1st of all, sorry if my english is not 100% good, not my 1st language, but I tried my very best :) and sorry for the foul language, it's something I really want you to listen for real.... Because I care.. (Really, I do...)

This goes to everyone who doesn't feel confident because they "don't get enough women" and specially to the ones who don't make a fucking move and loose that girl..

What I am about to say is going to be long, this is something I just realized this month thanks to a year of constant failure with women (along with success to :) ) pain (specially with this one im kind of coping atm, some oneitis shit. Yeah I hate it too..) and of course learning and man, it changed my game forever and I mean it, no exaggeration..

Don't you ever wonder why that girl you like so much sometimes ends up with a guy you think he is a douchebag? The reason doesn't matter.. Clothing, attitude, you name it, the thing is. That dude is banging the girl of your dreams, feels bad huh? hits you right in the core of self esteem right? makes you feel weak? then what do you do after that? You decide to win her back, to change or to simply move on, learn from it and "evolve" so to speak.

The thing is.. Have you ever wondered, before entering all of this whole seduction thing, who where you? who where you before all of this? Maybe someone worse, someone better. But the thing is, we are talking about women here. You know you entered here because of them... Sure sure. You also want to change, you want to be better.. Nice!!! but you know that you also want women, it's ok. I want women too. So the question is, how where you doing with women back then? Think about it.

Now let me tell you how I was, I was amazing, I was really really good, but I almost never fucked with them, kissed them or anything sexual.. Then, how the fuck can I say I was amazing if I barely even hooked up? because (drum roll people, here it comes)

"I never made a fucking move..."

Wait, so that's it? that's what you wanted me to hear? man I knew that from the beginning - You (maybe)

No no, keep reading, the reason why I said I was amazing it's because I really was, have you ever wondered why it is so easy for you to have female friends yet you get either friendzoned or you can't hook up with them? you see, the reason you have ALOT of female friends but can't never hook up, it's because you are actually sociable, you just don't make a move. It was really easy for me to have female friends because I actually was quite interesting and fun, but since I ALWAYS based my self esteem on how many women I hooked up with, I started getting more insecure, but I just realized something.. Alot of women used to like me, but very very few flirted me 1st, the only reason why I hooked up with women back then (which was rare) was because THEY flirted me, I didn't do shit (rather than just becoming friends, because that was the only thing I was good at).

And well, in case you don't know, 90% of women (atleast in my case) are passive. They normally would NOT flirt with you, it doesn't matter if they cry every night thinking about you, that's just how they work, deal with it.. Really... They don't think like men, just think about a female friend you have who has a crush on someone yet she NEVER speaks to him or doesn't want to.. I know you've either seen one or have one, that's just they way alot of women think. (not every women though, but in general)

There were ALOT of women you have met in your life who didn't like you but you actually had a chance in hooking up with because you were funny, mysterious, friendly or whatever fucking reason you want to put here. (but only if you made a damn move) or women that already liked you and wanted YOU to make a move. But you never realized it and you kept playing it safe until they got tired and as soon as they got tired (here's something that took me alot to realize) you decided to make a move and OOOH guess what!! she just wanted you as a friend!! how cute!!!! and then you say to yourself "Oh, so she never liked me, man that means I must suck" BUT in reality, she actually liked you before but she got tired of your "safe playing" or maybe she ACTUALLY wanted you as a friend not because she didn't like you, but because she DOESN'T know your flirty side (basically, the side of you that makes a move) Read that again, make sure it gets in your brain.

She liked you before, OR you actually had a chance in recieving an "Alright, netflix at your house at 8 ;)" rather than a "Heeeey duuude, I won't be able to come, I'm going out with the douchebag you always hated which I just met 20 mins ago!! but we'll do it another day :P"

If you like a girl, Make. A. Fucking. Move. As. Fast. As. HUMANLY. Possible.

Now, the reason why I say HUMANLY in caps it's because we want it to be normal, not desperate, by humanly possible I mean by hooking up with her as fast as possible without looking desperate or needy, see what I mean?

Now, I don't want you to forget about everything you learned, (kino, shit tests, confidence things you have read, etc) and go full douchebag on a girl, no no no... All I ask you to do is to be careful, make a move and don't take too long, please..

You can stop here if you want, I'll just share this sad sad story that made me realize this and how this just made me have the best week of my entire fucking life..

I did some posts before, but I deleted them because it kinda made me feel ashamed, hey atleast I am telling the truth, but the TL;DR of this sad story is:

I became friends with a girl who I ONLY found attractive. Nothing more. She got attracted to me (which sadly I knew that after the whole situation) she started texting me and shit, I slowly fell in love with her and started feeling insecure, she suddenly started hanging out with this dude (you know MR. Douchebag) and stopped going out with me, texting me and shit, and now she is dating that guy. After that a friend told me that the 1st day she met me, she told MY friend she literally wanted to fuck me that night or maybe during the week she met me. He even showed me the convo (she told him through text) she was attracted to me but I NEVER MADE A FUCKING MOVE. You feel me guys? You see the fucking loser I was?

That was a long as TL;DR but the story was 200x times longer.

After countless nights of crying and reading seduction tips, I stumbled with something that changed my perspective, something that made me start thinking things this way.. So I decided to do a little experiment..

I decided to change my mentality, I literally went back in time with myself, I dressed the same way I used to before entering the whole seduction thing, tried to remember how I was in terms of personality, humour, and bring that back.

Basically what I did was reconnect with my true self and combined it with pretty much all I learned about seduction WITHOUT bringing the insecure changes that sadly happened without me realizing it.

And let me tell you, I feel powerful man, I had the best week of my life. (maybe that's why I got inspired to write this :P)

So people, if you are less confident now, it's not because you suck, it's because you have the wrong perspective of things, you are awesome, all you gotta do is prove it.

And now to end this with a golden piece of advice. (I like it, sounds cool so don't judge me)

"Girls like dating guys who are better than them. And guys like dating girls who are hotter than them"

How can you be better?

4 Things: -Assume Attraction and make a move. -Be genuenly interested in her, that will make the conversations and other flirty stuff you do interesting and really good ;) -Never stop learning. (Go out, read, have fun.) -Remember that you also exist, have time for yourself, don't depend on others and love yourself. Really, because the only person who will be with you your entire life is yourself.

I know I know, there are alot of things that I missed such as (Oh be yourself, do some kino, be careful with what you say, have empathy with her, etc. etc.) But that's why you have read tons of articles and books right? Those 4 things and that little advice I gave you are just a base. I'm not trying to compress the whole "how to seduce" in 4 tips and 1 piece of advice.

I know some of the things I say can be debated. I know that some things I said could be wrong, but everyone has it's own perspective.

Thank you. Have a good one. And I really hope this helped you. And sorry if I came too strong with the language, I feel like I had to be direct with you people. I love you ;)

EDIT: Don't think about it. (Does she think I'm weird?, Do I touch her back now?) Just live the moment. You will learn later and evolve. Perspective is everything.