When to Let It Go? Ghosting From Dating Apps

Illustrious_Size610 · 2025-09-27T18:28:03+00:00

It's much simpler than that what is that you want? Do you want a "fuck yes girl" or a "maybe girl"?

If you believe you deserve a "fuck yes girl" because you are a "fuck yes guy" you will not settle for less than that simply because you know you will eventually find a "fuck yes girl".

If you don't believe you deserve a "fuck yes girl" then you will always cling to a "maybe" or anything that isn't an "absolute no" like most desperate guys do because they believe they will only find worst than that or no one at all.

So it's about what standards you hold yourself accountable. There is no mixed signals or games when you simply meet a girl who is genuinely interested in you without "buts" or "doubts". Cuz trust me when a girl is really into you, oh boy u immediately feel it.

Now maybe you are not used to that and think you have to settle for "maybes" but that's your problem and your own responsibility if you manage to pursue that. Don't do something that you would regret doing if thigns didn't go the way you hoped they would.

If you pursue someone it should be because you have the aboslute conviction that engaging with that person is worth your time even if it leads absolutely nowhere in the end. Simply because there are no guarantees in dating.

There are no social contracts and everything you do is because you want to, not because you thinkn it shoulg get rewarded in the end by her giving you something in return for your dedication or effort.

It is what it is, you are always responsible for your decision to go for maybe girls or fuck yes girls and it's not the woman's job to tell you whether you should bother trying or not. That's up to you. She is not the one who is responisble for giving you clairity because clarity comes from withn.

norwegiandoggo · 2025-09-27T20:10:46+00:00

If you got a date set up already, you don't have to send anything.

If she seems interested in continuing the convo - continue it. Otherwise don't.

If you want to get confirmation whether you're still on, send her a message a few hours before the date with "see you soon". If you don't get a response assume it's off.

The longer time between planning the date and the date itself the higher chance that she will ghost you.

Ghosting on apps is completely normal. Accept it as part of the game. Some attrition is acceptable

Title	When to Let It Go? Ghosting From Dating Apps
Author	adamlaxmax
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	September 27, 2025 6:16 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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