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| 1 | Scary facts about fatherless homesPart of the reason seems to be how society treats fatherless kids as well. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/20 11:21 PM |
| 1 | “I have no purpose, no job, no friends, am a 25 y-o virgin, play videos games and masturbate compulsively. What should I do?”Wow I liked the vegan conference bit | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"In your dm or here? There were 6. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/19 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"I had it requested the time it got removed, haven't gotten any response. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Yes, they would. Don't mention femininsm. Mention which women and how. Also I think those were sexist people in veil of femininsm, ulterior moves aren't uncommon. You could use a dummy account for that. I haven't witnessed any negative comments there, could be because of the good mods. You know you can post about how you pushed through your hard times and through all negativity encouraged yourself to post on, that's an achievement. You can post it on r/congratsmelikeimfive without any selfies. I… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"It's gonna be hard to believe but unless one witnesses change in atmosphere for themselves no amount of telling is gonna help. I'm a toxic person who didn't listen when you asked me to leave so there isn't any reason to trust me but It'll be over, things are gonna get better. But that doesn't happen until you filter out negative people. It's not much possible in real life but it's on the internet. Please be around reddits like r/toastme and r/congratsmelikeimfive you'd see even smallest of issue… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"I'd like to provide how patriarchy exists. Because people don't see it. My response was to the collection of comments in your post, actually that wasn't even my response, it was an explanation of why other people would react to it the way you fear them. Meanwhile you haven't shared your experience personally nor have I reacted to it personally. It got along those lines because the emphasis fell on how femininsm isn't needed when it is. Sufferings cannot be compared, we all react differently to i… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"You didn't even care to share your problems. Why don't you make a post about that too? You picked up comments and based on one personal experience you are ready to go against several new articles and several personal comments of how feminism helped women and men both. I'll give you a comparison. someone got a cut, they are bleeding, that's feminism. Then there are people like you, responding to it, haemophobic. Blood makes you dizzy. In that case do you expect the person to care less about the b… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Your insults tell about how empathic and logical you are being? You are acting on emotions right now and that's alright. We can't see things clearly when we are overwhelmed. Well is apologizing bad? I'm sorry if you are hurt by me. Sometimes just telling the problem instead of who caused the problem is more beneficial. I used patriarchy here because I saw the denial of its existence. Other than that I don't heap problems on men even though all of them who sexually harassed me were men and since … | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"You want your problems to be acknowledged by invalidating others. I'd just let you know that giving validity to other's problems helps the validity we would get. You are not realizing that things you get told are real things, not just said to make you accept things that you otherwise wouldn't. You deny proofs of several links and make your proof 'subtle' actions which can have various causes, not the one you think. Idk about others but you can discuss your problems with most feminists, including… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"FeMRA removed my comments and mods didn't even answer to me for that, do I assume they are against equality? You're feeding the lies in your head. Making any thing in sight a proof of them being against you. Not only that you act like there aren't feminist men. And those men wouldn't care about men's issues. The issues of men in a feminist environment, the post showed it an environment of female dominance and made light of sexual harassment that women and men both face. It was more about inward … | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"It seemed to violated two rules but it says I could contact the mode for that but I don't have experiences with discussing things with mods so I delayed it. | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Femininsm helps men and it's helping a lot of them while your focus is on how femininsm is hurting them and there are many loopholes, they fought with - Myth- Men who show emotions are brought down by feminists Fact- a lot of mental health issues and problems get discussed in feminist spaces Myth- sharing custody is being fought against by feminists Fact- Shared custody has been increasing instead of sole custody Myth- feminists don't care about mgm Fact- mgm has declined in us while fgm has tri… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 04:55 PM |
| -8 | An all-women Delta crew flew 120 girls between the ages of 12-18 to NASA headquarters in Houston to inspire female aviators, and to draw attention to the need to close the gender gap in aviation and promote STEM careers.Well STEM environment is really hostile to women. When in minority one can be easily bullied if groups of women enter they are gonna be able to cope better than being the single girl in the class. There's a lot of sexual harassment. https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.technologynetworks.com/tn/articles/amp/metoostem-a-mission-to-end-sexual-harassment-in-stem-319750 The way we treat cases of sexual misconduct on university campuses is an enormous problem. People found guilty can maintain their posit… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 03:14 PM |
| 0 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Actually you are in a cult and that's visible with denial of real things. So much that you ironically use logic in your username. The fact that shared custody has an increase while you complain about the decrease is a proof of it. Tender years of doctrine was response to patriarchal system that kept woman handicapped at home, exerted control over reproductive Rights(like it does today), shame her for sensitivity(men n women both now) n it was to uplift that, it's not fully gone. It should be vis… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"How do you support your claim of women not being interested in STEM? And how do you know they weren't provided encouragement for fields that you claim they now excel? Also the fight to get in army school still stays, there are a lot many things they aren't allowed to do which is just making it harder. You do not see the link with humanities? There are myths about that too. Women are told they are better with language and persuaded to join fields like that from a young age. There was even a surve… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Instead of making it personal make the focus on the crowd. And yes, there were careers I could go for but didn't, specifically by men warning me against them. Because the treatment of women is much rougher than men, they bully them for being the majority. And if I have different job options that I equally like why would I choose to get bullied and pave a way to mental and physical abuse? Though many women still go through it. And they encourage more women. They are there but with their hardships… | /r/MensRights | 11/10/19 03:08 AM |
| 0 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Yes, it's patriarchy. It was a feminist victory because it was fighting against patriarchy. And it was clarified that a lot many things are there to counter patriarchy. Patriarchy is against women having control over reproductive functions, kids having her name. By default it's still the men's last name that the spouse takes up. Divorces can be result of domestic violence, sexual abuse, toxic habits. In that case a parent would prefer sole custody for their own mental health, safety and kid's be… | /r/MensRights | 10/10/19 05:13 PM |
| 0 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"If you think you could brush off by "bzzt blah blah" I already see your lack of fair judgement and validity :) Your logic has a lot of flaws and has the same and extra victimizing trait you accuse the other side of. It's like criticizing medicines for not working while you actually have to keep taking it until the time it does its work. You intentionally exclude the elements which explain why those things happen. And then you take work in progress to criticize the end result which hasn't even be… | /r/MensRights | 10/10/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"posted it, do you want me to give you the credit for the post? https://www.reddit.com/r/MensLib/comments/dfq0ay/the_side_we_are_forgetting/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share | /r/MensRights | 10/10/19 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"In 2014, SSH commissioned a 2,000-person national survey in the USA with surveying firm GfK. The survey found that 65% of all women had experienced street harassment. Among men, 25% had been street harassed (a higher percentage of LGBT-identified men than heterosexual men reported this) and their most common form of harassment was homophobic or transphobic slurs (9%). In one of the surveys of 811 women, 99 percent experienced street harassment, including: http://www.stopstreetharassment.org/wp-c… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Yes I am. I'm just saying I want them to have separate focus so I'd like to post the other later and one at hand first. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"It's more like disregard for history, current role of it in society, also the semantics. Belief is not an evidence. You do not acknowledge the faults in you and only point in out in others. While you should do both. Toxic feminity has to be tackled so has to toxic masculinity. Cancelling terms doesn't mean the actions they imply wouldn't be needed. Without femininsm women do not rise above submissive circle and it's evident in countries lacking feminism. Men still suffer from the patriarchy ther… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Repeating something doesn't make it true. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"It doesn't. It makes brings equity that'd ensure equality for future. You're judging a building by it's construction stage. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 08:40 PM |
| 0 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"It's not. Feminism in its linguistic definition isn't. Talking of perspectives same thing could hold various meanings, doesn't rid the word of its original value if one means it that way. Once it's achieved one wouldn't even need a term for the equality. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Actually both of those are important and halfway lead to the solutions, but that's the part the subject does, and the rest is for them to improve on. And that's where it can be criticized, doing the part and putting in legit complaints of it not getting the results predicted. Only mentioned it because it seemed like the examples you gave hold no importance to you, while complaining and being open to talk indeed helps combating rape culture. Also they both face the pressure of changing. They have… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Except the first line the other things aren't due to patriarchy. But lack of feminism. Supporting toxic distinctions between genders. I haven't really shared the article with anyone yet. Though solutions from my side sounds like talking about it, reminding each other. Sometimes women fear correcting women hence they stay uncorrected even if wrong and that happens because the majority stays silent. While men are easy to get blamed for pointing it out because of tm issues connected to their group … | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Yeah | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"So the goal isn't equality? No use of the discourse then. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"And aren't we fighting for that? Uniting gets better result than dividing if goals are the same. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"I agree with all other things but focus on women in sex ad as rape victims is result of patriarchy, for creating the scene which enabled something like that to happen on greater levels. The statistics and frequencies adding to the stereotypes. Though the scene is changing, not as necessarily decreasing rape rates but men are becoming or coming out as victims of the same abuse. And for that it's important to empathize with anyone, to look into an individual than to generalize. I know both rape vi… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Your points seem to include the legal factors but not the social factors. And that's like if there's a law against it that crime must not happen, or if something is a law it's followed by default. The presence of patriarchy is in the books, religious books, it entails those things, the problem with their dressing(the thing you mentioned, their dressing, isn't that patriarchial influence when you complain about clothes being a factor about rights?) Majority of population is religious, atheists ar… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Your points seem to include the legal factors but not the social factors. And that's like if there's a law against it that crime must not happen, or if something is a law it's followed by default. The presence of patriarchy is in the books, religious books, it entails those things, the problem with their dressing(the thing you mentioned, their dressing, isn't that patriarchial influence when you complain about clothes being a factor about rights?) Majority of population is religious, atheists ar… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"They is everyone else. We is me and you. While we do not know what others are thinking, they want a positive atmosphere to lead a good life. That positive is often favorable. And when we have certain idea of being happy or fixing things, it not aligning with others, becomes the root of problems. If my idea of feeling good is loud music and your idea is reading a book silently we get that barrier. If I do not know what you want. I would feel turning up the volume is gonna be exciting, trying to c… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Feminism stands for gender equality. The false idea of challenge is actually a try at imbalancing the equilibrium of genders. Yes I have. Meanwhile I see how you read and how you ignore even if somebody agrees with you. And use that agreement as an argument. Calm down, read to understand, than to respond. Yes, not reporting is not going to solve things. Though I understand the hardships myself that comes with reporting, any other person is to be advised and supported to report. If there's a prob… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"When cultures started forming it wasn't about survival. They started a system and lived according to that. Even gorilla, chimpazees and bonbons have culture but not as advanced as men. Calling it a need and frantically fulfilling those needs goes against all administration and written scriptures. It doesn't take in regard all the books that formed rules to have women and men act the certain way. The written scriptures are the proof that is being tried to denied by nature and flow of things. A lo… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Some thoughts are a problem, that's why we seek to change opinions. Those opinions predict our behavior and way of perceiving things. If something is imaginary it's not devoid of having effects. As long as the effects are there it's to be countered. Straight out denying patriarchy while it's there doesn't sound like an unbiased stance. You could talk of matriarchy being real in Amazon women n how it could affect if they had other generations here coming from their race. It's more convenient to t… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Do you think making things disturbing for one side helps achieve peace? Whatever happens is about retaliation from frustration. They all want people around us happy because a happy atmosphere is good for us. The only time it becomes a problem is when we want them to be happy in our way and to solve that means to communicate more. Than to believe, assume, or imagine. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"They might not allow MRAs because by definition circulated outside it's said to form in response to feminism, in opposition. And for those who see feminism as gender equality see the other side as sexist and deluded. Our experiences vary so it might be that every men problem leads to toxic masculinity is something you come across often. I only argue about it when people do not want to acknowledge that among other factors. Like one complaining -as if expressing of emotions would solve the suicide… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"I didn't really get the first para. I don't want to bring up women issues in safespace for men but the same is faced by women. Patriarchy forced things on women n men, men suffered less, feminist forced things on men and women, women suffered less. But they both stay in combination of both aftermaths and the ground isn't even. One has to call for notice even if they get ignored if it's really about the change. People think women can accuse and be believed and at the same time they face victim bl… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"I'd rather ask than to assume. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 09:53 AM |
| 0 | Reframing the gender pay gap myth - a great ideaThe point is that conditioning was a result of a patriarchal system, complete seperation of women and men spheres. Whoever is being blamed, affer effects of a system that existed and hasn't worn off. So they point out the differences. And the causes. What one has to do is instead urge for support to bridge those gaps. Making it alright for women to not be a mother, making it alright for a father to be wanting to stay with his kid despite the job. (When women go on work trips they get asked who's… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"I think that's generalization. Empathy is valued there so not relating to these posts or not being able to understand the plight would go against that. In my experiences they have been open to problems about both. Everyone gets to share their views in a civil manner, coming to experiences? More insight is always welcome. The texts in your post are actually from FeMradebates comments, right? Reddit seems to allow me to copy comments but not posts. In that case how do I copy the texts in your post… | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 08:11 AM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"That means they want lives to be better for both women and men. Extra focus on one aspect doesn't mean the other has no room for discussion. I've seen several men topics there. Knowing more experiences help understand the issues deeply, to be able to find solutions. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 08:07 AM |
| 0 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"Have had a bad experience there? I'm not sure how to copy it, I'm using Reddit on a mobile device. I'm able to copy comments though, can you paste it in comments? | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"How do you collect the comments? I don't think it'll be deleted. Should I repost it or make a fresh post? | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 12:34 AM |
| 1 | "Suggesting equality will get you blocked, bigot!"I see things with the differences they have and how those need to be bridged up. That's assumptious, to think mentioning all that is about putting the blame on men. Have a nice day too. | /r/MensRights | 09/10/19 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"I think you should crosspost it on r/menslib | /r/MensRights | 08/10/19 11:19 PM |
| 7 | Re: "Men shouldn't feel bad about crying"That was my best read today. Really something that everyone should know. We often forget what's it like to be accused to do something we didn't. While we know how it feels. It because like a revenge instead of protection. Like we suffered that back then you suffer it now. Not just Empathy, compassion and unity is the key. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | "Suggesting equality will get you blocked, bigot!"Yes I was serious. And it works the same way for men in female dominated fields or vice versa. Majority of books written by men fail to portray women properly and in turns made misconceptions about women which they had to suffer from or had to stay with lack of representation. If one is asking for more of something it means it was lacking. You demand men writers for writing men perspectives if you think a lot many women are dominating the field and ruining it for men. You show no regard of the a… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | "Suggesting equality will get you blocked, bigot!"Any job is. Plenty books on women is written by men and failed to capture them in their reality. The division in work is due to a gender divide as well. People would like to pretend the hardships don't differ based on being a writer(or any job) of different gender. When people talk about hiring more women they aren't disregarding quality either, they are bridging up the earlier gaps to level the field evenly. Kind of like popular opinion fallacy. Even if you are right if majority of people say w… | /r/MensRights | 08/10/19 08:52 PM |
| 1 | "Suggesting equality will get you blocked, bigot!"Looks based on frustration where one side always gets picked and when you suggest the other you get reactions like how it doesn't really matter. Like let's say one has chocolate cake on every birthday and they propose vanilla and instead of telling their thoughts they are like 'any cake is okay'. You wanted recognition and appreciation or critcism for the change in choice but instead you get the 'I don't care what's there' attitude. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/19 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Because you claimed it's about equalityI think it's better to say we connect with and empathize humans. Everyone is a somebody not somebody's, doesn't matter there's mother daughter father brother or not, they are an individual with same value. | /r/MensRights | 08/10/19 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Robbery and victim blaming: they're okay when women do it!Pro-sexist | /r/MensRights | 09/08/19 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Robbery and victim blaming: they're okay when women do it!Yesss | /r/MensRights | 09/08/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Robbery and victim blaming: they're okay when women do it!Spiking drinks is so wrong! How can such people be trustworthy, ever? | /r/MensRights | 09/08/19 08:24 PM |
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