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This sounds suspiciously like me up to last September. I'm going to make some predictions: The argument has been made by you that the lack of physical intimacy leads you to believe she doesn't love you anymore. Her response is that she loves you by cleaning the house and taking care of the kids and making dinner, etc. There are some RP things that could be discussed, but your issue may be beyond RP tactics at this point. Based on what you said, she sounds like she may be at her wits end. The rea…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/15 12:17 AM
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Never discuss. Prisoners Dilemma Strategy remains unwritten within the system as divulging the strategy to the other player alters the outcome to something beyond the original game.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/03/15 12:01 AM
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Everything is game, my friend. Everything. All decisions distill out to making babies in one way or another.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 11:59 PM
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Are you telling him or me. I basically said this thing. He's already had the injury identified as needing surgery. My guess is it's bursitis caused by impact that has resulted in a bone spur. This is a very common shoulder injury that required surgery.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 11:58 PM
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Fair enough. You know your game better than me.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 11:34 PM
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Does she know that? Because she could read that as she is your only sexual outlet and there is nothing you can do about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 11:15 PM
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/u/LaV-Man To compound this: the general idea is to be generally aloof to her when she's shitty. When she's nice, you are extra nice (you have to reward positive behavior) but when she's shitty... your attitude needs to be meh. I'm going out. The sudden disruption of her frame causes her to immediately look for a sturdier, better frame -your frame. When you return, if you RP'd right, she should be very clingy, just like the "pussy cat" analogy. This is classically referred to as "The Prisoner's …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 11:08 PM
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in my BP days, I used to hate the "tired wife sex" because I took it as a sign of her not interested in me. I still prefer fully engaged sex to almost asleep sex, but I figured, if she can really fall alseep while I'm pounding way on her then she probably isn't interested in me (worst case.) Best case, and the most likely case, she gets into it because there's a penis moving inside of her.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 10:53 PM
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I actually lose the mood when I get rejected. This is because you are mentally placing yourself in her frame. When my wife turns me down for sex, when we are in bed... whether it's non-verbal through her inaction, or verbal with a "i'm tired," or "I have to get up early" or whatever bullshit else, I just give her a kiss, say good night, reach over her, open the night stand, grab the astroglide and then go into the home office and masturbate to my favorite go to porn. I make sure she knows what I…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 10:50 PM
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The girlfriend was into that specific type of treatment... She did that easy-pass shit test to get her dopamine up. I don't recommend this to someone in a marriage who has never done that before.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 09:16 PM
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Not a doctor. There is no alternative to lifting. lifting heavy things is the only way to build real muscle mass and definition from that mass. However, as any trainer or coach will say: you don't stop training because of an injury, you train around it. Do the maximum you can do before it hurts. If it hurts during, something is wrong. Get your surgery, heal up, PT, and then lift. Seriously: do the PT. people think PT is a joke but it exists because it fucking works... it just takes a while somet…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 09:15 PM
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TL;DR: You were in her frame the entire time... that was the real failure. Typically, a shit test comes after she feels she's getting signs that maybe your alpha-beta meter is starting to fall past the middle line. You actually failed three shit tests: one from her, with her question, and one you put on yourself, before hand. Finally, having sex with her was the final shit test, but it's okay to lose that one, and you had to, in this case. you asked her if she was on her period (more or less.) N…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/15 09:08 PM
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Okay. Then we agree. I think the point is that positive communication is key.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 05:14 PM
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I don't disagree. My point was that congruency is important and she chose to pretend to match his expectations. She probably stressed every day about the lie too.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 05:01 PM
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Agreed. I'm actually turned off by the lack of visible skin variations. I think this why many men love freckles so much: we know that the girl we are looking at is completely natural. The freckles prove it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:59 PM
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Then you misunderstand TRP. TRP isn't about trying to fake women out. TRP is about recognizing and understanding that most of your behavior, as a male, has been carefully adjusted, tweaked, and directed to be a certain way (the beta way.). TRP is then about disregarding that reprogramming and acting how you want. Most men end up RP naturally if society isn't telling them it's "bad" or "oppressive." Working out won't change genetics, but being and looking physically empowered can do wonders for s…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:56 PM
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It's not who she is now... Because she's married. It was who she was shortly before dating our anonymous TRP hero.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:41 PM
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I agree... I mean on the surface, you think, "okay, she's sexually liberal" and that's kind of hot... But then you can stop thinking about the never ending circle of cock around her and the river of cum flowing from various orifices. shudder Sexual moral congruency is important... The past is the past, but that line would never work for a background check for a job and I think a LTR is more important than a job in that regard.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:39 PM
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When I dropped the divorce talk on my wife last September, I was stoic the whole time. It's how I naturally get when stress rises; I'm in control of the situation, not the other way around. She was upset, mostly it seemed, by the fact that I wasn't crying and visibly upset because I was going to leave her. Why would I be upset? I'm making the decision... I'm making the decision because of our dead sex life. I'm upset that I feel like I have to start over after 15 years, but I don't need to be an…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 04:28 PM
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Captain-first officer: a Sex Life Primer reference The analogy is sound. No captain of a naval vessel would want to keep a first officer after finding out he used to do nefarious things and the first officer never disclosed it. He would be summarily dismissed. She did some things that would have been okay, likely, if they were said up front, but she kept them secret and made sure it stayed that way... Then she slipped up and forgot that yappy Annie gets mouthy when she's drunk. If the captain kn…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 10:23 PM
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I'm with you. I have been getting progressively upset with each comment because the complete duality of the thinking processes everyone here has engaged in: She used her young, sexual, attractive self to have the kind of sex she wanted to have. She is being a red pill through and through (then) But She's a "bitch" and a "slut" and a "whore" because she did these things. This is very un-red pill. Part of TRP is that we are All sexual creatures and we are to advance that as much as possible for ou…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 09:53 PM
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I came across this sub last year and scanned over it; it seemed almost circle jerk on the surface. Then I read The Married Man Sex Life Primer and found language similarities to what I had seen here. Then I looked up the red pill definition and realized I needed this place 12 years ago.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 07:52 AM
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I like to build, fix, and customize. It's all part of the mentality behind self-reliance and self-worth. I am getting ready to build a table: why? Why not. Building things is fun and teaches the finer points of attention to detail and finishing a project that turned raw material into a product is satisfying. It's satisfying because I did it. My self reliance just increased my self worth. I'm worthy because I do worthy things. I do those worthy things because I rely on myself first and others sec…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 07:42 AM
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She was going you a fitness test only she's a donkey and not princess Fiona. Shrek would give Fiona a ride because Shrek totally bangs Fiona. Shrek would not give the donkey a ride because Shrek does not bang the donkey. I hope you told the donkey no unless you offered an alternative exchange to allow her to become Fiona.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 04:25 AM
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