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She is unloading her emotional shit onto a 12 yr old child. Thats child abuse. In Psychology its called "emotional incest". Making your child parent you. Its extremely damaging to the child. A parent needs to be a strong safe figure in childs perspective. A child should never feel responsibility to parent their parent. Thats fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 07:12 AM
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Sabotage is a byproduct. Feeling inadequate is the root cause. You feel inadequate, insecure, you despise your partner and the shit like this happens. You taunt your man for not beng man enough for years and then at oscar he has to go slap someone because you looked at him funny. The sabotage is just the byproduct.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 07:04 AM
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Agree mostly. I dont think she totally thought things through over "i must destroy this guys life at his highest moment", but apart from that i agree. In fact i would say this was the same dynamics between sean penn and that woman from house of cards when he won the oscar. You can see it in their body language. Its just so happens that noone made fun of her that night. But she cucked him hard too. Glad he is out.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/22 06:57 AM
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it was a long time ago, she was a nepalese superstar. I just went for it. She was lonely af, and liked the attention. Turns out she was really negative, nothing different that an ordinary girl. Not sure why i was picturing a wholesome girl. She dumped me after like 3-4 weeks, but it was all interesting.
/r/seduction01/12/21 08:21 PM
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"you're cute" wont work in US either. Talk about weather, what coffee they're drinking, what book they're reading etc. See the chemistry, if they're interested, they ll show it. And granted, india is a more conservative society, so girls could be on the edge, relative to other societies. But worth a shot.
/r/seduction29/11/21 10:00 PM
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Try to sit close to her while talking, If she moves away, thats your signal. If she stays, look at her body language, is it closed off? Thats your signal. If open, then simply innocently touch her hand. If she moves her hand away, thats your signal. If she wants to fuck, she ll be positively reciprocative in all of this. The hand thing looks innocent, but thats a pretty big signal on yes or now. If its a yes, she ll keep her hand there and be inviting to touch more. And then for going for the ki…
/r/seduction15/11/21 07:47 AM
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lose it to a sock or a cucumber
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:26 PM
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elizabeth holmes disagrees
/r/seduction14/10/21 02:17 AM
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Yeah, once she gets sex, she's gonna lose interest. This is she as girls playing hard to get. You go crazy to get what you cant have, but once you do, you're done.
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:55 PM
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whats the reason?
/r/seduction15/09/21 12:12 AM
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I'm not arguing bruh. Just here to take advice on any potential traps. Not for validation on vanity.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 12:01 PM
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Did that the whole goddamn 2020 man...
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:59 AM
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I can see that. But hey, as long as I'm safe for this one week... I'm only worried about any traps.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:58 AM
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Yep. Thats what i m thinking. As long as i guard my sperm i should be good. I just read somewhere in canada if you date someone, you gotta pay support. That kinda scares me. Holy shit.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:49 AM
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I see one upside. Ejaculation.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:48 AM
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wtf We'll do it after they go to bed. During day we'll do normal hawaii stuff
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:47 AM
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He s a super beta guy, he is driving her to the airport, and he knows all. He s jist trynna hold on to the marriage one way or the other. I dont talk with him, so i dont know whats his deal. But i said this to her that i m scared of him, she said he s pussy. Again, i m thinking with my dick, so i m going ahead.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 11:29 AM
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How do you deal with the resentment because of having witnessed the 'other side'? In other words feeling that, "you wouldnt have give me a chance 4 years ago" that feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:13 AM
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People are focusing too much on brother-sister relationship. I have a best friend who is a model 10, way out of my league, but i do observe her dating life. Just because i m close, i get to see the nuances and 'hot girl perspective', which you would not get otherwise. And people can watch and observe that about pretty much anyone. Theres nothing wrong in saying, "my mom is physically attractive, so she finds attractive men to date". Its all an observation. People like to jump to conclusions too …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:53 PM
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ikr OP: you will find a guy and have awesome time together. I d suggest overcome your anxiety and discomfort. That might be the only thing thats blocking you. You're awesome. Own up, feel free, be confident. Some guys will turn away, but who cares about them anyways?
/r/seduction03/09/20 05:28 AM
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You came off too intense with the sex thingie, and looks like you didnt take her saying not having friends is a red flag that smoothly. Looks like your anxiety kicked in and she caught that. Girls shit test you like that, you gotta be smooth. That will happen when you kill your insecurities and get into a mentality of "i dont give a fuck if you think its a red flag", obviously not saying that, but give off that vibe. My advice: dont stress out too much, its your first date. Make friends, more im…
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:16 AM
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Yeah, i have an advice dealing with them. Don't.
/r/seduction09/07/20 06:47 AM
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I guess the guy is saying, don't burn the bridge, which i agree. But don't invest time in them if they're being flaky and stuff.
/r/seduction01/07/20 01:16 AM
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I would call it a premeditated homicide. She had plenty of time to think what she was doing. She completely thought about hitting him with the car. And hitting a biker with a car, he is most likely gonna die. Its not a manslaughter. If you stab someone with a knife, you cant argue i only did it to hurt that person not to kill him. Same goes with this.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/05/20 07:57 AM
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Men go for looks, women go for looks+status. Prostitute does not have status.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 07:22 AM
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They only commented on you posts and stuff right? Maybe they are just lonely because of isolation, and feel like you ll give them validation/attention if they reached out. I wouldnt read too much into this.
/r/seduction05/04/20 06:25 AM
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oh you dont! From the looks of the above conversation, i got an impression that you do. That was disappointing. Just the way you disappoint all the girls. :/
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:26 PM
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you are either 13 years old, or you have had real hard time with girls your entire life. I say that because i feel that you are really empty. All your comments are filled with anger and frustration, and not just this, but all. You hate women for rejecting you, dont you? Why do they reject you? Do you have a small dick? or are you bald? which one is it. Maybe its just because you're a angry douchebag. You can correct me if i m wrong.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:17 PM
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a grown ass man who doesn't netflix, but has time to anger-comment on reddit on a post with 0 upvotes just to get validation. Sounds like on track with becoming an incel. Good luck with that shower "nice guy"!
/r/askTRP12/03/20 11:06 PM
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You seem very frustrated. Its a dating kinda show. It showed be quite a few RedPill principles and how females choose and compete against each other etc. Its interesting. And, peace up. Take a bath, or go for a walk or something.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 09:55 PM
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Don't trigger ASD I hung out with a girl on the weekend, and this was our second date. We had sex a few times. I loved how open she was. I dont know why, I think i was trying to disqualify her to get her chasing, but i teased her for sleeping with me on a second date, and breaking the three date rule. She kinda stopped me and said, 'are you slut shaming me'... looking back, i kinda was. That was super dumb! She did not have a catastrophic reaction, and we are seeing each other again, but that wa…
/r/seduction08/07/19 11:28 PM
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So everything has been great since yesterday? 🤪
/r/askTRP25/06/19 03:21 PM
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Yeah no shit
/r/askTRP24/06/19 05:59 AM
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Well, that comment was cringeworthy. Also reflects that you're too invested in them. If them ghosting you affects you so much, prolly you are displaying that neediness during the conversation, hence the result.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 04:28 AM
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lol. My dad didn't know himself. He still doesn't know.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 04:13 AM
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Good reminder on not to mention it to others. Their perspective about you, respect for you changes significantly.
/r/askTRP24/06/19 04:12 AM
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I loved that post. Very insightful.
/r/seduction21/06/19 05:32 PM
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Thanks for the input.
/r/seduction19/06/19 07:46 PM
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Please read the second message too
/r/seduction19/06/19 07:22 PM
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Been getting rejected all the time. i know what you mean 😂
/r/seduction19/06/19 05:18 PM
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Sometimes neighbors are not too cool and the girls are they bring are too hot to keep the friendship with the neighbor. But i get your advice. Thanx.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 04:55 AM
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I'd like to ask the experts here a flip question. As that neighbor, how would you approach this situation in an alpha way, and push OP away. IMing is certainly beta game, and is gonna get you nowhere. Do you just dont do this shit? (i dont think so). Do you wait for IOI from the girl, when talking face to face?
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:46 PM
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Good advice. Yes, i am needy. Working on it.
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:41 AM
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That's spot on. Thanx!
/r/seduction21/05/19 06:40 AM
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as a 5'5" indian kid i feel bad :(...But i think i m doing okay... Sometimes i feel jealous of how easy it is for my tall friends to get girls. I have to regularly fight off that feeling.
/r/seduction05/05/19 03:56 PM
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I disagree so much
/r/seduction02/03/19 11:52 PM
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Fair feedback. Thanks.
/r/seduction28/02/19 03:32 AM
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Like the other guy mentioned, she did not stop me. But reflecting back i could sense that she wasnt too enthusiastic about it. So there's some scope of improvement for me. If she says dont, i m going to stop. We are not talking about sexual assault here. Just a skill of reading subtle cues to calibrate.
/r/seduction28/02/19 03:30 AM
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what made you to come to that conclusion? That way i would know what signs to look for.
/r/seduction28/02/19 12:24 AM
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Can you please explain a little bit more?
/r/seduction27/02/19 04:05 PM
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I have thought a lot about it, and my conclusion is: It works only when its absolutely clear that its a joke. For example, in one of the interviews, Robert Downey jr cracks a joke about how he doesnt work on set, and only watches other ppl suffer. Well, for everyone its completely clear he works hard, and he is one of the most charismatic actor out there, so everyone also know that this self deprecation is a joke. So it works. It in fact also puts others at ease, by implying, "yeah i know i m aw…
/r/askTRP18/02/19 07:05 PM
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For the guys who seem to get it naturally, they actually get the validation, and strong foundation growing up from their parents. For the rest of us, its a struggle to build it ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/19 04:44 PM
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Yep! That works very well! When a potential girl sees me with hanging out with these other beautiful girls, they quickly get comfy that i m not some creepy dude. Thats one reason why i value my social circle, especially female friends a lot. I have some friends who will hit on every girl that gives them some attention, and then they are left with no female friends, and thats not good.
/r/seduction06/01/19 07:06 PM
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I have stopped doing those, but something like 2 in 100 number close. Maybe one date, but then it goes nowhere from there.
/r/seduction06/01/19 07:03 PM
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I do, in the 'normal' games that get discussed here, because straight up approaching has such a low success rate for me. In fact, it lowers my confidence, coz next approach i just can be sure that she s gonna say no thanx. But with the way i do things, as explained, its more time consuming, but works way better, coz i have worked on myself a lot, and i get to display that. So its less exhaustive this way for me.
/r/seduction06/01/19 02:11 AM
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Learn storytelling skills. You can convey substance in most trivial things, if you know how to tell a story. You seem to have a lot of knowledge. And you expect the girl to digest with her logical brain, where she is digesting it with emotional brain, and not feeling anything. But thats just my guess.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:30 PM
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very interesting. there's one group of guys in pickup that teaches those stuff. social prime. but, i'm surprised people are conducting it themselves I have had EMDR for some trauma issues, with the help of my therapist. And it worked wonders. Then I tried those things on my own, on situations where a kid bullied me when i was in school, I reprocessed it by going there, standing up for myself, and speaking confident words. I did that a few times, and it had positive effect on me ever so slightly.…
/r/seduction28/12/18 09:45 PM
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My comment is based on personal experience, and although there are studies out there, i am not referring to them. What you are mentioning in your post is similar to re-processing trauma for say PTSD issues. Although, ptsd is way worse than what we are discussing here, similar strategies could be applied to speed up the brain rewiring process.
/r/seduction28/12/18 06:33 PM
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Once you have few experiences with confidence, you can use meditation to 're-process' past non-confident interactions, almost experiencing those situations again while meditating, and confronting them in a confident manner. This also helps in re-wiring of your brain. aka Meditation speeds up the re-wiring process.
/r/seduction28/12/18 05:17 PM
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They are attracted to the journey to destiny, but they feel the destiny is what they want. So they are not willfully lying. e.g. They like to figure out a mysterious man piece by piece, and hate that he doesnt reveal himself. They feel they like the destiny of a man who 'communicates and tells them everything'. But in reality, if you do that, they ll lose interest in you. You have to realize they like the journey, the experience of the journey,... not the destiny.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 08:06 PM
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Jesus christ, same story here! For a week I was confused that whether it was okay for her to casually tell me that she slept with this dude and it was amazing, coz you know we were technically 'friends'... but my brain was absolutely fried. And I realized, it was NOT okay. I was NOT her 'friend'. I was being dishonest. I was hoping for a chance by being a friend. And now I know, thats never gonna work. lol
/r/askTRP19/12/18 08:56 PM
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It's not the same as a meaningful relationship
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 06:51 AM
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I m 31, i make 250k, and have decent lifestyle. I am 5'5", and I look small. I am working on getting bigger and muscular and boy its hard to motivate myself in that field! I m brown, so for some american girls thats a problem. I get decent 5-6 girls, but want to upgrade. I come off quite confident, except when things get intimate. Thats when i used to turn blue pill beta. And after the last one i started researching and found TRP, and it all made sense! All my past experiences are quite consiste…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/18 07:36 AM
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Therapy. Resolve unresolved issues.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:40 PM
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This comment is gold
/r/askTRP22/11/18 09:37 PM
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Thanx dude, makes sense. Its simple, I should just not put her on a pedestal. Easier said than done though. I am going to give my best.
/r/seduction14/11/18 12:00 AM
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