1

It's a numbers game. Get in and get out. Most of my dates from the platform are within 5-6 messages. The best and most compatible girls I've been on dates with from Tinder are always 1-3 messages. They make it easy for you.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:33 AM
7

Whether they have a boyfriend or not is irrelevant to you. Just say "Okay, nice meeting you bye." Do you really want to spend time with liars if she's not telling the truth?Do you really want to spend time with a cheater if she is telling the truth? I avoid these women like the plague. She is either 100% in or she can go because there's plenty of other women that would do anything for the opportunity to spend time with me. I have value. I'm an asset. I don't need to worm my way into her life/fra…
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:30 AM
4

Get out of your head. Just talk about anything. The content is irrelevant. On the sidebar there's a very good piece of information. To summarise it: While approaching, girls are attracted to you simply because you are more relaxed than they are. You don't break frame and you don't enter their frame. You just talk about anything you want. There's no right or wrongs. Remember women are emotions. Men are logic. Just make sure your underlying tone or "orchestra behind your words" is relaxed, fun and…
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:08 AM
2

Ignore. Ignore Ignore. This actually creates more value for you. Girls want what the can't have. And they want your attention. So when you're together in person your interactions will be even better. If you gotta check out due to work/school/life, then so be it. Whether you maintain communication with them during this time has little to no affect on the outcome. When you hit them up to meet after your hiatus they're gonna be there or they're not. You keeping in contact will do zero to affect the…
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:04 AM
2

They should be the ones making it happen, not you.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 07:49 AM
3

Passive vs. Aggression vs. Assertive. Assertive is the one you want.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 07:28 AM
112

There are no right conversation topics. "Look at that wall, how cool is the colour?" "The tiling on the floor reminds me of this one time..." It can literally be completely devoid of any logic and women will go along with it. Men will not though, so keep that in mind. Lol.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 07:12 AM
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