adityasood99 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Need help	Field Report	adityasood99	/r/seduction	06/07/20 11:10 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Tinder makes me depressed! Here is my two cents: If you have a free account, tinder gives your profile a boost for only a limited time and you get matches for that boost period only. This is done to give you a taste of how exiciting these dating apps can be. After that if you dont purchase tinder gold or whatever they call it, your profile is placed at the very bottom. So, your profile doesnt even appear before most women. Meaning zero matches. All these dating profiles are favourable towards women. Imagine this, if you w…	/r/seduction	07/06/22 01:42 PM
4	Men showing emotion I think the basic idea of females getting turned off from mens' emotions is that men are expected to be play the traditional protector role, men are supposed to be strong. I know it might sound old school but many people still believe it. Coming to my own experience, I have always tried to open up about my emotions with my ex partners and 80% of the times they lose interest. I am not specifically just talking about western women, but Indians and arabs as well. I have seen their interest level go…	/r/seduction	13/04/22 05:59 PM
3	She’s Not “Checking Up On You.” She’s Bored. I think mostly the reason such females would reach out to you after long silence is to make sure that you havent moved on. What i would suggest in such situation is just to keep the conversation very short and end it sooner. Dont expect some Disney movie miracle that she will get back with you through such texts.	/r/seduction	24/02/21 08:06 PM
4	Treat her like a celebrity she'll treat you like a fan. Listen to her BS and she'll treat you as her toilet By paying more attention to her actions than her words. See if her actions agree with her words.	/r/seduction	09/01/21 05:23 PM
56	Treat her like a celebrity she'll treat you like a fan. Listen to her BS and she'll treat you as her toilet What OP meant to say here is that one should not simply lose themselves for a girl. I have seen a lot of men do everything according to their girl. One thing i know is that nothing turns off a girl more than a man who would ask her permission before doing everything (correct me if i am wrong). What OP means is that one should not put their girl on pedestal and start worshipping her like a goddess and do everything as per her wishes. I agree with OP, infact it applies even to girls as well. Peopl…	/r/seduction	09/01/21 05:22 PM
2	You don’t have to fuck every girl Simply ask yourself this question, "if $€x wasnt on the table, would you still want to be with this person? Would you still want to befriend them?". This should clear things up for you as to whether this person is compatible enough for you or not.	/r/seduction	04/12/20 06:23 PM
13	Is there a way to not sound desperate when you ARE actually desperate Its all numbers game for men. In the age of social media where a girl gets attention from 100s of guys, it is practically reasonable for you as a man to create more options for yourself.	/r/seduction	03/12/20 02:20 PM
112	Is there a way to not sound desperate when you ARE actually desperate This is a suggestion from what i have read in many PUA forums. I dont personally practice this. "Spin more plates". Similar to those street performers, who spin many plates at same time; even though one of the plates fall it doesnt matter cause there are other plates. Meaning: By plates i mean girls. You sound more desperate when you have scarcity. How do you cure your scarcity mindset? You talk to more than one girl at a time. Dont give 100% concentration to one particular girl; not until you a…	/r/seduction	03/12/20 05:46 AM
0	Dating feels exactly like sales. Some sales tactics will only work on specific types of people, and if you decide to engage with your customer in a way that lacks ethics and principles, then you will only attract people who are either vulnerable, or who lack ethics and principles themselves. I always thought of dating as like going for an interview for job. The only difference is if you are successful in dating, you end up in someone else's bed.😂	/r/seduction	22/11/20 04:08 PM
1	Red flags to take serious at all times I would add one more point here. Especially for boys; avoid those femi-Nazi chicks who go on and on about this toxic masculinity.	/r/seduction	06/09/20 06:55 PM
8	Girls keep dodging me. What do I do? None of us personally know you and your nature and what exactly you do wrong while approaching a girl, so no one here provide you with a 100% accurate answer. I can provide you with a generalised answer that might answer your question. The reason they are dodging you might be because you are trying too hard. Dont push them for a date or a relation. Try and push them into any of such things, and they are bound to run away from you. Stay calm and confident while talking to them, ask them out but d…	/r/seduction	30/08/20 01:29 PM
3	What’s the best seduction advice you learned? I agree. Nothing turns off a woman more quickly than a man who is desperate.	/r/seduction	25/07/20 02:50 PM
261	What’s the best seduction advice you learned? Make yourself the priority. In a relationship or while merely dating, always put yourself first. Now i am not saying that you should be an A-hole who doesnt care about anyone else apart from himself. But dont do anything that actually comprises your self esteem and self identity. Never be afraid to lose her/him. No matter what, there will be other females (or males). So dont stick to that stagnant, abusive, frustrating relationship that is only driving you crazy with every passing moment. Never …	/r/seduction	25/07/20 03:23 AM
2	How I Beat My Approach Anxiety (with VLOGS and daily journal entries) This is exactly what i was actually looking for. One thing I have noticed is that girls dont quickly engage in conversation right from the beginning irrespective of whether she is interested in you or not. I would definitely give this suggestion a try next time I approach someone.	/r/seduction	24/07/20 02:42 PM
8	How I Beat My Approach Anxiety (with VLOGS and daily journal entries) One thing i sometimes seem to struggle with is keeping the conversation going. I dont know if ever came accross a situation where a girl would simply feed you one word answers and not engage in conversation as much. I wonder how one should deal with such situations.	/r/seduction	24/07/20 03:15 AM
6	What turns a girl on in general and conversations? I have been in your situation and i know alot many times its hard to think quickly on your feet and come up with some sexual innuendos and flirty replies. When you actually come up with a good response the situation is long over. The unorthodox technique i can suggest is watch some tv shows with such themes or character that is witty and humorous. It might not agree with a lot of the other members, but thats how I got some ideas about pickup lines and flirty replies. One good show i would sugges…	/r/seduction	16/07/20 06:54 PM
1	Need help Should i be the one to ask her for another date again? Or should i wait fot her to make plans this time. ( since thats what i replied in my text telling her to let me know when she wants to meet.)	/r/seduction	06/07/20 11:35 PM
2	Whats "the move"? new guy here seeking advice The book of pook is like bible for all who want to improve their game.	/r/seduction	30/06/20 04:23 AM
4	Whats "the move"? new guy here seeking advice Bingo! Now you are getting there.	/r/seduction	30/06/20 03:02 AM
2	Whats "the move"? new guy here seeking advice Nevertheless, don't let these factors weigh you down. There are girls who like big guys, and i dont mean milfs.	/r/seduction	30/06/20 03:00 AM
10	Whats "the move"? new guy here seeking advice Contrary to the common opinion prevailing around here, i feel that there is no sure way to tell if the girl is into you. The cues and hints are not a sure shot way to tell if a girl likes you. These cues varies from female to female. What i have come to realise it that follow thw middle path i.e. if you see a female that you find attractive, approach her and just talk to her casually without any expectations of landing a date or anything of that sort. Here in Canada, people often engage in small…	/r/seduction	30/06/20 02:34 AM
7	Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zone We have all been there brother. We always learn it the hard way. Best thing to do is to learn the lesson now and for future.	/r/seduction	27/06/20 04:39 AM
6	Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zone True. I realised it after my failed relationships. Get busy building yourself, improving yourself career wise, health wise, financially. A female should only compliment your life. If it becomes the prime focus of your life then you are heading for disappointment.	/r/seduction	27/06/20 04:37 AM
196	Trigger ATTRACTION Switches to avoid friend-zone I suppose we can add another one here, one should not appear to be way too much available to a female which gives a vibe that you dont have any life of your own.	/r/seduction	26/06/20 09:31 PM
5	Can you date without the apps? Surprise surprise. I stay in a western country. Canada, if you need little more detail. I would agree to an extent about girls not responding properly and turning you down and that in my opinion is perfectly normal. I have been turned down more than 50% times. I think you might be aware that its all numbers game with men, when approaching a female. Approach 100 females and 10 of them will respond positively. Not all females find approaching them creepy.	/r/seduction	21/06/20 09:02 PM
4	Can you date without the apps? In my case i am a student at college, so there are options in class, around college campus, even at bus stop (since i commute by public transport). I am not much aware about your interests or your area, so i cannot directly provide you with clear answer about which might be best place for you to meet. But i would suggest going over to places where you are comfortable enough to have a conversation. During these times, meeting people can be tough due to CoVid. The place where i am staying is still…	/r/seduction	21/06/20 08:05 PM
6	Can you date without the apps? I understand that some females arent open to meeting outside the app and that is because a female is less likely to expect a guy approaching her at a grocery store or at similar places as opposed to a bar or club or the app, where even the female is there because she wants to be approached. But i would say that it shouldnt deter us from approaching. I mean if you are polite enough and not being creepy, you certainly have better chance here than on the app. Also, being turned down in face to face…	/r/seduction	21/06/20 07:50 PM
88	Can you date without the apps? I absolutely despise dating apps. Reason being that it is nothing more than a way to boost female ego. My words might be a bit too harsh and blunt here, but it is how i see dating apps. A female receiving tons of messages from thirsty beta males everyday, leads to her ego inflation. In addition to this, i feel that these apps are money miniting apps since they want you to pay money even to see who liked your profile, let alone even talk to them. Alot many times if you match with someone you woul…	/r/seduction	21/06/20 06:14 PM
1	How to meet girls in 2020? Like i said just engage in small talk as of now and get their contacts. Take small steps as of now and concentrate on making your game better. I understand that one doesnt have the impetus to go out especially when you work from home. But certainly go to the park and start with small talks. Even if everyone is wearing a mask, it doesnt deter them from talking to you. Also, dont have high expectations here, because a female walking around in a park is less likely to expect a guy hitting on her th…	/r/seduction	21/06/20 03:28 AM
2	How to meet girls in 2020? Contrary to some of the responses here that talk about using tinder and other online dating services, I would suggest simply go out and start with small talk with women. One technique I use is that, since i commute by public transport, so there would be atleast one female around at the stop. I would always have small talk with her and try to get her number. I would suggest you to do something similar to that and get her number and eventually resort to text game for now. Mind it,dont overdo texti…	/r/seduction	20/06/20 09:52 PM
3	You’re Never Safe - Hypergamy at The Highest Level Nathan Horton married a playboy model. I suppose this was to be expected from a female with negligible self esteem. One doubt that i do have is that if there is a way to reduce the chance of hypergamy. I mean I understand that most of us are opposed to idea of LTR, but what if a man has an LTR with a female with high self esteem but less hot, an average looking girl. Would that reduce the chances of hypergamy?	/r/TheRedPill	20/06/20 08:50 AM
5	How do I start flirting and for a lack of a better "signal" that I'm interested in them as more than a friend I follow this one technique where i start talking to a girl and i start to talk about some good place to hangout, like a good bar or a coffee shop or something like that and i say that i have plans of going there this weekend, you are welcome to join if you want. I usually bring up this topic of hanging out pretty soon, maybe after our first meeting or second at the max. The more you wait, the slimmer are your chances. This technique works cause if she says yes, its good enough sign that girl is…	/r/seduction	14/06/20 08:39 PM