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adeptintact/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/19 07:22 PM
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adeptintact/r/askTRP18/07/18 02:10 AM
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When I was in the divorce process with my first wife and going through mediation, I was already seeing some other girl. She never found out and it worked out. Just handle your shit well and she wouldn't know.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/24 02:58 PM
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Your kids if any are already probably old. You will split everything. You won't get divorced raped. That's a pussy excuse for staying in your bullshit situation of no sex in 15 years.
/r/askMRP26/05/24 02:53 PM
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Work on yourself, improve. Cheat with some hot bitches to see what you're missing. Divorce if you want. Child support is until the kid is 18, so 4 years for you. Alimony may or may not be for life. Depending on the state in a long term marriage, you can go to court after awhile to end alimony. You are catastrophizing divorce. I got divorced from my first wife and now things are going well with my second wife. I'm financially stronger than before. Rian Stone had a good YouTube video recently abou…
/r/askMRP21/05/24 12:45 AM
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I had this gut feeling that I had to divorce my ex several years ago. I got a mediator and got it done. Our son has been fine with 50% custody. I married my 2nd younger, hotter wife a few years later. I have 2 more kids now with her. My life is so much better. Do what you want is the lesson I learned.
/r/askMRP13/05/24 02:08 AM
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Your essay was all about her. That says it all about you being in her frame. You respond and react based on what she does. If she wants to stay you will. If she wants to divorce you will. Do what you want to do.
/r/askMRP11/05/24 01:42 AM
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You're using excuses to not divorce and move out. I got remarried and it's going great. I should have divorced my first wife way before I did.
/r/askMRP11/04/24 10:45 PM
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After I cheated on her a few times and realized I should move on.
/r/askMRP29/03/24 06:42 PM
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I would stop doing the lifts if you don't want to have chronic back issues for the rest of your life.
/r/askMRP05/02/24 11:38 PM
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I read his post in the other subreddit. Agreed his relationship is over, and he needs to work on himself to become red pill. His wife is probably cheating on him already.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/01/24 11:49 PM
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Your SMV dropped getting laid off in your career. She's skeptical of you being successful in your new business. If you aren't successful, she's getting ready to branch swing.
/r/askMRP20/01/24 09:09 PM
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Most Christians do halloween and celebrate Christmas like everyone. She might have been in a small denomination that does things differently.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/24 02:53 AM
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My ex-wife was like that, cold didn't care for my affection. My current wife wants my affection. I don't think she desires you enough. You have to increase your SMV.
/r/askMRP03/01/24 11:38 PM
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You have to work on yourself. Since you are already experiencing problems in your sex life and she's fat, break up with her before marrying her. Then increase your SMV so you won't have the same problems in the future.
/r/askMRP31/12/23 07:34 PM
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Becoming better at public speaking builds tremendous confidence. It'll help you be a leader of people and more alpha. Not everyone can talk in front of people well. The ones who do are usually in higher positions. It certainly will help you advance easily in your career.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/12/23 08:11 AM
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Your kid will be fine. Stop being such a pussy and divorce. Improve yourself and be better. If and when you do meet another girl, work on the red pill principles to not fall back to your old beta ways.
/r/askMRP17/12/23 10:39 PM
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You're not a child that needs to tell mommy where he's at all the time. That's deep in her frame.
/r/askMRP15/12/23 04:19 AM
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Why the fuck did you stay with this woman after she cheated on you for 2 years? You have such low confidence in yourself and a low self esteem, since you have no kids with her and still don't divorce. You haven't internalized anything about the red pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/23 03:36 AM
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I say shoot for 1 point higher than you. It keeps you constantly improving.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/23 03:56 AM
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You should post this nonsense on Married red pill. Some points are good except the above. You'd get blown out of the water. Stick to spinning plates because that's where this shit would work. Not in a LTR or marriage. Or actually in a true master slave relationship. If you can get your wife to follow all your commands and put a collar on her, then yes all that would work.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/23 03:44 AM
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For sure totally agree. It's beta and needy to track the girl and tell her she can't go out with her friends at night or else.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/23 03:41 AM
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Most definitely set boundaries. Then when they break them in an LTR or marriage, remove attention, affection, soft next, or hard next. Putting a tracker to follow some girl around is extreme blue pill. Telling them that they can't go out with their friends at night ever or you'll break up with them is just not red pill. That comes from a place of insecurity and is the essence of beta. If she really was that into you, that wouldn't even be a behavior that you have to address. No such thing as an …
/r/TheRedPill04/12/23 12:45 AM
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I agree with most of your points. However, being controlling, tracking her, telling her she can't hang out with her friends at night comes off as beta and anti-red pill to me. If a man has a high SMV, his LTR would naturally want to do these things for him without him having to overtly control her like that. A girl won't cheat on a guy if his SMV is high enough. I would argue that those actions are demonstrations of low value and would lower her view of you in her eyes. She won't want to be with…
/r/TheRedPill02/12/23 05:11 AM
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Talk to a lawyer. Sell the house for sure.
/r/askMRP30/11/23 05:18 AM
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A girl doesn't care whether you have a child or not if to her your SMV is high enough. Extreme example, Tom Brady with high SMV even in his mid 40s getting with models with no kids, despite having 3 kids from 2 different women.
/r/askMRP30/11/23 02:51 AM
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I'd say I'm decent looking, 6ft, slimmer. I'm a Director at a large company that makes $170k. That certainly helps. Red pill has helped me also with my employees and has honed my leadership skills. I would say I'm a learned alpha as it doesn't come naturally to me, but I've learned to lead in all aspects of my life. My 2nd wife and I have 2 kids together now so it's been working out. Being red pill takes daily effort. Sometimes I realize I'm slipping when I take some time off of reading on the m…
/r/askMRP30/11/23 02:15 AM
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I was too blue pill, she partied a lot even as a mom, and financial issues. I had already cheated on her with a few girls. I filed for divorce because I was tired of it. If you don't have a child, you definitely should play the field and leave her. You're settling at a time when you're entering your prime. You can do a lot better simply by your statement that you've been with hotter girls. I was 35 with a kid and was still able to get with and eventually marry a 28 year old with no kids. I wasn'…
/r/askMRP29/11/23 01:40 AM
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Your problem is you're with a 7.5. If you find a girl that's a 9 or 10 and is submissive/feminine, you will be much more willing to commit. I became red pill after my divorce and remarried a girl that was a 9 to 9.5 when I met her. I like to think I'm a solid 8.5 at my best. I have dated 7s in my time and yea, I never wanted to commit because I thought I could do better.
/r/askMRP29/11/23 01:30 AM
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Simple. Find another girl and stop the oneitis for the single mom. Stop being a cuckold and move on with your life.
/r/askMRP24/11/23 04:56 PM
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I wouldn't give her any allowance. Your wife doesn't want to have sex with you since you're too beta and give in to her all the time. You have to be willing to lose the relationship to turn this around.
/r/askMRP21/11/23 07:46 PM
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Divorce
/r/askMRP27/07/23 06:54 PM
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That's a good age difference. My 2nd wife is 7 years younger. Divorce already and stop having sex with the ex. That messes up your mind and keeps you in a state of limbo. Stops you from improving. Move on with your life.
/r/askMRP27/07/23 06:51 PM
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No. You did not find a unicorn at 22.
/r/askMRP27/07/23 06:49 PM
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Fog, deflect, amused mastery, agree and amplify, negative inquiry, broken record, exit the situation. Read WISNIFG as some of that is discussed there. You can only do STFU so much and it only goes so far. Overuse makes you look like a dumb mute. I use all these tools to still keep frame.
/r/askMRP19/07/23 07:03 PM
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That isn't dread. If her friend would have come onto you or compliment you in front of your wife, that's dread.
/r/askMRP19/07/23 06:59 PM
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Read the Rational Male.
/r/askMRP09/07/23 04:48 PM
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If she's the least attractive girl that you ever have been with, that's not a unicorn, that's a hippo. I would break up with her and date more. There are girls that are hot and have a good personality. Your SMV has to be high enough to get them though. Don't settle. My current wife is probably a point SMV higher than me, and I think I have decent SMV. She doesn't need to know that though, as I try to show no weaknesses. I'm always attracted to her and she wants sex more than I do. I've been with…
/r/askMRP29/06/23 07:07 PM
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You're making the right decision to divorce. Work on yourself and be better.
/r/askMRP27/06/23 07:07 PM
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I was that 34 year old divorced guy with a kid when I met my 2nd wife who was 27 with no kids. She had a bad relationship with her dad so he wasn't an issue, and her dad is a blue pill beta anyway. Now we have 2 daughters together. When they get older, no I wouldn't want them to date an older guy. Awesome how life works.
/r/askMRP24/06/23 02:40 AM
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She's not that into you anymore and lost attraction. She knows she has you. Increase your SMV and the dread may help. If it doesn't, you may have to deal with whatever crumbs she gives you, cheat on her, or divorce and move on.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/23 07:04 PM
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So you cheated on her a few years back and she knows. She took a pic with a bunch of random guys, got drunk and ignored you until noon the next day? Worst case she fucked another guy. Best case was she was making out with another guy. You cheated with another married woman so you know how wives can easily lie to their husbands.
/r/askMRP22/06/23 03:02 AM
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Not this. So if she fucked another guy it's ok as long as she's treating the OP good? Nah....
/r/askMRP22/06/23 02:54 AM
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Probably should divorce and get someone you're attracted to. If you have kids, then you wont have sex. My wife is attractive and she would want to have sex daily. That's too much for me so we are at about 3 times a week. I'm still attracted her though so enjoy the sex.
/r/askMRP20/06/23 07:16 PM
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I like WISNIFG. I prefer to add fogging, negative inquiry, and broken record to STFU.
/r/askMRP20/06/23 07:03 PM
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Interesting. I prefer skinny girls. It's tough to divorce over that.
/r/askMRP20/06/23 07:02 PM
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I prefer When I say no, I feel guilty. STFU can only take you so far. I like to use fogging, negative inquiry, and broken record so.
/r/askMRP20/06/23 07:00 PM
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I prefer WISNIFG. STFU can only take you so far. I like to use fogging, negative inquiry, and broken record so.
/r/askMRP20/06/23 07:00 PM
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I prefer WISNIFG. STFU can only take you so far. You start seeming like a mute if that's all you use. I like to use fogging, negative inquiry, and broken record so.
/r/askMRP20/06/23 06:59 PM
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I prefer WISNIFG. STFU can only take you so far. You start seeming like a mute if that's all you use. I like to use fogging, negative inquiry, and broken record so.
/r/askMRP20/06/23 06:58 PM
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I prefer WISNIFG. STFU can only take you so far. You start seeming like a mute if that's all you use. I like to use fogging, negative inquiry, and broken record so.
/r/askMRP20/06/23 06:58 PM
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She doesn't have respect for you with finances. I couldn't stay married to a woman like that. My ex did similar shit and I divorced her. All finances should be shared in a marriage for it to work.
/r/askMRP13/06/23 10:36 PM
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Her calling the cops on you is ridiculous. My ex-wife did that. Get divorced.
/r/askMRP11/06/23 05:21 AM
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I think it's because it's very restrictive on what can be posted here in MRP. I posted a topic here 4 years ago and was banned for 2 years. I wasn't even mad as it was more funny to me. I much prefer askMRP because it's less restrictive on posting, and I get more tips there.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/23 06:59 PM
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Don't get a vasectomy and cut your manhood. Use a condom and track the fertility days.
/r/askMRP07/06/23 06:51 PM
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I'm married with 3 kids. I also believe fully in red pill principles. The two are opposed at times though. I needed to spread my seed, but also don't want them to grow up without a father in their lives. OP, check out the married red pill subreddit for red pill tips on being married and having kids.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/23 12:46 AM
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Go visit married red pill. They like to call it red pill on hard mode.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/23 12:43 AM
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Displays of high value help. If other women flirt with you in front of her, without you even trying, then that would be the best. Preselection at its finest.
/r/askMRP09/05/23 12:39 AM
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So it turns out your unicorn is actually a past whore and you don't know what to do? Break up with her and don't believe her hamstering. At least you're not married so less headache.
/r/askMRP05/05/23 06:57 PM
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If by emotionally vulnerable you mean spewing all your feelings to your wife, I disagree. A true red pill man cannot do that and expect it to work out in the long run. Your wife will just see your weaknesses and use that against you. They will think lesser of you. You have the be strong mentally. I see my main outlets as exercise, meditation, sex, and sleep. I don't need to tell my feelings, emotions, and make myself "vulenerable" to my wife as that is asking for trouble.
/r/askMRP04/05/23 02:36 AM
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Haha lol I must have touched a nerve speaking truth to you. That's what red pill does. Get that anger out knowing that I'm right.
/r/askMRP29/04/23 01:40 AM
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Who gives a shit if she's the mother of your kids. You have total oneitis and your fatty wife still doesn't want to have sex with you. You'll be sitting here 5 years from now still complaining about no sex. You had already broken up with her and were fucking other women. You didn't grab your sack and divorce like most men would have done in that situation. If you want to be in a shit situation living your blue pill dreams continue to do so.
/r/askMRP29/04/23 01:14 AM
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That's true red pill advice. Don't come into a red pill forum if you can't handle it. Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askMRP29/04/23 01:05 AM
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Your mistake was getting back with her. Move on and find someone new.
/r/askMRP27/04/23 07:42 PM
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You're 34 with no kids. Grab your sack and divorce already. You're bitching about divorce when it'll be as easy as breaking up with a girlfriend for you. I divorced my shitty ex-wife at 35 and we have a son. Married a younger, better girl and have 2 more kids. Get your shit together especially your mind and confidence, and it'll work out.
/r/askMRP21/04/23 06:57 PM
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Was divorced several years ago and have shared custody of our child. Got married again to a better girl a few years ago and have 2 more kids. It's worked out.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/23 06:37 PM
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Alot of this post is BS, particularly the part encouraging us to fuck transgenders. Since when did this form become more political and so far away from red pill.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/23 02:37 AM
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Why haven't you divorced yet
/r/askMRP09/03/23 08:05 PM
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Wtf
/r/askMRP09/03/23 08:03 PM
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You agree with only a small part of her statement that is true and disregard everything else. Makes you seem like you're agreeable when you're really not. I do it all the time and it works well.
/r/askMRP09/03/23 08:02 PM
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Divorce
/r/askMRP09/03/23 08:00 PM
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No kids and no house. Divorce her. I don't see the issue here.
/r/askMRP09/03/23 07:56 PM
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DARE helps me pretty well, and it's not just STFU. Deflect - Fogging and Negative Inquiry, Amused Mastery - Agree & Amplify, Repeat - Broken Record, Exit - STFU or physically leave It helps to stop DEERing and gives you more tools than just being an STFU mute. My wife tried to pick an argument with me last night and I used a combination of it. She walked away saying this isn't going anywhere, then apologized to me a few hours later. It's effective. I especially like fogging as I agree with some …
/r/askMRP12/01/23 10:05 PM
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If you want kids and she doesn't, it's pretty obvious that you'll have to break up with her. Don't count on changing her mind. There are no unicorns.
/r/askMRP28/12/22 08:04 PM
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What a mess
/r/askMRP28/12/22 08:00 PM
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From your perspective, I think it's fine to just do your thing and see what she does. Let her chase you. Since you want it to work then if she ever expresses that she wants to work it out, then you could do so. If she continues with the divorce then to me she probably has other options or is talking to someone else already.
/r/askMRP21/12/22 09:29 PM
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The relationship is over and time to divorce. Work on yourself and become better.
/r/askMRP20/12/22 08:00 PM
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I think you were doing fine before, until you became beta because you're scared the marriage will end. That fear is what makes you beta. You're hamstring your mind into thinking you failed comfort tests when you didn't. If she truly wants a divorce, realize it's over and let it be. Do your own thing and don't care. Only then, might she respect you to come back to you. Otherwise, move on with your life. Anything else is weakness and in her frame.
/r/askMRP20/12/22 07:58 PM
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That sounds like me before red pill with my ex-wife and having transactional sex. For as long as you stay, nothing will change. Marriage counseling won't work. You will have to accept how bad your marriage is now and deal with it, cheat on her to fulfill your needs, or divorce her.
/r/askMRP20/12/22 07:52 PM
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You're 25 and not married. You're acting like a 40 year old married with kids. Leave her and work on improving yourself. Plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/askMRP14/12/22 07:25 PM
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Don't pay your ex anything you aren't legally obligated to pay her. Don't get back with her and get someone new. Improve yourself first as a lot of your reactions and decisions in that marriage were full on beta.
/r/askMRP14/12/22 07:22 PM
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To your point about her being pregnant, if she doesn't agree to the legal separation with you getting full custody, then there is no chance a court would grant you full custody of a child when born if she is not crazy or a threat to her child in some way. You're most likely looking at 50/50 physical and legal custody. You then may still have to pay child support depending on how much more you make than her.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 08:12 PM
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She already cheated on you and the relationship is done.
/r/askMRP30/11/22 07:21 PM
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Your mistake was getting back with her after she was with someone else. Women will always lie to you about an EA. She already sent naked pics and he sent dick pics to her. They may have already had sex. Years ago, I was with a girl that was married. We would text a lot and it started as an EA. It progressed to sex in hotels and other places. He found some messages between us and she told him that I tried to kiss her once and that was it. Her husband believed it and we continued on with our thing…
/r/askMRP30/11/22 07:10 PM
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You're confusing being beta and being looked down on. I never said I look down on people that serve. I also don't look down on those that are beta. People are the way they are. That doesn't change the fact that serving others like a bartender or waiter is as beta and blue pill as you can get. Your moralistic argument might make sense in our feministic society, but strictly from a red pill point of view, it falls apart.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/22 02:49 AM
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I made the decision to leave my ex-wife and my life has been much better for it. I remarried a better girl and had a better red pill foundation doing it. Definitely leave the cunt.
/r/askMRP20/11/22 03:01 AM
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Just have an affair like normal guys. I don't understand why any married guy would be ok with their wives having sex with other guys. Since red pill is amoral, having an affair accomplishes what you want with nothing changing from your wife's perspective.
/r/askMRP18/11/22 08:43 PM
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I disagree. The essence of bartending is serving drinks to people. Anyone that serves is not an alpha leader but a beta. Some people don't have respect for bartenders innately as a result. When Chad orders you to give him 3 Coronas and tips you nothing, you can't say fuck you no. You have to serve him. That's low SMV to me and high SMV for Chad. You made some valid points about picking girls up, but it isn't red pill.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/22 03:59 AM
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She's definitely cheating emotionally with an EA and/or physically. You have to accept that your marriage is basically over. It'll be ok and being divorced is not bad. You may even be happier afterward. Become more red pill and learn from previous mistakes.
/r/askMRP16/11/22 08:46 PM
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You should definitely get a paternity test to confirm. It costs $50 at rite aid and she doesn't even have to know. She's most likely comparing her ex to you. Your SMV is not high enough yet. It's also incredibly low value of you to get upset and jealous of her for checking her ex's Instagram. It'll only go downhill from here. I recommend not marrying her yet.
/r/askMRP08/11/22 03:42 AM
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My wife has a bit of father issues just because he is a weak man that wasn't always there. The weird thing is she looks at me to fill that strong daddy role. Submissive in sex and defers to me overall. She does shit test me more than I'd prefer though, but nothing I can't deal with it. I think these women are just looking for that strong authority figure to fill the hole that was missed in their lives and they will constantly test you to see if you fit that for them. I'm 7 years older than her. …
/r/askMRP06/11/22 12:22 AM
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Read the rational male. You know nothing of red pill. You had oneitis for your wife. Then she missed her party years and wants to start now. That's what happens when you marry too early especially to the first girl you're with.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/22 12:15 AM
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Divorce the wife and get more plates.
/r/askMRP06/11/22 12:12 AM
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You're on your way to either divorce or a sad life if you stay with her. The tough part is the 3 kids but you have to do what you have to do.
/r/askMRP04/11/22 06:34 PM
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I think what would build social skills more is improving public speaking. If you improve on that rather than just talking to a stranger, that gives you massive confidence. I recommend public speaking classes or a toastmasters club.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/22 07:08 PM
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You're too wrapped up in her frame and her reactions. You sound like you don't have kids with her which makes it easier. I think you should pick up on other girls and cheat. See if you are a high value man like you say you are. Then divorce her if she still doesn't give you the sex you want.
/r/askMRP27/10/22 06:53 PM
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It's an emotional affair for sure and possibly already a physical affair. Time to break up with her and improve yourself for the next time.
/r/askMRP24/10/22 03:12 AM
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As someone said, part of being a good leader is delegating some work. You don't have to do all the work as that is not what a good leader does. A CEO doesn't do everything. He gets the COO and Directors to do the work for him and gets the credit. If the CEO was doing all the tasks the other staff would think he was a poor leader. Get your wife to do some tasks that you think she should be doing. Gives you a break and you won't think you're simping.
/r/askMRP24/10/22 03:10 AM
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The fact that you're a leader in your career means that you can also be the leader in your home. For myself, I'm a leader in both areas, managing employees and my family. My wife has it in her to be a leader as she is also a manager of employees, and it caused some friction in our relationship early on. Now she defers to me. Some advice: divide your cleaning and cooking duties so she doesn't "order" you around. For example, I take trash out, go to the supermarket, and wash my clothes and towels.…
/r/askMRP24/10/22 02:46 AM
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I disagree with some in that self-improvement can be a part of your mission. It's mine also in the sense that I want to be the best version of myself always. Then to lead in my family in all ways. Within that mission I have certain goals I'm working on in all aspects of my life to achieve that mission. I see it as a lifelong pursuit. Sometimes it doesn't have to be about being happy. It's the day to day of working toward your goals and mission that provides life fulfillment.
/r/askMRP19/10/22 06:45 PM
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To me the correct response is amused mastery. I'd say because you suck my dick well.
/r/askMRP09/10/22 10:50 PM
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I prefer to be the boss and delegate my work to the staff. I get paid high and I like what I do. Be the best version of yourself even in your career. That's red pill.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/22 03:59 AM
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What this illustrates is all women go through the epiphany phase and then want to have kids with an alpha, or the best guy they can get. As a guy, any girl in their early 30s with no kids and halfway decent, will encounter this. It is up to you to whether to stick with a girl like this or not, and whether she will remain with you if you don't want it. In my opinion, it'll be hard for a man who doesn't want to marry or have kids to LTR young girls in their late 20s to early 30s. This will inevita…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/22 01:44 AM
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Try jerking off on her face while she's sleeping next time. It might turn her on.
/r/askMRP28/08/22 04:23 AM
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Next time, try jerking off and cumming on her face while she sleeps. Might turn her on.
/r/askMRP28/08/22 04:21 AM
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I disagree to the extent that you should show her how to do the laundry correct one time, then she should do it. By doing the laundry for her because she did it wrong, you are rewarding her bad behavior. You're teaching her that she just has to do things wrong to get away with not doing it because you will take over the task yourself. That's not leadership.
/r/askMRP28/08/22 04:10 AM
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Actually it is from the date of separation for the 10 years. As long as you were clearly separated before the 10 years, even if the divorce is finalized after 10 years, it'll be considered a short term marriage and alimony won't be permanent, only half the time you were married.
/r/askMRP28/08/22 03:54 AM
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Read some Rollo and the Rational Male. Red pill theory says never marry or LTR a single mom. Your resources and investment will go toward another man's offspring. You're essentially being a cuckold. Better to break up and move on.
/r/askMRP18/08/22 06:53 PM
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I left my ex-wife for that reason, because I could do better. If you're pulling girls in their 20s, you obviously can. You're not married to your current LTR so leave and do your thing. I actually think you shouldn't LTR right away, but spin plates for awhile. Promote a plate to an LTR only after you vet her well. Also, fuck the "relationship" that your kids have with the LTR. That's some blue pill shit. Do what's best for you. Your kids will be fine. What I've learned is kids only really care a…
/r/askMRP25/07/22 04:14 AM
1

For sure she's either having an emotional affair with another guy and most likely physical. When I initiated my divorce from my ex, I was already banging other girls. I tried to make it as amicable as possible. I was even able to get her to agree to a mediator and we didn't have a messy divorce. The only downside is I had to pay her a lot to get out. Get your head out of your ass. The marriage is over. Tell her to go mediation to get the finances and custody as favorable as possible for you.
/r/askMRP25/07/22 04:02 AM
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From a red pill perspective, your original mistake was getting into an LTR with a single mom to support someone else's kid. Your resources should only go to paying for your own offspring. Given that you are in the situation and you're not even married, do you even still want to be with your gf? People coparent their children just fine without being together. You sound like you don't like the situation or her that much. Definitely don't marry her and adopt the child. Leave her and move on with yo…
/r/askMRP15/06/22 06:21 PM
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With my ex-wife, I was blue pill, sex was transactional, she went down on me but hated it. With my current wife, I try to be as red pill as possible, 5 years into our relationship, she goes down on me all the time and swallows. She also enjoys it when I dominate her in bed. Increase your smv, be red pill, and never let up.
/r/askMRP28/05/22 05:11 PM
2

There's been a few times in the past where my brother's wife was inappropriate or mean to my wife. I spoke to her directly calmly calling her out on it. My brother blew up at me angrily saying I should have talked to him about it first. He's older and much larger than me, physically an alpha but not mentally. He threw out men should talk to the men and women should talk to women. I told him I disagreed and if he can't handle his wife, then I was going to talk to her directly. The conclusion was …
/r/askMRP28/05/22 04:54 PM
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Looks like your wife is the captain of your family. When you "STFU" and follow her orders like a good boy, it further illustrates that. My advice is to grow some balls and tell her to do things. Say no when she asks you to do it and make her do it. It'll piss her off for sure but eventually the dynamic will change.
/r/askMRP26/05/22 06:38 PM
2

Wtf did I just read.
/r/askMRP30/04/22 04:27 AM
3

My first wife didn't want sex with me as much. I was beta and didn't know about red pill. I did cheat on her with several girls as a result. After learning red pill, my current wife is hotter and wants sex with me more than I want with her. I never am rejected by her. My conclusion from my experiences is this. You have to always be on your game being as alpha as possible to maintain the attraction, to make her want to have sex with you. A small part of it is there are some girls that are general…
/r/askMRP28/04/22 01:58 AM
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The relationship is over and move on. Start feeling comfortable with being divorced as it's most likely going to happen. Better get a lawyer as she's probably way ahead of you since she served you already. If you don't act, you could be paying out of your ass in child support and alimony. This isn't a game talking about how you still have sex. Get your shit together and act now because it's the rest of your life. When I had my ex-wife served, I was already done moving on to banging other girls.
/r/askMRP15/04/22 03:10 AM
2

Go with what your gut says. It's obvious what you want to do is stay. The red pill move would be to have her stay with you and support your career, not the other way around. Mixed kids growing up in a more diverse area is definitely a thing. The beta move would be to follow her to where she got the job against what you know to be right. You're 29 years old and shouldn't be in a hurry to marry.
/r/askMRP11/04/22 01:50 AM
2

Just in case this is a real post... She sounds like a strong feminist wanting that gender fluid nonsense. Dump her just for that. She's 32 passed the wall. Women's fertility goes down drastically after 35 so your timeline is already pushing it. Happy wife, happy life is for betas. Buying a house only because she like's it is total blue pill. Telling your wife she needs to lose weight jokingly, after pregnancy, is something a red pill husband would do. Since she would want to please her alpha hus…
/r/askMRP04/04/22 12:51 AM
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In no way should you stfu to disrespect. She's done that over the years because she sees you like a pussy. You make a boundary firmly that she needs to stop cussing at you. If she passes the line, you leave. You definitely shouldn't marry her if that's how she currently is.
/r/askMRP02/04/22 02:37 PM
1

I have a different take. Why would you want to retire early? You literally will have nothing to do with the rest of your life with no family or kids. I don't see the purpose and even with traveling, that life seems boring to me.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/22 03:40 AM
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I think it depends on your girlfriend's relationship with her father. My wife would talk shit about him often and he wasn't around much. However, when he was around she liked him. I see him as a beta who I myself don't respect much. Thus, I didn't ask him for any type of blessing or shit like that from him. He ended up chipping in for part of the wedding which was nice of him. I say only do it if he was important to your girlfriend. Otherwise, I don't think it's an alpha move to do. You do what …
/r/askMRP20/03/22 01:13 AM
1

Red pill is amoral. The fact that you call the fiance of the friend a scumbag because he cheated shows how you feel about cheating. That's more of blue pill thinking. Your post makes it seem like you want to fuck her but don't have the guts to. I'm unsure what the point is of asking strangers if this girl is giving you signals as if you're in high school.
/r/askMRP11/03/22 04:04 AM
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No kids and no legal marriage makes it easy. Just talk to her and give it to her straight. Then move out. It sounds like you're renting together so it makes it even easier. I had to sell a house and we had a child together in my divorce. What you are trying to do is nothing.
/r/askMRP01/03/22 05:18 AM
1

Emotional affair with 3 guys? If this was over a long period of time, she probably had sex with someone. A long time ago in my crazier years, I had an "emotional affair" with a married girl. It consisted of me banging her in her car and even at her house when her husband was gone. I don't think he ever found out, but if he did, I'm sure that's how she described it to him, as an emotional affair. My advice is don't ever believe a girlfriend or wife that says it's only an emotional affair. With al…
/r/askMRP04/02/22 05:20 AM
1

So she texts her ex sexual stuff and a few weeks later she's pregnant? No matter how much you hamster that is your child, logically there's a chance it's not. She obviously cheated on you with her ex. I'd get the child paternity tested to confirm.
/r/askMRP04/01/22 04:26 AM
1

For me, my wife will give me a BJ and swallow. I tell her not to miss a single drop. If she does a good job, I'll massage her back. Reward good behavior, not the other way around.
/r/askMRP04/01/22 04:13 AM
1

Don't apologize for shit. I like to say my bad if I do something offensive. She already knows I don't apologize. She will respect you much more for it. 16 commandments of poon. Works like a charm. "VIII. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary Do not say you’re sorry for every wrong thing you do. It is a posture of submission that no man should reflexively adopt, no matter how alpha he is. Apologizing increases the demand for more apologies. She will come to expect your contrition, like …
/r/askMRP04/01/22 04:07 AM
2

Divorce now. It's straightforward and can use a mediator to save money without lawyers. No child support to pay. Alimony paid for maybe a year. Sell the house and split the profit. You're only 26 and your SMV is going up if you work on yourself. This is a pretty easy decision. If you stay with her, you'll be miserable. Definitely don't get her pregnant now. She never had her party years and is about to hit the wall. For sure she physically cheated on you or is having an emotional affair. It'll b…
/r/askMRP12/12/21 06:09 PM
3

Rollo Tomassi talks about this subject a lot. If you were a true alpha, she would want to take your last name. She's just not that into you or you're coming off as too beta. Wait till she insists on your kids having her last name. Once you do have kids, that will become a major issue. My ex-wife kept my last name after the divorce. My current wife sometimes complains about why my ex did that since we all have the same last name, and it's weird to her. I joke she probably can't get over me. Not w…
/r/askMRP15/09/21 07:28 PM
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Do you know anything about red pill? The man controls the commitment. You're freely going all in already on her, chasing her. Taking all the mystery out of it. You aren't acting like the prize in this. You're acting like a beta desperate chump. She's responding like that because she subconsciously understands this and now thinks she can do better. She's not close to the wall yet to the point of desperation, so not surprising she's having second thoughts. Pull the way fuck back, and act like you …
/r/askMRP18/08/21 02:40 AM
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Her concern is she's passed the wall and will have to start over. Her options and window to have a baby are closing. She's desperate to keep you. Her SMV is only going down. The fact that you want to divorce says it all. It's what your gut says. With no kids and 31, your SMV is only increasing. The easy answer is divorce and don't get played by her emotional games to stay.
/r/askMRP30/07/21 07:43 PM
1

Do what you want to do, whether it's paying for sex or finding some random girl that's not your wife. Either way, you should be comfortable with the idea that it may lead to divorce at some point. If you don't care whether you divorce or not, then there's your freedom. I had that mentality in my previous marriage, cheated, and I ended it. There are always consequences to cheating, no matter if it's paying for a hooker that is "low" risk. Even if you don't get caught, you'll know what you did. 16…
/r/askMRP24/07/21 10:59 PM
1

Killing yourself for a woman that left you is the ultimate blue pill and weak. If you don't have the mental strength and IDGAF attitude after a woman leaves you, then you are not red pill. It's not about shaming, it's a fact. If you have been married and divorced, I'm surprised that many of your points lack facts or rely on generalizations. As you have acknowledged, many of your points occur in LTRs as well. Marriage is just an LTR in a contract. The biggest downside is if you get divorced, you …
/r/TheRedPill17/07/21 12:44 AM
1

I have to disagree with some of those points: Only weak men kill themselves after divorce. If you are truly red pill, you won't a give shit. I was fine after my divorce and have already remarried. I initiated the divorce and went through mediation. While all divorces are not as amicable, some are. The interesting thing is that often times, when you marry, you pay less taxes because married filing jointly tax rates are lower than single rates. Also, each additional child that you have saves you m…
/r/TheRedPill16/07/21 04:06 AM
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Wtf was that. She's your mom and you were a good boy in redoing the laundry when she scolded you. My answer to her yelling at me would have been a simple no. If she doesn't like that, she can do it herself. Or, I DON'T GIVE A SHIT and laugh at her if she comes at you like that. You DEERed way too much and are entirely in her frame.
/r/askMRP25/06/21 06:42 PM
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I would argue that a vasectomy lowers your SMV. Women want the alpha seed in them. If you aren't able to provide that seed, then instinctively a woman may not want to be with you for long.
/r/askTRP22/06/21 07:10 PM
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No. You'll eventually not want to have sex with her and will most likely cheat. Don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:38 AM
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Why would you want to marry an ugly fatty. You'll eventually not want to have sex with her and cheat on her. Take it from someone who's been married twice.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 12:37 AM
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I have 50/50 with my ex-wife and I still pay child support but I made way more than her. Alimony for sure you could get. The divorce system is so biased against men that you are a rare example where you could financially benefit from the divorce. You should take full advantage of that. Right now you're thinking emotionally and want to save your marriage, but a few years from now when it's all said and done, you'll be happy you're getting money from her after she initiated the divorce and most li…
/r/askMRP18/06/21 06:32 PM
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Interesting thing is since she makes a lot more, you are entitled to some child support and alimony from her. Might as well force her to pay. My wife also wants more sex than me. She wants it daily and I'm good with 4 times a week. For me it's because I get tired of the same girl every day. Your difference is more extreme though. From the way you describe it, your situation is a total role reversal where she's the alpha female and you don't seem red pill at all. You should work on that in your n…
/r/askMRP17/06/21 06:38 PM
2

It depends. I've lived with my wife for 3 years and even after having a kid, she still wants to have sex with me daily. It's me that gets kind of tired of it. Just be red pill.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 01:14 AM
1

Jealousy over your parents not seeing your kids as much? You sound like a woman. You're living all up in your wife's frame and aren't red pill at all. Having 3 sisters and being surrounded by women probably made you think like them. Do what you want and who gives a shit what happens.
/r/askMRP11/06/21 01:54 AM
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I doubt that red pill has enough power to infiltrate all the blue pill men out there. It's a lot easier and socially acceptable to be blue pill. Red pill will continue to be out of the mainstream for the foreseeable future.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 07:02 PM
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I noticed many on asktrp focus on looks. I'd say as you get older, looks don't matter as much. That thinking is more of a girl's mentality. Focus more on having a good career where you make a lot of money, increasing your overall confidence, and living red pill principles. Those matter much more for your SMV than looks. That's not to say it's ok to be a fatass, but looks only get you so far.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 06:55 PM
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Mistake #1 - marrying a single mother. Mistake #2 - staying with her after she doesn't want you to touch her for a year. You're 35, have a good job, and you're SMV is growing. Life is too short not to have sex. Divorce now and you should easily find a different girl much better than her with no kids. Then be red pill as much as possible so your relationship doesn't go to shit like this one.
/r/askMRP08/06/21 03:51 AM
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I think it's a bad idea to LTR an ugly fatty. You'll lose interest in sex in the long term and you'll cheat on her anyway. If you LTR a 9 or 10, then sex is still good years later because your attraction basically stays.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 03:26 PM
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You should get divorced. With no kids it's a piece of cake. She would only want to stay with you for her visa. Any other woman in that situation would want a divorce. Cut all ties and move on, you're only 31.
/r/askMRP16/05/21 08:31 PM
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The red pill answer is switch jobs. Don't let some beta bitch boss you around. Move up high enough where your boss is COO or something like that and has too much going on to bother you. Then be the alpha leader to your staff. I'm in my late 30s and am in senior management. My boss is a busy executive. If you're going to be red pill, live it in all aspects of your life including your career.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 01:53 AM
1

Fertility is highest for girls in their 20s. Once they hit 30, it starts declining and by 35 it declines drastically. If you do stay with her, you should try to have kids now. If you wait too long and she has issues, you could be stuck with no kids. That's why younger girls pre-wall would be more of an advantage for you.
/r/askMRP27/04/21 07:07 PM
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The fact that you have her IG password shows that you're insecure. Stop mate guarding or your shit won't last. She's past the wall anyway and you're smv should be going up. Time to look for a younger girl any way if you want kids.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:19 PM
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I disagree. The guys that they are with sound like beta losers. If you have a high smv and maintain frame, in an LTR it's possible that they won't cheat.
/r/askTRP25/04/21 10:13 PM
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Listen to a subliminal that gives you supreme confidence. Even if you're a piece of shit, if you have a strong belief you are the prize, you will be. It's all in your mind. Once you have that, everything else will follow.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 08:31 AM
1

Sleep
/r/askTRP24/04/21 08:27 AM
2

A 45 year old is wrinkly inside whatever she's wearing. You're deluding yourself if you think she compares to a hot girl in her 20s.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 04:35 AM
2

I got divorced, remarried, and have 2 kids with different mothers so have some experience. I get the red pill teaches some things like low n count but I'd argue that a girl with a low n count is more likely to cheat because she hasn't had enough dick. I think an n count in the teens is fine. The only advice is to be the best version of yourself always and to keep your smv as high as possible. Always hold frame. That prevents any girl from cheating. Pick the hottest, smartest girl you can get and…
/r/askTRP24/04/21 04:31 AM
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Why would you want to LTR an old retard. If you want kids or a family, it's a waste of time. Still a waste of time if your reason is you just want to be in an LTR. Keep her as a plate.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:09 AM
0

You're still young and have time to improve your SMV. Living with your dad at 24 puts you at the bottom 20%. Any girl knowing that would see it as such. At least get your own apartment. Money is all relative depending on cost of living. On the west coast, 50k is nothing. If you live in the Midwest, that wouldn't be as bad, but still low to me. Looks matter less than income and game/confidence for a majority of girls. An average looking guy with a 6 figure income and good game would far surpass y…
/r/askTRP18/04/21 12:09 AM
2

Don't be a beta bitch and follow a woman to accomplish her dream. Have your own dream and do your own thing. That's basic red pill.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 10:32 PM
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Live with your dad and make 50k? Not even close in the top 20%. Having your own place and making a minimum 6 figures, then maybe you would be close to it.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 10:27 PM
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The wall matters more if you want kids. It's harder to have a child with a 34 year old vs a 29 year old. Fertility declines after 30. If you really want no kids, then the 34 year old might be a better choice simply because her window for kids is closing fast. A 29 year old most likely would still want kids.
/r/askMRP21/11/20 02:04 AM
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You will regret having sex with only one woman in your life, since you lost your virginity to her. No true red piller would marry the woman he lost his virginity too. Break up with her and go have sex with alot of girls. If she truly loves you she will wait for you in 5 years to get back together. What I red in your post is not purple pill. It is all blue pill.
/r/askTRP06/10/20 03:02 AM
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I would only think that you haven't been alpha enough for her to want to have sex with you. When my current wife was pregnant, she was hornier and wanted to have sex 1-2 times a day. It was me that didn't want it as much because who gets turned on by having sex with a fatty.
/r/askMRP06/10/20 02:42 AM
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I agree that you are your first priority over your kids. Kids should not come before yourself by red pill theory. From a different perspective, if my son came first, I wouldn't have divorced my ex-wife. Staying together for the kids is what alot of blue pill men do and is a real thing. Now I have another child with my current wife. I still come first. It is only when you are your best self that you can also give your best to support your kids.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/20 10:25 PM
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I was in a similar situation and actually did remarry and have a second child. Also in my late 30s. However, it wasn't my second goal to have a second family like you. I would have been fine not remarrying or having another kid. I had to vet my current wife and at all steps, she was the one chasing me, wanting it more than me. If that is your current goal, it'll show and make you look desperate. A few tips from a red pill perspective: Keep your SMV as high as possible. Even if you have a child, …
/r/askTRP26/09/20 06:17 PM
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I think you're missing the point from a red pill perspective. The whole alpha fux, beta bucks theory is that the alpha spreads the seed and the beta male or woman cares for the kids. When I divorced, I was fine with my ex-wife having primary custody of my child. I had more time for self improvement and picking up on girls while she did the child care. I couldn't do that if I had primary custody. I'm still the best father I can be to my son when I have him, and will teach him the red pill as he g…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/20 02:04 AM
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Brad Pitt has always been beta seeing as how he was bossed around by Angelina Jolie. If the girl was a plate then maybe it's ok. If she's a girlfriend then it's weak. You don't LTR girls with kids just to cuck yourself. It's even worse that she's still married. Girls like that are plates at most.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 04:16 AM
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If you were both on the same level then it wouldn't be an issue. Since you are her boss, you run into a lot of legal issues where she can claim sexual harassment even if it was consensual. Worst case, there's a lawsuit and you'd have to pay alot of money to resolve it. Since you are the owner, I suppose you couldn't be fired unless your business partner pushed you out somehow. If you want to pursue something with her, it would best for her to resign and then you avoid all the legal issues.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:33 PM
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That's the wrong mentality. Even if you have kids and are not married, once you confirm paternity, you will have to pay child support if the mother of your children requests for it. If you don't confirm paternity, then you have no parental rights with the kid. If you refuse to confirm paternity, the mother of the child can fight you in court and force you to, just so that she can get child support. The courts always favor the woman as you know. If you have multiple kids, then you'd be paying mor…
/r/askTRP20/08/20 01:20 AM
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I think you have to do what is best for you. If you don't feel like moving in, getting married, or having kids then don't. You're only 29 so have alot of time to do what you want. Don't get locked down if you have doubts about it.
/r/askMRP18/08/20 06:53 PM
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Don't get married. You would be doing it because others are pressuring you and she wants her green card. If your gut says no, then don't. It's easier to call off an engagement than waiting 10 years later with a child, going through a divorce, then having to pay child support till the child is 18. Who cares what everyone else thinks. What matters is what you think and how you envision your life to be. Plus you are only 27. You will be at your peak SMV in your mid 30s so you can take your time to …
/r/askMRP09/08/20 11:29 PM
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I was in a somewhat similar situation a few years ago. I was divorced and met a great girl, younger, attractive, no kids, and that was great with my child. After being in an LTR with her she also wanted to get married. The difference is in my gut I felt it was the right move so we did. I had no qualms or issues with her as you do with your current gf. Since you have been married, you know how it can end at any time when there are problems in the marriage. 4 years together means nothing. My advic…
/r/askTRP05/08/20 07:39 PM
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Your girlfriend acts like that mainly because you aren't being the captain that you should be. You are too concerned about fixing her and how she is, than fixing yourself. There's a lot of drama there though. Better to breakup before you have kids and marry her. The rule below applies in your situation. "Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root thr…
/r/askMRP01/08/20 12:31 AM
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In my blue pill days, my ex-wife called the cops on me once. I had to leave my own house. She always threatened to call the cops on me when an argument went bad after that. A person that does that has no respect for you. I should have divorced her ass a lot sooner than I did, but I stuck it out longer because my child was younger at the time. In your case, you're only 30 and have no kids. GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP NOW BEFORE YOU'RE MARRIED. You will be making the biggest mistake of your life m…
/r/askTRP30/07/20 07:19 PM
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I was in a similar situation. I got remarried to the LTR (younger girl with no kids) and just had another child with her, so my kids are half-siblings. My advice: Always be the prize. She has to chase you more, text you more, call you more, like you more than you do her. See 16 Commandments of Poon. Many guys in your situation will subconsciously think that she could do better given both your social situations. Wrong thinking. You can always do better than her. Side note, every divorced dad shou…
/r/askMRP22/07/20 07:28 PM
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First verify she is your daughter by getting a paternity test. You don't need the mom involved to do this. If she is your child, staying with someone for the child is the worst way to live. Don't do it. If you have sole or even 50% custody you won't have much of a dating life and less time to work on your mission. Let her take care of the child while you focus on you and have sex with whoever you want. The only downside to this situation is how your child will grow up. Welcome to the dilemma of …
/r/askTRP11/06/20 03:55 AM
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She's obviously fucking another guy since she just broke up out of nowhere. She's bad news. Look forward after the divorce to the rest of your life. Internalize red pill principles to prevent this from happening again to you. Be the best father you can be when you are with your kids. Anyways shes 37 way passed the wall and you're only 33. You can easily find a younger hotter girl. Improve your SMV and your life will only get better.
/r/askMRP03/02/20 06:59 AM
1

I got married in my mid twenties for the wrong reasons. After a child and 10 years later, I got divorced. At the time I married, I felt in my gut it wasn't the right move but did it anyway. I'm now in my late 30s and engaged to a younger girl that in my gut I know feels right. However, with my new red pill lens, I'm taking it a day at a time as I know anything can happen. My advice is to listen to your gut and break up before the marriage. Don't worry about what your family or her family will th…
/r/askMRP02/02/20 01:19 AM
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My ex-wife did something similar running up $12k debt without me knowing. It was one of the reasons I divorced her. It indicates a lack of respect. However, as others have said, it is a failure of not being the leader. That is something I have improved on in my current relationship.
/r/askMRP15/12/19 02:03 AM
2

Get a night guard if you grind your teeth at night. It will prevent TMJ.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/19 08:30 PM
2

The obvious answer is to divorce especially since you have no kids. It's not that difficult. The red pill is amoral. Cheat if you want to cheat. However, a lot of guys on here will give you shit because they themselves don't have the sack to cheat on their wives while their wives give them zero respect and no sex. Any wife that does that, doesn't deserve to be faithful to. Fuck as many girls as you want. Having been in both situations of doing the cheating and divorcing though, the guilt and you…
/r/askMRP30/11/19 02:25 AM
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From some of the comments on this thread, don't get a vasectomy and emasculate yourself. Your SMV would instantly go down. Instead, get your wife to do a tubal ligation. Rollo touches on vasectomies among other things in his latest post: https://therationalmale.com/2019/11/15/unconscious-contempt/
/r/askMRP23/11/19 06:05 PM
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It is difficult after you had amazing sex with a hot young girl to return to bad sex with your not so good looking wife. You have 3 options. 1) Be faithful and continue having dismal sex with your ugly wife. 2) Continue being married and cheat on her secretly with hot young girls so you get the sex you want. 3) Divorce her to get the sex that you want with whoever you want. Personally, I'd choose 2 or 3.
/r/askMRP20/10/19 04:55 PM
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Sounds a bit high. I'd advise you to see a lawyer. They have this caculator that can give you an estimate. If you have the kids 30% of the time, probably $1300 child support. Alimony could be $2100 for half the time you were married if it was a short term marriage under 10 years. That would be closer to $3400 a month. If you own the house, consider selling it and with the equity give her a part of your portion to substantially reduce the monthly alimony payment.
/r/askMRP16/10/19 03:29 AM
1

You should clean your car if that's your plan. You cleaning her car is BS, especially after she rejected you. Reward good behavior and punish bad behavior. She should be cleaning her own car. Who cares how she views you. If you want to live in your frame, stop caring so how much how she will view you as if you are looking for mommy's approval.
/r/askMRP14/10/19 06:54 PM
1

I think you need a DNA test to confirm your young kids are biologically yours.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 07:24 PM
7

That's awesome. My LTR calls me daddy too mainly during sex. I go with it and tell her she's been a good girl and fuck her hard. It makes her super wet. It's a dominant, submissive thing. Take that dominant role and it will carry over in all aspects of your relationship. To me a dominant, submissive relationship takes the red pill captain/first officer model to the next level.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 07:19 PM
2

From your other comments, that is a pure physical affair. Divorce takes 6 months anyway once you initiate to become final. Sounds more to me you are trying to reason your way to delay the inevitable divorce because you fear it, after she completed disrespected and cuckolded you.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 07:14 PM
15

The fact that you were checking her phone weekly tells me you're insecure. That is not what a high value alpha would do. You should consider working on your SMV and analyze how you were in the relationship. You may not have been coming off as the leader or captain, hence why she was looking to possibly branch swing.
/r/askTRP08/10/19 07:04 PM
3

So you are 35 at your prime, SMV increasing. She's 37 way passed the wall, single mother with 2 kids that are not your own. She wants to leave. From a strict red pill perspective she cuckolded you by having you spend your financial resources raising children that are not your own. Time to grab your sack and divorce. Your life will be so much better while hers will go to shit. Don't be the white knight that continues to save her.
/r/askMRP02/10/19 01:20 AM
3

Congrats on your divorce and doing what's best for you. I was in a similar situation. My advice is to be as red pill as possible in your dating and any LTR you will have in the future. Keep your SMV as high as you can. Try to avoid single moms and date girls with no children to avoid that drama. While you may have kids that she will have to deal with, it is perfectly within your right to not date someone with kids. Anyone that you get into an LTR with, must respect your children and be ok with y…
/r/askMRP29/09/19 04:33 PM
2

The fact that she's 22 or so and wanting to party with a sick child at home says it all. I predict at some point you will break up, and it'll be better for you. You got stuck in this situation too young. The situation of not being with the mother of your child isn't so bad and it happens all the time.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 04:04 PM
1

16 Commandments of Poon, never be afraid to lose her. You fear divorce so much, she has you by the balls. Once you lose that fear and have outcome independence, you will cease to be within her frame. Otherwise she will continue to control you with such threats.
/r/askMRP26/09/19 06:17 AM
2

SMV is not only about lifting and looks. A large part of it is confidence and having a red pill mindset/frame. Your post tells me you have low confidence and most likely lack frame. You are chasing her and probably are acting more beta than you know. It's obvious because if you were a high SMV alpha, she would be all over you wanting to move in, get married, and have your kids. The fact that she is "slowing things down" tells me her hypergamy is kicking in and she's waiting for a branch swing to…
/r/askMRP26/09/19 06:02 AM
3

As a 29 year old, your first mistake was to marry a single mom. It is hard to believe that she got pregnant after one time of having sex in a month. It is more likely it's Chad's kid. Take a paternity test or do 23andme.com/ ancestry.com to determine if you are the father. Despite this, since you are married, most US states will make you the legal father. If the child is not your biological child, you will need to take her to court to undo that and it's not a guarantee. If it is your child, be a…
/r/askMRP21/09/19 10:35 PM
1

I actively visit both. Even though the TRP crowd is younger, I find that they are tougher in applying red pill principles in an LTR. Everyone on MRP should also visit TRP because it's educational. MRP is specialized in LTRs and how to use the red pill to improve your lives in a LTR. However, some of the stuff on here is a bit more beta than I would prefer. While having some beta is good, I think 80% of behaviors should be more alpha in a relationship to sustain it long term for the man's satisfa…
/r/askMRP14/09/19 11:05 PM
3

You have to take the lead in this situation instead of being a doormat. After I separated from my ex-wife, I filed divorce and initiated mediation talks. I also told her we were selling the house, which we sold a few months later. You are being indecisive because you don't want to let go of your old life. Don't use your kids as an excuse to be a cuckold. It's time for you to man up and move on.
/r/askMRP14/09/19 10:56 PM
2

You did too much DEERing and not enough fogging, AA, and STFU. You definitely shouldn't have apologized as it made you look weaker. You should only apologize for cheating or something similarly bad aka 16 commandments of poon. You must be displaying low value since she is shit testing you a lot and you argue constantly. Her view is that your SMV is lower than hers.
/r/askMRP10/09/19 07:10 PM
1

STFU and complying to what she says after she commands you to do something is definitely not the right answer. You are basically obeying her like a good little boy. First, giving you a command without asking nicely (with a "please" or in the form of a request such as "can you" ) shows a lack of respect for you. She sees herself as your mom similar to how a parent gives orders to a child. As a red pill man, that shit isn't acceptable and needs to be addressed with her. You have to change that per…
/r/askMRP06/09/19 09:14 PM
2

I was a single father after a divorce with one child, and had no problem getting high quality girls without children. In fact, I only focused on girls with no children. I'm currently in an LTR with a 9 who had no kids of her own. She treats my son very well because she wants to make me happy. The advice I would give is improve your SMV as much as possible. From your posts, you lack confidence. Confidence makes a big difference. Follow the 16 Commandments of Poon. Your advantage is that you are s…
/r/askTRP04/09/19 06:55 PM
2

I was in a similar situation and I'd say definitely test. If you are going to spend the rest of your life financially and emotionally supporting that child, you owe it to yourself to definitively know that is your child. You have two options. Option 1, covertly without her knowing do it with a simple paternity test you can buy at any drugstore. Option 2, do 23andme, ancestry, or a similar website. Tell her you are doing it to test you and your child's ethnicity and background. Suggest she do it …
/r/askTRP05/08/19 09:33 PM
2

I understand where you're coming from and thought about this issue a lot. Since I've been red pill the last few years, in my LTR, I had to learn how best to respond to these small compliance requests while still holding frame. As others have said, if you're on top of leading and doing things on your own, you will receive less of these requests. ​ The first thing is, my LTR knows that if she wants me to do something, she has to ask nicely mostly with a please as a request, not a command. The mome…
/r/askMRP04/07/19 05:50 AM
1

Cooking for some girl is beta. Have her cook for you.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:25 PM
5

I agree with everything except don't get why you want to open all doors for her. That does come off as white knight beta. She can open her own damn door sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:20 PM
2

Your mentality is such that it won't work in the long run. This idea that she is out of your league is anti-red pill. At 37, you would be at the apex of your SMV. At 26, while her SMV is good, she will be hitting the wall and her SMV will decrease. Always go into a LTR with the mentality that you are prize and the catch. If you don't do this, she will sense this and will eventually leave.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 06:29 PM
1

Read the rational male book.
/r/askTRP16/06/19 06:44 AM
2

No such thing as plate her with no emotions if you had oneitis for her. Best to move on.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 02:56 AM
1

She is definitely not LTR material. You caught oneitis. She canceled dates with you to be with him. If she saw you as a higher value male, she wouldn't jeopardize what she has with you to be with him. Either increase your SMV or next her.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 01:16 AM
2

Red pill theory isn't just about being physically fit. A more important aspect is acting more alpha and having that leadership mentality. Take the lead and live in your frame in all aspects with women. Looks can only take you so far. That trumps beta game every time.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 01:11 AM
1

I like to use a condom and withdraw. Statistically, using two methods of contraception like above give an above 99% effective rate of preventing pregnancy if used correctly.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 06:54 PM
3

She cheated on you. Your marriage is done. Divorce and get an annulment through the catholic church. Life gets better after divorce.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 06:52 PM
1

The key is to treat the hot girls like shit, as if they are a lot lower SMV than you. Then it'll work out.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 05:16 AM
4

I don't know who Anthony Johnson is and have never heard of the Red man group until I saw posts about it on this forum. I think there are a lot of people like me that aren't too deep into the red pill community to know what is going on or the drama related to this convention. I learned most of my red pill theory from Chateau Heartiste and Rollo. I lived by CH's 16 Commandments of Poon for the past few years while learning more about what red pill was about. I just finished reading all 3 of Rollo…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 12:41 AM
1

The sexual strategy of a woman is to have a child with the best genes man. If you have a vasectomy and she finds out, this lowers your SMV. She will most likely leave you for a higher value man that can give her said genes in a child. The important thing to note is that this sexual strategy, hypergamy, is all on a subconscious level. Why handicap yourself.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 03:35 AM
5

If you start fucking huge fatties just to have abundance, there is an issue there. I see a few problems with it: -would you even be able to get hard? That would be a real issue if you're used to fucking good looking girls. -she might try to lock you down by finding a way of getting herself pregnant if you are 3+ SMV points higher than her. I can see how this may work when you are just starting game to gain that abundance mentality. Once you internalize game and have abundance, it isn't necessary…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/19 03:27 AM
15

Below 30, a healthy girl has decent fertility. It starts decreasing between 30 to 35. After 35 it is difficult for women to get pregnant as their fertility drops drastically. The wall is at 30 mainly for this reason.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/19 11:41 PM
3

1 out of 3.5 billion women and he was lucky? That is classic beta You are the prize not her. Go read the rational male and learn some red pill theory.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/19 03:25 AM
1

You have a scarcity mindset which is why you think you can't find someone else. Time to move on as she hits the wall, and your SMV increases. I bet she will come running back after you break up with her.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:11 AM
3

Your post is about oneitis and saying you are lucky to be with her. Anti-red pill.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 06:33 PM
1

I believe you are not being the alpha or captain of your ship. She is dominant and you're living in her frame. If she saw you as the prize, she would not give you shit about your son. If she saw you as having a higher SMV, she wouldn't risk pissing you off by complaining about your son. Red pill theory states that the sexual strategy of a woman is to mate with the highest status man. This is regardless if he has children or not. The idea of her being cuckolded is nonsense and only applies to men…
/r/askMRP05/06/19 04:37 AM
1

Follow CH's 16 commandments of poon as a general guideline to red pill until you learn more.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:10 AM
1

Who cares. Are you in the friendzone and it hurts you somehow? Get over it.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:08 AM
1

She is not LTR material if she becomes roommates with guys. Don't be a chump.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:07 AM
2

No. Stop trying to be a white knight. It's one thing if it was your girl, but it wasn't. You just made the boyfriend look weak as hell. But who cares.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 06:04 AM
3

You're the alpha fuck. However, doesn't seem like she sees you as high enough SMV to want to be in an LTR. Enjoy it while it lasts.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 05:48 AM
2

He's gone.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 05:42 AM
4

You're too young and your status is low. She's going to branch swing soon. Hypergamy is a bitch. Fuck her now, but it isn't going to be long term.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 05:38 AM
2

Doesn't seem like LTR potential if she's still dating her ex. That's your answer.
/r/askTRP02/06/19 05:36 AM
1

I got married at 25 and now am in my late 30s. I see for myself that I was an idiot for marrying early. I wish I would have taken the red pill back then. Post divorce my life is so much better. I have learned from the error of my blue pill ways. So yes you're an idiot for marrying young. Deal with it. Life's best teacher is learning from your mistakes.
/r/askMRP02/06/19 05:27 AM
-5

Nope don't apologize. From CH's 16 commandments of poon: ​ VIII. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary Do not say you’re sorry for every wrong thing you do. It is a posture of submission that no man should reflexively adopt, no matter how alpha he is. Apologizing increases the demand for more apologies. She will come to expect your contrition, like a cat expects its meal at a set time each day. And then your value will lower in her eyes. Instead, if you have done something wrong, you s…
/r/TheRedPill02/06/19 05:20 AM
1

Definitely have a paternity test or do 23andme.com or ancestry.com. I did that on my offspring and it feels good to know you're not wasting your money and time raising someone else's kid.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/19 05:14 AM
3

Not only are you a cuckold, she wears the pants in the relationship. Never date single moms if you can help it. Leave the relationship and work on self improvement.
/r/askMRP01/06/19 07:05 AM
1

No such thing as connection after one date. Cut that oneitis shit out. From an outside viewpoint, you were more a friend than anything since you didn't close. She is the alpha in this situation and you're the beta pining over her
/r/TheRedPill30/05/19 06:56 PM
1

Cheating while immoral is not beta. Calling it a cowardly act sounds like some white knight beta shit. Red pill is amoral. Time to plate her and move on if the sex isn't doing it for you.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 06:33 PM
7

Betas mate guard because they're insecure. Your value will lower in her eyes the more you do it. A high value alpha doesn't need to mate guard because he is the prize and a girl wouldn't want to mess that relationship up. If your girl is covertly trying to meet other guys, her hypergamy is in action, and it means you have to increase your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 06:39 AM
4

So Chateau Heartiste is banned and silenced. Roosh has decided to stop writing about game and red pill theories. That leaves Rollo as one of the last famous major proponents of the red pill. It makes you wonder if red pill ideas can survive in the coming decades for the next generation of young men. ​ I myself am Christian, as I'm sure many are that have come to learn of the red pill. In my opinion, Roosh has taken too harsh a turn to abandon red pill principles for Christianity. The two can coe…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/19 06:33 AM
1

LDRs are the worst and don't work. Read a copy of the Rational Male.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 06:12 AM
1

Actually in a way, while she was emotional, she acted more alpha than you. A man orders you to do something and you politely comply to him. She says fuck that and tells him off. Betas avoid confrontation while alphas don't. It is also disrespectful to you because she disregarded you and did the opposite of how you were handling the situation. She doesn't see you as the alpha.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 06:59 PM
6

A submissive would agree with everything she says to please her. He wouldn't disagree to avoid confrontation.
/r/askTRP22/05/19 06:35 PM
2

As much as you would like to think that your ex hasn't kissed or slept with anyone else since you broke up, I highly doubt it.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:03 PM
2

The fact that you don't find her pretty is a big red flag. If you upgrade her to a wife, you will eventually regret it and cheat on her. While she has a lot of great qualities, there's not much you can do if you don't find her physically attractive. A high value guy can easily pull a girl with a 5 SMV and basically make her a slave. Does that mean this happens often? No because they go for higher SMV girls.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 07:00 PM
1

You shouldn't be concerned about what she did that long ago. You're main concern is that she doesn't do that to you. The issue is she sees you as that beta provider and you have to up the alpha.
/r/askMRP20/05/19 05:40 AM
11

I disagree. If you are submissive to her sexually, she will not take you seriously as being dominant. You show your weakness, and her hypergamy will kick in once a true alpha comes around. To be submissive sexually is to be blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/19 05:27 AM
3

I think you should start looking and find a job before the start-up closes.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 06:29 PM
1

You don't lose a girl due to texting for logistics only. There's more to this story and other reasons why you lost her. The fact that you caught oneitis for her is probably the most telling reason why it didn't work out.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 06:20 PM
5

Best type of submissive girl. You should have manned up and handled that.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:42 AM
1

She's a fatty good riddance.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:40 AM
0

Don't get in her frame. Tell her it's my dick not yours and smile at her. Then pull her hair. Amused mastery.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:37 AM
2

If she's going out a lot with her friends to party late at night, she's already fucking Chad.
/r/askMRP17/05/19 03:28 AM
1

The higher SMV girls will do it more to gauge your SMV because she gets more male attention. The tests are to see which male is of highest value. The best thing you can do is pass all the shit tests so her desire for you increases.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 07:08 PM
3

It's obvious you're in her frame. ​ XVI. Never be afraid to lose her You must not fear. Fear is the love-killer. Fear is the ego-triumph that brings abject loneliness. You will face your fear. You will permit it to pass over and through you. And when your ego-fear is gone you will turn and face your lover, and only your heart will remain. You will walk away from her when she has violated your integrity, and you will let her walk when her heart is closed to you. She who can destroy you, controls …
/r/askMRP13/05/19 06:02 AM
1

Sad for your friend. Give him a copy of the rational male book.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 05:50 AM
2

It's a sad day. I lived by the 16 Commandments of Poon when I first learned about red pill.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/19 04:58 AM
1

You're initiating, calling, and texting way too much. You're the prize. You have to back off and let her come to you.
/r/askMRP04/05/19 03:52 AM
-2

Wikipedia is an unreliable source. Some studies have shown it to be up to 30% so my statement is not inaccurate. Definitely of all DNA tests taken it is up to 30%. I prefer peer reviewed journals: https://jech.bmj.com/content/59/9/749 Paternal discrepancy (PD) occurs when a child is identified as being biologically fathered by someone other than the man who believes he is the father. This paper examines published evidence on levels of PD and its public health consequences. Rates vary between stu…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/19 09:53 PM
0

Yes of those that have a paternity test, 30% are not the biological father. I would argue if a DNA test was not performed, how did they validate those statistics. Also, anyone can be a source on Wikipedia meaning a feminist could have provided that analysis. Our society is run by the feminine imperative, so paternity testing runs against this. The fact remains you can't be 100% certain unless you test.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/05/19 07:50 PM
1

Never get back with an ex. She doesn't sound like a gf anymore, more like a fwb. Next her.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 10:12 PM
1

She cheated on you. You acted super beta chasing her and getting angry for her branch swinging. Learn some red pill principles before you post that nonsense.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 10:03 PM
1

Giving her attention. Letting her give you a blowjob and allowing her to swallow your cum. Yes I'm being serious.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 09:45 PM
5

Confirm through a DNA test that she is your daughter. If she isn't, you're off the hook. If she is, be the best parent you can be to her with as little contact with your ex as possible. Only talk to your ex about topics related to your daughter. Call or text your daughter directly if she's old enough.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 07:42 PM
5

I initiated my divorce because I was tired of her. I think there's a good portion of men like me that do this.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 07:38 PM
4

This comment is BS and feminist thinking. You have no business commenting on a red pill discussion forum.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 09:46 PM
1

Yes. I dated during my divorce proceedings. All you can do is be honest with girls that you meet. I upgraded to a younger girl in her late 20s with no kids. I have no regrets about my divorce and still feel it was the right move.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 09:12 PM
1

From a pure red pill perspective, adoption is raising another man's child. It is anti-red pill. My advice is to have a child with your DNA or don't have another one at all.
/r/askMRP25/04/19 02:21 AM
2

I certainly agree that contractual marriage is bad for men. I myself didn't come out so well financially in my divorce. However, to present an opposing view to think about, if a man has a child with his girlfriend, he is still on the hook for child support if they break up. That is similar to divorce from an ex-wife. The main financial difference would then be any alimony and split of retirement accounts or properties that would come from a divorce. If that is the case, marrying a woman that mak…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 08:49 PM
6

Never date single moms is basic red pill advice.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 08:24 PM
-8

From your previous posts, she's 38. Fertility drastically decreases after 35. It could easily be her issue. My question is you have two kids already. Why would you be so desperate to use someone else's sperm or adopt for a 3rd child. You literally will be accepting of supporting someone else's child, aka beta bux. Don't be that loser.
/r/askMRP23/04/19 08:17 PM
2

Your wife pushes you around and bitch slaps you like nothing. That's what happens when you marry crazy. It's your fault for letting it get to that point. You'll have a long road ahead.
/r/askMRP23/04/19 05:58 AM
1

Your post sounds like you're trying to convince us to advise you to marry her. The reality is she's a 7 and you haven't pulled the trigger because you know deep down you don't want to marry her. You will know in your gut who is the right person to bite the bullet and propose to and it's not her.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 05:38 AM
1

You can use whatever reason you want. The bottom line is it works and gets the job done. Alternatively, pay $100 for an at home paternity test and swab your child without her knowing. I have confirmed my paternity of my offspring and can tell you it's a good feeling to know that you are financially supporting your own kids and not being some beta bux fuck.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 05:03 PM
25

Maybe you had a strong mom and are looking for a mother figure. The problem with such girls is there will be a power struggle and if you're not alpha enough, you would be the beta in a relationship. It's not a good place to be in if you are truly red pill.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 06:50 AM
1

Most people that do it, use it for their whole family to have a family tree and track ancestors. I doubt she would suspect it unless you have given her reason to think you doubt your child's paternity.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 06:47 AM
1

It would be great if these total blue pill posters like the above would at least try to learn some red pill principles before posting nonsense like this. It is actually insulting to this forum unless they are purposely trolling.
/r/askMRP19/04/19 06:38 AM
1

I think as much as possible, don't date single mothers. That is one of the red pill tenets. I'm in my late 30s, with a child and divorced. My current LTR had no kids when I met her and is in her late 20s, SMV 9. Having a strong red pill game is everything.
/r/askTRP18/04/19 07:26 PM
19

I agree, get a paternity test on all your children. 23andme and ancestry.com for you and your kids offer DNA tests that determine ethnicity but have an added plus of confirming paternity. Tell your wife or gf that you want to know about your ancestry and she won't even know.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/19 06:53 PM
1

You are so beta and in her frame. Start learning some red pill ideas before you come to this discussion board with that nonsense. Even if she wanted to have kids she probably couldn't. Fertility decreases drastically after 35 and that egg frozen thing doesn't make it easier. Divorce her and find someone younger to start new.
/r/askMRP10/04/19 07:07 PM
2

First get a paternity test to confirm it is your child. If it is, coparent with her but don't be with her. Get some plates until you meet someone LTR quality if that's what you want to do.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 07:28 PM
1

I think you should divorce and let the chips fall as they may. I get that guys can be in a shitty marriage and have plates on the side. But once it gets to the point of you wanting to be with another girl other than your wife, the course of action is to divorce as your wasting your time in a dead end marriage.
/r/askMRP08/04/19 07:33 PM
2

Well it's not alpha to be the maid of the house when she does nothing. Saying you will lead by example and clean everything for her lazy ass sounds like a beta justification to clean for her. At the very least try not to do feminine chores. I told my girl she has to do the dishes and cook because I'm not doing it. That's how I lead and she does it .
/r/askMRP06/04/19 05:35 PM
1

Stop being a pussy and leave her. Who cares what she will feel. Time to man up and start over
/r/askMRP04/04/19 09:41 PM
2

I think all fathers of children that are supposedly theirs should test their children for paternity. Rollo and CH had some good articles on this. No matter how much you think or believe that your gf or wife has not cheated, you cannot guarantee it. There will always be a small question in the back of your head about paternity. You are investing significant financial resources to support the child so it is to your own benefit.
/r/askMRP03/04/19 07:30 PM
2

Telling is more alpha red pill. Asking gives her the power and puts you in a more beta position. It does depend on the context, but I like to say "let's go do this" rather than "do you want to do this?"
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:06 PM
1

This post is pathetic.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 07:07 PM
1

You showed weakness in the hospital and opening up to her. Once women see weakness they lose interest.
/r/askTRP31/03/19 02:30 AM
3

The wall is 30. Fertility is best below 30. At 35, fertility drastically falls. Not being as fertile to have children lowers SMV.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 07:04 PM
3

Your mate guarding jealousy was very beta and anti-Red pill. The baby is most likely his. You should get a paternity test to verify. If the child isn't yours you should file for divorce.
/r/askMRP28/03/19 06:56 PM
0

I had recently started meditating, but an unintended consequence is your third eye will open. When it does, you may start hearing and seeing things in the 4th dimension that can be interpreted as ghosts. From a Christian perspective, this can make you more susceptible to demons attacking you. This is why Christianity forbids this type of meditation where you clear and focus your mind. I believe meditation does help, but this consequence is something to consider. I've stopped meditating as a resu…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 06:54 PM
1

35, still young, your SMV is going higher. She's probably same age so she's past the wall, her SMV is going down. You have no kids so no child support. Stop being an idiot and divorce to get someone better.
/r/askMRP11/03/19 07:12 PM
0

There's no such thing as a platonic female friend. They are either a one night stand, a plate, or relationship material. Stop acting like a beta orbiter.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 06:59 PM
3

To me CH's 16 Commandments of Poon is the red pill Bible because all apply in different situations. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/ X. Ignore her beauty The man who trains his mind to subdue the reward centers of his brain when reflecting upon a beautiful female face will magically transform his interactions with women. His apprehension and self-consciousness will melt away, paving the path for more honest and self-possessed interactions with the objects of his …
/r/askTRP11/03/19 06:46 PM
1

10k isn't much more and it isn't worth it. If we were talking 30k or more than it would have been worthwhile.
/r/askMRP06/03/19 08:24 PM
17

Such a beta move.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 08:22 PM
3

This post is so anti-red pill. Mate guarding is beta. Getting mad at her for going out with her friends is beta. Over-texting her is beta. She's acting like the man here. She doesn't respect you because of your betaness and is probably fucking someone else already.
/r/askMRP03/03/19 05:35 PM
13

Don't eat as much and you will lose weight fast. I calorie count and try to eat a max of 2,000 calories a day. Works well for me. Burn more calories than you eat. If you run for 10 minutes you burn 100 calories. If you drink a can of coke it's 150 calories. That +50 calories goes to your stomach. Faster way to lose weight is to fast rather than work out. Ideally, doing both works best.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/19 08:04 PM
1

Good post. When I first learned RP, I started seeing all requests as compliance tests in my LTR. I'd tell her no for a lot of minor stuff. I've learned sometimes she has reasonable requests. I believe she should still be doing more for you in terms of requests. I still tell her no sometimes. Better to act like a jerk occasionally than to be a bitch. Makes them want you more.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/19 04:12 AM
2

I know your beta because after she missed her flight from being drunk, you went to go pick up her bags in a different city like a good boy. She trained you well.
/r/askMRP14/02/19 03:59 AM
1

You shouldn't talk about anything with your ex unless it's about your kids. No contact as much as possible. If you ever get a new LTR, she's just going to mess it up with how you interact with her.
/r/askMRP14/02/19 03:43 AM
0

To me having a vasectomy is anti-Red pill. A man's biological purpose is to procreate, whether you want to or not. It drops your alphaness down a notch if you can't do this. The simple fact that you could get a girl pregnant makes your SMV higher to girls. If you've had a vasectomy, you can pretend and not tell the girl, but you're only kidding yourself. That's what condoms, pulling out, and having your girl swallow your cum is for.
/r/askMRP07/02/19 07:46 PM
1

She's treating you like a child. Grab your sack and man up. Then consider leaving her.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 07:57 PM
1

Your whole interaction comes off as she is the alpha and you are the beta. You need to flip that dynamic.
/r/askMRP04/02/19 07:53 PM
1

After the age of 35, women's fertility decreases drastically. She really may not be able to have children at her age. It is something to consider if you are fine not having kids the rest of your life, or you're ok with adoption.
/r/askMRP09/01/19 08:13 PM
1

I think some of you are getting mixed up with semantics. In operant conditioning, a negative punishment is removing a reward to decrease bad behaviors. So it is correctly stated as punishing when removing a reward. I am a strong support of using this in an LTR. Rewarding good behavior by giving attention, and giving negative punishment by withdrawing and ignoring her when she does stuff you don't like. You don't call her out on something she did unless she does something really wrong. If you fol…
/r/askMRP29/12/18 10:04 PM
3

I never understand men that have no kids and stay in a bad marriage. Divorce!! Your life will be so much better.
/r/askMRP02/12/18 07:05 PM
1

If an employee does a poor job, the boss doesn't automatically take over and do the job. The boss corrects the bad work ethic through counseling. You are effectively enabling her bad behavior and teaching her that if she does something badly, she is rewarded by you taking over the chore. It would be better as the leader to guide her and teach her to cook better. That would be the more alpha approach.
/r/askMRP01/12/18 08:44 PM
1

I wouldn't characterize doing all the cooking as high value. Cooking can be thought of as more a woman's chore and comes off as beta to me. Red pill theory advocates doing more manly chores.
/r/askMRP30/11/18 08:24 PM
2

You should try mediation if you are on the same page. Since you have a prenup, she might agree and you avoid the mess of a courtroom with lawyers. My divorce was quick, cheap, and sweet doing it that way. As far as not having your child around people she dates, I get why you want that, but it's not something you can control. In my situation, my son met my current gf fairly early and my ex-wife's current bf when it was still in the process. As long as you're the best father when you have your chi…
/r/askMRP13/11/18 08:39 PM
12

More likely than not, your wife is cheating on you. You complaining to her about her flirting is the weakest beta move and makes her turned off even more. You need to alpha up and be ready to leave her.
/r/askMRP04/11/18 05:36 PM
1

Life is too short to be in a marriage without sex. Have the sex with the other girl and be prepared to divorce if your wife finds out.
/r/askMRP04/11/18 06:30 AM
1

Life is too short to be with a wife that won't have sex with you. Start having sex with the potential plates. Be ready to divorce if your wife finds out.
/r/askMRP04/11/18 06:24 AM
1

If you don't have kids, leave and start dating. If you do, you have more to consider. The fact that you are cheating says you're not too into her.
/r/askMRP22/10/18 10:38 PM
2

Mistake #1 is rewarding her bad behavior by taking her out to eat when she's been ignoring you. This will enable her ignoring of you more. ​ Mistake #2 is not following CH's commandment #5. You contacting her more than she contacts you shows her that she is of higher value than you: ​ "V. Adhere to the golden ratio Give your woman 2/3 of everything she gives you. For every three calls or texts, give her two back. Three declarations of love earn two in return. Three gifts; two nights out. Give he…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/18 10:35 PM
1

Your weakest beta move was lying about who you voted for. Own who you are and don't lie just to get a girl's approval.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 10:16 PM
2

Anyone that wants to red pill should follow CH's 16 Commandments of Poon. It incorporates all the major tenets of how to be: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
/r/askTRP06/10/18 06:46 PM
1

The only reason I could see why you haven't divorced her yet is because you have a kid. If you don't have kids, you should have divorced her a long time ago.
/r/askMRP30/09/18 06:59 PM
3

Pre-red pill I would have said she was still a decent catch and would have been open to dating such a younger woman with a child. Post-red pill I realize the error in my thinking. As much as possible, I'd stay away from dating younger women with children. No reason to be a cuckold if you can avoid it.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:33 PM
2

She doesn't give you sex. Don't make the mistake of marrying her. You did nothing wrong because a man needs sex.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 05:10 AM
2

Other than the DEERing, I think you did nothing wrong. If she wants to keep you, she should get on her knees to give you a BJ. Throw in some dread to help.
/r/askMRP24/09/18 05:08 AM
0

Maybe you're bi and only by drinking, it's coming out. Isn't that the real question here? The only threesome you should be having is with 2 girls.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:01 AM
1

If your wife would say you are equal, then you are effectively an alpha and leader in your own mind, but possibly not in reality. That may make you feel better, but doesn't change the truth. It does feel good to be a legend in your own mind. In fact her saying you are equal means she DOES have the ultimate authority because she doesn't recognize yours. If your wife acknowledges that you are the boss and DOES follow and submit to you, that is the state of being a true captain and alpha. If you ca…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/18 11:42 PM
1

Your natural informal system has no basis in formal structure. Even if your petty officer exhibits alpha traits, there is no guarantee that anyone would follow this person as he has no official authority. He will just be thought of as a rebel that people will disregard. You should act like the captain or leader over your wife, but if this is not understood by your wife, then what power do you really have. I bet if many try to follow this and people ask their wives who is the boss in the relation…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/18 05:39 PM
2

I disagree. Picard is appointed captain by starfleet because he does have leadership traits. Riker also could be captain but defers to Picard since he's captain, following the chain of command. Indeed in some episodes, Riker is the captain of other ships. Likewise in a marriage, some wives are independent and can lead if needed. However, if the wife understands the ultimate authority belongs to the husband, or captain, she will defer to him. Definitely acting like a leader helps cement this. If …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/18 02:30 AM
1

I don't know why most people's responses to pitiful posts like this is to lift. I would say lifting is not the priority. If one has inner confidence and game, your physical fitness means nothing unless you're a fat slob. Become more alpha, man up, have your own mission in life, get your career back in order, and stop being pathetic. She cheated and has no respect for you. Time for you to leave and move on.
/r/askMRP23/09/18 02:10 AM
2

When you don't have sex anymore, become just like roommates, and generally aren't happy with her.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 03:48 AM
2

Stop being a beta and divorce already. You'll be much happier in the long run. You don't have kids so less complications. Enough said.
/r/askMRP21/09/18 03:45 AM
1

You probably became all beta after you committed. Follow CH's 16 Commandments of Poon in an LTR and you will keep her hooked. It's gold. https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/
/r/askTRP14/09/18 06:54 PM
1

No sex in 4 years? Divorce.
/r/askMRP12/09/18 08:13 PM
1

You've only had one girl in your life? Don't be a chump and get more girls before you settle down.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 07:20 PM
1

Normally I would say divorce, but 2 things. She's pregnant and it was texting and not actual sex. If it was actual sex, then it's different. I'd say try to work it out.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 07:17 PM
0

You didn't do anything that bad. She's treating you like a child. Man up and don't take that crap from her. Be the alpha.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 07:12 PM
2

Leave her. The more time you waste the more you will be miserable.
/r/askMRP08/09/18 07:08 PM
2

She cheated and crapped on you. Have some self respect, get divorced, and move on. You are correct when you say you're too beta.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 06:57 PM
2

Divorce her. Life is too short to be miserable.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/18 02:44 AM
2

Your gf is acting like the alpha and you're failing her shit tests, DEERing too much.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 08:45 PM
1

You have a thing for milfs seeing as how you mention one and your wife was one when you met her. You should start running dread and making her jealous. She's not attracted enough to you at this point.
/r/askMRP26/08/18 05:26 AM
2

Oral sex is a beta act. Much like a girl on her knees giving a BJ, a guy on his knees eating a girl out can be viewed as submissive. I don't see that as a problem if she doesn't want it. Maybe she's turned off by a man in a submissive position. I myself do it only occasionally to my gf, when she's been a good girl. Her on the other hand gives me BJs almost every time. A dominant, alpha shouldn't be eating out a girl every time they have sex.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 03:15 AM
1

If you're in your 30s, don't date single moms. That's one of Leykis' rules and one red pill theory that it's equivalent to cuckolding. The fact that she wanted her son to move in with you to me says it all.
/r/askMRP26/08/18 01:46 AM
0

Rest and ice it on and off. The more you rest it the faster it will heal. Wear ankle braces for support. They should get better in a month or so.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 01:48 AM
2

No such thing as a girl that's a friend. She used you and you're just taking it as the beta orbiter. Kick her out and move on.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 09:30 PM
1

She's the alpha making the dates. That's your job. Contact her to make dates and if she says no, stop contacting her.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 08:00 PM
9

Seems like how you got pissed at her, might have come off as not being in control of your emotions, a bit beta. I'd work on being the oak more.
/r/askTRP11/08/18 07:53 PM
3

From CH's Poon commandments, two that you should work on: "X. Ignore her beauty The man who trains his mind to subdue the reward centers of his brain when reflecting upon a beautiful female face will magically transform his interactions with women. His apprehension and self-consciousness will melt away, paving the path for more honest and self-possessed interactions with the objects of his desire. This is one reason why the greatest lotharios drown in more love than they can handle — through pos…
/r/askTRP11/08/18 07:32 PM
4

You're depressed because you made her your everything. CH's Poon commandment #3: "III. You shall make your mission, not your woman, your priority Forget all those romantic cliches of the leading man proclaiming his undying love for the woman who completes him. Despite whatever protestations to the contrary, women do not want to be “The One” or the center of a man’s existence. They in fact want to subordinate themselves to a worthy man’s life purpose, to help him achieve that purpose with their f…
/r/askTRP09/08/18 10:09 PM
1

Yes she's cheating on you. I had a similar situation years ago when I was in college. She would study in his dorm room and hang out with him a lot, supposedly a common friend. I ended up finding out a year later she was cheating with him the whole time. I was too blue pill back then. I should have known better.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 08:02 PM
3

You make a lot of money so be prepared to pay some child support and alimony. I got divorced as well, but it was my decision mainly. I'm still the best dad I can be to my child, but it is more difficult because you won't see them as much. I'm happier now though and feel. I made the right decision. My relationship wasn't that good with the ex-wife partly because I was blue pill. I've fully embraced red pill and my current LTR is much better in most aspects. My advice is do what your gut says and …
/r/askMRP08/08/18 06:54 PM
2

You didn't say the STD that she was positive for. If it's HIV, it usually takes 3 months from contracting it for it to be positive on a test. False positives happen all the time if you take the test too early. This also applies to Herpes. The reason is your body takes time to make antibiodies and most of these tests are checking for that. You could still be positive, but tested too early.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/18 02:12 AM
2

You're cooking a large dinner while she watches TV and smokes weed. Then you go nag her about not helping? Seems like a role reversal and she's the alpha in the relationship.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 10:29 PM
1

I think Athol Kay does a good job describing this balance in MMSLP. However, I do think he puts a lot of emphasis on the beta part in an LTR. Rollo explained it well in one of his articles: many men are already too beta so focusing on alpha mainly will help in an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/18 07:37 PM
1

I use a high quality 5% minoxidil that isn't irritating to my scalp and it's worked fairly well over the past 5 years in stopping me from losing too much hair. My sex drive remains high. I recommend that. I also chose not to go the Propecia route for the reasons above.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 04:10 AM
1

I like to follow CH's commandment #8 with regards to apologies. VIII. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary I usually just say "my bad" if I did something wrong, even for serious things. The thinking is the more you apologize, the more she will expect it, and your value will lower in her eyes.
/r/askMRP29/07/18 01:42 AM
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