| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 33 | Open your %!@# Eyes people.. really.. | aec912 | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 04:28 AM | |
| 3 | Not afraid of girls, but afraid of escalating to a kiss or a bigger move.... | aec912 | /r/seduction | 27/09/15 07:26 PM | |
| 1 | From confident to beta, can this situation be fixed? and any tips on how to avoid this behaviour? | aec912 | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 06:06 AM | |
| 1 | Be yourself and be proud about it. You know girls love that right? ;) | aec912 | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 08:40 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Open your %!@# Eyes people.. really..Thank you for that, it's my pleasure :) Hahaha, had to say it in the heat of the moment or else the inspiration would be gone. But thanks again, I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 09:48 PM |
| 1 | My observations about something that happened yesterdayI know, it happens to me too, when I go to parties and I don't feel like going on my "game mode" and just want to have a blast with my friends, girls comeby and just talk to us or sometimes asks us to dance. I had that thought too, I think it could be because since you don't give a damn, you give that "vibe" you know what I mean? | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Open your %!@# Eyes people.. really..It does, but it also helps you recognize that you really don't need to change, all you need is to change your perspective and don't be afraid to evolve. | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Being my best selfThis. But still, good job in getting new clothes and a haircut, it's never a bad thing to change, as long as you do it for yourself and not for others. | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Open your %!@# Eyes people.. really..This is why I said "Don't go full douchebag" Alot of people tend to misinterpret the "make a move now" thing, I feel you man, I had the exact same thoughts with the girl I mentioned in the story. Just talk to her and be honest, tell her you wanted to talk to her because you simply never talk. What I always do is that I assume attraction and I assume she is not thinking. Because sometimes if you tell a girl out of nowhere that you want to talk to her she will start thinking "ugh. Another guy want… | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Open your %!@# Eyes people.. really..Go for it bro, but like I said, don't go "full douchebag" think, be careful but don't take too long. | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 02:43 PM |
| 6 | Open your %!@# Eyes people.. really..It really depends on the context, there will never be an exact way to make a move, but I'll give you some ideas: If she is glancing at you, maybe at a party, as soon as you look at her, look at her back, smile and approach her with a simple hey! and let the magic flow. if you already know her, just slowly escalate, let's say you are eating and you are telling some jokes and you see her smiling and having a good time, while she is in that state tell her she has a cute smile, if she responds posit… | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Open your %!@# Eyes people.. really..1) Woah, I know who he is but I never read that book. 2) True on that, kino is essential, that's why you just got to "live the moment" making mistakes is also essential, no one is born a "pro", and in this case, your friend wasn't born a pro in kino, so the only way is to just do it. That saying is overused but for a reason, because it works. | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Open your %!@# Eyes people.. really..Thank you Turlast :) Went into a kind of rant there so sometimes I tend to forget the tenses and stuff. Thanks again :) | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Open your %!@# Eyes people.. really..My pleasure. Thank you for taking your time in reading this, I appreciate it ;) | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 05:06 AM |
| 5 | What is the best way to get a girls attention without saying excuse me?"Hey" | /r/seduction | 26/10/15 04:39 AM |
| 2 | I (25F) met a hot older guy (44M) at a concert and through some serious detective work found him on facebook with only a first name and no mutual friends. How do / (can) I add him on facebook without it seeming weird?Just tell him you asked for his name and they told you, so you decided to add him on fb. Normal things- | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Word choice screwed me over huh...Don't think about it too much too much yeeeaaaah. No really, don't think about it too much, tell her via your actions and your confidence. And in case you want to feel safer, which it's ok don't worry, I hooked up with a girl who said she saw me as a friend and I said if we wanted to hang out in my house.. ;) | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 11:31 PM |
| 1 | It's Not PersonalWow.. Damn.. | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 11:29 PM |
| 8 | I am so proud of myselfHoly shit guys, you go way too deep about the whole "looking confident" thing, the girl doesn't have time to think about "oh wait, he said that it could be out of line, does that mean he isn't confident? or the way he said that means he is socially calibrated, or wait he couldn't be he could be shy" she will be distracted with the fact that HE is asking HER out.. And you know, it's not about what you say, but about HOW you say it, you could be thinking about a good confident phrase to ask someon… | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Just a questionThank you Gentleman :) | /r/seduction | 14/10/15 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Just a questionDamn, true.. It happened to me with a girl a few months ago and I never knew why until I read your comment, I knew she liked me at the beginning but I didn't really follow up. Then I heard that she just saw me as a friend and she would never get it on with me. So when I went to a party a few days later she was there but I never really put any attention to her and I didn't even said hi to her because I was busy with other girls, but then she started talking to me and tried to make me follow her t… | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Just a questionWoah, thanks for that feedback, it really gave me more insight about the situation. Oh and her name is Jenny, so that coincidence scared me a little bit but really good feedback man, I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Just a questionNow it has meaning, you can tell me to move on, but I want to know why, I like your answer. | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Watched & Read so much content, still can't even approachSorry if my english sucks, not my 1st language. Look man, I know I know.. How many times have you heard the phrase "just do it"? Because I'm about to say it 1 more time. Just do it.. It's not about making fear go away.. Let me tell you a secret, fear will always be with you your entire life, when you do something new, fear will be with you, like a friend who has his hand on your shoulder.. The thing is not making fear go away but conquering your fears, and the only way to do it is by facing it (… | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Just a questionNo. I'm just saying not to use an answer with no meaning, the reason why I ask it is because there are different answers, different perspectives and I'm curious to hear that. | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Just a questionYeah, it could also be what's going on with her at the moment too. But yeah, possible. | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Just a questionI'm not planning in "getting her back" it was just curiosity, in case something happens I could be aware of what happened, that's it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 02:25 AM |
| 7 | Well, totally broke through my AA today and did it!Good work, everyone starts off somewhere. Like Conspera says, keep it up man! | /r/seduction | 11/10/15 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out, just a question though.Oh yeah, I know she doesn't owe me an apology but I'm kinda used to the whole "sorry" thing when they flake or when they don't follow up and I just do my things. I might tell her 30 mins before if it sounds good I mean it doesn't hurt, she didn't respond and I got some plans too. My time is precious ;) | /r/seduction | 11/10/15 10:55 PM |
| 1 | I woke up to find this written on a scrap of paper by my bedThat's better :) | /r/seduction | 03/10/15 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Inner game failed me again. Any advice?You know, the only way to learn is to try, learn from your mistakes so you get closer to success. It's all about perspective, what happens if they actually think you are a creep? so? If you know you aren't doing anything wrong why should you worry? Believe in yourself, don't let that feeling of "what if" get into you. Sure it takes time but that's because the reward is worth it. | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Should I text this girl again before we hangout this weekend?Yeah, tell her what are the plans maybe on thursday night or friday morning. | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Should I text this girl again before we hangout this weekend?Like palmer says, text her with something new, depending on the situation, don't focus in finding a reason why she didn't respond you. Instead just text her that you want to hang out, be direct as in "Hey, I'm going to do "x" thing on "y" place, want to join" or something among those lines, you won't come as needy, she agreed to do something anyways. Plus, what else can you do? I know what you can do, don't text her and be in the risk of not having a good time with a potential partner. :) | /r/seduction | 30/09/15 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Not afraid of girls, but afraid of escalating to a kiss or a bigger move....Wow man, definitely what I needed, I know there is no other way. Thank you for that I will always keep it in my mind :) | /r/seduction | 29/09/15 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Not afraid of girls, but afraid of escalating to a kiss or a bigger move....Yeah, Fuck it you know? The only way is to just do it. | /r/seduction | 28/09/15 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Not afraid of girls, but afraid of escalating to a kiss or a bigger move....Thanks for that advice man, yeah I just need to stop caring. Oh yeah, forgot that it meant chill n fuck, I failed to do that though, but I might have a chance, but I gotta stop caring about all that. | /r/seduction | 27/09/15 07:36 PM |
| 1 | From confident to beta, can this situation be fixed? and any tips on how to avoid this behaviour?she wants to do something in the weekend and she started talking to me again, same as always, looks like a miracle happened, I'm not screwing up again, thanks ppl | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 09:39 PM |
| 1 | From confident to beta, can this situation be fixed? and any tips on how to avoid this behaviour?I'll take note on that, definitely going to learn from this, I still feel like shit though, I still hope she comes back, because I will still see her at some more parties, the problem was that I was not assuming attraction which made me take the "Safe" way. | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 01:49 PM |
| 1 | From confident to beta, can this situation be fixed? and any tips on how to avoid this behaviour?I'll definitely do that. Man, I went full retard there. Thank you for the feedback man, I appreciate it :) | /r/seduction | 15/09/15 01:48 PM |
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