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I'd ask LegalAdviceUK as they'll be able to give better answers than here. I'd avoid using terms like "divorce raped" and "feminism lol" though because it makes you look like an incel.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 07:59 PM
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You have low test. I'll live stream me cutting my balls off with a teaspoon if this isn't the case.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:37 PM
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You did unify Germany in the 19th century though, so credit where its due...
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:36 PM
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Send me your photo given no one else is listening. Most of the advice here is fine, but a big problem the whole "red pill" shit has is the mentality that facial looks don't seem to matter. This in itself is incel thinking. Facial looks to matter, a lot, more so than a ripped physique - the latter helps a lot, but a skinny/fat guy with a 10/10 face is going to do better than an adonis with a 2/10 face. Good news - it's isn't 1642 anymore. Even if you're the elephant man you can get sorted.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 08:35 PM
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Why do you go to the gym? You suggest you want to get girls, and bars/clubs are an ideal place to go. If you're going to the gym to look good and attract girls, you're doing yourself a massive disservice by avoiding interacting with girls in a place where having a good body will make you stand out. Basically pointless going to the gym at all in that case. I mean, bars/clubs are obviously not the only place to get girls, I'm just saying it seems stupid to miss out on that because of a fear of get…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 05:15 PM
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a lot of masculine features, facial hair, muscles, etc, etc. You know how it goes. I'm stating this because the answer to my problem cannot be 'you have low testosterone levels'. Not the case. These things don't necessarily mean you don't have low test. However - I rarely watch porn or masturbate, because I don't see any pleasure in it. I became too emotional and needy. I'm that grumpy, closed off 'tough guy' from the streets that's actually a very emotional and caring person inside, to be hones…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 05:09 PM
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Why did you feel anger towards women in the first place? I think you need to address that. As you say, you internalised it but that's like moving around the deck chairs on the Titanic.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 07:50 PM
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If you unironically use terms like "beta orbiter" then yes, you obviously have some insecurity issue. Other than that, why do you care? Either you're getting laid and are happy with it, in which case crack on, or you're not happy about something and it's your problem to fix. The important question you need to answer yourself (and feel free to ask here) is why you think you're a "beta orbiter"?
/r/askTRP18/05/21 07:48 PM
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The most important question - is it really her or is it you? Not being nasty. Just often I find some harsh truths are the cure.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 07:45 PM
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There's certainly a crossover, or rather there's a commonality in that most guys who like anime and most guys who are incels have a certain social development disorder, but the two aren't directly connected. Why?
/r/askTRP18/05/21 07:42 PM
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I've been with two Asian girls. One was tight, another wasn't at all. I'd suggest stop reading into myths about race and genital size. Not having a go or pulling the "racism" card, I'm just pointing out that they're myths. The same way black guys don't really have larger dicks on average - some studies show they do but they were self-measured. In proper trials (as an aside, who the hell signs up for these things?) it was actually northern Europeans who had the largest on average, but we're talki…
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:25 PM
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Dude, just inject test if it's low (I don't know as I'm UK and we use nmol/L). HCG is used by guys on high testosterone doses but even then most don't bother, I never have. I've never heard of it being used alone. I could be wrong, but it seems odd. Fun party trick you can do on it though is pissing on a pregnancy test and it'll show you're pregnant.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 03:58 PM
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Christ dude, be a man about it and just tell him he's too full on. If he refuses and starts to actually sexually harass you, report him. I don't see what's so hard about this.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 09:35 PM
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Yeah I'm also keen to see that.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 04:03 PM
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Absolutely. Even the term "red pill" is cringy as fuck, I can't even bear to write it not in quotes it literally comes from a sci fi film. Taking the whole philosophy of just being good way to live your life - not being an incel, not blaming society for a your problems, taking charge of your own life, being independent strong and desirable, not being needy pathetic or a coward, looking out for others and having an abundance mentally, is basically what you should take from it. Going too much into…
/r/askTRP27/04/21 09:57 PM
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Genuine questions as I only post here with good intentions even if it deals with harsh realities (rare to get away with that on Reddit even if you're being genuine, fucking far-right...) - Have you ever actually been in a relationship? Ever even actually been with a woman? Regardless of the answer to either of them, why this tone in the question? Why does it bother you? Why do you think it would bother anyone else? Genuinely don't understand and not meaning anything by it personally. Just comes …
/r/askTRP27/04/21 12:46 AM
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Work on it. Small steps my man.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 12:52 AM
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Not necessarily no- "alright mate, how's tricks?" probably not going to work as well on a woman as it will a guy to say the least, but that's my entire point - you're clamming up and overly worrying about what to say when really I think it's nervousness about speaking to women full-stop. I can't give you lines, it depends on the situation, but I don't think exact words or topics are the issue. I think the fundamental problem is a fear of coming across in the wrong way when talking to women. Don'…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 11:32 PM
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Then see my original reply - why are you concerned about women when guys aren't a problem? They're just people, they like and can talk about the same things as you. I'm genuinely interested in helping and cannot see why it is a problem for you. That's the key here.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 11:00 PM
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Ok, again a fair response. So - do you have male friends? Can you keep conversation going with them?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:33 PM
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Okay, I'll take that as a fair answer. Now ask yourself why, tell us, and we'll try to help further.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:30 PM
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How is your body currently? Don't need exact stats, but a general idea - fat and loosing weight? Skinny and trying to gain? Calisthenics can work well, but there comes a point where you need more weight (progressive overload) than you can reasonably do at home without a proper home gym. I'd also recommend looking at fitness subs, not here.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:09 PM
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I enjoy 4chan for a laugh, but if you find everywhere apart from one Reddit sub and 4chan "insufferable" and are getting so angry about it, I'd suggest this is a problem you have and need to deal with. Firstly, why are you on this sub? Secondly - do you get much success with women in real life?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:05 PM
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You probably are being creepy. Unless one particular girl has some odd vendetta against you, most women don't make things like this up. I'd suggest you're probably taking the whole "red pill" thing too seriously. Aside question, but highly relevant - are you good looking?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:03 PM
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100% what I was going to say. You realize too OP, this is quite normal behaviour for married guys, and yes while some aren't happy, many are. The fact you're getting angry and frustrated by it suggests a you problem. Why does it annoy you? How does it negatively affect your life?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 10:01 PM
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taking SSRIs and antipsychotics This is a MASSIVE red flag, especially as the way you write it you have either not been prescribed them and are self medicating, or are American and a lazy GP is just taking the easy route. Lot to digest here, but way before any other advice I'd cut that shit right out.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 09:59 PM
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Best advice, and the older and more successful a guy is, the more you'll hear this from them - women are just people. Treat them as such. Putting women on a pedestal or conversely treating them like lesser beings, is cringy incel shit and won't get you anywhere.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 09:56 PM
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I think you've replied to the wrong person there - I've been doing it three years.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 06:41 PM
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OK so I've been in the same position as regarding skinny and low test, so I can help. Firstly, you cannot increase test naturally by more than negligible levels. There are some valid arguments that you might be able to at least recover to your own "natural" level if you're obese, leading an extremely sedentary lifestyle, etc and are supressing them due to that, but the jury is out and that won't apply to you anyway. Do NOT get into all the incel bullshit like "no fap" - it is pseduo-science bull…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 04:22 PM
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No, he doesn't. But no need to be a cunt in the meantime. And if it means his "plate" sticks with his game for longer, win win.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 03:00 AM
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I'm with others - I don't see a question. But to quote Christopher Walken in True Romance "what we have here is a game of show and tell. You're telling me nothing, but you're showing me everything". You're into this girl, a lot more than you mentioned in your post, and you're concerned these issues will become your issues. None of us are fortunate tellers, and we don't even know you personally. Maybe you're what she's been looking for all along and you're just what she needs in life, a fairytale…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:15 AM
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You're 100% right, but despite my own reply along the same lines, if he's not saying this to his girl or her fat friend (though I wouldn't put it past him), it's fine to say anonymously on a Reddit post. The fact he's not attracted to the friend because she is "fat and ugly" is fine, nothing can change that, it's a fact and denying it is incel behaviour. But for OP to have such a meltdown over a normal social event is probably more what we should be concentrating on. Forget the friend and what p…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:08 AM
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Jesus christ, I know incels use this sub a lot but this is a winner... Are you planning on fucking her friend? I assume not so just let her come along act like a normal human being (if that's possible) and get in the good books with your "plate". I know I sound harsh, but that's what is expected from this sub, so it's just honesty. If you need us to hold your hand through normal social interactions maybe ring your mum for advice too...
/r/askTRP08/04/21 02:04 AM
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For me I thought i did this too, but in hindsight even though when i was younger i was physically attractive, i had barely any self-confidence, was pretty insecure and was really needy (models focusses a lot on how neediness is the most unattractive quality a guy can have, which i now agree with looking back). 100% agree with this, and have known this for a long time. Total opposite of neediness to be honest as I'm very careful on that front. Again, arrogant to say "it comes naturally" but it ki…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 06:59 PM
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Ooh no you’re going based off what you are pulling on tinder. No, not at all. I use Tinder and other apps a lot, like I say. But (all this Covid shit aside) I have a very active social life. I work in the music industry and travel a lot with that, mix with the cream of the crop when it comes to dance music, and in my local town I promote a busy club night with some friends. It's certainly not like I'm just sitting on Tinder hoping for the best. Apologies if it came across like that. However... T…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:36 PM
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Fair enough, I misread what he meant. Models focuses on how to make you the most attractive version of yourself, and how to work on a healthy mindset when it comes to women. This sounds good, but I already do this. Like I've said in other comments, I've had plenty of compliments about my personality, like I say "he's such a cool guy, but I just don't find him physically attractive". Sounds arrogant maybe, but it is what it is. I know nothing I say can convince you Yes, there is. I'm always willi…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:30 PM
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Well as long as this surgery is because your jaw bothers you more then you value other’s opinion of your jaw. See the other replies. I personally think I'm very good looking (like, model quality) and it took me a long time to realise this was just a delusion on my part. Why do other people's opinions not matter? They're the ones who are deciding whether you're attractive enough for them. The whole "it's them not me" attitude is incel thinking. I am saying there is someone who will find you attra…
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:10 PM
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This isn't really answering my question - a quick Google search also tells me Mark Manson is a PUA, which is largely a scam and doesn't work. Just watch any documentary about PUAs.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:04 PM
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This happens of course, and I'm certainly not saying everyone needs to look like some adonis, but when you're getting a very high rejection rate and it is implicitly because of your looks not your personality, there is nothing wrong with widening your chances. In fact, it is something you should be doing if you want more success with women.
/r/askTRP07/04/21 04:03 PM
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That's what really annoys me about the whole "red pill" thing (can't even write it outside of quote marks, the name alone is so cringy) - it's ostensibly just some good advice for fucking losers - sort your shit out, live your own life, be a strong person, be good to others, be a provider, don't blame society for your problems, etc. But it's seen as some toxic nasty shit because a lot of "red pill" advice is PUA/incel bullshit mixed in with genuine advice that could help, and everyone just sees …
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 01:05 AM
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To be fair I missed out a major exception - you do get hot girls putting it in, but in my experience it's only when they're on the very tall (6ft+) side themselves. This isn't them want a tall guy because they have a thing about tall guys, it's normally years of bullying/piss taking in school making them a little insecure about it, and not wanting it to really stand out by having a smaller guy on their arm. Totally understandable to be fair.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 07:16 PM
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Makes sense. You're right, and I know hypergamy is a thing, perhaps I've got the wrong definition. I've not read the Rational Male no. And thank god he's not going around using the term "red pill" - such a cringy term in the first place. I genuinely thought that's what you meant, hence why it scared the crap out of me.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:51 PM
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fix your mindset. Fuck what others think. OK, I'll roll with this. How do you suggest going about this? I'm meant to magically make women find me attractive somehow? I'm full of confidence and have a good personality (again, so I'm told, I don't want to sound arrogant!) so when girls say "he's such a cool guy, I really love hanging out with him, I just can't find him physically attractive" (variations of which are very common) I'm meant to fix this how exactly? i saw one guy looked like a monkey…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:43 PM
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How tall are you? Women care way less about height than many men think. I only ever see height requirements on Tinder if it's a fat ugly girl who clearly has a problem (women can be incels too...) That's the UK though, maybe it's different in other cultures.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:40 PM
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I have read it of course but I can't remember everything and "abundance mentality" isn't in the glossary of terms. Also some of it is bullshit. Some of it is fantastic, how everyone should be living their lives, and very anti-incel, which is what red pill should be, but a lot of it is confused with incel thinking, which annoys me but what can you do eh. Just looked up abundance mentality - yep, assuming its the same as "abundance mindset" yes, that's great, that's how people should acting 100%. …
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:28 PM
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Just too narrow I think, a beard doesn't really help much and I don't grow a great one anyway. I look very young (early 20s) which is certainly in my favour.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:17 PM
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I don't blame my looks - I actually think I'm decently attractive (basically I have "reverse" body dysmorphia) - it's women who say I'm not attractive, and a few close friends have confided in me that they're not talking shit. So you don't go all bitchy and bitter about it, you fucking fix it and move on with life.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:17 PM
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Well this was slightly my concern, but could be worse. Is he actually getting any action as a result? If he's not attractive anyway, my fear is you might have turned him into an incel, which isn't good obviously. It's a mixed bag here - girls are hypergamous and need to know you're better than her and the best option Not necessarily. Putting "all women" into the same bag is incel thinking. Having self-respect. You're the prize and abundance mentality. 100% correct on self-respect and being "the …
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:11 PM
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Yep, basically that - be attractive. I'm 30 myself and not had much luck in my life due to being ugly - took me WAY too long to work out the problem. So I'm awaiting jaw surgery which has been fucking delayed now (thanks Covid...) so that should sort that issue but I've got catching up to do. Just thank fuck I never blamed anyone else/society like a whiny incel loser, have a good job/career, decent social life, etc and have been repeatedly told it's just my looks letting me down.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:46 PM
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refuses to do anything about it I am the landlord of the property This answers both my questions. Kick him out, plain and simple. You've given him chances, he isn't helping himself, he's a grown adult. You have the power to kick him out. This isn't your problem, but you're making it your problem. Fix it. As for being able to afford it - it's a very buoyant market at the moment (well, at least here in the UK, but I assume it's the same most places, oddly because of the pandemic) so you'll soon fi…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:43 PM
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When you say you "redpilled" him and now he's trying to "redpill" others (you mention "female nature" which pricked my ears up) plus the fact you aren't happy to be associated with it, what exactly did you do you? Genuine question, and I do apologise if I'm wrong, but I think you might have dun goofed here my friend.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 05:39 PM
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Wow, some Reddit mods and subs are nasty and racist, who cares - lots of nasty pathetic people out there. Just concentrate on your own life and stop letting shit bother you and stop interfering with things that don't concern you. Isn't that the entire point of this "Red Pill" thing?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 05:35 PM
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Define "higher value" in this instance? Again, using terms like this probably indicates a problem that may well be why she cheats on you, for good reason.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 12:01 AM
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If you don't know you love her, then fair enough, don't say it. But to have to ask the question on this sub of all places makes me wonder that something else is an issue, with you, not her or anyone else. Love is something natural that is unavoidable, sometimes it's misguided and clouded by bad judgements, granted. But using red pill terms like "scarcity" and not knowing the answer to your own question is worrying long-term quite frankly.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:58 PM
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If you're going to ask a question like that, you need to give more detail. But even without details, I'd suggest stopping using terms like "masculine frame" - I hate terms like "alpha" and "beta" but they still apply in that guys who are "alpha" don't use such terms.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 11:55 PM
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You're on a sub named after "the Red Pill" and in your post talk about "discovering TRP" tell us pointless stats, and use cringy terms like "body count". It's no wonder really. This "red pill" shit is just a general guide, a lot of the advice is incel bullshit and taking it as a lifestyle choice is like taking up trainspotting. Taking it seriously is very unwise. All that aside - make more effort. People shouldn't be partying, etc but at least ask why you weren't invited. It takes two to tango, …
/r/askTRP27/03/21 11:01 PM
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You know this sub is full of incels and (condition that can't be mentioned without risking a ban) when this isn't the top comment. You even put "alpha" in quotes, as it should be as it's such a bullshit term even though the concept is right.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 10:56 PM
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In short, as others are (mostly) saying - fix it. It's 2021 (current global shitstorm aside) not 1643. You no longer need to go and live in a bell-tower. Being "ugly" is caused by many things, all of them fixable. Even the Elephant Man would likely have been able to have various surgeries these days to make him passable. Fat - lose weight (eat less, move more) Thin - gain weight (lift weights, eat more, I personally even did steroids, which I'll come back to) Awful hair - see a decent stylist Ba…
/r/askTRP24/03/21 08:23 PM
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Well my parents were divorced when I was a teenager, but when I lived with my mum I had girls back, and I know plenty of people who live with both parents who bring girls back and it's fine. From one night stands to actual married couples who couldn't yet afford a mortgage. If your parent(s) have an issue with that, I'd suggest you have a problematic relationship with your parents.
/r/askTRP20/03/21 12:37 AM
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Those insisting it is "beta" probably are beta. Sure, you could argue that by that age you "should" be earning good money and afford a place of your own, but that focussing on being a yuppy type where material possessions and money are your main focus is in itself "beta". Some of the biggest losers I know bought a house in their early 20s (often inheritance helped though) by being in a job they hate, never going out, having no hobbies, and marrying a partner they hate (and vice-versa) and they'r…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 10:20 PM
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Your neighbors are Peter from Office Space before he saw the hypnotherapist. You're his neighbour. If you've not seen the film, yes, you have a good life. I'd suggest something is wrong if you're asking though.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:56 PM
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I'd say being vegan plays way smaller a role than you'd think. I'm not anti-vegan - if you know what you're doing it can work well. But it isn't some magic elixir, it's just a diet choice. You can be non vegan and get the same results. Growing your own food is certainly not a factor. I know the US (and I apologise, that's two anti American posts, I do love the US it's just facts) love to pump food full of shit, but it's nothing that will have a major effect and if you buy decent produce, there's…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:53 PM
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Unpopular fact as I know there's a lot of Americans on here (and you get brainwashed about this stuff from kindergarten...) but HGH is very common among the rich. I don't even mean "modern bodybuilders who have that horrible bloated physique" but at therapeutic doses, it can work wonders for aging. Prime example is Jennifer Aniston - ever wonder why she hasn't aged a day in 30 years? Genes will play a small part - Lenny is black and black people tend to age better - but I just looked up recent p…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:50 PM
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Entirely depends on what needs doing, and to a lesser extent where you are in the world. Even if it was $10k, that isn't much for the return. A fairly average second hand car can cost that much, so compared to something that might save/massively change your life...
/r/askTRP18/03/21 08:44 PM
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Well firstly, no. As someone else said, there's a diagnosis in this thread.... Secondly, it depends on the person. You need to read the situation and adapt depending on the girl. Given the above though, I doubt this is possible for you. Genuinely no offence, just try to work on it.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 06:54 PM
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As someone else said WAY too vague. To answer your question though - find out what it is that it letting you down, then fix it. Fat? Lose weight. Skinny? Gain weight. Awful hairstyle? See a stylist. Awful fashion sense? Buy better clothes. Pedo glasses? Get better glasses, use contacts, or get laser surgery. Bad skin? Clean your skin. Pasty and pale? Get a tan. Massive nose/chin or vice versa? See a cosmetic surgeon. It's 2021, you can fix anything about yourself except your height (and only inc…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 06:50 PM
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Pseudo-science bullshit, and that isn't "my thoughts" that's backed up by science. If you are considering this, it is presumably due to some kind of issue - be it minor or something more serious. Either way, there's always something else you can do to solve the problem. Depending on your actual issue, "no fap" might even make it worse and can (albeit rarely) cause medical issues.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 06:47 PM
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On your first point - find out. It's not hard to find out what other people think of your looks. But like you said in your original post, you're getting loads of Tinder matches with "hot girls" - so is that true or not? If it is, then don't worry, your looks are fine. The fact you said that then suddenly "can't judge it" leads me to think there's something amiss here - either you were lying to us (and yourself) or you're lacking confidence, which leads me onto... Good work on the "red pill" thin…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 12:34 AM
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If you have a porn addiction, which is a real thing, then you should look at seeing a mental health expert and some kind of abstention would probably be recommended. Think of it like alcoholism - most people can enjoy a few drinks and it's perfectly healthy and natural, a good social activity. But if you're an alcoholic, you cannot take part, you need to quit. In terms of "no fap" as some kind of magic psychological or physiological magic, it's total pseudo-science, just a lazy excuse to not tak…
/r/askTRP17/03/21 12:26 AM
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Firstly, are you SURE it's your personality and not your looks? You say you get loads of hot girls matching on dating apps. Definitely telling the truth there? If so, all good, that step is done. Next up, get a full panel of bloodwork, hormones, the lot. You might be deficient in something. I'd personally bet low testosterone with the lack of confidence, low drive, depression, etc. Do NOT fall for all the "red pill" pseudo-science bullshit. NoFap is a load of nonsense and will make your depressi…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:31 PM
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Not sure if it's been said, but it isn't ONLY about looks, but a big problem a lot of/most incels and people who go on about "red pill" have is they don't think looks are important, and you can "learn" your way past it with bullshit pseudo-science. That isn't the way it works, you cannot over-ride 600 million years of evolutionary biology no matter how hard you try. Good news is it's 2021 not 1643, so unless you're severely disfigured, you can fix whatever is unattractive about you. I mean, even…
/r/askTRP16/03/21 09:25 PM
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Oh I know, my point is that yes, your right - on paper the term "red pill" is anti-incel, but you don't get good looking well rounded guys who have no trouble with women or life in general using the term and going on red pill subs. At least for me anyway, I always try to say to people on here, as with this lad "follow the advice if it makes logical sense, but stop using these daft terms".
/r/askTRP14/03/21 08:34 PM
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What's the opposite of "alpha male"? That's what downvoting is without replying - cowardice. Worst trait a man can have.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:49 PM
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Massive sweeping generalisations, no actual personal situation - I'm guessing there's not an actual woman involved here, right?
/r/askTRP14/03/21 02:46 AM
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Jesus christ man. Get up tomorrow, or whenever you read this, and go for a run. For no physical benefit, just to run away from the stupid shit you're thinking. You're 17, a fucking kid. Yet you sound like a 45 year old incel in the making. Your education and achievements are good, keep on at it, you'll go far. Seriously, in that sense you have the right mindset. But stop using terms like "females" and "semen retention" - on that point, the whole "no fap" thing is pseudo-science bullshit and you'…
/r/askTRP14/03/21 02:44 AM
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And if you do say anything, you’re called an incel... Because you, and many of the replies, sound exactly like incels. I don't know where you're getting this information or idea - lots of men sit around doing fuck all and browsing shit on the internet. Lots of women run massive corporations. My question is - why does this bother you? What impact does it have on your life? Then maybe we can get somewhere. Don't be a loser - get your own house in order before you criticise someone else's.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 02:36 AM
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We don't know that for sure do we? Which is exactly my point - daft and counter-productive to simply dismiss looks as not being the problem, that's exactly the kind of thing incels do. And what the hell is "frame"? You mean his build?
/r/askTRP24/02/21 10:45 PM
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Obviously can't comment without seeing what you look like, but looks are more important than most guys seem to accept. You could be charm personified but if you're not good looking, you still lose out. I'd personally just keep working on your personality, do not take the whole "red pill" stuff to seriously and treat it like some kind of religion, and just focus on working out what the issues are, and then on fixing them.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 02:19 PM
1

Do you get told you're good looking?
/r/askTRP24/02/21 02:03 PM
2

Issue you pointed out about looks is my fear of finding out where I stand in SMV from girls perspective. I don't know what SMV or IOI means (do yourself a favour, stop with the bullshit terminology) but you REALLY need to find out the answer to this. The first part is acknowledging and accepting it, then fix it. The only thing you cannot change about your appearance is your height, and that matters WAY less than incels like to make out - in fact, that's why they fixate on it, because it's not th…
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:26 PM
2

Well you said it yourself, you're an incel, so at least that's something you recognise. You seem to be doing little to fix it though - you realise most of the "red pill" terminology you massively overuse is still incel bullshit and excuses. Some of the "red pill" philosophy (despite the cringy name) is just decent honest advice - recognise your problems, recognise the problem is with you, do not blame other people/women/the world, and fix these problems yourself. The vast majority of "red pill" …
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:04 PM
4

Not a lawyer, but in the UK it would still be classed as assets. Bad luck.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 06:57 PM
3

Why don't the good looking ones (and there must be plenty) match back? That's what you need to work on man. Don't be a fucking incel. It's your job to fix it, not society's.
/r/askTRP21/02/21 02:20 AM
1

Using terms like "beta" and overly concentrating on muscles would be a good start....
/r/askTRP20/02/21 05:41 PM
2

Because a lot of "red pill" types are current or ex incels, and incels often have a proclivity to also following right-wing ideology. Even the term "red pill" is pretty cringy and along these lines. I agree, that the two are not one and the same - wanting to get advice on how not to be an incel and generally become a more rounded, selfless, productive, and integrated member of society is the aim here, quite the opposite of "red pill" thinking. But it's clear that far too many people who follow t…
/r/askTRP07/01/21 10:04 PM
1

Google "first steroid cycle it's not that difficult"
/r/askTRP07/01/21 12:03 AM
1

Firstly get off this sub and try a decent steroid advice sub or ideally a non-reddit forum. Plenty of good advice out there. Are you American? The Americans have a bizarre attitude towards steroids, so a British forum is ideal. I would link to a really good first-time guide, but not sure if we're allowed to post external links on here. Main thing is to read, read, read, read, and read some more. You can never know enough. It's not that difficult, but you need to know a lot about it in case somet…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:39 PM
1

Agreed, but as he's asking on here rather than a fitness sub (or hell, just a basic Google search), along with a seeming lack of general knowledge on the subject, I'd warrant he needs to bulk first.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 07:36 PM
1

This is his family. I don't actually believe in "blood is thicker than water" and all that bullshit. Cutting off family should be nothing to be ashamed of. But the difference here is he clearly cares. Not all human relationships are commodities to cash and exchange.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 01:57 AM
3

Eat over maintenance, but eat clean. Keep lifting I personally use roids. And name a guy with your ideal physique - I'd bet my balls they do to. Not saying you should, just saying it works. Ask a Fitness sub or forum. Not here.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 01:35 AM
1

Are you seeking help for this mental illness? Remember - this is an explanation, not an excuse. People shouldn't have to put up with your condition if it affects them, and this is not the same as "discrimination". Extreme example - you wouldn't give a psychopathic pedo child-murderer a job in a pre-school because "it's discrimination not to". Sounds like you have a pretty severe mental illness as you say. Work on that first, get help, work out a solution with professionals. Do not ask for advice…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 01:33 AM
2

Fuck. Came here to give this guy advice, but that's fucking good.
/r/askTRP06/01/21 01:30 AM
2

First of all work out why you're being rejected and fix it. Unless you're the Elephant Man or Rainman, this is doable. It's natural to take it personally no matter what some people on here might say (again, Rainman being oddly fitting there....) but whatever the fuck you do, remember this is your problem and your problem to fix. It is never the girl's fault. And kick out this "even girl that is way below me" shit - hierarchies exist for a reason. Just work at moving up the ladder rather than exp…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 01:29 AM
1

Not if you're the sort of person who unironically uses the term "nexting", no. You're right...
/r/askTRP06/01/21 01:25 AM
2

Well firstly, wrong sub. This place is for people who are "red pilled" (which is cringy in itself) to convince incels that they're fucking their life up. If your bro came on here, which by the sounds of it he never will, then we'd give him some harsh truths and hope that he'd take them on board. They rarely do, but it's like being a veterinarian and having to put animals to sleep - you move on and don't worry about it. Someone literally used the term "nexting" in a reply so far. Tells you all yo…
/r/askTRP06/01/21 01:22 AM
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There are much better subs than this to ask this question. Apologies but this place is mainly incels asking for advice and people telling them why they're idiots. This is way too complicated. Try something like a family advice sub.
/r/askTRP31/12/20 08:49 PM
1

Firstly, a ridiculous question. Unless you're a hardened alcoholic or Andre The Giant, a 5th (I'm British so I had to look it up, that's 750ml right?) of vodka will floor you. Secondly, if you cannot socialise and need to be wasted to cope, then focus on that (not now, it can wait until the new year....) as it's obviously a serious problem, added to the fact you're asking on here. Why on here? Finally, unless you live in China or Democracy China (Taiwan) then you shouldn't be fucking partying. A…
/r/askTRP31/12/20 06:52 PM
2

People like dogs. Stop hyperfocusing. See the very long reply in this thread for the reason you shouldn't fall for mad ideas like this...
/r/askTRP21/12/20 11:48 PM
1

A true "alpha male" does what's right - stops socialising when necessary to protect the vulnerable. I can't believe men these days complain about having to stop going to bars or whatever for a bit, when our forefathers were literally sent to war to die, and didn't complain.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 04:37 PM
0

Not Type A, no. You need to stop this anti TRT shit that you Americans are brainwashed with. If you're low test, it'll change your life.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 10:43 PM
1

Nothing can increase testosterone "naturally" more than by negligible levels, except injecting testosterone. If you've got low test, it's largely for a reason. It's like saying if being diabetic is natural then can't you make your body produce insulin naturally. That's insane. That said, aside from stuff like no-fap which is incel pseudo-science and can increase the risk of prostate cancer, most of the advice given to increase test naturally is a good idea, because lifting, exercising, eating an…
/r/askTRP20/12/20 10:13 PM
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What the fuck does this have to do with this sub? Go to a UK sub or something.
/r/askTRP20/12/20 07:48 PM
2

As everyone else has said, we're all in the same boat, just get through it like everyone else. An "alpha male" (as you guys love saying) wouldn't complain, looks out for others who might be finding it tough, uses the time to do something worthwhile, and accepts it needs to be done and doesn't spread bullshit conspiracies (they're the worst most pathetic guys). It'll be over by spring. Think what the generation who fought in WW1 or WW2 had to go through. This is nothing.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 06:24 PM
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You've got the whole "red pill" thing completely wrong and you sound like you've just become even more of an incel. What is the relationship here? She seems interested but you're ignoring her texts? Are you retarded or did you leave out the bit where she friendzoned you?
/r/askTRP17/12/20 06:23 PM
1

It's a "red pill" sub, what do you expect?
/r/askTRP13/12/20 06:01 PM
1

It's rare, very rare. Like, winning the lottery rare. Almost literally as they'll always be rich or have some other thing going for them.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 07:57 PM
0

Fair enough. Backs up what I'm saying though - for anyone of average height who bleats about being 6'2 and thinking that's their primary issue, it isn't. But for OP it is an issue.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 06:10 PM
0

94% sounds incredibly specific. Source? But yeah, I fucking hate idiots who are ugly as sin, never wash, and have a toxic personality, who are 5'8/5'9 and say "it must be my height!" but like I say, 5'3 is short.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:38 PM
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They break your fucking legs and put steel plates and pins in. There's nothing "wrong" with it, but like I say, it's incredibly painful recovery, takes a long time to recover, and you'll always have weaker legs as a result.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:37 PM
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Work hard, save money. Men obsess over height but yeah, 5'3 is going to narrow things down for you a bit I'll admit. Guessing you found this already? Remember that operation is incredibly unpleasant (grew up with a lad who had it several times on one leg due to being born with one leg too short) and good luck ever seriously training on it again or playing sports.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 05:11 PM
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Said it before a million times, happy to say it again - nothing can increase test by more than negligible levels, except injecting test. However, lowering your body fat to a healthier level is good for all sorts of reasons, but as someone else said, don't make it too low. 19% isn't obese and 13% isn't underweight, so you'll probably notice little difference to be honest.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 10:21 AM
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You won't get one on this sub!
/r/askTRP09/12/20 09:33 AM
1

You haven't established if that's because you're genuinely ugly or whether it's your personality though. I'm only trying to help man, I just need info, and you need to be honest with yourself.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 11:09 PM
1

Answer my other questions. I also don't understand why this has been removed?
/r/askTRP08/12/20 09:08 PM
1

You answered my first question but didn't answer my others. I fear this is a "lack of trying" issue.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:56 PM
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I'd love to see a study on this and be proven wrong, but the only thing that will increase test levels more than a negligible level, is to inject test. That said, most of these things are very good for general health and well-being anyway so are highly recommended whether they increase test more than a negligible level or not. I'd point out "no fap" is total pseudo-science and unless you've got a psychological problem masturbation is perfectly healthy and if anything increases test levels (again…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:26 PM
1

Yeah but there might be another reason. Your first point of call (assuming this was your first) was to post on a "red pill" sub, so there might be other issues. Do you have much friends? Do you speak to girls a lot? Do you ask them out and get rejected? If so, any clues as to why? Not good to just straight up ask, but you can always find out if you've a way with words.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 07:04 PM
1

Why then? What gives you this impression? I accept that most people will keep their mouth shut, but enough people will make comments. Trust me, you'd know and hear about it if you really were ugly. Even family and friends make it obvious - they're so terrified of actually admitting it, they're making it so obvious they might as well scream it at the top of their lungs.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:29 PM
1

Well get surgery then you idiot. What's stopping you? It's not 1642. I'm in the same boat, obviously delays due to Covid, but I'm getting done one this is over. You can fix everything about yourself, so stop whinging and get to it. You're over the first difficult stage - you acknowledge you're ugly. That's 90% of the work. Most guys find this really hard to accept and just turn into incels. You've avoided that dangerous and toxic road, so keep going down the right path. You'll be fine. Also impo…
/r/askTRP08/12/20 06:19 PM
-1

None of this is true. You're living in a fantasy online world with seemingly no experience of real life. Start by turning off your internet for a day and taking a fucking walk.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:50 AM
2

Never heard of any of them, but PUA shit is a total scam. Please don't trust me on that, try it, you'll find out the hard way.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:48 AM
1

Was going to blindly guess given your original post, but are you saying Tinder is giving you no matches? In this case, you're not the hot shit your orig post makes out. This is a you problem. Identify why, fix it.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:47 AM
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All are equally important. I'd argue that that looks are most important given this is based on several hundred million years evolution, but the mistake incels make is thinking it's about just one thing. It's about a combination of things.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:44 AM
1

Wrong sub. Look at fitness subs and websites, some great YouTube videos out there too. Issue is, while this sub will offer answers, by its very nature you'll get "this is my view of the subject, that's all that matters" type replies. And yes, I'm aware of the irony here. That's my entire point.
/r/askTRP26/11/20 12:38 AM
1

Well yeah, I'm sure we all kind of guessed that from your original post. But there's a lot of shit in there blaming your cousin, your own post title calling him a "simp beta BP" (whatever the fuck BP means) and all those terms are generally used by incels. You seem to be attacking him and not looking into yourself. He's a fucking idiot - we agree on that. He might have got this girl pregnant and he's acting way too fucking chilled about it. Fine, his funeral. But you're also in the same boat, an…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 02:38 AM
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Lots about his situation, little about yours. You both seem equally to blame. Should I chuck this "red pill" in the bin while you ignore and downvote this post, or are you going to take responsibility for your own actions?
/r/askTRP24/11/20 02:17 AM
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Well normal social situations when she's not going to feel awkward. In work or out with her parents she's being put on the spot and can't escape that situation if she feels awkward about it. If you're say at a bar or a club or a party or some kind of social event, its fine. Not sure how to really describe it if you're not aware of this already.
/r/askTRP17/11/20 03:38 PM
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Sounds like you're scared. I mean no offence as I genuinely only post here to offer advice and to try and help. I don't understand the "insults" towards me (I'm not even sure what the hell you mean) but it suggests, again, my advice scares you. You say in that very reply that she's flirting on text and there's the physical aspect on top. Apologies for getting the two confused, bit you didn't make that clear, which again suggests you're pulling your punches. My point stands even more now - why ar…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:56 PM
2

In general, unless you're very good looking and are the most charming and confident guy in the world, randomly asking a girl out in her place of work, or in front of her parents, is going to make you look creepy and weird. Even then, it's a big risk. The fact you have to ask this suggests you don't have much contact or success with women, even just as friends in a social group. Depending on where you are in the world, the Covid thing will be over by spring, so stop worrying about that. Just get …
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:22 PM
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If you think holding your hand, resting her head on you, and tight full minute hugs are "very subtly flirting" you need a cattle prod in the balls. Ask her over for fucks sake. Jesus, this sub. Oh and to add - depending on where you are don't be a "beta" (as you guys love to say) by breaking Covid rules. Some of us have festivals and club events to run next summer.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:17 PM
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Why didn't you ask someone? Even jokingly, you're in a social situation for fucks sake. This and the fact you seriously use terms like "game" and "frame" suggests your just socially awkward, or at least not as confident and outgoing as your friend. I wouldn't worry though. It's easy to fix.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:12 PM
1

Oddly I got a Tinder match yesterday from a girl who said "no one under 6ft" which I've heard a lot about, but never actually seen. Not much of a looker (must have swiped accidentally) and turned out to be a phantom match anyway. In general, the height thing is over-exaggerated by incels who want to pass the blame onto something they can't fix (their height) instead of focusing on the real problems they can fix (their looks and personality). Other than that, it only seems to exist in the real wo…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 10:10 PM
0

You're either lucky or delusional.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 03:20 AM
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Would need to see photos, and obviously fully understand if you don't want to post them on here. I'm in the same boat. I actually have Reverse Body Dysmorphia so it took me ages to accept it, but I'm getting jaw surgery (possibly implants, need to see the surgeon first) once this shit is over. There is nothing wrong with improving your face. It is the most important thing about your physical appearance. Your build is obviously important too, but an ugly guy can be built like a Greek God and stil…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:18 AM
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Come up with a good reason perhaps? You've not even seen a photo of the guy. Now who's "retarded"...
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:07 AM
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I'd like to see a proper, ideally non American source on this, because I've only ever seen overwhelming evidence that any "natural" way to increase testosterone is negligible at best. The only real and effective way to increase testosterone, is to inject testosterone, but because Americans are brainwashed from an early age to think "steroids = bad" you can never really mention it. Fortunately in the developed world, there are many endocrinologists taking this seriously - low testosterone is a ma…
/r/askTRP16/11/20 01:04 AM
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No, charisma is seen as charisma by women. Giving it some name like it's a math problem and making it into some big deal on the internet is seen as a social interaction disability.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 01:50 AM
-1

This is incel thinking. You're treating "men" and "women" like they're separate species. PUA shit and everything that goes with it doesn't work, because any guy who subscribes to that shit is trying to use psychological tricks to overcome the real problem - they're an ugly loser and they can't pick up women like a normal human being. But you're right - you shouldn't respond to childish drama at all, but to think that this is a "woman" problem is showing that you have no connection with the real …
/r/askTRP15/11/20 01:12 AM
-4

This sounds like a you problem. There's something you're not telling us.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 12:06 AM
1

Well I'm talking about the behind the scenes stuff. We get thousands of 18 year olds coming to their first festival every year. And this isn't a new thing - it's always taken a while to get anywhere in this industry as a career. There are no graduate programs.
/r/askTRP15/11/20 12:03 AM
1

Well I wouldn't expect much help here, certainly not without more info. What specifically is stopping you doing this? A rough idea of your daily routine would help.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:52 PM
1

You cannot "waste testosterone" it just naturally declines with age. If it's a problem, inject testosterone. If you're a brainwashed American who thinks "steroids is bad duuur" then so be it. You've been told.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:50 PM
1

What's your problem? Why is this a problem? You realise this feeling is a result of a few hundred million years of evolution? Are you "lusting" along or are you getting results? If you aren't getting results, there's something else that needs changing. Good news - you can fix everything about you .
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:48 PM
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Had no idea what "amused mastery" was but this sounds like some incel/PUA shit that's a one way ticket to rejection.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:44 PM
1

Learn to balance your time. It's as simple as that.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:42 PM
1

You seem like you don't have a bad track record, especially for someone who rates themselves as "5 out of 10" on looks (which I'd bet is much higher if you're regularly attracting girls in the first place) and this is more a preference issue. You seem to be way too picky and worrying about things that shouldn't matter. Questioning a girl's lifestyle choices is going to fuck you up every time. Most successful relationships are between people with differing interests, some of which cross over. Try…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:41 PM
1

You're certainly not asking too much, but you're posting in the wrong sub. There must be a Sweden based sub you can ask?
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:38 PM
2

This. I'm sure the vast majority of us would agree that China is a totalitarian state with extremely questionable human rights policies, but when I was dating a Chinese girl I kept my mouth shut.. If someone isn't interested in you because they're obsessed with politics (and it works both ways) they're a fucking moron. On the flip side, if you're using politics as an excuse for not getting women, I'd suggest you have bigger problems and moving state won't solve them.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:35 PM
2

Top tip - use a decent moisturizer aimed ostensibly at women. A good moisturizer is a good moisturizer, the rest is marketing. In particular, anything marketed as being "for men" is just aimed at guys who are too insecure to buy "women's" products, and surprise surprise, there's loads of losers like that out there so it's a massive market and you're spending more money on the same product. If you're feeling flush, anything by Clarins is good. Aimed at middle aged or older women (I first used it …
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:31 PM
1

No. You might get the odd question about what you're doing and why, but as long as you're a normal decent person and good to get along with, why the fuck should it matter? Do you enjoy it? Do you know how to work hard and also enjoy yourself in your downtime? If yes, it isn't a problem. I know a guy who bar manages in a big ski resort. Works himself and his staff like slaves, but they all love him because he's a stand up guy and treats then well. He's in his 40s. Depends what you mean by "nightl…
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:25 PM
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Firstly start by not using terms like "alpha" "beta" and definitely not terms like "purple pill" (whatever the fuck that means) and just focus on being a normal decent human being. A lot of guys prescribe to this whole "red pill" (which is also a retarded phrase and is helping no one, but at a basic level some of the philosophy is good) can't get any woman, and are stuck in a dangerous incel mindset. For Christ sake don't blow a decent relationship and join them.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:21 PM
1

Never understand why people ask questions like this in here, but as others have said, a decent PPL program is unbeatable.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:17 PM
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In your first paragraph you prove my point, they don't matter. But that's even more proof they don't exist. They've been widely discredited as "quackery" but I do admit it's a very interesting example of something that is still thrown about and has been included in school exams until very recently. Excellent advice btw in the second para.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:40 PM
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There's no such thing as "ectomorph" - you just need to train well and eat properly. Unfortunately Stronglifts relies on basic lifts and increasing weight each session. It's a very good choice for a novice, so well done on that, but you will struggle to replicate it without any weights. I'd perhaps advise some kind of calisthenics program to tide you over, but it won't do you much good as a skinny guy as it could be more aerobic. Not an area I'm too clued up on, but do some reading. Improvise to…
/r/askTRP09/11/20 08:35 PM
1

No need to tear you apart, that's not what this sub should be about. Say something came up, cancel, ignore, block.
/r/askTRP08/11/20 10:59 PM
4

OK, so now answer the rest of my questions and you're 90% of the way there.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:11 PM
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How much success do you have with women? This sub seems to be populated by incels (despite the main aim being quite anti-incel but we still get tarred with it) and every fucking day someone comes on and bangs on about height. Stop fucking obsessing over height. It's a psychological thing - you're projecting your problems onto something you can't fix in order to ignore things you can. If you were successful with women, you wouldn't give a shit about height. So I assume you aren't, and you're igno…
/r/askTRP07/11/20 10:21 PM
1

Firstly, well done for getting your levels checked. Low testosterone is a major factor in depression, anxiety, panic attacks, lack of drive/confidence in young and middle-aged men. There's a reason a chart showing suicide rate by age and testosterone levels by age is such a scary correlation. Testosterone, rather than potentially dangerous antidepressants, is being looked into as a potential golden bullet, at least in developed countries such as the UK. That said, there are a few things to note …
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:34 PM
1

You describe yourself as ugly, then spend the entire post talking about height. This is your problem, right there. You are possibly just on the short side for many girls, but I know a guy who is 5'5 but very good looking and well built (like fitness model built, not stupid OTT bodybuilder built) and gets endless women. It is about a combination of things, and the only thing you cannot change about yourself is your height (there's some mad operation but good luck ever being active again). Why are…
/r/askTRP05/11/20 08:26 PM
3

Stay home. If you want to make this about "red pill" then staying home is the alpha-male thing to do. Forget this "monk mode" bollocks, you're simply being a responsible adult doing the right thing at a time of crisis. You've got a plan, you've got things to keep you occupied. You're not going to be making any new connections or seeing your mates during a nationwide lockdown unless you're a coward.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 09:02 PM
2

Short answer, no and yes. Longer answer - some of the core philosophy behind the "red pill" thing, as in being your own man, taking care of your own house before you criticise others, being a genuinely self-sufficient person who is genuinely good to others and an asset to society, is indeed good. But a lot of the "red pill" stuff (including the awfully cringy name which I fucking hate) is pseudo-science bullshit. It also attracts a lot of incels who are looking for a quick fix without realising …
/r/askTRP30/10/20 08:18 PM
1

The VERY important thing here is to work out why. It's all well and good taking the advice someone else said about not giving a fuck, but while people who pick at others are indeed weak and rather pathetic, there's often a reason. If you are thin as a stick and someone calls you fat, they're obviously just mental or blind. But if you weigh 400lb and someone calls you fat, ok it's a bit harsh of them, but it's true. If people are insulting you and have no respect for you, 90% of the process of fi…
/r/askTRP30/10/20 08:00 PM
0

If you're good looking then Tinder, etc will work fine. If not, it won't, but neither will your social circle. And you mention in a reply you're getting a pro photoshoot done for Tinder. You might as well tattoo "rapist" across your forehead as it'll be just as helpful. Pro photoshoots scream "bot/catfish" and if you're not good looking are also obviously desperate and have the same effect. Continue working on your looks but the fact you have to ask this on here suggests there's bigger problems.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 07:55 PM
1

This is a psychological issue that will improve over time. I'd imagine there's plenty of advice of how to deal with it out there (never had the issue myself so not sure). Ignore the incoming posts from people about "no fap" or cutting porn. Unless you have an addiction to either this isn't the issue at all.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 05:56 PM
2

I'd say 90% of the way there in that case.
/r/askTRP28/10/20 01:13 PM
1

Haha, I was largely joking. A lot of stuff about earnings (Bateman) but also quite boring (Lumburgh), no offence meant man, just pulling your leg and glad you got the references! And yeah, in that case, can't you just move out? Rent somewhere that isn't ideal in the meantime knowing you'll be on a fucking wedge soon?
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:57 PM
1

Don't ask "what she thinks the chances are" just fucking ask her. If it's a no, move on. Don't waste time and seem like you're pulling your punches.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:55 PM
1

Oh right, my mistake then. In that case, fucking crack on. Don't waste time asking on here my man!
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:48 PM
2

There is a lot of incel shit on this sub, which is why I post here, to try and help these guys. I even hate the term "red pill" because although the core philosophy is fine the name is fucking cringe and there's a lot of pseudo-science bullshit associated with it. But you my man, are 100% on the money. The second, third, and fourth paragraphs of that post are "red pill" in a nutshell.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:41 PM
2

This is obviously a retarded answer to you asking a clear question, but what are your goals here? If you've plenty of other options and don't really care, just move on. If you like her and want to pursue it, just take back control. Maybe something like "cancel them, I'm taking you to (name of place)" - though worth noting this will only work depending on the type of girl she is. That could massively backfire, but what the fuck do you have to lose if you've plenty other options? Or just go silent…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:36 PM
1

Unless your parents are mental religious types or something, then no, why the fuck would you worry about that? You realize in the UK many people have to live with the parents until their 30s as our housing market is so fucked? You sound like a mixture of Patrick Bateman and Bill Lumburgh. Stop it.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:30 PM
2

The doubting thoughts and depression might be an issue to watch. Just keep an eye on it. Normally for guys with depression/anxiety/low mood/lack of drive or confidence I strongly recommend getting your testosterone levels checked because it's the key issue most of the time, but for a guy your age I'd suggest it's just growing pains. Asking on a "red pill" forum is a bit of a red flag, but as long as you don't get too drawn in, you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:27 PM
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Generally it's a very very bad idea to ask friends to ask a girl what they think about a guy. She knows they're yours friends, not hers, so it's so transparent. That said, it can be good to know. If you really want to take the risk I'd be incredibly careful. Get one of her friends, ideally a girl, to do it, and make sure she frames it in the middle of a list. So "what do you think about (one of your friends), and what about (another of your friends), and what about (you), or even (another of you…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:24 PM
2

If looks are an issue, just identify what/why and fix it. Job done. Like I say, thinking about women is normal, if it's an issue with focussing on your work, I'd say there's other issues to tackle.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 03:10 PM
1

Well looks wise you seem to be in a good place, though you still haven't said whether other people have commented on your looks and what they say. You've had girls in the past, so I can't imagine it's a major issue. 5'7 isn't as short as people make out on here. I know a guy, very good looking, who is 5'5 and goes through women like they're going extinct. And my apologies in that case, I've got it wrong. If you don't actively want to seek women and concentrate on your work (have I got that right…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:51 PM
2

No idea what SMV means, but you've done 90% of the work there by identifying your issues. When you say "short", how short? Because unless it's like 5'2 then women don't care. It's a myth. Like dick size, the only people who obsess over height are other guys. Muscle is fine, don't hyperfocus on abs though, no one care. Being good looking body-wise is about a balance of muscle all over, that "male fitness model" look. And also make sure your skin is good looking. Amazes me how many guys have great…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:32 PM
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I'd suggest you're a little too focussed on some of the pseudo-science "red pill" bullshit like nofap, PUA, etc and like you say - not actually helping yourself and identifying the problem. Are you going out there and socialising with women? And no, not in a PUA way, it doesn't work and you'll look like a weirdo creep. Watch any documentary on it. How is you social life? Many friends? Go out much? Do you actually interact with women in a normal everyday way? Are you on any dating apps? You don't…
/r/askTRP27/10/20 02:16 PM
1

If you're "vetting" a woman and indeed need to seek out help in doing so, you probably have more important questions you need to ask yourself.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 09:30 PM
2

I see the King of the Incels has graced us with his presence.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 08:03 PM
2

10-20 matches a week, with how much use? That's pretty damn high. I use Tinder (among various other apps) for about an hour every day, and I've had two matches in two years. Actually, about two years and six months now. I know why it is, I often get told I'm ugly, but I'm just fixing it (when this shit is over). If your looks are fine it does sound like a social issue. You're getting plenty of matches (I'd say that's actually way above average nowadays) but it's going no-where. I'm not saying to…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 01:15 PM
1

As much info as possible really, and remember the first step - be honest with yourself. Admit your failings. That's 90% of the way there. Are there reasons people might not like you? Are you arrogant? Narcissistic? Do you enter into arguments easily? There's a big difference between "standing up for yourself" if someone is being abusive towards you, but too many guys seems to think that being "alpha" is being an asshole who gives shit to everyone who doesn't agree with them. Being "alpha" is bei…
/r/askTRP25/10/20 01:13 PM
1

Granted yes, if you have a genuine addiction then it may be warranted, but I'd argue seeking psychological help and therapy is far more important.
/r/askTRP25/10/20 01:03 PM
0

There's probably WAY more to it than you're letting on, and probably goes back way past you drinking, smoking weed, etc. Giving up alcohol, weed, caffeine (if you're intolerant to it) is great regardless, but there's no way on earth it caused this alone. Giving up beating off is bad for you, and the whole "no fap" thing is total bullshit. The type of people who believe that crap leads me to think I know what the issue might be, I need more info though. You're giving us nothing to go on. You're d…
/r/askTRP24/10/20 08:11 PM
2

Well firstly you say you have ASD. I frequently use that or "autism" when giving guys advice on what their problem might be, but I never mean it offensively. It is literally a condition which affects social relationships and is extremely common in the kind of guy who posts on here, such as yourself. I'd personally put that as the root of the issue. I'd also suggest that your looks may be the issue. You've given me nothing to go on in that respect (you say you're decent looking, but Tinder is tou…
/r/askTRP24/10/20 08:08 PM
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Exactly. It's like height, something incels obsess over but women don't really give a shit about unless you're like, really short (or equally, really tall).
/r/askTRP24/10/20 07:00 PM
1

Wrong. You've been reading some troll graph on 4chan or reading shite printed in women's magazines.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 06:45 PM
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No, not at all. I'm 7' and if anything that's too big. By the time she sees it, it's a done deal anyway. Unless you have a micropenis, it isn't a problem. It's like the way girls worry about their labia. Why? By the time any guy sees it, it's already going to happen. If a girl takes her pants off and it looks like someone fired a shotgun through a butcher's window, guy's is still going in..
/r/askTRP24/10/20 05:30 PM
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How's your face, looks wise? How is your personality? Confidence? Style? Dress sense? Lift all you want, look like a Greek God, but if you're ugly, autistic, self-pitying, and dress like a 14 year old goth, then it'll make zero difference. Remember, it's about a combination of things.
/r/askTRP24/10/20 12:45 PM
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Do you want help or not? I don't give a fuck if you live or die, but if I can help an incel out of their pointless rut and give them a place on this planet, then I'm willing to try.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 11:42 PM
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That's an insane thing to say. You sound like an 80 year old grandmother. For the record, I don't have tattoos, am not a fan of them on women, but I'm also not out of touch with the real world.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:56 PM
1

You shouldn't have an issue with testosterone levels then, and as you're so young it points more towards performance anxiety and/or another psychological issue. If however you do get any signs of low test (they aren't what most guys imagine them to be) then definitely see a doctor and request a full blood hormone check.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 08:55 PM
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Well "loads of tattoos" is quite a distinctive look, but it doesn't really say anything about their personality. If they're a heavy drinker to the point of being an alcoholic, then I don't think anyone with half a brain should even need to ask.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:21 PM
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Read the sidebar. If you can work out the genuine good advice and tell it apart from the mad incel shit like the whole PUA crap, then you're 99% of the way there.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:20 PM
1

Probably psychological and it could be a multitude of reasons. I would advise getting a hormone level check though. How old are you?
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:10 PM
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This is pseudo-science bullshit, but assumed it would be in here...
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:09 PM
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Because whoever wrote that was probably an incel who doesn't live in the real world (book burning downvotes by incels incoming...) Plenty of girls have tattoos and drink and are perfectly normal and fine. Hell, most of this sub is guys just looking for casual sex, so even if the theory was true, it wouldn't be a problem. But it's just poor logic - I know loads of girls in long-term happy relationship (married with kids even) who drink and have tattoos, I know some girls who are just happy playin…
/r/askTRP23/10/20 07:08 PM
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It's generally referring to guys who are too muscular and go way overboard with it. A "well built" male-model type body is always going to be preferable over being skeletal or fat, for a majority of women. Just don't go too extreme with it. It's also largely something you can control and isn't genetic (a few contentious points aside). Whereas your facial structure is genetic, so plays a much bigger part. Height generally isn't an issue, and like dick size tends to be something incels obsess over…
/r/askTRP16/10/20 07:03 PM
2

Right, well this is progress, good progress. The KP, if it's not too bad and nothing can fix it, well, tough I suppose. You'll just have to live with it. The tan should help. Don't go overboard though, and make sure skin-care is on point or you'll just dry out, or conversely get even more blocked pores. Don't be scared of exfoliating and moisturising. The key thing in that post is you think you're a 4/10. This is telling, because it suggests it might all be in your head. I'm personally the oppos…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 08:00 PM
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Well we're getting somewhere now - a few minutes per week in a tanning booth could work wonders for little risk. That said, lots of good looking Irish fellas who have that pale look. Good work on the hair, ginger runs in my family and that was a massive bullet dodged. I mean, the Jewish side leading to my nose and jawline....but I digress. So is it literally just your skin? Nothing else facially? Large/humped nose? Weak jawline? Noticeable asymmetry? Prominent brow (that is a real tough one to f…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:48 PM
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Hmm, so you can tan? I know some people can't, and often people with that pale Irish skin just look awful when they try. What's your hair colour btw? I'm sure there's things you can do about skin texture, especially the blotches. That doesn't seem like something you just have to put up with. And yeah, tanning beds cause skin cancer, but in moderation they can work wonders and the risk is very low.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:39 PM
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Well without a photo (which I understand you wouldn't want to post) I've no idea, I'm just talking more in general as it's a BIG problem with people. The skin thing sounds off-putting if I'm honest (again, we're here to help and sorry to sound harsh, but honesty goes a long way and we're not a knitting-circle) but there must be something you can do about that. Why is it bad? In what way? Have you seen a dermatologist?
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:34 PM
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Agreed, if it is just his style then sure, that's obvious. By the same token if he's fat/skinny, that should be sorted before his face. If he's socially incredibly awkward and never goes out, that should take priority too. If he has bad personal hygiene, again, simple easy fix that should be taken care of right away. But if he is ugly as he describes, then nothing can hide that. It's just basic biology. I don't see why people have such a phobia of admitting it. I know this sub is obsessed with "…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:31 PM
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Well how bad is your face? Do you get any interest/positive response from girls at all? Do they call you ugly/unattractive, or are you imagining it (I should have asked that in my original post, as it's very important)? Why settle for "low hanging fruit"? I mean, if you're happy with that, fine. Depending on what's wrong with your face, then it could be easy. Cosmetic surgery is like getting a new hairstyle these days. And absolutely - your style, social abilities (or "game" as some people call …
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:28 PM
1

Sorry, but while this is good advice, facial looks mean a lot. Denying this is incel talk. You cannot argue with 200 million years of evolution.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:22 PM
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First step - admit it and recognise it. Well done. The major problem with incels is they are ugly, but blame "all women" and "society" instead of recognising it's their problem to fix. You're 99% of the way to fixing it because you haven't fallen into that nasty hole. Second step - what's wrong with your face? Have you been told? Got a consultation? Posted on a cosmetic/plastic surgery sub? This is extremely important. Third step - get it fixed. Unless you're the elephant man and literally spend…
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:21 PM
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That's exactly my point.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 12:43 AM
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This is the problem though. The fact you're saying things like " still in my beginnings of being Redpilled" makes it seem like some sort of cult. You're 100% right - the whole "red pill" thing is extremely helpful towards men who were previously incels/losers because it's just a way to bring them into normality and teach them that the world doesn't revolve around you, you have to either work with society or simply opt out. This is why I'm so passionate about it, because I just want to help guys …
/r/askTRP08/09/20 01:01 AM
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If you're seriously using terms like "red pilled" and "blue pilled" then I doubt you'll find someone to settle down with and I seriously hope you don't have kids. If however you're using those terms properly as a jokey/shorthand reference to the difference between "using common sense" (the so-called "red pill") and "being an incel loser" (the so-called "blue pill") then I don't see why you're asking? Like I say, it's common sense. If you're a normal balanced person who is good with other people,…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 10:25 PM
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Without wanting to sound too "woke" (and in fact it's quite the opposite) I don't see what being black has to do with anything. Lots of people, from all races, have abusive upbringings. The key is moving on in life, being independent, recognising that your mother's behaviour is abusive and not doing the same thing (and avoiding people who are like that). The fact you recognise her behaviour was abusive and wrong means you're 99% of the way there. You'll go far.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 10:21 PM
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Well indeed, but surely a thyroid issue would present other problems he'd be aware of? And yes, it affects appetite and to an extent metabolism, but while that explains why he isn't eating enough, he's still not eating enough. I'm right with you btw on getting bloodwork done. I did, low test. Took test, anxiety and panic attacks vanished and I could finally eat properly. The results spoke for themselves.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 09:42 PM
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Well firstly stop using terms like "red pill philosophy" "alpha" and "game" seriously - "red pill" is just a collection of common sense designed to help losers/incels get out of their rut. Some of it is pseudo-science bullshit, but a lot of it is just...well, common sense. Taking it too seriously and treating it like a religion or a way of life isn't going to get you anywhere. Secondly, physical attraction is WAY more important than incels like to make out (because of course, that would mean tak…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 08:53 PM
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Count your calories. You aren't eating enough. If you genuinely were eating over-maintenance and still aren't gaining weight, you don't need to see a doctor, you need to see a group of world-leading scientists, because you have some unique genetic mutation that could solve all sorts of things like wasting diseases and world hunger. But that isn't going to happen, because you aren't eating enough. If you're struggling to eat enough through stuff like anxiety or panic attacks, get your testosteron…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 08:34 PM
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Because you're confusing "normal woman" with this pseudo-idea of a "feminist". Thinking that you can "lead" a woman demonstrates that you don't often interact with people in general, nevermind women.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 12:40 AM
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Of course there is, 100%. But that doesn't really answer my question. Not that you're obliged to of course, I'm just interested. The whole "cold approach on a non-dating app" thing is tried and tested. Like I say, normally ugly losers who just look like total creeps. I'm just interested as to how you've ever made it work, because assuming you're not lying, it's definitely because you're good looking.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 10:26 PM
-2

This is pure incel in the way you're thinking. No wonder you're asking such questions on here.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 10:23 PM
-3

Well I'm not a woman so I'm not sure how I can be? And "driven" is 100% a feminine trait. A woman who knows what she wants from life and works hard to achieve it. Be it a career, a good man beside her, raising children, or all three. Look at some of the hottest (famous) women on the planet. All of them are fucking driven and worked hard to achieve what they did. Being hot helped of course (as it equally does for men) but you could be the best looking person on the planet and if you just sit in y…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:20 PM
1

Just out of sheer interest I'd love to know what you look like mate. Because IG isn't a dating app, and as we see on some hilarious subs on here, girls are inundated with ugly loser incels messaging random shit all the time, so for that to work (and you say you have a lot of followers) you're either very good looking, or famous. I really wouldn't fucking worry my man. I use Tinder (and several others) every day for three years now. Two matches. I know it's because I'm ugly and it's all cool beca…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:17 PM
2

Would be interested to know the country? This happens everywhere, but is about as rare as being hit by lightning. I'm going to bet that you don't often get a woman, if at all, and you're making shitty excuses for not trying.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:14 PM
6

When you've fucked up and should have the fucking common sense to admit it. I mean, I wonder how some of you guys manage to plug a computer in without electrocuting yourselves...
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:12 PM
2

Well, it's the golden-rule that whenever you say "men/women do this" about either, it normally applies to the opposite too. There's not as much difference between the two as incels/hardline "feminists" (who are basically incels) like to make out. So it's just general human traits that are desirable in men or women. Being a decent, caring, confident, self-assured, driven, etc, etc, individual who doesn't possess any poor traits that both men and women can possess, such as being needy, whiny, self…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:11 PM
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If at the age of 34 you're having to ask a "red pill" sub for this kind of advice, I'd suggest you've bigger problems. I mean, just play it by ear and see how it goes? If you end up "making out" again (sorry, as I'm British that expression makes me cringe) then you could probably just use the age-old "want to come back for coffee?" line and you'll be golden.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:08 PM
0

Alternatively to my suggestion, try what this guy says with his "red pill" terminology. I mean to be fair man, a scan through your profile suggests you know your shit when it comes to playing the field, no denying that. But this guy is in a long-term thing. At no point did he suggest he should just break up with her. Not everyone wants to just treat fucking women like some sort of game.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:05 PM
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"Should I accept that my girlfriend has a life outside of me and doesn't just do everything I want at my command" Jesus dude, sort your shit out. Having to ask this on a "red pill" sub I'm stunned you got this far.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 09:02 PM
0

That isn't OCD, though there are elements there. Well done for getting it largely right though as it fucking annoys me (even as someone who doesn't suffer from it) that "OCD" is used as shorthand for "keeping your fucking house/car/workspace clean like a normal functioning human". Turning to god (even though it's totally fine if that's your thing) shouldn't be the be-all-and-end all. I don't want to come across like some autistic atheist, but at the end of the day you'll still be left with unans…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:59 PM
-2

Unless you're skeletal thin or morbidly obese, your body doesn't mean much. Sure, being muscular and having that "male model" look massively helps. on't go too far, most girls don't like the huge body builder type, and ffs take care of your skin. I know loads of guys who put decent effort in at the gym, even used steroids (as do I) but they're pasty and pale with shit skin care. Don't tan until you're like leather, and there's nothing "gay" about moistorising. But the MASSIVE thing most guys ove…
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:55 PM
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> post not much longer than the instructions on a microwave meal. "An essay"
/r/askTRP31/08/20 10:24 PM
1

Well, I stand corrected because I made an error - "game" as in the concept of being confident, out-going, charming, funny, etc around women is indeed important. Incredibly important. But I'm specifically referring to the PUA shit and their version of "game" in which some ugly loser is taught that if he "just acts confident bro and stand out from the pack!" he'll be fine. He won't. I admit it does sometimes happen that an unattractive guy can get a good looking woman through his personality alone…
/r/askTRP26/08/20 04:38 PM
2

Something (as per fucking usual....) that people are missing entirely with this. Height matters no where NEAR as much as guys like to think. It's such an incel trait worrying about height. Like dick size - girls don't care. Like others have said, it's about personality, confidence, a decent body, oh and the one thing morons on this sub conveniently miss out all the time - being good looking. However it can help a bit with confidence around other men. Just a little internal boost to put you that …
/r/askTRP26/08/20 08:56 AM
1

Well tough shit. If you're going to play the game you need to roll with the punches. I realise this, and my first reply, sounds harsh, but we're on this sub to help each other out. We're not a knitting circle. You're in a good position compared to most guys, me included if I'm honest. Be thankful for what it is and move on.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 08:32 AM
1

Well you're on a "red pill" forum using autistic terms like "plate" and "shit test" which while they make sense, suggests you're taking this WAY too fucking seriously. So you're probably coming across as a dick and it's no wonder she's questioning you. If she's not important to you, get rid. I assume you've plenty of others on the go, or is this the only one and there's a sub-text going on here?
/r/askTRP25/08/20 08:03 PM
2

You're an idiot then. Basic Googling would tell you that's bang on average. In fact, I think 5.2 is average, so you're slightly over. Also, unless you have a micropenis (like, under 2 inches and basically non-functioning) girls do not give a shit about dick size. Only men care about penis size. Much the same way only girls care about their labia. As men we know that once you're in a position you've seen what it looks like, you ain't backing out. Even if you get a girl's pants off and it looks li…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:30 PM
1

If you're literally putting yourself out there and getting no attention, then you're probably not as good looking as you think. I'd bet money on that being the answer.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 08:30 PM
1

Well you're clearly a pathetic incel loser who can only cope by blaming society/everyone else rather than getting your own house in order first. We're willing to help, but you need to be able to accept your problems and be capable of some cognitive reasoning first.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:26 PM
1

But you're in the US though? Surely your doctor has to abide by their rules, and cannot recommend something that is strangely illegal in US law?
/r/askTRP17/08/20 04:41 PM
1

Hmm, stacks up. But worth remembering that not only does American have a third-world healthcare system based on profit and selling drugs, you guys also have a wildly bizarre attitude towards anabolics. The fact they're illegal to even posses seems insane to us. The use of testosterone to treat things like depression, anxiety, etc in men is being widely studied in developed countries like the UK. My GP is fully behind it and gives regular blood-work. All checks out.
/r/askTRP17/08/20 04:34 PM
1

I'm guessing as well as being an incel, you're also a brainwashed yank?
/r/askTRP17/08/20 04:32 PM
1

If you're low test, the standard medical cure recommended by doctors is to inject testosterone. I'd be interested to see a metastudy which disproves that point. Clomiphene increases estrogen, and yes what you're saying seems to make sense, but surely it's easier and safer to just use testosterone in the first place? As it happens, after my first "cycle" my test levels naturally rebounded. It's rare but my doctor said it can happen. May I ask what country you're in btw?
/r/askTRP17/08/20 04:21 PM
1

That's a ridiculous incel way of thinking, that's like saying if you're diabetic it's "over for you".
/r/askTRP17/08/20 04:18 PM
2

My point is you're missing the main idea and going down incel rabbit holes. I could have got this wrong, but the last bit about "not giving a fuck about anything else" kind of sounds like just giving up and going crazy, which is a danger with this "red pill" bullshit. The fact is, these ideas about being ugly, boring, and the criticisms associated with them were not trivial or bullshit at all. They are things you need to fix in order to function in society and be successful. Don't like it? Fine.…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 01:00 AM
1

Well my man, that's exactly my point. What's the point of your existence on this planet? To be happy and enjoy yourself. No matter how you do it, the end result is always the same. You can take the whole "playing the game" shit to it's end degree and become a billionaire with a hot young wife who is also president, or you could be my fucking neighbour - looks like he's got Downs Syndrome but is intelligent, happy, got everything he wants, decent job, house is a shit-hole, but he doesn't care, it…
/r/askTRP17/08/20 12:52 AM
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Funnily enough, I clicked this thread to make a comment similar to the one I'm about to make, but you've crystallised it for me - Firstly, I'm not sure what the difference is between "red pill" and "blue pill" - I know they're coping phrases for incels that are cringy as fuck, but the reason I like this sub is it is "red pill" in name, but largely full of guys trying to get other guys away from that stupid childish incel way of thinking. And that's my point - WHY were you happier and generally l…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 10:04 PM
1

If you've got low test levels (which you display some of the symptoms of) the only cure is to inject test. It's simple, safe, cheap (possibly free depending on where you live), perfectly legal (provided you live in a developed country), and incredibly effective. For some people, me included, it was life-changing. Go to a doctor, get your levels checked. Nothing can naturally increase your test levels by more than a negligible amount. If you're low-test, you're low test. It's like a diabetic aski…
/r/askTRP16/08/20 08:05 PM
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The first and fourth point are generally good for your health anyway, so highly advised. They might increase your test levels, but only by a negligible amount. No Fap is pseduo-science bullshit. Cold showers will increase adrenaline, but will have no effect on test production.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 08:03 PM
9

I sometimes wonder how some of the people on this sub survived this long without accidentally drinking something poisonous or walking into busy traffic....
/r/askTRP15/08/20 06:12 PM
1

Well try not to over-think it and worry about these things. I mean, if you're just venting on here then that's all good - I vent about loads of stuff on Reddit I don't speak about in real life. You wouldn't think I was political if you met me in person. But if you're speaking like your first post in real life people are quickly going to dislike you and think you're weird.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 04:49 PM
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And how are you doing relationship wise? You mention and "critique" everyone else's around you, but I see no mention of your own. Firstly, you're taking this WAY to seriously. The whole "red pill" thing is just a collection of advice (:some good, some pseudo-science incel bullshit) that is meant to help out losers. Taking the idea of "red pill" being a philosophy to live your life by is insane. Not a criticism, more an observation, but what you're saying, and the way you say it, sounds like you'…
/r/askTRP15/08/20 02:50 PM
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It's also a myth that its from your mother's side. Can be on either side.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 12:33 PM
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Excellent glad to help, but I don't know you, will never meet you, so it's up to you now - you have to make sure you follow that advice. As for the last question, I'm glad I asked - low mood, your body shape (skinny fat) fatigue, and getting mad for no reason all point towards low testosterone. Contrary to popular belief, low test is more likely to make you pissed off for no reason ("roid rage" is a myth and if anything testosterone chills you out and you let shit slide -angry roid heads are jus…
/r/askTRP08/08/20 03:06 PM
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Obviously this is a troll post but that aside, what we have here is a "reverse incel" - someone who isn't an ugly cunt who manages to get women all the time, but is still a toxic loser who has somehow managed to become an incel despite getting laid regularly. Look and learn guys - if you don't see the lesson in this satire, then you're fucked.
/r/askTRP07/08/20 01:00 AM
2

She has a boyfriend, leave it. It is possible to stay friends with a girl if you genuinely want to, but if you're feeling like this it's just going to affect you. Move on and stop whinging.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:19 PM
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Well this is your problem, and why a lot of people on this sub (along with parts of the whole "red pill" thinking) are making this WAY more difficult than it needs to be. The only way you'll be a "beta" is if you don't make a fucking decision and continue to fuck people around, including I should add, yourself. Do you need/want this drama? No. So stop it.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:17 PM
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Well try it, then if it doesn't work, end it. Just don't fuck her about. Unless you live in a big city with friends who don't really know each other, the fact you're a cheater with multiple women on the go will soon get around, then you could be fucked. It's not rocket science, I'm not sure why you're asking us. You don't need our validation.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:06 PM
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Or you know, do both. 45 mins in the gym 3-4 times a week on light weights to get his form good is something he can do to start with. No one is suggesting he jump right into Arnie's Blueprint for Mass or Dorian's Blood & Guts (which is fucking brilliant when you're on gear incidentally).
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:05 PM
1

There's no such thing as an "ectomorph" - stop spreading bullshit pseudo-science that was debunked decades ago. (Though in your defence, this has stubbornly stuck around and is still taught in some schools amazingly)
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:03 PM
1

Firstly - everyone is basically doing what you've said is confusing you. Everyone's response on here is right, but the multiple options out there make it confusing. Important thing to note is - they all work. 99% of sorting your problem out is simple - Lift weights, consistently (3-4 times a week), with progressive overload (adding weight each time, even if a tiny increment, progress is progress), and do so safely by making sure your form is decent. Doesn't matter which "beginner" routine you do…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:01 PM
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So do you want a long term thing or not? IF you do, you need to accept that you can't have other women on the go. Again, weak behaviour. If you don't, or you still want multiple women on the go at once, let it go. It's just a toxic situation to be in.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 07:50 PM
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I'd probably reword that title mate... Haha Anyway, if she wants a long-term thing and you don't, fucking end it. The whole "red pill" thing (as much as I hate the name) is about being a good person - both to yourself by achieving success (whether that's with women, wealth, job, social life, family, etc) and by being a good person to others. Fucking women around because you don't want to admit defeat is weak behaviour. Assuming you aren't bullshitting us and you do have other options, then why d…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 07:47 PM
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Well assuming that's true, it's the same. There's far less difference between men and women that incels like to imagine. Think of any stereotype about "men" or "women" - a lot of the time they are actually true, but also apply to the opposite sex too.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 07:42 PM
1

Why, what would you need doing? And yeah, you'll get downvoted for some things on here because although the sub is anti-incel by nature (we're trying to help them out) a lot of incels are on here as a result and they HATE the suggestion that it might be your own problem. They have an obsession with blaming everyone else.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 01:43 PM
1

Aren't they quite hot on it? I know in the UK that people have lost friends, or been in your situation, because they've been basically ignoring the lockdown rules.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 06:42 PM
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It's "beta" to use the term "beta" if that makes sense? Stop being a whiny pussy about it. If you miss her and are genuinely being nice, and its in the context of regular messaging/calls with a girl who is as into you as you are them, then it's perfectly normal and you shouldn't need to ask. The fact you're asking leads me to suspect she's not really into you, you don't communicate often, and you're just going to come across as needy. We need more info in short.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 11:09 PM
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PUA is largely bullshit. There's a tiny bit of sense to it in that it can teach people with zero idea how to approach women how to speak to other people, but it normally goes WAY too far. There's no need for stupid psuedo-psychological "tricks" and most of the time the guys just look like total creeps and are more likely to put women off. A lot of stuff you see on Youtube is set up anyway, or out of a few hundred women they've sent running, they'll cherry pick the ones who showed/feigned some va…
/r/askTRP29/07/20 11:07 PM
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I know we can't link to subs, but can you name names? I'm going to say they probably at least gave your posts a cursory look-over first and decided to ban you as a result.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 10:31 PM
1

Hmm, if you were regularly organising things during lockdown (what country are you in?) then that could well explain it
/r/askTRP29/07/20 07:30 PM
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Autistic Spectrum Disorder. It seems very common in this sub.
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:28 PM
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There are likely one of two things going on here, probably both - You're literally on a sub with "red pill" in the name asking this. There's probably an element of ASD about your personality. Not a criticism, just an observation. Look into it, work it out. You have close friends in this group? If they're close, ask them in private. They'll tell you what the problem is. Some sort of confirmation bias. How often do you go out but x, y, or z from the same group isn't there? How often do you go out …
/r/askTRP29/07/20 12:44 AM
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You have my utmost respect. A lot of this sub is incel shit, but a lot of it (the good side) is guys laying down some harsh truths, which is what this is really about. He won't bother though, you're wasting your breath. Looking for pseudo-science and quick-fixes rather than actually making any effort.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 01:14 AM
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> I'm not fat so I can't be that unattractive. I think this might be key. As ever, all the replies are pointing out personality, and they are probably right to an extent, but ignoring looks. BIG problem with the whole "Red Pill" community is ignoring looks. You don't need to be fat to be ugly. If you're a 10/10 looks wise but also a dribbling creepy serial killer with severe autism, then people won't realise that for a short while at least. It's probably your personality too, but the fact you sp…
/r/askTRP26/07/20 12:15 AM
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I agree with this in parts, but that's largely my point - that's quite a one-sided view of the situation. I know you qualify that with "not all women" and yes, some are guilty of that, but so are many men. This is a lot less "men vs women" than most people think.
/r/askTRP25/07/20 11:41 PM
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Never heard of it, but you've probably got a point. I generally dislike the "difference between men and women" crap people spout, as generally it's incel thinking and these things, while often true, apply to both men and women depending on the person. What I will say though is that I like to think the big positive of this sub is that most of us are happy to give people uncomfortable truths. We aren't just being "nice" for the sake of it. If someone needs to be told it's because they're ugly, or …
/r/askTRP25/07/20 04:19 PM
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Possibly. I'd only want to try it if there's a high chance it's going to work. Put it this way, you don't have to go to that gym or go at that time, but if it was a rejection, would it make your workouts uncomfortable or awkward if you did still keep seeing each other there? If you can deal with that possibility, or you're happy to change gym/time you go, then you've nothing to lose. The whole "shitting where you eat" thing is normally used for a job situation, where short of quitting your job, …
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:04 PM
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You probably have an unhealthy obsession with working out and need to address that.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 11:56 AM
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You are basically the epitome of an incel, so the first step is to work out why. I'm guessing you're getting a lot of rejection, and there's normally two main reasons - You're not attractive. Fix that. From the way you write I'd guess you have some sort of social-disability. It's easy to say some sort of ASD, but that's the most likely cause. You can work on that too. The most important thing to remember that this is a YOU problem, and society will never bow down to you, nor should it. You eithe…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 11:51 AM
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I'm sure the incels will be out in force with all sorts of ideas about "game" and pseudo-science to "trick" women into being interested, but as you say - these guys aren't dribbling socially-awkward losers. They have decent social skills and get reject before they really get a chance to use them - be it on Tinder or in real life. The fact is, looks are very important, and THAT is the biggest "red pill" people need to swallow. As someone who is in a similar position, the only advice I can give is…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 11:29 AM
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Fair enough, makes sense. I just see some people using them too much like they're real terms with rigid definitions. And good call to be fair.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:14 PM
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Ahh, if you're in the UK, pub work. Like a nice place that does food, popular so they're not empty all the time and running minimal staff. Bar work is decent enough, but often late hours and you'll be working your bollocks off so won't get to really chat to the others. Then by the time you shut, everywhere else has too. Pub work is great because there's often quieter times so you develop good camaraderie with the staff. If you're near a decent town with pubs/bars that stay open later, the sugges…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:05 PM
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Fucking hell, stop over-thinking. A lot of the advice on here is good, but some of it is total crap, plus guys take it WAY too seriously. It's a general guide for you to work out what does work and what doesn't, not some cult where we'll come and kill you if you get it wrong. Firstly, chill out. Stop thinking about crap like "frame". You got a date with this girl, she's obvious keen, she just doesn't like pool. Will it kill you not to play pool? No. Just suggest something else and maintain "cont…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:52 PM
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Well you've plenty of time, and you have some healthy hobbies. I'd suggest not many girls in those situations though? Do you go out much? I'd maybe suggest getting work in a bar or something, always a good way to meet people and make a group of friends, well, at least in the UK anyway so I'd assume it's the same wherever you are.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 07:03 PM
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I'd generally say its better to experience social situations and grow naturally rather than rely on a book. It's a learned rather than a taught behaviour, if that makes sense? What do you do for work? Any hobbies? How old are you?
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:44 PM
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Well it sounds like she just wasn't into your personality or some other shit came up, I wouldn't over-worry about it. It happens, move on, improve. Was she hot, and do you get lots of matches on these apps? If so, you're ahead of a majority on here. A small tip from me would be to stop using terms like "alpha" and "beta" as while I'm sure you didn't in front of her, that's incel talk.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:10 PM
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You're probably overthinking it, but go to a doctor just in case. Any other issues?
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:08 PM
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How old are you? I'd perhaps look into a medical reason why (see a doctor) as it could be something that can be fixed. Is it really obvious or are you just over-hyping it in your mind?
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:45 PM
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In what context? In a dating app, etc it just means she wants something casual, not a serious thing. In other contexts it could genuinely just mean she doesn't want anyone. Why must you incels turn everything into such a drama?
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:43 PM
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Your original post says - I did one approach before it became impossible due to the virus So you approached one recently, I meant over your whole life. You still haven't answered whether you've ever approached women or asked any out before? The fact you're getting so angry and refusing to answer suggests the answer is no. You then dismiss the rest of my advice and continue to act like a whiny incel. I'm not having a go, we're here to help you, but this is my point - you need to be willing to ans…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:41 PM
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> girls care a whole lot about personality and bonding. No, HUMANS care about personality and bonding. Much as they care about looks. This is perfectly natural and normal and something good to work with. If you're pulling loads of girls really easily on apps you must be good looking (well done btw, that is something to be proud of) but if you're struggling to make any connection then I'd suggest you need to work heavily on your social skills. Do you have a good circle of friends? Are you able to…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:32 PM
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Well, not being able to make eye contact is a sign of autism, and like you say, holding eye contact for too long is also a sign of autism. Like with many things in this sub, my only advice is "don't worry about it, just act normal"
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:29 PM
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So in your life, you've only ever approached one woman? And it went "OK" - what? Did you get a number? Have you been talking since. And this is exactly what I mean by "telling" - the fact you fly off the handle because you get advice that is something you don't want to hear, leads me to think that you're going to come across like the guy in this video, and as I say, that's the LAST thing you need. The fact you say "I'm not looking for any validation from you" when you asked this sub for advice a…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 05:26 PM
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This pretty much sums up why the whole "PUA" shit is utter nonsense simply designed to fleece money out of losers. Some of the basic philosophies make sense, but generally just "being normal" is enough. This guy is going way too hard. You can tell he's a bit autistic by his voice, and by the looks on their faces, I'd also guess he's ugly. Every incel even vaguely considering looking into the PUA thing should watch this and learn. As for you u/stenay - What is your success rate? What is the respo…
/r/askTRP22/07/20 04:29 PM
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Face is way more important than "being jacked" and generally if you're too muscular it'll put women off. Guys who are obsessed with the gym rather than treating it as a tool often have very poor social skills too.
/r/askTRP22/07/20 04:17 PM
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You miss out something important - how good looking is he? You say "normal looking" I bet he's pretty good looking. This is what so many incels (not saying you are one, just a common theme in this sub) fail to understand. A lot of the philosophy here is helpful and has good grounding, but a lot of it is trying to make up for being physically unattractive by using pseudo-science crap. If the guy is hot, he'll still pull chicks. If he's being a bitch (or letting this girl treat him like one) then …
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:24 PM
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Context? I mean, if it's a really rough violent town and you're known as a pedo, then I'd say that's wise. Or on the flip-side it could be in your head and not something people really think about.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 07:13 PM
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Haha, well there we are then. Maybe I'm wrong, a while since I've been around there, but isn't your "gene pool" ridiculously high quality, like you mention with LA? For those unaware, Alderley Edge is a town in Cheshire (East) in the UK which along with Wilmslow and Prestbury is the most expensive place to buy property outside of London. As a result, loads of rich kids who look good. Now sure, if you pop up the road the other way into Wythenshawe, a few "hot but slaggish" chav girls aside, most …
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:30 PM
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What's this for? I'm going to assume Tinder/other dating/hookup apps. Some VERY important rules to bear in mind (this is from both a pro photographer, and a guy who is often called ugly, so I have experience on both sides!) Cameras on phones, especially if its a selfie, wildly distort your face. Like, a lot. So avoid. A pro portrait photog will use a 135mm or even a 200mm lens from about 10-15ft away. That's the sweet spot. Jamming a really wide angle lens inches from your face isn't good. Now g…
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:23 PM
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Well that's 20kg, or just over 3 stone. If it was all muscle then yeah, that's a BIG drop and might explain it. If you were hench as fuck before and now a little skinny (or worse, the dreaded skinny-fat look) then that's reasonable of them. However if not, especially if you lost 3 stone of fat (which would make you better looking in most cases), then it's probably just a culture shock and it's largely in your head. East Asian cultures like that are generally very polite, so you probably just wer…
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:08 PM
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It's a false perception, and I imagine you're getting it from porn. Nothing wrong with porn BTW in my view - the no-fap thing is utter bullshit and unless you've got an actual porn addiction, it isn't a problem, but I digress. It's the same reason Americans think UK girls are all uggos with bad teeth - because there's no British porn industry and the only British porn is disgusting crack-addict prostitutes filmed in the 90s. The reality away from porn, TV, music, film etc in America is that most…
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:03 PM
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They could well be, but at the moment burden of proof is on those making the claims to provide evidence. And there is none.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 03:25 PM
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Because science isn't a "religion" it's just facts that you can choose not to accept but they're still true, This is the problem with incels - they think the world bows to them. The truth doesn't care what you think. That's the point of the whole "red pill" philosophy - get with the program if you want to succeed. You're free to ignore it, but that's your choice. Things won't change to match you, you have to change to match the natural order of things. Sorry, but that's the way life goes.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 01:48 AM
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NoFap is pseudo-science bullshit. In fact, it isn't even pseudo-science because it would have to have some scientific base for that to be the case. And don't refer to women as "females" makes you sound like an incel.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 08:39 PM
1

I mean, that's great to hear to be honest, because although I know it's not full-blown scoliosis that needs surgery or something, it shows that "an imperfect spine" can lead to chest pain.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 01:09 AM
1

You should know better, women are most honest with themselves when they're around each other and feel comfortable about speaking their mind. They are as visual as we are. Maybe to an extent, but also like guys they like to one-up each other and look like they're striving for protection. I'm sure they'd prefer a 6'2 guy given the theoretical choice, but when it comes down to it, that's often way down the list. I'm over 6ft but a shorter good looking guy will obviously always win out. The obvious …
/r/askTRP14/07/20 04:13 PM
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The vast majority of the time height is just something women talk about to/in front of other women. Who doesn't have access to surgery? If they're living in a country with no access to surgery, they have bigger problems and won't be reading this due to no internet access either. I see what you mean on the eyes now, my apologies. I assume there's a fix for that too. The whole "frame" thing in terms of skeleton is just shitty excuses, unless you're deformed then it's just the result of poor traini…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:30 PM
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But they also think that women should ignore that and be attracted to them regardless.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:25 PM
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Yeah, my spine doesn't curve that badly.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:24 PM
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Then fix it.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 12:24 PM
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I note not one fucking person in this thread so far has mentioned the most important thing, the thing incels always miss - facial aesthetics. The human brain is incredibly sensitive to minor things in the face. I'm not saying you should get loads of surgery and end up looking like one of those nutters who sits on daytime TV saying "I want to look like Justin Beiber" while actually looking like a serious burns vitcim. This is something that is a serious flaw with the whole "Red Pill" philosophy -…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:23 AM
0

Why are incels so obsessed with height? Unless you're something like 5'4 then girls don't give a shit. Even then, I've known guys who are good looking and still get loads of girls despite being "short". In order - - Recessed chin: You can fix that VERY easily with surgery. - Bug eyes: As above. Though most of the time it's simply poor skincare. - Balding: You can easily fix that with hair transplants. - Narrow frame: Need clarification on this. Is this the retarded version of "frame" in terms of…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:18 AM
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Sorry, but while a decent squat and deadlift form is fantastic in terms of physical development (and so many gym-rats neglect this) you have summed up the whole way guys miss the point of the "Red Pill" philosophy by concentrating on something totally irrelevant to what this guy is saying. I know guys who can DL and squat to near strongman-contest level but still act like a "a little bitch, unconfident, spergy, butthurt, or thirsty". I also know guys who've never so much as looked at a 5kg dumbb…
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:14 AM
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This is gold, a big thing I need to get sorted. I mean, major facial surgery is also on the cards, but I have slouched shoulders and serious chest pain (heart, lungs, cancer, etc all been ruled out) and I know it's a back issue.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:11 AM
2

Well you don't need to be "loud" and if by small talk you mean "forced conversation to keep it going" then that's a waste of your time anyway. If you can just be normal and attract some interest in girls, then socially you're fine. If they're rejecting you based on looks, then you need to work out why this is specifically. How often do you approach and speak to women in a social setting?
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:26 PM
1

Right, this makes more sense now. Surely you could only get away with this being on small caloric deficit though?
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:24 PM
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Well trust me, if you were ugly, you'd know. Do you approach women, are you good in terms of social skills? I suffer from Reverse Body Dysmorphia, whereby I think I'm very good looking (to the point I've been perplexed as to why modelling agencies turn me down) but often get told I'm ugly. I'm great in terms of confidence and social life, but girls will just tell me, with varying degrees of politeness, that I'm "not attractive enough". I take it well though, as it is what it is. At no point have…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:19 PM
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I'd like a source on that - you must be getting the muscle from somewhere? I agree that tren is extremely efficient and can indeed alter your metabolic rate to the point you think you're in a deficit but actually aren't. But like I say, I cannot see how a drug, as amazing as Tren is, being able to break the laws of physics.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:13 PM
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Are you actually ugly? If YOU think you're ugly and no one else does, then you might have body dysmorphia. If you get told often that you're ugly, then you probably are. It is important to clarify this first. Essentially though (if we assume the latter is true, and of course if it isn't for you, it is for many) then yes, looks are extremely important. Obviously personality is important too, but at first you only have looks to go on. I'd note that confidence/assertiveness and arrogance are very d…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:09 PM
1

Even when using steroids you still need excess calories to gain weight, steroids just mean you utilise those calories better. Steroids, as bloody good as they are, cannot break the laws of thermodynamics.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 05:03 PM
1

I think you should look up what these terms mean, as autistic as they are.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:11 PM
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If you, and commenters on this thread, consider a piercing or a tattoo a "red flag" then you're socially retarded. Again, this isn't a knitting circle, it's time for harsh truths to help you out. I mean, if she's literally more metal than flesh, then that's a bit odd, but asking people on the internet rather than, you know, actually fucking talking to her like a functioning human being, is probably your issue, not hers.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:39 AM
0

Not enough information. I don't know what "low smv" means (cannot be fucked learning this incel bullshit terminology) but I'm guessing it means one of two things - You're fucking hogs and your friends are just having a laugh. In which case, they're not the issue (and this an important theme) it's whether you're just settling for less and not happy with it. You like these girls and your friends are just losers (see the them now?) with some ridiculous ideal of what you could achieve and just takin…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:36 AM
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Averagely good looking, making a "Youtube video" which gets attention, a lot of the fake shouting and hype that surrounds that. Yep, they basically sum up "game" in that you can be the centre of attention in a group of people by making you the focus, but that means fuck all in terms of actual success.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:32 AM
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Yup, it's TRP all over - a not particularly attractive guy over-analysing everything about things most successful guys would consider totally arbitrary to the point they'd not even think about it.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 12:29 AM
1

Exactly, that's why I said "a quick Google search" as in "I could well be wrong as I've not read it properly". It was a caveat. But that said, this seems to tally in with what various reviewers and critics wrote about it. And my points about the Red Pill in general are views I've formed from reading a lot about it.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:54 PM
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Haven't heard of him but a quick Google suggests that he kind of sums up the Red Pill philosophy - a guy with his heart in the right place who makes some very valid points and teaches excellent philosophies, but it is lapped up by the wrong crowd. A guy who is good looking, intelligent, with a good personality, etc doesn't need such advice. An ugly incel loser could benefit from properly taking it on board, but all too often it's taken as an easy fix and they'll just twist it to fit their own ag…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 03:12 AM
2

Don't think we can direct link to subs, but Stocks is a good one. Also similar to this sub in that it's full of people asking stupid questions that could be worked out with some common sense, people panicking over nothing, people who think they know everything and berate people for asking questions, and fortunately, people who know what they're talking about and offer genuine good advice.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:11 PM
1

Night and day. However only if you're actually low-test. I was the same as OP - "normal" by NHS levels, but they take it from a cross-section of the population so you don't get TRT if you're low for your age but still "within range". I was planning on injecting anyway, due to "not being able to put on weight" but when I read up on low-test, my jaw hit the floor. I knew that I simply didn't eat enough - the bullshit skinny guys give you about "I eat loads but I never gain!" is no different to a f…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 12:53 AM
51

When people, especially guys, get funny about guys dating girls younger than them, it always rings alarm bells for me. A case of "methinks the lady doth protest too much". In other words, even if you're in your late 20s/early 30s and dating say, a 20 year old, and someone gets really defensive and angry over it saying it's wrong, that person probably needs their hard drives checking....
/r/askTRP30/06/20 06:16 PM
5

Is this everything in the conversation? Anything before or after? Very hard to tell without context. What does jump out though, is that it's a bit....fedora-ish. If you get what I mean. You're very close to a "m'lady" in parts there. I mean, the principle is fine, just the wording is off. If you're good looking, it probably won't be an issue, but if you were a "meh, not hot but we'll see what he's like" swipe at her end, you've probably lost that one. Has there been anything since?
/r/askTRP27/06/20 07:21 PM
1

Yeah, well done for helping the guy out...
/r/askTRP27/06/20 07:18 PM
-1

"Negging" is a PUA term that has some basis in fact, but like most PUA shit, is total pseudo-science used by the type of loser who takes the whole PUA thing literally. It is difficult for something like that to be a "taught behaviour". I can kind of explain it, but it isn't something you can really do if you need it explaining. Knowing when to make a subtle dig is much the same as self-deprecating jokes. The advice on here seems to be "never make self-deprecating jokes" even though that's dynami…
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:02 AM
1

It's almost certain to, because it is near inevitable this will become standard in years to come. The reason not to invest in BTC (or any of the others) is it is totally decentralised, so you could lose a lot of money even if it becomes a standard thing. Governments will always crack down.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 10:56 PM
1

Firstly, guessing by the use of "yous" that you're a fellow scouser? Probably irrelevant but might help in working out a future plan as I know the area well as I live here. Secondly, you've been through a fucking shite time, but remember that most highly successful self-made people have been through shit in their lives. The fact you recognise and want to do something with your life is the single most important step. You're already in a much much better position than most people - you own a prope…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:20 PM
12

Bitcoin. £50 worth. Turned it into two grand. Wish I'd kept it and/or bought earlier. Can't look back though.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:08 PM
2

This is just a general advice forum. The term "red pill" should just be taken as a snappy name and refers to basically having a strong non-incel mindset that allows you to practice confidence, self-assurdness, respect (for both yourself and women), and basically the opposite of any incel-type behaviour. Treating it like some kind of religion or code, using it as a way to look down on or even hate women and "female behaviour", and so on, is just making you even more of an incel and is probably wh…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:37 PM
2

As others have said, it's about how, when, context, etc. u/skyrunner22 summed it up best - it works if from a position of power. I'd say those saying "only if not true" are indeed largely on the ball, but I'd also argue it can be fine if it is something that's not true, but something that doesn't matter, you don't care about (and nor will they), and can make you seem more confident and sure of yourself. The line between that and self-pity is obviously very slim, so I'd exercise extreme caution. …
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:35 PM
0

As I always say, anything you can normally apply to "women" or "men" can just be applied to people. People use dating apps. I'd say it's roughly 50/50 surely? It's because it's an easy and convenient way to hook up or meet someone. Your psycho-analysis is typical incel. Stop it.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 06:30 PM
2

Indeed there are, I didn't say it is low t every single time.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 02:41 PM
1

I'm not 100% on the "decreasing" thing as that could be just better testing skewing the stats (see the current Covid19 pandemic - statistics is mind-boggling and often throws up counter-intuitive results) but it is clear that low testosterone is something we should be concentrating on WAY more when it comes to depression, low mood, anxiety, panic attacks, low drive, lack of confidence, etc etc in men. Stuff like anti-depressants can often make things worse, and are normally hell on earth to come…
/r/askTRP20/06/20 12:51 PM
1

I'm not an EDM DJ. More techno, progressive house, "melodic techno". To be fair, most of the big names look awkward as fuck behind the decks too. Even Carl Cox isn't a great mover and he's the king.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:42 PM
2

I really want to learn to dance, but literally just behind a set of decks while DJing. I don't get nerves, even on a massive festival stage, but I always feel awkward.
/r/askTRP17/06/20 07:14 PM
3

Jesus man. You said it yourself - you need to provide fucking nothing. A walk around the park, a fucking drink or two, a meal. Unless you're a fucking loser you've got money to spend on that. Split the fucking bill and use the "we're not in a relationship yet though right?" excuse. Then make a move from there. Your point about the relationship advice sub is exactly what I'm saying. This is a place we can be more honest, but dismissing reality is why this sub is getting flagged as a potential Inc…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 11:50 PM
3

Well firstly you're like Patrick Bateman and King Of The Incels had a child together. Secondly, the point is that outside of some deluded redpill fantasy, most women won't feel comfortable going around to someone's house/apartment when they've never met them before. It was you who quite rightly pointed out that there are ways around this, again in too much detail, but yeah, you're right - if a girl meets you in public and is happy you're not a fucking mental case, and is up for going back to you…
/r/askTRP11/06/20 11:41 PM
8

Your suggestion also makes sense I must admit, but it is still not coming straight over on the first date. I'd warrant that even if OP was as good looking as Brad Pitt, she still wouldn't come over if she's being cautious, or even just downright sensible. Ted Bundy was a good looking chap. This isn't about looks. If she didn't think OP was good looking, she wouldn't have agreed to a date at all.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:30 PM
13

This is pretty reasonable from her dude. You might not be a crazy, but plenty of guys are. Just go out somewhere public. If you play it right and assuming you aren't a total creep, she'll probably come over within the next date or two.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:14 PM
1

What? I assume you use it to run a Facebook page for your business? Just use Facebook business manager and on the "normal" Facebook, don't have any friends or follow any pages. It's not hard.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 07:27 PM
1

How old are you? An inanimate object cannot be "gay" - I know what you mean but you're basically missing the point. This is like men thinking a pink shirt is "gay" or feminine. Many strong, good looking, confident men can wear a pink shirt and pull it off perfectly.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:53 PM
1

Exactly, fully, 100% correct. The issue is there are plenty on here who don't see/get that, at least at first until we help them (though some refuse to be helped) so it's easy to misunderstand this sub as an outsider and for it to be at risk.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 07:51 PM
6

The issue is that incel subs are banned. This sub is not an incel sub at its heart, but is fucking swarming with them, and some of the advice given is incel shit. So it is little wonder that "Red Pill" subs are on the line.
/r/askTRP06/06/20 04:09 PM
1

It's a double-edged sword - - As others have said, caring about the world is important and "doing the right thing" politically is an "alpha" (though only incels use such terms) way to behave. I mean, love him or hate him, there's a reason Trump is president. No matter what your political view, there's a reason strong and successful people (often men, but women too) become world leaders. - On the other hand, if we're just talking about being interesting and attractive to women (as this sub seems …
/r/askTRP05/06/20 04:16 AM
1

You can still study, get a good job, a decent career, etc and NOT become a boring miserable robot. Just avoid falling into that trap by doing other things. The "working in a pub" story was just my personal experience, and was only a suggestion if you are literally still studying and need some extra cash, or have finished studying and working out your next move.
/r/askTRP31/05/20 03:28 PM
2

I know a LOT of guys who went straight into a job that simply required "an degree". They went to university just because their high school drilled into them from a young age that the best route in life is good GCSEs, onto 6th form to do A Levels, then go to university. They went to university, any university, even a shit one, and got a degree that didn't really interest them, just because "that's what you do". Then after they graduated they got a job, and so many low-level office jobs require a …
/r/askTRP31/05/20 02:49 PM
5

I was in a similar position in my early/mid 20s and having finished university, I came home and had nothing. A few close friends from when I was younger (still friends with now) and a few friends from university (but people tend to drift, still in touch with a few) but it was tough. Just for money, I worked at a pub and made loads of good friends as a result and have quite a large social circle locally some 5 years after leaving. Many of them worked at the pub with me, but many I met through the…
/r/askTRP31/05/20 12:04 AM
4

Girls don't give a shit. No one cares expect you.
/r/askTRP30/05/20 08:03 PM
1

No, the idea of "red pill" (and I still can't use it without quotes as while the philosophy is sound in the most part, the name is fucking cringy) is that it teaches losers to be men. Define "asshole"? Most of the time this is ugly incel losers thinking that a guy gets women because he's a bit of dick. The fact is, they get women because they're good looking and have a good personality, so can get away with being a bit of dick. Good men get good women, the fact some assholes get women because th…
/r/askTRP27/05/20 02:35 AM
1

You've misunderstood what it means then, and will see it as nothing but a "boys club" where you rant against women but never make any actual progress in real life.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 01:30 AM
4

> Anyone else here have fucked up families/family problems Yeah, like, everyone on the fucking planet. > that makes them feel un worthy of women? No, this is your problem. Stop blaming other people. That's incel thinking.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:19 PM
1

"Baby, this shit we got together is so good we got to get the government involved!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vXpsT3e8UsM
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:17 PM
16

This is an option OP, but don't say it like that or you'll be this guy's username.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:12 PM
25

Sounds like you're in there, you'll just have to take one for the team.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:11 PM
1

You can if you want, and I'll give an honest appraisal, but the entire point of this sub (the incel shit aside) is it's a group effort to encourage guys out of their shell. My personal opinion, as honest as it can be, is not a big enough sample size. Though I do understand why you'd be keen not to post pics on a non-throwaway account.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 11:08 PM
2

Well how the hell are we to know without a picture? Do you have any clues? Be honest with yourself. Comments from other people as to why it might be? What excuses do girls give? I'm VERY strongly in favour of guys concentrating more on looks. So much of the "red pill" stuff seems to dismiss it as not being an issue. It is. However, on the flip-side you could also be good looking but also a wierdo or something. Either way, unless you're the Elephant Man, you can fix it.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 08:41 PM
1

That's incel thinking.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 04:02 PM
-12

> watching porn fucks with your mind and makes you have weird kinks It doesn't. It's correlation not causation. As in, yes, people can get addicted to porn and get all sorts of odd kinks, but they had something wrong in their head anyway.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 09:05 PM
3

I think the reason this happened and the reason you're on this sub are very related. Fix it. Now.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 12:32 AM
1

Christ, yeah that's the one. Also known as "how to make yourself look like a total weirdo and send people running whenever you so much as look in their direction"
/r/askTRP23/05/20 05:16 PM
3

How many women do you get on a regular basis? How many in total? I think you're WAY overthinking this, and that might be the answer.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 09:23 PM
1

I've no idea how the hell you could extrapolate that. The whole "red pill" thing is basically just short-hand for not being an incel and taking charge of your own life. How would you know if either of them have done that or not? Also, don't take the terms so seriously. That's incel behaviour. That's the point of this place - encouraging you to not exhibit that kind of behaviour. I know it's just an interesting discussion, I'm just trying to help though.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:53 PM
1

How could you possibly know?
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:46 PM
4

You're above average height in India right? and you just took your idiot friend's view and didn't even bother to look it up? I don't think your height will be the issue in the armed forces...
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:10 PM
6

Just said this in another thread, but how big is it? You'll probably be surprised. Unless it's literally a micropenis, girls won't give a shit. The only people who care about dick size are men. Look at the way girls care what their vulva looks like, and often get similar paranoia. By the time you're in a situation where you've seen it, the deal is basically sealed. It would have to be really extreme for a guy to call it quits as a result.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:47 PM
3

Yep, thought so. It's horse shit. Doesn't work. So what country are you in and what is the minimum height requirement?
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:45 PM
1

There is no way to increase or decrease the size of your penis, aside from a traumatic injury (which can obviously only decrease the size...) Everything you hear is a myth - no, steroids don't make it shrink. No, these magic pills on the internet don't make it grow. No, jelqing doesn't work and may cause an injury - possible ED and in extremely rare cases if you get too extreme with stretching, traumatic injury which could lead to haemorrhaging and then gangrene. What size is it? You will probab…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:44 PM
4

I'm not sure what you mean by binaurals/subliminals? Do you mean recordings you listen to while you sleep to trick your brain into growing more? If so, definitely not. I'm afraid is it total nonsense. What country are you in, and what is the height limit? For the US I just looked it up and it seems to be a minimum of 60inches (5ft) so you're WELL above the minimum requirement.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 03:40 PM
1

Follow the advice in the sidebar/sticky but work out which bits are just common-sense, and work out which bits are nonsense. Good examples include advice on how to talk to people normally - it is advice, not a set of instructions, so you need natural ability too. If you haven't got that, it isn't going to come overnight. And note I said "people" not "women" - a big mistake incels make is thinking women are much more different to men than they actually are. Bad examples would be stuff like dressi…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:05 PM
1

I'd say it's more than that, but I get what you mean. My point is you're still missing out on the idea that if you are just learning by rote and it isn't natural common-sense, especially if you're not good looking, you'll just come across as weird. You see it all the time.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:22 PM
1

Exactly. As someone else rightly pointed out, a lot of the stuff/methods taught are reasonable, but they should be natural. If you have to "learn" them and are just following instructions then it's unnatural and makes you look weird.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:20 PM
2

My point wonderfully illustrated.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:19 PM
1

The chances of you getting signed to a decent label and having any major success are pretty much zero anyway, so I wouldn't worry about it. I've not heard any of your music obviously so that's no judgement on your talent or skill. It's purely about luck.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:18 PM
1

Because if you've been randomly creeping out girls via your artist account, they'll spread it around social media (quite rightly too) and you'll make a bad name for yourself. Lets just say you did get picked up by a big label as a producer - I've worked in this area, and we've dropped quite a few guys for acting like this when it comes out. It always does.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:54 AM
1

PUA is very different from the true basis of this sub. The idea of this sub, in its helpful form, is to enable guys who are incels/suffer from incel ways of thinking, to improve themselves and recognise that it is their own fault and their own problem, and that there are ways of fixing it without resorting to blaming everyone else and doing nothing about it. Meanwhile, the PUA scene is about convincing gullible fools that it is about "game" and that even a fat neckbeard can get a woman using "cl…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:50 AM
1

The top comment (from u/Massap24 ) is the right answer but out of interest, when you were DMing random girls and "sexting" them, were you getting positive responses? If not, there's a good chance you're already fucked and need to start a-fresh. Interested in what sort of music you do too btw. I work in the music industry, and given the nature of the sub, I can give an honest opinion on whether you're wasting your time.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:32 AM
2

Someone who is just normal and doesn't seriously use terms like "red pill" and "blue pill" and certainly not "beta". Someone who can actually interact with humans and understands that this "red pill" thing is just a catchy term to apply to common fucking sense.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:30 AM
4

As someone else said, it depends on the context, also depends how good looking you are. Reading random crap on here is bound to get people in trouble. A lot of this "red pill" stuff is good philosophy that is just basic common sense, but there's also a lot of shit on here. Anything related to the whole PUA thing is dangerous bullshit, and it's no wonder you pissed her off. You don't give enough detail or context, but I worry you're an incel and/or have other issues (such as social problems, not …
/r/askTRP22/05/20 01:28 AM
1

I don’t think she will wait around for me as she is quite pretty and wasn’t responsive to me as we continued texting over the days until i asked her out. She even made remarks of us making out in my car and me patting her ass. So she definitely has high interest. So which is it? You contradict yourself. And if you're moving country then I'd probably give it a miss full-stop if you're going to risk getting too invested in her. You've a great opportunity to start afresh. Which country are you in? …
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:42 AM
1

Well firstly, don't. I realise you're in a tricky position but meeting up with someone in the middle of a pandemic, especially someone who is young and could well be an asymptomatic carrier (especially working in healthcare) is not just idiocy, it's "beta" behaviour. As someone else said, your parents are presumably in their 50s at least, but while they said that isn't high risk, for your dad in particular, it could well be dangerous. Further to that, christ knows who else you could contact in t…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:00 AM
2

Ignore the nofap idiots until they can provide some evidence. Any "natural" way to increase test is most likely other hormones giving you the temporary respite you describe. If you're low test, you're low test, and the only cure is to inject test. As u/bigmacked4 rightly said, there could be other causes, so see a doctor. What country are you in? If you're in a developed nation then getting your levels checked is as simple as asking your GP. Low test is a major (if not the biggest) cause of anxi…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 05:44 PM
1

Well be bloody careful.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 08:25 PM
1

EXACTLY. Finally we agree! I think we just got our wires crossed. My point being though - if you're worth millions, most confident charming smoothest guy on the planet, but look like the Elephant Man, you still ain't getting shit. I agree, a LOT of guys are fine looks-wise, but are just sperglords who cannot interact with women. But a lot are fine with women, they just won't accept they're ugly and try to come up with ANY excuse so they don't have to accept it.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:55 PM
2

Right. Well in the UK you shouldn't be meeting anyone not in your household. Some of us want to get travelling, we have festivals and club events to run. Ibiza re-opened this week, the rest of Europe will be allowed in, but we won't. Not because of our government, but because of fucking idiots not following common sense. Incidentally, this is a brilliant example of the "red pill" philosophy - a true "alpha male" will follow these rules simply because it needs to be done, not because he needs a f…
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:50 PM
1

We agree 100% that confidence and a good personality is key to getting women. Of course that's important, vitally important, and is why (the incel shit aside) this sub is excellent for helping guys to come out of the shell, improve their "frame" and start to be successful. And there is a lot of good advice on here that has helped a lot of guys. But to deny that looks are not important is insane, and goes against hundreds of millions of years of evolution. It's perfectly natural. There is no excu…
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:32 PM
1

I think you're the one getting emotional my man. I'm just trying to help guys understand that it isn't all about "just be confident bro!" or the PUA shit that incels push.
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:22 PM
1

Where abouts in the world are you?
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:21 PM
1

Well, there's a million reasons. In what context?
/r/askTRP20/05/20 07:20 PM
1

So you're saying looks don't matter? See how well that works out for the fat neckbeard...
/r/askTRP20/05/20 06:18 PM
1

women are shallow People are "shallow". Would you date a fat ugly girl because she had a good personality? you can be a fat ugly motherfucker with a bad attitude and still get bitches You'd find it incredibly difficult. dating sites only give women the power to choose who’s worth fucking and who’s a loser just based on a point of view that is 95% made of emotions, it just doesn’t work. They give people the power to decide who's worth fucking based on looks, physical attributes - hundreds of mill…
/r/askTRP20/05/20 10:24 AM
8

That if you're a decent human being women will be more attracted to you than if you're an arrogant cunt. Incels seem to have this idea that "nice guys finish last" and they're simply wrong. Needy, whiny, weak, jealous, petty, ugly guys finish last.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 07:16 PM
1

Nice, some sensible advice! Age is an arbitrary thing that guys worry way too much about. There's no rush.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 07:11 PM
4

Let me see if I've got this straight - So you get decent enough matches regardless because you're good looking - makes sense. The vast majority of Tinder is looks and nothing else. But you notice some difference changing up your bio. If you seem like a nice person, you get more matches, if you seem like an arrogant prick, you get less. Am I right? It doesn't take a genius to work that out. Anyone who cannot understand that is an incel.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 07:06 PM
1

I don't understand your question. Are you asking what it means when she calls you "friend"? It means she doesn't find you physically attractive. If she still wants to be friends with you, it means she likes your personality, but doesn't find you physically attractive. If you like her as a person and are happy to accept that she'll never be sexually interested in you, then keep seeing her. Most men are not strong enough to do this though. If she doesn't want to be friends with you either, then le…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 07:04 PM
3

You basically need common sense. A lot of stuff here is just successful guys offering tips and decent philosophy to those who can benefit from it. There's also a lot of incel shit and nonsense pseudo-science. If you've got any intelligence, it's easy to separate it. There's also an odd obsession with diverting away from the fact it's often a person's looks that are the issue, but that's common for all people everywhere.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 06:59 PM
1

This would be very very easy to answer but I'd have to know you personally I'm afraid. Depending on what way you take the whole "red pill" thing, it could either do them wonders, or be a total disaster.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 06:54 PM
4

Again, my point proven. I said that little things make little differences, and yes, they stack up. But to make such a big deal out of it is insane. And you need to look up the definition of "senile".
/r/askTRP17/05/20 11:00 PM
5

Like most things on here, there's some basis in fact, even just down to "it gives your body a shock and wakes up for the day" but also like most things on here, it's taken WAY too fucking seriously like it's some magic key to a better life.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 09:27 PM
0

People thinking WAY too much into this as always. It's obviously a joke, the same way as guys make "your mum" jokes. But to answer your point about whether people find fatherhood attractive - well a good looking guy is a good looking guy. That's the main point. And if he's also caring and stable enough to have raised good children, that's also often attractive quality, though I must admit I do know a few guys who are single fathers and despite being good looking (one in particular is very good l…
/r/askTRP17/05/20 09:25 PM
1

As others have said - he's just a loser. Don't worry about it, you're above him regardless of height. A great one I use with people like that who are trying to desperately dominate a conversation when there's a group (and they only ever do it when there's a group of people around) is when they drop something like that, say something like "yeah cool, just give us a minute mate" and continue talking to someone else. Must admit, I'm 6ft but I'd love to try that one if I was a shorter guy.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 09:22 PM
2

Probably not illegal, but whoever did it should be crowned king of the incels and be awarded a solid gold fedora to shame them for all time.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 09:19 PM
2

There's a lot of good stuff on this sub, but a lot of utterly retarded shit too, and this is the best example of the latter I've seen yet. You're getting overly philosophical about a fucking beard man. Go for a walk or something.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 09:18 PM
5

When you say a "stay at home" activist, what do you mean exactly? Because if you're referring to the Covid19 pandemic, that is not a left-wing view point. Not saying this person isn't a leftist SJW, but that isn't a left-wing issue. If anything, it's libertarian (correct definition of libertarian, not the retarded US definition).
/r/askTRP17/05/20 09:16 PM
7

You misunderstand. The "red pill" is just a name, it means nothing. You're acting like an incel, using incel language, using incel reasoning - this sub is designed to stop you being an incel. You can listen and change yourself, or you can carry on. It's your choice, that's the entire point. It is your problem, and your issue to fix, no one elses. So shape up or enjoy being an outcast forever.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 12:47 AM
1

This and only this.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 09:32 PM
1

At least make a little small talk first instead of just coming out with it. I'd warrant that unless you're really good looking this will fail the vast majority of the time.
/r/askTRP16/05/20 09:30 PM
3

She hired you for a professional job, and clearly isn't attracted to you sexually. I don't understand what you're confused about here?
/r/askTRP16/05/20 09:29 PM
2

Unless I've got the definition wrong, how the fuck is it possible to tell?
/r/askTRP16/05/20 09:27 PM
1

What the hell is tendies? I mean, I'm up for a joke and a bit of ribbing, I just don't know what the fuck it means. What is WSB? And I mean, I'll wait for you to explain why you can't put on weight. I've been there my man, and put on a shit ton since. Or you can just complain and not bother put any effort in.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 10:19 PM
0

I don't understand the last bit but I think it's some 4chan/incel shit so I'll let it pass. I'm willing to help you then - you genuinely can't gain wait. OK, fine. Daily caloric intake, macro breakdown, gym routine, current weight and height. I'll wait...
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:55 PM
1

Forget seeing a doctor - if you genuinely can't add weight and aren't just lazy and a liar, see world leading geneticist. You have a unique genetic flaw that could cure many diseases and potentially solve world hunger.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 09:42 PM
1

Don't believe the no-fap shit - it's bullshit pseudo-science that no one can ever back up (convenient...) The reality is that masturbation is fine, and healthy, unless you're literally spending hours a day looking at porn, which is obviously a problem. Your behaviour sounds perfectly normal for someone your age. The big questions are - what aren't you happy about in life? Ask yourself that first.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:40 PM
1

Well he's talking shit because when he moved to America and started in bodybuilding competitions, he worked in construction to pay the bills. Just work as hard as you can at everything. Surely you can always try again? It's not like if you fail to get a certain job that's it FOREVER and you can never get a similar/better job and are locked into a low-paid job for life. Think for fucks sake.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:31 PM
2

You will get a multitude of different answers, all of them will work. Most will advocate full body workouts for beginners because you're hitting every muscle group every time you go, and you learn good form and focus on the heavy compounds. As you move forward, a PPL is great. I find body-part split routines a bit lax unless you're going nearly every day - think about it, if your routine is split into 4 and "arms" is one of those 4, if you go 4 times a week, you're only working your arms 4 times…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 08:28 PM
5

If you want to help him, you need to speak to him about the root cause of the problem here - he's ugly. That's the most important thing and is what needs fixing. Some of the red pill stuff is great philosophy that can help him, but alot of it is incel bullshit, so unless he's willing to accept his problems and work on fixing them, he'll just go down a dangerous and bitter path. Obviously you're not duty bound to help him, but guys like this a massive suicide risk. Not trying to scare you, just b…
/r/askTRP15/05/20 05:15 PM
1

Sorted then! Let us know what you get and what dosage you're told to take. And out of interest - how much it costs. Just be nice to compare to UK prices.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 06:10 PM
1

Well I can't help much then. You might be able to convince your doctor to prescribe it, but it'll be costly, and buying it "black market" is very illegal in the US. Hence why in terms of steroid use (and indeed healthcare in general) I don't class the US as a developed country...
/r/askTRP14/05/20 06:04 PM
1

What country are you in?
/r/askTRP14/05/20 06:00 PM
1

Haha, no. If you live in a developed country (such as the UK or most of Europe) it is legal to buy/posses, though not legal to sell. Plenty of reputable suppliers online but I assume it's against the rules of this sub. Research, research, research. There is "dodgy" product out there - it is rarely (if ever) dangerous, it's just often under-dosed or has no active compound in it at all.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 05:57 PM
1

Read some of the stuff on the sidebar/in the stickied PDF. If you're half intelligent you'l be able to separate the crap from the decent stuff. Some good philosophy in there, just don't get into the incel crap.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 05:40 PM
1

> I hate the reality that we have to objectify women as these incapable pieces of meat. You don't. That's an incel way of thinking. You're really telling me you actually managed to get a girlfriend and STILL went along with that retarded way of thinking? Damn dude. Sorry about you dad, but the girlfriend thing seemed unavoidable.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 05:35 PM
-4

Where do you live? Because unless it's NZ, you're a faggot for even going over there.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 11:16 PM
2

A lot of the time depression, anxiety, panic attacks, low confidence, poor mood, etc is low test anyway and SSRIs make matters worse. See the male suicide rate. I'll have to dig up some research, but at least in developed countries this is already being touted. More tricky in the likes of America I admit.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 10:16 PM
2

Err, context on why they're calling you an asshole? There are a million reasons why they might have done so, and a million responses you could give. You could just make things much much worse and make yourself look retarded.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 09:57 PM
4

Hobbies don't get you laid dumbass. Being your own person, having a confident and decent personality, and being good looking, is what gets you laid. Guys who base themselves around their hobbies are almost always losers. TL;DR - It wasn't your sailboat.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 09:54 PM
2

You could have testosterone problems. That could well have been the issue in the first place. I would bet my yearly salary that testosterone therapy will replace SSRIs in most men within a decade. Seriously.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 09:52 PM
1

Would you want her to? Would you care about it being leaked? If you want her to do it, just go for it. If not, say you're not comfortable with it. I don't understand the question here - is it really that simple? Would you like us to come along and hold your hand too?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 09:51 PM
3

Pretty much everyone who is under 60 and had "no underlying health conditions" but still died of Covid19, is overweight. So now is as good a time as any to explain you're scared for them as they're in a massively at-risk group and you don't want to see them die from something they can avoid, etc.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:42 PM
3

Why the fuck are you "disgusted"? Are you asexual? People are attracted to others based on personal appearance/looks. Simple. It's hundreds of millions of years of evolution. Would you be attracted to a fat ugly girl?
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:26 PM
1

Most of the PUA and "game" stuff is bullshit, even a lot of people who espouse it will privately admit that. A lot of this treating women like they're lesser objects is just angry incel stuff that for most guys (but admittedly not all) will make their situation worse.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 07:00 PM
3

Firstly, numbers mean fuck all. I know guys who look like shit who lift more than that, I know guys who look like greek gods who lift less. That said, that's respectable. The main point is your issue with saying the wrong thing. Can you give an example of something you've said that has led to a girl being into you then going cold? Be honest, we're all friends here.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 01:25 AM
3

That's not a retort to my point, but OK, you've got me. I've ranted about this for ages - if you're insecure, lack confidence, lack drive, lack discipline, are anxious, depressed, etc, then testosterone will sort you out. I strongly believe (as do many actual professors from legitimate bodies) that testosterone is THE golden-bullet for the horrific male suicide rate. I say to every guy who suffers from these things "get your test levels checked!" because I believe it so strongly. But he gives no…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 01:03 AM
1

Firstly, you've rated yourself and your roomate (presumably a guy) out of 10. As the top commenter said, this is incel shit. Only insecure guys do this. Now, you might be right maybe you are not as good looking as him. Your 5 vs his 7 might actually be a 2 vs a 9. We don't know, we can't see you or him. One thing you are right about is that it is about looks. So improve them. It isn't 1642. You have options dumbass.
/r/askTRP10/05/20 12:59 AM
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Firstly, the fact you say you feel like you're the problem is the first step, you've done well there. You probably are. Secondly, the fact you're getting girls to the point you're "making out" then lose them means it isn't your looks, so that's a major thing out of the way. So it is probably something about your personality, and honestly, I've no idea what it is without knowing you. How hard have you "swallowed" this Red Pill shit? The vast majority of the time guys take it WAY to seriously. Thi…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 12:57 AM
4

Stupid fucking reply. No offence dude - I'm a roid user myself and frequently mock Americans for their anti-roid stance (the result of them living in a third-world country when it comes to healthcare and their ridiculous and misplaced patriotism) but why this response? The guy doesn't suggest he's not getting girls for being too skinny. That's a perfectly reasonable thing to worry about, and jumping on a cycle to speed things up (provided you're not a fucking idiot) is a perfectly reasonable and…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 12:54 AM
1

I thrive on the company of others, so even just knowing someone else is in the house is a bonus for me. I like time to myself, such as now, but it's good to be able to "shoot the shit" with someone else under the same roof, now more so than ever (we're in lockdown after all). But other than that, it's totally personal preference, and depends on your priorites. I could live alone right now, but I'd not be able to afford as extravagant a lifestyle as a result. Take it to the extreme - you get your…
/r/askTRP10/05/20 12:50 AM
1

Things are either true or they're false. Simple as that. If people say that and it's true, you either accept it and don't let it bother you, or fix it. If it's false, then you can't get annoyed by things that aren't true.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 04:09 PM
2

I don't see what the hell this has to do with "shit tests" but some guys simply don't suit being bald. Deal with it. There's plenty of options out there - it isn't the 1970s.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 01:37 PM
1

Sounds like your situation is probably making it worse. Well, you seem to have a good handle on it, but he doesn't. How did you make your money? No need to be specific, but I bet that will be very telling.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:48 AM
1

What do people think about him? Is he liked? Is he genuinely liked? As in, do people hang around with him because they genuinely want to, or does he just have fleeting social groups?
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:19 AM
1

Well firstly stop using terms like "alpha". Yes, there is a basis in biology (or whatever the fuck branch of science it is) for the "alpha" and the "beta" etc, but guys who use these terms are either "beta" and worried about being beta (as you describe yourself) or think they're "alpha" but are highly insecure about it so are just trying to use a pseudo-scientific concept to make sense of their life. What is it exactly that is the issue here? What would you like to improve? What do you want to a…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:17 AM
3

i know this sub says you shouldnt try and help people I wasn't aware of that. I imagine the people saying that are incels/losers themselves who don't want to try and help others because they're scared it'll bring up some home-truths about them. Nothing wrong with helping your fellow man. Like I say, it can help you to learn a lot about your own failings. The only type of man who wouldn't want to do that is an utter fucking loser.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:11 AM
1

Masturbation is normal. Watching porn is normal. This whole "nofap" thing is invented by incels as an excuse for their own failings, their usual tactic of passing the blame to something/someone else. My main question is why you're trying this? What is the issue with masturbating? Unless you're a fucking monk then there's a much bigger issue here you need to be addressing.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:08 AM
1

If you need to ask a redpill sub, then I imagine you're fucked. Ask yourself first - what would YOU like to know about her?
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:05 AM
1

She's not interested. Otherwise she'd have shown it. Fuck all this redpill shit - most of it is common sense advice, and there is some good modern philosophy in there, but all this terminology and "game" crap only goes so far. If you last messaged a few weeks back and no response, then A is already done. No harm in just being direct, just in case, because you've lost anyway - the only time this shouldn't apply is if she knows other women you might have a chance with, or is in a similar social ci…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 04:04 AM
0

I have a friend like this - not since childhood but via friends I made the past few years who've known him since childhood. Issue is, he's a really nice guy, and I can tell it's just insecurity. No idea why - the guy is married with a kid and has everything he could dream of. I'll take his banter because we both share a wickedly dark sense of humour and can be very open with each other, but I do worry people might take him the wrong way, and I know a few people who have been rubbed up the wrong …
/r/askTRP07/05/20 02:13 AM
2

Firstly, there's no such thing as a "hard gainer" - this is no different to fat fucks saying it's "muh metabolism!" You just don't eat enough. You will not gain that much in 9 months naturally, so know your limits. Look up basic lifting advice (ideally not on this sub - there is some good stuff on here but a lot of crap) - concentrate on heavy compound movements, get your strength up, be consistent and don't fuck around. Recognise you won't work miracles overnight. Eat properly, sleep properly. …
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:35 AM
1

I presume I can't tell you on here, but in the UK/EU its relatively easy. Where do you live? Will you get your levels checked? It isn't dangerous like those who live in the third world think, but you need to do a LOT of research to do it correctly.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 01:02 AM
0

Do you live in a developed country? In which case, test isn't illegal to purchase/posses, so get your GP to check your levels, and go from there. If you have low test, this could change your life. Low test is MASSIVELY responsible for the horrific male suicide rate, not to mention low drive, poor confidence, lack of energy, low mood, panic attacks/anxiety/depression. Low test might not be the cause, but if it is, the only cure is to inject test. Contrary to what incels/retards on here might say,…
/r/askTRP07/05/20 12:51 AM
1

This. 100% this. OP - work on your personality. It is important. Not as important as looks, but work on them too.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 04:22 PM
0

> Girls are retarded and illogical. This is bluepilll (or whatever the fuck you guys call the opposite of the redpill) thinking. People both men and women, are perfectly logical when it comes to attraction. We have several hundred million years of evolution backing that up. You are 100% right, you can't give someone a full idea of what you are like in a few minutes (or often less) - it is about physical looks. Sure, not being a stuttering creepy autist helps a lot, that's just a given. But looks…
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:05 PM
1

You need to work out WHY you're being rejected. That's what hurting the most. You're in denial, and you don't know why. So why are you?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:02 PM
5

Exactly what I was going to say. If you're granddad/father is dying and you're worrying about stupid shit like "frame" on a red pill sub, then I'm sorry to say it, but I'd suspect your relationship might be fucked anyway.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:43 PM
2

What sort of business do you eventually want to open? That will basically answer the question.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:41 PM
1

Yeah I was thinking something like that. Not even into football myself but that came to mind - jealous insecure guy talking about how crap you are, you joking along and putting yourself down even more than he was, then just ending the conversation to start some training, wallop the ball into the goal from 300ft away or whatever (no idea if that's impressive but you get what I mean).
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:13 PM
4

Indeed. Self-deprecating humour can work, but you have to be incredibly socially adept to get that line right. I find it works better with other guys - if someone is trying to put you down or criticise you (which as we know, is normally a sign of jealousy or insecurity) the best defence is to laugh along and agree, then prove them completely wrong. Unintentionally make them look foolish so to speak. I can't think of an example that isn't oddly specific.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:02 PM
1

Depression is a serious disorder, but is used as a lazy excuse by incels WAY too often.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 01:55 PM
6

You've been married for 11 years and are genuinely happy (from what you're saying) and are asking a sub that is mainly populated by bitter and deluded incels (though that isn't the intention of the sub) what they think? Either you've got the idea of this place very wrong, or this goes deeper! Why the fuck do you care about what this place thinks? Not having a go, I'm sure it's genuine interest from someone who isn't bitter and twisted, but even people on here who are genuinely trying to help and…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 01:54 AM
2

Maybe live in the real world and understand facts, rather than living in some fantasy rose-tinted hyperbole scenario. You sound like the "beta" in this situation.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 01:50 AM
1

I'm, speechless myself my man. Little bit teary myself if I'm honest brother! I knew that could have gone two ways, so glad it meant something.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 01:01 AM
1

Definitely the algorithm then. I assume one or two a day is decent. In 2018 I got one match, in 2019 I got two. I assume I'm a rare case though! Haha
/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:58 AM
3

This would be interesting to know actually, but I'd put out a note of caution - are you using the terms "red pill" and "red pill truths" seriously there? If so, I think such a chat would make things worse. At least on here you've got time to wait for comments, then work out which answers are reasonable.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:56 AM
1

Do you normally get loads of Tinder matches? If so, and its now gone to nothing, this is a really interesting point. It would make sense for Tinder to have tweaked the algorithm so fucking morons don't go spreading this shit around. Some of us have major events to run. If this is the first time you've used Tinder, or you use it regularly but nothing has changed, then I think you need a long hard look in a mirror.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:54 AM
1

Just a correction - "Incel" means "involuntary celibate" because incels are fucking deluded and chose the term themselves. There is nothing "involuntary" about their situation. It is totally voluntary. This guy has a genuine excuse which he cannot help.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:50 AM
2

An incel has everything going for him, but refuses to do anything about it. Often there are basic and obvious reasons why they are physically unattractive to women, from just being ugly, to being fat/skinny, having a shit dress sense, being unkempt, even just not washing and being a smelly cunt. But instead of fixing themselves (whether it's cosmetic surgery, hitting the gym and using steroids, getting a good stylist, even just having a fucking shower) they refuse to take responsibility and just…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 12:48 AM
5

Where are you from? In the Western world, no one gives a fuck.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 04:03 AM
0

Be 9/10 looks wise. I said that in the first place.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 04:02 AM
20

Two possible scenarios here - You're secretly gay and in denial, so the tranny incident brought something out in you that you were trying to suppress. If so, just accept it. You're a massive loser of astounding proportions to let something so benign bother you so much. Worried about your reputation being ruined? Seeking therapy? Never going to clubs again? Thinking your life is no longer great because of it? Man, you got MUCH bigger problems than a tranny briefly dancing with you.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 02:04 AM
0

OK, lets try this a different way. Do you get women regularly? Are you happy with your relationships you have with them? Your original post seemed to suggest you aren't, but I'm open to that. What would you like to happen, in an ideal world?
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:45 AM
2

Well then ignore them. If it isn't stopping you succeed in life (whether that be through getting friends, relationships, jobs, etc) then it isn't worth worrying about.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:30 AM
1

You've willingly missed my point. How does a fat old Russian guy ordering hookers ahead of his yacht docking mean that ALL good looking girls are like that? They aren't, that's my point. We're talking a TINY fraction of hot women who sell themselves for a taste of money. You need to take a good look in the mirror my man. This is harsh, but the sub is about helping incels get out of their way of thinking, so it is what it is. You are a loser, living in fantasy world, totally distorted opinions an…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:28 AM
2

Again, I can't really judge the situation better without having been there. The main question is therefore - why are you bothered?
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:20 AM
1

Deal with that when it comes to it. If he is the sort of guy who can pick up girls easily, then it'll be fine if for some bizarre reason he can't hold out another month and the relationship ends. If he isn't that sort of guy, then he's got a long road ahead of him anyway.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:19 AM
2

I don't think you live in the real world. Where about's do you live? Genuine question. In my job (music industry) I spend a lot of time in Ibiza and because I'm such a fucking shill, I rarely spend time on the actual dancefloor of a club (as much as I love the music), I'm standing on the side of a stage/behind DJ booth, or in a green room, or in some villa party. There are VERY rich guys out there who have these stunning 10/10 girls with them. But we all know they're high class hookers. But that…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 01:10 AM
1

Well why the fuck are people suggesting it then? It's like you've just all read some forum and can't apply logic and common-sense.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:56 AM
5

Just a fact of life. I have a friend who is a big guy - not body-builder big, but very strong with some fat on top. Not a looker either, and looks a bit rough. Always always had people starting on him on a night out, for no reason other than his size and some drunk insecure incel looking for someone to get angry with. The worst fighter in the world too. Not literally - the guy did MMA and could beat any opponent in a training environment, but would always shy away from trouble. The one guy you'd…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:54 AM
7

Sorry, as ever, I'm going to sound harsh because I genuinely want to help - but do you live in the real world, or just in a basement looking at women on social media? Even if you're a girl who is a 10/10, the chances of bagging a millionaire are slim to none. And contrary to what fucking autistic incels might think, most women aren't just after money, no matter how good looking they are. The way to get a 9 or 10, is to be a 9 or 10 yourself. That. Simple. Now work on it. It's 2020, not 1642.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:46 AM
1

As someone else said - take a risk. If you fail, so fucking what? That's how you learn. A massive red-flag in your post is "not really good looking". Not good looking how, and according to who? If you think you aren't good looking, then I'd suggest that's a confidence issue you need to work on. You're 18, it's fine, and it won't take long. Apply the advice given here about failing, and you're golden. You'll be fine my man. However, if other people say you aren't good looking, and you get rejecte…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:43 AM
3

If you're good looking and confident enough that you get a high success rate doing this in "peacetime" then why not? Just don't think with your dick instead of your brain and fuck this up for everyone else. Some of us have events to organise this summer and we're already looking fucked.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:38 AM
2

Either she was just drunk and being nasty for the sake of it, or there's crucial information you're missing from this version of the story. You don't need to tell us, but be honest with yourself - was it really as simple as her randomly approaching you for singing along at a party (which unless the music was coming from a phone speaker, she wouldn't have been able to hear unless she was right near you) then when you didn't react at all, she "wanted to spill a drink" on you (whatever that means -…
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:36 AM
3

What the fuck does "high trust" mean. Some of your other replies on this thread suggest that, like most guys who take the "red pill" thing too seriously, that you're thinking like an incel and forgetting the important things - i.e being good looking and not acting like a creepy autist.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:32 AM
1

Two things have happened - Your friends are just fucking idiots and you've outgrown them. Move on. You've taken this shit WAY too seriously and invested too much mental energy in it. This whole "red pill" thing is just a collection of common sense/philosophies, some of which are bullshit (pick up artist crap being a prime example) but treating it like some sort of religion will fuck you up. Happens way too often. Believing in something isn't enough.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:30 AM
1

Did he stealth edit his post? Because I see nothing about new girls being lined up. I just booted off at another guy for suggesting that, because it seemed such a stupid suggestion to make, but your post seems to suggest he originally had put that other girls were involved? If so, that changes everything, and it's nothing to do with the pandemic or his relationship.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:20 AM
-1

This is nothing to do with what he asked at all. He literally said he's not going to cheat. Yet you just throw your own bullshit in there anyway. Got to keep playing the game right?
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:18 AM
8

Yeah, fuck her mom's potentially fatal lung issue in the middle of a pandemic. Your dick is more important right? And the relationship is so fucking healthy that not seeing each other for another month or so means it will totally break apart if you don't see her (and possibly kill her mom in the process). It's totally an unheard of situation too - it's not like people maintain healthy relationships by being away for a long time, like if they're serving in the military or something.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:15 AM
1

How good looking are you? You say some of them are 10/10, so unless you are too (or are at least close), then it ain't going to happen my man.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 05:38 PM
2

Indeed, but putting into such simple terms is borderline autistic.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:36 AM
2

Exactly. Plus it's bullshit. Sure, the guys in the office seem like they're lazy and don't really try properly. But Baldwin's character has the leads (and won't give them to the guys he's berating), and largely got where he is by luck. Amazing how many people fail to understand that.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:22 AM
2

Well take it from me - I get called ugly all the time, normally by girls. Guys tell me there's nothing wrong with me but they're friends. Even close friends won't be that "harsh". It annoys me though, because I wish they'd be honest. I accept it now, and I'm fixing it. Only a very few close friends know about my issues, and one in particular is really fucking stubborn about not just accepting that I'm ugly. It's actually quite fun twisting him in knots. It's also funny with friends who don't kno…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 02:52 AM
2

Remember that a lot of the stuff touted here is bullshit. Or rather, there's logic to it but it misses crucial counter-points that actually back it up. Yeah, you shouldn't "double-text" or "over think her behaviour" but there's WAY to much focus on this being a problem with you and you alone. If she's normally texting back within a few hours, but suddenly it's a few days, then there's clearly something wrong anyway and if she isn't prepared to discuss it or open up, then it might be too late. Wh…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 02:46 AM
3

The terms "alpha" and "beta" are largely bullshit terms obsessed over by incels, but if you take the principles that allegedly apply to each, then yeah, he is just "beta". Or more specifically (because you can't put a wealth of mutlivariate personality traits into two simple definitions) he's displaying various personality traits the suggest jealousy, trying too hard, being insecure, etc. Depending on how he says it and in what context, this sounds like possible Autistic Spectrum Disorder too, w…
/r/askTRP02/05/20 02:35 AM
1

Why is it a shit-test to get to know someone a little bit first via messages? Seems like common sense to me, but I'm open to other "wisdom" on this. Given Tinder and the likes is purely based on looks initially, it seems fairly reasonable to find out if someone is a complete asshole, boring as fuck, overly narcissistic, etc. before taking it further.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 02:32 AM
17

Are you gay? Genuine question. If not, why does it bother you? Likely jealousy or projecting, etc. Or maybe you aren't massively attractive but not ugly so some girls find you attractive and others don't, but unlike guys who are friends with you, unless you'r really ugly random girls won't say it to your face. Either way, I don't see the problem and wouldn't let it bother you. Incidentally, I'm in the opposite position, so count yourself lucky my man!
/r/askTRP02/05/20 02:29 AM
2

I know guys into all this philosophy (though they were never cringy enough to actually use the term "redpil") and they always cite this scene - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q4PE2hSqVnk ​ Hint - the vast majority of people TOTALLY miss the point of this scene.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:58 PM
1

Oh, don't get me wrong man, I'm fucking praying that this shit is overhyped. Our deaths in the UK are WAY above what they'd normally be, and someone released a website to compare morbidity over the last 50 (I think) years. While the current pandemic was way above normal, people started questioning these huge fucking dots that were even bigger on the graph. They were the 1976 heatwave, and the 2003 heatwave. I remember the 2003 one, wasn't alive for the 1976 one (but it was legendary and people a…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 02:56 AM
1

Thanks for the input. We were having a fucking chat and got somewhere. I'd normally be in Ibiza about this time at some club talking to tour managers and booking agents chatting utter shite while on coke. But we're on lockdown. Any better suggestions?
/r/askTRP30/04/20 02:45 AM
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Listen my man (and my god we've gone deep, thousands of fucking miles of ocean and this is a genuinely good discussion we've had - shooting the shit, taking the piss out of each other, getting some home truths in. Shit.) - This might not affect you, and yeah, the US is a big fucking place. But you're in PA. That isn't far from NYC in the grand scheme of things and they've been fucking slaughtered. Deaths that beggar belief and hospitals nearly overrun. Doctors and nurses killing themselves becau…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 02:35 AM
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Again, I feel bad we're on two threads as this is a genuinely enjoyable discussion. I don't give a fuck about you, me, or anyone else. If you're a registered nurse, then where the fuck are you? Are you not seeing endless fucking death and hopelessness where you are? Genuine question, because if you're all fine and people aren't dying, I'll buy a one way ticket. I don't give a fuck what the government say, because I live in a country guided by science, science that is stacking up in terms of stat…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 02:14 AM
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Good point, you were onto something. And genuinely, thank you for the insight. I am "involuntary celibate" because girls find me ugly. But "incels" think that this is everyone else's problem, not theirs so they blame everyone but themselves. I'm the opposite of an incel, and fucking hate them, because I'm "enlightened" (have some common fucking sense) and realise that you can't just get angry with the world and blame "all women" for not fancying someone who is ugly. It isn't 1624, so unless you'…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 02:10 AM
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I realise we're on two threads here, but again, why do you care? You probably misjudged the situation and she was just humouring him, or you're right (and yes, this does happen) and she just so happens to be someone who isn't a lesbian. Or maybe she's bi? Ever heard of that? I mean, the fact you were at a party during the middle of a pandemic makes me assume you're a fucking retard who hangs around with rednecks/losers/dropouts and such concepts as human interaction are alien to you.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 02:01 AM
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Genuinely interested and unsure by what you mean by "projecting"? I'd assume normally that you've misunderstood the meaning of the term, but you might actually have something, and have just got the specifics wrong.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:58 AM
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Then why the fuck do you care about lesbians? Why even have an opinion on that? Assuming you're telling the truth (and well done btw, genuinely) then this is some major insecurity. You're literally not an incel, but acting just like one. Why? Why the fuck do you care?
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:50 AM
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Yes, because I'm ugly (so I'm told) so I'm widening the field until I get cosmetic surgery. Which might happen at some point in the next few years if I'm lucky thanks to this fucking coronavirus.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:49 AM
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I think you've misunderstood what a "shit test" means mate.... Joking aside, one of two things has happened here - Your girlfriend has some kind of fetish and literally shit the bed in middle of sex on purpose to see if you're into it, which seems unlikely if I'm honest. She had some kind of illness and is incredibly embarrassed and upset by it, so you acting like an utter cunt to her when she was vulnerable is probably going to be a big notch in the stick that reads "why she split up with me an…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:47 AM
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I mean, wow. There's some delusion incels on here, but you've just won some kind of medal. Even if they are "pretending" (for whatever mad reason you've come up with) I don't blame them if it just so happens you're the only kind of loser they've got on offer.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:37 AM
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If you come across as insecure and upset about it, or even if you have a "rose tinted glasses" outlook on it, then that's an instant red flag. If you're confident enough in the relationship to mention in and discuss it as how it was a weak point and come across as confident in how well you got over it and will never slip back, then it can't hurt. Certainly not something to bring up early on either way. But I wouldn't lie about it and pretend it didn't happen if it comes up.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:23 AM
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Err, maybe if you did care about girl's feelings you'd get somewhere. Relationships are about feelings, whether it's long term or just a casual fuck. Doesn't matter. Being cold and uncaring isn't going to get you anywhere. Now, if you want to be a total slimeball and just fuck as many girls as you want and bin them the next day, that's fine. No one should judge that. As long as you're not a literal rapist that's no one's business. It's a two way deal. But my point is that even then you need to a…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 01:09 AM
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Agree with your sentiment mate, but looks do matter, a lot. Don't kid yourself otherwise. I mean yes, technically they are "superficial" but by the same token so is the entire philosophy you're talking about here.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:58 AM
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Perhaps a bigger question is - why? Think of that, rather than looking for answers. Why not where you live? I assume you're not homeless. Why can't you splash out on a hotel room (current pandemic aside)? I assume you're not flat broke. Why not her place? etc.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:53 AM
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For example you know that most women are huge walking red flag with inflated egos They aren't. Cut the incel shit. The "red pill" is meant as a guide, not a set of laws. Read the sidebar, read the stickied PDF. If you can't cut the shit in there from the reality, I'd suggest a psychologist or something. Don't worry, this takes time, it's not an overnight fix. But your current way of thinking and taking the whole "red pill, blue pill" shit too seriously and literally, is not helping. It's going t…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:51 AM
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In what sense? There seems to be a grave misunderstanding about this from too many guys on here, the incel side of this sub especially. The idea is not to be needy and emotional because that is enough to put anyone off. But it doesn't mean going so far as to become a total psychopath who can't even talk about emotions with a woman. Why the fuck would you want to be "cold" towards women? If you're actively trying to put them off, probably just easier to throw some drain cleaner on your face and b…
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:41 AM
1

Why do incels misunderstand and over-rely on terms like "alpha" all the time?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:08 PM
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You are WAY overthinking this to the point I don't want to sound insulting but I think something is wrong with you. This shit about "I'm above average looking" and rating you and her on a scale out of 10. What are you, 12? And all this shit about height is a fucking joke women make because unless you're a midget or a giant, they don't give a shit. You are on a one way ticket to being "that weird autistic guy" though, so fucking cut it out with the bullshit. And I'm astounded by the fact you only…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 03:17 AM
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Is it a myth that height is important? Well, kind of. It's one of those things that helps, but only in the same way that having a nice car or incredibly straight white teeth helps - it is a bonus, but not a deal breaker. Guys put WAY to much focus on height, much like penis size (though the latter isn't visible until the deal is sealed). And there's a good reason for it - it's the one thing you cannot change about yourself. Well, actually one of two things along with penis size, but you get my p…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 01:27 AM
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I'm in the UK. You'd get shut down and probably thrown in prison if you fuck it up.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 12:27 AM
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This is a ridiculous incel way of thinking. If you're talking about a casual relationship or just "dating" someone, then yeah, fine. But in terms of a proper long-term relationship, this is ridiculous and totally delusional.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 09:00 PM
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Well I assume it is extremely complicated to actually perform, but if you get a reputable surgeon, as anyone in their right mind should, then it isn't something you need to worry about. Loads of people get rhinoplasties and they work well.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 08:23 PM
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Basically came to say exactly this. If people can't think for themselves, they're fucked anyway.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 08:04 PM
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Yeah but you should still be able to open up to someone you're in a long term relationship with. It's doomed if not.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 07:59 PM
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Agreed. I always totally dismiss the idea of "just be confident bro!" to ugly guys who struggle. It is about looks and personality, but without looks, you could be the most confident guy ever and it isn't going to work. If on the other had you are in a relationship, then yes, you need to remain emotionally strong. If you've got a good partner and do happen to have issues that you need to work through, then being open with them is fine. If say, you had some sort of mental health episode (stress i…
/r/askTRP28/04/20 06:47 PM
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So there's a few points you make there - Lifting sounds good. You're 18 man, stop worrying so much about that. If it's an obsession, you're in trouble. Sounds like fantastic progress, so just stick at it. Finance degree and starting a company sounds excellent too. If someone has a great business idea and the mind to do it, I'd normally say forget about the degree, but I imagine finance is one of those industries you'd need one. Don't worry about being Middle Eastern. Lots of good looking Middle …
/r/askTRP28/04/20 06:37 PM
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Then read read read. You can never read enough on it. Loads of good info out there.
/r/askTRP28/04/20 01:42 PM
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The first question is why people don't see you as a sexual option? It might not be this, but something this "red pill" stuff often fails to address, is that it's often not being good looking. But it's not 1624, so unless you're hideously deformed, then it can be fixed. The bit the "philosophy" does have right is the idea that it's often not that extreme. There are simple options to any issue. Too skinny? Lift weights, eat right, do a steroid cycle. Too fat? Eat right, lift weights, maybe do a st…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 11:13 PM
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Where abouts in the world are you? Because while you make a very good point against a gaming PC, you might have no choice but to become a hermit this summer and well into the end of the year. Normally I'd suggest travelling or something, see some of the world, meet new people, etc. But obviously that's a no-go at the moment. Home gym is good, but have you got the space? Here in the UK you cannot buy ANYTHING right now except maybe some resistance bands.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:03 PM
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The fact this is a plot point from a shitty sitcom should tell you all you need to know. Nevermind the "me too era" it's retarded behaviour at any time in history. And on top of that, using expressions like "having taken the red pill" makes me think you haven't understood the point of this sub at all.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:49 PM
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I think it's always been "in", for decades at least. Just more at the forefront now because people like Trump have taken it to the extreme.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:35 PM
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Stop over-thinking it. Easier said than done. If you want to try the "no fap" bullshit to see if it works as placebo, then by all means go ahead. But it's a state of mind, not some physiological thing.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:27 PM
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US vs UK definitions are so different, I'm not actually sure what you mean by that. I mean the liberal bit, not the cuck bit obviously.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:26 PM
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If you want clarification - I wouldn't vote for him if I was American, as I don't like his politics. That doesn't mean I can't admire his method, for good or bad.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:24 PM
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Ask why you've always been single. Why have you always been single? If you can't answer that on a throwaway account on an anonymous Reddit thread, you've no fucking chance. And ignore most of the shit you read on here. Most of it is good in principle, but thinking too much into it is bullshit if, like most people on here, it's simply because you're not physically attractive.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:09 AM
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Studies show that unless you're on steroids, 1g protein per lb of body weight is more than enough. Excess protein gets converted into carbs - eat too much protein, you're just eating expensive carbs. As a rule - 50C, 30P, 20F is ideal. If you fail on that, you aren't exercising right. And even that is easy.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:06 AM
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This reads like a perfectly normal scenario, which has been described badly down a telephone to an elderly professor, who has then programmed what he remembers of the conversation into a Reddit bot. Stop over-thinking. From what I can read without having some kind of brain haemorrhage, you were in a great position, were a bit drunk, didn't work out. The fact you were in this position in the first place (if true) puts you ahead of 99% of guys on here.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:03 AM
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Nothing can increase testosterone by more than a negligible amount, except for injecting testosterone. Cut the "no fap" bullshit.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 02:00 AM
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Stop swallowing this "redpill" thing like it's some religious text. A lot of it is bullshit. The principles are what matters. I've been in the same boat - DJ, ran a record label, now work for a major dance music promoter. But while some of the "red pill" philosophies apply, it was simply common sense. Use your head, you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 01:58 AM
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Look at the big man, and from a totally neutral standpoint. I'm no fan of Trump, I'm certainly not a flag-waving patriot who hates China and wants to build a wall on the Mexican border - I'm not even from the US. But at the same time I'm not some metropolitan middle-class "elite" who is so out of touch with America they thought it could never happen, and have been horrified, daily, since he won. Trump is not a fucking idiot, he's playing a game. He knows that people living in the Hamptons or Bev…
/r/askTRP27/04/20 01:39 AM
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I don't follow the PUA scene as it's a load of shite. No disrespect to it - a lot of clever guys made a lot of money convincing ugly losers that "game" is a thing and charging them a shit ton of money to convince them they could magically pick up women through a load of bullshit techniques. And I work in the music industry - the PUA industry is a level of "take people's dreams, use them to make money, then piss on them from a great height" that we can only dream of. I read "The Game" when I was …
/r/askTRP24/04/20 02:39 AM
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You have a point. Like you say, going bald is something you have no choice over, being fat is a choice. But if you're looking on the positive side, it's because things that affect men are less likely to be seen as offensive. Yes, I know male mental health is suddenly the in-thing right now, but in general, a guy can take jokes about being bald, a woman can't take jokes about being fat. Think that's a "men vs. women" thing? Well it isn't even that simple. It's more about things you can control vs…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:48 AM
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Agreed, that happens, a lot. but it's nothing to do with this mystical "red pill" idea - it's just losers going for the wrong woman then blaming everyone but themselves. Yes, the "red pill" in some ways makes sense, but it's just basic common sense. It's not some divine philosophy. Some women are horrible, some aren't. Some men are horrible, some aren't. If the VAST majority of guys on here stopped thinking of "women" as all the same, their problems would go away.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:30 AM
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Probably UK and US political definitions being different again, but in the UK left wing is socialism, right wing is fascism. Very little government is libertarianism, which I know has a very different definition in the US. Semantics aside though, you know what I mean.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:25 AM
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I don't give a fuck about what some mental feminist might say about "patriarchy" or other such bullshit, I also don't give a fuck what some mental incel says on 4chan or the like. If you're a good looking guy and aren't socially retarded, and actually go out into the real world, you'll have no issue. Stop reading too much into things.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 10:19 PM
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Right back from an evolutionary standpoint, all the way up to a modern social view point, men generally hold more power than women. If you find it's the opposite, it is due to either you not being good looking, or being socially awkward, possibly a combination of both. Simple as that. Stop looking for pseudo-science to answer your incel bullshit.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 09:20 PM
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Stop. Obsessing. Over. Height. 5'7" is only just below average. Unless you're like 5'2 it won't make much difference. I know a guy who's 5'4 in heels and he pulls endless good looking girls. He's also slightly retarded. Because he's good looking though, he's golden. The question you need to ask is whether you're good looking. Be honest with yourself. If not, work out how to fix it. Well done for escaping the incel route. You're 18. PLENTY of time to fix this. Also, nofap is bullshit. Learn to sc…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:35 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean? I know there are differences between the US and the UK (our Prime Minister is a "classical liberal" yet regarded as mildly right-wing). By "very right-wing" I mean far-right, fascist - call it what you want but basically anyone who hates anyone different, especially based on race and sexuality. In other words, they feel threatened by it. Most guys who are extremely anti-gay and act violent towards gay guys, are secretly gay themselves, they're just too pussy to act on…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 08:25 PM
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Depends what you mean by a bum/loser. Two names I've seen in the top comments alone so far are Cory Worthington and Pete Doherty. Neither are "losers" as such. They're not on the streets or living on welfare and have had successful careers. I know in Doherty's case that while he has that smack-addict look (because he is one) he's still widely considered a good looking bloke. So is Worthington. Essentially it is mainly about looks. You mention fitness - well this is simply one aspect of looks. Mo…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:43 PM
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A great sign is someone who is very right-wing - hates Muslims, black people, gay people, immigrants, and so on. Also people who will readily fight someone or simply get physically threatening because someone else disagrees with them or even just "looks at them funny".
/r/askTRP23/04/20 07:19 PM
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Well figure your shit out then. Job done.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:36 PM
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Your title makes me wonder if I'm getting old or you're a time traveller from the 1950s....
/r/askTRP23/04/20 02:42 AM
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Jesus, the fact you actually reference "watching the Matrix" in your post sums it up. These "assholes" are just better looking. Most probably aren't assholes at all, and have a better personality than you. Accept that, and you're on your way. Sounds harsh? Then you haven't even understood what this sub is about, you're just concentrating on the whole "muhh red pill!" shit.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 02:05 AM
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A few points - Your last point is very true, or rather it should be. This sub isn't about "hating women" but unfortunately the minority of incels who shout the loudest makes it come across like that. If we can be honest with each other, how small are we talking? In my experience, like height, women don't give a fuck about dick size. I'm 6'1 and just a nudge over 7" long. Girls who've seen it are impressed, but I'm also ugly, so very few do. I often joke that if I walked around in a full burqa wi…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:59 AM
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Well, firstly thank you for opening up, now you're more helping me than me helping you, but hopefully I can be of some insight. Getting your last sentence out of the way first - I understand what you mean, the need to fight to prove your worth being a primordial instinct, but it's pointless in modern society. You've nothing to gain and everything to lose. On your main points. From my perspective I'd initially had the same feelings about people calling me ugly. First memories are as early as prim…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:45 AM
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I would recommend getting tested for an autistic spectrum disorder. Genuinely serious.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:12 AM
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I just saw this reply after writing my main one. My point 100% cast-iron guarantee proven. I'll cut my fucking balls off on a livestream if I'm wrong here. Ignore it. Be the bigger man. Count yourself fucking lucky.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:11 AM
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Yes. A HUGE red flag, but not for you, for him. I've known a few friends who got with a girl who had a close friend who is a guy. Insistent that they're just friends, and "he's like a brother to her", etc. The usual crap. I remember saying to one friend, and his girlfriend, just before she was due to graduate, that her male "best friend" was going to profess his feelings for her before they left university. They laughed and said that would never happen. Between me and my friend, he got worried -…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:07 AM
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No, never speak to other people about "red pilling" and crap like that. Don't get me wrong, this sub is great for advice and helping others, but a lot of the red pill "methods" that are written as sacrosanct are total autistic cringe bullshit aimed at luring in Incels. Even the term "the red pill" is so cringy it makes you want to pull your eyes out. Let people work it out on their own. You can guide, you can give obvious common-sense advice. But don't dress it up like some magical club. That's …
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:59 AM
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Not experienced with it myself, but friends with a few personal trainers. Most people who hire a PT nowadays given all the wealth of info out there for free online, are just looking for a quick fix. You can make a mint by taking on fat and lazy clients, running them through the basics, then just taking on new clients when they inevitably flake-out after a few months/weeks. I mean, it's not a good business model, but it's what seems to happen. Even for clients who stick it out, having some basic …
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:55 AM
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Stop making such a fucking song and dance about it and just send her the results when you get them? Call me old fashioned...
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:52 AM
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We can hold people accountable for their shit, sure. "Incel" is a label incels gave themselves. They're right to be mocked for it.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:51 AM
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Any time. I was just a bit concerned by your original post, but I accept I misunderstood the situation. I mean you could say something, but what's to gain from that? If you're happy in life, then why bother? Even if you weren't, why bother? Like I say, society shouldn't conform to anyone, even if it is nasty. And I say this from a position of weakness myself as I regularly get called ugly, and while I now actually welcome such comments (because I've accepted it's true), I realise that it is my p…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:50 AM
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I've either misunderstood this, or you're insane...
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:19 AM
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Then why are you bothered? If you can get women, and I assume you have a good circle of friends and a good social life, why are you bothered? Just ignore it in that case. The only reason it's a major problem, hence my post, is if it's denying you something in life. But it isn't, so who cares?
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:19 AM
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No reason logically that this isn't the case, but I'll cut my balls off on a live stream if it's the actual reason.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:17 AM
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It's nothing to do with "men" and "women" - there are just mental people out there in general. Some people aren't mental, but love to argue. Incels find that so hard to understand and it's a big red flag.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:16 AM
2

Testosterone is THE golden bullet for male suicide, depression, anxiety, panic attacks, low drive, low mood, lack of confidence, and so on. And fortunately, there is a lot of research suggesting it is a much better and safer solution than potentially dangerous and often unhelpful anti-depressants. I started two years ago having suffered panic attacks for years. Low appetite too. I knew I was skinny, and as I'm not a fucking idiot, I knew it was not eating enough, not "muh geneticz!". Did a blast…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:13 AM
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Upvote because I hate "book burning" just because people don't agree with a seemingly stupid/incorrect opinion. In what way are people on this thread "cowards"? Genuinely interested actually, as that could be interpreted in multiple and opposite ways!
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:09 AM
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Ask your GP. Steroid use isn't illegal, and even if it was, your GP will still treat you if you go in saying you're fucked from 5 years of smack addiction. If your GP gets shirty (some will) ask to see another GP (this is your legal right). I'm lucky to have a GP who is bloody excellent at this and regularly gives me bloods, both on and off cycle, and on a cruise. He's also only about 10 years older than me and used to be a regular at a clubbing brand I work for when he was at uni. I now sort hi…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:07 AM
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You know this "spinning plates" shit that goes around on this sub? She's doing that herself. And you're one of the plates. Sorry that sounds harsh, but I'd be my salary on it. And forget the "beta" bullshit. Just find a normal person who isn't using you for money and fucking other guys. Jesus.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:04 AM
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I'd agree with all of your post except him being "a threat" - in what way is this a "threat"?
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:00 AM
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People won't normally say things to someone's face, and given I assume you're British, that is even less likely. It is human nature to talk about people behind their back, and also human nature not to be directly confrontational. Like it or not, and most people don't, you can't change that. But let's look at why people might be saying this. I assume from what you're saying this is regular and happens in a variety of scenarios, so there must be good reason for it. For example, assuming you're whi…
/r/askTRP23/04/20 12:00 AM
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When that photo of him at the big business conference (I forget the name) was doing the rounds, plenty of people on steroid forums I'm on said it looked like a tren cycle. Obviously know way of knowing, but it isn't quite as extreme as people make out, and would have that effect in a relatively short amount of time. Tren and high dose test aren't that bad for you if you take the right precautions. People like Dorian Yates were blasting insane doses for years and never had any bad blood markers a…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:58 PM
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Exactly. And it's amazing how many people into the whole "game" thing are overweight and balding trying it on with women half their age. That said, you can lose weight and sort your hair out. You can fix everything except your height (and that is massively over-exaggerated as a factor by desperate guys. Most women don't give a fuck unless you're like, 5'2.)
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:55 PM
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Depends what you mean, and where you live.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:51 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:50 PM
2

What's a tradcon?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:38 PM
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No I was being sarcastic! I agree with you. You were right. People were being overly emotional.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:43 AM
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You make a very very good and valid point, but define "average"? I do agree - I've seen plenty of average looking guys shooting way too low because they just can't be bothered anymore. But this doesn't mean it isn't all about looks. And it is 2020 (probably not the best year to use as an example given how its turning out, but here we are...) so you don't need to just settle. There are innumerate ways to make yourself better looking, but it seems most guys on here ignore that and just focus on th…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:42 AM
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Indeed. But they have to batter a brick wall down every time. And I'm not saying it's perfect in the UK either, far from it as I detailed.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:47 AM
1

Well sure, that's totally fine. Your post just seemed to suggest something deeper. You've since said you're happy in a relationship so all good.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:44 AM
2

Bezos is fucking killing the whole PED game. He's not on TRT, he looks like he's on high-dose test, possibly a quick blast of Tren, and definitely on HGH. For reference, HGH (Human Growth Hormone) is amazing, but very expensive life elixir. A low "therapeutic" dose is why people like Jennifer Aniston looks the same as she did 20 years ago, and at a higher dose is why Bezos looked like a fucking 40 year old loser in his 20s but now looks like a badass in his mid 50s. Admittedly bodybuilding has t…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 01:03 AM
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If you don't care, then why are you posting in this thread?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:58 AM
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Not being nasty, but this is a classic sign of ASD and you need to cut that shit out. Advice - simply don't do it. Being seen as "unique, desirable and deep" is exactly the way people like this think, but it just makes you seem like a patronising know-it-all and you'll just be seen as annoying. Stop. Now.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:56 AM
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A very good moral there, but I'm going to bet it didn't happen or you deserved it. Why did is escalate? I'm guessing the fact you refer to a woman as "a female" and use phrases like "I train martial arts" is a clue. I sound harsh, and I am being, but I'm trying to be cruel in order to be kind here.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:54 AM
1

Explain your issue in more detail, then maybe we can help. I was going to say "use English" but don't want to sound patronising as I'm assuming English isn't your first language, but if you explain more in as much detail as possible, don't worry about the grammar and spelling, we'll work around it.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:52 AM
-1

I realise I came across as overly annoyed, but it is a good point. Trump literally admits to grabbing women by the pussy and people lose their shit (men and women). But for everyone woman and man out there saying how disgusting he is there are a million of their sisters pushing to the front of the queue saying "fuck that, grab this pussy".
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:49 AM
1

It's not 50/50 though, which I probably should have made clear. Most guys don't look like the Elephant Man. Most don't look like Brad Pitt either. Choose your battles. And you can always upgrade if you want. It isn't 1643.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:47 AM
2

So have I, but that's like a tiny tiny outlier. Come on, don't kid yourself man.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:45 AM
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Honestly, I'm just fed up with America's bizarre attitude to steroids. Look at how the guy's comment got downvoted and attacked for making rational sensible advice. Kind of sums up the idea of the Red Pill for me. Guys who have reasonable and proven solutions all laid out for them, but they don't care. The world is against them somehow, and everything is driven by anger and fear.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:45 AM
1

Your schedule seems to be built around shift work, which means that dictates your schedule. I wouldn't overly worry though, there are loads of guy who religiously stick to a "schedule" like it's some god-given enlightenment (check out the amazing Twitter feed "The State Of Linkedin") and I know a few people like this myself. They're almost always utter losers who are rich (granted) but they never enjoy life. Might as well be a slave.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:42 AM
-1

Are you good looking? Do women approach you rather than you having to chase them? That's 99% of it my man. A lot of the advice on here (sidebar, sticky thread with the PDF, etc) is good advice, but it predicated on you being physically attractive. And this isn't some bullshit incel "hurrr durrr, womens only like looks! Bawww" thing. PEOPLE are attracted to each other based on looks. If you walked into a random bar to find it was full of women, and they all got really excited to see and offered y…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:30 AM
1

I don't give a shit about women or their desires in fact I'm pretty much disgusted by them So you're asexual then? No desire or interest in women? If so, I apologise and retract my comments (for you, but not most people on here), but my question then is why are you bothered? Sure, working with women if you've some psychological disorder which makes you hate them must be a fucking nightmare, but the points you raise don't seem to relate to your work at all? And why not just move into a job where …
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:25 AM
1

This, and most of the replies to it, are rose-tinted glasses bullshit. You think some guy living out this pandemic on his superyacht with a load of hot girls around him is thinking like this? You think the guy living with his wife in a happy marriage with his two kids is thinking like this? You think the guy living with his girlfriend on a low income but they're just happy in each other's company is thinking like this? The problem isn't other people. It's you. Jesus, learn to read the label on t…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:20 AM
1

If you mean looks - look at a photo of your parent's high school class. They look about 40 when they're only 18. If you mean personality, no. You're living in a fantasy world driven by no contact with actual women and just looking at social media.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:18 AM
1

Jesus christ, I realise now I didn't make it 100% clear (see my other reply to the downvoted post) but obviously I mean TRT solved them. Like, within weeks. Like a new person. Who'd have thought that injecting the primary male hormone I was short of, the thing which has such a massive control over things like mood, emotion, drive, confidence, outlook on life, etc, would make such a big difference?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:17 AM
1

The "lol" indicated it was probably a joke. Anyone getting angry by this is exactly the same as one of the mental hardline feminists who ruin all the fun (and piss everyone else off) in the niceguys sub.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:15 AM
2

No. Not true at all. Get rid of that bullshit incel mindset and read some of the genuine advice on here. There is a LOT of great advice in this sub, especially in the stickied post at the top. Even there, there's a lot of pseudo-science crap aimed at pathetic losers, the whole "PUA" shtick being a prime example, but if you can't filter it out then you're never going to win. Start by asking yourself why women don't like you. The answer is probably much more simple than you expected, and yes, it m…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:13 AM
1

Aww, your comment got book-burned by the "beta" Yanks who inhabit this sub. You made the big mistake of throwing a genuine sensible solution out there (as in, the actual definition of "The Red Pill") instead of some bullshit pseudo-science aimed at incels that will only make them worse. For shame. Have an upvote and think about what you did.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:10 AM
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American I'm guessing? I see the other reply to this has been book-burned (downvoted so it's hidden) but the fact is that a lot of doctors even in a developed country like the UK won't give you TRT unless your levels are really low. I was 12.2nmol/l and the limit for TRT on the NHS is 11nmol/l. But the measurement is taken from a cross-section of the population - my levels were average for a guy in his 80s. So I bought it from the "black market" having done a LOT of research on forums and the li…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:08 AM
1

Get your levels checked. There's a lot of research being done that suggests (strongly) that TRT could be the golden bullet for male suicides. Look at a graph of male suicides by age, and natural testosterone levels by age, the correlation is staggering. I myself used to suffer awfully from panic attacks and anxiety, and while I didn't suffer from them myself, low test also causes lack of drive, lack of confidence, low mood, depression, poor sleep cycle, etc etc. But if you don't have low test, i…
/r/askTRP22/04/20 12:04 AM
2

I assume as someone who goes out clubbing regularly you're into the music? Do you want to work in that area? I work for a very well known clubbing promoter (in general, not student) and could only dreamed of having that opportunity in my day at university (dance music was fucked in the UK late 00s). So go for it for that reason, and that reason alone. If you get girls as an aside, then yeah, great. Being in a position of importance and having "power" will work in your favour, but it will make no…
/r/askTRP20/04/20 10:38 PM
5

It's because the sort of people who need a sub like this, can't be bothered to do anything for themselves, want some magic solution, and want to blame everyone and everything else.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 06:56 PM
1

In general, unless you're really skinny or fat, it shouldn't make much difference. It's surprising how little beef you have to put on for girls (or indeed anyone) to consider you muscular. The big thing I've noticed is bodyfat %. You're obviously shredded right down for competition, which in general doesn't seem to be considered as attractive. A bit of "puppy fat" to make you look less like you're about to smash through the nearest wall is about right.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 07:03 PM
2

Ah yes, and I imagine you're slaying 8s and 9s on a weekly basis aren't you?
/r/askTRP16/04/20 02:40 PM
0

Are you asking if the app works? I don't know. They might be throttling it to stop morons fucking everything up. Are you asking if you should meet up with someone? Well no, and if you do (and this applies to people who've already responded) then you're a fucking idiot and you're fucking up everything for everyone else. Stupid cunts thinking the virus doesn't apply to them. You might be alright, but what about your parents, or the old war vet who lives near you?
/r/askTRP16/04/20 01:42 AM
1

If you need to ask this, a Reddit thread isn't going to teach you. Sorry, not helpful, but to think something like this is about "frame" and obsessing over that, I don't know man. Yes, these theories work in that the principles are sound, but to put such a focus on "frame" like we're talking about an engineering problem or a statistical study, might win you a battle, but it won't win you the war.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 01:38 AM
13

Sorry - the first "red flag" was "cheated on me"? Did I read that right? I mean, did you find that out during or afterwards? That isn't a "red flag" - red flags are things that indicate someone might be cheating on you, and should be dealt with very carefully. Just things to keep an eye on, never let on you're doing so, just to find out if its true, or you're losing your mind (both have the same outcome btw). ACTUALLY cheating on you isn't a "red flag", it's a "this relationship is over". You've…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 01:34 AM
16

Talking to women like "your boys" is just fucking autistic. Talking to them like regular people is normal. Again, the same diagnosis if you aren't...
/r/askTRP16/04/20 01:30 AM
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Bingo. Incels in a nutshell.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 01:29 AM
10

Yeah, no shit mate! A lot of men (and most on here) are utterly obsessed with this "men vs women" shit. How about thinking of people as people? I don't mean going up and speaking to them like "one of the lads". Just like, fucking normally. What the hell is wrong with people?
/r/askTRP16/04/20 01:29 AM
3

This happened way before the current pandemic. And you're also to blame. I'd bet my yearly income on that. Not a criticism, a point to work on.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 01:27 AM
3

I'm probably an outlier here, but looks matter way more than you think. I'm now 30 and had the same feeling at your age, but took me until I was in my late 20s to realise it. And as I don't have much money and have to rely on the NHS (which I feel bad saying given what they're currently going through) it takes several years to get fixed. Not saying you're in the same boat btw, but I'm just answering your "things I wish I'd known when I was younger". Reverse Body Dysmorphia is incredibly rare, so…
/r/askTRP16/04/20 01:25 AM
1

Not specifically, but I know they've opened shops, malls, cinemas, restaurants, bars, nightclubs, etc in most areas.
/r/askTRP12/04/20 03:05 PM
2

Yes, keep it a DIRE secret, because while the science is correct at a basic level and most of the advice given in subs like this is positive, most of the followers are raging incels who claim to be agree with the science and philosophy of "not coming across as a mental when you're trying to attract women" but actually just blame everyone else and get subs like this banned. TL;DR - Tread carefully, and keep your mouth shut.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 11:43 PM
1

This is twofold, and you don't give enough detail to know which it is. Firstly, you're either focusing on this issue because you've got confidence issues and are only noticing what you perceive are the less attractive girls. I know you didn't explicitly say that, but I've noticed the same myself and as this isn't my issue, I know this can happen. Secondly, you could just be less attractive and that's why fat girls like you - less of an ask, a lower target, etc. Hence my point - I assumed that I …
/r/askTRP11/04/20 11:39 PM
3

THIS. The OP is just looking at what people are writing on Reddit. 90%+ is probably bullshit. They're still doing well, but no one can be perfect all the time, unless they're a psychopath in which case their idea of "perfect" is going to end very, very badly for them.
/r/askTRP11/04/20 11:31 PM
3

It's an option. But I don't see why he needs to join the military. Guy surely has enough to support himself for the short term, and he's got his own business. Insane to throw that away to join the army or something.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:28 PM
1

Now is probably the only time in living history that this might not be possible - but get the fuck out of there. I was expecting some reason why you can't - was expecting it to be financial to be honest as it's the biggest reason normally. But you've said you have enough money to support yourself AND her. I'm sure you have enough money to move out if you are willing to. Fucking leave (as soon as this pandemic is over of course). Also, moving out doesn't mean cutting all contact. She'll still wan…
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:27 PM
1

Ahh, total silence in response to that, as expected.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:22 PM
1

Aside from reiterating my previous point, I'm genuinely intrigued if you'd be willing? What are your major issues surrounding what you've said? I realise what you're saying in general, but how has it affected you personally in your day to day life? What would you like to see changed for the better? Both in terms of your personal life and in society in general?
/r/askTRP09/04/20 11:35 PM
2

Exactly. Not comfortable with that.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 09:16 PM
3

You sound like a militant feminist though. That's my point - it isn't about "men vs women" it's about assholes vs successful people. I'd get out more and work on improving yourself, rather than getting angry on the internet and reading bullshit articles written by other angry men. If that sounds nasty, I didn't mean it to be - I'm genuinely trying to help. But if you take it like that, that's kind of the point of what I'm saying. It's none of my business. It doesn't affect me.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 09:11 PM
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No, we have no allegiance to "fellow men" whatsoever. If a man wants help to stop being pathetic and worthless, I'll happily give it to him. But we are not duty-bound. If people want to make a change, fine. But if not, it's their problem, no one else.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:40 PM
3

I like it. As others have said, if losers are willing to give you money for it, more power to you. As a guy I'd do it myself, but I know if would be weirdo gay guys. Nothing against gay people myself, but it would seem weird.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:05 PM
1

I'd suggest you're over-generalising and should probably stop chasing women way too young for you. It's that same old cognitive bias - Rosy Introspection, in other words "things used to be better in my day". If you're experiencing this universally with women (of any age group) you probably need to diversify your social groups and/or stop going after the wrong people.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:41 PM
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Because it isn't black and white (or blue and red in this instance) but they've taken it as such. Also a lot of these people were fans of the whole "red pill" idea, but didn't actually put any of it into practice. Similar to how so many Jordan Peterson fans rave about how great he is, but don't follow even the most basic advice/steps he tells these losers to take. My personal viewpoint on this "phenomenon" - a lot of the ideas posited by more intelligent posters and articles on here, are worthwh…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:39 PM
1

We'll see what happens this weekend. If people stop fucking around and selfishly keep meeting up with their mates, then we'll get through it quicker.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:28 PM
1

You lost all credibility there, and I say that based on your previous post - read my reply. Bold could give you a "bigger" dick size but only because of increased bloodflow and "bigger" erections. Nothing will affect the actual size of your penis.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 12:03 AM
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Where are you? Massively depends on that. China? Already open. Italy and many other countries bordering it? Probably early May. The UK (where I am)? Probably late May/early June. The US? Probably late summer. August/September maybe, but possibly as early as July depending on when your peak is and how fast/far it spreads.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 12:00 AM
1

To clarify though - I don't know what the science behind it is, but like I say I've always had naturally low test but have a large dick and balls (before anyone starts, I have no reason or anything to gain from lying here). I would assume that the ball size thing is simply because natural testosterone levels are not the soul or even the primary factor in the size. Perhaps in low test individuals that is even less so - non testosterone producing cells make up a lower % of the overall mass so also…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 11:00 PM
1

Nein. First time I did test was a "blast" (and was amazing) and I took progress photos in the mirror every few days. Largely to check on muscle growth, which was impressive, but also took them naked just to check on whether the "you balls shrinking is a myth" thing is indeed a myth. It was. No shrinkage at all. Maybe some slight tightening of the scrotum but you can never tell if it's the weather. Also was convinced they felt a bit "softer" but that might have been placebo too. Actually quite an…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 10:52 PM
1

Yes, I blast and cruise on testosterone. I have some Tren, but pointless trying it while this shit is going on.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 10:22 PM
1

Yes. Suffered dreadfully with panic attacks and general anxiety, basically saved my life. Confidence and general self-assertion is miles better though, but I never had poor confidence with women. Worth noting I get rejected all the time, but it's because I'm ugly. I am fixing this though with surgery. As for the drawbacks - none I can think of particularly. High libido is a feature, but not something I'd complain about. Just knock one out, it isn't going to kill you. Not being able to control yo…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 06:49 PM
3

Calories in / calories out. As everyone else says, eat less, exercise more. And counting calories is simple using MyFitnesspal. If you can't be bothered to do that, you're just lazy.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 06:46 PM
2

Report him to HR. He sounds like an insecure dick and should be fired. Take solace in the fact everyone you work with probably hates him already, so they'll be on your side.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 06:44 PM
2

The article about gaining respect for a guy is largely spot on, despite sounding like a moody edgy teenager. But I wouldn't say women want sympathy as a rule. Tarring all women with the same brush in terms of emotional needs is perhaps the biggest mistake incels make. Being sympathetic to a woman when it is warranted (something bad has happened to her) is obviously the right thing to do, but that's just common sense and applies (like most of these things) to both women and men. If your best budd…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 06:43 PM
1

Genetics mainly. Anything else is largely negligible aside from certain medical conditions or medications which can suppress it. It is true however that low testosterone is probably the key reason behind the awful male suicide rate (compare a graph of male suicide rates by age, and male natural testosterone levels by age, and the correlation is scary) and a lot of research is being done into this. If you feel you have symptoms of low testosterone, my main advice would be to get your levels check…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 06:38 PM
2

What sort of music? I work in the music industry (electronic music specifically) and 90%+ of DJs are men. What are you talking about?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 06:35 PM
1

The only thing that can increase testosterone more than a negligible amount, is injecting testosterone. At your age, it doesn't matter, because you'll be producing more than enough anyway, and injecting more can cause issues - mainly the premature closing of growth plates on bones, and at 5'6, you've probably got another few inches to grow yet. As others have said, keep healthy, eat properly, sleep properly (the most over-looked factor) and master lifting weights concentrating on form and the bi…
/r/askTRP08/04/20 06:34 PM
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