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| 1 | “What’s you’re sign”“I’m a Pisces (sic! It is true)...let me guess, you must be a Virgin” and a wink | /r/askTRP | 08/10/20 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Writing down your ideal selfDoes it add value to my life? Does it make it better? Yes, this technique or, better, framework of operating definitely adds value to my life and produces the results I expect. What you focus on you attract. The value of using such an approach is that you break your objective, i.e. what you really desire, down in smaller, more manageable components. Instead of focusing on being just "rich", you focus on getting your first $1000 of savings. Then there is power of visualisation, value elicitation … | /r/askTRP | 19/09/20 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Writing down your ideal selfThere’s no right way to do it, so I’ll tell you my process which I use for every scenario where I want to achieve a particular result (e.g., deliver a great presentation, meet an interesting woman etc.) I usually write in present tense what I want to achieve, making sure I’m as detailed as possible and describing how I would feel in that moment. I read it out loud or internally for as long as it’s necessary at least once per day. I then act on a daily basis as if I got what I wanted already. It’… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/20 02:20 PM |
| 4 | What went wrong here and why is phone call a priority?Asking for her number when you already have a way to contact her (IG) is perceived as needy behaviour. Once you have her contact (whatever it is) simply ask her out. “Hey what’s up? Let’s get for a drink...” is all you had to write to let things progress. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Next LTR - no emotions from my sideThere’s not such a thing as a transition period. She just is. Also, if you set a boundary (ie me-time) and she crossed it it’s your fault not hers. If you want to spend time alone just gently but firmly tell her so and do it. Straight up say “I need time for myself. I’ll see you on X day”. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | FWB to LTR power changeAs long as she perceives that your SMV is higher than hers and you are willing to walk away without a second thought, the power balance is on you. What is difficult is to keep such status. They will test and look for cracks in your armour at every turn of the corner. That’s why it’s essential that you vet, set boundaries and have a DGAF with all of them, plates FwBs or LTRs. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | FWB to LTR power changeWhy should you offer commitment? Unless she brings up the topic, you should treat her like the first time you banged her. Being consistent with your actions and the way you show up is all it takes to keep her. My 1 and 1/2 year FwB never asked for commitment and we still have fun every time we spend time together. She knows the way I live my life and she’s happy to tag along until she AWALT’s. | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 04:22 PM |
| 1 | ONS ends up pregnant and I think I’m the dad what should I do?she thinks the dad is her ex boyfriend from about 3-4 weeks after our ONS. That's her lizard brain at work and it's also the essence of Alpha-fucks, Beta-bucks. More than likely she made sure to ride her ex right after she was done with you. The cuckold will never know. So consider yourself an Alpha fuck and move on. | /r/askTRP | 25/05/20 10:07 AM |
| 3 | How am I supposed to go for the kiss if I have to wear a mask?Just tell her 'Freeze. Don't move. Put both your hands up in the air. Now slowly remove your mask with the right hand. Left hand where I can see them." Then smack a kiss on her lips and say "I got you motherfucker". Plausible deniability. You are a cop and she is under arrest. /s I am of a mind of using this line soon. OP thanks for making me smile today. | /r/askTRP | 21/05/20 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Training game techniques in every day interactionsI love reading. But there's only so much reading you can do. Eventually you've got to take action and try. That’s the only way to be able to talk to any stranger out there. As for practice, if you are new I’d stick to situational openers and move to eliciting opinions. It works in every single situation. A good training ground is opening the shopping assistant every time you go grocery shopping: where are x vegetables’; where you can find x product and so forth. Then move to ‘which product...’, … | /r/askTRP | 20/05/20 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Halfway Stuck in a RutStart with The ‘Why’ and dig deep until you find the root cause of why you want to do it. Else you’ll be stuck in constant loop between the what and how without moving forward towards your objective. Projects fail when you lose sight of the why or you don’t believe in it anymore. To paraphrase E.Thomas ‘when you want something as much as you want to breath’ that’s when you will succeed. The ultimate why is to live. ‘Start with Why’ is also a book from Simon Sinek. A good read for your quarantine… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/20 06:51 PM |
| 119 | Men in your 40s - if you can turn back time, what do you wish you knew in your 30s?I wholeheartedly agree. If I had the chance to meet my young self now, this is what I'd tell him: Focus on improving yourself and build a life that has meaning for you. Pussy comes as a byproduct. If you are in any kind of relationship do not be complacent. More so if you are with a girl with higher SMV than you. Keep on improving (point #1). Weed out toxic people from your life - friends or pussy - and nurture those that add value to it. Love yourself first and accept no disrespect. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Are eastern European women different?is it possible that certain communities, in this case Polish community, are more monogamy oriented and women behave better. While it's true that Polish tend to marry early in their 20s, that's mainly because there's a lot of social pressure on women to merry and have kids before they turn 30 while men are pushed to act seriously around women and propose within the first two years of dating. That being said, bars are full of pre-wall divorced girls with kids that are on the CC to have fun and enj… | /r/askTRP | 03/05/20 08:00 AM |
| 1 | What are some harsh truths you learned about life growing up?'Life is earned, not given'. Nobody owes you anything and you've got to put in hard work day in and day out. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Rewarding good female behavior is one common trope in red pill theory. How do you reward your plates?Have you ever had a dog and trained him as well? If so you know you have to immediately reward good behaviour for something he does for you since the very beginning. It’s called association. He sits and bumps up, you dish out a treat; he slightly sits, another treat; he sits properly a big treat. At the end you can pretty much remove the treat and just say ‘good dog’ and pet him. Every once in a while you give him a random treat to keep him expecting. The same principle applies to human behaviou… | /r/askTRP | 25/04/20 01:24 PM |
| 1 | Depressed during quarantineA crisis can be an opportunity as well. For me that means I have time to work on my backyard project and do some physical training which I wouldn’t normally do, learn a musical instrument for the first time and re-read Seneca’s work or any book on economics I enjoy. If you really have nothing to do find purpose in helping others. I know of some professional athletes that went on the front line to help fight the virus and no press talks about them. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/20 05:41 PM |
| 47 | What are signs that someone is a fake alpha?The loudest in the room is also the weakest | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or do you guys notice more cum coming out of your penis with when fucking girls vs a solo sesh?It's biology. Your body knows that more sperm needs to be injected inside her to be successful at reproduction, especially if sex is not frequent with the same partner. Read 'Sperm Wars' by Robin Baker if interested. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/20 09:33 AM |
| 2 | What improved your inner Game?“Creating the person you want to be - NLP the essential guide” is a good starting point. Also, Richard Bandler's old recordings are a great source of knowledge though less structured. You can easily find them on internet. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 04:27 AM |
| 3 | What improved your inner Game?reframing your mind (killing negative self talk, accepting oneself, random anxieties)? NLP, i.e. Neuro-Linguistic Programming, is what I use and can help with all of that. It became mainstream in the PUA community with Ross Jeffries and Neil Strauss but it’s more than running cheesy pickup lines and patterns. The way you talk to yourself affects the way you act and the outcome of your actions. Self talk is based on beliefs, values and is built over time thru repetition and expectations. As with … | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 05:41 PM |
| 6 | Ex-gf (29f doctor) was hyper masculine, she wouldn't budge an inch. Anything I could've done or was she a lost cause?That is the kind of women you will find in a highly competitive work environment. Doctors, corpo managers, engineers and the likes tend to show more masculine traits than your average nurse, HR-girl, interior designer etc. As long as you know what to expect and how to deal with them, doctors or nurses make no difference. One of my former LTR's was a mid-level finance manager with a tendency to boss people around in her private life too. Imagine a blond, educated and fit Hitler in high heels and … | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 05:15 PM |
| 1 | What is TRP's perspective/thoughts of Robert Bly's "Iron John"Not every useful book needs to be TRP approved. Personally, it’s one of my favourite books on the concept of manhood in modern society. It draws from the Jungian anima and animus to explain the path a kid has to walk to become a man, in a world where men grow up without clear direction to do what society expects, feeling resentment over their fathers. It’s not an easy read and it requires time to properly digest but I strongly believe it should be part of the TRP curriculum just as much as NMMNG… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 08:45 AM |
| 1 | My recent experience with approaching. Your input is appreciated.Is that doable? Of course. Is It sustainable? Not in the long run. Logistics are your disadvantage. Not to mention money, time. That is a patch that does not address the real problem, reputation and fear of rejection. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | My recent experience with approaching. Your input is appreciated.Like I said in another comment I didnt know if I was being creepy and she was just being polite. I didnt wanna force myself on her and wanted to be careful. She was talking to you, wasn't she? That is all you need to know to keep the conversation going. She assessed whether you were a creep or not from the very beginning, that is why you opener worked. She was actually leaving the museum ahead of me. We were both finished visiting the museum. Any possible openers ? Sorry mate, I was not there … | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 04:26 PM |
| 2 | My recent experience with approaching. Your input is appreciated.The good I could only approach three girls You approached three girls and you should give yourself a pat on the back, physically and emotionally. The very good At this point I was like I am not gonna do my usual routine You understood that you had a canned opener and learned from your mistakes. "Hey, do you speak English?" in a non-English-speaking country is generally counterproductive. More often than not, you will get a straight "No" with no genuine feedback to work with. The not so good in m… | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Weird encounter with an aggressive guy this morning.I don’t know where you are and which bar you want to go to but it’s totally safe to go to pubs. If you are alone, play it cool and enjoy the place. Stand by the bar, exchange some words with people in your proximity and try to build trust with locals. A good way is to learn a couple of words/sentences in their local language and show them you appreciate their culture. You’ll be surprised by the camaraderie EE guys can show you. They look tough and might have a macho attitude sometimes but there’… | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Weird encounter with an aggressive guy this morning.You looked back at him and that’s confrontational. Same as in the animal kingdom. Unless you are ready to fight you should walk past and not mind him at all. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Weird encounter with an aggressive guy this morning.You should have done some prior cultural research before going to EE. It is not the Netherlands where people are generally open minded because of the melting pot. Unless you disclose where you are excatly, the below points apply: Yes, 10 am drunkards are the norm, especially during the week-end and in the city center. Your skin colour does not help and you palying power-games with local dudes will get you in a brawl immeditaly. Yes, you will end-up in jail even though you were trying to protect … | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 02:09 PM |
| 4 | I’ve managed to be friends with the most alpha social group in my town, how to ensure they will invite me to stuff?You don’t join the fight club, you can only be invited. Your post shows your needy behaviour, you want desperately something and you are scared to lose the little you have. Groups are there for members to give not to get something from. It can be money, network, interesting personality, fun moments, recreational drugs etc. Unless you are able to bring added value, you’ll stay in the periphery. The alternative is you create your own fight club. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 02:24 PM |
| 6 | Don't worry , there is nothing between usThis is the takeaway. There’s only so much flirting you can do; fail to escalate and they will put you in the friend zone forever. Also, better say less than too much. You should have stopped at “...I thought you finally found the one”. Stating that he’s a great catch and there’s chemistry sends out the wrong vibes, i.e. you care about her as a friend. She might actually believe in what you said and you risk becoming an orbiter. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 10:39 AM |
| 8 | Do IOIs differ when a girl is drunk/in a club or bar?No easy way out. Isolate, Polarize and escalate. You’ve got to do the work and be willing to be rejected. Talk to her for a couple of minutes (light stuff - smoking area is perfect for that) and leave. Upon leaving say “Let’s grab something to drink sometime”. And give her your phone to write her number. If she comes up with any excuse just say “ nice meeting you. Enjoy the evening”. Unless you are able to turn it into an instate date, all the above helps you gouge whether she is interested or n… | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 03:06 PM |
| 8 | Do IOIs differ when a girl is drunk/in a club or bar?Assume she is interested and talk to her. Worst case you practiced your social skills. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Feel dating app girl is going to flake tongiht for first meet up. Not sure if I should go do a side gig, send another text for confirmation, or just show up and potentially waste my timealso just shoot her a text a couple of hours before. "we still on?" Disagree on the last part. It flips the power dynamic and it can come across as insecure. She is more than likely to reschedule (shit test). If I set up the meeting and I go no contact for days before the date I always assume it’s on. Actually I make sure I get there earlier to have something to drink on my own. Worst case I enjoy the drink and go about my business. Most of the time they text to confirm but some don’t. However, … | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 01:39 PM |
| 3 | A bit confused about the nudes protocolRightly so. Never send dick pics, never. A girl will ask for nudes only if she hasn't met you already and does not "know" your junk...and that's pathetic. I use the request to lead and tell her that not everybody can see it and she needs to wait/prove worthy of it. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 10:02 AM |
| 6 | A bit confused about the nudes protocolDo not request nudes. It might be a compliance test for her at the beginning but she will soon flip the script and use it to manipulate you. Act totally indifferent or slightly amused as if it's something you see everyday. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 09:44 AM |
| 3 | A bit confused about the nudes protocolSame age dude here. I take nudes as any other kind of IOI, girl is interested and I propose a day and place to meet. I don't pay much of attention and I only give some validation if I receive 3 or more. The comment has always a sexual undertone but I leave space for interpretation. If I receive a nude out of the blue from a girl I just met I like to say "I see you are doing good, let's meet at X place at Y hour on Z day". It's a screening process for me. I don't text much nor send GIFs and I usu… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 09:40 AM |
| 1 | How to set up boundaries and instill manners in a clingy horny plate?Attention is currency in your plate world. You don't reward negative behaviour and any kind of attention you give her is a reward. Think of it like training your dog. Withdraw your attention and engage with her when you feel like seeing her. If she complies reward with fun moments and sex. If she tries to bring you into her frame by acting offended, do not engage and soft next until you have time and feel like seeing her again. Never resume conversation from something she said previously. Act as… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 11:30 AM |
| 2 | I tend to argue with my LTR too much, even over small silly things. Can I fix and come back from this within the same relationship, or should I just cut it off and learn for the future?Deep down you know this already. It’s not her but you. Dumping her will not change anything unless you take responsibility for your shortfalls and become a better version of yourself. Control your emotions or any woman will have power over you no matter how many you next. Good luck with your journey. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 10:19 PM |
| 1 | I'm from the UK and i'm curious as to whether TRP methods/strategies are drastically different in other countries?Been traveling around the world for the last 15 years and I have been in one Roosh’s fave countries in EU for the last 3 years. The majority of women are still very feminine but they will shit test you for masculine traits from the very beginning. Looks still matter but personality and frame are way more important. It’s not difficult to see an HB with someone you’d consider a 5. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Well here I wanna ask you guys how is it mean to be in control?You should have gone no contact as soon as she told you she wanted space. If a girl asks for space you agree and act as if you broke up with her. She must be the one to reach out to you again. The ball is on her court now. As for you DO stuff that requires physical labour, read the sidebar and start your RP journey. She does not exist anymore. | /r/askTRP | 27/01/20 03:54 PM |
| 3 | [24M] Need some advice on my Personal SMV (Only Visual) and the best Tinder PicsEverything requires time and effort. The OP wants to use Tinder and while I might disagree with using it, this does not mean he shouldn’t put effort in it. Let’s not discharge PUA just because it creates fake value. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 12:31 PM |
| 2 | [24M] Need some advice on my Personal SMV (Only Visual) and the best Tinder PicsYour pictures should somehow tell a story. Who are you and what kind of women you want to attract? What are the emotions you want to elicit when they look at you? Honestly, they are not bad but none of them makes you stand out. If anything you look like a nice guy that does a normal desk job and has a boring life. That does not project HSMV. You don’t need to look “hot” in all of the pictures but you want to polarize your audience. Yes or No should be immediate for them because you give out the … | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Stirring shit upYes, you saying “Probably” is womanese... This plate is playing the coquette. You pull back she pursues, you pursue she pulls back. It’s easy to fall for them, more so if you know you have HSMV than her. Basically, she is seducing you and not you her. That’s why she messages you more, sends you pics etc. and it feels like you don’t need to do much. She elicits emotions (negative for you) and changes her mind suddenly. Sex is usually good for them after a push and pull. She is keeping you in her … | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Stirring shit up“Probably/ we will see” is the way girls answer. In womanese means “no”. Since your plate speaks womanese better than you, she started to shit test you and you came unglued. You can feel, by the way she stirred up your emotions, that she had quite some fun. Next time be masculine, if you are not sure say “No. I’ve got plans already”. And propose another date. Also, you want to let your plate know that you are actually having fun so, if she calls and you pick up, say “I’m out with the boys to bur… | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 10:16 PM |
| 2 | "I dont feel a romantic click, I'm sorry.."In a word, Polarization. That’s what you are missing. If you project a sexual (under)tone in your convo/actions you can talk about Schopenhauer and Quantum physics for all that matters. If your frame is not masculine and sexual enough than use logistics- no coffee yes evening meetings and drinks - convo( lighthearted. she talks, you listen, rephrase what she just said and provide inputs to let her keep talking) and kino (touch and escalation) to your advantage. | /r/askTRP | 23/01/20 10:24 AM |
| 1 | flirting over textNo, It’s just sexual innuendo. As long as you keep her hamster spinning you’ll be fine, I.e don’t tell her you want to fuck over text if that has not happened and you cannot elicit good emotions. If she says “what have you in mind?” Just reply with “it’s a secret. You don’t want to spoil a good game”. Keep the convo lighthearted, with sexual innuendos (video “games” have plenty), and arrange logistics. Want to move to lead more? Next time she says “do you want to go out?”, say “yes. Meet me at X… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 11:23 PM |
| 1 | flirting over texther: idk i was thinking food again then you could finally show me the video games you have This is where you should have escalated sexually: “I’ve got only one game in mind and I’ll show you ‘insert date’. For the rest it’s good DHV; start to lead more (verbally and kino) if you want to step up your game. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Is man naturally polygamous?Yes. And so were women. Then agriculture brought the first societal change. “Mating in Captivity” describes it well. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Called plate the wrong name during sexThis. The ball is on her court now. Yet, you can still learn something from it. You were doing fine until you started to rationalise and apologised to her. You conceded frame and that is where she told you to “stop it”. Your plate knows you were fucking other girls and want to see how you handle a light shit test. You own your past and it does not bother you. “Who’s Rachel?” “A girl I used to hook up with”. Say no more and shrug it off. Or “You are my Rachel” and start to tease her. | /r/askTRP | 22/01/20 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Sign of plate cracking?It’s a shit test to your core, your masculinity/alpha traits: “is he a man of his words?”. It’s fine to respond with humor as long as you say what you mean and mean what you say. Take responsibility for your words and make actions follow through. Don’t ask “do you want to watch a movie?” If all you want is to fuck. Say “babe, I want to fuck the shit out of you right now” and make her spin. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Sign of plate cracking?It’s a congruence test that you failed. Your woman says “you just want to fuck” and you reply with “I wanna a foot massage”? You better make sure you get that foot massage before fucking her else she will feel like she was right from the very beginning and you broke her trust. Never break trust. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 11:30 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls lose their minds after blocking themRejection breeds obsession. It’s true for both men and women. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 10:34 AM |
| 2 | What does genuine desire from a women look like?A feminine and submissive woman will not initiate sex. She might throw hints at you (new lingerie, certain looks, innuendos) but it’s your responsibility to make sex happen. You lead she follows. You tell her what you want her to do to you. When the reverse happens, she initiates more than you do, and she takes the lead sex is likely to be transactional - “I do this so he can do what I want later on”. Eventually, she’ll use it to manipulate you. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 10:20 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a plate tells you they've been fucking other guysYou always assume you are attractive enough. More so if a plate takes a ride on the CC and comes back to you. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 06:40 PM |
| 0 | What do you do when a plate tells you they've been fucking other guysNothing to do with the looks. It’s all psychological/mental. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 06:27 PM |
| 0 | What do you do when a plate tells you they've been fucking other guysYou are rationalising in a world, the feminine one, that is not. If you have established a safe environment where she can be herself everything is playful. You are the leader she follows. You are masculine energy, she is feminine energy. All that those two sentences do is eliciting emotions. In both cases you are showing dominance. With the first one you are a benevolent and playful master/leader that welcomes her back - that’s why you add physical escalation. With the second one you are reInfor… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 06:12 PM |
| -9 | What do you do when a plate tells you they've been fucking other guysAssuming you want to keep the plate spinning: If she is ashamed and showing guilty “I know that John (my dick) and Tornado (my tongue) are your Gods”. Say that as you mean it and with a relaxed tone of voice. Slightly smile. As soon as she smiles back escalate physically. If the bitch vomits all that just to tease you “Sound like you had quite some fun. Tell me more about that”. Add some “we shall use that next time” if she throws in some kinky stuff she did. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Playing it cool vs flatteryIn the seduction strategy the word “prey” or “victim” has no derogatory meaning. You are the predator, they are the prey. There is no judgment. This doesn’t mean that you can’t appreciate women, see them as a beautiful addiction to your life and they can’t benefit from being around you. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Playing it cool vs flatteryThese are all tools into your arsenal to use depending on your victims and they way you project yourself (frame). Read the Art of Seduction to understand the different characters. Here, you seem to associate stoicism with being emotionless. That is not what stoicism advocates. Tranquility of mind comes from understanding that everything is temporary and the only thing you can control is your reaction to what happens to you. So how do you reconcile being stoic (frame) with seducing a woman (use d… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 10:56 AM |
| 15 | Chicks and nose ringsI see where you are coming from. The difference between lifting and a tattoo is that lifting has positive spillover effects, HSMV being only one of them, while a tattoo can only potentially increase your SMV Does lifting (or any kind of physical and mental training) adds value to your personal growth as a man? Totally. Can you say the same thing about a tattoo? I doubt that. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 06:28 PM |
| 7 | I'm the nice guy. Where did I fuck up?You said it yourself. You are a nice guy and that is boring. Everything is safe and predictable with you. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Field report (2): Met new chick on tinder. Brought her straight to my place, fucked her and then ghosted. Feedback?All women like dicks. This doesn’t mean they like being treated as a whore. She paid with sex and called it even. Lesson for the future. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Field report (2): Met new chick on tinder. Brought her straight to my place, fucked her and then ghosted. Feedback?You proved my point. You framed the whole interaction with her as if she is a whore, ie transactional. “I’ll buy you ice cream so that you can give me sex”. “I’ll let you watch Netflix together so you can give me sex”. She saw right through you and you got ghosted. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 04:12 PM |
| 62 | Chicks and nose ringsAsk yourself why you’d want a tattoo. If the answer is because it fits into your style, you are subconsciously telling yourself you want to compensate for something you don’t have, value. Unless you belong to a brotherhood (military/tribe) your tattoo is just a way to display high value. Instead your frame should be: I already have high value and need no fucking tattoo to display that. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 02:47 PM |
| 3 | LTR constantly talks about a guy and its getting oldPolarize her with action dates. Use the movie thing as a reward for something good she did. I let them watch a movie together after, and only after, we had monkey sex. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 02:32 PM |
| 122 | Chicks and nose ringsRight that. It’s peacocking in the women world. Tattoos, nose rings and any other kind of mark on their bodies is a sign they love anal and want to be dominated. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 01:49 PM |
| 4 | LTR constantly talks about a guy and its getting oldI wouldn’t add dread at this point. You are already doing that by following your mission and giving commitments priority. Give her some fun and things you would t normally do. A trip, fun nights out and mind blowing sex (DEVI) | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Should you reschedule if she flakes?Hit her up as if nothing has happened and schedule for something at your place (compliance test). Lead with your words, say “meet me” or “Come to”. She has a boyfriend and you need to take the responsibility for what will happen when you two are together. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 11:48 AM |
| 6 | LTR constantly talks about a guy and its getting oldDo you still game your LTR? What your LTR is actually saying is “Man up. I have an orbiter to branch out to if you don’t step up your game”. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Maintain hard erection, need help for tnIf you can keep it hard without a condom it’s a mental thing. Overthinking about it will not help. Workout, meditate, do things you wouldn’t normally do and if you masturbate try edging. Edit: All the above takes time. The only short term solution if you can’t control your mind is viagra, cialis. Maca, tribulus zma etc. are acting as a placebo. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 11:10 AM |
| 2 | I was at a club and was flirting with a girl then she left to “go to the bathroom”. I didn’t believe it so I went to talk to some other girls. Well this girl came back and decided to make friends with the new girls and say “we should hangout!” Why would she do this?Second that. That should have been your mental point of origin. The girl was shit testing you for alpha traits. Guess you failed then and there and if you didn’t reply with A&A. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Field report (2): Met new chick on tinder. Brought her straight to my place, fucked her and then ghosted. Feedback?You failed to build rapport with this chick. Mediocre sex, texting afterwards and not talking much it’s just a consequence. You didn’t not push through her barriers (personality). Avoid Netflix ( you do it with your LTP) and make funny entertaining dates. You just pumped and dumped her without knowing it. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/20 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Have I been nexted?You risk losing frame if you answer her question directly. Wait for 5/7 days and proceed as normal. If she comes up with that question again, agree and amplify, use amusement and throw in a bit of comfort. "I do not kiss and tell", "I am a people person".."but you keep a special place and I love to see you". It was a comfort test you turned into a shit test. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 01:34 PM |
| 1 | What the hell? LolGirls do not want to be rejected and that is why they use indirect approaches. Read all that blablabla as "hey I want to hear from you". As for you, stop thinking of her as your ex-LTR and see her as sombody to have fun with. This is basic 101 game/seduction. You do not mind fucking this girl again and your frame should be "I love to have fun and all girls love dick". Use amusement and mastery and frame the interaction in a sexual way so she can come over to your place and have some indoor olymp… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Is my GF wrong here?Every woman craves for attention and validation. More so in a highly masculine environment like work. It’s not necessarily bad for your relationship if she is able to return to her normal non-competitive, loving self once you two are together at home. | /r/seduction | 08/03/19 04:44 PM |
| 2 | ThisWomen are biased towards connection and sharing which is what they use to solve problems with their female group. if a man shares and opens up too often he gets into his feminine side which is a huge turn off for a woman because she needs to move into her masculine to balance that. | /r/MGTOW | 05/03/19 12:20 PM |
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