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Her having a boyfriend is the best thing for you. She will want the divorce over with fast and draging things out will feel like preventing her from happiness. If they break up, watch out though
/r/Divorce_Men22/07/26 10:01 PM
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You're problem isn't that you're insufficiently able to manipulate your wife into doing what you want, or in being a 6 year old who didn't put his toys away. You're here to be overtly manipulative to enable a lack of drive and mission in your life. Your wife is a social striver and you want to coast. So either you need to develop a passion for something, or she needs to accept this is all you are gonna be and to be cool with that. Anything else is two people afraid to do what needs to be done. A…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/26 07:52 PM
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back to the plantation, bro.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/26 02:19 PM
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I can smell a FOB indian a mile away
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/26 03:37 PM
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He accused me of using AI, fuck him.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/26 04:58 PM
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Use it or go away. Don't waste my time being complementary I don't care. I'm using you as a cautionary example for others, consider that
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/26 12:56 PM
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https://rianstone.substack.com/p/case-study-the-cargo-cult-of-masculinity TLDR; youre performing in a Cargo Cult, and aren't living up to the goals you set for yourself, even though most of them are you hiding the badness. the few things you've done that would be useful in a field report, you gloss over because it's embarassing. You'll never achieve anything unless you take this seriously
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/26 08:08 PM
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Who flared this guy? What are you even talking about
/r/MarriedRedPill05/05/26 07:25 PM
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okay
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/26 07:30 PM
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I'll bet it felt good for a revenge fantasy. It was hard to notice since you buried it under hundreds of words of things that have nothing to do with your reason for being here and doing all this 'work' Also, had you actually read either of my books you'd know that your wife is hysterically bonding to you, and you are doing your best to avoid leaving her and the sense of abandonment you'll get from it. you're using this place to lie to yourself. Until you're honest with yourself nothing will cha…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/26 05:57 PM
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> I need to fix my sex life with my wife or leave her. This is a manipulative goal and won't work. You can't make your wife want to fuck you more. you can be more fuckable, you can choose who you fuck, and you can decide to change your goal. What you can't do is make your wife fuck you
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/26 03:25 PM
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I'm not brittle, if it's something that bad enough that you'd want to deal with it you'll probably see it yourself.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/26 08:37 PM
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I'll try it out.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/26 04:40 PM
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I used to all the time. GLO and his followers made it not worth my while.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/26 04:25 PM
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Fuccfiles, Frame, Dread, Field Reports, Prax 4 just came out, Softbone, Dog Walker and Ghost of Odessa is out in 2 weeks, along with a special book I gave to guests at a conference a few years back. And thanks. It's incredibly easy to write compelling and realistic characters when you take the stuff from the red pill and place it onto people.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/26 04:24 PM
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I have 9 books out. 6 non fiction and 3 fiction, with characters who are built from the mental models in here.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/26 05:03 PM
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More personal experience, less theorycrafting.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/26 05:01 PM
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https://theredarchive.com/r/MarriedRedPill/how-not-to-handle-your-wife-finding-mrp-and-why.200111
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/26 03:51 PM
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No one engages with your OWS because you're doing 'paint by numbers' masculinity. Start taking things seriously and people will start taking you seriously.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/11/25 04:43 PM
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lol
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 06:00 PM
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'we' you.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/25 06:18 PM
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Haven't changed a bit, lol
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/25 03:53 PM
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Ph no, the red pill spaces are full of bravado, whatever will we do?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/25 03:52 PM
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Glover talks about the fear of abandonment, hiding the badness etc. It's all the root of what you're talking about... self esteem the way it works for guys is we accomplish things outside our comfort zone which emboldens us to achieve things further outside our comfort zone. the simple solution is to start accomplishing things outside your comfort zone that aren't a big as the examples with your wife, and build from there.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/25 03:50 PM
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What does that look like, specifically?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/25 06:38 PM
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22 fields reports so far. I've read through them all and you've never once articulated what your problem is and what solving it looks like. What are you even doing here?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/09/25 05:54 PM
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I'm fucking with you. This is the 500th PUA style guy trying to give out Married Red Pill advice and they are all tone deaf and autistic.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/08/25 03:22 PM
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how do I build a connection with a wife?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/25 11:25 PM
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boundary enforcement is so better over the long term
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/25 10:52 AM
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Oh, and not that it matters, your girlfriend is a dud, and you've decided to avoid dealing with your own hard questions by treating her like your stray cat you nurse back to health. It's a covert contract where you think you can fix her depression and she will love you forever and have a problem free life. If you've read Glover I shouldn't have to tell you any more than that.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 07:55 PM
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It's been months and you haven't answered the only question worth asking "What do I want?" Because if you do, you are worried it will be the wrong answer. It will always be the wrong answer, but at your age the stakes are so low you don't have to care. Long as it doesn't knock a woman up or send you to jail you'll bounce back. But you're scared of consequences you cannot articulate (because they don't exist, but you won't believe me) and probably agree with me because instead of understand what …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 07:40 PM
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Men are stupid. Men can't vet for shit. We lie to ourselves in order to make ourselves feel good about what we are given. Vetting doesn't work anyways, because people can lie.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 06:39 PM
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> This is a place to share tools and knowledge A real question for you. Why is it you think you have anything to offer anyone else when it comes to any of this? You're right, it's not a religion. Religion offers forgiveness and belonging and community. People do work here, and from what I've seen so far you've been navel gazing since you got here, after shopping for a self improvement space to fit your brand preferences; that you're already arguing with as not being right. Your best bet is to go…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 06:38 PM
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You got this champ. I'm sure the bullshit list of qualifiers you thought real hard about will do much better than the experience of everyone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 06:35 PM
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A fairly robust report, considering you didn't do anything
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/25 06:21 PM
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It's funny. I took a look through your OYS history. At no point did you articulate what your problem is and what you're trying to do. All I see is you doing some paint by numbers of what everyone else in here is doing. Do you have a goal? Is there actually a problem in your life you want to overcome? Or is it just hanging out and fitting in? Someone asked you 5 months ago and you acknowledged that you were missing a reason... yet here we are? My purpose is to have a good life, to make it possibl…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/08/25 03:06 PM
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I'm surprised your sole mission hasn't been to shut that down... She's actively #metoo'ing you, this is not friend behavior. I'd be livid, fire and brimstone etc.
/r/RPChristians31/07/25 02:36 AM
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I'm surprised your sole mission hasn't been to shut that shit down... She's actively #metoo'ing you, this is not friend behavior
/r/RPChristians31/07/25 02:35 AM
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> Church mentors got called up and were told that I assaulted my wife, even though she didn't say "no" or "stop" to anything I was doing. told by whom?
/r/RPChristians31/07/25 01:37 AM
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5 years, and you do the same thing, every time. Start something, get a modest gain from it, quit, then come here like a catholic confessional looking for absolution. In 5 years, the only notable thing you accomplished was the weight loss, 20 pounds in 5 years. Not ambitious by any means. 5 years, and you keep cheerleading that 1903 book of empty pablum. It's basically The Secret. You haven't even bothered to get through married man sex life primer, which is is directly applicable to you. You hav…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/25 06:36 PM
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Did you send this email from work? What the fuck. > The way I see it, found your problem, sir. Well, that and the DEER of a response you gave. Actually it's mostly that you diary everything and do nothing. I'm sure you'll have a long winded response to why I'm wrong and you've simultaneously got a good reason for it, as well as plans for doing something at some point in the future, probably. I appreciate how you'll mind your Ps and Qs when and assuring me you took no offense as well. Does reddit…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/07/25 01:58 PM
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thx
/r/TheRedPill10/05/25 05:06 PM
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> try stuff out If that was what you were doing I wouldn't have commented. Do things for purpose.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 02:58 PM
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I'm not sure how you've read Praxeology and not written a better Field report. This reads like you're post hoc justifying what's happened to you, and not a single example of an OODA loop. You started with a New Years resolution (will fix workout and diet.... tomorrow) added in some no fap bullshit which has nothing to do with anything except for marketing grifters for christian young men. worse yet, you couldn't be bothered to have a reason for it. My god man, what's the point of building a sexl…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/25 02:04 PM
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cart before the horse
/r/MarriedRedPill18/03/25 02:49 PM
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What are you even trying to accomplish? I see a list of random self improvement activities and some hand waving because I don't think you can even describe if you're making progress to any meaningful goal. Doing drugs and hoping enlightenment comes out the other end doesn't cut it. Take some responsibility for your own choices. Better yet, try making one
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/25 04:26 PM
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Your field reports would have been far better off analyzing how you know those were shit tests, why you think you failed them, and what would have been a better course of action. Then people are able to share their experiences which would help everyone. A diary entry of intentions and wishes does you no good.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/25 05:22 PM
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Other than naval gazing, what have you done?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/25 04:58 PM
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If you are waiting for the world to make things easier on you, you'll be waiting a long time.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/23 09:54 PM
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If you really want to be more effective, write your FR in the past tense. good luck
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/23 05:31 PM
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Surely you've heard me talk about new years resolutions...
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/23 02:01 PM
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It's a dated piece of advice, the point he's getting at is not to be afraid of peacocking.
/r/askMRP18/10/23 01:11 PM
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lose ten pounds before you talk to me
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 12:08 PM
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who are you talking to? No ones here, you're sitting alone staring at a screen
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 11:52 AM
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this is smug AF
/r/MensRights08/08/23 12:53 AM
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thats basic plate theory then
/r/askMRP28/07/23 12:46 PM
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why are you fighting so hard for something 5 months old? I have towels older than that
/r/askMRP28/07/23 12:41 PM
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So far all I've seen is you bitch, you'll forgive me if I don't know you're inner beauty. Why are you here then?
/r/askMRP28/07/23 12:38 PM
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If you put in a modicum of work, take your own problems seriously, then people are usually full of assistance. Walking in here with your hat in hand and 0 reason for anyone to believe you'll not waste their time will get you the shitty treatment.
/r/askMRP27/07/23 01:10 PM
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It's not as great as you think. I've dealt with guys like this. They don't actually want to be mentored, they want to be coddled. The money is there because they think it's the only way to keep you around. But the hassle isn't worth it.
/r/askMRP27/07/23 01:09 PM
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Looking for a new dad isn't the answer. ​ It's called mental point of origin for a reason
/r/askMRP27/07/23 01:08 PM
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You're going to where you're being given the most value. you have no expectations, hence no contract
/r/askMRP13/07/23 06:28 PM
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He was a dumbass, but had a solid boundary enforcement. She waited until he was with another girl and had a kid to release it. His PR people had him create CYA texts, knowing she would release those as well. Everything else is a 'Fresh N Fit on the brain' theory craft
/r/TheRedPill13/07/23 06:27 PM
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In this thread: everyone eventually starts rating redditors on a ten scale
/r/AllPillDebate10/07/23 02:21 PM
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absence
/r/askMRP06/07/23 05:42 PM
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That's not what I'm talking about.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/06/23 08:36 PM
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how long an LTR lasts This was never the goal of this place, nor should it be
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/23 05:11 PM
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I've always hated this stuff in here. Not because I don't think it's accurate, but that men start to create this covert contract about it. I remember red curious posting about conditioning his wife to love his touch and shit like that. As soon as guys hear anxious avoidant they start treating their wife like a DIY project and jumping the shark
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/23 02:59 AM
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Your posting history alone is indication enough that you have no idea what you're talking about
/r/askMRP12/06/23 02:26 PM
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That's not our place to sell you on the benefits. That's the girls job. Let her do her job
/r/askMRP12/06/23 12:59 PM
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I think you misunderstand the mod flair. It was a warning, not a flex.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/23 05:33 PM
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The host Brian is an icky red pill guy. If that were the case he would have a clue. He doesn't.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/23 06:08 PM
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The Entirety of my work on youtube is just talking about the exact thing the mod team is telling guys to do in here. It's going over the sidebar, bringing up old OYS field reports, and occasionally my own thoughts.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/23 01:59 PM
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men can be spurred into action Spurr yourself, no one exists to coddle you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/23 01:50 PM
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Same as everyone else bro. Problems happen, you look for solutions, find a place, and do work to solve problems. Then a few of us put some pennies back in the 'take a penny, leave a penny' tray. Now stop talking like a bitch
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/23 01:46 PM
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It's called the scoreboard
/r/askMRP31/05/23 06:16 PM
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It's not, I'm still baffled how guys screw it up. Questions to to askmrp one victim puke only write your field reports from your perspective (I vs she) Make an effort to read the sidebar Lift something It ain't rocket science, it's the bare fucking minimum
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 06:08 PM
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Maybe we need more than one post on how to anal train your wife Is anyone whining in these forums trying to fuck their wife in the ass? The easiest way to get more of that content is to try it and report what happened. No ones writing about it. wonder why?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 06:07 PM
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I think we should start giving people a pat on the back and a lot more credit for being brave enough to post their victim pukes What is this, fucking Oprah?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 06:05 PM
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People yell at you because they think you're not a waste of time. That's their mistake, not yours.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 06:05 PM
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so I don’t get the bizarre obsession with this when I can list 100 other more important variables to being successful with women and in one’s marriage. Nothing is stopping anyone. The complaints here boil down to "Why are people not posting content for me?" when the real complaint is "Why am I not posting field reports about the aspects that are important for them, using the subreddit as a means to refine my thoughts?" The comments aren't the point, they are almost not even relevant. People like…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 06:04 PM
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but it seems that for this sub MRP is being an "autistic mute who lifts", and anything more than that is doing too much If that's your takeaway, then it's probably best if you don't
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 06:01 PM
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No one thinks about food until there isn't any
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 06:01 PM
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They love intelligent discussion over there
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 05:59 PM
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If you're searching 'why wont my wife fuck me' on the internet then you're one of those guys ... maybe there's a place for intelligent, thought-provoking discussion for those who aren't the whining bitch or the macho meathead. the fact that you think this is the dynamic is why it's the way it is here. Testicular cancer hug parties will turn this place into a sulking cope-fest faster than anything. intelligent discussion is a cope for flaccid, underachieving, coping strategies. People here are sm…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 05:59 PM
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My point is, don’t expect anyone here to even remotely care about you, anything you say.. or any problem you may have. Sounds like the lesson was perfectly sent and received. My guess is people started to treat you better when you started treating yourself better as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 05:52 PM
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Boo fucking hoo. I came here 7 years ago and got my ass handed to me by people who didn't get admin banned for using slurs. If you can't handle a little bad language from random assholes on the internet, then your wife will really eat your lunch. This place is what you make it, stop demanding that everyone tone it down to accommodate weak men who don't know why their wives won't fuck them. That will kill this place faster than it killed the Athol Kay Forums
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/23 05:50 PM
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I don't know how useful it can be, but ill say what I know. My friends and I are all settled down, everyones kids are around 10 now. The girls they settled down with were girls they picked up at the bar or met through a friend, dated casually for a while the one day we just noticed the girl was living with them. Even me. I was dating my girl casually for a year after my deployment (and had her as a plate a year prior to) then one day just started dating. We were all 28-32 years old, some of the …
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 05:38 PM
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I couldn't tell ya, you'd have to ask the ladies in here. From the friends of mine who briefly fooled around with fuccboys it seemed obvious to me but they were dumbfounded. My guess is that girls ego's blind them to the obvious. as a guy I can sympathize
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 05:32 PM
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Everyone focuses way too hard on the notch count, it's a secondary indication, like how women can tell if a guy is muscular by looking at his forearms. Guys treat it as a proxy for a woman who will likely grow bored/dissatisfied and leave. Everything else is post-hoc rationalization for that. As a girl, you can literally say any number and if a guy wants to believe it, he will. But the behaviour that comes with someone who loves to sleep around and not even try to committ to a dude for any lengt…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/23 07:35 PM
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The guy that leaves after sex was going to leave anyways. The trick for you is to tell the difference between him and the guy who has potential to stick around.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/23 07:29 PM
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You know what, sure. You got this man.
/r/AllPillDebate27/05/23 01:47 AM
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Plausable: seeming reasonable or probable. [emphasis mine] Realistic: representing familiar things in a way that is accurate or true to life.
/r/AllPillDebate26/05/23 01:34 AM
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"yes but not yes", I can't continue if you're going to purposefully not understand the difference between plausability and realism
/r/AllPillDebate25/05/23 08:05 PM
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you have to be somewhat realistic for There's a reason the red pill term is the 'Disney fantasy' dude. They have to be plausible, not realistic. We've been down this road and it always ends up with asinine abstract arguments while no one is actually living their lives. You don't have to believe me
/r/AllPillDebate25/05/23 12:37 PM
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I don't think a screenwriter is a useful example of anything, unless you live on the internet. They get to create reality for a living
/r/AllPillDebate23/05/23 03:03 PM
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As opposed to what?
/r/MensRights08/05/23 04:11 PM
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Perhaps you should speak with a lawyer in your jurisdiction then, or read up on your local law because reddit is a horrible place to ask this. No one even knows which country you're in dude.
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 01:00 PM
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Try it, report back with what you find out.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 12:57 PM
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Other than spite, why are you fighting over, at best, 10k in costs when you're earning 80k a year?
/r/Divorce_Men08/05/23 12:57 PM
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Because talking accomplishes nothing and no one owes you anything
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 12:55 PM
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navel gazing is not helpful.
/r/AllPillDebate08/05/23 12:54 PM
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8 years, nothing changes
/r/askMRP08/05/23 12:52 PM
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So why did you need advice then? Or were you looking for permission?
/r/askMRP06/05/23 11:27 AM
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He isn't trying to solve anything. He's looking to get his opinion validated so he doesn't have to take responsibility for it. He will ignore all the advice in here after thanking everyone who says exactly what he wants to hear and arguing with anyone who is actually helpful. in a few days he will delete his account out of embarrassment and everyone who thought they were helping will learn about valuing their time on this subreddit by refusing to help people who haven't done anything before comi…
/r/askMRP05/05/23 06:48 PM
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Leave her or get over it because I can smell your seeping gape from here
/r/askMRP05/05/23 06:19 PM
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All I ask is that if you name drop me, don't embarrass me in here
/r/askMRP05/05/23 06:17 PM
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We all know this ends with him wearing padding and getting attacked by dogs...
/r/askMRP05/05/23 01:49 PM
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What the fuck are you on about?
/r/askMRP03/05/23 06:35 PM
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Lol, another alpha-as-wolf scenario
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/23 02:05 PM
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Lose ten pounds I lost 9 pounds, so I didn't achieve my goal. Fuck more than once a week I fucked my wife twice every week but shark week. Perhaps I shouldn't be so rigid on the numbers, but we fucked plenty and I'm happy e.g.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 04:27 PM
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Why are you telling me? I don't care what you do
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/23 04:26 PM
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S.M.A.R.T.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/23 03:55 PM
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Stop listening to your wife. Women have no idea how their body works or what it responds to. More importantly. I’ve also got lots of codependent tendencies from my upbringing and past relationships that I’m unwinding bit by bit. It’s hard for me to not be afraid of someone else’s emotions. Fucking pathetic. Don't do this. self deprecation like this is a shield to prevent criticism. It's just as much a nice guy behaviour as the rest of the traits you listed. Take your emotions and your ego out of…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/23 01:49 PM
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showing up isn't progress, your statements are all vague and fungible. You should really avoid the marketing terms like 'leveling up' 'best self' and others ... They replace you actually defining things in your life and making their outcomes binary (either you succeed or you fail)
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/23 01:46 PM
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Plus, you have probably the greatest example of what holding frame means. few people have had as much internet shit testing as you did. For a while there, 4 subreddits were hyper focused on hating you and you didn't even flinch
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/23 01:39 PM
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There was a sidebar to the right. You ignored all of it and applied nothing from it. Now you're here acting entitled to more. You've shown 0 effort to figure it out on your own, and are now having a temper tantrum because I don't think you're just super special and hand feeding you material that you likely won't use anyways. You're here for a pity party. You should have been here to get reading and put in some effort. Had you at least started with Michaels story and the top posts from this sub '…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/23 08:35 PM
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you're not famous, you're sexually frustrated with an ego.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/23 01:41 PM
1

It's trash, don't worry about your ego. Just move on and take the lesson
/r/TheRedPill16/04/23 05:31 PM
2

Sounds like the tough love I needed to hear. For anyone reading this, I have found a 100% correlation between guys who say this, and guys who make no practical moves to implementing anything. OP will be back in the longhouse in a month, just watch
/r/TheRedPill16/04/23 05:30 PM
3

none of that will meet or seduce women. You're replacing his 'self improvement' masturbation with different masturbation
/r/TheRedPill16/04/23 05:29 PM
3

TRP has been about becoming a man first for me and getting women second First step is to admit you lied to yourself and listened to retards.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/23 05:28 PM
1

Is short hair required for the job? Honestly, assuming your sikh and Canadian, you can basiucally human rights tribunal all this, even the military can't force you to fit into the helmet
/r/MensRights16/04/23 05:24 PM
1

lol. Thats not a book, thats a pamphlet. this is a book
/r/AllPillDebate24/03/23 11:00 PM
5

If you listen to retards like Andrew Tate and the fresh and fit guys it's your own fault. I mean there's 2 Reddit redpill subs that have been around for a decade now and you didn't even bother to give them a cursory glance before writing this post.
/r/AllPillDebate23/03/23 11:04 AM
0

Are people supposed to love you for no reason at all?
/r/AllPillDebate23/03/23 11:03 AM
-1

Lol. Date a girl, you'll see a lot of emotions coming outta her dudde
/r/AllPillDebate23/03/23 11:02 AM
3

You do realize this was a decade ago when it originally aired right? I remember seeing this in the 2000s when I was still in fleet school
/r/AllPillDebate15/03/23 01:48 PM
1

When you try to make the media into your dad, don't be surprised if he doesn't love you.
/r/AllPillDebate15/03/23 01:47 PM
15

How do we support our men when they are grieving? Leave him alone. Bring him some food if you wanna help, but leave him alone.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/23 03:11 PM
2

couldn't say. I never thought to ask them
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/23 09:07 PM
7

I'm thinking it's more of a marketing thing than an actual exodus. Anyone whose spent any time in thailand (I have) knows that you run into more Australian Expats than locals. Same with Canadians and Americans in the baja Mexico. Even Patrice Oneil was talking about the popularity of Brazil for Black americans... Whats old is new again.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/23 01:44 PM
-3

Blackpillers don't need a discussion, they need experience. Anyman who is talking about their points and taking them seriously deserves to wallow in it. Don't even bother arguing with them, they don't want to be happy, they want to be 'right'
/r/AllPillDebate09/02/23 01:26 AM
16

Ever read Dr. Glover? He has a great section in his book about validation seeking behaviours. It's in between the first and last page
/r/askMRP09/02/23 01:23 AM
11

yet here we are
/r/askMRP09/02/23 01:22 AM
4

I recently called my wife out for slacking off on her duties. Holding bitches accountable, you're the man! So this time, I chose to call her out intensely, but clearly and rationally What the fuck does clearly and rationally have to do with anything?
/r/askMRP09/02/23 01:22 AM
2

Can I contribute here? I haven't stopped you yet.
/r/askMRP09/02/23 01:20 AM
2

Well contribute before you start swinging your dick around demanding change.
/r/askMRP07/02/23 02:54 PM
1

Seriously, who TF are you?
/r/askMRP05/02/23 11:44 PM
6

I also love how we Who TF are you? I don't recall you doing fuck all in the last 8 years, did I miss your work?
/r/askMRP02/02/23 05:09 PM
4

There's two concepts, infidelity, and the perception of infidelity. From your end, all you can (and seem to) do is not cheat, and not put yourself in a position where people think you have. That's all you can do, beyond that, he has to accept that you care enough about him that you don't make him has to question you, and look into why he's so worried about it if/when it comes up. But you can't change him, you can only make sure your house is clean. And one thing a lot of people miss: If you have…
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 02:56 PM
4

I'm not reading all this but I'm happy for you, or I'm sorry to hear that.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/23 02:50 PM
6

Not my problem.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/23 10:20 AM
52

it's for his own good. 6 years and he's still just writing reddit posts and doing fuck all else
/r/TheRedPill06/01/23 07:13 PM
26

I remember when it was only chicks who were into Hybristophilia
/r/TheRedPill06/01/23 07:10 PM
19

except for the GLO posts
/r/TheRedPill06/01/23 07:09 PM
3

talk is cheap
/r/askMRP06/01/23 05:28 PM
13

You started actually doing what we talk about in here. It started to work for you. you then decided to reward your girl for good behaviour by acting like your old self. She loses desire, sexlife dwindles. It's surprisingly common. You're still treating RP like it's parlor tricks and tips instead of a fundamental way of changing how you act
/r/askMRP05/01/23 11:13 PM
1

Go read Michaels Story on the sidebar, then read this again and laugh.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/22 07:07 PM
1

Oh good, more Tate fans who hear: "If you're not a 6'4 kickboxing millionaire you're a failure!" and take it to heart.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/22 02:12 PM
10

Be the change you want to see. If everyone is just harsh to new guys, consider no one is seeing enough value in actually engaging with them. Try it for a while, you'll start to learn why there's so much disdain for the new guys
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/22 02:11 PM
1

Well here. My goto strategy of someone who goes autistically outraged in public is an easy one. Mock them in a crowd pleasing way. The thing about chicks is they are big on peer acceptance, laughing at them the same way you'd laugh at a 4 year old calling you a poopy face and getting the crowd to laugh is a nice way to show you're not some dumbass whose gonna get called the asshole for yelling at a wee little girl.
/r/AntiFeminists14/11/22 02:15 PM
1

Fuck I feel old
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 06:48 PM
2

So you're in a mental health institution, arguing with crazies, and on the internet showing people how to dunk on them? How old are you again?
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 06:30 PM
2

What I mean is what autistic area are you in where people act like this in public?
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 01:36 PM
3

When a feminist call you a misogynist pig I have never been so socially awkward as to get in this situation. how does one get in a shouting match with a rando yelling at them?
/r/AntiFeminists13/11/22 04:59 AM
1

It is. ​ [And has been for almost a decade now](https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/and-dont-listen-to-me-like-a-sperg-either.34820)
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/22 08:44 PM
1

Lol. Everything after your title is a cope
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/22 02:51 PM
1

You want validation and are hoping if you get a girl to commit to you, she can fill that role. Women aren't built for it, can't do it, and don't like it. And this is coming from a guy with a youtube channel, almost 2 books and a decently sized online presence in the redpilll. I never talk about this shit with my girl, and when she does I generally poke fun at her for listening to redpill bullshit. 13 years in, believe me now or learn it yourself later
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/22 02:49 PM
3

The only people who give a shit about fault are 6 year olds and women in trouble. Fixing the situation has nothing to do with assigning blame
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/22 02:45 PM
2

Focus on your mental health and share that with her do you know what mental health means, other than a magic wand to fix people?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/22 02:44 PM
2

positivity and affirmation. If this was your goal then you're never going to make it
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/22 02:44 PM
1

i will have to be honest with her about my past and by that i mean the blackpill. Lol. you don't want a girlfriend, you want a therapist mom.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/22 02:38 PM
2

so ... casual? There is an agenda out there to make us lonley so it's easier for them to exploit us. the trick to emergent strategies is that it looks like someone planned things, when it's actually people adapting to things.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/22 02:37 PM
1

Chad doesn't exist. he's a concept people use to describe various phenomenon.
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/22 02:28 PM
8

strong and weak are just 'I want these things to be valued' without any articulation of why
/r/AllPillDebate08/11/22 02:26 PM
2

David Claire talks about it in his book PRactical Female Psychology. It's an evolved trait since we are selected for gene variation, women who had multiple baby dadies had better survivability from pathogens. he calls it the betization process Fitness testing the man get him to open up emotionally and committ put him to work evolutionary selfishness self detirmination IT's the process all relationships go through So just like our instinct for sugar gives us diabetes, our instinct for survival in…
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 01:20 PM
1

Are you trying to win the victim olympics or develop strategies for living a better life? Something that everyone forgets, the point of the red pill was about results, not theories
/r/AllPillDebate04/11/22 01:18 PM
1

I know how to read. When you say red pill enthusiasts thats the ONLY group you reference. Any dude who uses a praxeology like a praxeology and not an internet argument generator don't whine about any of this shit. They are too busy working out, learning game, developing social skills, working on their mental models and swapping notes with other men. And EVERY single critique about RP involves focusing on the same incel forum warrios as if they matter. They don't matter, they've never mattered. T…
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 04:14 PM
1

Funny how no matter what you do it's not good enough eh? http://hawaiianlibertarian.blogspot.ca/2009/09/game-is-red-pill.html?m=1
/r/askMRP30/10/22 04:10 PM
1

Social awkwardness and low status signifiers. Red pill enthusiasts et al will whinge about physical appearance being the primary barrier to attractiveness Incels. the word you're looking for is incels.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/22 04:08 PM
1

It's about fixing the man, not the relationship. The relationship is a woman's job For OP https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/308j0b/how_to_lead_a_wife_that_doesnt_let_you/
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/22 11:34 AM
1

It's not hard, it does take time, effort and exposure though. When I was doing pick up in the 2000s, even with a military career, I loosely followed the 2/8/2 rule. Most people did
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/22 07:53 AM
1

Sidebar is that way. I don't need a fluffing, you need to read, act and reflect
/r/askMRP20/10/22 01:09 PM
-1

so?
/r/Divorce_Men19/10/22 06:52 PM
4

Just wondering if anyone else has dealt with this and if it's even worth trying to continue What do you care if a perfect stranger says it's OK? https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3w919o/women_are_as_shitty_as_you_let_them_be/ I'll give you a hint, she's not bipolar, you're a codependent and she's filling the void.
/r/askMRP19/10/22 06:47 PM
2

what does a consensus have to do with anyhting?
/r/askMRP19/10/22 06:05 PM
3

If someone can take it, you never had it to begin with
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/22 07:12 PM
2

The moderators have to decide what kind of sub they want to have.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/22 05:54 PM
22

Oh boy . You're one of those. You will meet many divorced dudes in the military who started just like you. They will warn you and you won't listen because they are clearly bitter or something. Good luck, regardless
/r/askMRP16/10/22 05:53 PM
9

It's not a relationship, it's a plate.
/r/askMRP16/10/22 05:52 PM
2

I disagree with the whole point You're not part of the conversation, yet you still try to be. You're like the nagging wife who won't shut up. I raise my glass to anyone that offers true value and gains from it, Bullshit Still, I think the heart of this place was FR, and I've gained much knowledge and wisdom reading them. doesn't jive with I've been fucking around not fully committed to my self growth. Bullshit yourself if you like, don't bullshit me.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/22 01:25 PM
2

For the moderators: Soon you're going to have to decide what kind of subreddit you want to have. Every red pill esque sub does it, or has it done for them. Do you want people who live life and share experiences, or do you want abstract ideas and people speaking about men and women in the abstract.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/22 02:31 PM
17

Nice guide, but I can't check off 100% on it. My 12 foot white Italian leather sectional was a godsend for my love life.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/22 12:07 PM
3

You cannot influence how your ex mothers your children. Best bet is to ensure you're the better example for them growing up.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/22 12:08 PM
1

do you have a link to what you're talking about because it makes no sense
/r/AllPillDebate01/10/22 11:30 AM
1

I'll bet. You've been around the world since then.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/09/22 01:14 PM
1

Where on the bell curve do you place yourself?
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/22 04:53 PM
2

I've yet to see a statistic anywhere, about anything, that allowed me to make a better choice in life. Lies, damned lies etc. but specifically on this one, those are QUAL studies. They exist to help researchers find how best to frame hypothesis so they can conduct QUAN studies, which are the science people usually think of when they say science. They aren't descriptions of truth, unless you take science to be interchangeable with religion (which people seem to do now) Example those women with 5 …
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/22 04:49 PM
3

Hey, brother! I know it's too much to ask for a dude to grab a book and head to the parking lot to get some reading done eh? I still remember that wife staring at the expensive purses post you had years back. Such a great example of what can happen
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/22 07:01 PM
1

probably because you didn't read the post
/r/TheRedPill26/09/22 05:23 PM
2

the PUA's figured it out decades ago. How you look only matters as a negative (dont be unattractive) Making her emotionally engaged is what women find attractive. Pre selection, status, looks, and game all work synergetically. By maxxing looks or getting that stupid height surgery you aren't fixing the problem. you'll go from an ugly short guy who can't get women to a tall attractive man who can't get women
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 04:35 PM
2

Because the men who looksmaxx were raised to think like defective women, thats all there is to it. They assume the genders are identical, so think they have to do what MEN find attractive to attract a WOMAN. The result? An entire generation of men acting like a Toronto woodshop teacher
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/22 11:56 AM
3

> Seriously though the easy trigger on banning > This place used to have killer FRs. these two comments are at odds. If I had to take a guess you've never contributed a field report of your own? 99% of the time the complainers never do. The reason the field reports rocked is because people didn't have rules, or guidelines, or other work to read and consume. You had to do the work because no one else was there to offer guidance. This is why I don't like the idea of mods and flaired posters helpin…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/22 08:22 PM
3

I beg to differ, horns is way too interested in assholes
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/22 06:06 PM
1

When it's done, and it was originally Dread Game, but has since expanded to a synthesis of the last 7 years on this site in a digestable roadmap
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/22 06:05 PM
5

It's a supplement to the sidebar over there --> not a replacement
/r/askMRP20/09/22 06:04 PM
7

Same sidebar as the rest of us. I'd suggest on glover and smith, focusing on DEER, covert contracts, assertive bill of rights then come back and look at this again.
/r/askMRP20/09/22 01:51 PM
0

Who cares what I believe? Look, if your 'theory' is any use, others will use it and replicate what they find. Right now you have one guy saying one thing, meanwhile I'm talking about stuff I've seen replicated thousands of times. Good luck
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 07:25 PM
1

lol, no you're not. your advice is full of negotating desire and covert contracts. you may have subscribed to the sub, but nothing about this is red pilled, at all
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 07:06 PM
2

honestly, your negotiation strategy is weird. you're treating a victory as winning against your spouse but having them be good with it, as if their acceptance is a win state. I get you're not redpill, but I find it naive. Instead, consider that your partner ISN'T an adversary, and that you're the dominant personality in your relationship. Do what you do, assuming you do whats best for the relationship and the other person is valuable enough to deserve it. They are allowed to get mad, or happy, t…
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 04:34 PM
2

How many relationships have you been in and tried this?
/r/AllPillDebate19/09/22 02:01 PM
1

Eh, this is karma farming Are you fucking retarded? Who gives a shit about reddit points?
/r/TheRedPill19/09/22 01:38 PM
2

It's more a synthesis of the ideas in here and their ourcomes
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/22 04:12 AM
1

Books take time man, I may have to pull a george RR here
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/22 04:11 AM
2

I'm 120k words into the final draft right now (thats almost 2 full books in size) and I had to cut so much
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/22 08:33 PM
2

Yeah, frenchie is gone too. I liked it, but CAD hits those notes better IMHO
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/22 11:41 AM
2

one of the best accounts on here was /u/fuckmrp and thats saying something
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/22 01:56 AM
3

If you're talking about redditor420_69, sure. I'm talking about the guys here who know what the fuck they are doing.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/22 01:56 AM
5

Him as a person, or his work? Because I don't know anyone who calls ANYONE a role model in here, but I see a lot of peoples work held up as useful
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/22 01:55 AM
0

balls in your court, champ
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/22 08:32 PM
2

You made the cut with your treasury post btw.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 08:31 PM
4

he wants attention. He's important and the counsel of elders in here needs to accomidate him. The fact that people are testing him doesn't even occur
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 05:54 PM
2

nit-picking Words mean things. If you get them completely wrong it's not anyone elses fault that you get dunked on, but yours.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 05:53 PM
5

They are looking to see if you're worth their time to go any further.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 05:49 PM
4

I know Twain wrote a book on 'what is man' which echos a lot of the stuff people say today. It's annoying that the wheel has to keep being re invented tho
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 12:07 AM
2

“let’s figure this out together” I don't know when you were on but I remember naked hostility and rutheless culling of people who used words in here like 'doctrine' or 'ideology'
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 12:06 AM
5

No new content, hardly any new thought yet a ton of new people. it's twice the size as it was when I did my last field report.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/22 12:05 AM
2

long story, but not likely. who knows tho
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 09:43 PM
8

It's not mine, it's all been here this whole time man, but thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/22 09:41 PM
1

you'll see.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/22 02:16 PM
1

Lol. This will be the Reddit version of asking his wife what she wants for dinner, watch
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/22 02:11 PM
1

I literally don't care about hypothetical historical examples. I hear a lot of bad things about them but as a medical student a lot of the Evo psychology studies are notorious for their lack of replicability but none the less I would like to see this paper about infidelity Thats all of science. Actual Red Pill dudes replicate this stuff in their own lives and see what works and what doesn't. No one want to convince people a woman to believe it's true, thats not the point. The individual reads th…
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 09:44 PM
1

making the world irrelevant has nothing to do with liberty
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 08:47 PM
1

Lol, how old are you?
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 08:46 PM
1

Because people define them in a way that makes them feel superior, not in any useful way that shares commonality with the rest of us. That's how you get shit like this
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 08:46 PM
2

Perfect example of what I was talking about in my example on the top level, thanks!
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 08:43 PM
1

Someone has to be a Top. Also, in fairness it goes both ways. Men are being raised to be defecive girls, the world femininity can offer. Women are being rased as defective men, and having their worst traits. Thats why the 'boss bitch' type manish woman values binge drinking, getting laid and acting like an impulsive asshole, and 'nice guys' value being passive aggressive, caddy, conflict averse and emotionally fragile.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 08:41 PM
3

Yeah yeah, 'this only works on damaged women' schtick. The tools are hypothetical and universal, or they wouldn't resonate. Hypergamy is Monogamy e.g. women can only be loyal to one man at a time, and it's you, until it isn't. This is how monogamy can even happen. Guys don't have it because some guys can have a mistress, sleep with hookers, and still love their wives dearly (extreme example to show the rule) but when a woman cheats it's becuase she's disatisfied and looking to trade. Dr. David B…
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 08:39 PM
4

red pill advice work is in an American hood You're watching people adapt to their specific situation. There are UMC white couples with redpill husbands and single guys, but you don't look for their content, thats why you don't think it exists. Also, youtube is a horrible place to get your cues over what is or isn't redpill.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 08:05 PM
1

in that he's 20
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 08:03 PM
0

Take a fucking guess. Thats by definition. If something isn't useful, I disregard it. If it's helpful, I internalize it. Red Pill isn't meant to be an ideological set of principles, it's a praxis. You literally can't have a blue pill life thats successful
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 08:03 PM
4

The best thing you can do is stop listening to people talk about relationships and women in the abstract. Boots on the ground, always
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 04:14 PM
1

Look at it as a call for attention and It makes more sense.
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/22 12:59 AM
2

They'll shit up your sub too
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 09:43 PM
1

discipline > motivation. It's also on that list.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 04:33 PM
2

So you just want to bitch then. Welcome to life. People often suffer temporary hardships. If this is as bad as it gets for you consider yourself lucky. Also, see above points on boundaries and assertiveness. You mom doing it today, a future wife or girlfriend doing it to you tomorrow.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 03:36 PM
1

I suppose you didn't notice that the first things in the redpill that everyone is told to act on is: boundary enforcement Assertive behaviour goals that don't require other people to achieve them for you There's a reason Dr. Glover, Manuel Smith appear before Rollo on the sidebar i can't "game" my mother into shutting the fuck up or kick her out of a home to which she owns the deed to retake control of my life. The obvious answer here is gainful employment, income, and you moving out, but I supp…
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 03:34 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/588e5o/gain_control_of_the_treasury/ Hope it helps. I'll probably get banned for posting it but regardless.
/r/Divorce_Men08/09/22 01:28 PM
2

I really hate when a post starts off with such goofy premises. The only thing I can say for sure is you really haven't done your research into what Red Pill is. It's men swapping notes, a collection of field reports describing men doing things and solving (or failing to) problems. It's all hypothetical imperatives with a poor rigor, high replication version of the scientific method. When you say Red Pill doesn't explain ones personal situation it's missing the point. If you have X problem Y can …
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/22 12:49 PM
1

How many words a day you writing? Are you doing outline or discovery writing?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 09:08 PM
1

What do you think the place was designed to cater to?
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 08:12 PM
2

I'm thinking about getting into the erotic fiction market. Thing is I keep re-thinking myself out of it. I want to write about women who fall in love with average men and really have the hots for them. I'm editing my second book now, and I'll say this... the biggest hurdle on your book isn't the quality, your insight, or anything other than actually finishing the first draft. 90% of people make it that far. The rest of your problems are irrelevant
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 08:12 PM
1

banning the incel subs are why they flocked to all teh other ones and caused a cascading effect of subreddit bans and toxicity. Trust me, you want the cesspools centralized
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 08:11 PM
1

Any idea why it's so hard to get your posts approved on PurplePillDebate? Because it exists to have bored soccer moms and Stem chicks shit on red pill guys, with the occasional doxxing of any red pill guy of any worth who acts in good faith. 8 years and it's never had a worthwhile post ever. Except the one where whisper points out WHY it's the cesspool that it is
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 08:10 PM
1

The guys in your group think their wife is not interested in them? I can't continue this conversation unless you understand what I've said so far. Let me know if/when you wanna do this again.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 08:09 PM
1

I'm 13 years in myself, and as happy as anyone, as are the group of guys whose notes I'm referring to
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 06:21 PM
1

Fun fact, all I had to do was read the sidebar and apply it to life. It's all there for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/22 01:23 PM
1

If I only talked to guys who reflected what you wanted, would you still be asking me this? Or do you only want a burden of proof if you disagree? Here, I think you misunderstand. I'm not trying to convince you of anything, I'm telling you what guys in this space have done to solve a problem. That you find it hard to stomach is your problem, not mine.
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/22 01:19 PM
1

Why would you ask women what they think? Every guy has done this and it's never worked out, what could you possibly say to change that?
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 11:10 PM
4

My wife of 10 yrs (4 kids together) went on girls trip to an all-inclusive to a foreign country with a group of friends that we don't hang out with and that I don't know well for a friends big milestone birthday This has to be one of those MGTOW bait posts.
/r/askMRP06/09/22 10:36 PM
1

Becasue they are at the epiphany phase. Take a girls opinion seriously about this when 23 year olds are doing it.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 10:34 PM
1

No one is against them. The idea is it's a cautionary example, beacuse women tend to treat those men worse. https://www.rianstone.com/blog/shittywomen
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 10:31 PM
1

They will do what they want, regardless of what redditors want them to do
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 10:28 PM
1

Tate barely got a taste of mainstream, and it is already over. No one else is even close
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 10:27 PM
2

Why? I was diplomatic about it and he had a temper tantrum for 3 years.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 05:44 PM
9

How you make her feel is the only factor. Everything else is in service of that. Personality is tangental, and I doubt anyone would be able to define it clearly if you asked them what that meant.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 04:13 PM
3

You're the guy from Michaels Story.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 02:42 PM
1

Although, before having children, you have the great option to take the good years and hit the EJECT button. I can't see a normally functioning man looking at his relationship in this way. We are sacraficial lovers by out own nature, not mercinary like this. And I'm sure he does. This is a common post, we used to call this the residual anger phase. In a year or two he would cringe on this (if he continues to build a frame eg.)
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 02:41 PM
2

It was never philosophy, it's always been praxeology
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 11:00 AM
2

The 21 Convention used to exist and now that stopped since there was a big fallout among certain red pill guys. lol
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 10:59 AM
2

I began my red pill journey at 18 back in 2012. There was not a single thing for sale, zero monetization, no clout to be gained All anyone has to do is be the change they want to see, yet I can count on one hand the amount of people who actually do that. Can't blame the sub for that also, even that far back redpillcoach illimitableman 33secrets, hussey, corey wayne, and a few of the others were monetizing shit, as was GLO. Grifters aren't the problem, the people are. Guys stopped doing things
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 10:57 AM
2

Red Pill has always been men swapping notes, and rule 0 (male sexual strategy and positive male identity) The subreddit is never a single space, it's a snapshot of a younger demographic of people online. If men aren't doing anything, then the former dies, and I already know from my 'andrew tate is not your friend' post that a lot of the new guys don't want a positive identity, they want to be the victim.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/22 10:56 AM
3

That's AWALT, best learn to deal because they all have this capability
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 10:41 AM
2

That wasn't what I asked
/r/TheRedPill06/09/22 10:40 AM
2

If I tell you how smart you are will you stop sperging out?
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 10:47 PM
0

Spin more plates is the answer you're looking for.. Friends with benefits. We don't explore sex, we aren't fluid that way. Also, the reason I pick it up because you're the thousandth guy to talk like that and it always boils down to wanting to do what women do because everyone's the same
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 10:47 PM
6

I was using critical thinking t So you made it up, but feel smart about it. Back in the PUA days they used to call this mental masturbation and it was ALWAYS wrong. Tie your shit to experience, thats the only way RP works you're welcome
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 08:35 PM
1

We often hear in this day and age women talking about Your words
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 08:33 PM
1

Why do you want to live like a woman so bad?
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 06:20 PM
7

The worst thing a guy can do is try to be omnipotent over a girls emotions and their reasons. Just watch behaviors and act accordingly. Also, if you're a girl, it's safe to assume you're speaking from 'your truth' which sucks man, hope it gets better for you in the future.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 06:19 PM
11

Yeh you genuinely don’t give a fuck, but did you have to overly say it? Thats because he does give a fuck but is attempting to 'hide the badness' it's common nice guy behaviour. When I return home, she says she wants to talk. I say "about what?", she says "about that dinner with dad." I told her "you need to cut shit out, that was clearly disrespectful. You have a choice, family comes first, or I'll bring the divorce papers and you simply have to sign it." Don't give her a decision. If you have …
/r/TheRedPill05/09/22 06:18 PM
0

We often hear in this day and age women talking about
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 06:00 PM
0

Why do you want to live like a woman so bad?
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/22 05:49 PM
1

I had 2 shitty ones. I think it's more to do with us growing up without an internet
/r/TheRedPill01/09/22 09:53 PM
1

Wait 3 years and you'll see the next one too
/r/TheRedPill01/09/22 09:51 PM
1

4 years ago Whisper wrote this exact same post about Jordan Peterson, and the kids in there had the exact same response. If anything, it shows you just how little the Red Pill has done in the last decade for men. A few of you will get it and move on, but most people are just fucked.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/22 09:42 PM
2

Any opinion I have gained through experience tends to piss off Redditors
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 12:37 PM
3

Universal sufferage did it. People without always vote for more stuff, and politics shifted from governance to parentalism
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 08:08 PM
2

Notice you didn't mention anything about any of the serious work I do, the book I've written or the Red Pill material I do almost daily, but remembered an off hand shitpost from a year ago? Thats why. Lost boys are women who love gossip, which drive engagement. I don't care about him, he doesn't care about me, it's a game to drive emotional childrens attention towards our stuff. And if I'm lucky, 1/10 of people like you are worth a damn and get some value out of it and fix their lives. The rest …
/r/TheRedPill30/08/22 04:58 PM
2

So was Gavin Mcinnes
/r/TheRedPill30/08/22 01:57 PM
3

Lol, that one is my favorite advertisement for my channel, I play it every stream
/r/TheRedPill30/08/22 01:56 PM
2

Men used to stick up for the fraternity. You've never been a freemason, a shriner, a legion member, a member of a JR ranks mess or a greek frat... Have you ever been part of any of this? Or are you speaking from your knowledge as a Redditor? I have, and I'm telling you that you have no idea how any of it works when you talk like this. There's a large difference between latching onto someone's coat tails, something no one is advocating for, and you foolishly attacking him and being a useful idiot…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/22 07:25 PM
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Lol. I used to use this kinda stuff as a hypothetical NPD example. Dude, you're a mess, I wanna bottle you up and make tweets for my business
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/22 12:21 PM
2

No idea why you assume people who think Tate has valuable things to say either worship him or consider him their friend. You thought this was about you, why?
/r/TheRedPill28/08/22 11:39 AM
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potential blowback toward yourself. This isn't about me, I don't care about retard shit like that
/r/TheRedPill27/08/22 11:32 AM
2

cool, who won the seahawks Patriots game and got the other city mad '
/r/TheRedPill27/08/22 11:31 AM
2

I think Tate is a symptom of a bigger cause. yeah, desperate greedy and niave people latch onto anyone. This post isn't about him, it's about you
/r/TheRedPill27/08/22 11:31 AM
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Its not for us, we're already here. Some people are so wrapped up into the blue pilled bubble that normal speech is triggering I don't give a fuck, none of those people have anything to offer me. Why do you? Tate's finding influence with the disillusioned young crowd of guys because he's giving them something that resonates with them and putting himself behind it without buckling that many people do. So did peterson, so did Yanopolous, so what? Defending art is paramount because it protects all …
/r/TheRedPill26/08/22 08:02 PM
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Blue people kept getting kicked out, the old redpillwomen created some drama and so they went there to be able to be redpill without being redpill. That you see how the two groups ended up after a few years showed why you can't bring women into the locker room and why rule zero was paramount.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/22 08:00 PM
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I meant here, but yeah, that place is a fucking retard incubator
/r/TheRedPill26/08/22 07:48 PM
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Men do not do this anymore f Men have never done this, we aren't a collective. you can try to make yourself into a better woman, but men have been raised as defective women for the last 3 generations and look where it's gotten us? I also fail to see how latching onto the coat tails of another man who doesn't know or care about you some kind of personal win. Get back to the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill26/08/22 06:33 PM
1

I'm not my brothers keeper, I don't really care to argue the various surrogate father figures rankings. It's about the whole idea of needing one thats detrimental
/r/TheRedPill26/08/22 05:29 PM
2

Who cares? This is about lost boys looking for people to live vicariously through and why thats not good
/r/TheRedPill26/08/22 05:28 PM
2

I don't like the idea of making decisions based on pissing off people I don't care about. rattling normies cages What does anyone get out of this?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/22 05:27 PM
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Depends on who you ask. Even the sub dedicadet to that idea seems to have 80% of men 'not get it'
/r/TheRedPill26/08/22 05:27 PM
2

This isn't about whether anyone is a good hero or a bad one. It's in the disfunction of men needing heros at all
/r/TheRedPill26/08/22 05:26 PM
2

Bad for whom? Good for whom? Those questions are your answer
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 05:24 PM
9

I just want to balance supporting her with pursuing my own goals apt
/r/askMRP24/08/22 06:08 PM
1

Anything else, coach?
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 04:03 PM
0

Here's a crazy idea - Let people decide for themselves what helps them or not. The weird part is OP assumed I'm telling him what do to and who to like and went through a lot of effort to do what thelastpsychiatrist talks about when narcissism is confronted by a greater power: The secret is at the beginning, at 0:15, where it is revealed that Alec Baldwin doesn't feel any of this, the whole speech is a work. If you were in that room, some of you would understand this as a work, but feed off the e…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 03:11 PM
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Holy fuck! This is not someone I expected to see show up to a post like this
/r/TheRedPill24/08/22 02:58 PM
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https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2011/12/wolf_dad_tiger_mom_and_why_try.html This is very similar to the mechanism of (preventing) PTSD: you can be the drunkest parent imaginable, and the kid will make it as long as your terribleness is a known quantity, your immensely violent behavior predictable, and the kid has some control over the consequences, e.g. if he does X he'll get his hand put in a microwave, but if he doesn't do X he won't. As long as the kid can make sense of the story of his life,…
/r/askMRP24/08/22 02:27 PM
1

It's a unilateral decision, so best to play this to win instead of trying to convince her otherwise. or not, it's your life
/r/Divorce_Men24/08/22 02:20 PM
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having them in her early 30s likely means one night stands or FWB because she couldn't/didn't lock a man down early. Forget all the low hanging fruit, there's a reason she was single in her 30s, chances are that reason is why you don't want to wife her up now
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 01:07 PM
1

Originally uktmatecad and whinemoreplease coined the phrase
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/22 10:24 PM
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The same way they felt.about mystery, mike cernovich, mylo yannopalous, any every other cult of personality. Love him, then a transgression then hate him And it'll be the same here and no one will learn a damned thing
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 10:09 PM
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https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/109048/jordan_peterson_is_not_your_friend/2931505/ I literally took this and found/replaced The words Jordon Peterson.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 09:24 PM
-1

I'm sorry I let you down, I hope you can forgive me and put my poster back on your wall someday.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 09:13 PM
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Naw, I get it. As a visible guy myself having met a lot of these guys, I get it. It's why I find the best RP guys I've read over the years don't make it about them, they make it about the ideas.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 09:03 PM
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So I’ve been lurking for about a good year now. I haven't read further. every time I've read the the rest of a post has nothing but ultimatums, validation seeking beaviours, and victim puke. It also shows me a guy is either lying, or admitted to wasting a year of his life pretending to know what goes on here. If I'm wrong comment below and I'll be happy to give a public apology.
/r/askMRP23/08/22 08:38 PM
2

you have no idea how far this rabbit hole goes. The liminal order with Jack Murphy was just as lucritive. Jordan Peterson was pulling in millions with his. the ones that make the big bucks are built around cults of personality. insecure Synthophants in search of a demagogue. Whats the point of being Red Pill when guys take it to mean they need to suckle up to a different leader? the goal is to be free of that sort of manipulation. I was mildly surprised how many people in this posts comments see…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 08:24 PM
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"Can he teach it to you?" is what matters to you.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 08:22 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iHBSNuFuhzc Lol. he's the most important guy in the world
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 08:21 PM
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Honestly, it's a good thing IMO. If someone can charge this much for that product, it is a great reminder to men who do online sales in their own lives. They undercharge for valuable services and once you realize people will pay 600 dollars a year for vaporware, charging a thousand for something that has a great ROI can be better seen as a bargain. It's not the point of this post, but it's the value I've taken away from it myself.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 07:35 PM
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I will communicate what I want I got extremely truthful about what all my changes are about. I expressed joy and optimism about how great it’s been pushing towards my full potential (physically, emotionally, career wise) BUT ALSO, I shared tremendous regret about how much I’ve squandered the last decade of my life “not” trying to realize my full potential and “not” being aggressive and assertive about what I want to get out of life, especially sexually. This was me thinking I was being vulnerabl…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/22 07:33 PM
4

It's a curated brand, not a human being.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 07:31 PM
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IT's been talk for 3 years, I'll believe it when its more than a proclamation with gusto. the hysteric bonding was pretty expected, and will see what comes out of it
/r/MarriedRedPill23/08/22 07:29 PM
2

Honestly, I'm amazed at how lucritive the grift is. It used to be celebs or Egirls with onlyfans sites before
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 07:25 PM
5

I can't imagine cheerleading someone that wouldn't piss on me if I were on fire. Then again I refuse to live vicariously through others
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 05:30 PM
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It's literally a copy of whispers post Jordan Peterson is not your friend, which was also done for Trump, Milo, etc
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 04:12 PM
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This post isn't about him
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 04:02 PM
0

This post has nothing to do with Tate, it has to do with you. Not seeing that is the exact point of it. You're a cautionary tale for people who understand it's point
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 03:52 PM
1

Why is it crass though?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 03:34 PM
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Men with no frame and the things they do This stuff is predictable, because men are predictable. I do it, almost all of the other endorsed guys do it I write in a way that if a man focuses on the insults and gets butthurt (frameless men get butthurt a lot), they'll never see the meat. And this is me, some random cunt, over text, that they'll never, ever interact with in real life. Full disclosure, I took an old Whisper post giving this exact same speech about Jordan Peterson fans and just added …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 03:30 PM
12

THe message isn't for them, it's for you and you're missing it
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 03:07 PM
8

I never left, just got busy
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 02:47 PM
20

do you know what the acronym DEER is?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 02:38 PM
2

I also doubt anyone here would be ok with their girl being on onlyfans for cash, which Tate admits to. Personally I don't care about the values, I look at this as a lost boy magnet
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 02:13 PM
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The university is an MLM scheme. It used to work well on soccer moms buying tupperware
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 02:10 PM
20

original
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 02:03 PM
1

really? He's describing the Safety Net, which is first year Rationalmale as well as Whispers post on RP vs BP is a useless distraction. perhaps you guys should read what you're demanding others read
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 01:54 PM
8

the more things change the more they stay the same
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 01:49 PM
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Whisper had the classic Jordan Peterson is not your friend and thats all I think about while I read this post. Personally I love posting the kidnapping arrest as it pisses off the dudes who think they are part of team Tate. It was as fun as when I was doing it with Jordan Peterson-stans (which i suspect many of the former used to be the latter) Insecure young men are always going to look for a father 2.0 to give them permission to live their life. I've given up thinking it's possible to change i…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/22 01:31 PM
1

Learn about the MRA before spouting your opinions in here. I'm not about to become a history teacher dude
/r/MensRights22/08/22 05:48 PM
1

Ever since Esther Vilar or Herb Goldburg write The Manipulated Man and the Hazards of being Male in the early 70s, MensRights has always been about adoping feminist ideas (playing victim to elicit sympathy for male grievances) There was never support for feminism, only pigs at the trough who thought they were promised a sport for them as well. Feminists have had a track record of adopting the grievnaces of others only to abandon them once they got what they wanted: e.g. Rape culture was taken fr…
/r/MensRights22/08/22 04:08 PM
4

Whatever gets butts in seats.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/22 03:24 PM
1

Rewards come after the success, not before it
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 02:20 PM
6

https://old.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/5xxtg8/how_many_blow_jobs_is_too_many/ don't ask me, I just work here
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/22 02:16 PM
1

read it again, slower
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 02:16 PM
9

If it was easy, everyone would do it. And honestly, your first attemps are supposed to suck
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 01:50 PM
1

will do
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 01:50 PM
4

You're looking at it all wrong. Sex doesn't do any of that stuff. It's just sex. However, the things you do to get sex have benefits outside of sex. If you're attractive sounding enough to get a girl into bed, you're attractive and charismatic enough to negotiate a salary. If you're fit enough to look good and get laid, you're fit enough to be healthy and not have depression. If you're able to handle rejection well enough to approach more women, you're able to handle rejection well enough to plo…
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 01:46 PM
2

You can show it, I've done it when my father died. What you can't do (at least not without concequence) is expect your girlfriend/wife to be your soft landing spot. She's not qualified for the job, doesn't want it, and frankly isn't any good at it. This is what your friends are for. At very least, your dog. Don't get too mad at her, she can't be what you want her to be, she can only be what she is
/r/MensRights22/08/22 12:42 PM
1

Blame is the thing that women and children look for. I find it better to frame it as choices and concequences of our actions. Then it's not about establishing who is a victim and who is a perpetrator, instead it's just adults doing adult things
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 12:40 PM
2

You know what /u/bogeyd6 is like when it comes to getting too many blowjobs!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/22 12:38 PM
1

I'm so late to this party but I do have one thing you can do. On any of the blogs (parables of the sower e.g.) when you view the "Next Page" of someones posts the CSS disappears and you get a usenet style wall of text. Also, there is no list of the articles you can click specific articles, similar to how Reddit has the 'submitted' section in a persons profile. It's normally something I worked around, but with whisper for example thats the only place to find him now so it's probably going to be m…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/22 12:36 PM
1

My man asked why you're off topic, then again mensrights have always been femenists for men
/r/MensRights22/08/22 12:31 PM
1

non answer. ​ pussy.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 03:17 AM
1

So? Also, aren't you in the mensrights sub? Why are you cheerleading sufferage?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 03:16 AM
1

They didn't have to fight for it, they rode the coat tails of progress. Black people, women, and non landowning men recieved the vote in the same generation. It was happening because of industrialization anyways, the terrorism and stuff was tangental
/r/MensRights20/08/22 12:22 PM
2

You are? Or you are OK if others do it on your behalf?
/r/MensRights20/08/22 12:21 PM
2

Quebec doesn't reckognize it, Military you're required to get official signoff so as to avoid deployment marriages while the guy is away. Separation doesn't require cooling off periods, and so long as your legal obligations are met (child care e.g.) the courts rubber stamp anything you put in front of them. Arbitration is your final authority on separation (no family courts)
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/22 12:19 PM
1

The only man who should even consider a relationship Wrong sub retard
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/22 02:34 PM
1

you clearly want to learn this the hard way. you do you
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/22 02:31 PM
1

The events happened. The reason they happened and that the 'exception' ended up not being the exception doesnt change that. ​ unless your goal is to show it 'wasn't her fault' which is irrelevant anyways, since no one said anything about fault, only outcome
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 02:04 PM
3

Do you want to raise good kids or do you want to be a good dad? If you don't know, don't worry, they will let you know. If you still don't get it, consider that you're fucking up your kids adult lives beause you'd rather be a piss poor example who feels good. So the above question isn't rhetorical
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/22 02:53 PM
1

It's a rhetorical question
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 07:52 PM
1

K
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 07:51 PM
0

It's not about what I want, it's about what you're trying to do? Just because you don't have regrets doesn't mean others won't have regrets and I even said that this results shouldn't be generalized Look here's the thought process. If you come up with something and it jives with my expeience, it's more likely that I will accept anything that isn't within my experience. We can 'but not EVERYONE' it if you like, but just becuase of the possibility exists doesn't means I have to take it seriously. …
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 06:20 PM
2

Does it matter?
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 06:15 PM
1

People swear they aren't like that, until they are. Afterwards it's because of 'reasons' Don't listen to people, trust your own eyes. People lie and people are inexperienced.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 05:54 PM
0

What results? you pondered somethiing and came to a conclusion. Great. Do you know how many of the pick up artists did that for some crazy openers, or some wonderful new game and bragged about how great it was? Until you can replicate it in real life, it's just conjecture. Like I said earlier, if I can't replicate it I don't care. The men who participated in casual sex seems like they regret it and or go out of the way to say romance is way better. I have zero regrets from any woman I've ever fu…
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 05:54 PM
3

You are majorly oversimplifying and looking at one perspective I looked at what he wrote. If it wasn't important he wouldn't have written it. Why are people so interested in handwaving away what he literally said?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 05:50 PM
2

It never looks good when the divorce strategy is to throw the most mud and hope the courts see her as worse than you. You should be showing why you're a good father (in the metrics that the courts care about, not your personal ones) and letting the wife look like the crazy one. you do have fatherly shit you can talk about right?
/r/Divorce_Men17/08/22 01:04 PM
6

it's becuase they are using the kids as an emotional crutch, it's sad really because they convince themselves it's in their kids best interest
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 01:02 PM
6

He never said he was worried about the kids, he said he was worried about feeling bad without them.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 01:02 PM
3

> The idea of not being there in the house with them makes me feel sick I notice that their wellbeing isn't the issue, only your feelings. Either way, you chose misery so the last thing you should be doing is complaining that it's exactly as bad as you knew it would be.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/08/22 01:01 PM
2

This here. The best way I've had it explained to me is that it's the age where a woman couldn't compete with her younger self, or the age when people stop lying to her. Men lie because they want to sleep with her, and women lie to her becuase she was competition. I can sympathize with a lot of the angry older women for that. If you I out my life was a lie I'd be pretty angry about it too.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/22 06:49 PM
2

Agreed. My biggest gripe is people who avoid things because they want to ponder, think, and discuss so damned much.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 06:47 PM
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unless you have doubts yourself. I have doubts. Don't forget, PPD had a former escort who settled for her 'betabux' and they used to cheerlead her for years, showing how she was the reason redpill was wrong about women ... until she did exactly what everyone said she would, for exactly the reasons they said she would, and justified it by saying the exact oppositte things that she used to. Then they collectively pretended she didn't exist. And honestly, the only reason I trust anyone spouting str…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 06:37 PM
1

In IQ tests, women consistently score worse than guys in the spacial category. If she's into you, it adds 6 inches to your height. height is the excuse, not the reason.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 06:32 PM
1

How is abstract mental masturbation a redpill discussion? the whole point of redpill is replication of guys, swapping notes about real situations. low rigor high replication strategies. This is the exact oppositte of that.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 06:32 PM
1

Hypergamy is the the default instinctive feminine behaviour. Men don't create it anymore than women create testosterone.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 06:31 PM
1

It's grounded, and ensures people aren't living in a fantasy world full of lying statistics, cognitive bias, and abstract ideas that don't hold up to scrutiny.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 06:30 PM
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What people say != what people do. Never forget that.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 06:29 PM
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Nope. We returned home from our holiday about 6 weeks ago and we haven't had sex since. Initially she used a lot of seemingly manipulative tactics to regain frame, but I wasn't budging. Are you fucking stupid, or just pretending to be? So now I have a happy, calm, seemingly content wife who is respectful, affectionate, and nice to be around. Other than the fact she would rather not fuck you, she sounds like a great roommate! I know that my wife's desire for me is all but non-existent which leave…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 06:28 PM
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what are you obliged to discuss? only say that In our marriage I've been more open to using psychedelics for therapeutic and recreational purposes, but never while our daughter was around or awake. So you admitted to a drug probled and gave an addicts excuse? How can i stay above board, calm and not sound defensive when this comes up with our mediator present? How can I communicate that it's okay to have a beer in my fridge when my daughter is over without falling into her trap? You wouldn't be …
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/22 06:22 PM
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If you're divorcing, you're not friends. Keep your fucking mouth shut
/r/Divorce_Men16/08/22 04:58 PM
5

> but instead of only talking about your problems, your past and limiting beliefs, you actually confront them. You mean like the entirety of what this place is designed for? what the whole sidebar was built to address? The own your shit posts that allow guys for a constructive way of confronting past actions based on future goals? > I tried changing my program, my diet, but nothing worked, because I was more concerned with my appearance than with my fighting spirit. The point is discipline, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/08/22 04:56 PM
1

Man, it's like the band is getting back together!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/22 04:01 PM
1

Hopefully the ladies in here know what to do about it. I'd only know what to tell your husband.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/22 05:38 PM
1

Since I have your attention, and we're on the topic of heuristics You must mistake me for some PPD asshole.
/r/askMRP09/08/22 06:25 PM
2

If you're going to be concequentialist, it's best to do it from the male frame.
/r/askMRP09/08/22 04:26 PM
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I like this OYS addressing the problem head on with actions will do that.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/22 01:31 PM
1

She can sense that your mental point of origin is her and not yourself. You have litreally 0 way of knowing a womans intenstions, and sure as fuck couldn't be bothered to frame this from the male perspective.
/r/askMRP09/08/22 01:20 PM
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Around month 3, I started seeing some success with sex. More frequency, around 10 times a month. Wife way more into it than ever, dirty talk, generally all the things I like. I don’t know if I eased up or what the problem is, it doesn’t feel like I did, but the last 3 months have been absolutely insane regression. Back to twice a month sex. This is usually because you were LARPING. You acted attractive, your wife responded with more attraction, and the sexlife improves. Then in your head you thi…
/r/askMRP09/08/22 01:20 PM
2

Grant her wish and don't hit her ass on the door on her way out
/r/askMRP05/08/22 11:27 PM
1

I figured you'd like it
/r/MarriedRedPill04/08/22 03:52 PM
2

Exactly. if anyone elses roadmap would have worked, we wouldn't have needed MRP
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/22 01:58 PM
2

I'm not trying to appeal to the ingroup by mocking the outgroup in this one. It's illustrating people's egos preventing them from obvious failure without hearing a dude over the head with it
/r/MarriedRedPill03/08/22 01:57 PM
2

If you hit the enter key twice it makes a new paragraph which helps with readability
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/22 07:21 PM
7

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/jo8ijl/youre_supposed_to_be_here_because_you_were_tired/
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/22 07:16 PM
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Do you know of the Cardinal Rule of Relationships. And She felt really hurt about you having an adequate sexlife. I wonder why that would bother you so much more than her being bothered by you having a marriage of quiet desperation? See first sentence.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/22 05:02 PM
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Is your wife fucking you with enthusiasm? This was VERY tempting - much younger woman, great sexual chemistry, etc. But I've already cheated and had that blow up in my face, and the ensuing emotional distress and pain just isn't worth it. Whose distress? Any guesses why the distress is there?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/22 04:45 PM
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Mission: "To live my life for me. To have a career that challenges and fulfils me. To create and have rich life experiences that I share with the people I care about". This goal is shit. It's impossible to quantify and you'll forever fail to make it, or bullshit whatever you did as if you did. Define fulfilling because I don't think you can. Action: Keep looking for social opportunities and fill up the calendar. This week: email the mate and set a date to catch up. Action: At the sports match th…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/22 04:37 PM
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Calorie goal is 2,250, averaged 2,677 for the week. Weight was stagnant, I am supposed to be on a cut and failed. Alcohol was the biggest factor, it was my birthday and I had events all weekend. I will re-focus on diet this week. Why did you over eat, whats your plan to avoid that next time? Because your wife trusts you empty promises about as much as anyone here does.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/22 04:31 PM
2

I still give a shit about this place, I just don't have the time I used to is all.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/08/22 04:28 PM
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/r/redpillwomen
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/22 07:37 PM
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/u/13throwawayz obvious throwaway begging for someone to tell him what to do Marriedredpill quality rules Get your shit together you fucking dopes.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/08/22 07:33 PM
1

Thats blunt honesty. You can't he aggressive with words The comment isn't for you
/r/askMRP31/07/22 05:14 PM
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It's painfully clear you don't care, and I'm not sure what you get out of it, but you'll do you, he will do him. I want him to be happy and at peace but I want to do what gives me purpose and interests me as well. I'm guessing here, but I've found the word 'no' turns my girls switch to grumpy and adversarial... Is there any chance that it's not the job so much as it is the idea of 'being told what to do?'
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/22 02:44 PM
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I can't figure out if you're a retard, trying to flex with your new boat, or honestly having so much trouble with this you need anonymous input on the internet.
/r/askMRP31/07/22 02:31 PM
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it's a nice way to pull them in with the old bait and switch to self improvement If a wife sees through this blatant manipulation what makes you think it works any better for guys here?
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/22 02:20 PM
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I get that you don't see the connection for what I'm talking about. I do, do you? I don't want to be any type of leader Do you read any of your OYS over the last few years? why do you do what you do? We all have our vices.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/22 02:19 PM
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This entire comment says so much, and not in a good way. No disrespect, I can never quite tell if you're agreeing or disagreeing in comments, and if you mean to do that. I find your OODA concept interesting and I think it aligns with what I'm suggesting here. It's a subtle statement to gauge how much gronk is on the other end. Also, it doesn't. I don't want to read another same-old-shit OYS post either. I get why it happens, because "post in OYS" is the first test of commitment we give new recru…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/22 12:57 PM
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The last guy to have oneitis for his daughter and go all covert contract was trudatness. Stop making powerpoints, they are hiding the obvious from you and are your crutch.
/r/askMRP30/07/22 01:02 PM
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If you post in OYS next week, I have a challenge. Distill your week into 5 bullet points. What did you learn? What event stood out to you that you saw the Matrix Code in your life and altered your course? What magic did you perform? What concepts did you apply and how can you apply them to higher states? The one thing that sucked the most about OYS posts lately is that shopping list of attributes. your lifts, your age, your kids age etc. Guys posting to meet some checklist completely waste their…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/22 12:55 PM
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This raging narcissists shit doesn't help anyone
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/22 12:51 PM
2

There's literally a book that everyone is told to read the moment they get in here that directly addresses this post
/r/askMRP20/07/22 01:36 PM
2

Ha! You've been around too long for me to take this bait dude.
/r/askMRP18/07/22 08:50 PM
2

you jumped right back into a realtionship awful quick
/r/Divorce_Men15/07/22 04:52 PM
2

Whoever the group is that takes the stance it takes. I'm not talking about a hypothetical group that exists. I'm talking about individuals. Usually me, sometimes the other person. Everything else is navel gazing and circle jerking. I dunno but it sure seem like you are heavily. It was a rhetorical question, not a Purplepilldebate snark comment. I said I don't give a shit about some hypothetical value shit, not that I don't care about you or what you had to say. Cmon, you've been around long enog…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/22 07:18 PM
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Doesn't mean we Who the fuck is we and why am I giving a shit about it? Also, I don't get what this has to do with my comment. empathetic narcissism. This is contradictory nonsense. Narcissism is the bell curve of masculinity. Don't turn the dial to 12 and it's just being a man
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/22 05:12 PM
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Antagonist I mean
/r/TheRedPill08/07/22 01:07 AM
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https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2006/12/if_this_is_one_of_the_sexiest.html A setback isn't a reason to reinvent identity. As a marginally successful author let me offer something you can choose to take or leave... When writing a book, think "what will the reader get out of this?" And if you don't have a good answer, you don't have a book yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/22 11:45 PM
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It's an example of redpill. The first time you read it you get mad at the villanous hoes. Then later, after you've red pilled yourself, you start to see michael as the villain
/r/TheRedPill04/07/22 12:43 PM
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The only thing you didn't talk about was yourself in this post. Tell me about your mental point of origin again?
/r/TheRedPill02/07/22 03:25 PM
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There is no rule about this, you have to make your own decisions
/r/askMRP07/06/22 10:57 AM
3

The best indicator of future behaviour is past behaviour. He saved all of us a lot of time on this.
/r/askMRP09/05/22 04:36 PM
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I can't understand in this day and age people don't want to be more playful and treat sex like a game. It beats jerking off in your living room. If you're not having fun here, whats the fucking point
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/22 01:05 PM
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Women aren't swiss watches, you don't need to know why they work, just that they work
/r/askMRP03/05/22 12:39 PM
2

Discovered Mrp in January. I'm lifting and training 5 x a week. Learning to STFU.This only seems to antagonise her. Ive read the top 3 from the sidebar. 4 months in? Cmon man, take it seriously...
/r/askMRP02/05/22 01:23 PM
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This frightens me, as it indicates that even if I manage to age as incredibly as these women have, there is just nothing I can do to retain his attraction. People get older, thats a fact of life. People stick together for reasons other than looks, ask yourself what you have that he wants that he can't get from anyone else.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/22 05:55 PM
1

Look hard, it might be there
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/22 05:41 PM
2

Speculate away, I've seen it dozens of times
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/22 11:50 AM
4

So you're divorcing, and if she ignores you, it goes well for you, and you're worried she will do something stupid? You're getting divorced, why are you trying to help her FFS
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/22 02:51 PM
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The latter is hidden by the ego using the former. It's a process
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/22 02:49 PM
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I mean any new guy WILL be angry. So long as he builds the habit while he's angry it'll stick around once he's over the anger. However he gets there, so long as he gets there
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/22 08:04 PM
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will do
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/22 03:17 PM
1

I don't get why you're doubling down on arguing, the question was rhetorical, not an invitation for a 'redditor moment'
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/22 03:08 PM
1

This kind of makes his point, no? If she makes everything a fight, frames everything as adversarial, takes the least charitable interpretation of everything (even when guys literally say what they are thinking like in this example) why would a man want to invest in her as a partner? I'd bring up solipcism here, but I am not looking for a fight in the ladies subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/22 02:46 PM
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This has never been, nor will ever be, the case. You cant have a mental point of origin, internalize rational egoism and self interest, then turn around and expect men to be a collective.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/22 02:42 PM
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TRP is just information, it isn't something that can work, or not work. YOU worked. Attributing your ability to succeed isn't because the textbook worked, it's because it was helpful. YOU worked Mental point of origin.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/22 02:41 PM
1

No. This is likely because a guy thinks it's him tricking people, and hasn't internalized his new value. And if the girl falls for it, she must be stupid. How does she not know he's still the same unattractive dude? So yeah, his problem isn't that girls changed behaviour, it's that he changed and doesn't believe that 'be yourself' can be better than 'used to be yourself'
/r/seduction17/04/22 02:02 AM
2

I wrote a book, took a year
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/22 01:14 PM
4

Lol, this was stupid and you should have listened to everyone but I'm glad you feel better
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 02:21 AM
2

My honest goals are: 1) Be happy 2) Enjoy life 3) Get my dick wet 4) Be very fit/shredded Make them SMART goals and you'll be much better off
/r/MarriedRedPill09/04/22 11:22 AM
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Success: Finally, some success related to sex with the wife. I reached a new point in my journey 5 weeks ago. I finally said ‘fuck it’ and gave up on fixing shit with the wife. Shit meaning quantity and quality of sex and trying to change her. I decided to do what I needed to do things to end things. To clear my mental baggage, I decided it was necessary to overtly express my issues. I did this with no realistic hope that it would help. At the time I referred to it as my FMOFY, looking back it w…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/22 12:25 PM
2

I'm saying if you don't address it, she WILL be throwing you under the bus to save her skin, I guarantee it
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/22 08:18 PM
1

Ask yourself if she got caught, would she pay her tax difference or throw you under the bus?
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/22 07:48 PM
1

Ref your tests. Yes your comments are just gone and can't be responded to. I can only see them on the frinds timeline
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/22 05:47 PM
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Fuck off
/r/askMRP29/03/22 03:31 PM
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If you say so, I'm not fluent in pedantic
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 08:35 PM
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God you comment like a PPD thread. Always starting with the convoluted hypothetical as if I'm too stupid to understand what you're saying, just before creating a fictional heel that can be safely discarded. That place is literally cancer and if you've picked up any habits from them it's not doing you a favour IMHO. i.e. Never use a metaphor when you have a perfectly good example All that other stuff you wrote, I appreciate the fact you're in the trenches with these guys who have a deeply interna…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 07:01 PM
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Is that because women want things without a long term consideration or because men turn into the exact oppositte of what attracted those women to them in the first place? hint: a little of both, but that's what you get for letting the woman run things
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 10:57 AM
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The reality is that high value people, both men and women, are the gatekeepers of what they want to be gatekeepers about. It's pretty simple. It's not a 'law' thats meant to be taken literally. It's a concequentialist statement. Roosh had a point about gatekeeping almost a decade ago now, where women gatekeep both. Since girls who don't want relationships don't make themselves available for one, so it's closer to a competitive monopoly than anything. And for the most part, he was right. However …
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 10:54 AM
2

Every sympathy fuck you take takes a little bit of your manhood. What the fuck are you on about?
/r/askMRP28/03/22 10:23 AM
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At those stats you would be yolked AF, and not refer to yourself as 'clearly muscular' At best you have a powerlifter build and gorilla belly. At worst youre a fat guy who says shit like 'at least my arms are bit' yes, your arms are fat too.
/r/askMRP26/03/22 06:03 PM
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Effort during sex is minimal from her. If she makes you oatmeal every day and you eat it every day, why would she make anything else?
/r/askMRP26/03/22 06:02 PM
2

You'd be surprised how many men are in a similar situation. I have a community that have sorted out many. Basically, you think your problem is her but your problem is you. Give Dr. Robert Glovers Book No More Mr. Nice Guy a read and handle the breaking free exercises. Manuel Smith's When I Say no I feel Guilty. After that you'll be like a different man
/r/Divorce_Men25/03/22 08:50 PM
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No one can make you do anything. Do you try to hide the fact that you are a redpiller? No, but I don't start conversations about hypergamy when I'm out socially, thats just stupid. Also, it's never come up because outside of the internet no one knows or cares. Do you admit to it and act like you don't care? If I don't want to talk about something I change the topic. This is basic social skills 101 Do you run away and try to find new people? don't be autistic Are you scared your reputation will g…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/22 03:31 PM
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My reasons for my sidebar series is because ITS OVER THERE ON THE SIDEBAR. I've literally told you before I start every one that I'm adding a crib note walkthrough to what already exists here.
/r/askMRP24/03/22 01:56 PM
1

I looked into it and it would be a 300k word monster. It's lord of the ring sized
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/22 09:28 PM
0

Who said exchange?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 05:24 PM
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It's the covert contract where 'if I build myself to having abundance in life, I can give it out to others and they will appreciate the effort' If you want to see an example of it, shit all over someones 'gift' and see how they react. Chances are they will act as if you're 'not doing it right and need to accept this gift with gratitude' then you know it's a covert contract.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 05:05 PM
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Covert contracts always get us in the end.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 05:04 PM
4

Men will appreciate it. Why is that important to you?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 04:06 PM
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I remember back in the day, Jackten giving me the 'be like me, it worked for me!' slight to one of my posts. I still think about that.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/22 03:07 PM
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https://therationalmale.com/2014/12/30/mutiny/
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/22 07:52 PM
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You haven't read any of that, or you wouldn't be asking this obvious question. So long as your goal is to 'change her' you're never going to succeed.
/r/askMRP17/03/22 03:20 PM
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https://theredarchive.com/r/MarriedRedPill/alternative-to-captainfirstmate-father-knows-besta.202635 It's already been discussed, but not autistically. Just by doing the preching from the mont it's clear you're guessing. Instead of getting everyone else to do what you want, why not try it yourself and start posting some results, because it's underdeveloped in the MRP and your rant isn't helping at all. And for what it's worth, I don't think you're wrong. I also think you have no idea why.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/22 03:19 PM
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I 25M feel very betrayed by my g/f 24F from the way we entered into our relationship and I feel deceived about how she has portrayed herself All this time spent feeling, more feeling, and again, feeling. You talk, communicate and then talk some more. All that time, effort and investment, you could have spent it being happy, but instead chose to wallow in your own self inflicted drama filled torture. And at the end you never once talked about fucking someone else or pushing the shit out of your l…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/22 01:36 PM
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Why do you go when it's obviously got worse outcomes than not going? How much money does your self worth and happiness cost? You make it sound rather low. In what world did you think bearing your sad sad soul to your wife was going to get you to have intimacy? Has crying EVER worked? You're spiraling dude, no one else in the story can save you but you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/03/22 01:33 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2yrxtp/the_three_dysfunctional_captains_and_first/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=usertext&utm_name=marriedredpill&utm_content=t3_88mbvb part 3
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/22 07:11 PM
3

I've had guys report that mental health issues requiring a change of circumstance superceeded that decision. It may be worth checking with the legalities in your jurisdiction. Especially since you've already said you're burning out.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/22 01:04 PM
3

Now that a redditor gave you permission it's not your fault!
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/22 11:59 AM
1

Well clearly you don't want to fuck her, I mean you've told people in great detail how you don't want to fuck her and definitely won't be fucking her so it's clear you've never thought about fucking her because you have no interest in fucking her. You want to fuck her, so do it and stop bellyaching
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/22 11:59 AM
1

Do your courts not have a process for change of circumstance? Usually you file a change in income and adjust your payments accordingly.
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/22 11:57 AM
1

I'll be banned soon, probably
/r/Divorce_Men15/03/22 11:55 AM
3

You don't have to do anything, read robert glovers no more mr nice guy and realize why you're having issues
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/22 02:51 PM
1

No one gives a shit about your job.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/22 02:46 PM
4

Try it and report back, no one here is opmipotent
/r/askMRP12/03/22 05:46 AM
6

That wasn't really the point of the chapter. It's that guys treat self improvement as something good in and of itself, instead of as a means to an end. If you're doing the MRP improvement plan because you think you'll make your wife fuck you, or because 'it's what everyone does to be better' then you're going to waste a lot of time. Self improvement has always been a vague platitude. Be better; be better how? Better than what? Than whom? Better than your past self, but to what end? I can be bett…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/22 03:42 PM
3

You did all the work man, I don't need any credit.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/22 02:09 PM
1

See that sidebar over there? Once you read the fucking stuff, you'll learn why it's painfully obvious. thats the shortest explanation anyone can give you.
/r/askMRP27/02/22 11:51 AM
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If you're asking how to do it and not have her get angry at you, you can't. Do it, accept you're gonna be the bad guy, and stop asking internet strangers how to get out of uncomfortable work
/r/askMRP27/02/22 11:49 AM
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I'd reccoment just locking it, as removing it hides it for future lessons
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/22 04:07 PM
2

feel better now?
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/22 03:58 PM
1

it is telling, however
/r/MarriedRedPill26/02/22 01:54 PM
4

Most relationship subreddits hate any mention of guys like rollo or me. Deadbedrooms will ban you on sight, relationship advice, dating over 30/40 and the rest will as well.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/22 01:46 PM
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You're missing rollos point on hypergamy. It's not that she is always looking to trade up, it's that she is capable of doing so, especially during rough patches or a loss of confidence. If you look into the research he's referencing, guys like Dr. Bus find that when women find their 'best option' they actively find other men less attractive, and when they are waning in love they tend to find other men more appealing. the heart wants what it wants, it's reactive to the environment, not proactive …
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/22 01:45 PM
1

What did you expect to happen here? And if you're leaving her, why have you told this story of your liberation from her perspective?
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/22 01:40 PM
5

I get it like I said, it's all rapport building random word shit. Just tell better stories no scripts required Scripts exist to teach guys who can't tell a story to save their life how to structure one, pepper in DHV's, and eventually get to the point where they can naturally tell their own
/r/TheRedPill26/02/22 01:37 PM
1

dogs are awesome, and I'm kind of annoyed you're bringing them into this girl boss shit.
/r/askTRP26/02/22 03:35 AM
13

Palm reading, the cube, it's all rapport building random word shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/22 03:29 AM
1

I never said that.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/22 09:31 PM
2

Don't get me wrong, you ain't owed a god damned thing either.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/22 07:20 PM
1

This won't help OP
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/22 06:36 PM
3

I was initially nervous to post stuff here, looking at the harshness that is commonly employed. You could say I was afraid of being insulted or made fun of. It's really not anymore, it's softer than it's ever been. The ribbings are more for the writers self congradulation than it's intended purpose: testing the guys ability to separate tone from content. It was supposed to see if the guy was worth spending time on his field reports, and now has morphed into some weird frat boy hazing/catholic co…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/22 01:56 PM
1

But really, isn't the target audience for TRP insecure men? There is no audience, the only one here to get accoladyes is that retard who keeps blathering about Evola. There's individuals creating field reports, and swapping notes with other men. That's it. If you're looking at this like a heirarchy in the he man woman haters club you're doing it wrong IMO.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/22 01:52 PM
1

Day bang by roosh has the easiest day game opener for you. old man openers are something good to start with
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/22 01:50 PM
3

So for now, fuck sex. My focus for now is to become a man that I myself can look at and respect. you came here because you aren't having sex, why are you now declaring that your goal is to avoid that one thing that hurts? (rejection) Don't let that man child shit attempt to shame you one way or the other. regardless of the retards here that want morality in their redpill, there isn't any. you are your only judge
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/22 01:45 PM
3

I have some real work to do on authentic OI. This is called practice, and it's not 'authentic OI' it's just outcome independance, theres no variation of it. There is a good chance this is true for my wife - that I was her Alpha This is objectively not true, the sooner you accept that the easier it is to stow your ego and actually figure shit out. And as I observe her behavior and more clearly understand the subtext in the deeply intimate conversations we've had recently, and I think more clearly…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/22 01:40 PM
3

Your ego protection is dripping off of this. Stop blaming your fear of rejection on your wife. She's only exposing it, you made it
/r/MarriedRedPill23/02/22 01:38 PM
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Why are you dumping your life at the feet of internet assholes and asking them what to do with it? It's your call dude. https://old.reddit.com/user/TristanS3/submitted/
/r/askMRP19/02/22 03:52 PM
4

When she talks stop treating it as serious. Women express their current emotional state, not objective reality. Focus on the parts of your life you fucked up on, but don't let her convince you to take responsability for her shitty actions
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/22 03:07 AM
6

Shill your bullshit blog elsewhere. Hypergamy IS monogamy
/r/askMRP16/02/22 10:47 PM
4

What do you want?
/r/askMRP16/02/22 09:31 PM
2

How can you be so certain this will be the result?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 08:13 PM
6

Do not EVER feel pushed to do something you do not want to. Had you done a field report on the lead you buried this could have been useful, to yourself and to others.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/22 02:46 PM
1

Empty rhetoric. Whatever ever bullshit you wanna make that mean, you will.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/22 01:43 PM
20

This. I got real 'a real man' vibes from it. which sucks because insecure men eat this shit up. someone telling them what to do to earn their man card.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/22 12:46 AM
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It's just work no reason to have an ego about it Honestly the difficult part is time. I could do insta stories TikTok YouTube and continue to write but I also need sleep so for now the TikTok has to wait
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/22 12:59 PM
1

I have one and tried it, it's on the list of 'need to get around to'
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/22 02:56 PM
1

hey man good to see you again
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/22 09:25 PM
1

There is 0 value to anyone in this rant.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/22 12:40 PM
1

MRP isn't your fucking catholic confessional
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/22 12:39 PM
1

Your own interpretation is wrong. This place isn't some new aged keystone for utopia. It's a bunch of dudes who want to get laid and talked to each other about how to do that. A few married guys didn't like the idea that 'next' is the only tool you need to deal with women since there is shit on the line. I don't know you, maybe you have your shit together. What I do know is everyone else who has ever talked about their 'mission' like this has always been a fucking asshole who was scared of his w…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/02/22 12:37 PM
2

The best indicator of infidelity are your own two eyes. The problem is your ego doesn't like when you use em. What, did you think happy relationships are where people fuck around for no reason at all?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/22 10:21 PM
1

Red Pill is really about shedding the shackles of society. What fucking idiot told you that horseshit? If he's here now im probably going to ban him
/r/MarriedRedPill10/02/22 10:20 PM
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Feel better? Question. What does this post offer of use to the reader?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/22 10:29 PM
14

you'd be surprised how many people are scared of abundance.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/22 01:16 PM
6

I've been speaking to a lot of self employed people. and the one thing I've heard over and over is that they almost all got started because of a round of layoffs, and a gap in time they could put towards their new venture. Me included. Sometimes life kicks you in the ass, take advantage.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/22 09:12 PM
2

It doesn't get better,
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/22 10:31 AM
3

Oh! Good to see you've made it a decade with your girl, congrats dude
/r/TheRedPill04/02/22 10:29 AM
3

reported for harassment, eh?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/22 10:07 PM
5

I don't find it productive to assign blame or fault. It's a problem, solve it. ​ because no one else will do it for you
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/22 08:42 PM
1

but a woman who has to work for a very, very long time for you won't give you up that easily So are you talking about women in the abstract? Or have you done this in your own life and passing notes? I'm guessing the former.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 02:31 PM
2

If you look up a covert contract, this sentiment OPS talking about is 100% that. It's not redpill, it's a recipe for resentment and disappointment. If I do X, then she will love me forever and I'll have a problem free life. After 20 years of watching men ruin themselves with that mental model I'm still amazed how 20 something dudes come on here and know better because Glover isn't alpha enough for their sensibilities.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 02:30 PM
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It's not really the issue. We had dudes on here who divorced as soon as they 'red pilled' themselves. The next girl they got together with ended up being identically miserable to the last one. Iamstevemcqueen showed exactly how well 'next' works. You'll kick the can down the road and be in the same situation next time. As for the rationale, it's complex. partially the result of failed parenting strategies aka promise keepers partially environmental aka the industrial revolution and fathers in th…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/22 02:01 PM
2

I didn't realize you had life all figured out, good luck with your baby mamas and your fugitive plans.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 01:58 PM
3

I'm juggling two baby mom's In a red pill sub and you can't even follow the basics. always be in control of the birth control dude.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/22 02:05 AM
5

it's getting better, finally enough of us are fucking over it, and the next few weeks will either have me expatriating or living like a king. either way im good, thanks dude
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/22 02:05 AM
2

It's a long story, but I'm hopeful. At this point it's a war of attrition and PR, and Ottawa ain't winning it so far
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 11:11 PM
2

I have a feeling it's not going to be a problem for you
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 11:09 PM
1

20 year olds have it all figured the fuck out.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/22 11:08 PM
2

I got lucky, everything has been shut down so hard that I can do to mcdonalds without a mask and become don juan just for the novelty. Suck for all you freedom dudes and youre free movement
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/22 11:03 PM
2

So stop doing it. Why even post this question here if you already know?
/r/askMRP01/02/22 11:01 PM
5

Start at the top, work your way down.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 08:49 PM
4

I skipped past all the excuses for justification for arguing with a woman and expecting her to calm down and agree with him. It makes it a much easier read.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 05:53 PM
5

look to the sidebar, we literally wrote it down for you in terrible detail.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 04:20 PM
6

I see a lot of hope, not a lot of action.
/r/askMRP01/02/22 02:23 PM
17

Argument I see where you went wrong
/r/askMRP01/02/22 02:10 PM
36

Lol, briffaults law. Any promise maid is null and void the minute she gets her side of the deal. expect a headache or you pissing her off to get out of it. the best move is not to play
/r/askMRP01/02/22 02:10 PM
2

Why are you even considering it?
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/22 12:22 PM
3

Ever hear of Learned Helplessness?
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/22 12:21 PM
4

Who gave the TRAD the conch?
/r/TheRedPill29/01/22 10:58 PM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/770yvb/the_difference_between_immoral_and_amoral/ You're free to ignore/not participate in those types of discussions. What you don't get to do here is moralize about why it's always and everywhere bad according to your moral code. Even if you think your moral code is the most right rightness that ever made it to the top of Correctness Peak on Moral Mountain. Fuck you, there will be people who don't agree, and none of us are here for a moral lesso…
/r/askMRP29/01/22 01:35 PM
4

I don't think Twitter and youtube get to claim the title of clickbait bullshit anymore
/r/TheRedPill27/01/22 02:25 PM
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The part to notice is while they are talking about his bad behaviour, and all the 'crap' they had to put up with ... They are smiling from ear to ear. It's basically bragging like how chicks brag about all the rappers they've fucked. Ignore what they say, watch their body language. You can't lie with body language.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/22 06:18 PM
2

The best I can tell you right now is that you're reactive and trying to change your wife, which misses the whole point of what you're doing here. thats all you get
/r/askMRP24/01/22 07:46 PM
2

her would get the anxiety working Why do you want this?
/r/askMRP24/01/22 02:38 PM
2

youll never leave its all a bluff
/r/askMRP24/01/22 02:33 PM
3

Well if you had a goal in mind and didn't run off covert contracts you'd understand how everything here is contextual. https://old.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/374wln/what_we_talk_about_when_we_talk_about_dread_13/crjrgcp/
/r/askMRP24/01/22 02:32 PM
3

They all default to 'please woman'
/r/askMRP23/01/22 07:02 PM
2

The lady gets what she wants
/r/askMRP23/01/22 04:59 PM
3

Why? She already got the assurances
/r/askMRP23/01/22 04:59 PM
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I love how being honest with her never occured to you, and it never occured to anyone in here feeding you advice. Instead everyone is telling her to just give her what she wants and provide more comfort, unconditionally
/r/askMRP23/01/22 04:58 PM
4

That's not nihilism. You're finally realizing that letting others be your god isn't doing you any favours. You're too much of a pussy to start deciding for yourself. once you get there all your melancholy shit goes away.
/r/askMRP23/01/22 02:01 PM
8

everyone does work, it's a low bar
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/22 06:02 PM
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Easiest thing to do when you realize the basics and don’t over think shit. :)
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/22 05:28 PM
7

they chose me. I found your problem. Are you living life, or letting life happen to you?
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 05:19 PM
9

Absolutely, what gets me too is how hard guys fight the idea of a mental point of origin. I see 10,000 word salads talking about everything BUT mental point of origin. Irks me
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/22 05:15 PM
7

I keep thinking back to this
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/22 05:14 PM
1

I'm clearly wasting your time here
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/22 05:12 PM
1

why write this? There are some decent points in here. The idea of OODA loops, and acting vs thinking, but it's saddled in so much purple pilled bullshit and metaphysical gobledegook it's almost unreadable. Drives me fucking nuts dude and I get that impression that I'm doing the cliche fight club scene where you keep trying to go to your cave and I slap you with a rubber glove. This is a place for guys to strip bullshit away and talk plainly about how to stop being miserable and to start fucking …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/22 02:24 PM
1

So I'd like you to consider for a moment again what is it that we're both moving closer and closer to, but seem to be on other sides of, but as we move closer we seem to agree more and more Going back to my previous comment, it's this. Every single one of these words say absolutely nothing. This is why I find it so hard to read your stuff. So I'd like you to consider for a moment again what it is that we are both moving closer and closer to But seem to be on other sides of but as we move closer …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/01/22 02:23 PM
4

Spend less time looking at your navel and more time actually using red pilled tools in the world. Your writing will improve and you'll feel the need to preach abstract concepts a lot less
/r/TheRedPill20/01/22 01:59 PM
1

wut
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/22 01:56 PM
1

yes
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/22 08:56 PM
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Adultery can certainly affect divorce proceedings. We do not know whether or not OP lives in an at fault state or not, and even no fault states can take it into consideration. If that was important to OP, he would have mentionned it. Thats the beauty of writing, it's people letting you know whats going on in their heads, as well as what they are talking about
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/22 08:00 PM
1

thats a lot of maybe's to justify what wasn't the point I was making, nor anything to do with what OP said
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/22 07:59 PM
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OK, I'll bite. Is there a requirement to catch her in the act for a divorce proceeding? I wouldn't know, he didn't think it was important enough to mention, or didn't care. Did he say why he wanted to catch her? Legal reason? not really, the only thing he mentionned was with a great glee that he was right all along. Now don't take this as some kind of 'she did nothing wrong' or 'it was his fault' or whatever strawman someone who gets a shot to his ego would do, thats not what I'm saying. What I'…
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/22 03:36 PM
-5

You seemed more concerned with 'teaching that bitch a lesson' than with perusing your own happiness and life.
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/22 03:10 PM
3

I'm not smart, please dumb it down
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/22 10:12 PM
3

There's steelsharpens steal breakdown of the mystery method. Also, there's Daybang by Roosh, Mysterys method, the london daygame stuff It's all good enough, pick one and practice it. Then once you understand what you're doing you can ignore all of it and let your practice come through
/r/askMRP17/01/22 01:05 PM
6

I'm calling bullshit on this very obvious bait.
/r/askMRP17/01/22 12:55 PM
2

I'm not gonna go "either loose the weight or hit the road jack! And this is why she won't. You say, with every action, every word, every thought, that you will never leave her. So ultimately, this is a bluff and she will call it, because women are hardwired call bluffs. It's called the commitment skepticism bias. Dr. Bus talks about it in Why Women have Sex, and you're wasting your time and everyone elses because you think theres some manipulative way to get what you want without being the bad g…
/r/askMRP16/01/22 01:19 PM
1

> But I have made huge progress with other "hot topics So? you aren't mentioning any of the shit that didn't matter to you. Who cares how well they are going?
/r/askMRP15/01/22 08:42 PM
6

Did you ever think of calling your wife fat and telling her to stop ordering junk food? Or does the idea of her crying make you sad
/r/askMRP15/01/22 01:17 PM
4

bark orders to her with this stuff. good luck with that
/r/askMRP15/01/22 12:45 PM
1

Don't fuck where you work. You're the office husband, at best
/r/seduction13/01/22 03:25 PM
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They are lying to you. They are doing it to feel like they are making progress in their own lives, and get an ego boost from being some kind of wise sage. Listen to any of us at your own peril. you're on your own and the quicker you learn that the better you'll do
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/22 02:10 AM
2

only people who have never read it.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/22 02:09 AM
3

I've never liked the idea of teachers and students. It's a covert contract that really never pans out. What often happens is the 'teacher' gets a huge ego, like he's handing out masculinity mana from heaven, or a counsel of Elders doing some weird Jack Donnovan woodsman shit. Some of the best people I learned form in here wouldn't piss on me if I were on fire, and frankly, it was the most honest and useful dynamic on here. I considered it a very important part; an individual chance to figure shi…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/22 02:08 AM
1

He was more than famous, he was infamous
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 07:55 PM
2

Well then. maybe it's /u/Iamstevemcqueen
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 03:05 PM
2

Everyone goes through this, it passes. It's an acute anger phase, and why concepts like the 1000 foot tow rope exists
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/22 01:20 PM
2

Same, it's such an autism tell it's not even funny
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/22 05:23 PM
3

have him call me when he catches a dude balls deep in his wife and doesn't know what to do next. Other than that, leave a message with the receptionist
/r/askMRP08/01/22 01:44 AM
2

/r/nmmng
/r/askMRP08/01/22 01:42 AM
11

Do you want me to fuck her for you too? No ones going to tell you how to deal with your wife, this place is here for guys to learn about the dumb shit they do that gets them taken advantage of. If it were me I'd call her a cunt and tell her to pick up her shit or I'd throw it out, but you're not ready for that
/r/askMRP08/01/22 01:42 AM
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For everyone of your questions it only shows how little you understand any of this. if you knew what a boundary was you'd know micromanagement wasn't the issue. Boundaries are about what you will put up with, not what you demand of other people, how do you micromanage yourself? Had you looked why communication is not a sound strategy here, you'd already know the answer was to act, not to communicate. Why men and women are different. You keep treating your wife like she's a dude with tits and the…
/r/askMRP07/01/22 06:26 PM
1

Then maybe you already know the answer to your question earlier. Start to learn what the red pilled mental models are before you start second guessing them
/r/askMRP07/01/22 06:19 PM
5

wondering if it would go against RP ideas Do what you want, nothing here is dogma.
/r/askMRP07/01/22 06:08 PM
6

OP needs immediate answers. No one needs immediate answers
/r/askMRP07/01/22 06:04 PM
9

Even his best friend Troy doesn't have details. Everything out there right now is speculation
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 09:26 PM
1

And?
/r/seduction05/01/22 07:53 PM
2

but even more so for a relationship. You aren't working for a relationship, girls are. The reason you're struggling is because you're doing the girls job and frankly you suck at it. Fuck. Let the girls who want to keep you around put in that effort.
/r/seduction05/01/22 06:23 PM
2

you're not the first guy to navel gaze about that stuff
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/22 06:19 PM
3

So few words, and even less of them mean anything.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 06:18 PM
2

ill be dead before it does
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 06:04 PM
7

it saves a lot of time before arguing with malcontents
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 01:35 AM
1

I have a private gym, thats the least of my worries
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 06:46 PM
1

They were 30 day closure on wednesday.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 06:42 PM
3

The problem with new years resolutions is that you get the dopamine hit from talking about what you 'should be doing' so you're less likely to do anything. Stop talking in the future tense, you'll stop fucking up nearly as much
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/22 06:29 PM
1

Lol, dafuk is this noise...
/r/askMRP04/01/22 06:27 PM
23

What can I do to develop approach aversion and social ineptitude? you seem to be doing just fine at both
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 06:14 PM
47

I was going to use your last post here as an example of good quality, but I can't find it... have a link?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 01:57 PM
28

This. The issue isn't picky women or feminism or whateverthefuck. the issue is approach aversion and social ineptitude.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 01:56 PM
1

This is why people who don't fuck don't get to have an opinion about fucking. Debate students finding something to do with their time, nothing more. https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/94436/yes_virginia_you_do_have_to_be_an_asshole I'll link to Whispers old post on the subject, since a lot of people are doing exactly what he predicted they would do in this thread. Stop that
/r/TheRedPill04/01/22 12:01 AM
3

Nice channel start. I would suggest you work on your script writing because everything you're talking about is nonsense and gobledegook. A better starting approach is to bring up personal stories. How you did the stuff you're preaching about, instead of just preaching it to the audience. Also, the sooner you upgrade your audio the better. People can handle potato level video but the audio will make or break your content. good luck
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 01:20 PM
3

I enjoy them, even now if I'm just practicing openers for funsies. It's the complete disregard for a back foot that makes me enjoy it. It's strictly for my own self amusement.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 01:18 PM
2

I think you missed my point. I was getting nostalgic for an old essay I had back in 2017
/r/TheRedPill03/01/22 12:44 PM
4

The 4 F's to a good life Love to see it.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 01:41 PM
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Why are you telling me what a screenwriter thinks is fucking alpha?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/21 08:06 PM
1

Dude, I'm not your ex wife, save it for her
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 05:17 PM
0

Don't try to convince me, I don't care. I've met and dealt with enough men who had 'best friend dads.' Ignore at your own peril
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 05:07 PM
4

try the sidebar and a gym. If you can manage that, you can manage the rest of the stuff
/r/askMRP28/12/21 05:02 PM
0

Thats some shitty parenting, ask around here and im sure others will agree
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 05:00 PM
2

Are you their dad or their best friend?
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/21 02:09 AM
1

You can't even describe your story without making her the main character. Your issue isn't her escapades, it's that you don't realize you've put her on a pedestal, you're reactive to her, have no boundaries or values, and you have 0 frame.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/21 12:12 AM
114

she has been serious and been loyal even in the talking phase while I wasn't. Ignore what she says, watch what she does.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/21 01:11 PM
1

Hey this ain't my clubhouse, I dunno. if this bit offers anything useful, it's all yours.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/21 02:42 AM
6

My girl was in your position 12 years ago. I ditched a stripper I was dating at the time who was flakey and kind of a PITA, when she ditched her date with some trust fund kid. Then we went to a bondage party that night and the next day I had brunch and said we should try dating. I don't think there's a roadmap for this The best answer I've been able to come up with though was this: Of all the girls I dated, they ALL gave me a reason to bounce, and she never had a single red flag for over a year.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/21 05:55 PM
8

then how the fuck can anyone tell you that you failed at it?
/r/askMRP24/12/21 05:50 PM
8

Whats your win condition? Do you know?
/r/askMRP24/12/21 04:59 PM
1

If I could put your 'mission focus and disregard for anything outside your frame' into a bottle and sell it to men I'd be a billionaire.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 10:43 PM
5

Lets take this conversation to modmail
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 10:02 PM
1

Yeah. Take a break
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 07:21 PM
3

I do agree. I love the professor, but after a few years of time to reflect, it's hard to ignore the entire book on dread has a massive covert contract to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/21 06:42 PM
9

How do you think your next 5 years were going to go if this was your first mask off experience?
/r/askMRP20/12/21 05:50 PM
3

You're not the first guy to ask
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/21 01:14 PM
0

You're getting the concept wrong.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/21 01:15 PM
3

Lol, not only have you invented a strawman, but you tried to take it down with the most forced shaming language you could imagine and surface level pablum pretending to be wisdom. I've dealt with and helped fix hundreds of guys and relationships all over the map on the misery scale ... your problems have never existed in any of them. Maybe 4, but it's hard to tell because lack energy in life is a meaningless term that sounds like pothead wisdom You can't 'get' a girlfriend. you can only be open …
/r/TheRedPill19/12/21 04:10 AM
4

if only
/r/askMRP18/12/21 12:50 PM
6

Play nice but assume she's not amicable, you're right I should have been more precise. There's actually a great guide on this but people don't like the subreddit it's from or I'd post it.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 10:52 PM
28

You said no then you felt guilty eh?
/r/askMRP17/12/21 09:09 PM
7

Why are you still treating her as amicable? Treat her adversarial, because she is
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 09:09 PM
1

It's not
/r/askMRP17/12/21 08:33 PM
6

Everything you do is a coping strategy because of your fear of confrontation. You need professional help because it's clearly something you've learned in your formative years. this sub cannot help you
/r/askMRP17/12/21 07:14 PM
13

I should have invited a drunk onlyfans model on just to kick her off. It would have gotten more views
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/21 12:56 PM
1

Dread game is a trick for men to play though. No it's not. I AM that guy on youtube whose talking about this stuff, and the only people who bring it up like you say are the ragebait marketeers who use the buzzwords but have no idea what they are talking about, like Fresh N Fit or Kevin Samuels. they get notoriety because they scratch that anger phase itch a lot of men have, but they are NOT, nor have they ever been, red pill in any meaningful sense of the word. There's a reason they are a quarte…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/21 01:34 AM
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Strong feelings > positive feelings a semantic, but I think it's worth noting
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/21 02:56 PM
1

you act like its a trick they play. If a guy is doing it well he isn't faking that. He's literally become attractive enough where this IS whats happening. No hinting, no displaying, it's a natural progression of being socially savvvy and attractive and having standards and boundaries. if his woman doesn’t toe the line and do what he wants This is the naive understanding of RP. One of the first things drilled into a guys head is that you cannot tell a woman what to do. You can only establish what…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/21 02:42 PM
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You're reading the words from anger phased young men who need a place to vent, and eventually learn something. As a girl there is nothing for you there and it's a waste of time to. There's rabble rousing narcissists who just want to win the popularity game (as lame as that sounds) and there's a very very small percentage of dudes who move the red pill ball forward. The vast majority talk about women in the abstract, let that sink in. The ones who learned and grew have generally moved on. THATS w…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/21 02:38 PM
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My brother plays this channel that just plays samba music 24/7 from a beach. Between that and a white noise machine you'll be golden
/r/askMRP15/12/21 02:28 PM
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I’ll have this sorted for next week’s OYS. I'm not the teacher and this isn't homework. Another thing that will help, moving forward, stop DEERing and become your own judge.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/12/21 02:24 PM
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A lot of post-hoc rationalization in there. What I need to do is keep working on game and drop the ego. You should have waited a week, done stuff, then posted. Right now there is 0 value in this for you, let alone anyone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/21 06:28 PM
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Honestly, I really dislike when guys bring it up. Relationships are generally speaking an emotional decision, we layer rational concerns on top of it, but for most guys there's a lot of 'post hoc justification' that passes for those rational concerns. I find the best answer when guys ask this or girls wonder about this is an individual one, not an over-arching one. e.g. what does she bring to a relationship? That's for her to show you, talking about it is autistic and you shouldn't do it. From m…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/21 01:39 PM
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The advice you need and didn't ask for A little back story. This entire section does not matter So what do you dudes suggest? Go back and read glover and Smiths work, https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4duudk/why_youre_lost/ get your philosophical house in order then look back at your field report and make a decision congruent with the above. See you in 3 months
/r/askMRP11/12/21 03:58 PM
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this is removed for good reason. I'll tell you as a long time navy vet that every girl I've ever met had joined for one of 3 reasons: To get a man To get away from a man and or take care of their kid Because dad served. or make fucking money to provide for her. if your paycheck is the only thing you offer this relationship is already dead and you won't know it till you get the 'phone call' at 3AM. I'm sorry to hear, but Im letting you know now girls in the military, navy especially are pretty mu…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/21 03:00 PM
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It's called the commitment skepticism bias. Buss talks about it in 'why women have sex' it's instinct.
/r/askMRP08/12/21 09:29 PM
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Lately though it almost feels like my wife has caught on to what I’m doing and has began to fuck with me. Your anti nice guy behaviour, your assertive behaviour, your alpha behaviour, your beta behaviour, none of it is tips and tricks and parlor tricks. It's like makeup, even if they know you're doing it, it still works. I'd suggest stop faking it and focus on making it next.
/r/askMRP08/12/21 06:57 PM
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lol, I reference some of your old stuff from time to time, talent reckognizes talent
/r/seduction07/12/21 07:38 PM
2

It's easier than admitting an insecurity. It's 'how would you open' bullshit all over again
/r/seduction07/12/21 03:30 PM
2

Ex wives do it to their husbands all the time.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 03:29 PM
1

She can keep going back. Dude. It's your life, I don't care, but fuck. She said she doesn't want to be with you, so hold her to her word.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 03:29 PM
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So she says she doesn't want to be with you so your plan is to give her a place to stay? dude.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 03:12 PM
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I hate to be the one to tell you, it's not that she still loves you, she tried to get a better man when she was gone (and tried probably twice as much as you think) and it didn't work out so she's trying to come back because she's terrified of being alone. You can learn this the hard way if you want, but I'd suggest you don't.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/21 03:11 PM
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Stick to this place, you'll learn to stop keeping score and start being attractive
/r/askMRP07/12/21 02:19 AM
1

I hear that pornstars go one of two ways. super vanilla or super fucking crazy on the kink. Either way it's not my thing.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/21 09:01 PM
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Every guys count is going to be lower than hers. Accept that fact the same way you accept AWALT: Not literally, but seriously. Then whatever the core issue is doesn't hide behind a number on a spreadsheet. IF you're worried you're not getting her best, if you assume she's got 2x your notch count than you know to leave if she 'doesn't do oral', because you're positive other guys got that stuff. If you're worried she's gonna cheat, assume she's got the high notch count, then if you see she's out t…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/21 04:05 PM
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For me I stopped counting the day I met a girl whom I slept with but didn't even recognize, and that number is a lot lower than you think. It's like anything, you do it till you get good at it, then you stop thinking about it. I mean, do you remember which pedal to push on your bike in which order, or do you just point in a direction and go?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/21 04:01 PM
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/u/iamstevemcqueen was the pinnacle of this
/r/MarriedRedPill02/12/21 03:51 PM
2

it's easier when you don't know how much work is involved in it. Now that I know it makes it much harder, but thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 05:26 PM
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I'll continue to work daily on my shit. Until you articulate what this means you've going to do fuck all. In fact I give this post another day or two before you disappear like the last 400 guys who had the exact same post.
/r/askMRP01/12/21 01:57 PM
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/u/SBIII is right, this isn't advice.
/r/askMRP01/12/21 01:56 PM
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Am I being a faggot for being upset about something I already deep down knew (Vegas) and using this as an excuse to quit the marriage because I'm struggling with my progress? I think I should cut my losses. you have all this going on and your only concern is wanting validation from anonymous assholes on the internet?
/r/askMRP01/12/21 01:55 PM
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thats why young adults suck at it. getting zero'd out increases neuro plasticity (e.g. make it easy to form new mental models) so guys who just hear this shit but experience nothing are really just wasting everyones time. But you can't get a chick to fuck a guy over, it has to be done the hard way. such is life
/r/TheRedPill01/12/21 01:40 AM
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'holding women accountable' is the worst three words in 2021 for op www.youtube.com/c/rianstone and the sidebar/mids watch playlists are the things of value, but they are a supplement to the reading here, not a replacement for it
/r/MarriedRedPill01/12/21 01:39 AM
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no nut november just ended I assume they are here because they are guilty they are rubbing ones out and lying about it or telling strangers on the internet about their jerk off habits
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 05:10 PM
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Other than the philosophy part, it's pretty apt. Buddy never gets answers because he is treating the tool like it's a teacher. All the stuff here are just tools, he has to figure out what to do on his own Why you're lost
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 05:08 PM
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I'll never not remember this every time these threads come up The bottom line is we all have to make DIFFERENT sacrifices to reach a level of success.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 05:00 PM
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Something happened recently - a bubble of autists got in here and are dominating the voting, posting and comments sections. This has been happening since the sub was founded. the only difference is the flavour
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 04:56 PM
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k
/r/TheRedPill27/11/21 04:49 PM
2

Define authentic or genuine? I've been in mine for over a decade now and it's got no signs of slowing down, so I don't know what isn't possible
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 01:16 AM
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The manosphere was integral in that trajectory. I needed to understand the nature of how women love; learning that immunized myself from ever needing a woman to love me This doesn't make sense. Women love men all the time, the only thing we have in here is the caveat 'in the way you want them to' in other words, you can't replace your mother with another girl. they asked if I thought red pill knowledge was a necessity; if, in order to be successful, men needed to be red pilled... This is an easy…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/21 01:15 AM
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/r/askmrp
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/21 02:02 PM
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which ones? This is the best covert contract exposer I've seen in years!
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/21 01:42 PM
1

Do it. I am in a way.
/r/askMRP18/11/21 02:10 PM
2

dafuk I miss? Another alpha wolf?
/r/askMRP17/11/21 09:47 PM
1

I have a dozen vidoes already on guys who are full of piss and vinegar for their single post then never return.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/11/21 02:23 PM
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OP has 30 days to get through at least the first 3 books in the sidebar and get his shit together. If he's in, he can do the first bit on his own and people can invest afterwards
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/21 12:17 AM
2

Today I signed the paperwork to sell our house. This is the only action in that entire post.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/21 12:13 AM
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I'm having a beer and getting ready to watch Total Recall and some 80s anime, but yeah, stiffy too.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/11/21 12:11 AM
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Conformists pretending to be non-conformists indeed
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/21 12:48 AM
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why did you write this? Whats the benefit for you? There's no benefit for me, so I'm hoping it's useful to someone
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/21 12:08 AM
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Man, I’ve probably watched more hours of your videos than just about anyone else on YouTube Ask yourself why you put this statement in your comment then go back and read my first comment. Thats all you get.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 03:47 PM
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TRP ideology after 5 years I was hoping you'd know it's a praxeology. I can vouch for your bartender schtick though. I used to do this with a buddy when we'd go to foreign ports diuring my navy years. It did more to remove approach anxiety than anything else, plus it paid giant benefits when I would be put into new situations like corporate events and dinner parties
/r/TheRedPill09/11/21 03:45 PM
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A lot of you follow me on here, the changes I’ve made over the last seventy-three weeks, and my attempts to help men own their own shit Over a year, and you still are a blatantly validation seeking TikTok asshole. How can you read whats on the sidebar, practice what others have practiced, and come up with a statement of such stupidity as the one I've quoted? I am simply holding frame Also, the second E in deer is for Excuse. Think about it. With that context, my field report includes a significa…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/21 02:36 PM
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Glad you enjoyed it man, cheers
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/21 07:56 PM
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will have to take your word on that as you've offered fuck all else.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/11/21 02:57 PM
1

Do you know what DEER is? why are you doing it here? What are you trying to accomplish with your comment?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/21 11:57 AM
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our? thats rich. Learn to separate tone from content and stop wishing to be coddled, because if some randos on the internet can ruffle your feathers a wife will eat you alive. No ones goal here is to spread knowledge for all. There is no altruism in the married red pill. The sooner you understand that the better off you'll be
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/21 11:45 AM
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Counter intuitive, not counter productive. You're not getting it regardless, or you're trolling well.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/21 01:55 PM
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Leaving the home counts as familial abandonment, talk to a lawyer but it's generally a bad strategy
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/21 09:45 AM
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I read the first sentence, saw the length of your post and can say You are not in a position to committ. Either she wants to change you as a control thing or you're a got mess and need to sort yourself out, probably both. Good luck sir
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/21 09:44 AM
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Weird or different, yet edible, Or weird and different, yet inedible? Sometimes it's worth just giving less fucks. I guarantee no one is eating your food thinking (this is 10% less delicious than it was yesterday, she's not a good cook)
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 05:48 PM
1

None of that has anything to do with the information, it's all character assassination stuff. His material has enough problems with it you don't have to rant like a conspiracy theorist to show it's lack of utility.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 05:46 PM
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Some choose benzo addicts, others choose young adults who wasted their time on a law degree but failed to pass the BAR while working at Planet Fitness. Everyone has crippling failures under their belts.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 05:44 PM
1

But offer no advice to guys who truly just are having a hard time And who the fuck are you to deserve someone elses time and effort? How much have you invested in your own life? Are you having specific issues, or a general 'life sucks, what do?' comment? This place has never been about becoming a savior to other men. It's a bunch of dudes working on their own shit, and swapping notes with each other over what worked. Until you fundamentally understand the difference between owning your shit and …
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/21 05:39 PM
1

He thinks Petersons book is worldly dominant wisdom and Jack Murphies private community is a masculine clubhouse, I don't think you'll get through to him
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/21 05:29 PM
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You don't have to buy it, I'm not trying to evangelize
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 03:46 PM
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The Greeks put it better: Nothing too much.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 02:01 PM
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I do think back to an old TRP post, think it was /u/thotwrecker you don't get to do what successful people do. All the vices in the world, any dude with his shit together can indulge in all of them and not fuck up his life. If a guy is at the point where he's starting a MAP, chances are he isn't that guy, and doesn't get the privilege of jerking to porn. Every few months this stuff keeps coming up. Porn and games and booze and weed aren't the problem. They are the symptom
/r/TheRedPill28/10/21 02:00 PM
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I had a joke on this: Man: I want you to be more submissive Woman: OK. Insert great dominant Sex Woman: So what are we gonna have for dinner? Man: I dunno, what do you want to eat? Many men don't realize that dominance isn't performance art, but a fundamentally different way to approach relationships. It's not all upside
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 01:35 PM
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I've only ever seen it when a guy gets the wife goggles slapped off his own face. It starts from a hardship, a place of anger, then it becomes second nature.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 01:30 PM
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https://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/dude-got-minute.html Best I've seen for yoru particular situation. From my own experience and those I've talked to, the only thing I've seen that has any effect is being extremely bratty. I was on a roadtrip with my now wife. From BC to the Baja Soud. She was annoying, poking at me the entire trip. Around the North/south border we were in a hotel and I had finally had enough. It took her almost a full day of getting on my nerves, but she got her 'domin…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 01:29 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/7qhvml/men_with_no_frame_and_the_things_they_do/ Retard is a perfect word
/r/askMRP28/10/21 01:27 PM
2

Nothing irks me more than people who put their 8 year old dogs on Facebook marketplace. One, or both of you will probably do this
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/21 10:16 PM
3

A few tears and you upend your frame eh?
/r/askMRP26/10/21 10:14 PM
2

The real cad would have used a different nonsensical username though, nice try
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 10:13 PM
2

nice username, even spelled it properly
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/21 01:13 AM
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Watching young adults talk about value in the abstract ...
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 06:27 PM
1

oh dear.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/21 06:19 PM
2

That makes no sense
/r/TheRedPill25/10/21 01:36 AM
1

By engaging with it you make it real.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/21 11:08 PM
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Why invest in people who won't invest in themselves first?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/21 11:07 PM
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A case of good minds think alike? I'm just baffled about men who don't fuck thinking they can contribute to a place designed for fucking, or social rejects thinking they can contribute to positive male identity. The lunatics trying to run the asylum
/r/TheRedPill24/10/21 11:06 PM
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It's funny how many men are conformists who pretend they aren't. I miss the old days when guys like UltmateCad would come in here with another story about cheating on his wife, and a lesson for you to take as the possible husband in that scenario (If she cheats, you'll never know e.g.) And a bunch of assholes in here shaming him for breaking his vows. I don't want to do the same thing she did, but fuck if it wasn't a great example of frame. 100% owned his own shit, did his thing, posted his resu…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/21 12:40 PM
1

Another shit test, on Friday when both kids were at school, she told me she wanted to go to the gym instead of me. This isn't a shit test. I know Horns doesn't think she cheated, You are your only judge. Why do you insist on offloading that onto everyone else?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/21 12:26 PM
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Horns Cheat Codes: Last week I made up this questionnaire and gave it to my wife to fill out for me. The way it got filled out was uneventful and I was told “I don’t want to role play” but I just kinda ignored this continued to push playfully into the game I was setting up where I was going to be this dr examining her. After kids’ bedtime I had her lay down and essentially started a massage coupled with a bunch of dr office type questioning. I eventually asked about her stress level and mental h…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/21 12:24 PM
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oh sweet fuck lol.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/21 11:49 AM
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I've been banned from this community 4 times. Plus the discord just recently How exactly did you think this would play out? Get mad and then ...
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/21 01:18 PM
1

> I know sidebar+lift but can someone please diagnose my problem with regards to how can i mentally move on? Perhaps after you invest in your life, others may want to invest in your life. So you don't really know sidebar+lift ... do you
/r/askMRP07/10/21 01:09 PM
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Enough wasting time. back to work
/r/askMRP30/09/21 05:55 PM
2

I see tow things. I see people wasting their time on someone who hasn't invested in his own life, and I see people who are articulating the things they learned in order to better understand what it means to red pill a marriage. You aren't the protagonist here. you're the retard who comes in and asks for a magic pill, hoping someone else will fix his life for him (more likely, you want permission to do what you were going to do anyways) I'm calling on this community to Own Your Shit. If you guys …
/r/askMRP30/09/21 05:54 PM
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I didn't post a question on askMRP. I'm not the point
/r/askMRP30/09/21 02:20 PM
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dude. you cant even make yourself the protagonist in your own story. Why are you here? It's clearly nothing to do with red pill, you don't know any of it nor do you seem inclined to learn. Sidebar, get on it. I'm sure you've been told enough already. or just go screw it up and learn the hard way, your call
/r/askMRP30/09/21 12:44 AM
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This is solid advice. Thank you. You have no idea what good advice is, or isn't. The first step is accepting that
/r/askMRP29/09/21 07:09 PM
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how to approach this to do right by everyone. Start by doing right for you. Let everyone else do right by themselves. If you can do this honestly, and not try to seek validation from anyone else, it will go well. Mostly because you've actually ensured that it would
/r/askMRP29/09/21 07:09 PM
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Lol. I now know you can treat a guy like shit for at least 2 years and he will still buy me a gift Stop reading red pill, I don't think you have the capability to learn what you're doing
/r/askMRP29/09/21 05:46 PM
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Lol. ​ Tell you what, put a little effort in and then worry about the effort perfect strangers are willing to put in
/r/askMRP28/09/21 09:48 PM
1

beta doesn't mean 'bad' beta means 'comfortable' Easy terms to understand for the masses. clearly not
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 12:59 PM
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the easy way to conceptualize this: Alpha = Anything that leads to fucking. Hormones incl testosterone, dopameine Beta = Anything that builds comfort. Hormones incl oxytocin, seratonin. Map that to the Alpha Fux Beta bux thing we talk about and you understand basically everything you need to be more deliberate in your actions.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/21 12:58 PM
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I do it all the time. We process information as narratives (humans) a mental model is a story in our head (the model) which approximates the world in such a way that we can anchor our decisions to the narrative to succeed in life. E.g. What would Jesus do? Is a mental model. How you know the narrative of Jesus forms an anchor to how you act in the world, hopefully to do better without having to explicitly judge each situation in a vacuum
/r/askMRP27/09/21 09:30 PM
1

Do you think the marriage and divorce cycle is the best way to achieve your goal is what im rhetorically asking
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/21 11:18 PM
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Lol, dude, you're willing to fuck up your life because dating isn't guaranteed.
/r/Divorce_Men26/09/21 04:23 AM
1

And you're expanding it's definition until it becomes meaningless, this is basic mental health 101 level psychiatry
/r/MensRights26/09/21 04:10 AM
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She got what she wanted, and kicked you when you were down. Don't be amicable with your legal options. the only way you come out of this OK is by negotiating from a position of strength. Not only have I talked with a bunch of guys who have been through similar, but I was the child of this scenario. Also, don't leave the marital home, the courts see that as familial abandonment
/r/Divorce_Men25/09/21 05:32 PM
1

Lol, all those words and you don't know what you're talking about. Simply put, a shit/fitness test is because women don't have the same indications of sexual arousal men have, thus have a psychological instinct to test potential signals to root out false positives. Because in paleolithic times, assuming sexual desire in error could have deadly concequences, and losing a potential man in error had none. it's closest to a bratty sister testing a man for the ability to handle a gentle ribbing witho…
/r/MensRights25/09/21 05:23 PM
2

It's funny. After all the alpha male stuff everyone blathers on about, that one simple concept seems to get more mileage than any of the others
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/21 04:24 PM
2

Has the concept of Covert Contracts found its way over here? What you described in your vetting section fits it to a T.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/21 01:04 PM
1

K
/r/TheRedPill21/09/21 12:42 PM
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Don't go emo, it's a divorce, not the end of the world.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/21 05:49 PM
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k
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 01:16 PM
2

when was anything ever fair?
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/21 07:17 PM
2

The solution is to have the self awareness to know what you did to contribute to the situation and fix it. Then you don't have to worry about doing the same thing with the next girl
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/21 01:05 PM
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Women act as shitty as you let them. At the moment I’m satan and responsible for every ill in the family. And right now you still treat her opinion as if it matters, so she won't act any better
/r/Divorce_Men17/09/21 01:04 PM
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Science isn't a person, science doesn't do anything. The scientific method is a system to discover what we don't know and can prove false. Whatever is left gives us a good idea on what is left. Good science is replicable, predictable, and falsififyable. Educations got nothing to do with it (and lately that seems to be more true than not) I'll never get why people consider themselves scientifically literate then talk about "The Science" or scientific fact.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/21 12:19 PM
2

No
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/21 12:13 PM
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the word 'truth' has no place in the world of the scientific method. I know it sounds semantic, but 'not false, yet' is as close as you get to truth.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/21 12:23 AM
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truth is passe, I'll settle for predicability and utility.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 12:21 AM
3

ha
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 06:33 PM
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It's hard because it's not your job to do that. It's hard because learning to do anything new is hard. I don't need an illuminati conspiracy and evil villain to know that
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 12:42 PM
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I'm sure a classic vaccine would, they have been doing just that for almost a century now. Supposedly there are 2 being worked on now.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 10:24 AM
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you'd be surprised how many people are getting banned for misinformation, just for quoting WHO, CDC, and John Hopkins research. I've approached it from a risk analysis standpoint (my former field) and you realize it's a milder and more contagious tuberculosis for developed nations
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 10:24 AM
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if you are not an expert in the field you could easily misinterpret the conclusions of the article. It's hard. You have to read research, then when you run into a term you don't know, research that one, and regress until you noticed it took you 4 months to read one paper and you accidentally got a partial college education on research methods. I've been hobby reading for years and still couldn't tell you much on statistical analysis.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 10:22 AM
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I'm pretty sure he put that in there specifically to trigger (r)atheist redditor types
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 10:19 AM
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So you're saying you're not taking things on faith and actually seeing someone demonstrate the scientific method before running their mouth? That was the point of whispers post, I know this because he stated it right near the end.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 10:17 AM
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You don't even need all that. Just look up the replication crisis. Right now, all the scientific predictions coming out are a coin toss. That alone should give you healthy skepticism, especially when you throw covid into the mix. Turns out the anti vax Jenny Mcarthy fan is right about half the time, and the SCIENCE trusters the other half. scary
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 10:16 AM
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Men try so hard to avoid the idea of being fuckable. And it's been like that for years.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 10:07 AM
1

I couldn't fully articulate that the fear does have consequences. Could you implement the consequences? That seems more important to me.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/21 03:27 PM
1

lol. sees 4 month old comment Has temper tantrum
/r/TheRedPill14/09/21 03:26 PM
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Dude, this negotiation is pathetic and I can't believe you thought it would be a good idea. And the only incentive you gave her was to be kind to the guy she really can't stand.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/21 09:38 PM
4

> I’m trying desperately not to be. ​ You're not. Once you understand that you can do something about it
/r/askMRP12/09/21 02:31 PM
1

typeo
/r/askMRP10/09/21 04:37 PM
8

Women want men they want to chase. Women want men who they don't want not to chase.
/r/askMRP10/09/21 01:28 PM
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Anyone still reading this, here's a great lesson in bullshit. Almost every single one of those words OP used are what I lovingly call 'container words' All these words, vague as can be. You're meant to fill them with the feelings you want, then throw the container at people expecting them to think you're talking about their feelings, when you're really talking about your own. No one is communicating, ideas aren't shared, nothing is gained. It's just a collaborative female effort to create reputa…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/21 01:28 PM
2

you're about as fun as a wet bag of dicks
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 06:26 PM
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Sure, and that's why we have a few hundred guys blaming everything on themselves, asking the subreddit to call them a faggot as some sort of catholic confessional. the entire concept has bad outcomes, and as such is largely irrelevant to a guy persuing his own self interest. https://heartiste.org/2009/08/12/umm-sorry/
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/21 06:14 PM
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Fault is for women and children to worry about. Fault implies an authority. You're on your own here. Things were done, feelings were hurt what are you going to do about it? that's all that matters now.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/21 03:52 PM
6

considering the SEO for 'married red pill' is nothing but soccer moms calling us trash, I think the 'looking bad' ship has sailed
/r/askMRP09/09/21 01:48 PM
4

ignore abuse when you come to ask a question. If you're treating random dudes on the internet as an authority you deserve all the mockery you recieve. Conformists, looking for a new father figure is NOT the purpose of this place, and the language weeds them out quickly so that the men who are worth a damn can get to work.
/r/askMRP09/09/21 01:48 PM
3

constructive criticism and nonsensical criticism. Who the fuck are you that you can tell the difference? You're on an internet forum asking strangers how to fuck your wife. Who the fuck are you that you get to demand better treatment? You're sitting here, hat in hand, asking random people on the internet to fix up a life that you've clearly not given a fuck about until it's reached it's current state of desperation? Who the fuck are you?
/r/askMRP09/09/21 01:47 PM
4

Here, I'll throw him a bone. This place has 'hate and negativity' because guys have strong and sabotaged themselves through their ego, and without the 2x4 of truth will never get past it. Or. Because most guys are a useless waste of time. calling a person an autistic faggot is the easiest way to see, by their response, whether they are worth spending any time with at all.
/r/askMRP09/09/21 01:45 PM
4

A relationship is a girls job. You're not supposed to want on, she is. And she's supposed to convince you it's in your best interests to keep her. So I ask, what did the sales pitch look like and did it involve anal?
/r/askMRP01/09/21 07:08 PM
5

> I'm gonna let her figure that one out. She already has. do the math sport
/r/askMRP30/08/21 01:26 PM
4

> This could all be a bluff as she is a SAHM as of recently but still has a PRN job. UltmateCAD, a great old poster, was delaying filing, partially because he pushed for his wife to get a fucking job. I'm sure your lawyer has suggested that her having income only works in your favor.
/r/askMRP30/08/21 01:25 PM
6

What does this have to do with anything I said?
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 12:54 AM
2

Friend is a unisex nomenclature.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/21 12:52 AM
3

I found the friend ...
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 11:33 PM
8

https://www.rooshv.com/5-observations-from-my-2015-visit-to-ukraine In all seriousness. If you follow this advice on expatriating to Mexico you deserve what's coming to you. E.g. You cannot own property within a few hundred miles of an ocean, squatters rights are definitely a thing there, and any legal troubles you have will be slower than the US system (which are already slow AF) Not to mention each state has it's own particular laws which will favor indigenous citizens and hinder your ability …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/21 09:06 PM
2

right...
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:55 PM
3

Judging by the entitlement in this simple post. I don't think the dates are boring at all, I think you're frustrated that you've been doing all this 'seduction' stuff which is for sleeping with girls. Meanwhile, you have some dream that one of them will want to be a wife in training, but it's a different skillset, which you haven't learned. But none of this can be your fault or responsibility, so it must be the dating that sucks, not you. am I close? Also, if conversations are boring, it's becau…
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:24 PM
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Technically that isn't the way the law is written though. Which law, which juristiction? In ontario E.g. it's written as a calculation of income, but with the caveat that a child shall never live under worse means than the father (which means mom) so it functionally punishes the traditional breadwinner model. The law is meant to support women who have made some sacrifice to help advance the spouses career The spirit of the law is not the letter of the law. I know you know this as well as I. I co…
/r/MensRights24/08/21 03:07 PM
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> My wife has always been a little whiny. She'll complain about small things, I learned it from you dad.
/r/askMRP24/08/21 03:01 PM
2

I suppose. For me, it's just confusing, why even bother with the RP part of this when you reject the concept of frame outright? It's not for the clubhouse, as it's the least attractive one out there. It's not for the praxeology because you've decided against it. Surely the idea of searching for versus to reconcile faith with any of our strategies can't be that alluring. Here, I shouldn't be in here attacking the faith, it's bad form. I'll leave my thoughts here but feel free to ignore them. I ma…
/r/RPChristians24/08/21 03:01 PM
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I suppose. For me, it's just confusing, why even bother with the RP part of this when you reject the concept of frame outright? It's not for the clubhouse, as it's the least attractive one out there. It's not for the praxeology because you've decided against it. Surely the idea of searching for versus to reconcile faith with any of our strategies can't be that alluring. Here, I shouldn't be in here attacking the faith, it's bad form. I'll leave my thoughts here but feel free to ignore them. I ma…
/r/RPChristians24/08/21 03:00 PM
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I paid all the bills while my wife kept all of her income Signaling to the court that you're willing to support a spouse will give the court cause to continue this trend in divorce.
/r/MensRights24/08/21 02:56 PM
2

A lot of words to say 'I'm ok with that'
/r/RPChristians24/08/21 02:07 PM
2

https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/3yvwgh/fr_15_months_of_trying_to_unplug/cyh58sd/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=usertext&utm_name=marriedredpill&utm_content=t3_88mbvb Reminded me of this classic. Jacks comments on agency
/r/RPChristians22/08/21 11:03 AM
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the last word.
/r/MensRights18/08/21 04:35 PM
3

Touch grass... you may learn how insulting you sound when you look someone in the eye and talk like this. don't respond, I don't care anymore
/r/MensRights18/08/21 12:57 PM
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If you call me an ideology, or a cultist based on nothing but your own shower thoughts one more time I'm gonna use a gamer word on you :) seriously though, you hold me to a standard of civility then act like a complete prick. If it wasn't such a standard Redditor attitude I'd be offended by it
/r/MensRights17/08/21 06:11 PM
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A couple small points then a large one: It wouldn't be fair, because I didn't even know that sub existed. The world continues to exist when you close your eyes dude. Clever dodge "red pill" ideology it's not an ideology, its a praxeology. Feminism, Christianity, communism are ideologies; systems of values. Praxeology theory of human action, based on the notion that humans engage in purposeful behavior. TRP would be closer to auto mechanics than it would be feminism e.g. incel radicalization when…
/r/MensRights17/08/21 02:02 PM
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I don't disagree on the MGTOW stuff. It's a sour grapes zone. But that's not what you said, is it. Just because a subreddit claims to be something, doesn't mean it's users and moderates aren't making exist as something else. I AM a moderator of those red pill subs. Tell me more about what I'm doing, and why. Better yet, why don't I just bring up the current beef between you guys and the /r/leftwingmaleadvocates subreddit, where everyone is accusing each other of misogyny and racism; Would you th…
/r/MensRights17/08/21 01:28 PM
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Those communities existed to villianize women Hospitals existed to give people disease... that's how silly you sound RN.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 01:21 PM
3

One of the pillars of Red Pill is to build up your life and capacity over time so that you do this automatically, Where are these pillars you speak of?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 12:56 PM
2

They were saving you from your own ego invested stupidity.
/r/askMRP12/08/21 01:27 PM
1

> She made the wrong decision to not date me and she regretted that. ​ True, I don't know, but you do. Thats why you admit this was preemptive rejection for some sort of revenge fantasy. Look man, I'm not saying this to shit on you, I don't know you. I'm saying this because most guys (me included) used to do shit like this. Looking back, I realized I left a lot of sex off the table because I let my ego make stupid decisions like this. Hear me now, believe me later. Hopefully there are enough peo…
/r/seduction12/08/21 01:25 PM
1

I could 99% fuck her if I had responded but nah you 100% could not fuck her if you tried, or at least you believe that. Everything else you wrote was your way of soothing your ego by pre emptively rejecting her.
/r/seduction12/08/21 12:44 PM
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You've made your goal fixing your wifes emotions instead of your own mental point of origin. Since you made her the goal and build up covert contracts from there your life will continually be fucked up until you address that issue. And next time if you want to talk about the wife, have her post her comments, at least we don't have to hear it from your shitty mind reading text
/r/askMRP12/08/21 12:42 PM
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everyone close to you can benefit from having an oak and they’ll respect you for it. This is a fucking covert contract
/r/askMRP12/08/21 12:39 PM
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frame doesn't crumble, it's not a fucking health bar. You're afraid of your wifes emotions and treat everything she says as if it's legitimate. Is it any wonder that she just throws more at you until you become overwhelmed? you have no frame, this is why you're fucking up
/r/askMRP12/08/21 12:39 PM
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Answering simple questions is not DEERing. You've framed it horribly. Why in the fuck would you consider these simple questions of which answers are required? How is engaging in bullshit being 'nice to the wife' Also, why the fuck are you even suggesting being a 'nice guy' as a good thing? Who the fuck are you and why are you commenting? I did a quick check and your entire history is doling out advice in the retard sub, with 0 shit from your own life. And each piece of advice is a small quip of …
/r/askMRP12/08/21 12:33 PM
2

But I keep fucking up every step of the way. when you stop treating every fart from your wife like a medical emergency you'll stop feeling like a fuck up
/r/askMRP12/08/21 12:32 PM
5

Thanks but I try not to use the subreddits as a client funnel, it would degrade the work a lot of guys do here.
/r/askMRP10/08/21 10:43 PM
2

ah I was a bit harsh, he meant well. he didn't know I don't treat MRP as a patreon recruiting tool
/r/askMRP10/08/21 10:42 PM
2

No, it's that you've reduced everyone around you to a 'type' and you as the center piece of your own narrative fantasy. Except most narcissist types have grandiose sense of self fantasies. you've chosen the martyr.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 10:41 PM
5

I'm not selling you something you stupid fuck. I'm telling you this is a retard playpen. I know. I was here when we created the fucking thing. too many value leeching assholes were shitting up the main sub so we threw this place here for them to leech away. Now, the guys who are actually doing work can use their asinine questions to practice articulating the shit they've been working on. It's not an advice subreddit. Not everyone can afford to do their retarding in your Patreon Also, at 5$ a mon…
/r/askMRP10/08/21 04:54 PM
1

Typical. Everything to the narcissist is about them, except blame. Women act a damned fool because we let them. One can act like a child and sit around getting fucked over, comfortable in the fact that its 'not my fault, it's those damned women!' or one can take agency over their one lives and realize: Women will act as shitty as you let them. Every single issue of women harming men is an opt in issue. Stop giving women the ability to fuck you over and you stop getting fucked over. I get it, Kev…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 04:04 PM
2

Yeah, the place is here to vent. We all do it
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 02:08 PM
1

I just recently made 34 days o nofap. Well fuck man, there's your problem. Instead of going out, fucking, calibrating your expectations to meet reality and accomplishing things to increase your self worth you masturbated about not masturbating. It's exactly the same reason why the guys are still struggling in 2 years of MRP ... wallowing in self pity isn't progress. And you admit yourself you've done fuck all. I discovered trp in 2018 Guys usually say shit like 'red pill aware', acting as if rea…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 01:31 PM
1

The word exact has a meaning. I ask because most young men seem to have a warped sense of 'long time' and do weird things like describe a girl they've been dating for 30 days as a long term relationship n shit like that. Keep in mind, there are married guys who have been red pill for 2 years and still strugle with basics like shit and comfort tests ... so again. Exactly how long?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 01:13 PM
1

Do you also get mad at hurricanes when they destroy a trailer park? Do you brand people who accept hurricanes as a force of nature as apologists? Do I need to throw out the scorpion and the frog parable here?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 01:07 PM
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And there is no such thing as a "different moral structure" Its called moral subjectivity and it's exactly why 'mental point of origin' is a core mental model of Red Pill praxeologies.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 01:05 PM
0

What happens when the anger doesn't go away? exactly how long have you been angry?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/21 01:04 PM
3

Sorry. I can't pin non self comments anymore. I may copypaste and throw it on the top instead.
/r/askMRP10/08/21 12:59 PM
5

If you meet one asshole vs if everyone you meet is an asshole...
/r/askMRP10/08/21 12:58 PM
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I'm especially glad you threw this into the retard sandbox instead of the value-oriented subreddit. If you'd like I can articulate this further, but I don't think you made it past the 'retard' in the comment. For the rest For guys interested in this topic: Older Men, Younger Women: How & When It Can Work -For Older Men who prefer Younger Women, and vice versa. Older Men, Younger Women, Part II -More Fun With Younger Women. For Online Daters, Women Peak at 18 While Men Peak at 50, Study Finds. -E…
/r/askMRP10/08/21 12:56 PM
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I'm just trying to figure out how to make him see my side so he doesn't have to feel as badly about it. by making him change his feelings and behaviour to suit you. You can reword it however you like
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/21 11:34 AM
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> Lately, I’ve noticed a complete lack of Field Reports here, ​ Good, this sub was specifically created to filter retards off the main subreddit, and the value leeches away from the OYS weekly threads. ​ If guys were properly unplugging this palce would be a ghost town
/r/askMRP09/08/21 07:40 PM
1

you're mad because he didn't spoon feed you.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/21 08:04 PM
2

You mean TRP.RED that the mods have been pushing for a year now and you act like you've never heard of before?
/r/TheRedPill06/08/21 04:28 PM
4

Shit in one hand, wish in the other. See which fills up first
/r/askMRP04/08/21 11:52 PM
2

Whisper was literally the first guy in here don't he daft
/r/TheRedPill04/08/21 11:11 AM
3

https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/4duudk/why\_youre\_lost/
/r/askMRP03/08/21 05:10 PM
1

Obligatory stats... 37M, 6' 89 kg , 110 kg bench, 280 kg deadlift, 180 kg squat. Do you know why people want to see this? If not, why the fuck did you bother including it?
/r/askMRP02/08/21 05:47 PM
1

Lol guys are retarded. I have a saudi man in my private community who regularily plates young married muslim girls I spent some time in Oman and the married guys there would show off their girlfriend burner phones. women are women the world over
/r/TheRedPill02/08/21 01:18 AM
1

He literally segmented girls into cheating whores and virgins using a single research paper that he didn't even read (past the abstract) Bullshit yourself, thats your choice, but don't bullshit me
/r/TheRedPill30/07/21 04:09 PM
3

you should really look into David Claires book, practical female psychology. You're referring to the madonna whore complex and guys who have it fuck their lives over quite regularily.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/21 02:00 PM
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Girls lie, good luck with that. They will fuck a bunch, then throw on a sun hat and a summer dress and make you wait and act sweet, just like those virgin girls you assume will be loyal and faithful forever (because thats really what you want, bubble wrapped life) So while the article says a lot, it really says nothing, and the person reading this will generall think along the lines of: I don't need to change myself, I'm great the way I am. The only way bad things will happen to me is if I don't…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/21 01:59 PM
3

If you don't need a tool, don't use a tool. Honestly dude, if you don't have a problem to solve don't go looking for a solution
/r/TheRedPill30/07/21 01:05 AM
1

This is literally rage bait I've talked about it before, the people sharing this are attempting to scare normies into acting more submissive. Dalrock Discusses the idea in his article threatpoint
/r/MensRights28/07/21 01:12 PM
5

No you're not, you're trying to find a way to ignore that boundary and negotiate with her to start respecting it
/r/askMRP28/07/21 09:23 AM
2

Other way around, the 100 in debt is worth 95 with inflation. This is of course assuming you can earn with inflation proof assets, because if yuou're just working a job, you'll be earning 95 cents on teh dollar also
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 09:22 AM
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She she isn't holding up her end of the bargain (briffaults law correlaty) Whats the plan?
/r/askMRP26/07/21 12:46 PM
2

You're referring to co mobidities, and yes, they are a mitigating factor. the issue with the lack of testing is that it leads to these long trials are not required and put a financial drain on us and slow down medical advancements putting a moat around current pharma and keeping new talent away those long trials are absolutely neccisary, and we may have a save MRNA, or not. the risk is we don't know Neither one looks especially promising. However, with the push to normalize public medical inform…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/21 12:27 PM
6

I disagree. If I had to classify it, it's a call to action. Of course it is going to reflect the readers sensibilities more than the writers. Here's an example of what I'm talking about Is Baldwin's character a jerk or a savior? The genius of the story is that half of you will have completely misunderstood it, and you like mint chutney and food stamps. The secret is at the beginning, at 0:15, where it is revealed that Alec Baldwin doesn't feel any of this, the whole speech is a work. If you were…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/21 02:35 AM
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If you take on debt to buy an assert (house, business etc) the value of the dollar decreases as a consequence of inflation (1.00 woth .98 with 2% inflation e.g.) The idea is then you take on X amount of debt, which because of inflation is worth less in real terms. One of the prime reasons that real estate is a good investment is because it's a hedge against inflation. It's not that easy, but thats the econ 101 way to look at it. And if you are taking on debt buying revenue generating assets, it'…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/21 02:34 AM
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The fact that people took this essay as a launching point to bitch and moan about every evil empire imaginable (feminists, amirite?) and not as a chance to swap notes about what possible winning scenarios would be tells me most guys haven't caught onto the fucking point. Great, 'they' are out to get you, or whatever. So what you gonna do about it? Bitching was the MRA playbook, and it's been working horribly for the last 50 years. Some easy solutions Expatriation Turn your personal entrepenurial…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/21 12:33 AM
1

im done, go getum tigeer
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/21 10:29 PM
1

If me being fake to get a job o Lol. So you're doing the ship of thesus thing. You're not the first guy to navel gaze, you won't be the last. Here's the mental model that the guys who got out of your rut used: You are what you do. Actions change thoughts, and not the other way around You have no way of acting like anyone but yourself (codependant behaviour aside) and it turns out you're not changing anything about yourself, you're learning a new skill (not you, I'm talking about successful guys …
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/21 10:10 PM
1

Then why even bother in here? I'm not being cheeky, it's a real question
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/21 09:37 PM
1

Being social is not a part of me. I have no internal need to go talk to someone just to go talk to someone. If the convenience arrives, I may choose to take advantage. But, I'm not calling people up just to chat and shoot the shit. It's funny how our ego's make excuses an integral part of our identity. If your goal is to be socially savvy (aka, attractive) be more social and savvy. IT doesn't have to be that hard
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/21 04:05 PM
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There's 1 reason. Because you want her to do something so that you can make a decision that is 'her' fault/choice. ​ Looks, I'm half cut and this is basic bitch shit. OP has a fucking covert contract and is stuck in his wifes frame. He wants her to take responsibility because he refuses to. He doesn't want to make the hard decision because he will be the bad guy and that 'feels' wrong. Fuckim. He's wasting his own time and anyone elses time who thinks he has hope. let him burn and learn form his…
/r/askMRP24/07/21 02:58 AM
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She will never tell you the truth, just leave.
/r/askMRP23/07/21 07:55 PM
3

What planet is he on? I barely knew what I was doing and doubled my investments in 2020. No crypto or any of that stuff either, just plain old fashionned stock market. If you add the real estate bubble it's closer to 300%. People are acting like you're talking about some impossible standards, in reality it's perfectly achievable, long as you keep your head on straight
/r/TheRedPill23/07/21 12:52 AM
2

so? /u/sepean would laugh at your horror of being found out. as would /u/reddreadwolverine
/r/askMRP22/07/21 09:53 PM
2

Cool
/r/TheRedPill22/07/21 01:06 PM
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I love how two subreddits about male advocacy are now having a slapfight over who loves women more. I was gonna chime in with some history of how this happens in almost all male spaces for the last 50 years, ever since Herb Goldberg wrote "The hazards of being male" in the 70s, but instead Ima go floss my teeth At the end of this, at least I'll have clean teeth
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/21 09:50 PM
3

I never said anything about this crap. I asked you about you, and you brought up your kids wife and that great house you got. And the weird part is you never even considered talking about yourself, other than asking for tips and tricks to light yourself on fire to keep them all warm. K, dance if you insist, I'll start in the key of G minor
/r/askMRP21/07/21 09:42 PM
6

You talk a lot about women for a guy who isn't getting any from one.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/21 09:29 PM
2

Tell me then, how does this differ from trying to save a girl that doesn't want to be saved? Better yet, just spot where your covert contract is (you did read the sidebar, right?) and save us all the song and dance.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 09:28 PM
1

How religious were her parents?
/r/askMRP21/07/21 09:23 PM
2

You're treating the girl like a nemesis, which has 2 problems: nemesis implies equal (read:subsurvient) you set your sights too low. Beating a shrew wife isn't an accomplishment
/r/askMRP20/07/21 04:49 PM
5

Who cares about what she feels?
/r/askMRP19/07/21 07:59 PM
2

I'm not doing heavy lifting anymore, but I'm still doing what I can.
/r/askMRP19/07/21 07:02 PM
6

That sounds like his problem, not mine
/r/askMRP19/07/21 04:40 PM
3

Look, you're new here. Perhaps it's best if you look around and do some reading before opinions get you banned. STFU is for a specific purpose. If a guy doesn't know how to handle the situation, STFU allows him to not lose ground. Saying nothing is better than saying wrong things. Once he knows how to deal with it he doesn't need it anymore. Consider this your warning. Get up to speed on what we do here or your time here will be short
/r/askMRP19/07/21 04:39 PM
5

Have you ever had a sit down real conversation about your sexual expectations with her? I'll bet you're one of those dufus guys who think those consent contracts actually make sense, aren't you. Man gets a blowjob, girl acts emotional but happy and you want to stop it all on the off chance that ... feelings exist?
/r/askMRP19/07/21 04:37 PM
4

A pressure flip would be your friend there. Also, don't be afraid to be more assertive in bed, a little dominance is a good thing
/r/askMRP19/07/21 04:35 PM
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My wife suggests that there may be some action tonight. Any girl who plans this 'maybe' shit will NEVER follow through, but guarantee will be followed up with something for you to do. This isn't in your frame If I insist, she gets more and more defensive: "Don't touch me!", etc. This has been happening for years. Of course, she knows if she gets mad, you back off. Same way you train a dog, repition. As for what to do, a few things Look in the mirror. Is it that your wife won't fuck you, or that …
/r/askMRP19/07/21 04:31 PM
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Im inferring that if she isn't putting in the effort to get this, she doesn't really want it and you shouldn't be doing the heavy lifting
/r/askMRP17/07/21 04:51 PM
2

https://www.chumplady.com/2013/07/real-remorse-or-genuine-imitation-naugahyde-remorse/
/r/askMRP17/07/21 04:30 PM
11

Read his first year blog then, it's the same thing.
/r/askMRP15/07/21 10:20 PM
2

I have them all. read them all back during my TKD years
/r/TheRedPill15/07/21 11:51 AM
4

Could you be more specific? In what ways would it be harder than it currently is, and how do you know this? Feminists no longer want equality They never wanted equality, so what changed recently other than you stopped believing that nonsense?
/r/MensRights13/07/21 07:03 PM
10

I would argue, with the exception of frame, and rational self egoism, unserious engagement is the biggest lesson for men in here.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 04:07 PM
35

I think the issue is 'I love women' instead of the more accurate 'I enjoy people for what they are' After all, I don't have much love in my heart for Casey Anthony, but my girl and family get tons. It's a weird thing, girls wanting to be a communistic monolith, and get mad when treated like individuals. This makes me laugh, the irony of not wanting to be treated like an object or not thought of as special, then making the case to be treated like an assembly line of perfect, lavender smelling bor…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 03:08 PM
1

Naw man, I'm good. I saw you're top ten reasons to be alpha, number 3 surprised me!
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 01:46 AM
1

One of the best checklists to use when evaluating whether you are a winner or loser in this life Lol. Imagine looking for a top 10 list because you can't tell if you're doing what you want in life
/r/TheRedPill12/07/21 01:26 AM
1

The point is exactly that. They are irrational, zealots etc. reason and calm aren't what have historically solved these problems
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/21 11:15 PM
2

They aren't misguided and on your team dude.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/07/21 11:37 AM
3

http://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/2vykau/a_guide_for_beginners_to_mrp/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=usertext&utm_name=askMRP&utm_content=t5_39iug
/r/askMRP10/07/21 11:19 AM
1

K. I tend to get a little ornery and verbose when people start playing the relative definitions with language so I'll leave it be then. It all makes sense though.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/21 05:20 PM
8

they need constant attention They need food water and shelter, along with paren't who don't put cigarettes out on them when they are drunk. YOU want to give them attention. I want to make myself more scarce around my wife, but at the same time I don't want to leave her alone with the work all the time Ima guess you're here because she refuses to fuck you, and do one of the two things shes kind of in your life for (babies and making babies). You do seem hell bent on easing her burden on the last …
/r/askMRP08/07/21 07:40 PM
2

I know I'm springboarding off of something you're saying to make a larger point, so don't take this as a personal affront on what you're saying, I get it. Now having said that. So how does that differ from sincerity? Maybe I'm being pedantic here, but I'm noticing more and more people using 'authentic' as some emotional placeholder to sincere, congruent, or self-interested. Perhaps I see too many 'branded men' to be unbiased here. Authenticity used the way an actor would describe an 'authentic p…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/07/21 07:38 PM
2

What does authentic mean?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/21 07:23 PM
2

Perfect Timing
/r/TheRedPill05/07/21 05:17 PM
1

The manosphere is a retard.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/21 05:13 PM
3

How do you think pimps are able to keep a stable of hoes giving them money hand over fist? He's talking about pimps and women in the abstract... let that sink in, if you're reading OP's post
/r/TheRedPill05/07/21 01:17 PM
28

Jerking off about nor jerking off? When You Can Control Yourself Sexually, You're Not Easily Phased By Women Silly dick holding routines aren't going to fix a fundamental issue such as thirst. If you don't want to be controlled sexually, don't do stupid things because you think she'll fuck you as a reward. I'd make a platos cave reference or something, but this post is about holding your dick so it's not really appropriate
/r/TheRedPill04/07/21 08:10 PM
1

I don't care, it's just not useful to me. It's the people giving him air that irk me now.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/21 05:59 PM
-2

He's too far gone. No friend to anchor him to the world. let him go.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 11:52 AM
-14

When you make 'winning the girl' the focus of your life it's no wonder you leave frustrated. The peacock doesn't bitch about having to have the nice feathers. The peacock also doesn't think there's no difference between boy and girl peacocks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/06/21 11:32 AM
4

No one here did shit
/r/askMRP24/06/21 03:29 AM
1

Who is 'they'
/r/TheRedPill21/06/21 06:14 PM
5

Lol. Asking conservatives and liberals didn't do much, why expect this to he any different?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/21 06:38 PM
-1

go away
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/06/21 12:19 PM
-1

Don't shame me for having a standard with you hyperbolic nonsense.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/21 12:58 PM
15

IT's not really a scale, it's mocking the scale. ​ won't Sleep with will sleep with, won't tell anyone will sleep with, won't brag about will sleep with, will brag about ​ I'm honestly tired of dudes talking about chicks like they are collecting Pokémon. EVery 9 is just a girl with makeup and a touch of male ego
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/21 03:09 PM
1

Motte, meet bailey
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/21 01:34 PM
1

By not taking responsibility for her feelings. Resentment is a feeling btw
/r/askMRP15/06/21 10:48 AM
3

Female protection is a feature, not a bug. We are hardwired for it because our species selected for organisms who were sexually successful. Unfortunately, just like diabetes, our instincts can be unhelpful in the land of abundance
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/21 10:47 AM
3

I try not to use feminist jargon, it validates and perpetuates their nonsense. Jerkass homer deserves better
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/21 10:39 AM
1

It's a tactic, not a strategy. We can take this discussion to the askfeminist sub and discuss if you like
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/21 10:38 AM
2

We can take this to the female advocate sub and discuss at length if you prefer
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/06/21 10:37 AM
5

That was season 1 homer, and partially season 2
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/21 08:16 PM
1

Which is funny. I don't agree with her either, but for probably a better reason than miss aesthetic... I have a hard time believing MRA's have any hope of pursuing their own best interest when they can't even headline their own movement. It's men hooked up to the trough, begging the girls to play fair, using cheerleaders. That's why Her Goldberg Wrote the Hazards of being Male in 1976 and 0 progress has been made since then. granted, both OP and Karen are part of the same core issue for men This…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/21 08:08 PM
4

Only when it suits them. It's just will-to-power. Agency when required, no agency when expedient. Can't blame em either, it works
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/21 01:19 AM
0

Karen Straughan (who I vehemently disagree with but will mention) Do you though? You're basically MRA, but you don't want to be thought of as 'right wing' whateverthehell that means. To be fair, you'd be better off Reading Rollo tomassi's work, you just described the amusement park article from his blog
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/06/21 01:18 AM
1

She's not wasting your time. You are wasting your time. Why you're doing that is the question, not asking other guys if they also do the thing you want to do.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 01:50 PM
16

Take the burden off of her. Why specifically did you phrase it like this?
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/21 03:13 AM
2

I get why you're jerking off. I don't get why your money shot had all these other dudes listed on it. Remember that saying of a finger pointing towards the moon, don't concentrate on the finger or you'll miss the point.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/21 09:18 PM
2

You could just say 'fat'
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/21 12:36 PM
2

wasn't it sepean who put it in guys heads that shes just (low libido, but with psychology attached)?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 05:13 PM
3

It's relatively easy. Nothing in conservatism is about getting laid.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 05:12 PM
1

Yoked or fat?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 05:11 PM
1

You literally get to pick, or not care dude.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 04:58 PM
4

Their vaccine made them more than the razor division has in years
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/21 06:15 PM
1

Oh, on the lesbian thing, He was missing the cues, not that there's a blueprint per se. She was sending mixed messages, and the archetypes didn't line up with her behaviour, but he couldn't put his finger on it. IT's basically an experience thing. In her case, since she just wanted a sugar daddy she was acting like a materialista, but responded with Early Frame announcements that didn't jive with that. He uses the term blue print in this case for their particular kink. Every girl is into stuff t…
/r/askTRP04/06/21 09:13 PM
1

https://therationalmale.com/2013/12/03/saving-the-best/
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:01 PM
1

Increasing, yes. I highly doubt market saturation is happening anytime soon
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:59 PM
1

Don't do covert contracts. She will fail them and you will resent her for it. Stick to your boundaries and leading, because expecting her to do heavy lifting is only gonna end badle.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:47 PM
2

I wish he was more vague because it's almost possible to know what he's looking for. The book itself lists the sources they got their info within the text, and he didn't say what was insufficient about them
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:46 PM
2

You mean literally this?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:43 PM
1

Honestly, and I'm biased here, but the best one is my youtube playlist on the sidebar which I'm still working on still. All it does is give summaries of the sidebar books and supplemental posts along with context and some additional information. You don't need a course, what you need to to stop wanting to be hand held.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 01:40 PM
1

This is a wonderful covert contract, and the reason men get stuck on that hamster wheel of 'self improvement™' There are no ways to bubble wrap your life. https://therationalmale.com/2017/07/06/confidence-and-the-safety-net/
/r/TheRedPill30/05/21 05:12 PM
3

You're mistaking logical arguments for emotional ones. You cannot beat arguments that came from emotion with logic. Edit. All arguments stem from emotion. Even the ones without self awareness. In fact this whole argument stems from someone calling the people here mean words and people responding to a perceived threat to their reputation. Doesn't get more emotional than that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/21 03:26 PM
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Most men tried that and got nothing but disdain. Every guy whose been around knows that while his emotions are fine, most people dont care to receive them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/21 01:10 PM
3

If you think citing sources will fix the problem I don't know what to tell you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/05/21 01:09 PM
1

No one said anything otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 12:10 PM
2

That's not true in the slightest, being able to annualize ones innate patterns and behaviors are imperative to growth and development. so ... not natural
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 06:25 PM
1

too much hate disguised as whatever logic. Anger, not hate, but yeah. It's part of the process
/r/TheRedPill27/05/21 09:33 AM
1

biologically, we are hardwired to prefer women instead of men. Ask any man who got divorced who the friends sided with, and most will tell you 'her' Even here, in a male advocacy subreddit with a rule specifically for male centric posts, it's very difficult for men not to suck up to the female ideal. It's not a bug, its a feature, and it takes real work to stop doing it, no different than we have to avoid refined sugar because our instincts drive us to diabetes
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/21 01:49 AM
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But I think you put too much weight on the draw of such a group as "single men" or even "incels." Typically, these types of groups are a last resort Of course they are. So are political activists, sexual activists, and any of the other ones that young men are instinctively clinging to. Not that it matters, the Mods considered it some kind of personal attack. If thats how one sees comments like that then we are too far gone in my opinion. Really trying my best to come into this sub with good inte…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/21 12:20 AM
3

Why are you talking to them? When they tell you who they are, believe them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/21 05:17 PM
1

OMG! Next you'll tell me Jordan Peterson can't be my dad either. How has his material helped you? If you can't answer this, there's your answer.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 04:40 PM
19

You should look into why, on a report full of male action, accountability, success and work you chose the 'whamen ain't shit' part of the post to have resonate
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 11:14 PM
9

It's funny, my main event also started when I went out for some drinks and a bite to eat. ended off going the other direction, but it's interesting to see what could have been.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/21 11:13 PM
3

Jimmy Norton told me I figured it was something like this. It sounded way too much like the standard guy in the anger phase. Very bravado, much revenge. It's pretty normal, all of us go through it. the only caution I would offer is that it's not a great place to stay for too long. Women are the way they are, and you're learning to enjoy them for what they are, not what we wish they could be. The next part is your own mental point of origin, because arbitrarily following anyone, Jim, Whisper, RPS…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/21 11:04 PM
3

Good job not being validation seeking. I really suggest you read humansockpuppets bitch management guide, I think it will help you go from this autistic "YOU CANT TAME ME BITCH!" to something more helpful to you ... holding women to standard and removing the ones who don't meet it. Maybe I'm reading into it too far, but the protagonist in your story was the 'girl' not you... Which kind of explains why you are certain that you WILL lose freedom the instant a girl may be worth promoting from casua…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/21 02:44 AM
2

I'm surprised people don't use branding more. It's a great way to set yourself apart in a commodity market.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 06:37 PM
3

War is Peace, Freedom is Slavery, Ignorance is Strength, and 2 + 2 = 5. the act of simultaneously accepting two mutually contradictory beliefs as correct. According to Winston Smith, the protagonist of 1984, doublethink is “To know and not to know, to be conscious of complete truthfulness while telling carefully constructed lies, to hold simultaneously two opinions which cancelled out, knowing them to be contradictory and believing in both of them, to use logic against logic, to repudiate morali…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/21 01:01 PM
2

Actionnable. Not half bad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/05/21 02:13 PM
4

​ The Sinn Féin were non violent, wonderful people ... yes ​ If only there were a feminist advocacy subreddit you could use to ensure everyone knows you're a good person ... If only
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/05/21 12:51 PM
2

I want to read this and learn something, I really do. This is the transcript of a whitegirl tiktok where I have to 'like for part9!' You wrote a story about what turns you on, but I can't find any part where you distill any insight, for yourself or the reader. I'm sure you know it's the internet and no one cares about any one person here, other than what they can offer so your idea of writing your grindr fan fiction seems like you want TRP to be your validation source instead of a place to offer…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 02:59 PM
3

To be fair I can't get angry at it. It's worked for a century now, and in their position I have a hard time believing I wouldn't keep doing it until it stopped working.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/21 02:50 PM
13

They don't want equality, they want "more" There's a reason feminists can't agree on anything, there is no central tennets, just more power and less accountability
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/21 01:09 PM
13

On Saturday my wife went out with her friends. I decided to take this opportunity to test out my ability to day game and I went out, ​ https://therationalmale.com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/comment-page-2/ ​ Ask me how I know you haven't read fuck all
/r/askMRP16/05/21 05:08 PM
1

Yup. Even the married red pill group say this. The sub isn't pro marriage, it's anti divorce rape not at all the same thing
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:15 PM
2

A sub moderated by women... Name one.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 01:14 PM
2

I guess we are lucky, statscan is pretty compehensive
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/21 10:19 PM
2

Well look at that. gone after having to work
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/21 02:02 PM
7

Google search didn't come up with anything?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/21 01:36 PM
6

This here is why I am confused. Why does anyone assume good faith anymore?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/21 06:14 PM
2

I will be pleasantly surprised if this is actually true
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/21 06:12 PM
3

Lol. Why even ask instead of just telling everyone what you think of them? Save the hassle of pretending it's a discussion
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/21 05:44 PM
1

It's nonsense, I'm done. Good luck with the berating of men for their own good
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/21 05:36 PM
3

If she wanted any of that she would have made any effort whatsoever. I have been going on dates with She's wasting your time. You've bought her a bunch of stuff so she keeps asking for more to see how much you'll give her.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/21 05:36 PM
1

It sounds like you don't know why notable MRAs are women. Which is exactly why MRA's have been trying since the late 70s to achieve anything and come up with nothing. Awareness has been the 50 year plan. No one cares
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/21 05:17 PM
-2

And yet you're the one that felt the need to correct me on who to blame This is nonsensical and literally says nothing. Whoever you're addressing, its not me, and I won't be held responsible for you adding whatever you want so your argument fits. Kids are girls, adults are women. Other than that, I don't see why a person needs to be a certain gender to shout down sexist bullshit. I dunno, why does one feel the need to shame male advocacy in the male advocacy subreddit?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/21 04:28 PM
6

you're allowed to hold yourself to a different standard than others. I guarantee everyone else does the same to you
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:23 PM
8

try to pray away the gay.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:22 PM
18

By being honest with yourself first. If it was as great as you say it is you wouldn't really want to. It's not. and thats fine. Most all relationships are never 100%. If you are gonna get some strange, and you're willing to accept that she may put up with it, or may not, then do it. You aren't even congruent with yourself in 5 sentences. You say you're not missing out, but constantly want to enjoy what you're missing out on. You say she's the best thing ever, but not good enough. That you want t…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:22 PM
1

Let me guess, they were the ones who bragged the hardest about honour and military veneration. I may have only been navy, but the ones who tended to be the most upstanding were the ones who downplayed their service.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/21 04:18 PM
0

I'm calling bullshit on this one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/21 04:17 PM
2

Most men who choose army are probably already disciplined. I've been to basic training. Ask anyone else who has and they will tell you this is objectively untrue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/21 04:17 PM
-2

This is about as frustrating as when you tell a girl her safety is her own responsibility and she says you're pro-rape. I'm not a child, and I don't care who is to blame. The issue is a glaring insecurity among a lot of modern men, and this is a solution to that. Focusing on blame is a coping strategy for men who are afraid to do something and fail, as it's a giant ego hit. tell me I'm wrong, Melissa EDIT: A great example of the problem today is the fact A guy can describe masculine qualities an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/21 04:11 PM
-2

"men these days" as if men themselves are the problem. skip the as if. As for your 'shouldn't', come up with a better solution instead of shitting on ones that work, but don't adhere to your delicate sensibilities. Everyone has to sacrafice something, put in work to achieve something. You cheapen male accomplishment by assuming it 'shouldn't be the case' As for your last point about the Boy Scouts, what relevance does that have? That you don't see a society with organizations that exist to incre…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/21 03:49 PM
-1

I mean you can reword it however you want, but you're describing typical male qualities that really are lacking in so many boys and men today: ​ Structure/order Male sociability Protection Status, resource, and accomplishment accumulation So yeah, prager kind of has a point, and I'm surprised at how negative the 'male advocates' in here are taking this obvious advice. ​ > but that's not exactly an ideal function, and we should be building society up. If you look into the history of the military …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/21 12:32 PM
1

It's an answer to your question
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/05/21 12:23 PM
0

Which is kind of the point Prager is making. Also, it's annoying Prager is making a point I don't automatically disagree with, so this doesn't really make me happy to say
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/21 08:29 PM
-1

Why do people treat rental cars like shit yet baby their cars in the garage?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/21 04:47 PM
0

It's weird. Everyone always takes it being objectively bad in these arguments, but never attempts to justify that opinion. I wonder. I know you believe your opinion, do you know why? Military service in general, I'm not speaking of the draft.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/21 04:46 PM
2

OPs is talking like a chick and I'll bet he thinks about 'class' unironically
/r/askTRP07/05/21 04:43 PM
-2

I see woke SJW types diefying victims and the results of doing so. Are you sure thats the playbook you want to work with?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/21 03:04 PM
1

Nevermind, I'm not engaging with you anymore lol This is true, you're engaging with some weird boogeyman you invented I said what if you CAN'T, not what if you WON'T. Cerebral palsy? Schizoaffective disorder? COPD? What if space aliens kidnapped you and you aren't at earth? If we are talking about the bell curve, I'm talking about the middle of it and you're arguing that the 3rd standard deviation means it doesn't exist. You're being argumentative for the sake of it. If you want to be a lost cau…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/21 03:03 PM
1

Pushups and other bodyweight exercise is free (cheaper than an internet connection at least) and if you can't afford food then perhaps there is your problem, and not dating. Also, generally speaking, the kind of condescending tone people throw out on these things underlies a crippling insecurity. Would I be mistaken in assuming you're probably fat, out of shape, and don't like me drawing attention to that as a negative? A big tell was the kind of person who lurks a profile to find a reason to di…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/05/21 02:05 PM
1

You can't exercise and eat healthy? Really?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/21 04:39 PM
1

That's not a bad idea...
/r/TheRedPill04/05/21 07:25 PM
1

Irreverence and humor, or just ignoring it. You only get angry when other peoples validation matters to you.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 05:33 PM
-2

I guess science and hormones don't apply to you then.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/21 05:32 PM
7

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28214680/ https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0306453016306886?via%3Dihub I'm sure if you googled even a little you can find about a dozen more. Keywords empathy, neuroticism, psychology, testosterone, estrogen and adult.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/21 05:28 PM
7

GLO ad FTFY
/r/TheRedPill04/05/21 05:23 PM
0

What you said has absolutely nothing to do with what I said. Also, there's a huge difference in 200nl/dl and 800nl/dl with an otherwise healthy man in his 20s
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/21 05:22 PM
4

The trick is no one really knows anymore In the same way art no longer became about naturalism after the invention of the camera, the detachment of labour from productivity (automation) has removed one of the hallmarks of masculinity. Just plop yourself down somewhere and dare people to move you is the best answer for todays world. The part I dislike about videos like that is everyone keeps adopting the stupidity of feminist language and mental models... If you are trying to fight some battle ag…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/21 04:02 PM
2

Lift weights, eat big, gain 10 pounds of muscle. The increased testosterone from compound lifts increases testosterone, which decreases neurotic behavior. Also, fat stores estrogen in the body, so reducing fat decreases these hormones People seem very confused how big a role hormones play in their behaviour
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/21 03:58 PM
4

What would you do if everyone said yes? If they said no? Better question, why do you want random internet strangers to make this decision for you? Answer that and you'll understand why you're marriage is unfulfilling
/r/askTRP04/05/21 12:52 PM
–

There's 0 value add to anyone here. congratulations. now if you like the sub so much stop shitting it up
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/21 05:45 PM
1

This entire comment is you wishing for the world to change to accommodate your 'values' Saying that men can fix it by changing themselves The world isn't fixable, and if it was it wouldn't be yours to fix. Fix yourself. how men can reject negative aspects of dating that women support. Men have one tool for avoiding bad whamen shit ... walking away unless they add value to your life. Most men won't because they have a scarcity mentality, they desperately need validation and worry the girl they ha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/21 05:42 PM
1

Why did you decide to DEER?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/21 07:09 PM
10

Always on the table. And in reality it's not very opressive at all, they did an end run. I can do whatever I want. It's all the companies they forced to make dance. It sucked in january when it was too cold to do much but in the summer it's easy to just go outside and do outside shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/21 10:04 PM
28

COVID is over. Fuck I wish.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/21 09:51 PM
3

Well, you can thank unfunded public health care. We aren't concerned over the deaths of people, we are concerned that an underfunded public institution is going to go bankrupt. It's cheaper to close the economy than it is to fund it. Detention camps Uhm ... undisclosed quarantine wellness centers thank you very much. They are only protecting detainees from the evil anti vaxxers who would protest at the building you're paying to stay at
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 04:34 PM
2

the absurdity of women making men jump through hoops No one makes a man do anything. The most attractive thing you can do is not jump, yet guys still keep thinking sex is a reward and not a requirement
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 04:29 PM
1

become high value without being boring, weak and a pussy? Value better shit.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 04:27 PM
2

Exactly. It's not illuminating, it's pandering.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 04:26 PM
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Everybody wins. The only part I disagree with in both the post and comment. If this was 'stupid liberal ownage' or 'Conservative asshole being asshole' I'm sure we could agree that it's political theatre and it makes people stupider. Most guys in here have probably tuned out political media just because of how irritating it can be. This is no different in my opinion. You say men aren't interested if content is packaged as Relationship Advice, and I agree. I've geared my own channel towards actua…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 04:22 PM
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Does everything have to include women?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/21 03:08 PM
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the only ones even trying to help men Think through the implications of: the only group that has guys back at all were these "evil misogynist"ls"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/21 03:07 PM
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Funny thing about that Samuels video. Everyone already knows you cannot negotiate desire, so why is he preaching to women? his audience isn't women, what gives? He isn't Hes giving dudes a handjob so they can cheer. It's the same thing Oprah and Ellen did when offering free shit under your seat. He says this is how women can 'woman up' and find a high quality man. In reality he's letting the audience infer 'you're a high quality man, and the only reason they don't notice is because they are too …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/21 02:54 PM
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Whether it's a concern or not (changes in behaviour over the last while, time place and type of catchup etc) is one thing. your crippling insecurity about it is another. Quoting UltmateCad: If she cheats, you'll never know That and no one is clever forever. Deal with your shit, and if/when you find something you can deal with it then.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 11:31 AM
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https://heartiste.net/the-unbearable-triteness-of-hating/ You're not clever, this isn't insightful or new and you're part of the problem regardless of your intentions. Sorry man, this argument was had and dismissed years before this subreddit even started
/r/TheRedPill25/04/21 10:00 PM
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TRP would help 10x the amount of men if you as a community would just change the way you deal with the messaging. Lol. so it would be great if we would just stop cussing
/r/TheRedPill25/04/21 01:09 PM
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I'll throw you a bone. You wrote a summary of what people told you the problem was and a pity story about your bat man origin story. If there's any action you performed over the last week to improve your situation in that OYS, I couldn't find it. Thats a problem, since thats the entire point of the OYS posts.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/21 06:56 PM
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It's about formerly useful instincts no longer being useful. in fact they are detrimental
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 03:17 PM
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Ah. In my experience I found that trying to charge as little as possible would get less invested and harder to deal with clients, looks like I may be an anomaly.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 03:16 PM
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Did you find the temperament of your clients changed at all depending on how you charged for your time?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 01:10 PM
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Just ensure you read the book too... The crib notes are a supplement
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/21 01:07 PM
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Sure. Know what other human hardwired behaviors we have? Eating simple Carbs, Violence and shitting in a river. Luckily we learn to temper those instincts for our own benefit
/r/TheRedPill20/04/21 12:14 AM
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Better use of time than jerking off in the living room
/r/TheRedPill19/04/21 10:16 PM
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I think we both agree.. I'll still trust my lawyer and accountant over a bitcoin master, and the bro science guy over the 32 year old GP
/r/TheRedPill19/04/21 07:53 PM
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I'm disappointed the comedian example you used wasn't Dane Cook :P
/r/TheRedPill19/04/21 06:48 PM
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It's the anger phase personnified.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/21 06:45 PM
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To be fair, there are multiuple communities. YaReally has only ever been in the Rational Male comment sections, and I don't see anyone arguing he isn't the real deal. Neither has Roissy for that matter. MRP and TRP have their beefs, but there's a lot of talent amongst all of it. I would be wary of simply taking TRP subreddit and using it as the litmus test. It's that coke V pepsi tribalism with a better flavour. I remember for that brief period when that incel got to be a mod. IT was fixed, but …
/r/TheRedPill19/04/21 06:44 PM
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