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True. Not all people who believe they’re good people are actually good people. And for what it’s worth, Elliot Rodgers wasn’t unattractive; he actually did have a shitty, insane, criminal mentality. If he was a well adjusted human being he’d have had romantic success. He's the best example of "it's not your looks, you're just a garbage person with a horrendous personality".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:44 PM
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Well yeah, unattractive men aren't guaranteed to be better partners; but the unattractive men who can be good partners are angry that they're often overlooked.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 05:31 PM
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I mean I can kind of get where he's coming from. I'm Gen Z in college, and the vast majority of men, including me, are hitting the gym regularly. A lot of Gen Z social media content is also about the gym. It's certainly significantly more popular than it was about a decade ago. I'll throw in some women here too. I see a lot more women nowadays interested in actually putting on muscle than before. It's a welcome change in my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 03:48 PM
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Do you have kids? I hope not...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:08 AM
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Phil Dunphy is an (in my opinion) attractive man, with a successful real estate business. He's a loving dad, with a goofy personality. He's not a loser, he's just silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:05 AM
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???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:03 AM
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Yeah, fair. My understanding of the red pill is flawed. But my question still stands for those who have more or less deplorable views on romance, and what they would think of their folks acting in such ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:12 PM
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"Women are not a prize; both of you should be prizes, and this is how relationships best function." 🙏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:52 PM
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I definitely agree with you; but why (if you do) do you think this is inherently red pill? Being more open with your grievances and wants (in a tactful way) is something I believe everyone should be taught from a young age; but I don't see it as a particularly red pill viewpoint.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:45 PM
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See this is why I asked this question. Perhaps asking red pill users in particular was a bad idea, but I know way too many people whose ideas on relationships and intimacy would completely abhor them if their own parents followed suit. I think the most stable and sustainable views on human connections are those that you can see your friends and family have, and not hate them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:43 PM
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Fair enough, I misunderstood plate-spinning. I will say though, I know people who believe that men and women should always “entertain” other options while in relationships; maybe due to ego, safety, doesn’t matter. My question might be better worded to target people who think this way. Not to say that people who think this way are necessarily red pill, or the other way around, but I certainly assume the correlation is higher than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:40 PM
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Ah. Thank you. I'm curious, and you obviously don't need to elaborate, but why do you think these views would have helped them?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:34 PM
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There have been various established cultures throughout history where it was common for one woman to have multiple male partners. Many animal species also have polyandry. If that is natural, and in many cases, historically allowed as well, do you think we should allow it today? There are people alive today who support polygamy. There also those who support polyandry. But the majority of humans alive today don't follow that. Why should we be beholden to standards of the past? If you want somethin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:17 PM
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Good foreplay, paying attention to your partner and generally being willing to learn is enough, for both men and women. Unless your size is considerably below average; in which case you have been cursed by genetics, and I truly feel sorry for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 04:25 AM
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Understand how the median works
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:14 AM
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Adderall pilled is a joke due to the fact that I have ADHD. I was prescribed adderall once, but I've never taken it. It is possible to be physically attractive, rich, and still suck at dating because you don't have the most attractive personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:34 AM
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A lot of men use dating apps like a fishing net, they cast out as wide a net as possible, in hopes of attracting at least a few women regardless of actual demographics of personality. They don’t want to exclude any possible woman, so they go for bland, uninteresting profiles. Some women also have bland profiles, but for the opposite reason. They’ve never had to actually be interesting to attract men. I specifically like women who I know I have a decent chance with (know your place in the dating …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:37 PM
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If any semblance of personality means being offensive, and if no one likes your short bursts of personality; perhaps it’s time to look inwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 07:34 PM
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As always, I keep wishing for people to not generalize the genders, or to speak on behalf of everyone. Me and my male friends aren't like you. We do not act on primal war instincts. And most of us have gone through active military service. Please speak for yourself or your community. No, ~50% of the global population is NOT your community.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:47 PM
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If you can't maintain close ties with people in your life outside of a romantic context, how do you think you can find a life partner to be with? If all the social connections you form are for the sake of getting laid, you don't value human community. That's valid, but most people don't think like you. This will lead to a sense of alienation, and other people will consider you to be weird, because they have no proof that you can manage and hold ties with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:31 PM
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There is at least one user in this comment section who says community is cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:29 PM
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That's because it is. A solid percentage of the people on this subreddit have some form of mental misbalance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:29 PM
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I'm sorry for your situation; as someone who struggles with depression, this mindset can be a very major handicap in life. I'd suggest trying to do things that help with self improvement, that can also lead to a sense of community. Like the gym. Working out can help with self esteem and confidence. I'm not saying you should be benching 225 after a week, but consistent progress gives people something to look forward to. and if you're regular at a gym, it can be worth trying to make friends. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:27 PM
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No one's saying that. Stop making things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:22 PM
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Genuinely speaking, what's stopping you from going off-grid and living by yourself in the wilderness or rural areas, without a need to pay into society. You know, since you don't find a benefit of living in society. Without community, there's no incentive to be "normal" and pay taxes and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 03:21 PM
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I like Hinge mostly because I can make comments on their profile, it’s better than blindly swiping right. I only have Tinder for hookups, but I just kinda have no idea how to go about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 11:11 AM
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Well unless you’re going out with every woman you match with, the first or second date standard should take care of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 10:12 AM
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⁉️⁉️⁉️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:44 AM
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i love how people on social media are so insanely quick to judge people they have never known
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 12:43 AM
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Once again, sex is not a secret. It’s also not a tradable luxury good that loses value with “increased ownership”. It’s a consensual act between two (or more) willing participants.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 02:45 PM
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Sex is not a secret. If I have sex with three women in a week, I (ideally) would expect them not to reveal intimate details about us, or about my physique; the same way I would respect their privacy. Now if I recorded us having sex and then uploaded that for the public to see, it's not private. Neither situation is exclusive, but only one is private. My second point is that any man who calls a promiscuous woman a whore, must also call a promiscuous man a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:57 PM
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Private =/= exclusive. A woman who has sex with multiple men in a a private setting is still having sex in private, but she is not exclusive to one specific man. The same applies to men. If you have sex with multiple women in the safety of your bedroom, you're still promiscuous, and therefore can be called a whore. I personally wouldn't, but anyone who would call a woman in the same position a whore, should ideally also call that man a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:52 PM
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Low and high libido are not split on gendered lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:16 PM
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Do you fuck with your pants on for your asshole to not be out in the open? And be consistent. You're comparing you having sex with an individual woman in a private setting. And then you go on to talk about a woman who has sex with multiple men. The man who has sex with multiple women would also be a whore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 01:14 PM
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how often does this shaming actually happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 10:34 AM
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oh 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:05 PM
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crazy. i love foreplay. going down on a woman for the love of the game is hella enjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:19 AM
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I feel like the majority of this subreddit will go quite once people realize that men and women cannot be generalized as a whole. Just because half the population shares a gender identity doesn't mean they all think the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 07:44 AM
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It's not sex as much as it is feeling like you're genuinely wanted. If it was just for the physicality of sex, prostitution is always an option. Which is what makes this all the more confusing. If you're unhappy in a relationship and you feel like you constantly have to please your partner, how does that make you feel wanted?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:30 PM
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Most women on here are (I'm assuming here, based off experience) more mature, adult women, many of whom either are or have been in long term relationships. They can speak with the calm of more experience and just not take this sub too seriously. Most men here are likely to be young, learning to understand and explore attraction, romance and sexuality. They harbor more outwardly intense feelings. Young women pretty much have no reason to be here, especially women from more liberal societies. Olde…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:27 PM
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Almost all religious spaces are heavily tradpilled. That's not anti-man at all. It does, however, peach that men need to be traditionally masculine, and this requires undertaking traditional masculine roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:02 PM
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Factory jobs went to China. White collar jobs are going to India. The reason you're losing employment is because CEOs and bosses find it more profitable to pay a foreign worker a fraction of the price to get a monetarily similar product. Removing women from the workforce isn't gonna bring about an economic golden age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:58 AM
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Having a career IS a part of the basic adult experience. A career doesn't mean being a white-collar office worker making 6 figures. Even a mechanic has a career. Students have careers. Arguably the most defining characteristic of an adult is how they establish a position for themselves in their social circles, not their access to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:55 AM
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I'm not saying you're wrong, but this seems like such a non-issue to me it's hilarious. Perhaps I'm missing the bigger picture, but no one in this subreddit has been so worked up about a minor problem, I believe. Perhaps because I've never seen this in real life. I'm not saying my experience is the norm, but I'd assume that for the vast majority of people this doesn't mean shit. Yes, there is a problem with how male vs female genitalia are referred to and approached, but women being free to say …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 11:48 AM
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Unless it's your body that carries the baby, you have no say in pregnancy matters. I support financial abortion, but for that you would need a strong welfare state or a system for wanting couples to adopt 'unwanted' babies. Child support is for the child, it's not a revenge tactic against men. FWIW, if you as a father have primary custody of the child, the mother has to pay child support. I do agree with your point on selective military service though. Either abolish the draft or make it gender …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:58 AM
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I'm not arguing in bad faith when that is the exact sentiment I've seen being said and shown. I suppose you could make a point about picking and choosing who you want in your life; but even apart from that I have rarely had a truly misandrist experience. I have worked with and studied with women of all backgrounds in college and at work. Most of whom have been strangers. I've only come across 2 full on misandrists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:20 AM
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My parents are white collar professionals. I was raised in Singapore, but I live in Houston. I go to college and major in physics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:07 AM
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In my experience it's more like someone with 50k in savings vs someone with 45k in savings
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:06 AM
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In my experience it's not. Usually, the number of men I know who hate women yet are still attracted to them is more than the number of women who hate men yet are still attracted to them. But the numbers for both cases are small: 3 vs 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 11:05 AM
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both the male and female populations have hypocrites who claim to hate the other gender, but are still sexually attracted to them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:38 AM
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Men and women both can be hypocritical. What’s there to elaborate on this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:15 AM
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It applies equally to men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 09:01 AM
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See this is what I mean. I get that the internet is a diabolical place; but no one I know who I talk to in real life gave a shit about that. And I'm a gen z guy in college in a blue city; literally the prime environment to be talking about such stuff. Perhaps I'm an outlier, but nobody in real life brings uo man vs bear. Neither men, nor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:06 AM
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I've definitely noticed that in media. My point is however, that the women I know in real life are way different. I actually have a friend who watches Bridgerton, and she told me that that scene almost made her drop the show. I guess my point is that the media is fucked, but women irl aren't (usually).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:04 AM
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😭⁉️ damn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:02 AM
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That's insane. How old are you, if you don't mind me asking? I'd be surprised in if you're younger than 30 and NRIs didn't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 08:01 AM
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Yeah that sucks. I'm sorry that happened to you. Also, I find it kinda funny how you say "pretty sure no one in this sub has heard about it", when Sikhs are some of the more well known religious communities in the world outside of the Abrahamic religions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:57 AM
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Oh lord, your experiences are fucked bro wth 🙏🏾
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:53 AM
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I can see why that sucks. However, I usually take those statements as vents or sarcastic comments. I have guy friends who regularly say "bitches ain't shit breh" out of frustration due to romantic/sexual failure. They don't legit hate women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:52 AM
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Most misandrists (and misogynists) are not exempt from hypocrisy and sexual attraction. The number of men who will hate on women but still want to fuck women is high. I'm not surprised this applies to women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:50 AM
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Yikes. I can understand having certain political differences; but why be friends with a woman who's like the posters on TwoX. Drop her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:50 AM
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This is why I'm a firm believer of 'go outside, talk to people and touch grass'.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:48 AM
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Fair enough. That's terrible. Also are you Indian/Desi by any chance. You use some specific phrases that my parents would use from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:41 AM
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Fair enough, your experiences are horrible and valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:38 AM
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This is something I agree with. I do find it more socially acceptable to disparage men as stupid or incompetent or bad parents (this makes me the angriest). In comparison, it's a lot more looked down upon to call a woman generally incompetent as a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:38 AM
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I'm not lying, this is my actual experience. I have a close female friend who straight up says "I'm not a feminist; I have too much work to do to be bothered with this". I also have a friend who posts about female-centric politics who criticizes Trump all day. It's a spectrum. And I asked a question; this isn't explicitly a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:36 AM
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Yeah that's exactly what I mean. There's this narrative being pushed that women are being sociopolitically against men en masse, and that's causing a Great Male Shift. In my actual experience, I see none of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:34 AM
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Funnily enough, the women in my life don't talk about that question. It's a stupid question intentionally designed to stir controversy. And I go to an American college in a Big Blue City. Nearly all the women in my life have better things to focus on than discuss some TikToker's video.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:33 AM
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Could you give me some examples of these normalized misandrist statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:27 AM
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I'm not either. The women in my life just happen to be normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 07:23 AM
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why are you trying to punish women for following the 4B movement? taxing single women will single-handedly cement america’s status as an authoritarian state; a fall from the liberal democracy is claims to be
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 01:26 PM
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When you're desperate for a relationship, you start getting rid of your filters. This also applies to women. If you want to date someone who can be a good spouse or parent, date someone who exhibits those values from the start, not someone who doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 07:12 AM
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I suppose in a heterosexual society, it's still easier for a socially awkward woman to find a partner than a socially awkward man. Either that or they're mentally inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:46 AM
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It really fucks with my mind how so many parents are fully ok with sending their kids to an all-boys or all-girls school. Like, do they not think successfully socializing with people of the other gender is important? Or do they magically expect their kids to find a spouse and kids once they hit 27. Insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:43 AM
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D1 sports is professional. D1 football and basketball players are paid athletes at this point. It's one of the final stages before entering the world of professional post-varsity sports. Of course, not all D1 athletes make it, but making D1 is hilariously hard. Comparing D1 to the NFL, for example, is like comparing a physics PhD to an actual physicist. Sure, it's harder to become a researcher or professor than it is to get a PhD; but I can assure you that it's hard to do the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 09:41 AM
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I don’t care about body count though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:48 PM
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😭 no because you’re so right ‼️‼️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:14 AM
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It’s not that the standards are higher. It’s more that in the case of casual sex, the woman is willing to forego the formalities of dating and go straight to bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 06:06 AM
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Lmao i’m not a woman though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 05:55 AM
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I form my opinions based on real life experience. I've never experienced this or know many people who have, so I don't agree with this. I'm not saying I'm right. I may be wrong, but until then, I have no reason to believe something I have no real life experience of. If I do, my opinion will change.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:58 AM
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I don't always agree with the idea of a Beta Bux, but I can explain it. It comes from dead bedrooms. You're not a very physically attractive guy. You've never had much success with dating. Certainly not with casual sex. You work your ass off to reach a decent level of monetary success. Maybe you're an engineer and make upper-middle class money. You're in your 30s when you marry someone. She seems to love you; but her libido is low. Aight, many women have naturally low libidos. She's usually not …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/24 01:20 AM
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Do you not believe that one should do good things without expectation of reward? Or at least without expectation of sexual gratification in return?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 03:24 AM
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Time marches on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:04 AM
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Fair enough, but I never have completely disagreed with the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:21 AM
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Good is itself a highly ambiguous term. Good to one person is bad to another. People use 'good' because no one wants to be specific, and so we can all rely on the "oh but he/she/they had a bad personality"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:01 AM
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Dating women? Sure. Meeting women? In my experience this is a pretty decent way.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:50 AM
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I legitimately have no clue what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:49 AM
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I get what you mean, but things can change. I was fat as shit in high school, and I never experienced teenage love. Taking care of my physique and my wardrobe has turned things around a bit. I sometimes still resent my lack of being seen as attractive in my younger days, but it's not all hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:48 AM
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You're absolutely right, different women like to be approached differently. However, I'd rather err on the side of caution and be more 'careful and passive' than mistakenly piss someone off.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:47 AM
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I think the thing most people (especially men) on forums like these fail to understand is that social relations and dynamics cannot be easily studied and controlled in a replicable, empirical manner. Whether it's friendships or relationships, shit usually just 'happens'. I can only think of one time I actively pursued someone in the name of friendship, and that's because I was determined to make at least one person at the end of my first day of college, so that I wouldn't end up being a loner. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:46 AM
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Happy to hear you're in a better place now dude. I see your point now; and yeah, the chase is not always enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:43 AM
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If you're interested in knowing some of the more minute details of this example, I could try and answer your questions. Dating is hard for the majority of men, and I don't wanna gatekeeper anything, even if it's not a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:39 AM
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As someone who has contemplated suicide due to heavy depression and lack of family support, shit's tough man. I hope you never fall into such a devious mental spiral. However, if you can't find it in you to enjoy being around women outside of sex, do you genuinely believe you'll find success in an LTR with one? If you can't stand someone, forced exposure may not be the answer. There's other ways to get sex. Even if you can't get hook-ups, there is always prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:33 AM
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If someone you're not attracted to hits on you, but they didn't do anything wrong in their approach, would you date them? Maybe you just went through a break up. Or perhaps you're tired of being in a relationship due to emotional fatigue and would like to be single for a while and pull yourself together. Maybe you're just experiencing deep loss in life and would like to be alone for a while. Someone hits on you and does nothing wrong. Would you still date them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:29 AM
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What makes an LTR desirable if you find it mentally stressful to entertain women? Social pressure? Sex? I'm genuinely curious. I know plenty of people in marriages and relationships who would be better of single..
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 11:26 AM
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wow what got you so riled up?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:17 PM
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so 3. have a dominant personality
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:53 PM
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Your last statement makes your comment a lot more sensible. In the West, young women rarely chase after men unless they are really, really attracted to them to the point of immediate need.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:10 PM
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Do you have a foolproof, repeatable method that leads to success with courting attractive women in any (or most) situations? If yes, please let me know. If you're going to say: Be rich Hit the gym Have a dominant personality then please save it, or give me something else.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:57 PM
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Blue pilled users, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:50 PM
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Well she was responding to everything I was saying, even if it wasn't directed to her. She laughed at my jokes and complimented how I played. She commented on my arms. Her body language seemed favorable. Of course, she didn't directly tell me she liked me, but It's not like she needed to She's a Pakistani-American college girl. They rarely openly chase men or directly flirt. That's not the culture they're raised in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:49 PM
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Well she connected with me later on Instagram, and we chatted and flirted. She's the type to wail till marriage for sex, so we didn't talk for very long as I'm not willing to wait that long. I've not always been successful, but I gave this example because I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:39 PM
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Dating is not an academic field. It is certainly not a science, where experiments are quantifiable and repeatable. Reading a book on physics can give you some insight into physics. Your only ways to get better/be good at dating are: Be genetically blessed Be rich enough to afford sugar babies Hone social skills and game, and take care of your physique and skin Give up
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:10 PM
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Comparing women to stocks is a pretty bad idea, but going by your analogy: Either be Renaissance Technologies and make 66% higher returns than the market by having the Medallion Fund. (Be genetically blessed with height, fast metabolism, good hair and godly looks). Have a diverse portfolio such that one loss doesn't hurt too bad (ask out multiple people).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:07 PM
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I know it's bad and complicated. But until some miracle changes hetero dating dynamics such that women aren't in a position to pick and choose who they like, you as the man have to chase and put in the work to start the relationship. It's not all black and white and women also put in effort, but your job is to be the primary 'hunter'. You also have dating apps, but that's not really a better alternative. I've found more success in real life than online.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 03:00 PM
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If my post gave you the impression that I was just looking to score then my bad. I'm usually looking to start something casual and see if it takes a serious turn. I'm not really into hookup culture. Also tbh, if you're just flirting at a bar or while playing pool, I doubt the expectation is to get a serious relationship out of it. But in general, you're absolutely right. Hiding your intentions and pretending to care about commitment is a way of defrauding other people of their time and effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:58 PM
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I was gonna play with my friend anyway, it was no extra effort. Women have the luxury of picking and choosing in heterosexual dating dynamics. Unless you're drop down gorgeous, uber model level attractive, she will never chase you when she has other options. If you have no interest in women altogether, then your comment makes sense. Otherwise, you probably need to get ready to pursue.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:21 PM
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You're welcome!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:18 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:18 PM
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I do agree that I've been focusing too much on the autistic aspect, and for that I apologize. However, most of what I'm saying is based on my own experience of how I've seen women treat autistic men when it comes to dating. I myself have ADHD and depression. People romanticize it too much without knowing what reality can be like. I've spent days rotting in bed, ghosting people and forgetting to do my work or even just keep myself and my surroundings clean. Many people think depression means bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 02:18 PM
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The biggest “black pill” in my experience is being neurodivergent. I’ve straight up seen and heard women say they don’t like a guy because “they give me the ick” or that “they don’t act normal”. Looks matter, but fitting in matters more. The only way to avoid this is standing out in a good way. Being autistic is not a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:32 PM
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In this particular situation, yes. Didn't lead to much since she was muslim and wasn't interested in sex before marriage, and while I respect that, I don't wanna wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:16 PM
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I'm not solely focusing on my WOI (Woman of Interest); so that I'm being social and overall a chill person to be around. It takes pressure off of my WOI. It also shows that I know how to hold a conversation with more than one person at a time. However, I'm still sticking to my WOI. For example, we could make pool teams where I'm paired up with my WOI. It shows that I have interest in one specific woman, and that I'm not shooting shots at everyone randomly.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:14 PM
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I'm genuinely sorry if such a horrible rejection happened to you or anyone you know. But I've never seen anything like this before. Granted, I do almost all my socializing on a college campus; but I'm not particularly attractive or rich. The worst rejection I've gotten is when I asked this girl out and she straight up told me "No, I have a boyfriend". Usually it goes "Thank you/That's very flattering, but I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend/I'm not looking at new relationships." At best, a girl told m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 01:07 PM
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There is no step by step playbook. People are not machines with explicit instructions. Are all the men here autistic? Don't approach a woman when they're clearly busy. Approach them in a casual manner without being too heavy handed. Give them the freedom to choose while also not being passive. Example: I go with a friend to the pool tables at my college games room. I play a few games with him. I see another small group of girls at another table, and one catches my eye. She's not with too many pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:42 AM
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what separates us from animals are: The ability to speak and communicate amongst our species in sophisticated language. The ability to think beyond our primal instincts. The ability to use our thumbs. Homo sapiens have existed before modesty and clothing existed. And many tribes put less emphasis on modesty compared to other people. This isn't a modern concept. Also, on a purely scientific note, humans are also animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 07:30 AM
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Being overweight or obese to a point of health concern != having a runner's body. Having some chub or some squishiness is nothing unhealthy. How attractive it is is another concern; but it doesn't really put your health in danger. Stop believing that your only options are either super fit or approaching a lifetime of insulin shots.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:53 AM
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In that case, I genuinely feel bad for you, you got dealt a shitty hand in life. The neurotypical advantage in dating is one of the most brutal black pills, since you literally can't change the way your brain is wired. Society does indeed suck for you, and I have nothing to say to that. Good luck with any future endeavours.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:32 AM
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In my experience (both first-hand and second-had), women who're more likely to follow traditional gender roles (the woman is expected to be the homemaker while the man is the primary breadwinner) are also more likely to want traditional men who pay for everything. Women who're less likely to follow such roles (more egalitarian relationship dynamics, where domestic and financial responsibilities are more equally split) are more likely to be ok with splitting the bill. The only time I paid for eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:29 AM
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Anyone who lived through middle school, high school and/or college with functioning eyes, ears and a brain knows that this advice is bullshit. Looks absolutely matter, everyone knows that. Sure, people lie and say that it doesn't; but unless you're autistic then you would know that that's false based on lived experience. Have you never socialised properly or tried dating as a kid/teenager or were you homeschooled? I feel genuine sympathy for autists; they legitimately have it hard in life. Neuro…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:22 AM
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