Why do these “PUAs” go off the grid and settle down?

btrpb · 2020-04-24T06:13:11+00:00

As an older guy, the PUA lifestyle is for kids. Running around bars, day game, chasing women, to post videos on YouTube and garner likes. At some point you're gonna grow out of that shit.

TRP is where it's at. Build your own life, sprinkle in some game. Develop your mind, body and career. Live your own experiences. Spin a couple of plates.

bsutansalt · 2020-04-24T10:16:49+00:00

Just about all the big name PUAs from back in the day are blue pill to the core. They just got good at screening for women who were already into them because they approached thousands of women.

The women these guys wound up settling down with though almost always were shitty for LTRs because they never trained themselves to see through women's BS and screen for LTR qualities.

One of the best PUAs alive, AFC Adam, ended up settling down in a three-way relationship. On paper it sounds great, but the devil is in the details. The American chick was a single mother who he married and later knocked up, and Russian chick wanted her green card. This was after his ex-wife cheated on him with some other PUA a while back.

Just because guys are good at going out and being fun and can do very well with dancing monkey game, it doesn't mean the are red pilled and have their heads on straight. ALSO, the PUA stuff is only really attainable in your 20s and 30s. At some point you just become the weird old guy at the bar like the RSD guys wound up becoming. Owen Cook/Tyler Durden looks like Leisure Suit Larry in his videos on youtube. It's not how you find success on into your 40s, 50s, and 60s, and beyond.

The long-term red pill is where it's at, which is to focus on yourself by building an amazing lifestyle, getting in shape, building an empire, and so on. Do that and you WILL have women in your life.

MotiMorphosys · 2020-04-23T23:51:41+00:00

They find something more meaningful to pursue

aegeaorgnqergerh · 2020-04-24T02:39:13+00:00

I don't follow the PUA scene as it's a load of shite. No disrespect to it - a lot of clever guys made a lot of money convincing ugly losers that "game" is a thing and charging them a shit ton of money to convince them they could magically pick up women through a load of bullshit techniques. And I work in the music industry - the PUA industry is a level of "take people's dreams, use them to make money, then piss on them from a great height" that we can only dream of. I read "The Game" when I was like 19 and realised what the reality was, have since applied it to fucking over young musicians for as much money as we can milk out of their young dreams.

I'd like to see examples of these guys though. It'll be one of two things -

- The whole thing was an act and they could get women easily due to not being an ugly loser. They found someone they clicked with, there's no point. All this "plates" bullshit is from guys who are just deeply unhappy in themselves.

- They were an ugly loser and never got any success with "game". They just tricked other ugly losers into thinking they did and then settled for less when they got bored and made enough money.

I actually admire both scenarios.

j0hnNM94 · 2020-04-24T06:00:27+00:00

Because they’re done selling you material.

RedSkeller · 2020-04-23T23:56:31+00:00

Because they're using what they've learned as a tool kit to achieve their goals then dipping out. Most of them are deep down BP and likely have made their money and cash out.

thrwy75479 · 2020-04-24T03:00:12+00:00

Transformations are part of life. Sex, and death are intertwined.

For many guys, intimacy, and raising kids is equivalent to death, since it requires acceptance of your own mortality, as you realize that new life is created, old life moves toward a definite end. And time, undefeated, continues to march forward.

In the long run, having a devoted wife, and a legacy for your kids to carry on successfully is the ultimate goal. Everything else is secondary, and, at some point, that includes you.

Religious beliefs, and all other philosophical bullshit are meandering rationalizations to keep at bay the true reality, which is that we're born, we eat, sleep, and fuck, and we die.

If you didn't procreate, you've failed, and wiped yourself out of the gene pool. Life goes on fine without you, but it only goes on if people keep producing progeny, in the eternal hopes for better futures.

TheBadGoy · 2020-04-24T08:23:14+00:00

Because after fucking so many women they feel empty. But instead of reading Evola, Nietzsche or Schopenhauer they crawl back to their bluepill fantasy of settling down or dedicating their life to being a Christcuck

redvelvet_oreo · 2020-04-24T03:26:12+00:00

This post comes up some what frequently and I dont understand why people care so much about what happens to PUAs.

Extract the knowledge they are providing to you which would be learn how to game. That is it. Whatever happens to these people afterwards is not your concern.

Most dudes dont want to slay random chicks forever. Alot of guys like the idea of stability and to have kids. I dont think there is anything really wrong with that but it does have it limits and clear down sides in modern day society.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-04-24T06:53:18+00:00

Because they get older and want to settle down? LTRs aren’t blue pill if you’ve vetted them well

WolfofAllStreetz · 2020-04-24T12:07:46+00:00

Because post 35 fucking and chucking gets old. Most of those guys are just cons anyway looking for clicks for youtube.

Source: Post 35 Man.

WIA20XX · 2020-04-24T02:00:46+00:00

Testosterone drops and they can't put up with dumb chicks and their inane behavior. Find someone pretty and sane, until the relationship blows up.

cedricgopnik · 2020-04-24T01:02:10+00:00

Simple.

Because you cannot spend your whole life being a cynical bastard. TRP and the PUA culture is full of common sense and good advices but the theories mostly applies to broken/jadded girls who are not ltr material anyway.

One day, you meet a healthy girl who got her shits together, genuinely appreciate nice guys, flowers and shit and you give up the bad boy attitude.

Pursuing this line of work when you're settling down and thinking about a family seems quite contradictory

Title	Why do these “PUAs” go off the grid and settle down?
Author	martyn100999
Upvotes	4
Comments	36
Date	April 23, 2020 11:45 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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