adultsareweird Archive

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0	Guide to attraction Part 3 You cannot change your beliefs simply by willing it. Of course you can. People do it all the time. There's a whole bunch of psychological literature devoted to it. No matter how hard you try, you cannot convince yourself that pigs can fly or that you can jump 20 feet high. That's ability, not belief. However, you can also change your ability through your beliefs. This is also well researched and proven. Your examples are just silly.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/15 08:23 PM
14	Mr. Reeves is pretty far off Relationship advice is mostly just convoluted hamster-placating: "There, there, hammy. Your feelings are valid."	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/15 08:09 PM
0	Guide to attraction Part 3 Actually, you can just decide to be confident. You can't just decide to be skilled. Since the confidence in interacting with women is mostly self-confidence, deciding to be confident is a valid tactic. Experience can also generate confidence and although it significantly helps, it is not absolutely crucial. In this context, you just have to expect success, not necessarily have had success in the past.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/15 08:06 PM
4	Guide to attraction Part 3 I agree with a lot of what you said in your first guide, but you have a misunderstanding of cold-approach. It absolutely does not signal creepiness, in and of itself. How you do it and how you look when you do it makes all the difference. If you're confident, playful, and assertive, it's hard to go wrong. If you do all that and look attractive, it's practically guaranteed to go right. In line with your own theory, you can definitely approach a woman and be offering value. In fact, approaching is…	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/15 04:52 PM
1	FR- AWALT like always I agree that rewards are for relationships, although if you have a plate for long enough it can be a kind of LTR and very occasional rewards are fine. OTOH, leadership should always be set to 'on', relationship or not. Default life setting, even with other men.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/15 04:43 PM
1	Marriage and motorcycle helmets Why is marriage so complicated today? Why are people so incapable of respecting it? People are conditioned to be selfish and think of short-term pleasure.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/15 04:40 PM
1	Guide to attraction Part 1 Actually, women do feel more empathy than men do. This is related to the oxytocin and testosterone levels. People with higher oxytocin are more empathic and people with higher testosterone are less empathic. There are studies that show this. Of course, women have far more oxytocin than men and far less testosterone. Other studies show that women are more likely to donate to charities, which shows this in action. However, women are also far more likely to support children and other women and less…	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/15 04:32 PM
1	Feminism, and why it further proves what we already know Feminism was spearheaded by women who hated men, some of whom had been sexually abused by older male family members as children. Feminism, in many ways, is founded on hatred for men. That continues today, supported by governments.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/15 04:12 PM
1	FR- AWALT like always Don't try to win her attraction through gifts. Instead, be attractive. Flowers, if you buy them at all, are an occasional reward. Don't be nice, be a leader. That's what women want. By the way, also learn to differentiate between being "nice" and being kind.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/15 03:59 PM
1	This sums up what the body acceptance movement really should be. There are height-boosting shoes that add a couple of inches or so. They're obviously not genuinely adding to your real height, but they give that illusion. It's basically make-up for men. I've heard yoga can add an inch over time, too, if you do the right kind of stretching positions.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/15 03:48 PM
28	FR: The Wall is Unforgiving Those awkward dismounts always cost points.	/r/TheRedPill	23/07/15 03:22 PM
5	German guy on 8chan/pol explains workplace efficiency "study" I also like to check who funded the study and if the authors get paid to speak for industry interests, because studies funded with the specific goal of creating a particular result end up with biased info the vast majority of the time. In my field, there are websites that give me this information if it's not disclosed in the article itself.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/15 02:50 AM
1	Thoughts on the Ashley Madison hack, "37m cheaters exposed." I've browsed on AM out of curiosity. Never went as far as meeting anyone, because I'm not after married women. However, I browsed a lot. The women who are on there are there for one of two reasons. The biggest reason, which accounts for probably 80% of profiles, is that they are bored and want more excitement. They are probably alpha widows or serial cheaters. They are all entitled and think that it's their right to have affairs just to stop them from being bored. The second reason women are on …	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/15 01:53 AM
1	Thoughts on the Ashley Madison hack, "37m cheaters exposed." As is typical of dating sites, AM only requires men to pay to contact other members. Women get in free. Thus, there will be extremely few women whose CC info is in the database. Studies were done many years ago that showed that women are just as prepared as men to sign up to dating sites, but only if they don't have to pay. Men will pay.	/r/TheRedPill	22/07/15 01:42 AM