What improved your inner Game?

Ed4all15 · 2020-04-17T16:11:59+00:00

Working out hard. Turning myself from a 6’1 220 pound flabby loser, into a 225 pound beast. It took 2 years, blood, sweat and tears, but I proved to myself that I am worthy. Get out of your comfort zone.

Eyedea777777 · 2020-04-17T16:56:33+00:00

The Power of Now by Echart Tolle is a great book that will shift your perception too.

PimpinLikeIceberg · 2020-04-17T17:44:31+00:00

My Narcissism.

diehard1194 · 2020-04-17T17:41:08+00:00

reframing your mind (killing negative self talk, accepting oneself, random anxieties)?

NLP, i.e. Neuro-Linguistic Programming, is what I use and can help with all of that. It became mainstream in the PUA community with Ross Jeffries and Neil Strauss but it’s more than running cheesy pickup lines and patterns. The way you talk to yourself affects the way you act and the outcome of your actions. Self talk is based on beliefs, values and is built over time thru repetition and expectations. As with everything it requires effort and patience to change your behaviour so expect no quick fixes.

Pete_Worst · 2020-04-17T19:25:27+00:00

Discipline. Get your workout in even if you don't want to. Eat healthy even if you'd rather eat shitty food. Read something useful even if you feel like watching tv instead. Overcoming these daily obstacles builds inner (and outer) strength.

UnphasedOak · 2020-04-17T15:41:43+00:00

Rejection did.

ten100ol · 2020-04-17T15:34:33+00:00

Listen man, the mind is for sure a labyrinth.

But, at the end of the day, no amount of books or reading will hep you. It comes down to you vs. yourself. Start off each day with a task at mind, become the best you can be, and your aura will attract women in itself.

Meditating and journaling are a good starting point, just make sure it is something you are actually passionate about rather than just checking off a box to make yourself feel a certain way.

What worked for me was waking up earlier, working out harder (even in quarantine), and realizing that nobody else can help me "fix" my broken life and old ways.

2020-04-17T16:41:02+00:00

Just realizing that shit isn’t what it seems and the past is over. From that day on I’ve just been doing it/living it even when it’s uncomfortable. At least I’m living in reality.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2020-04-17T17:24:22+00:00

Once i achieved all of that i wasn't happy: inner game was and is sub par.

Because you haven't actually accomplished anything that gives you a legitimate sense of pride.

BestOrNothing · 2020-04-17T20:22:02+00:00

Increasing my testosterone levels made the biggest change in my inner game, hands down.

BestOrNothing · 2020-04-17T20:23:39+00:00

Having a rotation of 3-5 girls will give you confidence and outcome independence that will translate into everything you do. Sex is powerful.

Spets87 · 2020-04-17T22:40:55+00:00

Inner game came from trusting myself, by doing the tasks I promised myself I would do, no matter what. 5 second rule book helped. So did doing #75hard challenge.

mr_Tobbor · 2020-04-17T16:21:31+00:00

you speak about your THOUGHTS. Speak about your action? How many women had you fuck and what quality? Are you ok with that or you want to fuck more of them whith many different ways (you see anal, deepthroat etc.) Because inner game is a good thing if has something to offer to you in real life not as a comforting thought.

DeepNutted · 2020-04-17T16:29:20+00:00

The correct medication fixed everything.

Title	What improved your inner Game?
Author	UnphasedOak
Upvotes	13
Comments	31
Date	April 17, 2020 2:13 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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