| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 7 | How to trust men againI had an amazing father but an ex who destroyed all my faith and trust in men. I was brought up red pill and I’m now with a ‘ good man ‘ I feel how you feel and i probably ( we probably ) need therapy. Like ASAP. In my mind these views are, healthy. I know that sounds bad but yeah. I’ll never FULLY love my man. I love him, sure and I care for him, sure. Is he the love of my life? No, I am. Will any man be the love of my life? Nope, it’s just the way I am now. We’re protecting ourselves from the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/21 11:01 AM |
| 5 | I’m starting to feel bitter and coldBecome stoic and learn not to care honestly x | /r/RedPillWives | 15/03/21 12:56 PM |
| 9 | No idea what to do about my dead bedroomHe just flat out won’t go doctors and says ‘ I’m sorting it ‘ but won’t / isn’t | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/03/21 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Is it just me or is there a lot of feminist viewpoints in this sub?I think this sub has a lot of 19-22 year olds who think they’ll have it all sorted by 30. I was one of them lol they’ll soon learn! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/21 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Is it just me or is there a lot of feminist viewpoints in this sub?She’s an example of why women throw themselves into terrible relationships with trash men just to say they have one | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/21 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Incredibly insecure about his first loveI know he can’t but the idea that if he could be most likely would take away all the romance for me because for me I’d choose him over anyone | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Incredibly insecure about his first loveI do think he is great but I can’t shake the feeling I’m second best and could he rearrange the stars, he’d be with her. She was a virgin and I was a rape victim it’s obvious who he’d choose | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/21 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Incredibly insecure about his first loveYes we are married religiously and own a property together. I know that he is fully committed to me but I can’t help feeling second best to her | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/21 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Incredibly insecure about his first loveThat’s the thing, my gut is now screaming at me that my current, if given the choice and opportunity to go back in time, would remain with her and never have met me. That to me is breakup material knowledge and I would run from the relationship. But the thing is he says I’m insecure and that it’s not the case but no one would admit that would they | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Incredibly insecure about his first loveI feel really bad now. I don’t want it to be because of the past that I feel this way. So you don’t think what he said about he and his ex being older and things being different as pining? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/21 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Incredibly insecure about his first loveYep I agree. I don’t know why I stayed. I didn’t want to accept or process that it was rape because the idea scared me | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Incredibly insecure about his first loveHi no the rapist was someone else and we broke up a month or so later | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/21 05:33 PM |
| 5 | Incredibly insecure about his first loveI totally get it. I’m shocked he’s even stuck by me through all my accusations on this... I feel bad then I feel like Hm maybe he’s sticking around because they’re true accusations and he knows I’m not crazy but feels like what’s the good in me knowing I literally sound insane but honestly my brain doesn’t stop torturing me with this I feel like running away. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/21 03:42 PM |
| 51 | Is it just me or is there a lot of feminist viewpoints in this sub?What if a woman in their 30s genuinely didn’t find a good match ? She can still be red pilled :/ not everyone wants to settle in their twenties to ‘ good enough ‘ just because they’re in their twenties some will wait for great and that may take them into their 30s. Life isn’t black and white.. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/21 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Trigger warning dealing with rapeThank you for this. All the love to you too ❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/21 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Trigger warning dealing with rapeI’ve spent over £600 trying to find the right one i guess it just doesn’t work for me. The only thing that could help is going back in time and that’s impossible xx | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 2 | I’m 26, have only slept with 2 people and I’m actually embarrassed and ashamed by it.I was with two men at the same age before my fiancé and I wish I could wipe it out so this post is a little crazy to me | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/20 01:28 PM |
| 1 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"I know I get that but I’m not a virgin and I always wanted to wait for marriage so it hurts so bad that I can’t give that to my fiancé | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 06:19 PM |
| 1 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"So basically my guy is settling for Me right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"Yeah the post did trigger you but it’s fine it’s nothing I didn’t know. Especially as he didn’t like my past at first and then ‘ got over it ‘ He probably sees me as less than but there’s nothing I can do about that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | The fact that men care about n-count at all shows that men are instinctively repulsed by committing mongamously to non-virgins; if they weren't, there would be no discussion about "what degree of past sexual activity" is tolerable. It would just be "past is past"This thread makes me feel crap as my first time was coerced and I then slept with someone else to heal before meeting my fiancé. =[ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/20 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone else here "unconventional-looking"? If so, how do you cope with it?I meant it whole heartedly!! I was genuinely confused. You are far from ugly, there is nothing wrong with you you are pretty. XX | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/20 05:14 PM |
| 24 | Is anyone else here "unconventional-looking"? If so, how do you cope with it?Sorry if you’d rather I didn’t but I looked at your post history and you look fine to me?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/20 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Would I be a hypocrite to want to wait for sexThat doesn’t go for every single man. Some men are more than happy to wait and by us teaching women that men can’t wait it’s us women who end up giving our bodies in to men when we don’t always actually want to. X | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/20 04:36 PM |
| 68 | Would I be a hypocrite to want to wait for sexYour body your rules don’t fall into the oh I slept with my ex so now I have to sleep with this guy mindset. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/20 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Therapy optionsI’m going to screenshot this. Thank you 💝 | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/20 10:23 AM |
| 1 | How to appear thin if you have awful bone structure?I’m sure you are fine the way you are, learn to love yourself- self love is a beautiful thing! More so than an ‘ underweight body’ If money isn’t too much of an issue; Can you maybe get a personal trainer to help? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Just a tip on virginityHugs x | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Just a tip on virginityThank you x | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/20 10:18 AM |
| 4 | Just a tip on virginityIt’s true hun The only I guess ‘ good ‘ that’s come from it is it’s made me work on my other qualities a lot more and develop those | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Just a tip on virginityI don’t mean to I just feel he can and should do better based on this | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Just a tip on virginityThanks girl x | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Just a tip on virginityThank you for sharing this girl X | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 08:22 PM |
| 19 | Just a tip on virginityThanks for sharing | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Marriage and female chastity = worthThanks that’s really kind of you to say. X | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Marriage and female chastity = worthI know what you’re trying to say. It means a lot to me. Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 05:11 PM |
| 6 | Why would my boyfriend cheat on me with a much older woman?Be careful with what you say. The OP could end up staying feeling like it’s her fault that HE is trash. OP get out of this relationship don’t spend a second longer in it. don’t blame your self. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | What to do about a hostile non-RPW friend?I agree. The world doesn’t revolve around OP | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 02:59 PM |
| 11 | What to do about a hostile non-RPW friend?That comment is pretty rude don’t you think? I’d suggest just ignoring it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 01:01 PM |
| 1 | For those who weren’t a virgin before meeting your husband, do you feel a need to make up for it?Why do you think you wish you gave him your first? | /r/RedPillWives | 14/01/20 10:48 PM |
| 2 | How is sex after waiting till marriage?Both | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/20 05:15 PM |
| 2 | How is sex after waiting till marriage?Okay, so why do you wish you waited? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/20 12:42 PM |
| 1 | How is sex after waiting till marriage?Did your hubby wait? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/20 12:37 PM |
| 2 | How is sex after waiting till marriage?Would this apply to the male waiting too? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/20 12:34 PM |
| 1 | I hate this regret so muchThank you. Every time I feel bad I’m going to use that energy to do something nice for him | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | I hate this regret so muchI know I wish I could think this way that we are equal | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | I hate this regret so muchHow on earth is virginity more precious than children ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/19 12:33 PM |
| 0 | I hate this regret so muchThat’s what makes me feel worse. If I had been sober and consented I’d be over it because I’d have felt more like it was just a genuine mistake but the fact I put myself in such a stupid predicament haunts me | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 10:51 PM |
| 4 | I hate this regret so muchCan I be honest? As much as the other comments are great this is genuinely the one that has suddenly made me feel so much better after all this time. Maybe you’re right, maybe I wouldn’t have met my amazing love if it wasn’t for the past. Thank you so much ❤️ | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I hate this regret so muchI genuinely do not care what you think lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | I hate this regret so muchI have and he doesn’t really know what to say it’s an awkward topic. He just says something like ‘aww babe ‘ | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I hate this regret so muchWell I don’t desire him at all | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | I hate this regret so muchNo I absolutely hate him.. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Should I stay a virgin until marriage?Did he save himself for you too? Just wondering if it goes both ways | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | My strategy hasn’t been working. I need to change. I don’t know where to start.Why less attractive by the month? What’s that down to do you reckon? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/19 10:00 PM |
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