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Im also a guy with long hair and not bad looking But Im so oblivious I can never tell if women are interested. It's only way after the fact I realize there was maybe something. Its bad
/r/seduction06/06/26 07:53 AM
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if she reschedules with an actual day - is it really a full flake? Most girls dont even offer an alternative time which just means its a plain out rejection.
/r/seduction05/06/26 05:52 AM
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how?
/r/seduction25/05/26 03:11 PM
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If youre asking this question... then you the likely presumption is you can't even get satisfactory lays in the first place. Get your shit right. Don't bring some poor girl into your shit life rn
/r/seduction24/05/26 10:59 PM
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Hope you feel better bro... My depression in college didn't make me a chick magnet and if it did... I was too blind to notice. Take care bro
/r/seduction15/05/26 12:59 AM
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I remember the days when Austin wasn't a tech city...
/r/seduction14/05/26 02:58 AM
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Gon let your kid be bullied unto oblivion ma'am?
/r/seduction08/05/26 11:36 PM
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I mean tbh the only way to do this is to go in with the intention of polarizing and being ready to kill the friendship im only talking in theory Ive never tried this im new to this shit. Why be friends when you want to be lovers... If you cannot be lovers then why settle for friendship?
/r/seduction01/03/26 10:50 PM
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do you watch cartoons or sum
/r/seduction16/02/26 03:17 AM
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Aura
/r/seduction11/02/26 03:32 AM
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Lol I posed a question like this then I started getting dms from this sub from really aggressive anonymous guys who were asking me if Im autistic and ugly and that they'll coach me for pay
/r/seduction15/01/26 10:31 PM
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any suggestions with the profile stuff?
/r/seduction11/01/26 05:21 PM
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I feel like by reading your post... you have soaked up a lot of online brainrot. Just being real here.
/r/seduction26/12/25 06:52 PM
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I wouldn't go on vacation to have copious amounts of sex. I would exploring the location. If you're asking this, chances are you're not getting laid to begin with.
/r/seduction25/12/25 05:29 AM
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Thats crazy bc this shift was only recent... like within the past 5 years. Austin was different just before that. It's weird to think about it too much. I actually dont like how rapidly the city's culture is changing but then again most of the former residents don't either.
/r/seduction23/12/25 05:42 AM
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May I ask how much a dating coach typically costs and where they may be found?
/r/seduction12/12/25 05:05 AM
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Do you have success on the apps? Ive been told that is shouldn't have bad luck. yet all my life its been rather lame with women. Probably bc Im generally more introverted and throughout my life I ve felt awkward due to things that are not worth explicating Yet with the apps all that extra bs shouldn't be visible yet I get ghosted on these apps like crazy. Its quite demoralizing and tbh I haven't rlly created and understood the persona for me that wold do well in person with women so idk thats a …
/r/seduction24/10/25 08:58 PM
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yeah this is a fair strategy. My original idea was to call to skip the awkward texting but apparently girls get spooked by this and then ghost. What a conundrum. This is frustrating. I once had a girl send me her number on bumble and say I dont use this app often but then never replied to my text man. That one made me go crazy.
/r/seduction04/10/25 01:03 AM
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what if women pull back almost immediately lol Ive run into the issue that they are receptive on the dating apps. I get their number but when I transition to text/call they get cold and ghost immediately. Its irritating me.
/r/seduction02/10/25 11:31 PM
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how these people are suggesting I just text but that has never helped me
/r/seduction30/09/25 11:22 PM
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No bro I dont that would be weird. ChatGPT typically is set up to be cringe and Family friendly. Its like a super advanced Lit Review tool if you ever used the University academic article research portals, its like that times 1000. It pools through anything that seems relevant. I use it as a learning tool when Im stumped. Its for feedback, brainstorming and getting access to obscure ideas that I would not have discovered otherwise.
/r/seduction28/09/25 11:02 PM
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not really true man at least not for the 20 somethings in major metropolitans. I tried tinder it was horrible I have never seen so many bots. Its the worst one out of all the apps.
/r/seduction28/09/25 10:59 PM
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btw what did you learn with Dr Aron's Questions in practice??
/r/seduction28/09/25 09:54 PM
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Texting gives me anxiety what's with the slow back and forth. I took yalls advice and texted and no replies so far. Im always half expecting to get ghosted.
/r/seduction28/09/25 09:41 PM
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Yeah its very cheesy you have to take the inspiration and then make it your own Sometimes I feel super stumped
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:50 PM
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you think how I think. I was not familiar with Dr Aron. For other life projects, I create curriculums through AI to help expedite and create a learning plan.
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:32 PM
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I think you misunderstand. Im using it as a means for brainstorming. For example I like to read philosophy on the side. So I asked it to make me a curriculum for the phenomenology school of philosophy. It basically listed a plan for me to read Husserl, Heidegger, etc. So I figured I could use it as a learning tool. Not a manipulation tool. If you use it straight, it's embarrassing and unhelpful. It's just suggestions. Im in a learning phase in my life. It sorts through information and I get ti r…
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:15 PM
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No bro
/r/seduction28/09/25 08:09 PM
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This is actually kind of ingenious. That way she ha something to look forward to in an economy of attention. I feel like im battling a 100 guys at a time for one girl's attention. I know I can string the plans discussion into the banter part before getting her number I think. It's just keeping attention.
/r/seduction28/09/25 07:39 PM
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Thanks for the breakdown. Thats very helpful actually. I just got a second number over a week of slow but receptive texting and it's Sunday and I won't be free until Friday night lol so that would make it almost 2 weeks assuming she's down and doesn't ghost. I think the marathon texting is from me having to do my messages later in the evening. My evenings are never free I work out 2-3 hours 4-5 days a week during then and Jam Pack other projects when I can and girls respond slow Ive noticed but …
/r/seduction28/09/25 07:20 AM
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Technically we had it set up for tonight but it's obviously not happening. She seemed super receptive the 1st weekend when we matched and spoke. So yeah it was a full week so Im not surprised but this also just feels like a losing battle. I guess I could have directly called her but I wasn't motivated to do so. In some ways I feel relieved even though she is pretty but she's not like my type of anything and on my part it felt performative which I think will be the case with most dates which I do…
/r/seduction27/09/25 11:11 PM
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I just downloaded this app 10 days ago bro
/r/seduction27/09/25 06:29 PM
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how old are you bro Not tryna be disrespectful conversation would be very different if you say you both are 30 years old
/r/seduction28/08/25 03:11 AM
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You don't like the bass pro shop pyramid?
/r/seduction25/08/25 02:38 AM
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A common standard you hear is height - tbh every woman Ive met that was adamant about this either had a shorter man they eventually married, boyfriended or has a shorter 'one that got away'. It's kind of comical. I know this can be confirmation bias but it gets uncanny after a while. I suspect Ill keep seeing this the older I get.
/r/seduction23/08/25 12:51 AM
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what made the difference in your profile? Im in Philly. To me it feels like NY
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:45 AM
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im not gon show my face on reddit bro
/r/seduction29/07/25 01:40 AM
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Do you think its worth it pay for premium. Someone made a compelling case to do so to me today. I am hesitant.
/r/seduction27/07/25 07:08 AM
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I got put behind a paywall after 30 days of using the apps sparingly???? Bro idk man Im trying my best not to think in a black pilled manner here
/r/seduction27/07/25 01:49 AM
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bro hacked tinder. that's wild.
/r/seduction27/07/25 01:48 AM
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So does that mean the wisdom is to get premium or something and/or quit dating apps altogether.
/r/seduction26/07/25 10:23 PM
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Im inclined to get premium hinge the other apps feel cooked. Tinder has too many bots in my area and bumble idk hasnt been good for me since I get no matches I can give little feedback on that platform
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:55 PM
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how tho. My account is 30 days old
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:45 PM
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Is this the experience of every guy? This feels demoralizing
/r/seduction26/07/25 09:44 PM
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bro doesn't swiping right on all reduce your ELO score to shambles???
/r/seduction26/07/25 07:31 PM
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Alright I just moved to the East Coast. So rn you may know the landscape way more than me. This side of the country is way too populated to feel like a ghost town.
/r/seduction26/07/25 05:19 PM
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In my personal case none of which is true . If it was then Id voice it without shame.
/r/seduction26/07/25 05:16 PM
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I once knew a guy who was 'brown skinned' 5 ft 3 in a predominantly white community (so Ig you could say not the conventional in group character culture wise) and bro was in an open relationship throuple. One chic was 5 ft 9 the other was 5 ft 11. He wasn't jacked btw he was very lean and skinny, fit but clearly thin build like that mattered. Every outing I happened to see him in he had a new very pretty girl around him and almost always they were taller. It was weird for me bc I could not under…
/r/seduction26/07/25 05:17 AM
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You know bro I feel like I do all of the above ngl. I have long rockstar type hair, very distinct image The women that do end up liking me for whatever reason in life say things like "mysterious" and/or "intimidating" "masculine" Ive even had a girl call me "goth" but I think what she rlly meant as I had an alternative aesthetic. Im 5 ft 11 lean. Im decently muscular and by the end of the year im gon put on another 20 lbs on top of already 30 lbs I added the year before. Technically taller than …
/r/seduction28/06/25 01:41 PM
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im struggling to have any success on any dating app in the past. I feel embarrassed. I guess I have negative dating/flirting acumen. Honestly id want to know how to become OP bc id be satisfied with those numbers.
/r/seduction27/06/25 11:59 PM
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Is it normal for chics to show paperwork for this stuff lol I never heard of this before
/r/seduction25/06/25 03:53 AM
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Are you talking about reiki or sum
/r/seduction18/06/25 11:46 PM
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Then change the context, go to a climbing club or something. If you've been doing this for a year and having fun cool enjoy won't knock you for having fun if you like to dance but if you're not having fun not making friends and not making progress on your goals then you should reconsider the framework upon which you set yourself on. Genuinely go out to different places and make friends and build up skill. And make genuine friends. You will connect dots from there.
/r/seduction18/06/25 11:37 PM
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Start there bro
/r/seduction18/06/25 03:09 AM
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Are you at least making friends with people? Im not commenting this as a joke. The Seddit part kinda needs a solid foundation of just being a charismatic or at the very least a sociable guy.
/r/seduction18/06/25 02:19 AM
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lmao ok bro gl with your stuff
/r/seduction01/06/25 05:09 PM
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I work in healthcare bro... Gl hooking up with your colleagues
/r/seduction01/06/25 03:07 AM
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This really isn't true. I work in healthcare.
/r/seduction31/05/25 09:07 PM
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My guy, honest question. Would you ask this question if you weren't anonymous on reddit? and yeah I do have a career. We got people in the comments saying doctors hook up with their nurses. This is like saying BJJ coaches hook up with their students. I think it's fair game to call out a warped view. Like you said it is a thread on dating/seduction. This view is a valid one.
/r/seduction31/05/25 09:06 PM
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Do you have a career bro?
/r/seduction31/05/25 06:01 PM
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This whole post and comments attached to this. Do you even have a career bro? Respectfully if you do you'd realize what a conundrum your fantasy is for the HR department.
/r/seduction31/05/25 03:26 AM
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Man this is embarassing
/r/seduction31/05/25 03:07 AM
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