Men have their own form of AF/BB...kinda

It's commonly believed here that most men have low standards. These men are willing to sleep with almost any woman who're willing to sleep with them. I do in fact know of a few men like this in real life, although it's a LOT more rare than on reddit I suppose.

These are the men who are 'chubby chasers' or go for 'uggos'. They don't care too much about who they fuck as long as they get laid. As long as I can put my penis inside a woman, I don't care. Of course, everyone still has some type of standard, so my words are exaggerated; but you get the gist.

These men would have different standards for their actual partners though. All of a sudden, they want a woman who is socially well-received. Someone who is wife material. A woman who is pleasant to be around. A woman who is seen as attractive, or at least average. Essentially, a woman who is well liked in society.

Now, do all these men get the gf/wife of their dreams? Of course not, why else would they have low standards. But they still follow these dynamics.

The ultimate test of desirability for a man is if a woman (they're attracted to) is willing to have casual sex with them. The ultimate test of desirability for a woman is if a man (they're attracted to) is willing to bet a part of their life, and genuinely enjoy being around for them without just wanting sex.

But even these men have higher standards for romantic partners than sexual partners.

There is no hypocrisy in the difference of standards in men and women in my opinion, in terms of relationships. There is simply a discrepancy of means. It is easier for an average woman to achieve their AF/BB lifestyle than for an average man to do so. But do not take this as a sign that men don't want to. They simply can't.