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Blue Pill Exampleacoti/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 08:11 AM
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Red Pill Exampleacoti/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 03:13 AM
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You're in hell right now. It's going to get worse. You'll have your ups and you'll have your downs. You need to acknowledge right now that this will be a hard time for you. Your gut will hurt. You will feel as though something has been ripped away from you and that you are struggling to hold on. This will be normal. However, and this is the really important part here, if you allow it, it will consume you and cripple you. I will repeat that. If you allow it, it will consume you and cripple you. Y…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/14 11:51 PM
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Ok, let me be clear about this sub's purpose; it's also our mission statement. Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. Your comments about "truly showing love and appreciating a partner" are not within the scope of our mission statement.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:06 AM
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No, you wouldn't. This sub isn't about that at all. That's what I meant by "you don't know what this sub is about".
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 11:22 PM
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I've never seen anyone here say they did something for a SO just to show their love and appreciation. That's because you don't know what this sub is about. It seems like most of the advice here counsels against doing those things. That's also because you don't know what this sub is about.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 01:20 AM
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Ok, I went out Saturday night by myself. Got to the first bar and it wasn't very active at all. Bought a beer and took about 20 min drinking it at the bar. I stood in one spot and every once in a while I would survey to see if there was anyone worth approaching. Nothing came of it. I finished my beer and left. I went to a second bar/club and I went right for the dancing area but I wasn't loosened up quite yet so I got myself a drink first. I turned around and there were large groups of people hu…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/14 11:50 PM
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While the work day progressed yesterday, I kept telling myself that I would go hit up my old campus and check out some bars or clubs there. As the end of the work day neared, I kept getting anxious about how I would fly solo. I tried to pump myself up by going to a shooting range, and it did the trick a little bit. When I left and got on the highway to go to my old campus (same direction as going home but home is 45 mi further north), I reached the point where I exit for my campus, or keep going…
/r/TheRedPill30/08/14 11:14 PM
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It's a complete rejection of reality. I should be able to slut around and put myself in dangerous situations without fear of anything happening to me so I'll do just that. They don't see the world for what it is. They see it for what they want it to be and they live like that. TL;DR Yes, the victim can be at fault plenty of times.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 11:27 PM
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I would say: "I want to see you. Let's get coffee tomorrow evening." "Yeah, I'd like that." "Meet at Dante's at 7:30." Boom. Even girl's with self-respect like a leader.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 12:25 AM
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In my experience, the girl's that need to be treated like shit to be attracted to you are broken. If a girl wants to be treated like dog shit then it won't be by me. I'll get laid by being a man not by being a douche bag. There's truth to this. I've known girls who have self-respect and direct asshole tactics won't work with them. They require teasing, leading, sexual escalation and all that other good stuff as per usual TRP methods. But playing the asshole game with negs and treating them with …
/r/TheRedPill10/05/14 01:18 PM
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asks how I can justify laughing at something like that Correct Response: "What the fuck makes you think I have to justify myself to you?" Your general approach should have been to tell her that "it was funny, get over it."
/r/askTRP08/05/14 03:29 AM
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Remove her from your life. Do not bother thinking about her in any way, shape or form. You'll have to physically stop yourself when your mind wanders. Do not respond to any texts or methods of contact from her. Having low smv means that you should focus on yourself instead of chasing tail. This must be your default setting for some time.
/r/askTRP08/05/14 03:23 AM
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For some time now I've wanted to make a post on blindly following TRP. Often times the use of lavish generalizations (AWALT, never show emotion, always dominate/control, etc...) are intended to prevent newcomers from receiving a diluted dosage of TRP. I understand that reasoning and I agree with it. At the same time, I would caution newcomers to always think for themselves. Do not blindly follow these teachings; do not praise these words as gospel. To the impressionable youth, this could lead to…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/14 03:03 AM
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Great story. Even if it's fake, it demonstrates proper use of maintaining frame. My favorite was the "You don't get to decide that." Fuck, that was beautiful. Actions like that are what put women in their place and make you stand out as a man who knows his worth, instead of a supplicating punk mesmerized by pussy.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 02:58 AM
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This a reposted comment because I used a cross link. This reminds me of a post from /r/becomeaman that I read a while ago. It's titled: "The best advice about life and happiness you are ever gonna get..." An except from the wonderful book How to win friends and Influence People I would suggest everyone to read at some point in their life. " 'Action seems to follow feeling but really action and feeling go together; and by regulating the action, which is under more direct control of the will, we c…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 02:18 AM
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She will tell her parents about all the great sights she saw. She will tell her friends about all the dicks she got. After a few weeks of being back, and normal life routines reassert themselves in her life, she will start thinking about you. A lot. What happens then? Right on the money. This invariably happens when people come back from vacation. They're still on a high from their time away but slowly and inevitably, life resumes itself and, like you said, she starts thinking about him.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 02:54 PM
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If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife. So from my personal point of view, get an ugly girl to marry you. I believe that song encapsulates your thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 05:23 PM
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when put into perspective, getting good with women don't sound that important. No, it's not that important at all but it is a skill that would come in handy later on. Not just for the sake of getting tail, but for communicating with them, holding frame, and in general not being submissive to their demands or requests. You may not use these skills for personal gain, but you can certainly use them to avoid being taken advantage of. As per your goal, I like that you're focusing on "understanding yo…
/r/askTRP27/03/14 01:02 AM
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I'm just gonna rephrase a lot of what I said in a way my dad told me one day. You're the most important thing in your life. You're number one and you have to always remember that. All girls are the same. They're a huge pain in the ass and they'll annoy you to no end given enough time. You have to do what's best for yourself and forget about this girl. Trust me. Learn from my mistakes, not your own. So yeah. Get to that point where you do things for yourself. It will take a conscious effort in th…
/r/askTRP23/03/14 09:39 PM
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Drop her for a few weeks or months. Start lifting, running, or any other form of exercise that you enjoy. Pick up a hobby that makes you seem interesting such as rock climbing, slack-lining, sharpshooting, or anything that makes you feel accomplished. Go out to dance clubs if you like dancing, bars if you prefer talking/socializing, meet-up groups for people who share your interests and work your game on people there. Yes, this includes guys. Sometimes it's nice to approach a guy and have a conv…
/r/askTRP23/03/14 08:29 PM
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"Always stand to shake someone's hand" I absolutely hate it when someone shakes your hand while sitting down. They'll even lay back into the couch/chair and try to extend their hand from that position. The half-assed effort at being respectful makes it even more disrespectful.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 07:33 PM
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No, you didn't make that claim but people are upvoting you as if they're accepting your opinion as a professional assessment. By the way, you did a damn fine job on projecting your opinion in such a confident way as to make others readily accept it but I think it's best to wait for the research to come in and I want others to see that as well.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 06:11 PM
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I doubt you're qualified to make that assessment. I'll wait until the research comes in.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/14 05:55 PM
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You can't claim that either. The father did what he felt was necessary to make sure the daughter was ok. The "necessity" of the situation would have been different if that fucking bitch didn't lie about the boy. This whole situation is just tragic. Fuck man.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:51 PM
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Seriously, while anecdotal evidence is strong to the one who purports the statement, it doesn't carry the same weight for the audience. To that effect, "It is that easy." doesn't carry any weight either. If I'm going to be indignant, I'd prefer to be righteously so.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 07:59 PM
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What's your play? Run the risk, or next?
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 06:56 PM
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This subreddit doesn't take a moral stance regarding the methods prescribed. It's about understanding what works and what doesn't in order to achieve your goal. That being said, I'm inclined to agree with you. However, if your intent is always made clear and you do not use deceit to further yourself, then you are in the right in my book.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 06:53 PM
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I am named on the birth certificate as the father, simply because mine was the name you gave when they asked. I take issue with this. Putting someone's name down on a birth certificate can't be that easy. Do you have a source on this? While I enjoy raging every once in a while, I'd prefer to do so with information.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 06:41 PM
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The sole progenitor of the sinking of the titanic. -Actual text I sent someone a year back. Never thought the opportunity would strike twice.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 06:02 AM
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15 minutes later he will empower her Oh jesus christ, I have a huge shit eating grin plastered on my face right now. I'm going to use that line next time I interact with a girl. EDIT: After reading that article and watching the video, I've come to believe that this is a perfect example of cognitive dissonance. From this wiki In Festinger and Carlsmith's classic 1959 experiment, students were asked to spend an hour on boring and tedious tasks (e.g., turning pegs a quarter turn, over and over agai…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 07:05 AM
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Thank you for getting back to me. I prefer learning through people's trial and error instead of their straightforward success.
/r/askTRP28/02/14 07:13 AM
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Thank you for writing that but can you elaborate more on the "going full beta"?
/r/askTRP28/02/14 02:54 AM
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I did this to my former oneitis and I went full beta in less than 30 seconds. I would love to hear the story on this.
/r/askTRP26/02/14 11:50 PM
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My favorite part was /u/CrueltiesBeast's repeated comment. She needed to hear/read different ways on how to justify her decision. She was looking for different opinions/ways to justify her decision. She needed to read/hear ways to justify her decision.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 06:24 AM
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started slowly inching my head up the side until just my eyes were above the edge. God I'm having an uncontrollable laugh imagining that.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 02:57 AM
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Dude, you sensationalized this commercial. at 0:01, the man is viewed yawning, while his wife/GF (we never get the exact disposition of the relationship) immediately shit-tests him with the question "So what did you do last night, you got in kinda late? I don't see any yawning...perhaps different videos? Yes, that question is a shit test. at 0:03, the man, recovering from his yawn, cowardly answers in the most sheepish and beta way possible, "Uh, it was.....ok". You can actually sense the trembl…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 07:30 PM
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DON'T: Say "we can still be friends" Tell her the raw truth as someone mentioned earlier Get into a "discussion" about the reasons Tell her that you're not in a place for a relationship right now Comfort her with hugs, caress her face as she cries, or anything else intimate DO: Be concise and to the point about the break up, eg, "I no longer feel an attraction towards you" Give her a little bit of time to ask some questions for clarity Thank her for being a part of your life and for growing with…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/14 06:36 PM
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Why are you responding to his comment? It appears as though you're the girl in question in this post.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/14 12:33 AM
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http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/mvsr/supp/mv39_12s2.pdf Page 4, "Petitioner" section. The statistic is for 1988 and it's 61%. I, too, have heard the 70-80% statistic but have not yet been able to find it. I imagine recent trends would see an increase in women filing but I do not have the data to back that up.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 03:53 PM
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This isn't /r/seduction.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 12:21 AM
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A man is always truly alone, there is nobody "higher up" for you to depend upon, you're the end of the line, in the absence of a belief in God. Every man has a burden he must carry, none of you are exempt. Thank you for this.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/14 04:33 PM
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Just write out what she said. Edit: Reading your edit. Edit 2: Ok, I'll wait for the posted audio.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 08:00 PM
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OP, you have to separate yourself from this situation physically. Trying to get over this while constantly being exposed to her will not work. Break away from her physically when you are able and go the route of no contact.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 07:38 PM
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This is what I am afraid of. I fear that I will always look back to the moment and think of the good times. I fear that I will use those memories to create some idealistic possible future with her and subtly do things to bring her back into my life. Even the fact that I acknowledge my fears and hold my actions in check doesn't mitigate my fears.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 07:33 PM
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In bed put your head on his chest rather than on a pillow My last girl fit like a puzzle piece when it came to sleeping like that. Every single time, it would be the manliest and most vulnerable feeling I would get when around her. She would make little purring and exhaling noises when she did that as well. TL;DR That is an incredible feeling.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 01:34 AM
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Are you still in University? You could probably pull tail at a house or frat party. If you're finished with school, then try the apocalypse opener at bars.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 01:14 AM
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Very well, if you don't believe you're committing the fallacy, I shall engage with you in a similar manner. If you are truly redpill, you will be able to have your relationship on lockdown where your women wouldn't dare cheat on you or think about leaving you because you are so damn alpha. If you can't then you are bluepill who's just afraid and incapable of behaving in accord with the redpill theory. I hope you see how asinine that sounds.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:03 PM
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If you are truly Red Pill you will not marry and you will not live with a woman. This has actually been brought up a few times on this subreddit. You're committing a fallacy known as the "No True Scotsman" fallacy.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 03:56 AM
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Your views on weddings, honeymoons, and marriage fall very much in line with what I believe. Thank you for taking the time to write all of that out; I enjoyed reading it.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 11:30 PM
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I may have lost a little bit of respect from someone dear to me by showing her a weak side of me (derived from my not being able to be with her). I kick myself in the ass every once in a while for allowing myself to do that, but hey, sometimes that's how you learn.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 05:25 AM
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Should I break up with my perfect girlfriend? In that one, he further demonstrates RPT with regards to women thinking they want all of you and resent you when they get it.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 03:22 AM
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drinking an extra pineapple juice Hahaha! Two summers past, I called my girlfriend up on the phone and we were making plans to see each other over a weekend. I would go down to her apartment off-campus and spend the night. This was before we became sexual but it was leading up to it. The weekend was like 2-3 days away so I told her, "Make sure you eat some pineapple these next few days." She responds with, "OMG, Noooo acoti!" She said that in a playful manner and I told her, "Come on, we both kn…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 07:08 AM
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I don't think that will happen to her but I will remember these words years down the line and I will compare them with the reality of the situation at the time. I take it you have a certain experience with Jewish girls that has given you this insight? If so, I'd like to hear your tale.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 08:24 AM
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We're 23; 8 months apart (although the college part probably gave a lot away). And yes, regardless of the age range, heartbreak does hurt haha. But you're also right when you say that this is the best way to learn about relationships and women. In truth, her mother had influence in her getting with the other Jewish guy. One of the things that gets to me is that this was one of those things where I could not succeed...simply because I'm not Jewish. I wish I could hate on that guy for having a leg…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 06:48 AM
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I read one of your previous posts earlier today and there was mention (either on your part or another's) that you were Jewish. I think it had to do with spending Christmas with others and not alone. So I made a mental note of that because I recently got out of an involvement with a Jewish girl. I met her Junior year in college and spoke infrequently during the first semester. She had a boyfriend at the time. During the second semester, we had more classes together and were establishing a very si…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/13 03:08 AM
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Great points! I'm particularly familiar with 1 and 3. I just wan't aware of the situation in which it took place. Thanks mate.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 11:43 PM
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He isn't my problem. My problem is that I had trouble ridding myself of the "I want to be in one of those relationships that makes it against the odds" mentality. I still catch myself slipping every now and then but I regain my footing quickly. What made you think I thought he was my problem?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 11:39 PM
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This. You can remind her if you want and it wouldn't be that big of a deal (depending on how you do it of course). On the other hand, I wouldn't remind her at all. Let the date pass and maybe incorporate some of that ellipses text game afterward.
/r/askTRP22/11/13 11:35 PM
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You never went into detail later.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 05:45 AM
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In truth, I love the longer field reports. You get to see more detail in the "picture" and it helps to set examples. Saying "I was flirting with her" is different from providing dialogue that went down. Great post! I'm new as well (more so practice than theory) so this was a great read.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 05:14 AM
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NAWALT would apply here. I've met some trustworthy women in my life. Actually, I've met one haha, but I do believe they are out there.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 04:27 AM
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Just because someone's going to win the lottery does not mean you should buy a ticket. I got out of a relationship with a girl that I loved and she loved me. We both knew it wouldn't work long term but that didn't stop us from falling for each other. When we stopped all intimate contact, it took her about 3 months to find another boyfriend. It took me a month and a half to find someone to fuck. After the 4th time I had sex with this new girl (another month and a half later), the idea of not bein…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 04:15 AM
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Post the conversation as it happened. I enjoy reading posts where the dialogue is apparent.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 10:31 PM
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Can you expand on how silence could rack up sexual tension?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/13 10:04 PM
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I still talk to my ex. Once a week we catch up for a few minutes on the phone. Once a month we meet up and spend part of the day together. She's important to me and I'm important to her. She has been dating a new guy for about 2 months now. I know this guy (a friend of hers) and he also knows that we're still a part of each other's lives. I don't know how comfortable he really is with this but I do know that he understands and there isn't any, "I wish you would stop spending time with him," comi…
/r/askTRP10/11/13 05:02 PM
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Putting them in practice is a completely different story though.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 03:02 AM
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Seriously, this. If she was telling me to go ahead and fuck other women, I would have done it no problem. If she has the balls to go all, "I can't believe you fucked other women!" on me, I'd tell her to fuck off and quit playing games. Then again, I'm completely detached from this situation so I have that confidence when saying these things online, but I know how hard it would be to leave someone you're about to marry.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/13 03:57 AM
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Christ dude. That "sense of possession" really hit home for me. I have a tough time letting go of my ex after we mutually broke up and then fooled around for some time after that.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 06:20 AM
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This is fear.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 01:36 AM
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So is Rachel Cassidy the actual girl in the photo or not?
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 01:15 AM
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I don't see anything more than casual fuck buddies between us. OR I don't see this going anywhere that I want to go. I had fun while it lasted. Bye. Let's just be friends is a completely pussy way to go about it. Unless you want to remain friends, don't even hint at that possibility. Just make sure she knows that she's not for you and that you don't want to be with her.
/r/askTRP23/10/13 10:14 PM
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I know the best way to get good at something is to keep doing it over and over You basically answered your question. That approach anxiety will be there if you don't step out of your comfort zone. EDIT: The other responses are far superior to mine.
/r/askTRP21/10/13 07:24 PM
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Do what /u/booboo2shoes suggested. If they keep bitching, just scratch the whole idea and stay home browsing reddit.
/r/askTRP21/10/13 06:27 PM
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Next time she brings up the dinner or going out, say, "OK, so where do you want to take us?" "Oh, how about we go to madhatters?" "Sure, but it's your treat." If she resists, just mention that she's the one who wanted to do this. If she complies, then you've gotten one step closer to re-framing the relationship.
/r/askTRP21/10/13 04:57 AM
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She may actually really like you and doesn't want to jeopardize the possibility of a relationship by moving too fast.
/r/askTRP20/10/13 06:01 AM
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Interesting. That's what I've been concluding is the intention of Obama. Not to turn this into a political discussion but it's nice to hear there's a term for what I was thinking.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/13 04:50 AM
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I recommend this course of action. Once you know she got her period, wait a few days and tell her.
/r/askTRP16/10/13 03:05 AM
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No thing and no fun make homer something something.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 02:18 AM
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It's not math fail. She probably meant to show the direction of progress. 162 to 113 = 52 pounds.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/13 01:52 AM
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kiss close and handjob/finger bang. I though to myself, "Who the fuck is that good?" Then I saw the username.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/13 06:32 AM
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Yes. We met in school while she was with someone. 7 months later, they break up and she reveals her feelings to me. We date for 3 months, get into a relationship for 3 months and then we "undate" for 8 months. During the undating phase of the relationship, I grew to love her and she put in just as much effort as I did in all phases of the relationship (except maybe the initial dating). We had great communication which prevented one another from BSing a lot. When you have oneitis or you're infatu…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/13 07:44 AM
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Oh Jesus. I meant the title to say it applies to "dining out as well" not "tipping".
/r/TheRedPill07/10/13 06:44 AM
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"No." Seriously, practice that. Anecdote. Girl wanted me to help her jerk off by turning her on through the phone, so I redirect her to a hentai site. She's bullets, I'm not. Nooo I want what you would do to me Like cum inside me. Rip my clothes off Bend me and spank me =( pwease No. -_- Thanks. Sure thing :). -_- You can be an ass. . . . Irrelevant fluff part of conversation . . I thought you were going to help out Not say No, just like that Anyway, it felt pretty damn good just saying "No." I …
/r/askTRP06/10/13 08:29 PM
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She is a product of it, yes, but she will be the cause of other young women following in her footsteps. The effect becomes the cause. How does one stop a self perpetuating culture?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 01:27 AM
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I want to find myself in a position where a girl is expecting a drink from me just so I could deny her. The power of no is exhilarating.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/13 12:42 AM
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I don't know if that's true but damn did that make me laugh!
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 10:06 PM
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Just don't tolerate it. In the event that they say maybe, respond with, "It's a yes or no; I'm not waiting on a maybe" or you could just go about making new plans with other people/by yourself and when they say, "So are we going tonight/tomorrow?" respond with, "No, I have new plans. Call me if you want to get together next week." They might retort with, "But I thought we had plans?" To that, you say, "I don't make plans on a maybe. It's yes or no."
/r/askTRP03/10/13 07:03 AM
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Call her and tell her "Hey, it's obvious where this is headed. It was fun while it lasted but we're both moving on to different things. Take care." Your goal is to separate yourself from this girl as quickly as possible. You should be having other girls spinning on your dick by this point as that will make it easier to walk away from this girl. To help make this easier, pretend a friend of yours was in a similar situation. How would you advise them? Would you think of them as beta if they tried …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 03:34 AM
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That's a bit of a doozy isn't it? I find myself conflicted when I tell a girl to fuck off....probably because I'm just not used to it.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/13 02:29 AM
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but she stayed with me because she wanted that alpha dick You cocky fuck; that gave me a good laugh. OP, nothing has to change because of this. If you starting behaving weird or different, she'll sense it and that'll freak her out more. Keep being boss and do the things that attracted her to you in the first place.
/r/askTRP30/09/13 06:06 PM
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Calm down dude. Where do you come off saying my standards for her being attractive are invalid? Shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/13 04:46 AM
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That girl is physically attractive. The hipster attire pisses me off though which lowers her perceived attractiveness.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/13 10:57 PM
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You could ask her to deliver a pizza to your place and then keep her there for some time as a mini date. This would probably work best if she's at work and you order this pizza through the pizzeria. Then again, /u/30years has a nasty good idea to impress the ladies on a dinner date.
/r/askTRP28/09/13 10:19 PM
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Agreed. I was trying to find the right way to phrase it before entering the thread, but this is the best play. OP, make sure you do/did this. Update us on what happens.
/r/askTRP27/09/13 08:47 AM
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That's damn genius on Potter's part.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 06:41 AM
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They're fixated on it because it is a point of pride. If they can get that elusive orgasm to happen, then they must be doing something right to make them better than other men. Men should find out how to please their women and they should be able to make it happen. At that point, like /u/trpirate said, eat pussy but on your terms.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/13 12:12 AM
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Have your friend invite her over to your place some time soon. A short time after they arrive, have your friend leave and proceed to make out with the girl.
/r/askTRP24/09/13 08:36 AM
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No, I think OP should tell her that they're done, they're parting ways, and that the girl should pack her shit and leave. If she refuses, evict her. If that takes a long time, drop the security deposit (like someone earlier said) and cut your lease short. OP, you don't have to be delicate with her. You have to be upfront, and unwavering with your conviction. Rip this band-aid off soon. Post back with an update too.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/13 07:23 AM
1

If you're worried about privacy and having your information available on the internet, I don't see a reason why you can't use a fake name. I'm not sure how this is asktrp worthy though.
/r/askTRP24/09/13 06:00 AM
0

It's really easy to get invalid pre-nups thrown out. FTFY. But truly, you bring up a good point. Invalid pre-nups, like most invalid things, can be easily thrown out of court. But if you do it right and lawfully, you'll be ok. Besides, instead of just reasons for why a pre-nup could be invalid, past cases or precedents would be a far stronger argument.
/r/askTRP18/09/13 09:33 PM
1

No, they're not. You must be referring to the precedent that was set several months ago in Brooklyn, NY. If you do a pre-nup the right way, you'll be ok. This pre-nup was thrown out because the guy promised the woman he'd rip up the pre-nup after they had kids and apparently he didn't do that. So no, they don't get regularly thrown out.
/r/askTRP17/09/13 01:45 AM
1

Hmmm. Being a recent engineering grad, I've been wondering if I'd ever find the time to do something like this. I supposed before grad school would be a perfect time to do it. Thanks Ethan.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 10:57 PM
1

I have not been "in love" where I am mad with passion for the girl. But I have loved a girl and continue to do so to this very day. She had a heart that was pure. She had no problem asking you about an action you took that she didn't understand. She would not judge for the action, she would not presuppose regarding the action. She would ask you to explain so that we could be on the same frequency. She loved me back. She cared for me. She learned from being with me as I learned from being with he…
/r/askTRP16/09/13 05:29 AM
1

I'm a personal fan of "You would not survive the attempt." It's from that comic where an old couple are sitting down and the wife is trying to get the husband to light his pipe.
/r/askTRP16/09/13 05:11 AM
1

I appreciate the detailed answer. I look forward to the next time I'm in a situation where I am outcome independent and test the limits of my bullshit. So what do you do? I'm a clinical sex researcher. Really?! Yeah, I conduct experiments where I get to squirt water at people's assholes and vaginas. Hmm...I think I actually will use that one day.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 04:48 AM
1

That's incredible. How did you find the time and money to pull this off? Also, how old are you?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 02:25 AM
2

I don't think I could find another girl like her... Everyone's thought they couldn't find another girl like her at some point. This feeling isn't new and it will continue to permeate through man (and woman alike). You basically want to be with her but you wish she hadn't fucked that guy or at least had the strength to not care that she fucked that guy. Neither of these are gonna happen if you stay around her with this much attachment to her. If you pursue romantic and/or sexual relations with th…
/r/askTRP16/09/13 02:15 AM
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It might be. Especially where she presumes that she did something to you. Although, to be fair, you walking away without a word after the silence does lend credence to the idea that she affected you. It could also be a genuine apology. You might be able to determine which one is the case based on how well you know her. The "did not go home with anyone" part strikes me as odd. Whenever I lie, I like to tell half-truths where a good portion of my story is true expect for a crucial part. So in this…
/r/askTRP16/09/13 02:00 AM
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Instead of telling them right off the bat, you could avoid any indicators that you are looking for something serious. Don't cuddle. Don't spend the night over after sex (assuming you're already fwb). Don't have sex then go out to eat or do any date like activity. Don't bring flowers or any other romantic gesture that could be interpreted through a relationship perspective. If you avoid doing things that could lead her the wrong way, you'll avoid having to have the talk with them. If the talk com…
/r/askTRP16/09/13 01:46 AM
2

Christ dude, you could have at least proofread this and fixed any typos. My approach would have been to never have approached the "complaining girl" in the first place. If there is a communication barrier, either she will tell you, or HR will tell you. Keep doing your work up until that point. The other thing you messed up on was trying to get the full story from both HR and the girl. I did this in high school. When John told me that Jane said something about me, I would approach Jane and ask he…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/13 12:17 AM
1

How are thermodynamic laws being violated here?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 11:56 PM
1

I once did 35mi in one day. It was one of the most brutal things I've endured. That being said, I'm aware that if you hike for a long period of time, you'll eventually condition yourself to hiking 35+ mi per day. I just want to know how long did it take you to condition yourself to that level?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 11:53 PM
1

Curious. How would you respond to a "So, what do you do?" question?
/r/TheRedPill15/09/13 11:44 PM
0

You're using emotionally charged words to twist the perspective so that it suits your purpose. Blindside. Forcing onto. Can't think or respond. Creepy. That tactic is dishonest and gets us both nowhere. If the girl says stop, you stop. She will have made up her mind about whether or not she wants to kiss you well in advance so if it's a no, the signs will be clear. If it's a yes, the signs will be clear. When she hasn't decided yet or made anything clear and you're in doubt, go for the kiss. She…
/r/seduction15/09/13 11:08 PM
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Sigh Dude, you should have made the move long before she ever mustered up the courage to say "can we not do this?" I'm saying he never should have let it get to there. He should have moved faster. Learn to read.
/r/seduction15/09/13 06:01 AM
1

Good for you brother. Hopefully there will be more to come. Soon enough you'll have an approach to life that prevents anyone from walking all over you.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/13 03:01 AM
1

Indeed, I once had a moment of telling a girl to fuck off. It was quite possibly one of my favorite dismissals.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 01:14 AM
1

So /u/befreethinkfree what ended up happening?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 12:57 AM
1

Ah. Now I understand; it's like adding new rules to a game after the results are in and applying those rules to the game ex post facto....Now that I think about it, this happens so often in everyday life. Thanks for that thought nugget.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/13 12:54 AM
2

Perhaps you mean reward? If so, I really like this quote.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/13 10:39 PM
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Dude, you should have made the move long before she ever mustered up the courage to say "can we not do this?" Considering this was a kiss and not sex, I'd venture to say it would have been an ok move. Hell, I'd venture to say that it would have been the viable only move! What was your end goal for that night?
/r/seduction12/09/13 06:58 PM
2

You're saying that you didn't get to kiss the girl? If so, are you also saying that "Can we not do this?" was referring to kissing?
/r/seduction12/09/13 07:58 AM
1

Well shit...what happened after you backed off?
/r/seduction12/09/13 07:44 AM
1

It really sucks to break up when neither person really has a complaint about the other. That about sums it up perfectly well. My scenario involved us breaking up because in the long run our lifestyles would have clashed and symbiosis would not have worked. The funny thing is after we broke up, we remained good friends and a few months later, I realized that I really love this person but she's not someone I can see myself with in the future. So yeah, it was painful breaking up not because of what…
/r/seduction26/08/13 12:36 PM
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Say "ok" and walk away. She'll either come after you, or she won't. If she doesn't, you can go after another girl.
/r/seduction08/07/13 07:01 AM
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I'm Jack's shit.
/r/seduction30/06/13 01:05 PM
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There are people out there who want to change their lives for the better so they tackle everything head on. They fail, fall down, get back up and try again. They fail, fall down, get back up and try again. They proceed to do this several more times until they finally achieve success. There are other people out there who want to change their lives for the better so they tackle everything head on. They fail, fall down, and stay there. They proceed to take comfort in their current situation because…
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Uh...pre-nup dude. It's the only way to travel.
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