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Red Pill Theoryadiradirim/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 01:43 AM
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Several old school psychiatrists I worked with have told me that Bipolar is the Axis I diagnosis for Borderline. A girl who has bipolar is pretty much by definition borderline.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 04:34 PM
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No idea where you're at now but you need to set SMART goals. S - Specific M - Measurable A - Assignable (Not applicable here) R - Realistic T - Time line So for weight lifting... you want to lift those weights by when? If it's a huge jump in weight, set a more realistic goal. Not achieving goals is a huge de-motivator for people. Better to achieve small goals than fail big ones.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/14 09:34 PM
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When it comes to diagnoses, I end up explaining this to patients a lot... The diagnosis is a tool for medical professionals to know how to treat you. It doesn't define you or change who/how you are; having symptoms of depression without the diagnosis is no different than having the diagnosis.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 11:07 PM
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If you still get hard overnight/morning or when you try to masturbate, then it isn't a medical problem. This leaves a psychological problem, mainly performance anxiety. Like you said, you aren't aroused. When you get caught up in seduction you can focus so much on the girls and forget to focus on yourself. Fucking the girl is for you, not her. Keep that in mind.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 05:40 AM
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Yea but unfortunately you couldn't choose your stepmom. He had complete say in whom he married. With someone this bad, I'm sure there were warning signs? It would be difficult to hide this level of mental illness for very long?
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 04:13 PM
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They're probably just saying that because they like you. Girls have no idea what they like or want.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 03:51 AM
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Leading by example is a great parenting strategy. Most people suck at it because they're shitty examples. Plus you're the adult, you run the show. Don't let your child run it for you.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 02:54 AM
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Why the fuck is he laughing at her acting like this? He's married to this crazy bitch. Jokes on him.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 02:50 AM
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Who says there is a growing number of them? Who cares what women do. If they're unattractive, they aren't on my radar.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 02:28 AM
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I was curious so I looked up the statistics the other day. The article I found said that of the drug facilitated date rapes, 65% was alcohol. 30% was attributed to other drugs the women took themselves, and 5% was attributed to them being unknowingly drugged. On the other hand, the guys might just be smart enough to know who to market their product to with all the rape hysteria that's present. edit: Here is the article for anyone interested https://www.ncjrs.gov/pdffiles1/nij/grants/212000.pdf
/r/TheRedPill27/08/14 04:35 AM
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It all depends on your wording. Women stop maturing earlier than men do.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 07:29 AM
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Oh, yea when I said fasting I was referring to the physiological definition and not the colloquial. When your body uses up the stored glycogen it starts producing its own sugar through gluconeogenesis. Stored fats are broken down to ketone bodies as well. This is usually considered the fasting state.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 03:46 AM
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It works. Your opinion of it being "alpha" or "beta" doesn't matter. If you have a better method of dealing with it, let us know.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 10:57 PM
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Yeah, your brain preferentially uses carbohydrates for energy but in fasting states it can use ketone bodies which are made from fatty acids. Regardless, her point doesn't really mean anything. Nobody who "likes being fat" is that angry about it...
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 10:29 PM
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Basically the same things you're supposed to do with a salesman when buying a car... I don't know many people who would tell you: "I don't want to lie to the salesman! I'd rather just pay more money for the car so I don't hurt his feelings!"
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 03:19 PM
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This is very true, sure it might take longer and it doesn't necessarily follow the "Next her" rule that usually works best but in his case it would have been the smarter option. It seems like OP has responsibilities he shares with her, like his house, and breaking it off might be viewed externally as immature instead of alpha. Women need leaders, telling them what to do won't work. This is similar to when you're trying to get children to leave. It works much better to walk away and have them fol…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 08:05 PM
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You'll probably live for about 4,000 weeks your entire life. Don't let the past 2 get you down.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 09:49 PM
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Why are you so angry? Why are you arguing with people to the point where it gets you that mad? Seriously man you need to work on your own view of how the world works. Nobody owes you anything and nobody 'needs' to agree with you or see your side. Raging is stupid and inefficient. There are much better ways to get what you want and if you can channel that anger energy into something useful maybe you won't end up in prison. Telling them you hope they get raped does nothing to them and their life b…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 09:45 PM
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Plus it's pretty much assumed that anyone on tinder is looking for hookups... it's just more socially acceptable for the demographic. Most girls don't want to seem or feel like sluts, unless they're pretty blatant about it or you're abnormally attractive. Mirroring their level of comfort while escalating is key! Similar to the "foot in the door" tactics for sales. But whatever, girls on Tinder are a dime a dozen.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 09:29 PM
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From my experience, in America it's very difficult to find a girl who is talented, interesting, and attractive. There is not push from parents or society to mold the girls into a "useful person" for the lack of better terms. Being attractive is good enough for them. Foreign girls on the other hand, at least girls with foreign parents, do generally have more to offer. That might be from the overbearing parents pushing them to do things, who knows, but it's definitely something to look into.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/14 04:39 PM
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Don't go and try to change the balance of hormones in your body because some guys on the internet told you it'd be a good idea. How old are you anyways? A very small amount (0.3%) of your test levels get aromatized to estrogen so an aromatase inhibitor won't do much unless you have high levels of testosterone or high production of estrogen. You won't know this unless you go to the doctor and get your levels checked. Estrogen has important functions in your body and you need a certain amount of i…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:03 AM
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Or it's all just a lie to sell a book... "Also, said prostitute wasn’t engaging with my wife the way I hope she would, so it all kind of fell apart, and the rest is in the book."
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 06:23 AM
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It also depends heavily what age group he's going for. If he's 23 then he could go as low as 18 without too much of a problem depending on his social situation. He's going to find much more straight-out-of-highschool virgins than he will 22 year old college seniors who have had countless nights of blackout drinking and "experimenting to find themselves."
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 06:14 AM
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That's what I was trying to get at. There's a difference between what's best for him and what he "should do as a good Christian" and people will definitely try to influence (shame) him towards the latter.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 06:11 AM
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This might be harder than it would seem. Even the most "pious" girls can be flipped easily by the right guy. Plus Christianity is very forgiving so they use that to their advantage then hamster away the details. For example: all the girls who think anal sex doesn't count as losing their virginity. It depends how forgiving he wants to be when it comes to the girls actions. It works against him that Christianity mandates forgiveness.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 05:19 AM
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People on here always get so angry about companies who support feminism. Companies will do anything that works to make money. If we assume almost all women and half of men (beta bucks) fall for this shit, that's 75% of the market. Nationwide companies and those who want to make it big aren't going to go for a niche market like TRP.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 05:08 PM
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It depends on the situation and what you'd like her to do or not do. Most of it involves aspects of dread game. For example if you don't want her to go out and get wasted with her friends, you can mention how unattractive or gross you think it is when girls do that. That way she gets the hint that if she does that, she'll become less attractive to you. You're not telling her directly not to go out and get wasted, but you're showing her that you think that kind of behavior is unacceptable.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 04:41 PM
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From what I can tell through my social media sites, the girls who propagate this bullshit are the ones already doing it. They slut it up then justify it publicly by posting these stupid articles with an "OMG SO TRUE!! <3" in an effort to get their slutty friends to like it or retweet it. Some girls see through it though. It depends on your goals. If you want to spin plates then articles like this do nothing but help you. If you're trying to find an LTR or marriage and you've swallowed the red pi…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 04:50 AM
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It probably isn't a TRP issue then. There's a difference between using it to stay in touch with your friends and feeding girls' egos.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 12:32 AM
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I always find it easier to use consequences over demands as well. "Controlling" a woman through demands will only cause her to rebel and push your limits, much like a child would. It's easier and more efficient to use consequences. That way if she has any sense of judgment she'll be able to make the decision you want her to without you "forcing" her to do something.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 09:28 PM
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Most of the time it's for attention-whoring, like most social media. What are you using it for?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 09:19 PM
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I don't know about you man, I chart my life's course using Johnny Bravo...
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 03:05 AM
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The truth is... most people have no idea how to analyze data. The ones who do, can manipulate it to say anything. This is why it's important to be able to do what you did and analyze the data yourself.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 03:08 PM
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The red pill and its opposite, the blue pill, are pop culture symbols representing the choice between embracing the sometimes painful truth of reality (red pill) and the blissful ignorance of illusion (blue pill). Source - Wikipedia Political ideologies are based on ideals not real life solutions. Most of the "best" solutions for problems lie somewhere in the middle of the spectrum. Religion is based nowhere in fact and relies on faith to carry it on. Not the kind of evidence based faith that yo…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 04:42 AM
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It really doesn't matter what women say. Especially when it comes to what they think they like.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 06:33 PM
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Right, I'm not saying TRP is against religious or political views and ideas. I meant along the lines that it does not align itself with any specific religion or political ideology. It isn't an ideology at all, it's an honest view on how things work and you can't really bring in dogmas that are founded in theory. I always read people on here complaining about "Liberals" and "Left wing" this or that. On the one hand they don't usually know what they're talking about and on the other it sounds like…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 03:28 AM
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Yea man, plus I always see guys on here pull the same bullshit they bitch about women doing. "I like the idea of this so it must be true!" Instead of doing the research themselves or critically thinking about things. If they want to eat 2 foods only and get vitamin deficiencies, they can go ahead. I don't really understand why diet advice is on here anyways.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 01:23 AM
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Don't end up like Hunter Moore lol
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 01:06 AM
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I tend to not trust people who try to sell me their product. Especially when their "experiment" is done by themselves, on themselves.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/14 01:04 AM
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Practice is good I agree, but to me it sounds like she was a guest in his house. When I have guests over, I make sure I am a good host. This would include giving them food or drinks. That isn't exactly appeasement or supplication. Considering he probably won't be fucking her, his actions seem rude as a host.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 04:06 PM
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Those who can't do, teach!
/r/TheRedPill10/06/14 03:25 AM
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Interesting, especially since things like that have a pretty grim outlook and you've managed to stick around! Maybe you could tell women, and they'll try to fix your broken heart haha
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 06:14 PM
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Truncus arteriosus is a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 05:11 PM
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Plus earlobes look weird... we could just chop them off!
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 03:57 AM
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You're missing the point. Everything he named are guys with very specific talents and goals who went and achieved them. Those guys could probably pull girls no matter what they did because they had the rest of their life figured out. The guys who are asking for advice need the most basic advice first before they can figure out whatever specific niche they want to fill. The advice to lift weights/get fit, dress well, learn hygiene, get money, learn talents, or whatever all basic ideas that are lo…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 03:43 AM
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From my understanding, TRP is more of a descriptive viewpoint than a prescriptive one. Like you said, it is meant to open your eyes on how things actually work, the way people act, and through this information you can decide for yourself the way you would like to act. Sure there are tangents and that seems to be the reason for all the extra subreddits, but TRP is not really a dogma or belief system. I always hate to see philosophy, religion, and politics dragged into it because those are dogmati…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 03:30 AM
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Lots of people think using adverbs makes your words sound weaker. Stephen King says he doesn't use them at all and suggests other people don't. I'm sure you'll get people on both sides of the argument.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/14 03:27 PM
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If I was that guy, I'd find a new bus route ASAP.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 11:57 PM
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That was pretty much the whole point of the show Breaking Bad. A man provides for his family.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:08 PM
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There's nothing worse than someone who thinks their ignorance is as good or valid as someone else's knowledge/education/training.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:49 AM
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Be careful man, if they were gypsies, there's a good chance they'll try to rob you or worse.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:46 AM
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Good. Not only for the fact that its ridiculous as a medical "professional," but they need to learn that actions have consequences.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 04:34 AM
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Both of my parents have always told me: "You should always have a back-up girl." You know the girl always has an army of guys waiting at the drop of a hat, so why should you limit yourself to just one? Girls are unreliable and flake easily; you should always prepare yourself for the worst.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 09:09 PM
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The spirituality you define is not the spirituality most people talk about. For most people it is some metaphysical woo-woo that consists of a lot of feel-good language and pseudoscience. Saying spirituality is the meaning you create for yourself is not the same as the spirituality of faith in higher powers, ghosts, angels, demons, fairies, or anything else that a lot of people might believe in. You shouldn't be surprised that you get a lot of push-back when saying in general "spirituality is go…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 09:05 PM
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With balancing, people should always be learning based of their own experiences. Try something... if it works, do it again. If it doesn't work, change it to make it work or don't do it again. This applies to every part of your life, especially social interactions and women.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:35 PM
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An interesting way to look at it is something similar to the Bronze Medal Phenomenon. Fat ugly women might still be getting attention from guys based solely on the fact that they have vaginas. Low hanging fruit is easiest to pick. This plus the Fat Acceptance Movement as well as PC culture has made criticizing them taboo. It might also be delusion or a facade they put on. Most people have some sort of self esteem issues and there are different ways to hide them.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:24 PM
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To keep going with that analogy, the other thread and the end of this one point out that once the person finds out about planes and actively seeks one out, he can then fly. Same thing with a lot of incels. Many are probably not too far gone that they could never get laid. I hate bringing up Elliot Rodger, but there was nothing strikingly wrong with that kid on the outside, it was all mental and personality. Lots of the incels I've met are at this point, and unfortunately many will never get out …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 05:37 PM
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Remember, to these women... rape can be anything they dislike at the moment they're talking about it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:58 AM
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Completely agree with you. A lot of people who I talk to seem to think there is something special about "who they are" regardless of the fact that their identity (whatever it may be) took an entire life of molding and creating. They don't seem to grasp the fact that their identity and person can and definitely does change as you grow and learn things. I know a guy who would probably refer to himself as an "incel." He's angry at the fact that he isn't attractive to girls even though he seemingly …
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 07:23 AM
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Estrogen is a hell of a drug.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:29 AM
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Everything I've read says pretty much "no." The pheromone-based colognes might work, but you'd have to be 1-on-1 with the girl. The attraction effects of natural odors only work while they're fresh, like breaking a sweat right after a shower. Any body odor that lingers will only smell bad. It's mostly the combination of being clean, groomed, and nice smelling that do it.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 01:23 AM
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Reminds me of the company Cellular Solutions. They took it off their company page though.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 10:41 PM
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He just has to make sure he's on top of his game, especially if word travels around. Word-of-mouth works pretty well. I've never seen or experienced the word "womanizer" as a bad thing. If anything it increases people's views as well as expectations of you.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/14 04:04 PM
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Reiterating what has been said before, give them very little attention publicly on these social media sites. Girls love posting pictures and their main goal is getting likes or retweets or whatever. Your job is not to appease and reinforce the attention-seeking. This advice is good in the fact that it actually shifts the attention from her onto yourself, without making you seem obnoxious and annoying. Increasing and improving your social image is a huge part of increasing SMV, and maybe I miss i…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/14 05:52 AM
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Have you read his manifesto as well as learned everything about TRP? Besides this quote you cherry-picked, he said a lot of other things. He hated other men, especially successful men. He hated sex and wanted to make a society totally void of any sexual relationships because they're "damaging" to both sexes. Most importantly, he wanted to make the world conform to him and his viewpoint instead of conforming to the way the world actually is. In the end, he basically "rage-quit" because he couldn'…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 06:00 PM
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Is this real life? Holy shit... This is beyond blue pill, or anything I could imagine.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 05:46 PM
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I don't remember if it was on here or somewhere else, but to back this up, I remember this article: Women should embrace the B’s in college to make more later Women get better grades in easier majors. A 4.0 in literature isn't going to get you a career as good as a 3.0 in engineering will.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/14 06:54 PM
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You'll be hard pressed to find anyone you can trust 100%, let alone women. This shouldn't make you paranoid, just change your actions and expectations accordingly. Maybe I'm just misanthropic, but it leads to much less problems for me.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 12:50 AM
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Lol at 1:42 and 1:47 where the voiceover pretty much calls him out for it.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/14 12:45 AM
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Instead of trying to improve themselves, they want to bring down standards to their inadequate level. I never understood this mentality, but women (and some men) apply it to everything; don't be one of them.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:19 PM
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Reminds me of Pablo Francisco's Psycho Chicks skit.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 10:22 PM
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I agree with you, I was talking about saying unimportant things. If verbosity works because you use it to evoke emotions, then it definitely isn't useless! The words are being used to get across emotions rather than facts or ideas.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 05:30 AM
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There seems to be an overall increase in testosterone levels in people when they have sex, especially with multiple partners or strangers. Testosterone levels fluctuate and it isn't a big deal. What's worse is high bodyfat levels. Bodyfat has aromatase that turns your testosterone into estrogen. Double whammy.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 01:05 AM
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I hope he's talking about noticing them. Average and ugly girls aren't even on my radar when I'm out in public. I pretty much only notice the more attractive ones. They never get any special treatment though.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 11:31 PM
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Boys and young men need more proper masculine role models and mentors. Men are staying away from leadership jobs as teachers/coaches for fear of being called pedophiles by fear-mongers. They're left being raised by absent or feminized fathers and domineering and feminist mothers. They have no idea how to deal with their energy and can't tell the difference between being assertive and being violent. They're never taught to deal with emotion, adversity, or frustration.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 08:24 PM
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Who are doctors to put labels on her and judge her?? /s
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 07:53 PM
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Sounds like you know what you're doing in the gym, now put that same effort and dedication into your diet.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 05:39 PM
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I see your point, but I still think there's a difference between captivating an audience and forcing them. I was kind of referring to a lot of posters on here who write 750 word essays to describe something simple.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 03:08 PM
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Ehh, to me this is no different than a girl saying "I'm not like most girls!" It's just more specific. As hot as most models, actresses, dancers, and singers can be, they're all just looking for attention and validation from everyone around them.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 11:14 PM
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I understand bluffing, but you should always follow through with threats and consequences when it comes to women. Backing down makes you look like a pussy, and following through gets you respect from her and the people around you. Just don't get yourself sued or imprisoned though...
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 11:03 PM
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He also says "It's not surprising that whenever they find a murdered body, it's always a woman."
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 07:18 PM
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For me those red flags apply to friends too. Maybe to a lesser degree though, but especially when it comes to drinking, partying, and slutting it up. If she can't pick good friends, you can't trust her judgment for other things as well. You sure as hell can't trust her around them.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 06:38 PM
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Girls expect money to be spent on them, it's incredible. You should have them spending money on you. My father would always say: "When you're breeding cattle, you pay for the bull, not the heifer." Also, the Ben Franklin Effect shows that she will pretty much forget you did something for her anyways, while you will keep thinking about it.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 05:28 PM
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