I was on SSRIs for some time, which made it almost impossible to cum for me. I quit them but still the effects are somewhat there. Recently I fucked a girl on first date, and could not cum inside, indeed got soft, although made her cum 4-5 times by fingering etc too. She said that it was because of her and apologized multiple times, but now I can't get her to fuck second time. There were a few girls like her too where I had problems with climax, they seem to take hit on their self esteem, but still did not want to see me again. I think I show enough interest other than that. What do you think, did you experience something similar?