adventureman91 Archive

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2	European Girls vs American Girls This is more or less accurate. There are no absolutes when it comes to dating and of course there are plenty of outliers. I'm in Eastern Europe. It's more conservative and there is just a different feel to it. One night stands and that sort of overarching public dialogue of acceptance for them isn't really a thing here. I think that sort of boisterous, self expressive, independent personality a lot of guys have going for them in the US is not seen as being nearly as attractive here. It's slower …	/r/seduction	18/12/18 06:53 PM
1	Has Tinder gotten worse for actually getting dates? Well I message them before I even match with them. I go through my tinder stack and just message them and then swipe. I might not match with them or they might not even see my profile.	/r/seduction	21/11/18 04:19 PM
–	Has anyone ever hit rock bottom and bounced back? Good lord, I was depressed for two weeks straight cause a girl I made out with on a date silently unfollowed me from instagram and ignored me the next day... don't even want to image what a passionate breakup feels like :\	/r/seduction	20/11/18 11:40 PM
–	Has Tinder gotten worse for actually getting dates? I tell them I found them on tinder. It doesn't matter. If I've opened the conversation via IG and they were interested enough to write me back I'm not going to open them a second time on another app. I can send them photos and call them on IG when they've accepted my message. I can't do that on tinder. Getting messages back via instagram are basically "my matches." I don't pay much attention to my tinder matches but when they start building up I go through and send them the exact same copypaste …	/r/seduction	20/11/18 11:30 PM
–	Has Tinder gotten worse for actually getting dates? I message girls who have their IG on their tinder. I don't think it's ever been mentioned before. I've had girls ask me how I found their IG though.	/r/seduction	20/11/18 10:29 PM
–	Has Tinder gotten worse for actually getting dates? "Hi how are you? You seem like you're maybe an interesting girl. I think your hair is pretty. My name is _____. Nice to meet you." The opening I think isn't really important. I've experimented with a lot and don't think it makes much difference what I send. Tailoring the message is a waste of time for me personally. They basically will just look at my IG and from there decide if they want to message me back or not based how much value they see me having. My IG does more talking than my opening s…	/r/seduction	20/11/18 10:06 PM
–	Has Tinder gotten worse for actually getting dates? I have had a ton of success going straight to the IG dms. I hardly even message through tinder. I just send the same copypaste intro via IG.	/r/seduction	19/11/18 11:48 PM
2	Has Tinder gotten worse for actually getting dates? Similar experience. The boosts seem to work well for me though but I've noticed that I don't really get any matches expect when I buy boosts. I'll get around 10-20 likes but when I don't boost I get nothing. I am convinced the app sees how much it can get away with pressing for in app purchases. If it thinks it can get you to spend more money by holding back expose it will.	/r/seduction	19/11/18 11:45 PM
3	Why do Pro PUA's still get rejected so much? Because the pro-PUA image is a marketing concept created to sell seminars and products. Plenty of guys get rejected even at the top. Celebrities, "PUAs", everyone. That's the nature of the game. All these different dynamics are taking place and many people just wont align. The big picture goal is to lower the rejection rate through game and status and build up logistics like creating a huge social circle that goes out and having an apartment in a good location for after parties. Create a lifesty…	/r/seduction	22/09/18 04:22 PM
–	Mark Manson is great, but we need to be honest about the success of his approach. By all means go and try new methods my guy, nothing wrong with switching it up, I'm sure you'll add on new aspect to your conversation skills, flirting, be more dynamic, etc, but I think you're going to be sorely let down thinking that this is never NOT a numbers game. The fact of the matter is yes, you are a creator, but you are also never in complete control of the outcome, just your own game and life and awareness. You sound like you're switching your thoughts to results when it should always…	/r/seduction	07/05/18 09:21 PM
2	Mark Manson is great, but we need to be honest about the success of his approach. What specifically from his book don't you agree with? I've read models and don't recall anything about it which was against "game." I would actually say some guys can improve their dating life by just reading Models because their social skills and intuition with women is already at (or self corrects) a level of awareness that is sufficient to be satisfied with the results. Sounds like you misinterpreted his concepts and the point of the book (inner game is what influences your outer game). Model…	/r/seduction	06/05/18 12:36 AM
2	It's a Numbers Game yep... he always takes two spots	/r/seduction	03/05/18 08:30 PM
1	Is going to clubs by yourself weird? It's not weird. It's potentially a big waste of time though, or a learning experience depending on how you look at it. I think it comes down to the club itself and like the crowd it attracts. Some clubs are table heavy and people just go in groups to hang out with their own party. Some have a big patio, dance floor, bar, etc. Choosing the right club with the right crowd can be important. Some people go to certain clubs because they are more open to meeting and mingling while others may be doing …	/r/seduction	03/05/18 08:25 PM
5	Most helpful tip I know I see your point but let's think about this. The way you wrote this post frames my point's sole objective as a means to an end to attract the opposite sex but it isn't. It's actually much greater than than. You should be doing a whole lot more with you life and you should be doing it for more reasons than just trying to date women. You have plenty of room actually to develop all sorts of awesome qualities. Most people often settle for a very average existence when in reality there is actually an…	/r/seduction	01/05/18 11:21 PM
1	When a girl says in her tinder profile she "isn't really looking for a boyfriend" hmm, well written post thanks :)	/r/seduction	01/05/18 11:05 PM
–	When a girl says in her tinder profile she "isn't really looking for a boyfriend" thanks! this is what I was thinking but it's always helpful to be reassured of what you're feeling is right :)	/r/seduction	01/05/18 07:41 PM
–	Most helpful tip I know best advice that could ever be given. too many guys focus on "game" when they are actually boring, out of shape and don't really have anything interesting about themselves. living for nothing but some office job or something lame. putting very little effort into self development in reality. the best qualities that attract the opposite sex you'll ever develop will be that which comes naturally from developing your own life and life style. make lots of friends, look for social circles, find your d…	/r/seduction	01/05/18 07:14 PM
–	When a girl says in her tinder profile she "isn't really looking for a boyfriend" No I shouldn't have. I go with the flow and act how I feel and did what I needed to do on these dates. My inner game is more than enough to close these things trust me my guy. We flirted some, I said she was hot a couple times and we touched a bit. Not every date is a situation out of a pua book bruh.	/r/seduction	01/05/18 06:56 PM
1	When a girl says in her tinder profile she "isn't really looking for a boyfriend" ugh, what? did you read my post? I've met her already, twice...	/r/seduction	01/05/18 03:10 PM
2	Interested in the friend of a girl Yeah, I have her friend on IG and we have chatted a little in DMs. By friction I mean like I'm wondering if she is like thinking about her friend's feelings and if it will be a little weird for her. Well we are just friends but she is signaling to me that she likes me. Not really a lot but she is. And she is sorta the catalyst of my interactions with the girl I like so I'm wondering if I'm just overthinking it and should just ask her to hang one on one.	/r/seduction	11/04/18 04:40 PM
2	Interested in the friend of a girl Well, I decided for me. It's never been brought up or anything in conversation about us just being friends. We just hang out and I just go with the flow. But I don't flirt with her or anything (girl I met on tinder). I act like a friend towards her. I would say she kinda does the same but she touches me sometimes, is really receptive and I can just tell she likes me. Her friend acts silly towards me and touched me a few times last week and is a little more neutral. This week she was being kinda …	/r/seduction	10/04/18 11:39 PM