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he was talking about seeing ugly guys with hot girls, you dont need to be doing day game to see that, if its true you should see it in everyday life, which I said I dont
/r/seduction17/11/12 09:53 PM
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Yeah, 1-2 times a month with the sole purpose of approaching girls. I go out almost every day for other reasons..work,gym,shopping,food, etc.
/r/seduction17/11/12 07:26 PM
-2

Im out and about every day
/r/seduction17/11/12 05:35 AM
-7

I have never in person seen an ugly guy dating a hot girl
/r/seduction17/11/12 05:31 AM
-5

What you're failing to acknowledge is even the ugliest guys have success with women. Yeah, success with women on their own level or lower. No thanks.
/r/seduction17/11/12 05:20 AM
-3

just being realistic
/r/seduction17/11/12 05:16 AM
-5

Losers typically have all the ingredients that winners have Wrong
/r/seduction17/11/12 05:12 AM
-4

Winners win because they have the required ingredients for success
/r/seduction17/11/12 05:07 AM
1

These girls are definitely girlfriend material /s
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:22 PM
1

Obviously I dont, my point still stands
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:06 PM
4

That is creepy
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:01 PM
5

Did you go full retard or something? A regular guy has to work his ass off to get his foot in the door and then also do the extra work, a good looking guy already HAS his foot in the door and only needs to not fuck up. How is that not better?
/r/seduction16/11/12 08:19 PM
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Send me a picture of what you look like, if you're not ugly or below average yourself then you dont really know what its like to be ugly or below average. It's like a rich guy saying money doesn't matter and money doesn't bring happiness
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:09 AM
1

I take care of myself (work out, keep groomed) and dress well, wheres my womens?
/r/seduction16/11/12 09:00 AM
4

I read mostly /r/seduction stuff, no books or anything, and I watch youtube videos too, probably around an hour or two a day. I go out about maybe once or twice a month. By go out meaning go out to a bar/club with the sole purpose of hitting on girls.
/r/seduction16/11/12 05:22 AM
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Mhm, lucky you
/r/seduction16/11/12 04:50 AM
0

Point is, women have preferences just like men. Alot more women would be open to being approached/hit on by a white guy rather than a middle eastern one
/r/seduction16/11/12 04:36 AM
0

Do a survey on reddit, I bet you middle eastern men would be on the bottom
/r/seduction16/11/12 04:13 AM
-1

I haven't found any so far, generally speaking indian and middle eastern men are among the least desired on your average american woman's list
/r/seduction16/11/12 03:54 AM
1

no
/r/seduction16/11/12 03:48 AM
0

I wanted to know if you were white and tall, and you were, thats all :) its just funny to me because every successful guy I've asked has answered exactly how I thought they would
/r/seduction16/11/12 03:33 AM
1

It doesnt, I've already accepted all that
/r/seduction16/11/12 03:20 AM
0

@1, celebrities dont count, obviously famous people can get girls I won't deny that they all look pretty good lol way to shoot your own argument in the foot.
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:56 AM
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you've lost my point, the point was that looks do matter, hence if #2 was more socially skilled he would be doing better because of his looks
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:43 AM
-1

I'm not looking for excuses, my point is that looks do matter, even if they matter little
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:42 AM
1

well they can be reasons though
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:33 AM
0

Find me a short middle eastern guy that gets a bunch of hot girls
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:33 AM
2

sure but he could be happier
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:32 AM
-4

The fact that he is white and tall has something to do with it, even if subconsciously, guaranteed. They've done research on this, both race and height. White + tall is the most favored combination.
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:07 AM
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better as in higher success rate, hotter girls, etc.
/r/seduction16/11/12 02:05 AM
5

point is, if roommate #2 had his shit together he'd be doing better than roommate #1. This would mean that looks do matter, which they do.
/r/seduction16/11/12 01:59 AM
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No I was just curious as to what you were and I was right. The fact that you have those two things going for you is definitely a plus whether you acknowledge it or not. It's like a rich guy (romneylol) talking about how easy it is to get rich all you have to do is this this and this, when in reality he never had it like that to begin with.
/r/seduction16/11/12 01:58 AM
-2

Huh? I was just curious, and the answer was pretty much what I expected
/r/seduction16/11/12 01:56 AM
-1

Well that explains alot, thanks
/r/seduction16/11/12 01:37 AM
2

Having good looks will get girls to talk to you first and hit on you And that is already more than a regular looking guy would get. A girl approaching you and hitting on you means she is interested, that's already one step ahead of an average guy. Hence looks do matter if even just a bit.
/r/seduction16/11/12 01:31 AM
2

just a curious question, what is your ethnicity (white/black/etc.) and how tall are you?
/r/seduction16/11/12 01:26 AM
57

I get attention from girls If it makes you any happier, alot of guys dont get attention from girls, they have to hunt it down for themselves
/r/seduction16/11/12 01:25 AM
-4

well it also helps to be tall and good looking
/r/seduction16/11/12 12:22 AM
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I'm %100 sure roommate #1 would be even more successful if he looked like roommate #2
/r/seduction15/11/12 11:59 PM
0

Not true, dancing like an idiot doesnt draw the girls in most of the time, maybe just sometimes for some guys. source: I've danced like an idiot before.. had tons of fun but didnt get any attention or anything
/r/seduction15/11/12 11:12 PM
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This probably goes hand in hand with looks in my opinion. I've danced at clubs before, didnt get any sort of reaction (although I didnt care, I was dancing for fun and because I wanted to)
/r/seduction15/11/12 10:40 PM
12

Soo basically..... YOLO?
/r/seduction14/11/12 11:01 PM
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It was all good, except the part where she said just shut up and listen to her bullshit... Guys, you don't have to listen to her shit if you don't want to, just leave and find a less whiny girl
/r/seduction14/11/12 09:44 PM
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That soulpatch is hideous
/r/seduction12/11/12 10:41 PM
0

here's one
/r/seduction12/11/12 10:39 PM
-1

What do my views on women have anything to do with this? Any girl who actually falls for something this cheesy isn't my kind of girl anyway so whatever.
/r/seduction12/11/12 08:52 PM
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no it honestly sounds retarded... I dont see any girls around where I live actually falling for that one, but then again maybe the girls around here are smarter or something
/r/seduction12/11/12 09:46 AM
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I wouldn't... thats a horrible spot to hit on a girl, specially if there's a line up
/r/seduction12/11/12 07:11 AM
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'Put these somewhere else, we wouldn't want you girls getting wet now, would we?' and being in that mindset I just added....'at least not from the beer' I really REALLY don't see how that can work, it sounds super super cheesy.... the chick was probably drunk as fuck or just really easy.
/r/seduction12/11/12 07:10 AM
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Well I dont know how you dance, so you're on your own there. Whatever you do though, be confident in it/dont give a fuck
/r/seduction11/11/12 02:01 AM
1

Just be like "I know what will cheer you up, come dance with me!" at this point you can reach out your hand for her to grab or if you'er ballsy grab her hand yourself and get to the floor. No need to grind yet... just dance, laugh, stop giving a fuck and show her positive energy. In my opinion outcome independence matters from start to finish
/r/seduction11/11/12 01:47 AM
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Hey man, if you have any advice on how to make your facial bone structure more attractive let's hear it. Actually that can be very easily done and I've seen it happen on myself. I got a hair style that fit my face shape, this made my cheekbones and jaw more pronounced and more defined (which girls find attractive). I also cleaned up my eyebrows a bit, which made my eyes more attractive and less boring looking and opened up my face more. I agreed with your whole post (although as I said that's al…
/r/seduction11/11/12 01:06 AM
1

Not sure what nightclub you went to but I've never been to one that's as crazy as that (given I've only been to two) In a situation like that you dont even NEED game
/r/seduction11/11/12 01:01 AM
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Most of this is common sense is it not?... one thing though... Wear bright colors, specifically red Or how about, wear whatever color you want (as long as its not something stupidly unfashionable). I doubt the color of someone's shirt has much to do with whether girls are attracted to him or not. There are MANY more things that matter more than clothing color, namely posture/overall style/confidence/speech/status/fitness level/facial bone structure (I know looks dont matter too much but even tha…
/r/seduction11/11/12 12:56 AM
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Who cares what she looked in the mood to do? outcome independence man! If she didn't want to dance and just wanted to sit there and sulk, she's not worth your time anyway. And the dancing part, just move to the music, have fun with it... club dancing is not classical dance or ballet, no one gives a fuck how you do it.
/r/seduction11/11/12 12:39 AM
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also you didn't move too fast at all... too slow if anything
/r/seduction10/11/12 07:26 PM
2

Right after she said "Yeah, I am, just separated from my group. Someone is being an asshole and I can't really be around him right now." You should have told her to come dance with you to take her mind off the bullshit. If she said yes, well go dance! if she said no, then tell her "I tried!" and bounce.
/r/seduction10/11/12 07:21 PM
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what exactly do you mean by "moved too fast"?
/r/seduction10/11/12 06:46 PM
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This guy is super awkward wtf...
/r/seduction10/11/12 06:20 PM
1

Yeah I know I didnt really care, I'm just saying that most of the time just because you're having have doesnt mean girls will approach you
/r/seduction10/11/12 04:15 PM
0

I was at the club with two friends
/r/seduction09/11/12 11:00 PM
0

Not true, atleast not most times. I went clubbing, I was having tons of fun with the music and dancing, but nobody gave a fuck
/r/seduction09/11/12 09:15 PM
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go out to bars and clubs to have fun. If you're having fun then people, especially girls will notice this and want to meet you because they want to have fun as well. This gets tossed around alot and it's really not true for the most part. Last time I went to a club I was tipsy, not giving a fuck, dancing and having fun.. and not a single girl approached me or even gave me "that look" that they want me to talk to them
/r/seduction09/11/12 09:15 PM
1

once you can do that the girls will supposedly follow Not true you still have to be the one going after it I went to a club last last weekend had alot of fun but not a single girl approached me or gave me the eye or anything
/r/seduction08/11/12 10:59 PM
2

If she gives you eye contact walk up and put your arm around her waist and start a convo. I'm serious. that sounds like a bit too much
/r/seduction08/11/12 09:49 PM
3

Geez man all I did over the weekend was dance by myself in a club lol oh well
/r/seduction31/10/12 08:23 PM
1

Great advice, will def do the compliment thing Thanks!
/r/seduction29/10/12 03:01 AM
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I was on top of the world man lol, for the first time in my life I didnt care who was there or who was looking at me, I was ENJOYING myself
/r/seduction28/10/12 11:38 PM
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this comment was from 4 days ago, believe it or not im almost a different person after last night lol so disregard this comment :)
/r/seduction28/10/12 10:38 PM
1

made a new FR, read it!!! :)
/r/seduction28/10/12 07:20 PM
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you're already a girl.. what more do you want??
/r/seduction24/10/12 02:48 AM
2

"Just one question though. Does he treat you right?" "Yeah!" "I wouldn't" smile & intense eye contact "Hmmm how about you give me your number?" seriously? girls actually fall for this?... I mean I could see it working if a really good looking chiseled guy said it, but then again anything he'd say would work wouldnt it
/r/seduction23/10/12 07:03 AM
1

Alright
/r/seduction23/10/12 06:27 AM
3

ah ok
/r/seduction23/10/12 06:26 AM
4

you do this to random girls?
/r/seduction23/10/12 03:46 AM
2

I'm with Dandsed, every single one of your posts is like an advertisement for "my three interesting things (If you're not familiar with my three interesting things routine, check here http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/118t7y/enough_inner_game_can_we_get_more_little_bullets/c6kcum0)." lmfao
/r/seduction22/10/12 09:19 PM
0

Yeah, I think overall It wasnt great because it was my first time at a club and I was %100 sober
/r/seduction22/10/12 01:07 AM
0

I'm gonna try it one more time next weekend and this time I'll drink/try to dance (alcohol would help I think), so we'll see how it goes I guess
/r/seduction22/10/12 12:46 AM
-1

It's too loud to have conversation with one person, let alone a set of them... I think maybe bars would be a better place for this sort of thing?
/r/seduction22/10/12 12:33 AM
-3

I honestly think this was an abnormally loud club, because none of my friends could hear each other. I would go talk to them, but the fact that they're in their own friend circle/already talking to other people/guys, combined with the fact that I would literally have to be in their ear for them to hear me, would just be awkward.
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:16 PM
-2

I know I'm not making excuses.. I was there....
/r/seduction21/10/12 11:01 PM
-2

I'm not making up excuses though... the club was really loud, and I saw maybe 2 girls who were alone, and they were much older than me (early 30s?)
/r/seduction21/10/12 10:55 PM
-2

Honestly I would have a better time if I was a little tipsy, and if there were more single girls
/r/seduction21/10/12 08:28 PM
1

Yeah I don't think the club scene is for me, didn't really enjoy my time there
/r/seduction21/10/12 06:46 PM
1

I dont know how you talked to people, the club I went to was way too loud for that Also I dont know how you found all these girls by themselves, I didnt see a single one Congratz on your success though
/r/seduction21/10/12 06:36 PM
-1

It does help though you gotta admit, it's like training wheels I guess
/r/seduction21/10/12 06:25 PM
-2

I should have taken video to show you guys how loud it was
/r/seduction21/10/12 06:21 PM
-5

No because they probably already knew each other as I said
/r/seduction21/10/12 06:21 PM
-2

Yeah I know, as I said I really needed a drink in there to loosen up but couldnt because I was driving So hopefully next time I can drink and get tipsy enough to not give a fuck
/r/seduction21/10/12 06:16 PM
-2

it was way too loud to talk to anybody
/r/seduction21/10/12 06:06 PM
-2

That's what I thought at first too but the more I observed the more it seemed they actually came to the club together
/r/seduction21/10/12 05:53 PM
1

posted an FR of my "club night" if you're interested
/r/seduction21/10/12 05:42 PM
1

posted an FR of my club night
/r/seduction21/10/12 05:41 PM
1

Going to a club tonight, feeling good, we'll see how it goes
/r/seduction20/10/12 08:03 PM
2

Not hating or anything, but isn't the girl super drunk? she doesnt even remember her own number... And it seemed like the mother was trying to defend her obviously drunk daughter from being taken advantage of, while the guy is still pressing.... maybe it's just me but that just seems douchey/creepy
/r/seduction19/10/12 02:55 PM
2

I think my main issue is I rarely approach women, gotta work on that, thanks for the comment
/r/seduction19/10/12 04:38 AM
2

Got it, thanks for the comment
/r/seduction19/10/12 04:37 AM
2

No no I think you got it wrong, I USED to be socially awkward and abnormal, and I did lag in social development, but I did develop after a while. Right now I'm socially on par with the regular guy. I have no problem making friends and interacting with people at work or where ever, I actually chit chat with cashiers and such where ever I go. Also, I did make friends with my guildies in WoW (although we dont keep in contact anymore that was years ago), I actually used to be one of the more popular…
/r/seduction19/10/12 04:07 AM
1

oh I will go out no doubt, but Im not sure if anything will happen first time in a club btw
/r/seduction19/10/12 02:59 AM
1

Alright, will do just curious, why? lol
/r/seduction19/10/12 12:44 AM
2

actually I just got back from the gym and no not a troll
/r/seduction18/10/12 11:13 PM
1

They dont... go ask anywhere on reddit you want
/r/seduction18/10/12 11:13 PM
1

If anything happens, sure
/r/seduction18/10/12 11:11 PM
1

I do want to help myself otherwise I wouldn't bother putting my time into this post
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:58 PM
1

My point is I've been there and I know I dont fit into that environment
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:56 PM
1

Again, different definitions for different people If you don't want to help that's fine, not sure why you keep commenting
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:51 PM
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Go to a bar. Go to a club. Ok these two I can understand, most women know they will be hit on there. As I said I look too young for bars, and clubs are too loud (I'm going to one this weekend though we'll see) Go to a mall. Go to a grocery store. Women are just there to shop, I honestly dont think they want to deal with a random guy approaching them, unless he's really good looking or something Go to a park. If they're alone this is a good place I guess but most girls go with their friends to ha…
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:49 PM
-1

It's not a hypothesis, girls themselves have told me they like older looking guys
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:43 PM
-1

I'm trying to figure out where to talk to these girls
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:39 PM
-1

They dont want a guy looking like their younger brother hitting on them man
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:37 PM
-4

I'm not making up excuses...
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:34 PM
0

I've been to a bar...
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:32 PM
0

but see all of those places are places most women don't want to be approached in. Go over to /r/askwomen and ask them yourself
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:28 PM
0

Well depends on your definition of confidence. By confidence in my mind and body I mean I'm satisfied with it, neutral if you will
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:22 PM
0

I know because I have put myself there
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:20 PM
0

... I'm sure they don't want to go shopping with a random guy..
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:20 PM
1

I work a job that requires me to be talking to people, I talk to several girls a day regularly, I have milked about as much confidence out of that as I possibly can.
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:19 PM
1

That's not negative self-talk though... I'm being realistic, I'm not the "sexy" type of guy looks wise
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:18 PM
-4

Who cares how old they look? They do
/r/seduction18/10/12 09:17 PM
2

I can already do all that stuff... I dont think most girls would categorize me as sexy though
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:52 PM
0

From what I understand women like older looking guys, age does have alot to do with their attraction levels. Plus I just don't feel comfortable looking like the youngest guy there lol
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:51 PM
1

Drinking age here is 19, but as I said most of the girls in bars look 25+
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:48 PM
1

I haven't heard of college bars... but I dont go to college p.s I'm not in the states, so maybe its different here
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:43 PM
1

I look young for my age (21) and wouldnt really fit into the bar environment because of it, and the girls look much older than me even though the may be the same age (I've seen girls who are 19-21 but they look like theyre 27 or something)
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:21 PM
-4

Girls are just there to shop though...
/r/seduction18/10/12 08:20 PM
4

oh yeah baby talk nerdy to me!
/r/seduction26/09/12 06:30 AM
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It will take place in very shallow water at approximately 12:44 midnight. Conditions are slightly foggy, with a chance of showers. There will also be a full moon which may or may not turn the monster(s) into wolf hybrids.
/r/seduction26/09/12 06:19 AM
1

You and your crazy ideas
/r/seduction26/09/12 06:00 AM
4

geez you really thought this thing through
/r/seduction26/09/12 05:50 AM
1

Would you rather fight one horse sized duck? or fight 20 duck sized horses?
/r/seduction26/09/12 05:18 AM
1

Alright cool, I think female friends would help alot, could use them as wing women and stuff Plus I hear girls seeing you with another girl even if she's your friend makes you more attractive or something
/r/seduction26/09/12 03:23 AM
1

What if she's hesitant and putting up barriers because she thinks you're trying to get with her though?
/r/seduction26/09/12 02:41 AM
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