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hey somebody point out where i was disrespectful <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:55 PM
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no it’s that most women are looking at men for what they can do and/or can bring most men are trying to woo/chase women. keep them happy. keep them interested. etc this leans heavily on men in general this is what women want in general in situations where this is not the case what i’ve been saying doesn’t apply it’s just that most women in general do not want the alternative routes of relationships that doesn’t focus on those concepts that’s why it’s generally considered a net loss for a man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:48 PM
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men who have money usually get married so it’s not that married men have more money it’s that men with more money get married more if a man went into a relationship to get all benefits out of a woman i doubt for one that women would want that arrangement and i doubt for 2 that women would consider it a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:46 PM
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so you think men should or would put a lot of effort into a woman there is 0% chance they will ever have sex with? what is a relationship or marriage that has 0% sex in it? why did he do all that he did to be in this “relationship” that has 0% sex in it? help me understand that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:42 PM
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how are they going to get with a woman if they don’t do anything the woman wants? isn’t the consequence of losing the woman the reason why men do everything to keep the relationship? you do realize everything i said was built on the premise that the man wants to keep the woman right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:39 PM
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you didn’t read because it’s geared heavily where the responsibility is on men the closest equivalence is parent children “relationship” or hierarchy but without the authority and boundaries women in most relationships have ultimate self expression. ultimate self centeredness and the way relationships are structured the man is trying to chase/woo the woman and trying to make her happy and to choose him and for her to stay and not leave which means women have demands that need to be filled. wants…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:37 PM
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wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:23 PM
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if you read it she admits i never hurt her physically but she says that’s not the only way you can hurt someone and idek what that means she says i’m not a woman so i wouldn’t understand
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:22 PM
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no men do not want relationships they want aex. they want women a relationship is a whole other thing we say we want it. because we have to want it. if we want want one particular woman. and don’t want her to be with other people or to lose interest or to ruin our own chances women are searching for relationships more than men and men are going to say whatever you want to hear it’s not like men are just going to go against what women want to hear and say if they are trying to be with them i do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:21 PM
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the difference is. family relationships are hierarchical and friendships more nuetral relationships lean heavily on the man in general so relationships are never seen as the same as friendships at least not romantic ones where you are living together or spending money and time solely on one person for the stated goal/outcome of being together sexually with only one person and prioritizing that one person and etc it could be likened to a father and daughter. but parent and children relationships …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:15 PM
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i don’t understand what that even means can you help me or not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:59 PM
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a relationship is a net loss for a man it’s responsibility. it comes with a loss of money. loss of time/energy. and you are stuck with one person it’s what women want relationships are scary. men say they want relationships because they know what women want but the reality of it never dawns on them until they have to experience it men want women. but not necessarily relationships if that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:57 PM
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i think a lot of women’s problems come from arguing about understanding a situation or being categorized everything can be explained or categorized or given an archetype women love vague language that has no concrete meaning and can mean multiple things treating someone like a possession is normal and is done in all walks of life matter of fact if you didn’t do it. you would see it as abuse if a man was in a relationship with a woman. didn’t care what she wore or what she did or who she was with…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:55 PM
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i’m going based off your title in that that’s what you believe even if in your body you ask for peoples thoughts and then state differences you see or hear between the two phrases centered on the opposite sex it still wouldn’t be a discussion or debate if you didn’t think they had some type of equivalency and therefore should be viewed the same way i.e insults in your opinion based on the title
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:48 PM
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i need advice so the woman i’ve been fucking and dealing with for almost a year who in the beginning thought i was a bitch and soft and could walk all over me when i started implementing dark triad tendencies/strategies started becoming “afraid” of me she still disrespects me and tells and hits me. but she claims she’s scared. so idk what that means she says that i’m hurting her but admits physically i don’t hurt her and she admits that she consents to sex and consents to me being aggressive and…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:44 PM
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men and women aren’t the same what’s insulting to a woman won’t be insulting to a man all of the time we are different have different biological imperatives and social desired outcomes majority of the arguments on this sub are geared and based on the premise that men and women are identical but that’s not the case but if you did think it was the case. that would be the only reason you would think it’s intelligent to say if women call men this as an insult if men say the same thing to women it sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 12:35 PM
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it’s not about other people it’s about thinking something is morally wrong but calling it legal and then calling the person doing something legal morally wrong when most laws that have to do with humanity has some form of morality imbued into it it’s understood for most people who believe in their nations laws that by following those laws they are morally correct or good or etc and by breaking that law is how you become morally wrong or corrupt or etc i’m not going to explain further as i’ve exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:33 PM
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so name some laws that dont have morality attatched then name some laws that dont have morally attatched to it being legal that if someone does it is morally wrong even though its legal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:26 PM
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i’ve had this happen in real life i’m arguing concepts it’s not about theft it’s not about abortion it’s about calling things you think are morally wrong legal. but then continuing to say they are morally wrong it’s about that concept and how that doesn’t make sense to me so i used theft as an example of how logically doesn’t make sense and isn’t consistent i can use murder. i can use assault. i could use lying. i could use whatever as an example that’s going over your head but in real life. som…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:23 PM
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so explain why you think things that are morally wrong should be legal make that part logically consistent as most legal laws are really morality laws if you are saying something is not morally right and is morally wrong but you make it legal while still calling the action morally wrong what is the point of making it legal i can see if something was morally nuetral or good but i just need this concept explained to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:20 PM
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so what is your stance. that things you think are wrong morally should be legal. but if you do those type of things that are legal you are still morally wrong or a bad person in general? i’m trying to understand if that is your thought process. how do u square that into logical consistency
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:14 PM
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that’s not the anology the anology is legal is paired with being morally correct or good to say something is morally correct or good but if you do that thing you actually are bad. makes no sense under that understanding but if that went over your head that is ok too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:12 PM
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so let me say this another way from your perspective are things that are legal generally seen as good or morally correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:09 PM
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if i said theft should be legal but people who steal aren’t good would that be a logical consistent wise argument in your opinion from your perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:02 PM
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yea i changed my type by actually seeing attractive women and my type was changed and i never went back
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:58 PM
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if they consent they consent. if they are willing to do it then they are willing to do it if you feel it’s creepy ok igs it’s also creepy when she expects me to spend money on her. and watch the movies she wants. and already know what to do during sex. and emotionally regulate myself while she screams. and do what she wants majority of the time. and compromise. and etc and none of those things are things i want to do or like but i consent to and do willingly igs it’s just all creepy based on you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:03 PM
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why is that a foreign concept for them to understand i do things i dont want to do all the time. for people i care about or etc. i think as men we are just used to doing stuff we dont want to do or don’t like for a greater good or ulterior motive or for someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:54 PM
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it’s about consent if you’re willing to do it idk where liking it matters if you don’t like it don’t do it being a woman comes into the conversation. because you keep acting like men and women are the same men and women are different. we are not supposed to do the same things. reciprocate the same things. have the same exact desires. etc etc we are different and that’s ok men can be homosexual. or liked to be pegged. or whatever else men may choose to do idk what that has to do with me or you as…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:47 PM
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thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:37 PM
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idc if they get pleasure from it the basic assumption is people are homosexual because they get pleasure from it idk how that’s a point or an argument for anything not being homosexual you being penetrated. you penetrated a man. you assuming positions that women take to be penetrated or just aesthetically. etc etc technically/literally it’s not homosexual but ima fully encompassing way of how i’m using the word it is like when guys say that’s gay. and it’s not talking about men having sex with e…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:36 PM
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i’m not a woman so is it also not fair that i don’t have periods or go through pregnancy or am i just not a woman so it’s not something that i have to go through or worry about? a penis penetrates a vagina life is pain working out is pain what’s important is consent and willingness like i said earlier men and women are not the same and im not expecting 1 to 1 reciprocation. nor am i expecting us to do the same things for each other or etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:32 PM
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you can think all those things and like i said it is homosexual i dont want to do it if other people do it its on them and them being homosexual it has nothing to do with me whatever masculinity you have in mind. i don’t want to be apart of or exhibit or imbue. and whatever you choose to think or feel or do has nothing to do with me so ok
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:26 PM
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ok then be grateful i’m grateful that im having sex the way i want too too igs we are both grateful then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:22 PM
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basically what you said if they consent they consent if they leave they leave it’s not about forcing but it is about wanting what you want and trying to get what you want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:21 PM

good to see you too. i hope you are rich and blessed one day i’m still trying to figure this all out hopefully i figure it out soon
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:19 PM
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if men want to do homesexual things it’s not my problem i can call it homosexual. i can say im not going to do it. i can point out what is happening and if you were pro acceptance. you would just accept that they are acting homosexual and just move on like i said i don’t have faith in men. a lot of men do gay things all the time. i don’t have to follow them or replicate their failures. men and women aren’t the same i have a penis she has a vagina i penetrate she receives we are not the same. we …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:17 PM

same. somehow still alive. i’ve been fucking that woman. and it was what i dreamed of. but i’m dealing with the situation. and i’m trying to understand it. a lot is going on
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:06 PM
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i like to have sex i want to have sex my way i want to enjoy sex so if you want to look at that like a sex doll then you look at it like a sex doll then i do a lot of things for the woman i’m involved with that i don’t want to do and or don’t like but i do it for her everytime i asked a woman what she enjoys during sex it involved me doing something and being the proactive one so i don’t see your point but i’ll just agree with your premise to see what you’re actual point is. if you have one. i d…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:04 PM
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me not allowing something or wanting something on moral or logical or virtuous ethics or code of honor call it what you want i don’t have to live like you and i don’t want to any man that wants to be pegged. in my way of saying thins is homosexual and they should just accept that’s what they are if you are so pro homosexuality. you should see nothing wrong in what i’m saying me personally idc. because i’m not doing it or being apart of it. or around it. or seeing it. so idk why you are consisten…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:00 PM

how have you been? it’s good to see you. hope all is well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:50 PM
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i don’t understand what you said “so much compromise and being pegged is very different than with a man” but to respond to what i think is your point for me and my perspective and all those who share that perspective whether it’s a man or woman pegging you. it is homosexual. and that’s that some men can understand that. and maybe some can’t. but i’m not here to persuade anybody to live by virtue or honor or anything i’m only worried about my problems and my issues. and my integrity and virtue an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:49 PM
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not technically in a literal way but in the way i use and understand the word it definitely does and if you are ok with being that type of person that has nothing to do with me and what i allow in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:45 PM

what i learned with arguing with women is you just have to accept their emotional premise of painting you as the bad guy and then after that they have no argument the argument only comes when you want to disagree with how they are framing things they don’t have a point most times it’s just about shaming you or painting you as the bad person for opposing whatever their perspective is at the time so when you accept the premise. that’s usually the end of the discussion/argument etc
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:42 PM
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i wouldn’t let her peg me i’m not homosexual i wouldn’t let her choke me. but if she did choke me against my will or something. then i don’t really care. but i’m not really into the emotional psychology of it i’m into the desire the attraction and visual stimulation of it a woman can’t really do much for me to enjoy sex just be attractive and let me do what i want or do things in an attractive way. other than that. idk what the point of it is. i think the difference is i stick my dick inside the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:37 PM
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because it’s what i want the same reason i do things that she wants that id never do or want to do if she didn’t want them done it’s about compromises and selflessness and doing for someone else and sometimes i want what i want. and i’m going to ask what i want. even if normally she doesn’t want to do it. and hopefully she does it for me. which has happened which i’m grateful for
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:25 PM

no
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:22 PM
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you lack reading comprehension all i said in response to you is no matter what i say or you say you will find men who want to fuck u or be with u or agree with you therefore making the fact that you have men who will fuck u or be with u or agree with you the basis of your argument does not mean that you are right or saying truth but other than that you lack understanding. and you aren’t here to address what i say you are here to focus on a singular point. and you want me to say specific things t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:57 PM
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like i told the other woman if all you want to do is argue results regardless of what you say or think and regardless of what i say or think you will have men who want to fuck u or marry u or agree with you regardless if u are wrong or lying or etc. you can find a man who wants to fuck u or have kids or be married so i don’t understand how that’s the basis of your argument i never said u wouldn’t be able to find anybody to fuck u or marry u or have kids with u or agree with u to be with u you ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:18 PM
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there’s nothing wrong with sex or sexual attraction personality and character are UNIVERSAL HUMAN TRAITS IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU BEING A WOMAN i have personality and character and im a man. you have personality and character and you’re a woman you have hobbies. i have hobbies. you can make friends. i can make friends etc etc that has nothing to do with specifically being a woman or man so if a man is specifically attracted to women why would his innermost desire be for something that both …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:27 PM
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ok but the actual point is that women are bringing nothing else of value and are expecting to never be expected to be required to do anything of value therefore this is what’s left of actual value therefore it’s best to focus on these things of value and tolerate and deal with everything else women are deciding their own value and it’s not actually valuable what they choose to call valuable because they are either trying to emulate men or be self sufficient while emulating a man is counter produ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:09 PM
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no they are not you expect YOURSELF to attain that and provide that but in general it’s not a requirement or expected or sought after for most men it’s not what starts the attraction or pursuit or desire now you can be and do whatever you want and i’m not telling you not to achieve those things and i’m not saying it’s wrong to achieve those things i’m just saying men are not looking for women to be what women are looking for men to be and you don’t have to accept the validity of this statement a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 04:09 PM
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women ask for so much but bring nothing but sex and desire and child birthing capabilities but ask for so much. from u having your life together. to being socially and emotionally adjusted and finely tuned enough to handle her NOT being emotionally adjusted and finely tuned all the time. to allowing her to be emotionally responsive. while u suppress your emotions and remain calm under pressure. to financial stability. to looks. to intelligence. to fashion. to social likability. to etc and etc th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:56 PM

this is dumb the best thing you can do is triple or double down try harder women aren’t men she isn’t going to suddenly start trying because you stopped trying she isn’t suddenly going to be the man in the relationship now if your advice is to leave that woman and go on to another one that’s just a quitters mentality also most women are emotional. most emotions change from time to time so in theory your rule/plan will cause u to leave every women eventually for personality changes or reasons may…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:21 PM
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you being active in partner sex as you put it is something passive/receptive people say because they have to depend on the other person to do anything or to make it happen. they can not make any solo statements of them doing anything to anybody. because they are receptive or being passive their whole language devolves into symbiosis and teamwork and cooperation that is their perspective i understand their perspective but that’s not my perspective based on how i engage in sex and my experiences r…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 09:25 PM
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i don’t understand you tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:05 PM
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wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:16 PM
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i really don’t understand your point mutual means acknowledging participating parties if i say i fucked a woman i’m acknowledging that someone other than me is apart of the experience and situation idk how sex became degrading to u personally but that is your opinion what you’re saying is coming off whiny and annoying and it’s frustrating it’s like im listening to my grandma talk about something. but the whole subject is about policing me. you aren’t going to fuck for me. you aren’t going to get…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 07:10 PM
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so what is your position that women and their ways of doing and seeing and processing things is superior? atp i’m just trying to understand u you are saying that im saying things im not saying idk if u even have sex or like sex im just trying to understand ur perspective i dont want to be or act or think or look like a woman and both things are ok how you choose to see things and talk and look and act and how i choose not to do things like u and choose not to talk like you and choose not to look…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:20 PM
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yes finally fucked a 10 with huge boobs. low body count. in college. lets me fuck her how i want finally. tolerates and puts up with me. etc etc how long this will last idk depends on my desire level i wouldnt say everything i learned was from redpill but redpill detached me from blue pill detaching from redpill really means testing and critiquing redpill which is when you create your own personalized pill which still derives and is connected to red pill as it’s supposed to be based on truth and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:55 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:49 PM
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that is your perspective and thought process based on the fact that you mostly recieve and are passive i’m presuming/assuming that’s the only way it makes sense for you to internalize and process language that way and you’re also telling me how i feel and telling me how u feel i don’t think the way u do. so i don’t think you will understand what im trying to say to you. which is fine. you have your perspective and the way you want to speak and think and i don’t have to have your perspective or s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:47 PM
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because they are dependent and need the other person to perform. regardless if they do or do not do anything which reflex in the language and perspective women use and are shaped by in sex i just had sex with a woman recently. she said and i quote “ “you fucked me aggressively” “you fucked me like a dog” “you fucked me like you fuck the other women you are used too” that’s just the dynamics in general not 100% because some men and women are anomalies or weird or etc. but in general the penis has…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:40 PM

maybe i’m destined to be a pompous poet then
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:52 PM
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what do u call it when u hit someone? when u take from someone? when u lift someone? when u guide someone? what do u call it when u are the dominant one? the proactive one. the one that gives. the one that is the initiator? i’m pretty sure the language used and thought process would be different than if you were the one that was recieving or being guided or being hit or etc that really should explain everything men are not women and women are not men so are thoughts and language and perspective …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:51 PM

rebelliousness/stubborness + i associate writing like this to this sub + it helps me separate thoughts and breaks in continuous thoughts + it looks more aesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:44 PM

i understand what you are saying this should reach a conclusion there are a myriad of options and possible outcomes i’m just confused tbh what do you honestly think from your perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:35 PM
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“it’s fine if you want a haughty hottie” is the whole premise of my defense i actually don’t want a “haughty hottie” i am willingly dealing/tolerating a haughty hottie because i want her and it’s perfectly reasonable to critique character flaws. when personality traits more or less are choices one chooses to make a habit out of making and becoming also if your stance is being hot makes a woman act like this. then that would leave one to believe the only reason why unnattractive women present as …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:43 AM
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yes types includes looks but the op’s focus was on personality being a type and not complaining about the personality type of a woman you choose to deal with and i’m addressing why it’s actually understandable and correct to critique a character flaw in somebody you are choosing to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:37 AM
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that makes sense but explain/expound on that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:36 AM
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you are blaming my comprehension but you are not understanding she’s lying so i get you are saying look at her actions if i look at her actions she likes me? or at least isn’t giving up on me. if i look at her words she hates me and wants nothing to do with me if i look at her interaction with my actions. it would seem like she’s mine if i listen to her words about her interaction with my actions. it would seem she wants nothing to do with me i’m really confused and ill meditate on this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:10 AM
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i’m not going for women because of their personality type i’m going for them because they are attractive then what follows is either i like or tolerate or hate their personality type meaning it is perfectly reasonable to complain about a woman’s bad personality just like it’s perfectly reasonable to complain about fixable flaws that we all possess in theory some men do go after personality types. so i’m not speaking for them some men don’t go for personality types and i’m speaking for them power…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:07 AM
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i need advice again so listen. i met up with her. i fucked her. i was agressive i’ll explain that later i didn’t go all out. but i was thrusting deep or balls deep as they say. it was explosive. continuous. no condom. doggystyle. missionary. as far as sex. if we take away the aggressiveness. pretty standard/vanilla stuff i filmed some of it ok now personally i believe i should’ve expended more energy until today but to back track after that. because of my dark triad implementations to combat her…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:58 PM
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tbh i look better naked and i like looking at women naked so i really don’t care about fashion or the fashion of women for example if a woman wearing expensive and nicely dressed was paired against a sexually attractive woman in a weared down tank top and a g string. i’m choosing the sexually attractive woman. but i do care about fashion only in the sense that im trying to attract women and not be disqualified so it really just depends on what women want or find attractive as far as fashion idrc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:30 AM
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it’s fine i understand u so there’s nothing left for me to say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:19 AM
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you existing wearing what you wear. acting like you act. etc etc actually nevermind if you want to be unaware then fine ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:02 AM
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what friendships are driven for YOU you are not the arbiter of what friendships should be driven for like i said im not looking to you for approval or understanding i’m just trying to understand the purpose of your post and understand what you mean that’s all i’m not trying to be understood by u
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:58 AM
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you didn’t naturally attract them they were attracted you already did something u not being aware of what attracted them doesn’t negate the fact that you are attracting them through specific reasons and ways and etc if your whole point is you like being unaware and that’s fun to you i’m not here to change your mind or advocate for you to be aware. that’s your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:44 AM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:43 AM
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well you are asexual so that puts things into perspective as someone that’s asexual do you think that perhaps you can have different thoughts than someone who is not asexual can you fathom that some people do not want to talk and are not searching for personality and do not like being around people of the same sex? when you say shouldn’t be with them? wdym? i thought i were only speaking about friendships explain yourself also i’m not telling u anything. and i’m not trying to make u do anything.…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:42 AM
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i actually don’t know i don’t strive to be friends with men and i don’t put trust into people. especially not men and i also don’t search for emotional fulfillment
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:38 AM
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it’s better to ask then to guess
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:29 AM
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as a heterosexual man it just doesn’t make sense to want to strive to be around men or be friends with men to pursue men for friendships or for their company does not make sense from a heterosexual perspective i’m wondering why certain types of people push that agenda i’m trying to understand your perspective. i’m not really trying to be understood. because i’m not trying to change your mind. and i’m not yearning to be understood about this topic just trying to understand why u think the way you…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:29 AM
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have you ever heard a woman say. that they’ve seen attractive men and it doesn’t mean anything? have you ever seen a woman gush over a man and call him hot but not go up to talk to him and just let him disappear without doing anything have you ever seen a woman like a man then suddenly not like him based on something happening or just out of the blue for no reason if you have then you should understand there is no naturally attracting women women are attracted for various reasons but it’s not a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:26 AM

i never said you were i was giving reasons why heterosexual men have friends i wasn’t explaining your situation or speaking for all situations of friendships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:22 AM
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im asking you to explain what you mean i wasnt speaking for you i was explaining a different perspective rn i want to understand your point of this post
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:21 AM
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explain
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:21 AM

ok how does that conflate or correlate to emotional maturity?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:20 AM

tell me what you understand so far because i’m asking you. why men would want to be around other men i am making assumptions or better yet going through all the possible reasons someone might insist on that course of action as far as conflating friendships with sexuality i’m a man from my experience and just living as a man. striving for friendships or wanting to be around other men is not something that is wanted or valued. not from the heterosexual community being forced to be friends since ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:19 AM
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men shouldn’t want to be around other men like in the post below yours trying herd men to deal with and socialize with eachother makes no sense why would men want to be around other men it is ok for men to be heterosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:48 PM

i’ve thought a lot about this. it’s because men aren’t homosexual women and homosexual and asexuals really love trying to herd men into these weird friendship/communities/societies i don’t want to hang around men. talk to men. touch men. be emotional with men. etc etc. i really don’t. i can understand war. or you need help. or survival. but it’s not a want i don’t understand why a man would want to be around other men. it doesn’t make sense and idk why women and certain types of men push that no…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:46 PM
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blue pill advice does work it’s called luck and results it’s called winners write history if a loser has a girlfriend then he can be bluepill and etc because he has the girlfriend he could be wrong about everything yet he will believe it think of trust fund babies. nepotism. etc etc once someone has power or fame or influence they will say anything and because of the positive feedback loop they will believe it you only become redpill by being enlightened or being unlucky or having to find the tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:42 PM
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women are passive and they are also indifferent they don’t care about men in general they care about winners and success and etc that’s what you aren’t understanding also women are rebellious so for the most part they will just be against whatever you say and whatever you want if you say you expect women to be independent and strong and to do things on their own they will have a problem if you say you expect women to be helpless and always need someone for them to survive they will have a proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:38 PM
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i don’t need women i want attractive women there’s nothing a woman can do for me. but i want hot women like i said before in this world all there is too do is be around people or improve yourself or focus on your feelings idc about feelings. and i don’t like men or hanging around people for no reason. but i do like attractive women just today i talked to two women. and i avoided a lot of men. and thats like how i want to live. i dont understand your post
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:34 PM
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this is dumb women are passive in general they don’t know they like you until they have an emotional response until they are ready to date until they are horny until u force a reaction or you create a connection or etc only way your post makes sense is if majority of women in the world pursue men. and chase men. and try to have sex with men. and spend money on men. an change themselves to appeal to men. and will look past all flaws for a majority of men and etc in a world where women are passive…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:29 PM
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i don’t understand the point of this conversation of objectification so can you explain it instead of arguing about it please tell me why this matters at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:25 PM
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so what is the conclusion you came to with this data?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:23 PM

why do you say we are compatible? why are you sure we will stick together? when i’m unsure at the present moment i want advice on what to do. ima see her soon supposedly. like in the next week or 2. and i need to make this day/night. the night where i create an everlasting moment that will change the tides of this war. in other words im trying to reach her. she keeps pushing me away from her heart. but here we are. i can’t accept being lied to and taken advantage of. i don’t lie to her. it’s jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:21 PM

i can’t handle being lied too. or being betrayed or trusting and having my trust broken i haven’t reached that level yet i can’t break up with her too much has happened she can break up with me and she’s threatened too or told me it’s over. but she still is in my life and doesn’t block me so idk i’m not forcing her to stay but i also can’t force myself to leave too much has happened also im not attracted to anyone else atm. so its just one of those situations
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:17 PM

i don’t know what you mean by that but i’m beyond emotional language or emotional war meaning a feelings based argument or criticism isn’t really a way to get me to understand anything
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:14 PM

“healthy” and “happy” is just your perspective you aren’t GOD or the arbiter of objective truth feelings don’t matter when it comes to truth i’m not trying to be “happy” i’ve been with 5’s and 8’s. i don’t want to do it again. i wasn’t “happy”. i’ve been with unattractive women that did whatever i wanted & gave & gave. it’s not what i want. and all women act the same in my experience. they are all difficult to deal with. it’s not worth dealing with a woman i don’t want. wdym i keep digging deepe…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:12 PM

i agree most women are whores but i’ve met a lot of women who don’t like men at all so idk but most women who claim to like women usually are slurs so thank you for your post it helped me learn a lesson in a way i’m going to stick it out with the girl i’m fw. because in theory a nice submissive woman who likes men in theory would be having sex and in relationships with a lot of men so now i have perspective and i understand why im always drawn to either super shy doesn’t talk to any guys women o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:27 AM
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i honestly don’t know or see the importance of this question why don’t you say what the difference between the two is and then explain why you’re even bringing up the point and why it matters
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:20 AM
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idk personally i think the men who do that want to show women that they don’t need them and they are frustrated that they want sex or children and once they figure out how to successfully get that without being gay that they will no longer have to deal with women even me i don’t need women for anything. literally nothing i don’t need communication or love or emotions or etc there’s nothing a woman can do for me and everytime i’m around women. they take from me or ask for help or get emotional or…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:19 AM

i have sex with women by being brutally honest my closest relationships or interactions with women have come from being brutally honest and arguing maybe we are just talking about different types of women because some women just hate me maybe those are the ones your post is about in general though for my life personally i disagree everytime i agree or say what women want to hear our interactions are always surface deep. and i don’t want to be around them or talk to them and usually we never get …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:11 AM
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being attracted to women and wanting to have sex with women is not the same as seeking validation you would do well to understand the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:09 AM
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i’m not gay. so nothing i honestly think that with male loneliness or anything women or homosexuals or both always try to get men to be around other men or create a community or etc i don’t like men. i don’t like talking to men. i don’t like being around men i have things i do on my own outside of fucking women or being attracted to but it’s not fulfillment. it’s survival. things i do to pass the time or get to where i want to be on a deep level there is nothing to do in life other than improve …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:08 AM

so listen i need advice at this point it’s almost a year of fucking the woman of my dreams i’ve been implementing dark triad tactics and strategies making me become more aggressive tough and etc so before i continue. i came to a place that has historically hated me. to push back on my ideas and strategies and etc so she’s stood me up for 4 weeks. has threatened to leave me. and has insinuated talking to other people. yet & still. she doesn’t block me. she lets me call her & text her. and she sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:03 AM

i feel it’s the only way convince me i’m wrong here’s your chance
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:41 PM

how have you been? yea i might be leaving this place arguing with unattractive women is a waste of time also it’s imperative and important to understand most of the red pill and our way of thinking is based on dealing with unattractive women when dealing with very sexually attractive women a lot of these principles and talking points go out the window therefore i have to ascend and change my strategy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:06 PM

i got inside. and it started hurting her. and she started crying so i stopped apparently to her me putting only my tip in because that’s all that really fits is me being in her i came on her too only because i hadn’t orgasmd in like a month because in my head it was tied to being hard which in my head was the reason i couldn’t get all the way inside overall i was just really aggressive idk where we stand rn tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:04 PM

ok here’s the update she did block me but she unblocked me we talked we had sex i did some dark triad strategies and idk the situation now it’s my first time diving into that realm so idk the future of this situation anyway the reason i’m posting this and morale of the story is 2 fold one everyone was wrong. i did fuck a woman with huge boobs. did find my type. did it all “my way” without listening to the advice of bluepillers and adjacent/female advice two anyone in a certain situation similiar…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 03:06 PM

She blocked me I give up on life I argued with her and she blocked me She said she was done with me That’s the last person I had in my life The only person I wanted I’m not mad at her I’m a lot to deal with Yesterday was my chance to cross that bridge and make her mine I failed Finally got a 10/10 woman with huge boobs She liked me. Lasted for like 7-8 months Fucked her. Got like 100 nudes. Talked to her. Bonded All the things I wanted in life I don’t want anything else I messed it up I don’t wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:18 PM

I just “fucked” her again It was rushed. I couldn’t get hard. We had an argument Everytime I was going in she said I was being too aggressive Literally had no time It’s like. I need for this to go my way I’m not listening to none of your guys advice anymore T All I do is what she wants and I’m failing literally I’m depressed and emotional rn I’m going too sleep
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:17 PM

I mean it’s two different perspectives You’re thinking like a woman And I’m not
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:47 PM

That’s understandable And you accomplished that Mission complete
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:46 PM

The more passive and submissive and understanding and gentle I act. The more she calls me a bitch and pussy and responds less and threatens to block me and ridicules me and tells me to be strong and etc The hurt part is that she’s making it impossible to have sex with her My dick has to go inside of her She’s stopping that process Pain is apart of life. How else is her pussy going to fit to me if I don’t stretch it. Like it’s common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:35 PM

Did you not hear that this has been the worst sex of my life With other women I don’t listen. I do what I want. I listen to their bodies. And react to that. And I’ve given multiple women the best sex This is the hottest woman who put the most boundaries and most restrictions and this happens to be the worst sex of both our lives It’s not a coincidence Next time we fuck I have to make adjustments her way isn’t leading to anything good or productive or even enjoyable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:33 PM

Your a woman I doubt you’d understand being a male or any pov that wasn’t championing or framing what women want as the right way And regardless you aren’t an attractive woman to me. So your feelings are irrelevant But if you make an actual logical point. I will listen Otherwise I honestly don’t care about what you feel Respectfully
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 01:30 PM

So listen A couple days ago I fucked her I tried to fully put it in deep She said ow And a couple more times same thing I can’t fuck under these conditions I was demoralized I didn’t even try to fuck her I went to the bathroom And then she called me back And we had this talk Anyway I’m going to stop listening to her Because all I’ve been doing is listening and this bad sex is a by product and she’s losing respect for me and it’s all slowly fading away Really starting to understand sex is mainly …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:28 PM

I like huge boobs and thick women. So pregnancy doesn’t actually negatively affect anything. It actually can stimulate breast growth I mean obviously I like women in proportions and ratios But my type isn’t skinny women with the body of boys and no breasts or ass So this isn’t a redpill question This is specifically aimed towards men who like specifically skinny women. Maybe even specifically boyish looking women who are flat chested or have no ass But definitely skinny women who
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:36 AM
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I’m going to say this to you. And I hope you open your ears None of these women are attractive here. Therefore for the most part nothing they say actually matters. Nor will anything actually help you that they say But and this is a huge caveat. If you want to understand emotions. Getting into debates and listening to them will help you a lot But otherwise it’s pointless. They rely on emotions. There arguments and thoughts and positions are all emotional Therefore it’s not objective. It’s constan…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:44 PM
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I treat everyone the same Except I treat sexually attractive women different
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:58 PM
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I need to vent real quick I don’t like the way women talk or think or act And I think it comes down to something as simple as this They are not pretty enough to think or talk or act like that I’ve self reflected on why I have no problems or anger or etc with sexually attractive women. Even if they reject me or dislike me or etc. And guys have been having talks with me And this phrase keeps getting repeated She’s not pretty enough to act like that. She’s not pretty enough to deal with all that. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:59 PM
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Desiring yourself and wanting yourself is homosexual or delusional And it is not in the realms of heterosexuality To touch yourself to yourself or be attracted to yourself idek what you are talking about Also I’m not someone’s whose whole argument is to deny everything the opponent says So not withstanding I don’t understand your first point. Wanting a woman for sexuality or offspring isn’t a negative thing at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:46 PM
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Sex, want/desire/lust, reproduction/offspring, heterosexuality, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:29 PM
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So we agree And since we agree There’s no point in arguing or continuing the debate I don’t see male and female sexuality the same way And I don’t see female sexuality as sexuality It is sonothing different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 07:28 PM
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Women only want a lot of sex when they aren’t getting the interest and attention. When they are competing or trying to secure commitment. Or their hormone levels fluctuate or they are impaired like high or drinking or etc It’s not that complicated I’ve noticed that the biggest problem is people want men and women to map exactly the same. Have the same priorities and wants and do the same things It’s not the case Women do not want sex the way men do Not the same amounts not in the same way What y…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:53 PM
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Men and women see this differently And I’m the toxic version of a man Sex is the ultimate goal. Sexual attraction and desire and want is the prize and reward and fulfillment Without that there’s no point in being with a woman or investing in one spending effort or etc I see unattractive women and older women and etc like men I respect women like I respect men I treat attractive women differently and I actually want women Friendship and love and etc etc are things you offer women. Money and commi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:43 PM
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Women are asexual Asexual meaning what I mean by it and not the Oxford definition They aren’t focused on sex or looks or sexual attraction. They aren’t prioritizing it. They don’t want it all the time. They can’t find someone attractive even if they don’t know anything about them. Or even if they hate them. They can’t fathom improving and getting money and etc just for sex. Etc etc Therefore they are asexual Therefore they don’t really like men nor are attracted to men Mans biggest mistake is ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:30 PM
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Nice means something women say they like in virtue signaling theory. Or something that has no chance of hurting or endangering her Or someone who has no chance of other female prospects Bad is the opposite of that/those things In theory
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:13 PM
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I got shadow banned on this sub specifically because all my posts are not in favour of women and promote opposite view points They say it’s because of how I wrote. Whole time I decided to write different and they still upheld the shadow ban Meaning that this sub is the same way. Women act the same way. And men that think or feel like them I just had a conversation irl about music. Since we disagreed. She said she doesn’t care. And don’t talk to her. She doesn’t want to talk. That’s why you got b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 08:03 PM
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Yes I get it. I’m only focused on women and what they do wrong How does that take away from my point I’m not trying to defend men or saying they are righteous. I’m specifically focusing on women in my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:38 AM
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Honestly I think you should just stop listening to them The only way a lie holds power is if you believe it’s the truth If you ignore it. It means nothing. And who cares if they fuck themselves over. It’s not our problem. We have to focus on our problems. Because they won’t help us with ours.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:36 AM
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You and I know. To convict a woman of sexual harassment or sexual assault or etc It has to be about underage activities or something to that extent This is what I mean. Those laws were meant to protect women. And maybe men from other men. But for it to be used against women is not common at all. So maybe my point should be rephrased as a law in name only type of thing. It applies to men in name only. That’s how women operate. As if contracts and agreements and deals hold no meaning. As if words …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:26 AM
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Don’t read it then
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 12:12 AM
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I don’t think lying or manipulation is the answer That’s called being weak That’s what women do Just achieve elevate and prosper Be what they want. Reach they’re standards and only get what you want out of it. If all you want is sex. Just get sex. Do what you have to do to get it. Don’t focus on getting love or anything. Just sex Focus on your goal and achieve it In the world of free will manifested You see how women are Accept it And get what you want out of it Let them be This is who they alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 11:11 PM
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Not the laws I’m talking about. No they don’t apply to women Like for example women can sexually harass men Like for example women are the arbiters of what consent is. A man not consenting isn’t really a thing. Etc etc On one hand I do think the truth is valuable and should be allowed to be spoken On the other hand I don’t think lying should be the prevalent force and lying isn’t a moral virtue No people should not be allowed to change their minds when entering an agreement Since people can chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:25 PM
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It’s a hyperbolic example To prove and explain the point And you are changing the subject And not adressing any of the points So I take that to mean you have no disagreements and the debate is over
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 10:17 PM
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Rules and laws in today’s world all favor women Social or pc land is directed towards in favor of women And of course women have unrestrained standards and ability to ask for whatever they want. Lie. Break agreements. Change their mind. Etc etc So it’s really their market. Nothing to be mad about really Just understanding is necessary Women do things for money and lifestyle and ease. Sometimes it’s not even about the money. It’s about them not having to lift a finger to do anything and getting w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:54 PM
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I think women are asexual So why would women pay for something they don’t want Women claim attraction to pursue non sexual things Like resources/attention/connection/companionship/positive benefits/love/help/money/lifestyle/dependability/extraction of financial stability/etc etc So that’s why the reverse isn’t applicable Men are sexual and have sexual attraction to women just existing The first point I disagree with. Men would clearly pay money As men have jobs work long hours but cars and expen…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 09:47 PM
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Looking at all the types of women in the world. It’s clear men are fucking all types of women Therefore it’s clear ally types of women could do a form of sex work Even if it was choosing to partner up with only one man for resources You shouldn’t use me as a litmus test. Because I’m picky and I don’t like all women But all types of women clearly exist Which means someone was fucking their mothers So
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:49 PM
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It is a priveledge to do sex work It’s a privilege just to get money for being sexually attractive. Get help. Be loved and cared for. To be wanted. For people to overlook your flaws. To rescue you. Etc etc Saying it’s not a privilege is to sound stupid Not only that. Women aren’t even being pushed into homosexual prostitution They can get in normal heterosexual relationships that are built on the principles of prostitution Like marriage and courting even being a provider Just because life is eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 08:23 PM
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Yes and you described it not being your priority. Described being in a mutually beneficial situation as something to strive or look for for a relationship. And described not wanting to be with a man that negatively affected your life and/or contributed nothing You are not attracted to men in the way it is understood to be attracted. You don’t want men You are operating off of an asexual model. The model of need and cost/benefit analysis and positive benifits Your main “priority” is not being att…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:50 PM
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Yes not your priority You are slowly understanding/admitting what I’m saying Me and u aren’t even in disagreement about anything You just want to argue and debate and disagree with something you ultimately agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:43 PM
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I am very attracted to sexually attractive I would want a woman who was sexually attractive even if she offered no benefits and negatively affected my life Because I do t need her. I’m only pursuing her because I want her She doesn’t have to do anything for me. I just want sex and her You rarely see sexually attractive homeless women Men take care of all types of women Men do sign up for what you said if you switch genders You don’t understand because you are not attracted to men. You don’t want…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:26 PM
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I’m saying women think like you That they aren’t attracted to men for being men inherently Whether you know it or not. You are just agreeing with what I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 07:00 PM
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Women want men to lower their standards I for one don’t care about women’s standards as a whole And the big boob women I do care about I just try to reach whatever standard it is so I can have consensual sex That’s the attitude you need to have All this love and fairness and etc is for friendships Women are ruthless and show no mercy Don’t argue for enpathy and fairness they will just take advantage You think they are trying to be with men they can’t benefit from? You think their main goal is to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 06:09 PM

Wdym If you don’t want to fuck women. Then you don’t have to do anything It’s not that complicated. Do nothing and watch nothing happen for you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:43 PM
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You should want to be with a man. Because you are a woman thats attracted to men If you need incentives or are looking at things outside of that You are inherently asexual and view sex and relationships as a cost benefit analysis In which case idk what you’re complaining about. Find the best deal you can get. Since you aren’t attracted to men inherently in of themselves I for example just like women. They don’t have to benefit me or anything. I just want women. Women don’t feel that way. And tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:20 PM

I fucked finally a woman with huge boobs Multiple times I chased did everything etc It wasn’t a waste of time What would of been a waste of time is wanting to fuck a woman with huge boobs and doing nothing about it
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:16 PM

I read it. It still seems more like a self report. I see what you’re saying. But all they did was report if the will see them again. How they felt. Who they hooked up with In my experience with women self report doesn’t mean anything I’m pretty sure the current woman I’m fucking would self report she would never deal with someone like me And here we are I see couples where it’s clear as day why they are together Also age plays a factor Women who are 19-21 maybe even to 24 are living with family …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 05:14 PM

Ok I’ll read it and get back to you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:24 AM

Idk if I should read more I read until they explained the participants and Basically it’s a self report survey That proves nothing That’s like you telling me to listen to women talk here or irl No Watch the actions. Who they couple with. Who they get fucked by. Who they allow to flirt with them Listening to women is your first mistake When they lie or “virtue signal” or try to hide embarrassment or non majority opinions most of the time The amount of women who mentioned things were embarrassing …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:19 AM

Women are selecting for money and status and lifestyle and need and benefits I used to think it was looks Until I stepped into the real world Until i understood that I was treating women like men as if they had the same wants and desires as men. When they clearly don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 01:00 AM

Let me vent I’m wearing my nice clothes that I went to fuck that woman in And a woman said hi to me Actually a couple And two women went up to me to ask for directions Mind you. When I wear my comfortable not trying to impress clothes a woman has never asked me for directions or anything I’m resentful People say it’s looks No it’s money and presentation and status Women are asexual. They like men for the lifestyle they can bring and the positives they can benefit they’re life They aren’t attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:31 PM

I don’t have anything personal to her It’s the concept I resent I barely remember her atp It’s just I understand what happened and why So I just have to be better and change and elevate At the same time I’m resentful of that. And that will carry with me forever
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:44 PM

I will say this. I actually achieved my goals. I had sex with a young woman with huge boobs. Whose sexually attractive and etc Multiple times. It was worth it Now fucking unattractive or normal or average or conventionally attractive with no curves or etc Makes absolutely no sense Also without sex. I see that chasing and pursuit and elevating and romance and relationships are useless as a man You might as well just friendzone and be platonic if you aren’t actually sexually attracted to a woman I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:42 PM

No she just was on her phone with no headphone not listening/ignoring I know it was because of how I was dressed and the insinuation I didn’t have money and etc Because she didn’t give me a chance to talk as respond back And when she didn’t give see my face. She studied it and looked and saw my eyes. So ik why I didn’t get the chance Mind you at the gym yesterday. Women were eyeing me and walking in front of me. Back and forth multiple times when they didn’t have to Mind you I’ve had women flirt…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:32 PM

So I fucked her again Once again the worst experience of my life 10/10 would do it again Her boobs are sooo big. Seeing her naked is like a work of art She’s not letting me do anything I want to do The weirdest exchange we had. Is because she thought I didn’t want to have sex with her or was ungrateful or didn’t like her anymore Her feelings got hurt And igs we are going to fuck again in the future? She basically said with time it will be good? Don’t know what she means. I’m not saying I’m over …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:29 PM
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I’ve made it clear I’m only attracted to women with huge boobs. That’s clearly a small %. - the women that get breast reductions I have a type of facial preference I prefer. But overall I have slight to intense attraction for women with huge boobs in general I prefer youthfulness or young as far as sexual attraction Also I would prefer them to be proportional or symmetrical or in ratio That’s all I mentioned and it’s clear not every woman is sexually attractive But I’m not a woman. A woman’s goa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 01:03 PM

Let me vent. I just got rejected in the most hurtful way by a woman with huge boobs She just ignored me She had looked at me one time. But after that ignored me Later this week I’m going to have sex with a woman with huge boobs mind you But tbf I’m wearing throw away clothes and my hair isn’t done. And I don’t look like I have money rn So that’s why it hurts so much It isn’t about anything about me. I just didn’t present myself as having money or status or even enhance my looks at the time So me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:28 PM
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😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:18 PM
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I’ve consistently been saying women are asexual That acknowledges differences Women base their sexuality on things that have nothing to do with sexuality or appearance That’s why as a Man U need to focus on obtaining consensual sex from a woman They don’t look at sex the same way and they aren’t attracted the same way So it’s pointless to try to have women react the same way as men Therefore I’ve changed my aim to just obtaining consensual sex Because a lot of sec is what I want as a man. What s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:00 PM
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From a female perspective sure From a male perspective no Men get money for women. Have better health to look better or reproduce for or too women. Have better emotional wellbeing being to socialize for women. Live longer because they are with women. Are not lonely because they are with women. Have healthier habits because they have to think about women and their family This is female centered and/or family centered thinking Your “humanity” is basically women only This isn’t taking into account …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 05:02 PM
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Like I said living longer is not a benefit. Being elderly is not a blessing physically or biologically. It’s only rewarding if you have a genetic lineage (family) therefore having some type of purpose to care for or raise the next generation. Or if you are scared to die. Reduced lonliness is only a benefit for women and babies and the weak. A true man is not scared to be alone. And the want for socialization is mostly due in part to romantic pursuits and/or sexual or because he needs help. Being…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 04:55 PM
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What is the benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:52 PM
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What is the benefit of man and marriage Long life isn’t a benefit. You lose virility and strength and energy and faculties with age Free will exists A man could want to chop off his own head I’m not discussing what’s possible I’m discussing the situations pros and cons in a factual matter that isn’t taking account what’s possible. As in it’s possible that a man wants to be married and doesn’t see it as a negative I’m not factoring perspective into this Just facts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:09 PM
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The main focus of marriage and relationships is childbearing/reproduction/family And providing for. Showing love too. Caring for. Prioritizing. Attracting. Etc etc. the woman When discussing a relationship/marriage a man is losing or in the negative or at a detriment in ALMOST all aspects of the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 03:06 PM
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Marriage has a lot of provisions strictly for the betterment of women And to protect against men leaving or just getting sex and not providing Along with socialization and family and etc etc It just dawned on me Even the way we look at love is all geared towards the female centric point of view. Relationships and marriage and etc The main focus isn’t sex and it’s not even child bearing or reproduction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:48 PM
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Just realized marriage and relationships were created for women Men just want sex and/or sexual exclusivity That’s why most advice geared to most men has sex in it or as an ultimate goal or a big one And most women advice is about navigating men and getting a relationship while navigating Men’s desires and attraction and wants It dawned on me recently
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 01:22 PM
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But women don’t have to be very attractive to get sex or relationships So how does that factor into a woman being into black pill? Like what is the black pill truth for a woman? And based on what you wrote. You’re asexual or a lesbian? Like you’re not attracted to men and don’t want to be with men? Like I don’t understand the ultimate goal. If you seperate from men. What are you going to do? Like what is there ultimately to do apart from the opposite sex. You can’t have sex or a family of your o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 12:29 PM
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Black pill woman means what exactly? You’re a woman supposedly so what’s the meaning when a woman uses it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:00 PM
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Saying both is a cop out If everyone could get everything they would select everything You should be able to make your own life better or strive to Selecting a mate on the basis of them making your life better is asexual/machiavelian thinking The only men who select women for tangibles are pimps, the rich who treat relationships like business, famous people, business men, etc etc Basically people who are asexual in the sense they are not selecting for attraction or sex. Which at that point it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 02:13 PM
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You’re not arguing or disagreeing with my point You’re just explaining why And if the only reason you are with a guy or choose a guy is because you need them Then that shows you were never attracted or had no attraction or attraction and desire never played a factor in your mate selection choice Only fueling the fire of the thinking that women are asexual that select men based on benefits and resources and utility and tangibles It’s important for a man to understand this. Not to be mad about it.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 01:55 PM
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Women see u as a utility and a reflection of status or a means of acumen or intelligence or resources or power At the very least a benifit Game is more so for clueless men who believe in Disney and friendships It’s the men that women manipulate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:14 AM
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Idk when men will understand That women asking for men to make money makes them prostitutes Women can make their own money To depend on a man or select a man for financial means and to insinuate that that’s a factor in attraction As a Man U just need to be smart enough to understand what that Is No matter what standards women have Just reach them and only go for young sexually attractive women Doing all this for average or unattractive or older or women you won’t have sex with is dumb and uninte…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 03:12 AM

Pornstars aren’t that attractive They are whores and they take dick So once again we are talking in different realms I guarentee you or bet you. That you ignoring one of the women I’m talking about will get you nothing There are levels to this Once again I’m not talking about women as a whole. I’m not talking about most women. I’m not talking about whores or prostitutes No I’m talking about very sexually attractive women. That have money and opportunity and dick offered all the time. You ignorin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:13 AM

I did all of the stuff you said supposedly doesn’t work Then I got to finally fuck a woman with huge boobs I listened to what she wanted And it was the worse sex of my life But still in a way that strengthened my resolve on what I actually want and etc I’ve noticed a pattern All your advice on doing nothing or giving women space or not pursuing Is only going to get you unattractive or old or desperate women with no better options The truly hot sexually attractive women. Don’t chase. They don’t h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 03:04 AM
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Women for whatever reason Value money, effort, accomplishments, being pursued, attention, being prioritized,pampered,spoiled, being loved, being wanted, romanced, dominated or seeing a male presence of strength or masculinity aka not a bitch (not feminine), intelligence or mental acumen, assertiveness/confidence, bravery/risk taking, decisiveness, etc et I could go on and on These are more valuable tangible things Being with a woman is being with someone you want Women choose men for whatever re…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:40 AM
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The truth is men just want women more They offer nothing of value besides being wantable and fuckable and childbearing Everything else is either a detriment and/or negative. I.e taking away from oneself Or it’s something that both men and women can do that is not tied specifically to women as a sex. Therefore cannot be attributed as a positive to dating a woman. As it has nothing to do with a woman. It’s human qualities And for all that. They make it substantially harder to get sex or maintain i…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:27 AM

The woman who sent me over 2k blocked me She was fucking her bestfriend Idc it’s just about the love and care I thought she had for me which igs suddenly disappeared My ex texted me recently she just wants money The woman who sends me nudes texted me she just wants money My bestfriend hasn’t texted me but hasn’t blocked me or anything and she passively aggressively interacts with me without communicating directly to me The one girl I met at the gym and fucked idk if she blocked me she’s not text…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 10:09 PM

For me it’s like my main go too. Idk. I’m legitimately depressed rn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:39 PM

Thank you. I wish you the same
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:32 PM

For me doggy style Because u can press down and in And you can hold them/pin them down to where you’re repeatedly drilling into them Also being able to pull them back when they get to far away But basically she said I was to big. And it hurt when it went in. And be gentle and etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:32 PM

She said no She gave me alot of no’s. My hands were metaphorically tied behind my back Couldn’t fuck her from behind Couldn’t be rough and agressive Etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:30 PM

No I’m depressed. Because you’re supposed to make a good first impression Only positive thing is she said I was big Other than that I don’t know We are supposed to meet up next week supposedly. But women lie. And who knows if she just said that to get me out of her way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:28 PM

I’m sad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:20 PM

It was supposed to be sex. But like everytime I was in. She said stop. And she put a time limit. Then after that time limit. She stayed like another 30 min to an hour lecturing/communicating with me. About me being big and what she liked. And etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:17 PM

So I met her in the hotel Saw and felt her big boobs It wasn’t fully sex Because I got lectured about boundaries Basically I’m too big and too rough and agressive And she made me wear a condom And she told me I couldn’t fuck her from behind So idk But just off of that. It was worth it Like big titties women are worth it Just the positions. Feeling on them. Etc etc. But I was feeling like it’s all over But idk. Idk if she’ll text me or call me It wasn’t even a sexual experience. Like I put it in …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:05 PM

I need advice I’m not going to go into detail There’s two women with huge boobs One that I have a bond with. Whose the sole reason that I’m going to upgrade my life. Work out harder. And get rich. And she’s attatched to me in a way where she won’t leave me and texts me everyday. But clearly she doesn’t respect me and looks down on me. But that’s understandable. Given my current situation and what she’s used too. The other huge boobed woman I just met. And she looks similiar we get along. Etc. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:43 PM

Let’s say u are right and I agree with u For arguments sake Im telling you will always fight for the opportunity of an attractive woman Than whatever it is is your ultimate goal of success that would involve an unattractive woman and/or a woman Im not attracted too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:35 PM

Maybe. Maybe not I’m telling u that I’m not going after women I’m not attracted to I think in my personal opinion She wants to but doesn’t respect me or see a future with me That’s all it is and that’s pretty common for me at the present moment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:21 PM

Honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:59 PM

She’s attracted but she doesn’t respect me Look this is very simple. I’m attracted to her That’s all there is to it She has the leverage and knows it This is all happening because she’s my fantasy type of woman brough to reality And I’m fighting for the possibility If she was unattractive it wouldn’t happen I don’t need or want love or anything like that anymore. Not even friendship. A woman can’t use those things for leverage or scarcity This will be the last woman that could. Every other woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:58 PM

I’m going to see her in Christmas. Supposedly. We’ll see I really want her But in her home city there’s women that look similiar to her I might just go for someone similiar But I really want her the most. Because we have comfortability and a bond that came from her interacting with me before I had the will to self improve my life. And when I was giving up and doing the bare minimum Every other women is going to get the version of me that’s on his way to something. Has it figured out. Is trying. …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:48 PM

Yea. Well I know how to randomly bump into her. But I’m not ready. But I have to go for it If I see her again I’ll go for it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:45 PM

Life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:40 PM

And lastly redpill Seems to be asexual at best They try to negate sexuality in order to be smart and wise when interacting with women When women’s greatest value is the sexuality and desire of them Redpill men pivot the other way They care about the ease and benefits and etc It’s basically female framing of victory You spend money on a car because you want to drive You don’t try to get a car for free or with the least money possible no matter how it drives unless you don’t really care about cars…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:39 PM

I’m done arguing here because all these women here are unattractive or elderly And you have to process that I’m arguing with unattractive women and elderly women about what? Like there’s things I’ll do and tolerate from an attractive woman I resent unattractive women expecting the same thing I treat unattractive women like men respectfully And that should be good enough The point being women here are arguing their opinion and their expectations and feelings But they are unattractive and/or elder…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:36 PM

I just flirted with this girl with huge boobs And we had an amicable conversation But I’m a bitch. I didn’t call her pretty or anything All my training for nothing I just made conversation with her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 09:33 PM
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I thought so too But by the end she was rambling and talking to me and etc Maybe I should’ve tried harder. Idk
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:56 PM
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So there was this woman with huge boobs Who had her cleavage out and it’s cold asf outside So I Went up to ask her directions Then I got shy and walked away She looked at me a few times But you know women. She went about her day So I’m going on the train and she’s going on the train I should’ve talked to her then But I don’t She sits down. I sit down far away But I’m like I’m not a bitch So I use my training to approach her I tell her she’s pretty and etc. she’s like thank you 😑 I’m like fml I f…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:47 PM

Oh then long ago. I would post pictures of women with big boobs. When people would ask me what type of women I like. Or what are big boobs to me. Or who looks better than x woman. And people on her would either praise those pictures. Or ridicule them as too big or too rare. Or unrealistic or whatever. Or etc But that wasn’t recently. That was time ago But moral to the story. Is she is on that level. And finally I got the opportunity I always dreamed of. Hopefully it works out
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:37 PM

Huge boobs Like those pictures I posted before
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:32 PM

If you can’t explain your argument. What’s the point of saying it Ofc you feel whatever you feel I don’t know how that’s relevant. When feelings don’t actually emit intelligence. Nor do feelings have objectivity. So I just don’t see the point. The first part of what you said. Only matters. If I was trying to emotionally attack you. Or if I had emotions for u or etc. But Idc about you. Meaning I don’t have any negativity or positivity to you personally. I’m more so focused on what you’re saying a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:30 PM

Tommorrow decides everything she’s supposed to meet me today She texted me a couple of things I haven’t read yet But at the top it says that if she doesn’t see me. She’ll come to my state to visit me So now I’m left with options I can “wait” for her to come see me in another state I can try to go see her I can cut ties with her I can possibly see her today If I wait to see her it will fail. I’m over communicating. And it’s not something I enjoy. I did it to reach this moment. I value irl over on…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 06:07 PM
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Ok I read it Basically he’s red pill but I’ve ascended red pill I see red pill as an asexual ideology where it’s more important to reason and think than to be seeking sexual conquest and attraction In that sense I understand him I disagree with him simply because I don’t see women and men as the same thing Therefore I don’t look down on women in that way I do see women as the more sexually attractive sex. Big boobs, big ass, short frame, more rounded, more curvy/hourglass figure, more golden rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 04:10 PM

You’re talking about feeling and emotions Which change like the seasons And aren’t a reliable source for objectivity nor intelligence nor logical reasoning You’re more so pointing out reasons for purpose and motivation and inspiration Some people do need drugs or love or etc to move through life Because they can’t move if their own volition What I’m noticing is you can never fully explain your positions. But I see you label yourself blue pill. So it makes sense igs If you can’t explain something…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 02:07 PM

If you can’t explain the disadvantage Then I can’t see how there would be one that I should worry about or care about I’m not a woman or a baby So whatever love is or means to u I think I’ll be fine without it. I’m too strong and have too strong of an internal will to need something like that atm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 01:31 PM
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Wdym? How is that response personal? I’m responding to what they said. I reiterated their counter points. And I addressed every point. You’d have to explain what you’re referring to because I don’t understand
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 03:27 AM
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It’s fine I’d rather just have sex and be with attractive hot women I don’t see the benefit of being with an unattractive woman with good character I wouldn’t be with a man And tbh you’d be better off just having a friend But I dont need a friend You don’t see the importance of want/desire/lust But I do And we are just on two different paths Just because somethings difficult doesn’t mean you give up and go to the easier path
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:30 AM
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If you don’t want sex or have a high sex drive. I don’t really think you should chase after women. It’s a losing proposition. And you obtaining a woman and not wanting sex is very performative. Meaning there’s not much else to do that you couldn’t do with a friend If you do want an attractive woman. Your fighting a uphill battle with competition plus her consent and then also if you want her to be exclusive with you. It’s literally your responsibility to make sure she’s ok and just having a comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:28 AM
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What disadvantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:20 AM

Looks matter How much you want and desire her matter Love is a reciprocal and/or nuetral thing It isn’t the thing that makes you go above and beyond. Yes you help. Yes you care. Yes you’re there. Yes you try. But it’s not that lust/desire/want and/or desperation/taking risks/going above and beyond/etc Loving people do a lot. But you are astute to notice a difference The women I loved. Honestly did more for me personally. And I didn’t have that desire for them. But I do truly love them. But for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 12:20 AM

I’m postponing my arguments rn She’s supposed to see me today and Tommorrow The day of she’s talking about she might be busy Mind you she chose these days and wouldn’t let me choose the day I wanted to come Specifically stating if I came when I wanted to come she would block me and wouldn’t meet me So here we are I know I can get women and fuck women I’m just disappointed because maybe I’ll never be able to fuck an actually sexually attractive OF level type woman And that’s all I want Like what …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 01:31 PM
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You have to go through love early So you can get it out of your system. Get heart broken. And then you’ll be smarter and hopefully start focusing on looks and sex and attraction The longer you wait to find love the more likely it is you will be abused and manipulated and make bad decisions Love isn’t what you think it is And women experience a different type of love from men then they give to men You need to go through this to understand this Or be smart enough to know from the beginning Either …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:53 PM
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You’re stronger than me I would never choose isolation and solitude over having sex with a very sexually attractive woman But I understand your logic I just think it leads to you not being with a super hot attractive woman And it ends with you settling but being in an advantageous position that works and is functional and gives you peace and control But after analyzing it. Idk what the benifit or why I would ever be with an unattractive woman or an ok women that wasn’t super attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:50 PM
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Where is the contempt and hatred?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:46 PM

Who? My bestfriend? I’m not trying to have sex with her actually. She’s really my friend or was. I haven’t spoken to her since the last time I saw her which was the beginning of the year Ik what I talk about here But with her I wanted the love and friendship Literally rn I’m trying to fuck somebody else
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 10:44 PM
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What if better doesn’t come? What if every super attractive woman doesn’t aquiesce to your demands or standards What are you going to do Ofc if you could have the perfect person in every way you would choose that But to lose out on the woman of your dreams because it’s difficult or not easy I won’t understand that logic of reasoning That’s how women think
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:37 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:35 PM

Let me vent I called my bestfriend just to see if I was blocked And it rang I’m so confused Women I’m trying to fuck play passive and wait for you to show your intentions Why do women who are friends act similiar Idk if we are still friends But ik she’s leaving the door open Or she refuses to close it entirely Of she walked away or ghosted But ik what it means I’m still going to go on my journey and try to fuck the one girl of my fantasies But the blue pill is fighting my rn while I reminisce
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 09:20 PM
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Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:07 PM
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You only do it if they are very attractive and you get extensive consistent sex or sexuality from her in return It’s only beneficial if you have a high sex drive and high sexual hunger And if you have ambition and will to live life to the fullest and go above your means and etc For example if you were aesexual it would make zero sense. Literally zero sense If you are machiavelian you would either become a pimp or be like rich families and treat it like a business decision or at the very least fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:04 PM
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If men care deeply about sex what’s the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 07:00 PM
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If a man you were with said I’m never having sex with you again. Never kissing you. Not touching you sexually. I’m not going to treat you with sexual desire. I’m no longer sexually attracted to you. I don’t think you’re attractive. I don’t want you in that way But sex isn’t that important and we have a strong emotional connection and we are compatible. And our personalities align so I want to continue the situation What would be your response? Since apparently sex doesn’t matter at all to you Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:51 PM

2 + 2 = 4 Regardless of different items and situations and etc So concepts are objective, formulas are objective Things like symmetry. Things like growth. Etc W hopefully you understand what I’m getting at I’d have to think deeply to keep having new lists of things and to fully explain it entirely
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:46 PM
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Idk what you mean by binary But attractiveness is objective It can be described and seen and accurately assessed In a general and universal way Although you can also make attractiveness relative and subjective You can like whatever you choose to and do whatever you want as well That doesn’t take away from the fact that for example symmetry is an objective marker of beauty A lot of people use their feelings and hormonal stimulations and emotions to determine attractiveness And that’s probably why…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:44 PM
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I have a question Do you think settling is worth it? Like do all that for a woman you don’t want or are ok with? In the context of just casual sex or fwb or etc it’s fine igs in theory But an actual relationship? Or being exclusive? Or having to be everything your expected to be just to be with an average or unattractive woman? And rn I can’t fathom having sex with a woman that I don’t want Like I wouldn’t want to do it. And like 90% of sex is on the man. To perform and facilitate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:50 PM
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Yea relationships is more blue pill Relationships tend to be seen through an aesexual lens Although they say redpill could be about anything Usually men with intelligence use it to get sex and to attract women Although a man could use it to just get a relationship Igs
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:47 PM
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How would wanting different women limit your options? Wouldn’t that increase your options? Yes wanting only hot women limits your “options” With all the things expected of a man and all the standards expected or wanted by women. Why would you do all of that for a woman you don’t want. A woman that you aren’t overly attracted to. A woman that u just see as a friend and value her personality. An unattractive woman? How would wanting a hot woman negatively affect your family life? “Polygamy” is nue…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:44 PM
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No things have objectively meaning It just depends on if you focus on objective meaning or if you focus on relative or subjective meaning And that’s an individual choice that you have to make on your own Just because things end or have a process or etc Doesn’t mean they don’t have objective meaning It also doesn’t mean that it does have objective meaning
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:48 AM
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That’s where you’re wrong Hormones don’t control my arousal or my attraction or my desire It’s mental. It’s about what I want. It’s my desire I don’t decide if I’m attracted or not based on if I have an erection or not Maybe that’s how women are. But that shouldn’t be equivocated to men as a whole
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 06:41 AM
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So basically women are aesexual But hornonally motivated And don’t actually have attraction or see attractiveness in a lustful horny way That’s how I understand what you’re saying. And if that’s what you’re saying it makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:15 AM
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If that were true objectively then ok I don’t want to see or fact check But I would in theory have to confirm that but that’s not important If it was true the next thing is what does the relationship even look like. What are you guys even doing. Etc etc But what you said on the outside looking in would be ok If only one is attractive. Then it’s good for the one that’s not attractive So I just say both for equality sake But if what you said was relatively true then it actually doesn’t matter Like…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 03:00 AM
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Things have meaning objectively Relatively nothing matters. Because in relativity things are prone to change depending on the seasons the emotions and the situation 2 + 2 = 4 Today and tomorrow Your feelings and emotions and relative thoughts and standards Will change today and tomorrow So it’s only a question of your thought process and logic Whether things truly have meaning or are meaningless
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:56 AM
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Two unattractive people could be “happy” or find value in themselves relatively or find fulfillment On the outside looking in. It is nothing to aspire to or want or of value I place high value on objectivity Also on attraction and want and desire If you understand that objectivity exists. Then that should answer your question If you only believe in relativity then you won’t understand Why would you be with a woman you are not attracted to That sounds machiavelian And if your purpose is to use a …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:53 AM
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“You guys”? Don’t lump me with anybody I’m not on a team If we reach the same conclusions then we are only aligned as far as our train of thoughts follow the same track I’m not blindly following any man I follow where the truth or logic reaches me And I pray that it’s objective and not relative
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:46 AM
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A relationship can be valuable to you for any reason Objectively on the outside looking in it is not valuable or worth talking about or showing off to others if both of you are unattractive It’s the argument of quality vs quality Just because you are with a man and have that result does not mean or impart anything of value. You did something and obtained a result I’m not talking about your personal feelings of value or your relative thoughts of fulfillment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:44 AM
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It can be answered Not thinking of a problem doesn’t make it disappear Not understanding doesn’t bring wisdom But still Thank you for taking the time out to respond I’ll self reflect on it more
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/25 02:28 AM
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If I’m being consistent than yes you are right I don’t usually apply the same standards to men and women So I’ll think on this But recently a few women just threw around I’m married I’m in a relationship Which goes along with the women can have sex or relationships with x guy easily I think the main difference is women attribute value to feelings and benefits and men attribute value to looks and logic So a woman can feel good about a man that to us would just be an average random man Which would…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:15 PM
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That’s true I have a question What do you do when you really desire something If the choices are let it go or cave in What do you do? That’s my hardest test With things you don’t want. It’s simple. Let it go But what about when it’s your heart desire and if you let it go you’ll be left with settling and things you don’t want So that’s my question
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:11 PM
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That’s true I have a question What do you do when you really desire something If the choices are let it go or cave in What do you do? That’s my hardest test With things you don’t want. It’s simple. Let it go But what about when it’s your heart desire and if you let it go you’ll be left with settling and things you don’t want So that’s my question
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:11 PM
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No I’m saying that two unattractive people together doesn’t. How do I say. It’s meaningless. I’m not saying don’t be happy about your life choices. I’m not saying don’t ve fulfilled. My point is not addressing that. Like I said if someone says they had sex with 100 women. But all of them were ugly There is no success or anything of value or meaning in that statement If ppd women are in a relationship with y man or married to y man But they are unattractive or the man doesn’t even look like idk h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:05 PM
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Ok let’s just go through your perspective I’ve had women stroke my dick or give a blowjob that I wasn’t attracted to And I was limp I’ve had women stroke my dick or give a blowjob the exact same way OR WORSE and I was rock hard or throbbing You are saying what? In that instance what is the explanation I’ve had sex with women I’m not attracted to. And there pussy was wet. Their pussy was tight. I just wasn’t attracted. The mechanical motions were aligned. I just couldn’t get hard. I’ve had sex wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 08:00 PM
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We are talking about the most attractive woman that’s your fantasy and turns you on and etc I’m not talking about an average woman and ok woman or an unattractive woman I see your point that I’m throwing everything out the window for a very attractive woman But what’s wrong with that? I really want the very attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:54 PM
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It’s men who allow emotions to enter in their life that get manipulated and used and etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:52 PM
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And that’s why a man learns not to focus on or care about feelings 2 + 2 = 4 Today and Tommorrow Your feelings will change Today and Tommorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:51 PM
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If I saw pictures of the couples of thes supposedly happily married women and partners I would come to the conclusion that I don’t want there happiness Women keep touting an action and a result as meaningful Just because you had sex with a man or in a relationship with a man or married and have kids with a man it’s meaningless Who are you. What do you look like. Who is he. What does he look like. What does the relationship look like. Etc etc That’s what matters I’m not arguing against your feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:48 PM
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Well I’m not passive I’m not going to think the same way as a passive person I perform All a woman can do is prevent my performance Or cause me to want to perform harder or greater or put more effort A woman can cause me to enjoy performing But they aren’t necessarily doing anything They are motivating me and being inspirational But it’s not action related Being attractive is enough. Being sexy and seductive is enough. Being willing and wanting me is enough. Letting me perform is enough Even whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:43 PM
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No I would say she’s hurting me It’s not being bad or good There’s no being good at blowjobs to me There’s being attractive and making me horny and not negatively affecting my health and erection And there’s hurting my erection and health and not attracting me and making me horny I’m not passive So there’s nothing a woman could actually do for me or too me that I would define as good sex Like if a woman prevents me from fucking her all the way or going deep or something like that It’s not bad se…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:21 PM

A woman acting like she is attractive Is actually a woman that expects you to treat her like she’s attractive It’s not about her being delusional. It’s not about her felling whatever she wants The frustration is in how I’m being expected to act or think in relation to her I just don’t want to have to do that or be expected to do that I can’t do that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:17 PM

They shouldn’t act like they are attractive Meaning they shouldn’t expect me to treat them like they are attractive Because that’s the implication And that’s what’s frustrating
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:21 PM
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It would hurt But if she’s attractive enough I’ll work through the flaws and try to fix it and make it work Or I could just teach her the proper way Or I could just not get a blowjob and just focus on sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:20 PM

That’s all I want
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:19 PM

Or have sex with one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:19 PM

Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:18 PM
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If it was only one case it would be an exception More than that. It would be abnormalities Enough and then once I understand why I’d reconsider I understand your point. That it might not be exactly all But I’ve seen a obese almost disabled woman who was married tell me she thought she was ugly until she cheated with multiple men and some of them were young and now she feels beautiful and etc And she tried to hit on me Tbh she was ugky almost repulsive But seeing things like that made me change h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:18 PM

If that’s what it takes As long as she’s super super attractive Why not But not for an average or unattractive woman That’s kind of disrespectful and stupid and I don’t see the point of it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:14 PM

I just don’t want to have to treat women like they are attractive or in that way if they actually are unattractive or below that Like women are human beings and men are human beings So I would be at peace if I could just treat unattractive women and ugly women like men With respect but avoidance and ignoring and not treating them special and etc etc That would be best But it is frustrating in its own away for 2 reasons So when it comes to you or people like u You can think what you want or act h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:13 PM

I finally understand and can admit why I’m here I want to be able to fuck attractive hot OF level type women. That’s what I want. That’s who I want to be in a relationship. Have kids with. Etc I don’t have a problem with women as a whole. I just don’t care about women as a whole. I’m not attracted to women as a whole. And I get frustrated when women that arnt attractive act like women that are attractive and similiar things like that The other reason is to rid myself of love and emotions and all…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 01:34 PM
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In this op’s post it’s basically saying all women have sexual opportunities or get sexual opportunities or have relationship opportunities. It’s not saying they are quality options/opportunities or anything like that But that does include unattractive/mid/average women Can you explain wym when you say <“I just think comparing the dating experiences of attractive women to all men skews the data.“> And wdym when you say <“If we allow nuance for men’s experience”> Not to say average and below women…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:41 AM
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Hate and 🍇 are just examples of not positive emotional connections or mental connections or unwanted or etc behaviors or actions happening Obviously we are giving dramatic examples The point is Contrary to what you said It shows that women are abused or just in a toxic situation or hate the guy or etc but still had an orgasm or still had the greatest sex of their life So let me clarify I’m not saying I think the hate or 🍇 or being toxic is what fueled the best sex ever or sexual pleasure or an o…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 07:12 AM
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Yea it’s shock and adrenaline Because you think. Or at least I did. Sexual satisfaction comes from her liking u. From her being emotionally connected. From her wanting you. Etc But if we propose or theorize or if in actuality sex and sexual attraction is its own thing seperate That brings up the possibility that a woman can hate u but still be sexually attracted or still have the best sex of her life She can not like u. Not be attracted to u. Hate your guts. Etc etc. to all the extreme ends Yes …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:51 AM
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No I mean that in this posts instance it’s actually referring to all women even the ugly/unattractive ones But that in our internalized seperate from the post conversation. You actually do have a point and I’ll keep it in mind and think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:46 AM
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But all women actually do get sexual opportunities from a man or sexual attention. Or attention. Or gifts or etc. That’s the discussion In a way I see your point but it’s not exactly relevant to this post This post is about the result and the relativity. Meaning women get sexual attention from men. It’s not really adressing quality or what x woman wants or doesn’t want. But at the same time I see your point about other discussions and I’ll keep that in mind. Or think about it that way for those …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:31 AM
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Women can’t really be “good at sex” It’s more so about if a woman is attractive and turns you on and makes you want to fuck her A lot of women do things that are performative that don’t actually affect the orgasm process on a biological/mechanical level What it does is increase arousal and mental horniness that brings about a greater orgasm and physical pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:25 AM
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That’s a good point that makes me actually think Like I have to self reflect I can’t measure sex in the sense of her emotional attunement or compatibility to me. Her attraction and sexual pleasure and etc is a seperate thing Like a woman can be “in love” with a man and really be emotionally connected and find no pleasure or sexual attraction or even enjoy the sex from that man. Even if he’s attentive and cares about consent and etc Meanwhile the man she hates that abuses her and violates her cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:19 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with eating to be with an attractive woman Like just cause you can have sex or be in a relationship yesterday. Doesn’t mean that should be the case or goal. I’ve done it before to know. As a man. Women want u to want them. Even if they are using you or even if they really like u or see you as only about sex. Even if they don’t like you And as a man. There’s no actual benefit in being with a woman you don’t want Unless you are machiavelian
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:58 AM
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And what’s wrong with that? That’s all that matters Are we supposed to include elderly women or women we don’t want? Why would we talk about and focus on women we don’t want and are not attracted? But sidebar I see a lot of unattractive or mid or average women having sex or being in relationships or having men give them money or attention or etc For it to be clear men are having sex with any woman moving and getting into relationships with any woman willing All of this talking about women and ob…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 05:55 AM

I’ve mastered talking to women I’m not attracted to It’s harder talking to women you are attracted to Because you want something. You are trying to get to an objective. And you literally have to try to attract them In other words I can ignore an unattractive woman. I can let her walk away. I can say no With an attractive woman. The goal is to attract and get a yes and the end goal is for them to interact with you. Not only that. But you know how women are. So when they know you like them or want…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 08:05 AM

You’re right that’s my final lesson test. Actually trying to get something. Actually escalating with intention. Actually having a goal that leads to something It’s fair to say that on the outside looking in. That I’m just playing around and not doing anything substantial. As I’m playing low risks. As I’m not really trying to bother them or be apart of their life or have sex or etc. So it’s kind of an easier success rate type of thing atp That’s fair But for whatever reason I was terrified and fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:34 AM

Ok so I need to tell this story A woman came to check in to work out She had the golden ratio. She was very proportional. Hourglass. Hip to waist ratio. Not huge boobs but decent. And she was short. Can’t really call her thicc. But she was stacked The hottest woman in the gym at that time Naturally I froze and avoided her and eye contact She’s a woman she kept pushing along. Paid it no mind. Continued on her day I felt like a bitch So I devised a plan just to talk to her. Rejection or not. I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 07:23 AM
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Well we already reached common ground In your pursuit of trying to relinquish gender roles and expectations and stereotypes on masculinity You are free to pursue that You say you don’t care about what females are attracted too. So it really shouldn’t affect you if you decide to forego those expectations/roles And if you’re not trying to change their minds. Then you and I have nothing left to argue or debate
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:43 AM
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Biology affects personality and behavior trends as well Birds fly not because it’s their personality to fly. It’s because they have wings In the same way a lot of these roles are borne out of these biological differences I agree that some stereotypes and roles and expectations don’t make much sense because both sexes can do them equally as well And I agree not every man can actually fulfill the male biological role or even be the stereotypical way But the roles were borne out of who could potent…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:28 AM

What’s horrible about his situation Is it APPEARS that he’s not even really having sex or sexual intimacy And he’s just being used for his money and in return he’s recieving “love” (whatever the fuck that means). And he’s ok with it because he’s in love with her But it’s clear on the outside looking in. That she’s not horny for him and that she doesn’t really find him attractive. Nor really wants to have sex with him. So on the outside looking in. It’s like the worst situation Because he’s getti…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 06:00 AM
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So when it comes to the sexes You don’t think that men are the bigger stronger taller sex? The sex more prone to being horny and sexually motivated. The sex more prone to higher energy tendencies and more dangerous behaviors in the form of taking risks and bravery. And more prone to agression? You don’t think that women are the weaker and smaller and shorter sex? And that they are more prone to being emotional and more prone to hormonal influence in regards to emotional reasoning and basing logi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/25 05:51 AM
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Explain the women don’t have to hate sex to see it as a burden thing It’s not about being able to provide. Having to provide for women in 2025. When women are talking about independence and autonomy and what they aren’t going to do for men and how they don’t owe men anything and they aren’t even trying to attract men or even be available sexually whenever and etc Is frustrating On top of the fact women claim they want to be able to make their own money and don’t want to depend on men There’s not…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 04:06 PM
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This isn’t a team sport I’m not worried about men or their lack of success fucking women or there success in fucking women It’s not my problem and not my business I couldn’t fathom thinking of what all men are doing and etc. the same way I can’t fathom thinking of unattractive women I encourage you to do whatever you’re doing. Irdc Especially if the people doing this 4b thing are unattractive or average or undesirable It’s perfect in its own way Either way do whatever you have to do I’m focused …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 09:16 PM
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That makes no sense The only way that makes sense is if women are asexual and don’t like sex and/or are not attracted to men so that sex is seen as a burden and an obligation that must be handed to men to appease them to reach x goal Because that’s what providing and having money is. A means to get to x goal
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:41 PM
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I’ve been with a woman with personality that I got along with that I’m compatible with. That I wasn’t attracted to and didn’t want to fuck It was torture She is a good person though and the others were too That just solidified my resolve to only go after women I’m attracted to and want to fuck Because everything is better and more functional that way I become more affectionate and sexual and display more effort and take more risks and try harder and really want and increases my happiness and exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:37 PM
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Ok then yes it would be best to be with the perfect woman in all ways If the perfect woman in all ways is not available for whatever reason It’s best to go after the attractive woman that’s boring or with flaws or etc over the perfect personality/compatible woman you are not attracted too Meaning your post still doesn’t make sense Because the personality flawed woman is still a good option because you want her and are attracted to her
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:30 PM
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I disagree You are wasting time focusing on any woman you are not attracted to Women are passive and like sheep They follow the government and society and other women and culture They will just adapt to their environment. To the men they like etc. When push comes to shove they will either assimilate or isolate That’s the whole point of them avoiding confrontation and always being nice to other women and being fake So arguing or fighting with women or trying to convince women is pointless Let the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 08:28 PM
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Read what I said In a perfect world it’s both and everyone gets what they want and blah blah blah In the real world people aren’t completely perfect And so what do you go for In that case there’s the attractive woman or the personality/compatibility woman It makes no sense for me to go for the personality/compatibility woman that I don’t want to fuck and I’m not attracted to and don’t want But this advice and a lot of bp/woman and asexual advice is based on this concept It’s the dumbest thing I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:34 PM
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And the whole point. Is that that point is meaningless if you are not attracted and don’t want to have sex with them Unless your whole point is that you should be trying to have sex with or be sexless with women with amazing oersonalities and compatibility that you aren’t attracted to and don’t want to have sex with Ofc if a woman with an amazing personality and is hot and attractive sure But a perfect in all ways woman is not standard reality So in the case that woman doesn’t magically appear y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:21 PM
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“The pursuit of sex blinds men and it stops them from seeing who the women they are chasing really are” “BUT IF THEY STOP PURSUING SEX so much and instead get to know women beyond sex and their physical appearance first” “but the pursuit of sex either stops men from seeing this or it makes them just accept it in their attempt to get laid.” “must follow the example of women and condition his sex drive” “If men could abstain from sex at judicious intervals they might even succeed in normalizing th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 12:05 PM
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I did understand it You’re saying not to chase attractive women I went to the alternative and asked you why would I do the alternative And then I assumed your line of thinking was either asexual or bluepill/woman perspective or something similiar I’m trying to make sense of your stance Ofc a hot woman with the perfect virtuous personality is what should be chosen But what if it’s the hot attractive woman with flawed personality or boring or etc Vs this perfect/right personality compatible woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:58 AM
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I’ve met women that I get along with as people and I’m compatible with I would never want to fuck them and I never would want them or desire them So what am I supposed to do? Be with someone that I’m compatible with and love that I don’t want to kiss or have sex with or be intimate with? Find a friend to settle down with? Don’t get me wrong I could have aex with them. Could kiss them. Could be intimate But there’s a difference. And you’d have to know to know the difference So no I’d rather focus…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/25 11:51 AM

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:55 PM

I only spend money when there’s something in it for me and I get something in return that I deem valuable or worth it or the equivalent of exchange That’s why I never get used. Because they know I’m going to ask for something It makes people respect you and also makes them think twice about asking you for anything I also don’t ask people for things unless I’m willing to create an exchange of value But I have asked people for things and they give freely. I don’t know their angle. But they’ve done…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:23 PM
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How do you have a relationship without having sex and without being sexually attracted to your partner and without wanting/desiring them? That’s a relationship that women want? That’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:19 PM
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Women gain leverage by being attractive Their actions and personality gaining leverage flows downstream of that An attractive woman can ask and demand whatever she wants essentially A lot of these arguments comes from someone being with or trying to be with someone they aren’t actually that attracted to That’s where we get these. Find someone you’re compatible with and personality this. And find someone you get along with and have peace with. In free will dating. Going for what you want. That ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:16 PM
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No according to her logic it might just be 🍇
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:06 PM
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Consensual sex isn’t 🍇 (This is probably going to be my last time verbally and vocally pushing back on it as I don’t see the point of arguing about this. And I actually don’t think this is going to change your mind. But I just want to hear if you are going to say something different than the other women say. Meaning. I wonder if you have an actual point that’s not rooted in feelings.) No matter what happens in the future. No matter if you were lied to. Or etc That is not the equivalent of 🍇 Were…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 09:05 PM

On this chart rn I’m like # 4 or # 11. That’s the closest to my body type rn Maybe # 1 but I don’t really think so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:18 PM

Rn I would say it’s kind of high because I gained weight. So maybe 15 - 20 % or maybe higher idk Before it was probably way lower I don’t know how much of the gained weight is muscle vs fat Irl people say that I’m not fat. Some think I’m like. Muscular. Wouldn’t say skinny. But for some reason they don’t see me as chubby or fat or even buff. I would’ve thought they would like the skinnier version. But idk. I’ve had more attractive women like me like this vs a year ago or 2 years ago I see them l…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:15 PM

My current form It’s the v shape torso. With definition. 6 pack But I gained weight or muscle. And they like this over the slimmer version with the same ratio I don’t have huge over exaggerated muscles. They are proportional. Idk how to explain it But women do like it it. They talk about my arms. And mention the abs. Ofc they mention other things but It’s not so much having over exaggerated muscle growth As it is having muscles and definition There’s nuance to it though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:05 PM

You was right
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:01 PM

Let me vent again This woman I had sex with multiple times Who sends me money and like talks to me and etc She blocked me She told me recently she had sex with her bestfriend She did it because I told her I had sex with that one girl in the car So she was getting even Last we talked she was trying to have phone sex with me I had to hang up And I hadn’t texted her for like a week or 2 So it’s unclear when she blocked me But it doesn’t hurt It’s just I thought she would never block me It’s like I …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 12:40 AM
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I understand what you’re saying to an extent And it resonates I hope you don’t give up on your sexuality I was frustrated today and that made me not even want to think sexual or be sexual today But imo you have to persevere Idk And if you become asexual what are you going to do then Or an even worse question Are you going to settle for a woman that you’re not attracted to that doesn’t cause you a headache and is peaceful to deal with an be around?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 03:19 AM

Well if she’s hot enough I will So that’s where we seperate You pass up on the chance to have sex with someone you want and is hot And I won’t
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:43 AM

Life isn’t all perfect with all peace and no conflict Everything doesn’t go your way I’m sure if you’re with someone who you don’t want that badly you can take that approach I just want to be with someone I want badl I want to have sex with someone I want badly I’m not going to be happy in a peaceful relationship with a woman just because she’s a woman that causes no conflict and is peaceful We are living in different worlds That is all I’ll say it again. My goal isn’t just a woman. Or just a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:30 AM

Don’t be with a woman is all I heard Specifically don’t be with a woman you want Can’t take advice that doesn’t make sense You go be with the women that want you I’m always going to go for the women I want So our worlds are seperated by that one law And all your advice is for your world and it is rendered useless in mine I’m not trying to be with just any woman My goal isn’t a random woman that exists I’m sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:24 AM
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So you don’t like women anymore or you still do? I’m trying to follow what you’re saying towards the ends You lost your sexuality? Or you are just frustrated while maintaining the same sexuality?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:21 AM

Bro she’s disrespecting me rn & im mad I want to tell her I’m mad or say something disrespectful back But I know if I do she’s going to go ghost and we won’t meet up So I have to eat this Ok But I can’t play nice. I can’t kiss her ass. I can’t. She’s basically talking crazy to me I left her on read I need advice Do I? A. Leave her on read until she text again B. Respond and then wait for her to text again C. Be the one to try to fix and mitigate this D. Sabotage everything and ruin my only chanc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 01:13 AM

What don’t you understand about the whole point of my post was about ltr If you don’t know what ltr means Or let’s say for the benefit of the doubt the definition I’m using of ltr is different What I mean is a woman who sees a future with you and is thinking of being married to you or having kids with you I’m talking 20+ 10+ relationships Nothing you said shows that It’s not actually important Cohabitation wasn’t about cohabitation it was about ltr cohabitation Marriage wasn’t about marriage it …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:56 PM

Because I like her. I’m attracted to her. She’s my fantasy type. And I want her I usually rarely text women or people in general. Like every 3 weeks. Or months or days or etc And women are passive so they trail off or stop texting and that’s that Then you text them they may respond or may not But whole time other men are approaching them other men are texting them Maybe I’m mate guarding. Whatever it is. It’s just in my best interest to keep me and her connected somehow until we meet. I haven’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:12 PM

The point is. They have to last a long time. Because all I said is women evaluate money for if they want to be with you a long time like marriage and cohabitation and etc I wasn’t talking about getting into short term relationships My point was never about relationships. Which is why you’re not actually proving anything with your statements so far Lastly I can’t say that the women you were with were or were not attractive I’m just saying that’s relevant because I’m not talking about the ability …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 06:01 PM

But they didn’t last or stand the test of time So how does it prove a point They were just relationships Also like I said it depends on what they look like If you’re just saying that you can get in a relationship with a woman without money Idc a woman is any xx chromosome human being from birth It doesn’t mean much I’m literally just talking about very attractive/sexually attractive women Nothing I say is really about women as a whole Sometimes But I only really have experience with sexually att…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:44 PM

You said ltrs How are they ltrs? How are they plural? And why have they all or all but one ended? How is that proving your point? I don’t understand I also don’t even know what the women you’re talking about look like. For it to matter that a woman had an experience with you or multiple women I’m speaking about certain types of women Not women in general
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:13 PM

Wdym what’s my strategy? Basically she said she was over this and I fought for my life. And empathize and understood her point of view and apologized for all my flaws Then she agreed and gave her perspective and reasoning Then I explained why I’m talking a lot. Not because I want to. But because I feel like I have to - to continue this situation And etc etc So she didn’t start anything. She just said she was annoyed or I was pissing her off or she’s done And then I start brainstorming trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:12 PM

No I ask for specific nudes. And she makes them right when she tells me she’s going to send them When they send them you can see the time date and the location So I know what you’re saying But it’s not actually the case for me Second she didn’t even really want to send nudes. Then she didn’t want to put her face in it. Then she didn’t want to ft in the shower. Then she didn’t want to etc. But she did Literally she’s not who you think she is She might become that after me But for rn. She’s anti t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:05 PM

I don’t have to lie Maybe that’s also another difference between us
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:03 PM

Cool Maybe one day you’ll be the same
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:30 PM

But I’m not lying Skip over my posts You’re a guy I shouldn’t even be on your radar That’s why it’s weird I don’t think about guys this much that I don’t even know at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 03:04 PM

All I have to offer is my sexuality What is true is true And clearly if you read You would see I’m not attracting or I am not with the women I am attracted too You are mad for no reason It’s weird
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:47 PM

Yeah it’s not really a problem I just understand why So I’m telling him why money would be important to him. For him to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:08 PM

If I was rich I’d be married and/or in an ltr Women only have sex with me and make it clear that we are fwb or casual Strictly because I can’t provide a lifestyle or they can’t foresee us living together where I already have everything established and they come along with whatever they are doing 50/50 and that struggle together or make payments together thing Is strictly for unattractive women and elderly older women In 2025 at least Any attractive woman will keep u casual or fwb because u don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:34 PM

No Different woman. Different state. Different everything The friend was when all I cared about was love and personality and friendship I was blue pill at heart This is something different I learned from that to get to this place
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:14 PM

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 11:26 AM

I’m sexually attracted I want to have sex That’s driving my emotions and risk taking and the urgency and the efffort and the passion and etc I do like her as a person. I am compatible with her personality Admittedly if all I cared about was her personality I would feel like you do and totally understand where you’re coming from But the simple fact is I wouldn’t want to be with anyone or have sex with them if all I liked about them was their personality Definitely wouldn’t be in a hurry to meet t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:13 AM

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 05:10 AM

Ok we talked and she said she’s still going to meet me Basically I try to talk to her too much and I talk too much And that turned her from being overly attracted to me and dripping wet To annoyed and almost over me She confirmed that if she was getting fucked by another guy she’d tell me and cut me off The fucked up thing is I don’t like texting or talking I literally did everything I did just to have this chance But now she thinks that’s who I am But since she confirmed she’s going to meet me …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 04:12 AM

No she did nudes where like I told her what I wanted. Also u can see the time on the photos when you save it. And it says from where Also we ft and she showed me there otp and things happened there too Idk if she’s getting money from other men. I would hope not. But I can’t say either way. She’s not a prostitute. Like I can’t pay her for sex. She wants to have sex with me because I have an enlarged sexual organ and she’s attracted to me But it’s not for money. Trust me. She can do way better tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 02:05 AM

Yes but she’s settling because basically she’s only sexually attracted to me So her settling Means not using me for money and not liking my personality Only putting up with me because she’s attracted to me That’s the settling I want That’s what will make me cherish the situation I’d rather that than have a woman not settle because I had money and etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:45 AM

Tbh she’s made it extremely clear She’s just sexually attracted to me She sends me nudes. Ft me But I annoy her and I’m not spoiling her She just likes me Which is what I always wanted. But I’m not putting forth the effort to make her feel like that sacrifice is worth it I understand what you’re saying But let’s be clear She could get money rn from guys if she wanted too She could have aex from multiple guys rn if she wanted too She’s going to college and working I think to prove a point to hers…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:44 AM

The fact that you “know” she talks about wanting a bag like that is funny And to your point I understand now more clearly She’s fw me and not getting money out of it She wants a lifestyle. The money. The being spoiled She’s sacrificing all of that to give me a chance And igs I’m taking that for granted And that’s pissing her off Thank you Maybe I can fix this With this understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 01:04 AM

🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:34 AM

Bro somebody pray for me Because I think this is my last chance to turn the tides She’s either going to ft me today or Tommorrow or Friday When I talk to her. That’s my only chance to fix this And even then there’s no guarantee that she won’t just hang up and then ghost or block me I need the prayers oml And this is why I’m glad there are no attractive women here Because I act out of character when I really want something This is embarrassing Still I need the prayers Ima go get something to eat …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:26 AM

But idk what to say I’m telling her not to give up That I’m not good at texting online or calling so ima piss her off But to just meet me and then decide But she says she’s over it But idk She would’ve blocked me if she truly was Which means this is my chance to win her over. But I need help Like I really pissed her off I think after this I just need to kiss her ass until we meet If I fix this Like not be as disagreeable as I am online Or not ask for what I want because fml
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:23 AM

You’re supposed to help me fix the situation I’m trying to win and not lose Yes life goes on But my will to go above and beyond was for a chance at a woman like this It wasn’t for the sake of going above and beyond I finally had that chance And if I messed it up after waiting my whole life for this opportunity That’s gg Might as well just kick back and ride the current down stream Because I’ll never be happy with a woman in that way as far as sexual attraction Ima be like the bp people. Talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:08 AM

I’m not in a relationship This is about opportunity/chance The suffering is in missing that opportunity/chance Knowing I could’ve had that opportunity/chance I’m not thinking that opportunity/chance is guarenteed I just know I won’t get this opportunity/chance in the future. As this was the only woman I was actually sexually attracted too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/25 12:04 AM

I think she’s just attracted to me She wants someone with way more money. That can buy her 6k bags regularly. Send her like thousands everyday. Like she’s been spoiled by family and by guys. She gets her way So basically I’m sex zoned if we are being honest But I’ve been talking to her in a I want to be with you kind of way And she claims she’s not fw any other guys But she’s let me know her past The thing is idk if she will meet me again Mind you. I suck at texting otp or calling otp. I’m an ir…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:59 PM

Ok she unblocked me And now I’m just fighting for my life Basically she says. She’s lowering her standards for me I ask for too much and do to much And she’s over me now Basically in her eyes I’m getting the upper hand or the most out tof the situation and she feels like she’s not getting anything in return That’s how I’m taking it I’m fighting for dear life Like please don’t let this be the end But I accept it if it is Like I said I’ll just stop all my self improvements and just coast through l…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:50 PM

I might’ve fumbled rn I think she blocked me Idk All I have to look forward to is fucking women I’m not attracted too So idk I think ima stop working out because I don’t see the point And ima stop trying to get money Because it doesn’t matter anymore I just want to go to sleep I overly suck at texting and talking otp But I should know that and try to cut it to a minimum I’m great irl But you can’t have irl interactions with someone long distance. I was about to meet her soon Idk my ambition is c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:44 PM

But those are women I won’t want
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:30 PM

I wasn’t really looking at it from the man’s perspective More so just trying to understand the woman’s perspective Seems they don’t really like guys That the most men will probably reach is nuetral And very few will be attractive But women may not choose the attractive because of what you said about leverage or because they will break rules or etc
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:30 PM

I was learning And applying the lessons It helped me actually At first I thought money was everything Now I’m thinking attraction is everything But money is important for specific reasons but still I think I’m learning the final lesson now But after I learn that lesson You’re right I would only be killing time here And I shouldn’t waste time for no reason
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:19 PM

So most women are passive And most super attractive women are passive and take pride in not chasing or begging or etc So basically I begged to meet her The first time she was going on vacation. And I asked to meet her before. But honestly that was too soon. But she wasn’t busy. The second time. She agreed on a time. But she told me the week of she would be busy. I went anyway. Because I had told my job that I was going and everyone that I was going. And I didn’t want to look like a liar So when …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 11:17 PM

If/when this happens I think this will be the end of my era on this sub I was here to learn something First I was bluepill and it was all about love I experienced that Now I’m on this side If this doesn’t work out it’s fine Because I can just make money and fuck hot women This is different because this is a hot woman lowering her standards for me when she literally doesn’t have too Which makes me feel like this is probably going to be the only woman genuinely attracted to me that I’m also attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:30 PM

Ok So it’s like a shit test I get your point about her not wanting to be locked into a yes But her knowing I want to have sex and her still deciding to meet me in my hotel even though she could just meet me at a bar or Starbucks or etc That’s like her saying maybe depending on the chemistry? I’m listening to you I’ll exert sexual pressure Like flirting and etc and see how she reacts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 10:03 PM

She’s not a sex worker. Im the one who was asking and basically begging to meet her. Because I do not want to keep texting and talking If she was a sex worker. This would’ve all been handled easily. And I wouldn’t even be asking for advice I’ve never really dealt with sex work But it would be clear and easy to resolve. This is something different This is just regular pink pill women stuff It’s kind of normal A lot of regular women are like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:47 PM

I don’t know why it was recommended to me Read a thread about women not being attracted to a man but liking him in every other aspect It was basically unanimous in regret and warnings of never doing it Basically attraction is important Also That women don’t really see men as attractive in the first place So if a man is normal or ok then he has a chance to get a woman to be willing to have sex or be “attracted” That part was unclear But basically if a man is nuetral it can be turned into a yes Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:44 PM

For the last time. It’s not a few months. I said within a few months because I’m not saying exactly when But it’s soon She’s letting me know all the things she’s experienced as far as being spoiled to show me how much she’s lowering her standards with me I haven’t changed anything. I just understand she likes me. Because she’s not really gaining much from fw me tbh Tbh you could probably say that I’m the one gaining from her in a way Tbh I see why she’s mad all the time now So you say go for it?…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:28 PM

Not 18 weeks. But yea And I need advice Because what does that actually mean? She says like not the first time But she’ll meet me again another time and we’ll have sex But why is she going to meet me in my hotel room? Like I need advice. I don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:20 PM

It’s not exactly 18 weeks. It’s an undisclosed time. And I just put that time frame. So it would be clear that it’s not in a year or something like that Idk why I would say the exact day on here. That’s not smart
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:19 PM

I’m just saying a couple of months because you never are supposed to let someone know your exact moves. It’s actually soon. But within a couple of months If you get it. You get it. Yes one mistake she will ghost. That’s all women. The only way that I’m keeping her along. Is she’s really sexually attracted to me. Like that’s the best way to say it while keeping everything private. But that’s all that’s really keeping her dealing with me. It’s not my personality. It’s not money. In fact those are …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 09:17 PM

I need advice I’m dealing with this pink pill woman Whose used to guys spending thousands on her. Spoiling her She looks OF level type of sexually attractive My type She’s made it clear that she’s lowering her standards for me Which means basically she’s attracted to me. So she’s putting up with the drop off of everything else That’s how I take it Real soon she’s going to meet up with me. Not today. But within the next few months We’ve talked back and forth many times Rn she says we aren’t havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 08:19 PM
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Explain the “young angle of growing together” or explain wdym If I’m being honest i don’t have an answer to fix that situation when it arises. I’ve just seen and experienced and heard about it countless times I’m more into free will and attracting women. So I can’t really say to do something you don’t WANT to do. Or be with someone you’re not attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 10:20 PM
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But I’m asking you what if an older man was attractive? Or do you not have an answer for that? It seems your whole argument is nullified of that was the case As you don’t have a counter argument You are just refusing to concede the possibility of it existing So from that I take it that if a man was older and attractive. Then you wouldn’t have your argument from this post or the same thought process
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:56 PM
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I can’t say exactly with 100% certainty But from my experience and what I’ve seen A majority or let’s just say an amount of women will be single. Either because they see no financial benefit or they feel like they are settling or being negatively affected by that proposition. So they will see no point in cohabitation or a relationship Some will try to become sugar mommas or etc and try to leverage their assets to try to convince a man to ltr Normally that never really works out in the end. Becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 08:54 PM
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I disagree that being with an unattractive woman or having sex with an unattractive woman or trying to woo an unattractive woman is “happiness” Even if you could be yourself or not have to do anything. That’s still not the equivalent to happiness It may bring peace. May allow you to be lazy and let yourself go. May let you not have to try as hard or do as much. We could argue about what happiness means Instead I’m just saying that is not happiness from my perspective Could you imagine someone sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 04:27 PM
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You’re bringing up things you don’t like In life bad things can happen with every concept The question isn’t if bad sex exists The question is does good sex exist And if we focus on good sex. Is good sex inherently dehumanizing if that’s the focus For
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:27 PM
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I’m saying the feeling is mutual U aren’t attractive to me most likely So I honestly don’t care And it doesn’t matter And tbh I thank u for leaving me alone in that aspect I’m glad we cleared the air And me debating and discussing ideas had nothing to do with me wanting sex. I’m not debating women to have sex with them. I’m not trying to be liked here. I’m just trying to debate and discuss ideas. Learn and understand and get closer to the truth I literally am not attracted to any “woman” here. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:22 PM
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I don’t want to have sex with you either Tbh in my personal view there’s not any attractive or sexually attractive women here to me So I can just focus on the topics and debating. As if I was talking to a guy Because I treat women I’m not attracted to like guys or nuetral at best
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 01:01 PM
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What if they are attractive? That is my question. You’ve already answered if they aren’t attractive And if they are attractive then what is your stance?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 08:48 PM
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So if someone is only using you for your body But is humanizing you and cares about what you want and need And they treat you like a person with your own agency, needs, desires, boundaries But they want sex and sexuality and sexual attraction By your definition and logic. Since you say you like sex That should be ok right? Or is the root of the cause the want of sex and sexuality in if itself That’s what I want to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:30 AM
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What is the difference? How can you have sex without someone lusting over you. Or focusing on your body. Or interacting with your body during the sexual act in order to have sex It seems like semantics to me But I’m trying to understand Is this one of those “how you feel about the action” type of thing? Like women with tone?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:10 AM
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No because I want to have sex I don’t want to talk I don’t rely on my emotions to be fulfilled I use intelligence in my life. Therefore I’m not going to accept suspending disbelief. Also I value reality. I don’t like fake or artificial. On all levels The same reason why I don’t go to a pet for companionship is the same way I wouldn’t go to ai or a robot
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:07 AM
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So you’re assuming they are unattractive Ok And if they are attractive? What is your argument in that case? Or is that the whole point of your post and where all your logic hinges off of?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 10:01 AM
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I think it’s clear that most women don’t like sex. That’s all this sub has shown me
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 09:58 AM
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I actually don’t. And I need it to be explained My money is not apart of me and has nothing to do with me Actions are just things I do. And still has no bearing on me. As the day I stop an action. I am no longer being liked or etc “Personality” is a series of repeated behavioral patterns and actions and thoughts that are consistently expressed externally Therefore unless you are a robot You are going to change. When you change. Your “personality” will change too In other words to like someone fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/25 09:56 AM
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It does Explain how it does not What does it not answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/25 01:35 AM

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/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:19 PM

Unattractive. That’s why the u was there I’ll edit it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 04:18 PM

So this unattractive woman has been talking to me constantly For hrs at a time And it’s we are compatible as far as personality goes. Get along and etc etc And I can’t do it That’s what I’ve been trying to say I will take a woman I’m sexually attracted to over a woman that I’m compatible with and don’t want Like what are we going to do? Talk? I don’t want to have sex. I don’t want to spend money on her. I’m not trying to impress her or attract her. I don’t have a desire for her. Etc etc How woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 03:55 PM
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Because women are passive They aren’t going to always pursue. Always plan. Always initiate. Always try to have sex. Always try to entertain. Always try to fix things. Always look past flaws. Always settle. Always be spontaneous. Always take risks. Always be strong. Always be dominant. Always make decisions. Always try to move without emotions. Etc etc They let things happen. Expect things to be perfect or already established. Go off their emotions etc etc On top of the fact that for whatever rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:37 PM

She asked me if my birthdate was the same on my sc I said no I just put the date to when I joined because I didn’t take sc serious And she just said oh Then she was like when’s your birthday I told her And like she was like ok And then stopped responding Like that’s my fault obviously but still
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 02:00 AM

It’s embarrassing fumbling. The one that’s less embarrassing is on sc But I can’t really ss that But basically we chatted. Then she ghosted Mind you she unlocked her phone. And let me add myself on her phone Mind you she hugged me multiple times and said for sure she was going to text back Mind you she let me eat her food and she ate it afterwards So I really fumbled Like really fumbled
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 01:38 AM

This is still old but more recent than the other one <image> But that’s what I’m saying. I think it’s more my personality. But I can’t really account for the differences between online and irl If we can agree it’s my personality that’s carrying me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 01:36 AM

It’s on one of my post I think. Although that’s like a year plus old. I look different now. Longer hair. More muscles. So it’s not an accurate time capsule of the present But it’s a general idea
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 01:14 AM

Well ok But that’s with women that are sexually attractive or that I’m attracted to I have actual conversations with unattractive women or conventionally attractive women with no curves Like I was talking to this like conventionally attractive young woman. Who people would say is pretty and cute. And it was just small talk I was really asking her for free things. But we did talk about like what’s been going on since we last bumped into each other She smiled a lot and maintained eye contact Doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 01:12 AM

The fact that you and the other guy said it. At around the same time. I’ll think about it Like I told him. I thought my personality was one of my defining traits. And that I was winning battles with it and overcompensating for looks. But you guys are saying the reverse I thought it could’ve been different communication styles or something like that. But I’ll think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:51 AM

Tbh. I don’t see myself as attractive. Because I don’t see men as attractive at all. And I’m a man But I’m ngl This whole time I thought I had a good personality. And that I was winning women over with my social skills But what if it’s reverse? Like what if I’m only winning women over because of looks I have to entertain the possibility But it’s hard to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:48 AM

Someone explain to me how I can be loved irl but hated on all forms of online communication. Even the phone. I’m sexist Irl. I take similiar stances to those on here irl So why the difference. I’m not even talking about this sub. I’m talking about talking otp. Dming women. Etc I’ve literally talked to a few different women irl. And everything goes great. I text them or call them and everything goes wrong I’m trying to understand the disconnect
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 12:27 AM
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Men and women are different But yes this is one of the humanity elements in our lives that’s mirrored in both sides It’s a concept that’s applicable to both Thank you for this response. Because it helped me understand something else
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:41 PM
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Thank you And I wish the same for you as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:51 PM
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But you have no skin in the game. So you’re advice is lacking perspective. Ultimately you’re advice is not helpful for someone who truly wants a woman. You’re advice is helpful for someone who just wants a relationship And that’s the difference But you frame it as if you yourself want a woman and have come to an epiphany on how to reach that goal So instead of trying to steer or police men’s goals and motivations. Don’t you think it would be better to focus on something you want or something abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:49 PM
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So why make the post?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:34 PM
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This will help you understand everything Are you desiring or wanting an extremely unattractive woman that you are compatible with? Can you desire or want an extremely sexually attractive woman that you are not compatible with? If you can understand that. Then you can understand why compatibility doesn’t matter to me It’s about what I want. And if I’m willing to do what it takes to get what I want I work out. I work. I survive. I don’t have life go exactly my way. I learned how to navigate and ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:29 PM
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You just used synonyms to try to distance the two things from each other There is no difference Agreeing/selecting they are the same concept If I go up to a woman. I am selecting and agreeing for an experience with her. If she accepts that offer or experience. Then she is also selecting and agreeing for an experience with me Both of us have to agree and select Use your mind It’s a two way street You can’t have it be one sided unless you want it to be illegal We are clearly talking about the lega…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:14 PM
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So now that you defined compatibility Refer to my initial response to you I’m not talking about who gets along with you. If a relationship will work. If your personalities mix. Etc I’m talking about who you want. Who you desire. Who you are sexually attracted to We are talking about different things And that’s ok From my perspective when you want someone you are going to go above and beyond and put in effort and try to fix or work through flaws or etc If you are compatible that isn’t really abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 09:09 PM
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What does compatibility mean to you Define it Are you talking about everything in one word Or are you excluding things. Such as sexual attraction/looks or etc Help me understand what you are arguing about And then we can continue the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:55 PM
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Both have to select What you are saying makes absolutely no sense Both have to agree So what are you basing who is selecting who and whose being selected by? I’m saying I’m selecting because I’m choosing first who I want regardless of the outcome. Whereby she is being chosen and then either agreeing or denying That’s my logic But as I said before. Both of us have to agree. Both of us have to technically choose and be selected Your point actually makes no sense And it’s just something you regurgi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:52 PM
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I never mentioned compatibility or how well you work together. Or if it works All I said was the woman you want Idk if you’ll understand But there is a difference between the woman you want and the woman who wants you Consent and being willing and etc are two way streets. Both have to do it. Well not have to. But for what we are talking about. They have to for this to work But wanting does not have to be a two way street. Yes wanting the relationship to happen. Sure But actually wanting the pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:27 PM
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The implication of being with a woman that wants you. Is either the most important thing is a woman wanting you irrelevant of if you want her Or that you should not try to get or go after what you want. And the type of women you are attracted to If you aren’t saying that. Then fine. What are you saying. I reject also what you said. Idk about other species. But in this species there’s multiple paths. Maybe in your path. Women are the sexual selectors and you are the sexually selected In my path I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 08:14 PM
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There is nothing good about them I am sexually attracted to a specific type of woman and I want that type of woman But I am not getting anything nor is their anything that I actually want from a woman or that she could give me besides like one or 2 things I’m not a baby. I don’t need love or friendships or etc. and if I did. That is literally a humanity quality/virtue. You can get it from a man or a woman The fact that I have to level up my life and go above and beyond and have to attract on all…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 07:58 PM

I just saw this THICC woman with huge boobs I said hi. And she smiled like 😊 and said hi back And then she walked away I’m still making progress but I’m a bitch Meanwhile yesterday and today I had mini in depth conversations with unattractive women and skinny conventionally attractive women with no curves I got to work on my fear Next time I’ll try to push the conversation farther
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 07:38 PM
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There’s no point in being with a woman just because she is a woman We are men. We are not women. We need to stop adopting their thinking They are the ones that do an action and see it as an accomplishment. They are married to a guy and say they are married like that means something. They have sex with a guy and say they had sex like that means something. They have guys who want them and say that guys want them like it means something No It matters who. It matters who you want. Quality matters So…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 07:27 PM
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I just realized Mine only exists to get women Thats why it never really matters if women have money That’s why women will spend your money even if they have their own I think I understand that part now Now is the application phase
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:34 PM
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And this post is why you will never get the woman you want And you’ll only get a woman that wants you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 06:27 PM
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Hot sexually attractive women can be any type of personality they want. And can be delusional. And selfish. And etc They tend to go that route because they can They don’t have to conform to reality. As men bend over backwards for them Therefore what you see is attractive women who are crazy or toxic being sought after A closed mind would only notice the crazy part I assure u. Unattractive crazy women or elderly crazy women are not being sought after to the extent that it coincides with your post
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 01:07 PM
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You can look at it that way Or you can look at it as it’s harder to make connections when you’re an outsider with no social proof and no connections to the city
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 12:29 AM
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Yea I can see the occupation angle. It could get you in doors or around people or etc. appearance of course. But social skills is like base level.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 11:05 PM
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That’s not true I’ve gone to new cities. Knowing nobody. And have made friends and connections out of nothing. Without using vetted social media So it’s either I look good or I have good social skills I’d say it’s the social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/25 10:49 PM
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I can’t speak for all men But for me it’s the opposite Body type determines sexual attraction And then the face is the last piece that completes the puzzle. A decent face or “pretty” face with an amazing body. Is who I will simp for. Have fantasies about. Want to marry. Be in a relationship with Only an amazing body. Then I’ll be sexually attracted. But the face could ruin it potentially. Depending on how the face look. Idk it stops me from thinking a serious like relationship where I want her f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:56 PM
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That was auto correct. I meant the Greek statues. That’s what she said like Adonis. The other ones say I look manly or they like it. For some reasons they mention the shoulders a lot. Sometimes the arms. They do like the 6 pack a little bit But I don’t understand female attraction so I just go off results and what they react too. The moral of the story is that the type of attention I recieve before and after is night and day And night is not working out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:43 PM
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Women can lose attraction to women they lust for and desir and think are hot based on money. Icks. Personality components. Lack of ambition etc etc Meaning their sexuality isn’t the same on average Even for men they find “hot” So it’s not really comparable. Also igs most of my comments are centered around sexually attractive women/attractive women I’m not talking about women as a whole or unattractive women. I don’t know what they do or value. It may be different or it might be the same. Idk The…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:26 PM
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Yea you’d have to eat so much It’s actually not that possible to get big muscles. Unless you over eat and gain WEIGHT. Or you un evenly work out muscles so they appear bigger. But that’s not recommended as it will create structural damage and injuries
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:19 PM
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I started working out And literally women I had been trying to talk to. Didn’t remember me because I changed so much And women who were ignoring me started talking to me & flirting with me Anyone who tells a man not to work out is literally doing evil. Sabotaging him for no reason. A smart man wouldn’t listen to that Matter of fact. Just don’t work out as a man for years. Then work out. And you’ll see the actual difference Any man here is dumb if they listen to this advice Women like me more tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:18 PM
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He needs to go where attractive women actually are and ask them. Idk why he’s asking unattractive women what they find attractive as if he’s trying to be with someone who visits this sub that’s a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:14 PM
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I never talked about desirability I said women preferences tend to lead them to valuing money and trend to them preferring it Even when they have money I never was arguing for or concerned with if they were physically attracted to or desired or lusted for the men they CHOOSE to be in a relationship with or have sex with. That’s their problem Women being selective with sex. Inherently means they don’t see sex the same way. Them not focusing on it constantly. Not wanting to have sex every minute. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:04 PM
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I never used the word biology or talked about biology I’m just talking about general trends and preferences that each sex chooses to lean towards You didn’t listen to what I said I said women tend to value a man having money So how would that lead to you thinking u think a broke old man could get a model? Women have their own money and for some reason still want a man to have money which perplexes me tbh. But men and women are different. So I leave it alone. There are men that women lust for. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:38 PM
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Make a sub
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:32 PM
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Make a sub. I’ll join
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:31 PM
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It always has been. They shadow ban users from posting Delete the more male focused posts A lot of posts here center on looks. But when women post about it. It stays up. When men post about it it’s taken down Among other things There’s not really an alternative though And this isn’t real life. I don’t take it seriously anymore. I just vent. Or I just say uncomfortable truths and challenge and defend positions Knowing I’m just going to get a feminine argument back about their emotions and perspec…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:29 PM
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Women value money and resources from their partner than men do in general So that’s why women go older Women don’t really care about sex and sexual objectification in a positive way. So they don’t really value attractiveness and sexual objectification the same way Therefore a man’s looks is always accompanied by his resources or career or status or etc In this way you’re right that an elderly man or man in his 50’s isn’t the peak of attraction physically. Yet women aren’t selecting for that if w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:21 PM
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Yea I think that’s the missing equation to my puzzle. The women I like probably are unobtainable for monetary reasons. At least that’s what it’s looking like. Where as the other women are more aware that I don’t want them and they perceive me as attractive. So they overlook these things And maybe other men aren’t fawning over them as much that they’d deem attractive Maybe this is all playing a role in my current situation I’ll self reflect Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:32 PM
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A plain low maintenance sexually attractive woman I would enjoy and cherish and treat like a queen tbh Idk how you could get bored of someone you want & are attracted to. Makes no sense to me. You’re just taking things for granted atp
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:27 PM
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The girl I’m talking to literally wears no make up or a little bit of make up and she has huge boobs. I think she’s cute or ok or I like her face. I most faces are plain. And I don’t really look at faces as being sexually attractive. If you want to be stimulated by a face. You almost have to take a woman with heavy makeup up and/or a woman whose younger I do see the importance of a woman having a bare minimum at least attractive face But there’s not much you can do with a face to begin with. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:25 PM
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Because they are attractive? Men are going after attractive/sexually attractive women Regardless of their requirements or standards or beliefs or careers or thoughts or actions or etc Men are not women and women are not men We aren’t looking for the same thing Any man who says they are. Is either a man trying to get a woman. Or a man that isn’t actually attracted to women and just wants a working relationship on paper Any man that’s attracted to a woman is going to accept her flaws depending on …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:20 PM
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If you don’t like sex. Then that’s on you. Second women like me irl. So I’m not worried about anything you say. Especially when I’m not attracted to you Thirdly. This is just a place where I vent and say uncomfortable truths and debate It has no correlation on real life. Because it’s not real life. I don’t like any of u. & I’m not trying to be friends with you In my mind I’m just dealing with ideas & perspectives. & conveying my own ideas & perspectives. & unfortunately sometimes it’s emotional.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 03:31 PM
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A woman will choose if given a choice to be alone. Than be with the best possible option available. Or what’s around They are passive They don’t feel the need to initiate or find a man or desperately to have sex They wait and live their lives So your plan is not accounting for that You are acting as if they will fall in line and choose YOU or someone like you or other people because they are around or because they need to find someone or etc I could expound on this but I don’t think I’m supposed…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:12 PM
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The point is That having sex with an attractive woman or being with an attractive woman is the goal The goal isn’t to have a random guy on the internet approve of who you have sex with or approve of how you ended up getting a sexually attractive woman’s attention and having them willingly and consensually have sex with you The air quote. Is paraphrasing your whole post You act like simps are affecting your dating prospects You are affecting your dating prospects If there were no men on the plane…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:06 PM
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I have a large sexual organ. Hypersexual. Give women multiple orgasms. Very affectionate loving. Been the best sex ever for multiple woman. Have shown women the most love they’ve ever experienced. Am understanding. Great at irl communication. Make women laugh. Will spend everything on a woman. Prioritize a woman. Etc etc Those are things that actually happened irl In theory I can be the man that a woman actually lusts for and desires That’s theoretical though. Women are attracted to me. But I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 12:01 PM
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I just am attracted to sexually attractive women I don’t care about unattractive women. I don’t care about women as a whole. I don’t care about what men want or do or think or feel or anything about them as a whole Just focus on what’s important If they are “making life harder for you” then just be a better option to women This may be as close to a free market as you can get Just outcompete them then. You basically expressing your desire for them to give up or stop trying makes no sense. You act…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:38 AM
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Having sex with sexually attractive women is success Being in a relationship with a sexually attractive woman is success Having a sexually attractive women want you is success Etc etc Simps accomplish these things too Now if you just want to focus on their failures. Then this post doesn’t make sense. Because the men that fail don’t really have an effect on the current ecosystem. The failures of men make the successful men more valuable and desirable in a relative way. You focus on simping becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:24 AM
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If a man has sex with a sexually attractive woman If a man gets what he wants or is looking for If a man gets to be in a relationship with a sexually attractive woman or has a family or offspring with her or etc It’s all worth it Getting mad at simps for being successful is stupid This is not a team game Find your own way to success. Don’t try to have other men help you win. And stop trying to have other men lose or drop out so you have an easier chance There’s nothing wrong with a “simp” gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 11:15 AM

I mean that would be the only argument The question becomes is not saying yes rape. Or is saying no and not having your no respected rape I just lean towards the no. But I’d have to see individual cases Igs we just need clarification on what they mean when they say forced If she doesn’t say no. She keeps doing it. Then has repeated sex after Forced to me is like when someone’s fighting or resisting and you overpower them Someone initiating an action that you could stop but don’t stop isn’t the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:34 AM
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Unless your saying women want men who cry a lot and paint there nails and always ask for the woman to take initiative and plan and do everything Unless you’re saying that I don’t understand your point Men and women are apart of the human race which is a sexually dimorphic species Women could be strong or tall or etc in theory In reality men are the taller/stronger/etc sex In theory with technology and medicine women can repress all the side effects and negatives that impair women on a monthly to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:27 AM

The fact that she was still drinking with him after the first incident Then after the escalation Then after the sexual act Then used him for benefits Like what is the rape? Regret? Or being drunk? If they are both drunk. Did they rape each other? She says no more and he stops? Is she a baby or is she a grown up? I feel that rape is more serious than regret. That’s my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:16 AM
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To be powerful. To be strong. To have virtue. To not be afraid. To stand for your convictions. To not fold under pressure. To be attracted to women. To dominate. To be the best you can be. To use your mind and think and strategize. To not go off emotion. To keep your word. Etc etc You can try to be whatever you want to be But doing whatever you want does not make you a man Ofc being born xy chromosome does make you a male. But even your body only becomes manly with effort Women are born women. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 04:09 AM
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A lot of men are bitches. A lot of men are homosexual or have homosexual tendencies. And a lot of men have to be polite and politically correct. And being soft and emotionally attuned. And less risk taking and etc The world is being molded by women and for women And that’s affecting male growth But Idrc. But that’s what’s happening So you’re not going to see peak masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 02:45 AM
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Simps are used for guys that really want women Pick me’s are used for girls that really want men There’s nothing wrong with being a simp. If you’re actually fucking the woman of your dreams and getting what you want out of it Who cares what other men or women think If you’re actually fucking a sexually attractive women the way you want and etc What you’re supposed to do things “the right way” and fuck someone unattractive? No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 02:41 AM
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I want to be a man. And either I want a woman to let me be a man Or I want a woman to do whatever she wants. And expect nothing from me. And let me be a man and do whatever I want What I don’t want is a woman to try to make me act like a woman or give up being a man or make me act like a bitch or anything There is a way that I do want women to act But I gave up on that. I just want women to be sexually attractive. They can do whatever they want. Just be sexually attractive Men stuck on tradition…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 02:39 AM

Have you ever had sex? Why wouldn’t you see it as something done to a woman? Are you in shape or are you lazy? Do you just lay there & let things happen to you or do you perform? Wanting what you want has nothing to do with ego. Not wanting something because you think highly of yourself is ego related. Not wanting something because it repulses you or you don’t want it intrinsically is not ego related. But someone could say it’s due to high standards or something along those lines. Women do dress…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:22 PM
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Well I wouldn’t actually want to be a slave for u. But if we aren’t talking about you. Then 100% I could show a woman a good time. 100%. And women like me. Or at least lean positive towards me more than negative. There’s positives I can bring a woman. But admittedly it’s all reality and tangible based. Vs a theoretical feeling/thought excercise
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 11:13 PM
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When women say losers. They are talking about money mostly. You just have to read between the lines. Money/career/status. They aren’t really talking about looks It’s true if a man was very successful. Women would throw themselves at him around his age in a Machiavellian way And if he hadn’t developed self awareness or deep thought or tried to find what was attractive to him. He’ll go after whatever is available and the “best fit” out of all his options in his environment that he’s aware of That’…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 06:10 PM
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I need to know why you’re perspective is the way it is If you are a man we can find common ground If you are a woman you are only speaking from your own perspective and biology observing men but trying to ascribe motive. Without understanding the value and importance of sex and sexuality and sexual attraction is on its own You can’t conceive of it. Because it is not something you’ve ever experienced. So you use your experience and knowledge and intelligence to rationalize why men act like x That…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:57 PM
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That’s not true at all Idc what a man thinks about anything If you are a man. I want to challenge what you’re saying. If you are a woman. Then I’m sorry I commented. Because you don’t know what you’re talking about & never will. This is your perspective. But it’s not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:12 PM
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For men it’s about sexual attraction Well for me it’s about sexual attraction I observe a majority of men agreeing with their actions 80 year old women are not sought after. 50 year old women aren’t seen universally as the peak of sexual attraction and femininity. Feminine features that are sexualized are more sought after than nuetral gender blurring features. Etc etc Sex can be a branch off of sexual attraction or it can be its own thing. And in theory sexual attraction can be its own thing No…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 05:09 PM
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I need to vent and get my thoughts out I was on someone’s live on a fake account with no profile. Just trying to make conversation NOTHING SEXUAL they just gave me the cold shoulder and ignored me I went to my main. And just said dumb and offensive and boundary crossing stuff And they were engaged and laughing and focused on when I would comment And now I’m mad And now I need to stay in the gym and work out harder It’s frustrating but it’s a lesson I need to internalize
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 11:25 PM
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I’m fumbling my chances to meet her Everyday I’m making her more & more mad Like I just want to meet her & have sex with someone from my fantasy. Like she’s everything I want But she’s competitive, tough, and always wants to fight Quick to get bored. Everyday is literally a struggle. So idk Idk rn If it doesn’t happen then I quit Because I’ve had sex with women I’m not attracted to. & I don’t want to live that life. And my whole ambition for getting money & doing better was for this moment. If I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:33 AM
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I am a bitch tho tbh And I do lack confidence. I’m trying to work on it. And I don’t know the cause of it. But you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 08:32 PM
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Actually I’ve made a lot of friends & it’s inconsequential Not to say I resent friendship But I’ve made real genuine friends. That do whatever for me. Help me. Try to understand me. Etc Even platonic friendships with women I’m not attracted to Tbh. I’d rather just be around sexually attractive women and have sex I’m not a woman. I’m not engulfed in emotions and hormones. I don’t need or want friendships. I’m not desperately searching the earth for friendships or love or sociability I’m not a bab…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:54 PM
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The more you go down your way of thinking. The more it will become a self fulfilling prophecy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:30 PM
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You could focus on relative attraction. Or choose to have sex with women for your own reasons. I agree relative attraction exists. I agree that men select that way. That’s why my post exists. To say men do that. And that’s why objectively sexually attractive women don’t really exist Symmetry is just one of the markers of objective beauty. It’s the simplest thing I can point to with no argument or contention. There’s other things. Like proportionate or ratios or etc. As for your post you’re refer…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:28 PM
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I just went to talk to this woman with a big ass that was stretching in front of me with her back towards me for some reason She just looked at me and smiled. I told her she looked good and asked her name. And she told me. I really don’t be having a follow up. So I just walked away. Like I was like I’m not trying to bother you. And when I walked away. She was like nice ti meet you. Still smiling Today they all smiled. Some would say I’m holding myself back But I honestly feel I have to push forw…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:21 PM
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Beauty is objective And people can look at beauty relatively Also people can do whatever they want Symmetry is objectively beautiful. This is always my starting point for this argument. There are certain things that are objectively beautiful Men fucking women does not mean anything when it comes to what’s beautiful. Men being horny and looking at women and selecting based on relative criteria and comparing and contrasting does not even signal what is actually attractive or beautiful You using wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:07 PM
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The more men have sex with sexually attractive women and have offspring with them. The more sexually attractive women will exist. Actually creating an abundance of sexually attractive women The more you apply you’re thinking the rarer sexually attractive women will become Nevertheless I’m not telling men not to try to have sex with women that aren’t sexually attractive It’s literally just a warning about committing,relationships, and being exclusive to them A man’s going to do what he wants The …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:03 PM
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<image> Essentially. It’s seperated into two seperated thoughts There are female specific things that can get passed on But it’s also how you see the X chromosome. Since women don’t have Y chromosomes. Since men only pass on male traits from the y chromosomes. It tends to make the X chromosome seem feminine or humanity chromosome. But if only having the humanity chromosome twice makes you female. Either one x is humanity. But two x is female. Or x itself is female But that’s the basis of my thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:58 PM
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I’m not telling men not to have sex. Just not to commit or enter relationships or be exclusive with women referenced in this post They can have sex with these women or any women. It’s the doing of the other stuff that’s being warned against The wisdom is not falling into that trap
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:52 PM
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I was in the gym Two women appeared at the same fucking time. Actually 4 but I only talked to two I had to time it to where they couldn’t see my talk to each of them One was proportional. With a big ass and decent sized boobs. Basically short and thicc. But not fat. Idk if she was natural or not. But I was attracted The other one was like super skinny. With huge boobs. And I couldn’t tell if she was natural or not because usually the women I see with big boobs have added weight. So idk. But I wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:49 PM
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There are female only characteristics that can only be passed down through females Anything that can be attributed to both I tend to lean to it as being female or nuetral. Which inevitably leans it to being female. Although there are female specific traits. So I shouldn’t technically label it as female. Maybe I should label it as humanity traits. Idk rn. Or maybe humanity traits can be shared by both but still lean female. Either way Your last point is my whole point The Y chromosome is strictly…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:42 PM
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Two things Men only pass on the Y chromosome as specifically coming from men and only men. The X chromosome is female and comes from women and can be passed to men from women and from men to women. Therefore if an unattractive women has a son that son can still pass on the unattractive mothers genes to his daughter even if the woman he’s having sex with is sexually attractive Which is proving and reinforcing my point 2nd point which ties to the first. Males don’t really have that much role in af…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:02 PM
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I answered it in reverse. Because I thought you would reverse engineer it. And understand it that way. But to answer it precisely If we once again take sex I can be sexually attracted to a woman. She can be my fantasy. I can think she’s extremely beautiful. I can want her. Have sexual tension with her. Regardless if I have sex with her or not. Even if I excluded sex. I can want her without wanting sex. I can want her and not the action. Or in other words regardless of the actions that accompany …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:35 PM
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It’s not for you I’m not going to repeat it anymore I’m not trying to make you understand. And I’m not going to argue with your lack of understanding. Or argue about how you feel I’m sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:09 PM
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Beauty is objective. Beauty standards don’t matter And I took a step back. In a way you are agreeing with me. When I stopped trying to argue and just listened and tried to undersatand. We are saying the same thing in different ways In essence men weren’t having sex with sexually attractive/very beautiful women. For whatever reason. And that’s led to this future. Symmetry is objectively beautiful and we can go from there if you want to argue about objective beauty existing I don’t think most men …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:08 PM
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If it isn’t for you why would it matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:03 PM
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I can want to have sex And find a woman to have sex with. And not actually want her or think she’s attractive or beautiful or etc As an example of what it means to want the action excluding everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:03 PM
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It’s not for you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 03:01 PM
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Having big boobs or a big ass. If that’s what you mean by fat If you just mean a blob with no curves I highly disagree with you and sincerely and severely reject that notion or idea
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:59 PM
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If a man wanted to have sex. He had sex with the women around. Not because he thought she was highly sexually attractive or fantasy level attractiveness Just because she was there. Or the best in the area. Or etc. I don’t think you understand what I’m saying. Which is fine. This conversation may not be for you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:58 PM
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Yea that’s true Sex is just an action It has nothing to do with attraction. The same with relationships. Etc. I’ve had sex with women I wasn’t lusting for. Just to have sex. Doing an action is not the same as wanting everything excluding the action.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:56 PM
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It will change things. If men stop committing to older 30 year old women It doesn’t matter if men have sex with women older 30z it’s really the commitment and starting a relationship part and being exclusive part that matters On another note. What a man should do is just focus on the sexually attractive women. That’s what’s worth it All of this arguing and hatred and frustration is usually for women who are unattractive or women that are ok or will do or that you’re settling for. Or willing to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:49 PM
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I just realized a majority of women are not attractive Which really blows up most people’s theories Basically men were forced or had to mate with women. That accounts for why women look as unattractive as they do. We know that genetics are hereditary and people have fertility signals and secondary physical characteristics. Therefore IF men were only having sex with beautiful women/sexually attractive women. Only sexually attractive/beautiful women would remain. Or at least a majority. Sense that…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 02:47 PM

There’s is no such thing as full consent If someone tells you they want to be with you forever. And then somewhere along the line in life you guys break up Did they rape you? What if their whole intention was to break up Were you raped? You fully consented in both of those scenarios. But now retroactively it’s rape? Real rape is something serious and something that shouldn’t be connected to something dumb like being lied too Women have lied to me I wasn’t raped by them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:45 PM

You are downplaying the importance or severity of rape by saying that Lying is not rape Lying is not right But if you trust and give willing consent. That is your fault for trusting Just picture a fully consensual sexual experience based on a lie. No actual force or rape occurred It’s not right. I personally don’t like lying. But it’s not rape. Or else everything is rape then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:37 PM
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It’s not true for men Not true for me No amount of talking will EVER make me attracted to a woman that I’m not already attracted to. There’s nothing she can do Me having sex with a woman has nothing to do with attraction. That’s more opportunity. That’s more taking what you can get. It depends how desperate you are. Depends on how much you want sec or a relationship in that current moment. But when it comes to attraction or what you want. It can never be changed by communication or her doing any…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:23 PM
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I understand you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:44 AM
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There’s nothing wrong with sex or sexual attraction Porn is just seeing sexually attractive women There’s nothing wrong with this & it’s freeing This is the only point in time where regular men that aren’t kings and royalty can see all types of naked women and see what’s attractive and what’s not Find your type and what you want In history men had to settle for women. You just get with a woman and make it work Men still do that But porn shows you what you want. And shows you actually attractive …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:42 AM
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To me personally I feel like lust is more meaningful and tangible than love And to be wanted is more important to be needed Women conflate love with lust all the time and don’t see the difference Love can be boring and stable and consistent and dependable but it can also lack passion and emotion and excitement and etc My contention with your post is what they are saying actually. Is they do want the lust. They just either want it to not come with sex or not only be about sex That’s my opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:09 PM
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I don’t believe in 50/50 Either we are both independent or someone’s the breadwinner That’s it. 50/50 doesn’t even make sense. It sounds like a kind of shit test. Where a man has to depend on a woman but still be able to take care of himself but still have the woman depend on him That’s too complicated Either I can depend on you fully or you can depend on me fully or we can take care of ourselves separately Financial abuse is just when you are malicious or trying to harm or do evil It’s about th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 05:04 PM
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I just want women to stop getting breast reductions They look so much worse after. They then try to show off their body and try to recieve the same attention. Get mad. Disappear. Or hit the gym. Blame men for not having the same desire or attention or intensity as before.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:56 PM
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Yea women being passive is a real thing In that state of being the only way to actually have manners or be courteous is to reach a moment of time where you cross a boundary and they declare a no Because as you should’ve learned. If you do nothing most likely nothing is going to happen Unless you are rich or famous or attractive out of this world. Even if a woman likes you she’s not really going to act on it. So you have to maneuver with that understanding Yes it was a tough lesson to learn. But …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:57 AM
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It’s common knoweledge People say don’t trust bitches. Don’t trust a woman. Never listen to women. Watch what they say not what they do. Women cost money. Happy wife happy life. Etc etc It’s common knoweledge Women say the fucking opposite So this place is for former blue pill men. Confused blue pill men. Men who’ve been lied too. Men who are frustrated and want to argue about the lies. Men who don’t understand women. Men who can’t get the women they want. Etc etc. Essentially if it was understo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:21 AM
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But don’t you see how you’d have to cross boundaries and take the risks and etc to even see if there would be consent? Like I’m not arguing about consent. And I’m not saying you shouldn’t get consent. I’m saying that you have to take the risks. Approach. Initiate. Cross boundaries. To see if there is even consent to begin with Where your post seems to say not to do that But now you keep telling me that what I’m saying is in line with your post. So if you’re in agreement with me or I’m in agreeme…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:13 PM
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So you’re saying because it worked out for me it’s fine? “Because I read the room” You do understand that under your logic it’s only because I succeeded that it’s ok. If I would’ve failed. Then I’d be everything you just talked about. How they became sexual. In one situation when I was volunteering. It was I think you’re pretty. And I do want to fuck you. But it’s not that big of a deal. I’m just letting you know. And then from there it was etc etc The one I fucked when I went to that state to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 11:02 PM
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I think that’s why u guys say im autistic It’s like you said. I can do whatever u want and women still accept me and like me So me always telling the truth or being blunt or etc. hasn’t hurt me. So I’ve never had to self correct certain things It’s interesting to think about Only felt the need to change because the women I truly want are unobtainable rn Not because I can’t get women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:53 PM
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All I can do is be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:29 PM
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One situation with the 20 yo with huge boobs. I slid into her DMs. Told her I was interested. Asked her if she wanted to see what I looked like. Showed her a picture of me with no shirt on flexing with my muscles. she just said ok. I turned the conversation sexual. She was just nuetral. I asked her if she wanted to see like what fully looked like or something along those lines. Or maybe I just asked her if I could show her another picture. She said ok. I sent a nude. She was shocked in a good wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:29 PM
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U should just speak personally and not make a generalization Personally this may be true for you Generally you don’t know what the fuck you’re talking about All my sex & sexual opportunities came from me crossing boundaries. Being sexual. Taking chances/risks. Initiating. Approaching. Literally some women I finally went up to talk to. Said they saw me. Noticed me. Thought I was attractive. Etc Yet and still they didn’t say one word to me. Didn’t approach me. Didn’t even give off a signal they we…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 10:17 PM
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Women bring sexual attraction as well Not only reproduction Sexual attraction and sex For me women bring a lot of negatives. But I sexually want women so bad and am attracted so much. I’ll look through and handle all the flaws because I’m attracted. And that causes ambition because I have to over achieve just to get them to want me or be attracted to me As a man I’ve been taught or had to survive and be self reliant and handle pressure and etc. friendship & emotions and help and etc are not thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:22 PM
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The positives is you know exactly what type of woman you want. Exactly what type of woman you are attracted too. Exactly what turns you on and sexually excited you. What you you can’t do. What you aren’t attracted to It takes away physical trial and error. You don’t waste time “trying” different women. You don’t have to settle for liking someone’s personality and conflating that with attraction You can actually learn what actually attracts you. See all or most of the female body types naked. Als…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:18 PM
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How is it bad for your brain? Looking at “porn” Is literally just looking at sexually attractive women. That’s all it is at it’s core I don’t see how that’s bad for your brain
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:07 PM
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Can you just tell me the point of your response and links And what that has to do with what I even said I didn’t read all of it But it seems your talking about illegal or unethical or etc things So what if it is ethical and legal and etc and u could 100% trust and verify that? You would be ok with it? I highly doubt that Plus there’s of & just regular women selling “content” The days of porn and just watching men fucking women is kind of in the past. So that’s why I’m not really understanding wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 09:05 PM
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A woman’s “attraction” isn’t always physical or even solely physical. From experience. From observation. And from what they themselves say/think out loud What I said about being in shape was a hypothetical. Showing different forms of the same concept. In the 3rd world the men the women go for. Wouldn’t get the same amount of attention in the 1st world. Showing the top 20% attraction is actually relative. Then I move it to a hypothetical. That isn’t that hypothetical. America is big on fitness. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:59 PM
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Women who don’t want men to watch porn Are women who don’t think they are that attractive. Or are afraid that you will lust after other women. Or you have other types. Or that you aren’t even attracted to her. Or that you are settling for her. It’s a woman’s way of being territorial. Trying to control your thoughts and libido and lust in a way. And only direct it towards her
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:43 PM
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No. Women don’t work like men They are relative. They are emotional The things we have now are not “normal” Meaning this in a 3rd world country. Where people are living worse. A man with x amount of things would be seen as top 20%. Where as it might be seen as horrible or poverty here. Everyone is in shape then it’s normal or below average. We are in competition for a relative 20% I’m not sure if they have baseline attraction for men I can’t speak for men But I have baseline objective attraction…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:40 PM
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It’s hurting my feelings that women find money attractive. And that if I don’t dress nice I won’t be seen as attractive. But at the same time I don’t make the rules Igs. I can’t look at attraction & love the same way And it’s stupid. I had women flirting with me all today. I changed out of my good clothes into comfortable street wear because I’m going home And suddenly this woman with huge boobs that looks pretty pops up. I couldn’t change back. So I just had to bite the bullet & strike out. I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:43 AM

Yea I think mine is a real one. “Real id”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:38 PM

With big boobs. That I’m sexually attracted to. & like me. & have sent me multiple nudes. & wants me to fuck them. No There are women with decent sized boobs who have done that. But there wasn’t enough sexual attraction on my end. And I ended up feeling bad that I had sex with them. Because they got attatched. & I didn’t feel that attraction towards them physically And no matter what women say. They show that that’s still important to them on some level
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 03:23 PM

I never said what a woman should or shouldn’t want So you are actually arguing with yourself rn
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:43 PM

There is no difference between what you said and what I said You just feel better about the way you said it And there’s no point or reason to argue semantics The idea is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:35 PM

Lastly vent Ima fly out to meet this woman with huge boobs soon Hopefully she actually follows through If it happens this is the first time I will have sex with someone with huge boobs. Who is of level territory. Who I’m sexually attracted to. That’s my fantasy This will be the test. To see if sexual attraction is everything or worth it. If sex is worth it when you’re sexually attracted to someone. And is being sexually attracted to someone the foundation of love & relationships and all virtous …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:34 PM

Also another vent I hate that women are attracted to men because of money resources and what they do for them That essentially means from my perspective that most women aren’t actually attracted to men or the men they deal with If a woman only wants to fully be with me for money. That would hurt my feelings and make me resent her. If she only wanted me to fuck her and only saw me sexually. I would be so happy. If she liked me only because of my personality. I would know she didn’t really like me…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:31 PM

I matched with someone on tinder last week. And I didn’t open it until and they unmatched 😭 I have 4 new likes and I’m not paying for tinder I just want to vent because I only swipe right on women with boobs. So if it wasn’t a bot. I missed out on an opportunity. And that hurts in a regretful I shot myself in the foot type of way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:28 PM
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Rizz is real Rizz doesn’t lead to sex Rizz leads to connections, friendships, opportunities, flirting, etc The problem in your mind is you think talking leads to sex. Talking is how you don’t fuck up your sexual opportunities Women claim that they will let men fuck them off of personality. I personally don’t believe it. In the sense that I don’t think they actually become attracted to a guy with rizz or charisma or personality or compatibility or anything like that. I just think they will let th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 02:25 PM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:29 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:29 PM
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If you didn’t say wrinkles are better then clear skin You wouldn’t say the 55 year old looks better You then say college aged women look far too young. That’s a morality statement Because in the real world kids look far to young. College aged women do not look like kids. So your statement can only be taken in a morality context. Or shaming language that’s devoid of reality You told me how you like intelligence and being able to relate I literally only asked you about looks. I’m not asking you ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:24 PM
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You are different than me And maybe you are not sexually attracted to women per say? As in like physically? So you overcompensate with other things? And maybe another distinction is you are relying on your sexual attraction to be activated by a woman. Instead of willing your sexual attraction based on what you want. But basically from what I’m getting Ron you. You are attracted to unattractive women physically. Preferring the worse version in every case and care more about personality and fashio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 03:20 PM
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Are you getting fucked by other men Yes or no
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:51 PM
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I’m asking you what looks better I’m not asking you about your morality Like what looks better wrinkles or clear skin, faded skin or glowing skin. Asymmetry or symmetry. Etc etc Why everytime I talk about whose more physically visually attractive You guys are bringing up intelligence or relatability or how you think x is weird I just asked you who looks better I
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:46 PM
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Ok explain how it’s hypergamous. That’s all I’m asking is for your explanation
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:43 PM
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Well we are on two wavelengths All that tells me is you don’t value physical visual attractiveness Since you don’t value physical visual attractiveness. You are inevitably going to tell me the importance of everything else But I can’t have sex with all those intangibles and I don’t want all those intangibles. I’m not searching for those intangibles. And I don’t need anyone to mother me or help me. So we are two different types of men I’m not trying to change your perspective. I understand your p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:43 PM
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Some people never look in the mirror So they don’t understand that they have to attract who they are attracted to Or they think they should be attracted by default Or they think they don’t have to attract Or they think attraction works the same Whatever the reason. Attraction isn’t bad. And should be striven for imo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 02:36 PM
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Well me personally I’m not mad My whole goal is to attract women. Not force women to be with me. So I understand that if a woman’s not attracted she’s not attracted As for why men? Idk tbh. Women do say they don’t value attraction that much but i know different. So I’m not disillusioned enough to be mad or suprised about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:53 PM
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Yea urs a hard rule Bisexuals and homosexuals don’t count. And women make some choices just to be rebellious not because that how their attraction actually works And some men and women make choices for survival Any other exceptions would have to be individually analyzed But yea there could be exceptions. This is in general. In are sexually dimorphism species
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:48 PM
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Yea maybe it’s something similiar
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:37 PM

In the midst of debating I told a woman with a big ass and hourglass figure she was pretty She just smiled like one of the like blushing smiles. And I just walked away Yesterday I told a woman with big boobs she was pretty and she was like thank you 😊. Her friend like looked like this 😳 She said hold on I have to take this phone call. Which maybe means I should’ve stayed and talked to her. But I’m still to shy. So I walked away I think the next step is actually trying to sleep with them. Because…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:36 PM
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What is your definition of hypergamous. And she herself said she would rather an older man than a younger man But other than an exact age match. Somebodies going to be older and someone’s going to be younger. Men tend to want younger. Women tend to want older Whether it’s “1-3 years” or more But explain that point too
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:21 PM
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So 21 year olds don’t look like women? I’m trying to understand what you’re saying in real life What 55 year old woman looks better than a 21 year old? I feel you’re arguing morality? I’m asking you whose more attractive. Not about how you feel about said attraction Or let me ask it this way to clear you semantics A 55 year old woman vs a 22 year old woman “who looks like a woman” whose more attractive? Tbf I don’t expect you to answer honestly. I’m just trying to see what type of person you are
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:11 PM
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For you to know nothing about me and for you to say this Shows your intelligence Also shows you are emotional and prone to say things to try to emotionally hurt people But thinking about your response is nonsense. Given that you don’t even know anything about me or my life. And that you don’t know everybody in this sub that’s a male And there are actual gay people in this sub So you sound like a kid rn or a girl or both So I’m not even mad. Just curious as to what the point of that response was …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:08 PM
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Many things. You don’t like shorter men than you. Weaker men than you. Younger men than you. You aren’t visually based. You care about what they can do for you. Their career. Personal skills. Their independence and etc etc Even when you approach sex you see it differently. Being vulnerable. Recieving. You think of possible pregnancy more. Etc etc You tie your emotions and hormones in it not etc etc I can’t speak for a woman directly. I’ve been with enough to see general differences. You even you…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 01:02 PM
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“It’s not hypergamous because it’s not about having a woman be better looking than you or better looking than other women It’s about being with a hot sexually attractive woman. “ That’s what I said. Just explain why you think it’s hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:58 PM
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He sees attraction in men. Therefore his attraction to women is compromised. For example I’m not attracted to women who look similiar to men. And I’m not attracted to body parts that both men and women share exactly. You are discounting how having attraction to men could bleed over into attraction for women And you are discounting how someone who does not see the world as you shouldn’t speak on your view point. When they are actually speaking in their view point. And your viewpoints have nothing…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:57 PM
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Oh your talking about actual posts. I haven’t posted in like almost a year And I only posted if I had a question or I was starting a debate I don’t know how that’s relevant to someone having an entirely different sexuality trying to comment on an opposing sexuality that they are not apart of. Speaking on it as if they truly understand it I don’t see how those two thing converge into coherency
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:55 PM
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Men and women are not the same. How can you compare the standards if the standards are different? How can you compare the behaviors when the behaviors are different? Ok let’s start at you just explaining your position. I explained how it’s not hypergamous. Instead of you just affirming your position Explain how it is hypergamous
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:48 PM
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But women are different to men. You don’t even view sexuality the same way. And your attraction to men isn’t even the same as a man’s attraction to a woman Your first mistake was to try to say how you view attraction is how a man should view attraction We are different And that’s ok But that’s why we also work Taller men like shorter women. Younger women want older men. Older men want younger women. Stronger men want weaker women. Weaker women want stronger men. Etc etc Us viewing it different a…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:42 PM
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Do you find attraction in men at all? If you don’t you won’t find any of that attractive in women. If you do. Then inevitably you will find it attractive in women. Also some people equate actions with attraction. Just because you will have sex with someone. Doesn’t mean you are attracted. And that skews your perspective as well. If you think action equals attraction I don’t know why you think that would not have an affect on how someone views attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:39 PM
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I don’t like none of those women. I’m saying that you aren’t heterosexual Meaning this. I don’t find male physiology attractive at all. It repulses me. And it also has no affect on me. Meaning if I see it in women I wil be repulsed Secondly I’m attracted to women. So there’s a difference between seeing a woman as ok or being attracted to her So the women in the picture are ok. But that’s not attractive. Attractive is different. Bisexuality is homosexuality to me. There was no Freudian slip. I sa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:37 PM
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It’s not hypergamous because it’s not about having a woman be better looking than you or better looking than other women It’s about being with a hot sexually attractive woman. And you shouldn’t equate men to women as the same or see their actions as the same in a 1 to 1 way. When men and women are clearly different
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:33 PM
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All attractive/sexually attractive women love money and lifestyle it seems What they say now is basically fuck love. Idk why. But that’s the theme They still like “attractive” men of course. But that love pairbonding thing on its own isn’t doing much anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:18 PM
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Do you like women? Who do you find more attractive? A 55 year old woman or a 21 year old woman? Like bffr Moralizing sexual attraction doesn’t even make sense. Like reality is reality But because I’m a man. I do want you to leave all the sexually attractive women alone. Please go for the older women. Please. Pretty please. Be moral and virtuous when it comes to sexual attraction. Please😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:16 PM
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Me personally When my fitness deteriorates. I think I’ll give up on the pursuit of women. Because at that point I think I’m wasting the woman’s time. There’s not much I can do. And even sex won’t be the same. Idk. I feel it’s like when older people stay in a job or a leadership position. Just because they don’t want to leave and give up the status. But they are clearly not good at the job anymore and is hurting the business or company But that’s my personal opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:14 PM
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That’s an interesting perspective that I never thought of. A man will always want a woman more. If he’s going for sexually attractive women. I never thought of it like that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:11 PM
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As a man. I never feel “happy” I make wise or strategic decisions. That makes sense sense or benefit my life I work out because it has benefits. While I’m working out I don’t feel “happy”. Maybe I’m happy with the results? I work for money. I don’t feel “happy” working. Even when I have money it’s about using it to get what I want. Idk as a man I value reality over my feelings. And I value results over my feelings. And I value truth over my feelings. And I value optimal performance/biology/funct…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:07 PM
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Literally I know a 20 yo woman highly sexually attracted to a 32 yo man rn. I know 18 yo that like 30 yo men I also know 24 yo that want to have sex with 30+ yo women In general what you are saying may be true. But when you look attractive or sexually attractive. What you are saying no longer makes sense You will see it in this way with women. They will say oh he looks young or o thought he was younger to justify their attraction to an older man. When really it’s just they thought he looked good…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 12:00 PM
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You don’t want to fuck highly attractive women? That’s what all this is about. Self improvement. Money. Building social skills. Being ambitious. You think that’s all to just be with a woman? Just any woman? Like explain what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:33 AM
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Yes it’s the female perspective Doing an action or experiencing something is the goal. And is better than nothing to them. Yet as you and I say. You have to take into account what the actual action or experience is and process and evaluate it fully Being a “Chad” or having an amazing sex life with a very sexually attractive woman. Vs just being with a woman and having sex with her are two entirely different things And as men we need to understand that. The goal shouldn’t be just sex or just a re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:31 AM
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I don’t want to be in an arranged marriage Most men don’t know what sexually attractive women look like AND most men don’t care about what you find sexually attractive or want On top of that they are more likely to think machiavelian and consider her family and how she presents herself socially and the one deciding the marriage It becomes political. And I would resent it. Especially when men are expected to make relationships work and perform sexually and try to entertain her and make her happy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:26 AM
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Yes it’s important for family. To raise children. And to have stability. And trust and loyalty. Love And etc etc Because women are being selfish and emotional and untrustworthy It’s best not to even think of these hypothetical I’m going to still be attracted to women regardless. And because of how women act in this era. It’s so easy for me to only focus on sexually attractive women. Because basically all of these women act the same. So my conscious is clear in a sense. And I can see what’s most …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:22 AM
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It would be a free for all Men would display toxic masculinity. Women would be trying to be sexually attractive to partner up All incentives like child support and spousal support agtet divorce and etc would be abolished Women would still be free to make their own decisions and choices in men Men would no longer be obligated to be fathers or stay in relationships or provide or anything And in this situation. Everyone will just figure it out. If women don’t want men or to have children. They won’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:17 AM
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Options to me means sexually attractive women I don’t see a lot of “avg men” with very sexually attractive women. So to me they lack options We need to stop thinking like women. Being able to have sex. Or being able to be in a relationship with a woman. Does not mean much. Meaning the action by itself does not hold much value. Women talk like oh I’m in a relationship. Oh I have sex. Oh I’m happy. It doesn’t really mean much. You see who they are with. What they do. Etc etc. it’s clear that it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/25 11:10 AM
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It’s not necessary. If women are unhappy. They shouldn’t go on the apps in the first place. Limiting the interactions is what makes the app bad in the first place That’s why Instagram and places like that are better dating apps then actual dating apps. All my situationship or whatever they are called technically mostly have started from social media or irl. None from dating apps. And I get likes and matches on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:12 PM

Soon I’m planning on meeting up with one. This will be the first woman with huge boobs that I’ll ever have sex with. Hopefully it happens Everybody else I had sex with. Either had a big ass or hourglass figure or was proportional. I just need to know if this is what I’m missing out on
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:10 PM

Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:08 PM
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Men go wherever women go Nobody cares about the apps. They are just a vehicle to interact with women. I’m on all social media apps. Not because I care about the apps. But because that’s where sexually attractive women are. So it won’t hurt anything. The women who want to be with me or want to have sex. Will find a way to find men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:07 PM
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The more matches you get. The more potential men who fit your preferences appear. The less matches you get. The less potential men that fit your preferences appear.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:05 PM
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Theres nothing wrong with sex. Nothing wrong with sexual attraction. Nothing wrong with male sexuality Nothing wrong with finding sex & sexual attraction as one of the greatest rewards/conquests/pursuits in life Anything else is literally things asexuals and homosexuals and people who give up do And anything “better” to do is an individual pursuit when at the end of the day is you wasting out your days doing something Sex is why we are here. Sexual attraction is human art & beauty and etc Learni…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 08:03 PM

If you get with any woman poorer than you or below you are you then exploiting those women? If the answer is no. Then their is no difference between doing it within your country/state/city or doing it outside your country/state/city If men find a way to success. Then they found a way to success. We are not fucking these women for them. We are not raising their kids or managing them on a day to day basis And I’m pretty sure none of us wants anyone to do that to us If these women willingly choose …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:49 PM

I think I finally got my confidence up Like earlier this week an older woman flirted with me first. I talked back Went to another woman who was with her friends. Got her sc. she liked me irl. Hugged me. Let me eat her food. Etc etc. handed me her phone to add her on sc I just fumbled it. It is what is. I’m bad at online communication. But I’m good at irl communication. I don’t understand why that is Today I approached a woman with big boobs. She smiled all that. But she said she had a boyfriend …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:45 PM
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Thank you for this post
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 11:35 AM
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By limiting your options in this way you are actually limiting the amount of genuine connections you will have. Since all interactions are random. Meaning since all interactions carry the unknown of intentions. Limiting the amount of interactions doesn’t change the rate of intentions. It may save time. With cost of reducing the chance for what you are looking for. As a man not limiting interactions. Gives more chances for the amount of women who respond or match to increase. Limiting it will red…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:15 PM

You don’t like this answer But as a man you have to follow toxic masculinity Igs you could prance around in a skirt wear makeup and cry all day. And maybe you will have sex while painting your nails. Like igs that all can happen in theory But women are more emotional and less visual. Meaning even “attractive” men have to be performative to some extent. Have to have some type of personality. Offer some type of benefit. Just existing really won’t get you far as a man And it’s not the answer you wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:07 PM
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I think it should be a free market. Apps should stop limiting male interaction. In the sense of limiting swipes and messages and limiting the ability to see matches and etc But all in all. I’m not trying to control who women want I’m just trying to attract who I want. And I might succeed or fail. But I’m not forcing her to want me. I’m doing all this just to attract her. U might as well do arranged marriages if you want to regulate the dating market. You are basically saying these people shouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 07:02 PM
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No The reason men place a high value on sex. Is because sex and sexual attraction are one of the highest rewards and joys in dealing with women or in life. It’s that simple It doesn’t matter if a woman is a whore or a virgin. You were attracted sexually and wanted to have sex before you knew the answer. Before you knew her name. Before you spoke to her. It’s attraction. It’s sexual attraction. It’s sex. It’s that simple Of course men are going to make the smart decision supposedly. And obviously…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:56 PM
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I said the same thing. Great minds think alike
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:44 PM
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All you have to do is out masculine women This is a fact if you out toxic masculine women they will just turn hyper feminine but only for you. They are not men. They are performing as what they think manhood is. From self independence. To being stoic. To not being emotional. They are just copying But usually when pressure comes. They “bitch up” and become the women they always were Also the agreeable women who are submissive that are open are already gone. If it was that easy. She is already wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:42 PM
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There is objective beauty But we are talking about attraction and want. If someone doesn’t a woman. Then he doesn’t want that woman. And that’s ok. He doesn’t have to want that woman. He can find her not attractive Being able to do something is not the same as wanting to do it. In other words. Just because you will fuck a woman or be with a woman just because she’s not fat. Does not mean that everyone wants to fuck a woman or be with her just because she’s not fat. Also you are assuming that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:30 PM
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Leagues is akin to a rating system Men and women aren’t the same So it’s hard to rate a woman to a man and say they are at the same level. It’s hard to quantify because you are addressing two different modes of attraction and trying to label them one on one Not to say it can’t be done But to say that so far it hasn’t been accurate. You can’t really expect women as a man in that sense. And you can get a woman without it making sense that she’s choosing you Women have free will and sometimes they …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:01 PM
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I know a lot of women that look like that irl. I talked to one yesterday. Being attracted to someone should be a non negotiable. And you shouldn’t try to force someone to be attracted to someone they are not If someone only likes really hot women. That’s his problem. If the women he sees aren’t hot enough for him. Then that’s just what it is There’s nothing wrong with seeing women as ugly Some women are ugly. It is what it is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:53 PM
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Women don’t have value out of their prime They are a net negative resource/time/energy drain The only positive about women is you want them. Sexual attraction. Sex. If you take that away you are left with nothing. Any man STARTING a relationship with an older woman is an idiot. If anything just have sex with older women and never commit to sexual exclusivity. Second point. Men and women aren’t the same. A woman offering a man money. mEANS NOTHING. Her being career driven, educated. Ambitious, ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:50 PM
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Feminism just creates unattractive women. But gives them an outlet to survive. Old women and unattractive women and lesbians and women who hate men and etc have an outlet and a sorority to survive without men It won’t help them navigate the world with men. Won’t help them attract men. Won’t help them if they ever need men. And it won’t get affection or admiration or respect for men So as long as that’s your goal as a woman. Being single or homosexual or alone. Then yes feminism is good for you T…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:40 PM
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I’m not homosexual I’ve never wanted to look like or act like women or be women. Ever. Although when I was a kid. I did want to be loved. And maybe sometimes I want to be wanted
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:21 AM
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The unfortunate part of being a man. Is having to adapt. Things aren’t going to go the way you want in this instance. It’s better to just minimize the losses and mistakes. A woman could know what they want. Or you could know what they want. Expecting women to be enlightened and to strive for moral perfection and be excellent communicators with superb emotional control/regulation & etc etc Is something you can look for. And you can also try to eat air. It’s best to focus on what’s important. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:38 PM
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Everything matters because everything affects everything From my perspective it is the sexual mastery or “best sex of their life” that I gave them. The only other thing going for me in that instance is they were sexually attracted to me I doubt. Highly doubt their circumstances or anything outside of that cause or changed them to have that outcome of treating me this way Especially since the way they treated me before and after sex is vastly different I’m confident it was sex. Either that or sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 06:33 PM
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Every woman that I’ve given the best sex of their life to. Has kept in contact with me. Or gives me money when I ask. Or answers when I call or text. Eventually. Etc etc So I disagree that sex doesn’t do anything for women. It’s a skill issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:46 PM
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There are 3 primes “Sexual attractiveness prime”, “wealth/resources prime”, “power/intelligence/dominance” prime This is all my personal opinion and observation. So this is a disclaimer Men who hit their resource wealth prime. Regardless of age. Can have sex with sexually attractive women. Marry sexually attractive women. Have sexually attractive women searching for them Men who hit ther sexual attractive prime. Whenever that occurs. Can have sex with sexually attractive women. And have sexually…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:43 PM
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Women tell me to smile all the time. Or ask me what’s wrong if I’m monitone. Don’t smile. Am not animated. Am not flirting. Etc etc I wouldn’t be anything. And in my personal life. I haven’t been anything. It doesn’t compel me to smile or be attentive or anything. But at the same time I’m not mad or annoyed about it I am mad that women will get mad at u for not treating them like u are attracted to them. But that’s a different topic But the biggest caveat is an extremely sexually attractive woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 04:35 PM
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Thank you for explaining it to me If they are one in the same. Then I will self reflect on that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:25 PM
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Pretty privilege is one of the best things that woman can experience in the whole world. The best of everything. You see the best in men. Get their best effort. Their most positivity. Most charisma. Most gifts and benefits. Favors. Enthusiasm. Desire. Affection attention. Sexuality. Etc etc. It’s what makes women like men above women. Beyond just sexual attraction. It’s hard to put into words. But pretty privilege is experiencing another world. And not experiencing that. Is the reason most women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:25 PM
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I was under the assumption that economics is mostly based about the art of the deal. Absolute numbers. And the ability to always come out positive or make money aquire an advantage in resources. Along with sustaining a prosperous model or stabilizing an economy of exchange or getting productivity In that way. I thought it was more so about functionality or the numbers or bottom line than wants and desires. Just off of a cost/benefit analysis For instance me wanting something but losing things in…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:58 PM
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I never commented on if women should or shouldn’t use their sex appeal to make money All actions come with consequences or benefits or both. It’s about if it’s worth it to you I don’t think your hesitation is about the job or the students. In my opinion. It’s about your life. The security you have in your job. And the unknown of how of will affect your future relationships or current relationship and standing in society and current and future friendships and/or associations But like you said I c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:45 PM
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Hmmm. So you treat sexuality like business and the theory of market places and supply and demand and etc? I think I understand My only question is. Isn’t business a bad model when being intertwined with reality. For example it’s bad economics to take a bad deal even if you want something badly. But in reality based on humanity or however you phrase the opposite of business. It’s good to take a bad deal if you really want something badly. As the want outweighs the actual value I don’t know if I’m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:32 PM
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I don’t resent women who get rich fast using sex appeal That’s point one I’m just once again presenting the reality of the situation and speaking the facts of that reality. For point two Idc about money and idc about men. There’s nothing special about Elon musk to me. He’s not special. He has money. He can get women because women value money. I need money to also have value among women. But I am self aware enough to know having money won’t make me special or better. It’s just the system and etc …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:28 PM
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What is sexual economics theory? What do you mean when you say it. What is your personal definition. And can you explain your pholosophy and perspective on it. Please
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:21 PM
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You didn’t read what I said I don’t hate capitalism or free will/free will markets. And I don’t hate “successful” sexually attractive women Commenting on the reality of a situation or of the facts doesn’t imply or demonstrate a bias or an emotional disposition or position That’s you projecting your thoughts of me onto me. Without actually knowing what you speak of concerning me. But in reading your statement. In good faith. Explain to me why you think what you posted. And why you said what you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:10 PM
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For sexual attractive women it’s worth EVERYTHING. Even probably more than in past history Women can become literal millionaires off of sexual appeal alone. They don’t even need to have aex. They can find the man of their dreams. Get men’s best effort and version of themselves. Be supported. Get affection and attention. Can be themselves and do almost anything and still be wanted & thirsted for. Literally the juice is overflowing when it’s squeezed. To the point these type of women bask in singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:49 AM
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Sex is the biggest motivator of all time But I want to slightly correct your statement I’d say sexual attraction is above sex Because you can have sex with anyone technically or very ugly women. And speaking for myself personally this would not motivate me to go beyond my means or live beyond my means. I wouldn’t be happy. And I wouldn’t be beyond a better person In a way it still leads to sex or is the goal to have sex. But even being around a sexually attractive women you don’t have sex with i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:39 AM
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I understand what you’re saying to an extent I’m just not comfortable forcing women to do anything. And I don’t have the urges to curb their free will. Instead I let them do whatever they want and I only focus on and support sexually attractive women that’s it. Idc what unattractive women or what women in general do. I don’t pay attention. I don’t argue. I don’t get emotional. I don’t care. So just focus on the women u are attracted too. Don’t help women u aren’t attracted to. Don’t socialize wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 08:28 AM
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This is not true The most sexual success I’ve ever had is by being upfront sexually. Being sexual. Asking for nudes. Saying I want to fuck. Etc When I play asexual or basically when I don’t try or I’m not attracted sexually but we have a friendship. Nothing happens and they are never interested I’ve tried the friendship route. And honestly with those women I get rejected. In a weird way. But I’ve come to understand women have two types of attraction. One is physical/visual. Which mentally they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:23 PM
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Men and women aren’t the same You can’t be expected to be loved the same way you love a woman Can’t expect to be hugged the same way or touched the same way or spoken too the same way You just have to internalize that and accept that. They are incapable of love the way we understand it. They have their own version of love Talk to enough women. Fuck enough women. Be with or around enough women. This will be abundantly clear They may have their own version of love. But you won’t accept it as the l…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:14 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 03:08 PM
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Thank u
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:09 AM
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How do you block someone who blocks you I’m fine with people blocking me. I just want to be able to block them too. I don’t want to see their comments at all. Not even the deleted by user comments. Like it’s easy to find out who blocked you. But can I block them back is all I want to know. And how And if I block them. Their comments don’t appear right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:12 AM

That doesn’t mean what you think it does Edit that person blocked me. For responding to a comment. Under someone responding to someone responding to my comment. How do you block someone who blocked you? I don’t mind anyone blocking me. I just want to be able to block them back
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:58 AM

Do whatever you want to do
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:57 AM

Anybody can have sex That’s not the same as sexual attraction or sexual attractiveness I don’t know if you know the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:57 AM

Sex is a phase It’s not supposed to last for forever. Beauty is phase. It’s not supposed to last for forever. You have sex with young sexually attractive women. You start a family. Phase out of sex. And maintain your family. And take care of your offspring and future generations. Women don’t have to do anything. Don’t be with a man ever. Don’t have sex ever. Like who cares. Do what you want. I’m not trying to convince you or women in general to do anything Facts are the guys you will be with. Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:03 AM
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Im debating what you said You don’t have to respond to my points of contention if you don’t want to You are wrong in every way imaginable You can’t even have sex the same way a man would. Can’t get women pregnant through semen. Don’t have the Y chromosome. Which affects a lot of different things in male biology and physiology. Don’t have the height or muscle mass or bone density. Don’t look like a male in terms of peak masculinity. Don’t have the same thoughts or feelings as men because you don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:44 PM
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You did claim to understand the experience Then claimed to understand how important or unimportant it was Then claimed it wasn’t a big deal and was easily manageable and tried to give life advice to men about sexuality and etc Idc about how u feel. Idc about you. I’m just discussing the topic. Debating your ideas. Idc about your emotions. And I don’t want to hear about them. I’m not trying to hurt you or your feelings. I’m not thinking about you the person. I’m thinking about your thoughts and i…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:28 PM
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First of all. You were never a man. You were never close to any type of understanding of male experiences Second of all u are a woman. You would never look attractive as a man. A toxic masculinity man. A sexually evolved or post pubescent man or etc. You wouldn’t have the muscles or shoulders or height or bone density or hands or feet or etc. you don’t have a big penis. You wouldn’t fit as a man No matter how much testesterone you have you probably still had emotions. Still valued them. Still ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:58 PM
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ATP I just want see sexually attractive women. Be with sexually attractive women. Have sex with sexually attractive women Sharia law doesn’t seem to create sexually attractive women. Western culture doesn’t seem to create sexual attractive women. And not even the Asian cultures So that leaves a free will society or free market place type of culture. Which is what’s being created rn. Where sexually attractive women can monopolize and capitalize their sexual attractiveness and are free to find the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:51 PM
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As a man. I’m literally selling my time and attention and body and effort just for money. That is what work is. I have to listen to people I don’t want to. Do things for them. Because they are paying me. Because I need money. The disconnect is women didn’t actually get out of any oppression. It’s the exact same thing. Except now it’s non sexual. And they are sacrificing the love and care and family they would’ve got for independence. But most women don’t even really do independence. Which is why…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:35 PM
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Idc if women are happy or not happy. Idc about all women as a collective. You can do what you want. Be what you want. Make the decisions you want. Just live with your choices. That’s all. I focus on women I’m attracted to only. I’m not going to stop or persuade or even think about women I’m not attracted to. That’s cause stress for no reason. And wasting time. It doesn’t matter at the end of the day. “Be happy” by working all your life. Being single. And spending money to keep yourself “happy”. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:29 PM
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So then choose to work for the rest of your life. Get money. And be “comfortable”. And then live out the rest of your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:27 PM
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Women don’t have to do anything I literally only care about sexually attractive women atp. Women as a whole can stay celibate and single and not care about men ever in life. It’s ok. Idc at all. Women can want what they want. Or want nothing at all. It’s their choice. Their life. Their decisions. I’m focusing on what’s important in life. I do not like and I’m not attracted to every woman in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:24 PM
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If you as a woman don’t want to have sex with men or be in a relationship with men or be friendly with men And if you’d rather have to listen to someone who pays you to do what you consensually agrees on and you sell your body and time and attention and effort to them for a price. So you can make money to buy things that you think will make you happy And if you’re fighting for the right not to have kids or a family so that you can focus on yourself and your friendships Then fine I actually don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:35 PM
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Or one has to use intelligence when one fails or can’t get what they want. Instead of getting lucky or being privileged.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:35 AM
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Why would someone tell you they are redpill? When that could be financial or political or social or romantic suicide? It would have to be someone that doesn’t care about the ramifications. Which would either be someone bigger than the low. Or someone that doesn’t care and has nothing to lose. Because it’s not smart to openly go against pc culture which is dominated by women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 07:33 AM
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Being sexually attractive actually brings no value whatsoever. Tbch. It’s just a mechanism to have people want or desire you. As you say. Just for existing. And it is a vehicle for free enthusiastic sex. Among other things Still I’m not actually benefiting anyone if and when I reach that goal or outcome. That’s where I disagree. It’s not really self serving. Because I have to attract them and I still have to perform and do everything on my own. They are not going to do anything for me. If anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:53 PM

When my sex drive stops I’m done with women. And I’ll just be friends with them. Sex is just a phase in life. And I’m not trying to convince a woman to do anything. They’ll do it because they want to. And they only want to because they are attracted and sexually attracted to me. And that’s good enough for me. I’m ok with that outcome And I’m also not trying to convince you of anything. I just don’t want what you want. And I don’t see the value or fulfillment in it. Ofc I’m not a woman. And ofc I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:50 PM
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I don’t remember that I usually say a relationship without sex is a friendship. And if you are friends and having sex or romantically involved and having sex both are types of relationships Friendship is not a bad thing or a good thing. It’s just not what I’m searching for. I’ve experienced it. And that’s that. Usually women push this concept on me. Idk why you’re pushing it on me like you don’t understand. If all you had was friends. And could never have sex would you be happy & fulfilled? If a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:47 PM
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That’s not true. And that’s the problem. I don’t have to be a woman. I don’t have to think like a woman. I don’t have to want what a woman wants. Yes woman can think someone’s sexually attractive and the hottest in the world and makes them wet and if tht don’t like their personality they won’t want to have sex or be with them or etc And I dont have to agree with that or think like that I am not a woman I dont believe or want the power of friendship. Someone personality isn’t going to get me to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:41 AM
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All this personality and friendship and how they benefit my life things is what you choose to focus on and value. It’s meaningless to me and is not a magical force or fulfilling I have friends. Ive been around different personalities. I’ve had people benefit me in a lot of crucial ways. So I’ve experienced everything in this discussion. I wasn’t sexually attracted to those people. So it had led to this outcome. That’s one way I know what I actually want & need. It is Machiavellian. That doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:29 AM

If there’s not going to be sex. We should just be friends so I can go have sex with women in sexually attracted too. While we have all of these “deep meaningful connections and etc without sex” If that’s so important. Let me have sex with all the women I lust for. And we can be in a sexless relationship where we are friends. And I’ll be satisfied. I already have friends. It’s not this mystical thing tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:25 AM
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Women always talk about their friendships and emotions and etc. I’m not saying you can’t value or want that. Maybe you enjoy talking all the time. Maybe having a friend means everything to you. Maybe having someone benefit you is an important quality you need someone to have. Maybe the fact you think you benefit someone gives you fulfillment. We aren’t the same and we want different things I am a man and you are a women. This is ok. We don’t have to want the same thing. Sex is not the point. Whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:22 AM
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I do understand it. And in my understanding if it. I realized that I don’t want it or value it And I understand what I do want and value I’m not a woman and I don’t have to think exactly the same as them. And just because I don’t agree with something. Doesn’t mean I don’t understand it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:15 AM
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I never said it was good or bad. I merely said I understood what it means. And if that’s what it means and what it is. Then I don’t want it or value it personally. I just thought it meant something different. Now I know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:13 AM
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How is it self serving to be attractive? I still have to do everything the same. Her thinking I’m attractive doesn’t benefit me in any way other than I get the opportunity to have sex with her or be with her. It actually doesn’t do anything else or help with anything else. It just means she’s willing. Which is important. But doesn’t actually do anything. It gives me the opportunity. But I still have to do everything. The being good at sex point. Maybe I can concede. She would be liking me for ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:11 AM

That’s disheartening. But an interesting perspective. I’m not going to speak down on your perspective. Women and men are different. Still that’s not a reality that I want to live or be forced to live. Not having lot of sex. Makes me reluctant to want to commit or over achieve. Or put in the effort. Or etc. it is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:04 AM
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So if you just agreed with me. Why are u acting like we have a problem or misunderstanding. All I did was give commentary on our common ground of understanding. What u admitted to being true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 08:25 AM

If you say so
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:29 AM
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Yea. That’s the only genuine thing I can strive for. As far as I can tell. Everything else seems to be Machiavellian.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:28 AM
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You still don’t see how all that benifits you I’m not asking you to change your thoughts or feelings on your husband. I just see it. And I understand it. And not just you. But in general. And I’m not going to look at women liking my personality in a positive light ever again. Because I understand what that means now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:26 AM
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Im a man and she’s a woman Meaning we aren’t always going to have equivalence of perspective or emotions or actions or thoughts
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:19 AM

On one hand I understand your perspective. And I don’t actually understand the position of being penetrated and never thought about it On the other hand I’ve had women begging me to have sex with them after experiencing being penetrated by me. And one woman recently. Kept begging for more rounds because she kept having multiple orgasms from being penetrated But tbf she did say she was sore. And she did say it hurt but felt good at the same time. And she could feel me in her stomach and etc. but …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:18 AM
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I’m always the “hotter” man rn. I have sex. I make them cum from only penetration. They actively want to give me oral. Etc etc. So if I were to think about your question. It’s a relationship question. But the only way I can understand it. Is if you had a nonexistent sex life. Or an unfulfilling sex life. Sure I would be mad that she had sex with men she lusted for. I might be sad or angry that she didn’t look at me that way. BUT if I was having sex the way I want. And if she was sexual with me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:29 AM
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I don’t like these answers as well Igs women don’t think like men. Aren’t men. And I shouldn’t expect a woman to ever be on the same wavelength as me. Because biologically and physiologically they have different perspectives and wants and needs Atp I’m just going to go for what I want. Understanding that women naturally want something else. And just find a woman willing to do what I want. Because what women keep saying they want sounds boring Sex once a week is fucking crazy. That’s. Like I can’…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:23 AM
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I don’t like any of these answers so far. And if at the end of this cycle for this thread I still don’t like any of these answers. Then I won’t expect or look for a woman to like anything about me. Most of these things seem self serving, selfish, machiavelian. And how he benefits the woman. I’d rather just be wanted for how I look or how good I am at sex or something along those lines I don’t want to be liked because I do a lot of things for her and benefit her. Fuck that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:12 AM
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It means why am I doing all this extra shit that you want me to do and be and want from you to you and for you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 12:59 AM
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There is no alternative to the truth except for lies Why would a man be lied too? Redpill is not an organization or a religion. Every redpill is different because they have different goals and motives For example we all dont want exactly the same women or to do it the exact same way. Red pill is about success and truth and etc. which is why you see different people agreeing. It’s because we acknoweledge the truth. Not because we are lock step in agreement with everything another person who’s is …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:57 PM
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Dating down is still red pill Monastic life is giving up. So that is black pill
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:54 PM
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If a man is not sexually attracted to you. He won’t try to fuck you. But you probably wouldn’t want to be around that type of man for Machiavellian reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:23 PM

The point is you are having sex with a man. Whether he openly sexually objectifies you or talks about sex or not. The end result is you are having sex with him. So to act as if thinking of sex or wanting sex or valuing it is a problem. But you have sex with every man you are in a relationship with. It lacks logical consistency to say the least
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 05:21 PM
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Real life experiences is important to verify the truth. Information and wisdom and etc can be learned or obtained without real life experiences I’m assuming you’ve never been to Antarctica? But I’m sure you know of its existence and its climate and etc. or I’m sure you’ve heard that their are many planets or asteroids or stars in the universe although you’ve never personally seen it and so on and so on Somethings you can’t learn until you understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:03 PM
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You verify the truth This isn’t about having faith. Or the probability of something being true It’s about finding out if something is true or not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:58 PM
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So what’s more important. Experiences and trial and error and practicing or knowing the truth and understanding the truth and being able to apply the truth and understanding in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:39 PM
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So if someone is not spending money on getting information from men. And they are only focusing on the truth and verifying if it’s truth and applying the truth and then call themselves redpill. Then you have no problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:23 PM
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Sometimes I think you just say things based on how you feel. And if you emotionally think you are right The attitude of trying to find the truth. Verifying the truth. And applying the truth. Leads to what obvious result? And how does that result become a victim mindset? I’m not asking you this to argue I’m asking this to see if you are self aware
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:11 PM
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I want to respond or add to it or say anything to this. But I can’t. It makes perfect sense to me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:56 AM
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There are women I would never want to fuck in my entire life. If they were empathetic to me. It wouldn’t lead me to wanting to fuck them. And the same should extend to other situations I’m pretty sure if I wanted to fuck a woman it wouldn’t be because of empathy If your question then becomes why would u be nice to a man who because he doesn’t want to fuck you wont do extra nice and attentive and etc things for you or to you Then you have perfectly encapsulated why I said women are machiavelian
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:55 AM
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If you can verify if something is true or not. Then the source does not matter. If you can’t verify the truth on your own. Then your left with taking a risk and having to trust and believe someone Your whole argument rests on whose probably more likely to be trustable My whole argument rests on if something is true or not or if the truth can be known by oneself and verified by oneself There are poor people who have been rich before. There are poor people that don’t want to be rich. There’s a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 11:52 AM
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I will never have empathy for women They never showed me empathy or feelings until I was attractive. Until I gathered charisma and displayed confidence. Until I was useful and etc To understand women is to understand Machiavelli Which means empathy is a weapon Which means having empathy will come at the detriment of you when dealing with women. Let those who can understand. Understand what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:21 AM
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If the information is true. It matters not if it comes from a liar or someone whose never done anything they are telling you or from a hypocrite. As long as the information is true. The information is what you are focusing on. And the truth of that information If your point is about following people. I actually don’t believe in following humans or looking up to them or etc. so if that’s how you see things. That’s on you. I can’t really argue with that point. Because I don’t understand the point.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:18 AM
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I don’t know why it’s like that tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:13 AM
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Coaches who aren’t athletic still can teach athletes to reach their peak potential Teachers who’ve never done or accomplished anything in their life can teach students to learn x thing A fat un athletic man who never works out. Can tell you about nutrition and how to properly excercise and et Why? Because it’s about the information and the validity of the information. It’s never about the messenger. The messenger can’t do anything for you. You have to do it yourself. If you are following the mes…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:19 AM

The stupid thing about females. Is they do all of this complaining and then go and have sex with men anyway All these women in relationships are having sex. They still think sex and sexuality is important in a relationship So my argument is they are lying or unaware of their paradox or hypocrisy They say the guys they choose are different and don’t treat them like sex objects or lust or porn or etc. and then they end up having sex with those guys. 🙃🤣 So there’s no real point to what they are say…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 07:00 AM
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Who cares if they do or they don’t. We are not worshipping men or following men. We are following and listening to the truth. A lot of men fold when they get pussy. What else is new? A lot of men can’t stick to their morals when they are under pressure. Tell me something I don’t know. For example if a known liar says 2 + 2 = 4. Is it not true because it’s a known liar saying it? In the same way the truth should be acknowledged. Regardless of who the messenger is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:54 AM
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There is no community. There is no teamwork. There is no leader. There is no role model. Etc etc You are on your own. It is up to you to go get what you want. It’s up to you to learn. It’s up to you to make your own choices. This is not a religion or a political entity. It’s just the truth. That’s all. And specifically it’s the truth about sex and sexuality and mating and relationships and the biology and behavioral patterns of the sexes We are not aligned with each other in solidarity. We only …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 06:50 AM

Ok. Now think of the person you want to be in a relationship being like that. I’m trying to impress the point of this situation. So you can understand why men stress the importance of sexual attraction and attraction in general
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 09:23 AM

Hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 08:23 PM

But I fumbled with my bestfriend. I get rejected by the women with really huge boobs all the time. And I’ve never had sex with a woman that I’m super sexually attracted too that has huge natural boobs. So how am I a chad? Me being here is temporary. But. I don’t know if you were on my side or against me back then. But I appreciate what you’re saying now. Still I think you give me more credit than I deserve or am worth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:48 PM

I don’t think sex lasts forever. And with that. I think relationships turn into a type of friendship or duty after the sex or lust phase ends. And even though that’s not exciting. I think family and offspring are good things. But at the same time. As you allude to. They are what you do. It’s not necessarily about the individuals at that point. So I’m listening to what you say. But I don’t know how that cancels out sexual attraction. The same way women can’t have kids past certain ages is how I t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:45 PM
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Can you translate your response in another way that I can understand I’m not on gonewild subs or anything similiar to get the reference or the point you are making When I did or do look at porn or nudes. I do not go to the comments. Unless I want a link or the name or etc. I don’t go to socialize or read what other people think about whatever it is. I’m not homosexual
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:14 PM

You think that in order to be a good parent or have a good family or a successful long term relationship. That you have to be stable and boring? You don’t think there’s another successful way? Of course I understand their perspective. They are making smart business decisions. And it’s not bad to be cunning or wise But still
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:12 PM

Is that how you see me? I’m only back. Because I’m planning a trip. And it’s going to be the first time. That I get to have sex with someone with huge boobs that I’m sexually attracted too. If all this goes as planned. Then I’ll finally know if sex is better when you are fucking your sexual fantasy. If sex is better when you are sexually attracted. And if all of this becomes worth it when you are sexually attracted to a woman All the sex I’ve had and flirting with women and understanding women a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:09 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:05 PM
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Women are not good at taking nudes. You literally have to coach them and tell them what you like and the proper angles and etc. The only women naturally good at taking nudes are genetically gifted women who where it doesn’t matter if the angles or poses are hot or not because they themselves ooze sexual attraction to the point it doesn’t matter. The nude in itself is enough But even in my current situation. I have to tell her. Pose like this. Do that. Take one like this. Like you don’t know what…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 07:05 PM

I was being rebellious when I was doing that Yea I still do it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:58 PM

That’s that one guy who used to talk to me right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:52 PM

A woman just told me in basic words That basically another guy is boring but he has his life together and is ambitious and etc so she wants to choose him even though the younger version of her wouldn’t choose him But the younger version of her would choose me 100%. It’s interesting. So I’m basically the toxic wildcard man that she lusts for but is not the wise decision and is not husband material and is only good for temporary sex and situationships and etc And that’s an honor. Tbh I feel relive…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 06:51 PM

Same. Just trying to figure it out tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:06 PM
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So you don’t understand the possibility of someone liking you as a person but not wanting to have sex with you at all? But if you don’t understand anything I said. That’s fine. I won’t try to explain further
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:18 PM

How have you been bro?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:16 PM
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So you’re saying I’m one of the four? Or I’m not one of the four? And what does that have to do with what I texted? Do you at least understand why men rush to have sex? Do you at least acknoweledge the importance of sexual attraction? Do you at least realize that you’ve never in the position to where someone could like you but not want to have sex with you or desire or want you in that way. I guess I was just trying to explain that point of view. Because I’ve been in that position. And that’s wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 04:05 PM
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You’ve never been in a situation where you’ve liked someone personally as a human being but wasn’t attracted to them. And don’t want to or enjoy having sex with them. Imagine waiting a long time to figure that out. I don’t know how being married would change that fact. I personally don’t know if I’m attracted to a woman sexually until I see them naked. Preferably irl. No amount of conversation or love or friendship is going to change how my attraction works. As far as sexually goes. And I’m not …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:46 PM

I feel bad. I flirted with a woman at the gym. Only to work on my confidence. I just told her she was pretty. She didn’t have big boobs. She was just proportionate. And had an hour glass figure. So in my head. I was thinking she’s conventionally attractive. This is a way to test my league/level. And to work on confidence. So when I went up to her. She took off her headphones. Before I even said anything. She looked at me. Like I can’t describe it. Like this 😊. But like with more tension. Like he…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:32 PM

So why would women care what men think?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:16 AM
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So part of being an “amazing person” is working on your sexual attractiveness? That defeats your whole argument. If you are combining everything. Then you are admitting the importance of sexual attraction. If you are admitting the importance of sexual attraction. Then logically you are accepting and acknowledging the relevance of pursuing sexual attraction. Yet your whole post is primarily based on detaching lust and sexual attraction and desire. To focus on being “an amazing person” and friends…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:47 PM
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Personally I’m not for it. Because I believe in attracting women. And having them willingly lust for you and desire you. I’m just big on sexual attraction and being with sexually attractive women. And it’s just a better overall experience. For some reason. When women are sexually attracted to you. They are more open to loving you. Over look your flaws more. Willing to help you more. Try to get to know you. But the BIG ONE is they try to attract you. They try to be wanted by you. It’s such a big …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:42 PM
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No you are wrong Being with someone you are not sexually attracted to as a man. Has all downsides. And will get her to resent you or leave you. Or you will feel bad and defeated. Or you will want to cheat or fuck other women. Or you will not try hard at all in your relationship The value on desire and lust and want is at a level that you will never understand until you’re with someone that you have zero % desire for as a man And women won’t understand until the man they choose likes them as a pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 04:20 PM
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No because the most sexually attractive women are not going to be prostitutes In essence you are just saving rewarding unattractive/average ok women with abundance of male suitors while removing agency and shame. Also from my recent experience. Sexual attraction is more important than sex. So having men pay to have sex with women they arent attracted too or even if it was given for free won’t solve anything Sexually attractive woman are going to be sugar babies and of and married and etc. they a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:03 PM
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They are making a fantasy world where women are desperate to have or find men. That’s always the goals of these discussions. To be the woman in the equation. Which wouldn’t actually help.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:25 AM
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Whenever I have sex with women that are OK. Not ugly but just I’m not attracted to. It makes me understand that sexual attraction is more important than sex. Ive given them mind blowing sex. Connected with them as human beings. Had compatibility. Etc etc. friendship. It doesn’t matter. If their is no sexual attraction. It just doesn’t work on my side. I’m not as excited. Don’t want to put in as much effort. Don’t have the want or desire. I just become this calm. Understanding. Distant human bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:24 AM
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It is better to be alone than be with someone unattractive I disagree tho that it’s better to be alone than to be with a very sexually attractive woman that hates you And I also don’t see why these men can’t just have sex and not commit and still technically be alone? They don’t have to “save” any woman or couple with them. They can just have sex and leave. Why is that not an option for them? If presumably they are getting “leftovers” anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 09:20 AM
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It doesn’t matter what her standard is All that matters is if she’s sexually attractive enough for it to be worth it to reach them I used to get mad at women and their standards because they were unattractive or just plain. And that’s what fueled my frustration. Like women that I don’t even like are making all these demands and acting like they are valuable and etc. it was the result of this that I became redpill and toxic But when I think of or interact with women I’m attracted to. I don’t actu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 12:50 AM
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You put the capitalization on feel. So explain. You’re saying it doesn’t matter if you are physically attracted?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 06:04 PM
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I didn’t say more money I said you still expect him to make a certain amount of money
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 05:08 PM
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That’s not even true If you work out and are in shape. They get wet for you and that continues as long as u are sexually attractive to other women. And to them If a woman is not getting wet to you and not masterbating constantly to you or sending you nudes then she was never that attracted to you to begin with I’ve seen women fall out of “love” fast. That to me is inevitable. Women always forget or dismiss the past. It’s about what you’re doing for them now and what you will do in the future in …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:39 PM
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Because all women are the same. Talk to enough women you will see how to varying degrees they act the same. Even you will say something along the lines of you want a man to have a certain amount of money. And be a certain amount of benefit to you And then you might say what you bring is love and companionship and a friend and caring and etc All the same stuff But I could be wrong. But that’s unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:26 PM
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If she is willing to have sex or allows me to have sex is fine What I won’t do is choose to be with a woman I’m NOT sexually attracted too. I’ve done it. And I felt like I wasted my time. I got nothing out of it. I had no desire or want or attraction for her. Couldn’t get hard. Didn’t put effort or do extra things I was able to be cool calm & collected because I didn’t care. I was able to be understanding because I didn’t want anything from her. I was able to be non sexual with her because I was…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 12:09 PM

So you’re saying the importance for work for women is to keep them busy and not bored? And because of our advanced society it’s good to keep low birth rates? As there is no constraints and the fear is of over population? And that feminism serves that purpose. And added work labor in theory is a positive. And quells civil unrest? That’s your position?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 09:10 AM

Explain the “outcompeted by others if all women are stay at home moms” part. Not to argue. But to understand what you mean or are trying to say. Men are constrained. But I’m saying male sexuality is trying to get a hot/sexually attractive woman. It’s not about the hottest. And it’s not about what’s available. So maybe you’re right and it’s never fully existed in our timeline. Or maybe my theory is right and it has. For beautiful sexually attractive women to exist. It stands to reason they existe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:23 AM
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So why can’t it be applied as a general law or theory? Don’t a lot of things apply to a lot of things. Even though it is best to use the law or theory for those that optimize and are good and functional? Even though they can also be applied to things that hurt and are evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 08:09 AM

Male sexuality was never about finding a “decent person”. It’s always been about sexual attraction This is why men aren’t clamoring for women in their 80’s or 40’s. It’s why men aren’t desiring super rich unnattractive women. Etc etc. in a sense you are right that sexuality is changing. Male sexuality is being forced to change. Which is changing what women look like and what men look like. Yet the men that women find physically attractive and the women that men find attractive are born from male…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 07:54 AM

In that sense. Yes it benefits men. But the point of monogamy is for men to benefit women and society and family and etc at the detriment of the man. The only few benefits being sex and assured biological fatherhood/parenthood (if that was also a want) and a lifelong companion (if that was also a want). What it takes for a man to achieve that to be considered and the process and things needed to be done to keep it. And the things one is prohibited from doing once he has it. Are detriments to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 04:38 AM

How do u like it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:44 AM

Monogamy only makes sense for women In a world where men can have sex with any woman they want without commitment and women want to have sex without commitment Older women will be left and forgotten. Everyone will chase younger women. Only sleep with older women if they are desperate. Never really commit or house or provide for women Which may trickle down to no one or specifically no men staying to raise children in a family household and leaving them to fend for themselves. Since it will be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/25 03:41 AM
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How was the first year of college? What are u studying for? Congratulations on ur one year aniversary of college 🤓
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:50 AM
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Is that really u? How have u been? I still fwu
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:30 AM
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I look at women like caterpillars and caccoons/chrysalis and butterflies I want to catch or be around butterflies. And I only acknoweledge or recognize butterflies as a sex I am aware that caterpillars can turn into butterflies. I also understand some caterpillars won’t turn into butterflies. Some caterpillars will just be in the caccoon stage and never turn into butterflies. And some butterflies will chop off their wings and go back to being a caterpillar. Or reenter their caccoon stage. I’m aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:22 AM

The last sexual thing I’m going to post is I only like fucking women when they are wet. No matter what I sound like on here. I do care about attracting women and being attractive to them. I just don’t like the idea of fucking dry pussy. And it makes me grimace and cringe I almost didn’t fuck her because I thought she was dry around the outside. But she assured me she was wet. And spread it and she was. So I put it in I know that doesn’t mean much to most people. But in my head that’s proof that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:21 AM

I will try this next time. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:14 AM

So what would you call it? Uncontrollable spasms that induce pleasure?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:13 AM

Ok thank you. Sometimes I did feel the squeezing/pulsing. But mostly I observed either her shakinging/twitching/spasms and trying to push me off. Followed by it feels good or I’m going to come or screaming. But you brought up a good point. Maybe she doesn’t know what an orgasm means either. Which means. Maybe I just made her feel good. Although she says she masterbates. So in theory she should know? Idk But thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 11:12 AM

What is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:31 AM

Hmmm Yea I’m bad at writing or online communication to be fair. I’m an irl type of person. I mess everything up when I text tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:11 AM

How do you know if a woman came/orgasmd A woman told me it’s when they try to push you off of them while they twitch & shake and uncontrollably spasm. I personally thought it’s when they shake and twitch and do those uncontrollable spasms. I’ve heard when their toes curl or ect Like she told me she came more than 3 times. In the moment she kept saying she was cumming multiple times. Sometimes she would say she was going to cum. And then she tried to push me off. But if I held her hand down and k…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 10:10 AM

U don’t have to believe anything I said. Idc. I needed to vent. And put my thoughts somewhere. Somewhere where people are super critical. So I can see how it even sounds like. And if my thoughts are even logical or consistent. You saying u don’t believe me. Only means that what I did is rare. Which means she probably will become addicted like the last one is. But still. It doesn’t help me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:54 AM
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is only sexually attracted to her breasts. Because that’s the thing. We aren’t talking about if I like her as a person. We aren’t talking about compatibility or chemistry. Or if I love her or etc. All I said was if I was willing to or wanted to have sex with her or not All your proving is that sex is extremely important. And what you’re also proving is as much as women talk about wanting to be wanted for things other than looks and sex. When you no longer are sexually attracted or want to have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:35 AM

Sexual attraction. It has nothing to do with personality. My feelings. Character. Etc etc. it’s not about liking her. It’s just about being sexually attracted. That’s what I need to focus on. I’ve never had sex with a woman I was extremely sexually attracted to. I’ve had sex with cute women or idk conventionally attractive women. Still it’s meaningless. And that’s all I learned today. And that’s a valuable lesson. I can stop focusing on all the women I was focused on. And start narrowing it down…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:30 AM

I basically had “power” over her. She suxked my dick. I didn’t eat her out. I was in all dominant positions. I basically did whatever I wanted. She begged for more. I felt more like an entertainer or clown. I don’t feel used or bad. I don’t feel anything. Felt like I learned a valuable lesson. Now I’m more focused on sexual attraction than I ever was
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 09:28 AM

I just had sex today It was the best sex of her life. Per her words. She was really wet. Continuously. She came a lot of times. I didn’t count this time. But she said it was more than 3. She begged to be fucked more. She willingly sucked my dick. Etc etc But now I’m 100% sure sexual attraction is more important than sex. I’m better off just masterbating than having sex with a woman I’m not attracted to And I’m also 50% convinced that sex only benefits women. Because I made her so wet. Had her cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:51 AM
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If you want to call it a relationship. I won’t negotiate or have sex with her or touch her like that anymore. I won’t want her like that anymore If she wants to leave she can leave. If she wants to stay she can stay. I’m not going to lie to myself. I know how attraction works for me. I know what I want. It’s not about morality. It’s not about how she feels. It’s about what I’m attracted too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 08:46 AM
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I just won’t be sexually attracted to her anymore. That’s it. I’ll still care for her as a person or a human being or whatever that means. But I won’t desire her or want her in that way anymore. And that’s fine. We don’t have to have sex or be intimate anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/25 12:24 AM

This is false I’ve never found a man attractive. Any man. And I’m a man. So that includes myself. Which is unfortunate. Because I actually don’t know how to be attractive as a man. So because I don’t understand how I as a man can be attractive. I’m under valuing myself or underestimating my attractiveness all the time. Women tell me I’m attractive. But I take that with a grain of salt & skepticism. They say I look like I get woman and that I’m a womanizer and etc. that they know women like me. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 11:00 PM

Ok I understand. That makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 07:12 AM

Wdym?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:40 AM

Like nowadays idk why they call it porn. But of is mostly solo. TIk tok is clothes on. Instagram isn’t fully nude. Twitter maybe the closest to actual porn. But for the most part it’s not really two people having sex. It’s just naked women. Or clothed sexually attractive women. Existing. So to call it all porn. Helps u realize. That it’s just about finding women sexually attractive. Or looking at sexually attractive women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:40 AM

That may be true. But when you responded with that text. What was the point you were trying to get across that I missed. And that I apologize for missing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:34 AM

I use porn more so for reasearch.. to see what I like and don’t like. It’s saved me a lot of time from having bad sex or sex with women that I can’t get attracted or have an erection too. Or for going after women I’m not attracted to. Helped me understand a lot of things tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:33 AM
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It is important to understand the female perspective. And I do try to understand the women I deal with. I do try to fulfill their needs. And you are right about that. But I’m not a woman. Their needs are not my needs. And my needs are not their needs. And it took me a while to understand that. So in a sense. I try to meet or match their needs or expectations. Without looking for those same traits in a woman and without looking for a woman to reciprocate those same traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:19 AM
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Yes she will age. I’ve seen 40 yo women that were attractive enough it’s fine Sex is a phase. I won’t be having sex all my life. I’m not searching for a friend. But I cherish the friendship I have. And because we had so much sex. I will stay by her side. And if she becomes my bestfriend and we bond I’ll cherish her If she chooses to chop off her boobs she won’t be sexually attractive anymore and I won’t want to have sex with her or think she’s pretty or anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 06:00 AM

It’s funny how all porn means is you look at sexually attractive women Like are we supposed to want to look at or look at unattractive women? I don’t understand? And I also refuse too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/25 05:58 AM
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From the female perspective maybe. I’ve talked to a lot of women who say similiar things to you. I admit I’m not a woman. I can’t speak on if it’s true for them. Ik alot of women say they don’t find sex appealing and can go for years without. I hear them say they don’t really find men attractive. Or even if they do find a man attractive it doesn’t mean anything. So what you are saying is in that vein. I’ve had female friends. Strictly platonic friends. Who are happy to see me. Smile. Willingly i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 09:11 AM
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Her personality. Her as a human being. The fact that she will tell me the truth instead of valuing my emotions or not trying to hurt me. Etc etc. But it’s not relevant because if she had all these things and wasn’t attractive. Then I wouldn’t be attracted to her. And I wouldn’t want to be with her So the only reason to mention it is to make women feel better about my decisions in talking in a way that they understand and approve of. And speaking in a way that suggests like I can be attracted or …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 08:30 AM
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I don’t mention it because without the lustful things we would be friends. Without the lustful things I wouldn’t want a relationship or to live together or have kids or sex. We would be friends. Very good friends. And that’s it. We would like each other as people. Get along. And that’s it. It’s not something to comment on. Because that’s not the reason I’m trying to have sex or take the extra steps to form a relationship. It’s a prerequisite to forming friendship. But I’m not actively trying to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 08:25 AM
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I won’t. U have to try to attract women and be attractive. I don’t think anyone should expect a woman to want them or be attracted to them for no reason. Or just because they are born a male. I don’t really understand your point tbh. Women have all types of preferences and attractions that I don’t understand or see the point of. But I try to reach the ones I can in order to attract the women that I’m attracted to Thats just common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 05:09 AM
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Demonizing male sexual attraction is all women do But whether you know it or not. Men are sexually attracted to women. And get sexually attracted to certain things. And like certain things. Whether you are aware of it or not. Even men you have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 03:16 AM
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But why would he leave her It’s true that both can leave each other because it’s a choice. But why would a man leave a RELATIONSHIP just because a woman’s older. I can see why a man would want to have sex with another woman. But I don’t understand why you think a man would just leave a woman because more attractive women exist in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:27 AM
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Ruin her life how? If my intentions are to build a future & a family. If I’m attracted to her. If I genuinely like her personality. If I don’t lie to her. How am I going to ruin her life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:25 AM
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Why dump her tho? You don’t have to leave her. Makes no sense. It would make more sense for her to want to leave you. Because she doesn’t feel like you are attracted to her or she doesn’t feel the passion or etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:19 AM
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No. I’m not someone whose attracted to someone because of the age or number over there head. So in that sense it’s not about the majority of an age group. It’s about the consistency of it being the majority of the case. And I only like specific types of women anyway. So I’m not like saying I’m attracted to every single woman in existence. But no. To answer your question. The one I like or am attracted to doesn’t look like that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 02:15 AM
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The 20 yo is going to become 27 yo eventually. So why start at 27 when I can start at 20? Also friendship and character and virtue are eternal but also choices. I can get along with people. But once again. It’s not a priority. I’m not searching all my life for a friend. I have friends. Close ones. People who have helped me when I really needed it. I’m not saying friends are bad. It’s just not valuable enough for me to consider that in a relationship as the reason to pursue one. I am genuinely a …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:53 AM
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What you missed. Is I was still sexually attracted to the 40 yo I just don’t want to start a relationship or anything serious with someone that old. If I had been with the 40 yo for years. Then I would stay with her. We’d already have a bond. I’d have loyalty and an obligation. She’s a human being. Etc etc. I’m not going to sit here and lie and say that 40 yo women are more attractive than 20 yo women. Like I don’t have to gaslight myself or be stupid Also I don’t think sex is forever. I think s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:23 AM
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What’s the point of your responses?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:10 AM
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I’ve been talking to different women and they keep telling me how much lust & sexual attraction is important They tell me that they like me personality and etc. but if I didn’t look attractive we wouldn’t even have gotten this far I’ve asked them if a man loved u but thought u were repulsive or wasn’t attracted to you. Would you be with them? They say no. From that. I’ve learned to prioritize sexual attraction. I have social skills. A lot of platonic female friends. Women like me irl. So like va…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:10 AM
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If that’s all you want to focus on in what I said. That’s your choice
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:05 AM
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No. I know this 40+ year old woman with huge boobs. And she’s attractive. But I just want to fuck. I don’t want to date her. I don’t want to live with her. And I’m not even super sexually attracted to her. I don’t want to date her or buy her things. She’s just like attractive enough. But I don’t have that lustful drive Meanwhile I’m talking to this 20 yo with huge boobs. Like really huge and I want to marry her. Have kids with her. My lust for her is off the charts And then there’s this 27 yo I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 01:00 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:54 PM
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So your whole point is bad things happen even if there are laws against them? If there are laws against something. That tends to show that it is not accepted in society. If there are warnings against something. It tends to show a warning to avoid or prevent something Free will exists. People break the law. That’s life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 10:00 PM
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If it’s illegal. Then the people doing it are breaking the law. And can be punished for it. People break the law all the time. That doesn’t then mean we live in a lawless society. The second point. Is you don’t have to worry about red pill. You will have sex or be with some random women. Red pill only matters. If you are trying to get a specific type of woman. And you have standards and preferences and types that you want. If that’s not you. Then it doesn’t really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 09:57 PM
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Because women get all benefits. Full privilege. Preferential treatment. Unwarranted attention. Value for just existing. Etc etc In the u.s we are not a 3rd world country. There are no patriarchal influences that still exist or are enforced on women. All the bad things that happen to women are men breaking the law. They are doing illegal things. And either they aren’t caught or punished for it. But it is not accepted in society So hopefully that answers your question As far as sexual dynamics are…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 09:31 PM

Idk what’s going on today. But men are having informative very constructive and productive posts and comments today I’ve noticed towards strangers that are male my emotional feelings or hormones or etc become irritated or hostile or territorial agressive Towards unattractive women I’m annoyed or angry or frustrated and generally don’t enjoy the interactions I have no positive emotions toward “attractive males or unattractive males” Attractive women I am positive and happy and interested and exci…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:23 PM
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In a way. But that’s the way it is. And I’ve finally accepted that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 08:08 PM
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Thank you this changed my life I realize now I’ve been operating under blue pill premises and philosophy and rules all along While at the same time. Women are being smart and ruthless and calculating and Machiavellian and negotiation and thinking in terms of mating and relationships. And I’ve thought deeper abou the concepts of love and friendship and personality. And why men feel that it’s something to try to search for in a woman that they are being sexual with above everything else. All of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/25 06:58 PM
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This isn’t even true. Once again you are conflating men and women and acting like there is an equivalence and they are the same A woman I am not attracted to is literally a friend at best. You can fuck your friend. You can start a family with a friend. You can marry a friend. Date a friend. Etc etc. But it will never compare to how you interact with someone you are attracted to. The way you kiss. Fuck. Date. Etc etc. is all different when you are attracted. The difference between wanting/attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:30 PM

The decline can be separated into 3 brackets fertility. Which we will place around 35 - 40 lust - high sexual attraction - objective sexual attraction - desire which I will personally place from 25 - 30 objective sexual attraction minus the insane amounts of lust and sexual attraction which I will personally place at 40 Of course if we are just placing the decline on women being fucked then we know women will always be fucked by somebody. And we are not judging this off of the possibility of an …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 08:48 AM
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Tbh. Women give you a lot of favors when they like you Rides/money/food/etc etc. and because women are passive. If you never make a move or initiate. Then you don’t really have to do anything in return. They go off of energy and emotions. It’s not the same or equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:37 AM
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That’s true too Since women are passive. When women who I’m not interested in try to hit on me. I just play passive. I don’t initiate or talk. I let them take on the burden of approaching. And they just either don’t do it. Or give up after a while. So it’s kind of easy to get a woman to leave u alone. Because most women in general play passive in almost all aspects of their lives. They don’t have too. But most choose too
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:25 AM
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That’s profound I have trusted women. Put my trust in situations. Did things with virtue. For virtue. Put my all. And got fucked over Not by one woman. By multiple women. Some family. Some strangers. Some romantic. Some platonic. I never got fucked over by men. Because I’ve never trusted men. But I guess the red pill. Is essentially learning that lesson
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/25 09:17 AM
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Women get pregnant through no effort or choice of their own throughout the whole process to giving birth Women grow boobs through no effort or choice of their own Women are young/attractive through no effort or choice of their own Basically their value is inherent. And is built in so all they have to do is exist. They genetically are built in to become attractive or give birth or breastfeed without actually doing anything But men don’t have muscles without actual and effort Men don’t have intell…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:34 AM
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Men are the performative ones. The initiators. The active ones There’s not much a woman can do. But mak you want them. That’s their value. You wanting them. Other than that. There’s no point in a relationship or being with them. And if you don’t want them. There’s not much they can really do to keep you interested or have you want them Now because this is generally how it works. Men have to try to attract women. Because of this. Men are generally the dancing monkeys of the species Unless your go…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:10 AM

Lowkey
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:06 AM

Good to see u too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/25 12:06 AM

She likes me Either because I make her laugh. Or because I’m attractive to her or both. I’ve talked to her 3 times so far. And today. She was initiating conversation with me. And making jokes with me. So my perspective on her is either she likes my personality or thinks I’m attractive. Which one it is doesn’t even matter. Because I’m not interested. But I talk to her. Just because she’s a human being and she’s nice to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 07:12 AM

In her perspective. I was otp talking to one girl. Or in her mind somebody. Then I’m standing halfway out of the door. Talking to the other 2 women Maybe it showed pre selection? Idk it shows that I can talk to other people But from her perspective? I’m kind of blinded. Idk how she would actually perceive that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:34 AM

You’re never supposed to try to talk to women from behind I did only because that was the last opportunity and I was being a coward So I’d say they were either scared or in awe/waiting for me to say more I could’ve walked forward and talk to them face to face. But I was like 2-3 feet away. They said thank you. And walked away But 50% of me thinks they were scared. The other 50% thinks they were ready to hear me out I went back to flirting with the cashier woman who clearly likes talking to me. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 06:21 AM

I did it in the most awkward way possible. But I did it. There was 2 of them. I tried to talk to the one with big boobs. I said I just wanted to say your pretty. I realized there was 2 of them. Realized I couldn’t single them out. So I said both of them. But they just looked at me in complete silence. I tried to talk to them as they were leaving. That’s a mistake. But I feel better. I fumbled. But I’m not a coward. So I feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 05:40 AM

There’s one with huge boobs rn. I’m just going to ignore her. But if I get an opening to start a conversation and I don’t take it. Then I’m officially a bitch and i should be cursed forever If no other opportunity comes up then it means I already fumbled. But in the future I need to at least approach or say something Regardless I can no longer act like a bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:58 AM

Idk what’s going on In the past 48 hours I’m constantly seeing women with huge boobs I don’t know what’s going on. I’m just being constantly reminded of my cowardice. Like I’m not approaching any of them. I approached one. And she liked me. But for some reason I’m scared to approach them. I feel like a bitch and I’m frustrated with myself. I need deep self reflection and introspection. What’s stopping me from approaching these women. But also like why all of a sudden this is all I’m seeing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:54 AM
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You can’t discuss them. Because they are male oriented. And smv oriented. Rmv oriented and female oriented discussions only can be taken place here Body counts, looks, etc etc. just predominate male sexuality topics are not allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 04:14 AM
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Personally more confidence. Aggresiveness. Risk taking and initiation. I’m shy and let women come up to me. The women I like don’t go up to anybody. Because everyone goes up to them I saw 5 women with big boobs in the last 24 hours. They smiled or said hi. Or was looking at their phone. But none initiated I only initiated with one. Told her she was pretty. She said thank you and told me I look good too. She asked my name and etc. but I told her I didn’t want to bother workout and like ended the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:51 AM
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Because women want to be wanted and desired You can’t force yourself to want or be attracted to something or someone. You can make yourself do something. An action. You can have “sex” with a woman you’re not attracted too. You can be with a woman your not attracted to. Talk to a woman you’re not attracted to or don’t want. But it’s not the same. You won’t have the same type of erections. Or be as excited. Or even care as much. Or even be happy. Yet you will be expected to act as if that was the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/25 03:46 AM

You are only here because other people gave birth to you and created u. If they had the same mindset as u. Then you wouldn’t exist to have the mindset you do now. On the other hand im not trying to convince you to do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 10:31 PM

You are the one that brought up men exclusively in your first response to me Also your second response seems to switch topics. And bring up and highlight something that I neither discussed or argued against. I didn’t bring up the sexes battling in this post or etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 04:55 PM

Not every family is going to be perfect. Not everyone is going to want a family. And not everybody who wants a family is going to have a perfect family. Still that’s the basis of marriage and pairing up. Having a family. Without that you are literally grasping for straws. And performing performative act where you copy traditional practices or etc without embodying or executing the function they were created for. No different than homosexuals or people practicing bestiality getting married. That’…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:15 PM

It’s not GUARENTEED to be forever. But it is forever Love and loyalty are choices Your family bloodline is encoded into your dna and is apart of you literally forever
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 12:10 PM

Because you start a family Sex is temporary. Attraction is temporary. Family and bloodlines and love and loyalty are forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 11:44 AM
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I just asked the therapist questions Like what is therapy it was interesting and reinforced my beliefs Like for example. I asked if someone that was my friend did exactly what they did in the same way would it be therapy. They said no. I asked why. They said because they aren’t liscenced and etc. I said ok so if you’re not liscensed or etc. are u no longer a therapist. Even if you do things the same way. And they said that’s actually a good question. And they said no. Which reinforced a thought …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 08:49 AM
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Friendships are not that important Women are weird tbh on this topic. And I’ve just theorized that it’s an emotional thing. For people who love to cry and talk and be emotional and feel all the time. Mainly women I have friends. I don’t feel fulfilled. I’m talking friends that will give me their last. Care. Check in on me. Do favors for me. Etc etc Maybe I’m spoiled and I can’t see how beneficial it is. But I still don’t feel or think it’s that valuable For survival? Yes. But I’m not Machiavelli…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:23 AM
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Idc tbh When u see how ruthless some are in their mating selection. And in how they choose who to befriend and etc You start to not care about how they moralize things. Because they are hypocrites. And when something positively benefits them that negatively affects you. They won’t care either. So idc now
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:19 AM
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I disagree with you completely I can’t physically have sex with women I’m not attracted to. It’s not even the same type of sex. I don’t get happy around those women. I don’t try as hard. I don’t care as much. Etc etc And women primarily want men to be wanted and desired by them and value them for the effort they put in I on the other hand value the attraction the most I can meet up & fuck both a 20 yo with huge boobs that’s my ideal fantasy type. And a 18 yo that’s bare minimum what I’m attracte…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 02:17 AM
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So is the summary of your post. That you don’t like sex or sexual attraction? And if that’s the case why would someone want to partner up or pair up with another individual. And how would that attraction work? I’m pretty sure you’ve had good friends before. And I’m pretty sure marriage or pairing up with them never crossed your mind If you are against sex and sexual attraction. Don’t have sex then. Be celibate. And idk live out your breaths of life. But trying to convince other people sex and se…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/25 01:17 PM

Let me know if you find something I was going to make a sub. But I can’t rationalize a way where it wouldn’t turn into an echo chamber or be counter productive. So I stalled on that initiative
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:59 PM
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If we take away all instances of force and only keep our argument focused on women who we making their decisions based on free will. Then it definitely is solely women’s fault Women are deciding and dictating the terms of engagement when it comes to sex If we can agree that most women do not want to have sex with a man they don’t know. That they don’t know the name of or their personality or that doesn’t respect them or care about them at all and doesn’t even care about them afterwards Then it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 03:28 PM
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All of our mothers gave birth to us and let us live our potential lives She’s advocating against this outcome for other potential lives that haven’t been born yet. While still being the recipient of having a mother who did not follow the advice that she’s advocating other women to follow Therefore. If she was serious about her advice to other women. Logically she would have to forfeit her life. For all the “harm and no benefit and etc” that she caused her mother. And she’d have to come to the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 02:57 PM
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Women want relationships. But their end goal is not constant sex or even having a family. I’m not even going to try to comprehend it tbh Fathers and family want relationships. Because of family being important among other things Religions and governments and etc want relationships. For population growth and to have a continue population. And/or to keep humanity going Men want relationships when either sex is sparse and rare. And/or a woman is so sexually attractive that he wants to secure access…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 10:28 AM
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Your mother had you? I guess you were no benefit to her and shouldn’t of been born. So she could be free? And checks notes have more sex and live out her dreams and keep her body shape? Although she became older and more unattractive as time went by and her body shape changed anyways? And the money will dwindle because women still retire and stop working? And child free women get cheated on and pumped and dumped anyway? And child free women can still be unattractive or ignored. And you specifica…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 09:53 AM

Size matters in my thought process when viewing sexual attraction I’m not attracted to boobs of any size. And small boobs don’t really mean anything to me tbh. So that’s another argument and disagreement we have But yes it’s not the sole divide of both sexes. It’s a big one. But there’s also reproduction. Chromosomes. Etc etc. hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:18 PM

The more part in my thought process is just being a whole woman. That’s my argument with you. If you take anything you like about a woman. A singular trait and put it on a whole man it won’t be attractive or as attractive. That doesn’t mean that trait is not attractive. It means that it being on a tree or a man or a bird is detracting from the attraction or negating it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:17 PM

No it’s just a big visual difference. There’s other differences. Some that are visual/social differences. Some that are only because of preference like height. And ofc genetalia (I feel I spelled it wrong) and etc etc It’s one of many differences. It’s just a huge part of visual sexual attraction. For me personally. And a lot of other men. Not all men ofc. But enough for it to be apparent that it’s not just a mental thing or a societal thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:14 PM

I disagree with your counterpoint My main point was if you switch any trait on a woman and put it on a whole man it will not be sexually attractive. Because it is a wholistic form of sexual attraction. Big boobs are sexually attractive. But on a whole woman. And that whole women will have other things sexually attractive about her or nuetral. By themselves boobs are attractive. But adding them on a male or a tree or a bird or etc. negates or takes away from their attraction Luckily though men ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:09 PM

So you lean towards liking the male physiology that’s gained from having more testerone with a very feminine face put on top? Or by muscular is it nuanced and you don’t mean as I did in my example a male body builders body. If you mean you like a females oriented body but in a fitness leaning way that’s different from wha I’m talking about. I’m talking about. Switching a woman’s any desirable trait. And putting that on a male physiology or being. Understanding that that will still be unattractiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:06 PM

Those aren’t big though. If that’s the biggest you’ve seen. Then we’ve experienced two different worlds. And there’s nothing wrong with that. You just haven’t seen what I’ve seen irl that I constitute big boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 08:01 PM

Not that big. You just don’t know what big is. And have never seen big irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:56 PM

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:56 PM

Guys can’t have natural big breasts So this means what you call big breasts and what I call big breasts are vastly different. That’s one point. The second point is fair that wanting someone who is completely female is right. But that’s different than singling out a trait and saying it doesn’t matter For example take an “attractive woman’s face” and put it on a male body builder. You most likely will say you aren’t attracted. So are pretty faces not important. Put a birds head on an sexually attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:56 PM

Nothing you said makes sense That’s like saying women being genetically different then men is the cause of problems. Or women being the sole users of gestation and sexual reproduction and nurturing are the problem Without big breasts women mostly just resemble males. Which would be obvious if women didn’t wear so much make up. And if they shaved their heads or if men wore long hair and/or make up. A big ass and big thighs does lean more towards females but males can possess those traits too (no …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:51 PM

Then you haven’t seen life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/25 07:32 PM
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Sexual attraction is not only based on feelings. It can be based on feelings or it can not be. If you like circular or spherical shapes. And only find sexual attraction in shapes oriented in that way. It shifts from being a feelings based phenomenon. And turns into a repeatable predictable logically consistent system of attraction. I can’t speak for all men. But I can speak for the fact that not all sexual attraction purely feelings based. As I 100% know that for a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 05:24 PM
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If I take attraction out of it. Then it would be very easy. I actually have honor. And some virtous characters. That just goes into “manhood”. So it would be simple to see if a guy had those characteristics. At the end of the day. The vetting would create two groups that pass. Those genuine and the men the woman would want character/personality/life wise. And the men who are willing to lie and mask and manipulate in order to get what they want. From there it’s about testing and critically thinki…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 11:40 AM
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If I was a woman. I’d be emotional. Base everything on emotions and feelings. Reject objectivity and logic and concepts. Prioritize different things. And attraction wouldn’t even work the same way. Essentially you are either asking for me to think like a man or think like a woman. If you are asking me to think like a man. Then the distinction is irrelevant. As real life wouldn’t even mirror that possibility. But if you were asking me to think like a woman. Then I couldn’t use any of my perspecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 11:19 AM
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Yea because I’m not attracted to men. So it would literally be the easiest thing to do. Vetting is simple. I’d have like a 90% - 100% vetting rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 10:12 AM
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You don’t. The smartest thing you can do is never mention it all. Women rule irl discourse. Everyone bends over for women and their thoughts. Women are never wrong. Their fantasies and fetishes and attractions are always right. Men are pigs and disgusting for being attracted to women or being visually attracted to body types or physiques. Etc etc. Common advices you will get irl. Not to argue with women. “You have to understand as a woman..”. Women are always right. Just agree with women. Be sil…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 09:29 AM
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Huge boobs “sag” regardless that’s just physics. We might be talking about different things though. I think what you’re referring to is like women with small boobs. From personal experience and what I’ve seen online. It won’t be an actual issue until like a woman is like 40+ which by that time I’ll be done with sex and my libido will be gone anyway. And this woman I actually like as a person. She’s super like “traditional minded” but like in an independent agressive defiant feminine way. Can’t r…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 11:21 AM
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That’s not true. I just started talking to a 20 yo woman. Big tiddies. Pretty. Who is hypersexual. And like I stressed how much sex was important to me. And she said she wants a lot of sex. All the time. Like I can have sex whenever I want. Of course I had to leverage relationship and commitment and a promise for future family planning and things like that. Obviously she’s sexually attracted to me. Which helps. But women don’t view sex how we do. She thinks I’m sexy but if I didn’t have the pers…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:58 AM
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As a man you can be horny by waking up. And randomly. Touch also simulates horniness. Etc. to confuse that with sexual attraction. Would be misleading to say the least As for women they have ovulation and touch and etc. those don’t necessarily correlate to sexual attraction. If your position is they do. Then we disagree. As I see that as completely different than what I’m talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 03:08 AM
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Sexual attraction is more of a mental attraction. More of wanting. Objectively finding someone desirable. Its desire that is not based solely on hormones and emotions. In a way sexual attraction is a type desire that comes from the mind and comes from wanting and desiring. But usually is an objective or at the very least universally understood to compose of a few key indicators You are right that you actually don’t need sexually attraction to have sex. As you pointed out. You just need willingne…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 01:26 AM
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That’s what I said in a slightly different way. But more or less the same concept. Not entirely what I said. But we understand each other. And that’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:56 AM
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Over time. Women usually focus on their emotions. How he makes her feel. Comfortability. If he’s “trained” her body to become reflexively horny to him. If she feels positive emotional feelings towards him. Etc etc None of those is raw sexual attraction. It more so signals a willingness to have sex. Love for women is not necessarily seen as a sexual thing. It’s very idealized. When one guy fails at delivering. And the next guy fails. And so on and so forth. She becomes over it and less likely to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:36 AM
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Women lose the ability to “pair bond”. Because with each unsuccessful relationship. They slowly give up on love and loyalty and genuiness and etc. they also hear the same thing from different guys. The different guys all want sex. Etc etc When women experience the same thing over and over. They get bored and don’t take it seriously. And devalue it. If they have pattern recognition of something. They roll their eyes and are over it. Especially if their situations are always failing or going nowhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/25 12:18 AM

Seeing how women act. Observing how women act. Seeing how the patterns and trends are almost always similiar Are there exceptions? Yes. Is it smart to live like you’ll be the exception or experience the exception. No. But I can’t deny that it isn’t always this way. But most times it is. When you’re dealing with very attractive/sexually attractive women. It’s almost identical. Birds fly because they have wings. And wings of birds of the same species are more or less the same. And when these indiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 11:57 PM
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What I’m saying is a man will approach a sexually attractive woman whether she’s giving cues or not. That’s doesn’t mean he will be successful. But he already liked her before he even approached or saw a signal. That’s why your study is flawed. Yes everything you said may be true about success rates. Or how women select. But that has nothing to do with if a man is interested or if he will approach. Which is all I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:56 PM
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I think that’s the difference. In two parts. One you like most youthful women based on youthfulness and skinniness. Two you would be more attracted to a woman that presented her self with more aesthetics and maintenance and care. Which would in theory be richer women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:54 PM

So they want the women they want? Is that what you are saying? And I’m assuming you want the men that you want? But somehow you’re idealized version of a man is better? That’s what you want to argue? You didn’t adress what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:45 PM
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Rich people are not “gorgeous”. They are skinny. Maybe? And they pay for expensive clothing and make up and hairstyles. But actual objective beauty. Naked. Things of that nature. They aren’t actually pretty. From what I’ve seen is rich people can’t really tell beauty. They can tell which women puts the most effort in to presenting themselves at their “best” and with the most aesthetics. But that’s not the same thing as beauty. Take any rich woman you think is pretty. Strip her of her make up and…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:43 PM

Women only value is that men want them If men stop wanting women. They will stop helping women and benefiting them and caring about them Men don’t want to live like men. But do it to get women. So I don’t understand how women would be happy living like men just to survive and for no other reason If you mean it’s better for you because you’ll feel better. That’s just faulty reasoning. As your feelings are just feelings that don’t actually shape reality
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:35 PM
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This is kind of dumb. Unless you count being sexually attractive as “a subtle nonverbal solicitation signal” Otherwise what you just wrote and your “study” is stupid. The only signal is a woman being sexually attractive. Everything else is just a woman choosing who she wants to be with. And a man being brave or risk taking enough to approach or try or initiate. In other words an unattractive woman can send all the “subtle nonverbal solicitation signals” in the world and nothing to not much will …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:33 PM
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Relationships are about friendships and things outside of sex. Irl and on this sub and other interactions with women online. It’s clear that women are opposed to sex and sexual objectification intrinsically. And only accept or want or are willing to do it if there is more to it than just sex. Maybe there are women who just want to be fucked and you not know there name or care about them at all or don’t try to get to know them. Maybe they exist. In my experience that is rare. Most women like to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/25 10:10 PM

I saw this woman with HUGE boobs right in front of me as I was walking in the gym. I didn’t freeze or anything. But I didn’t go and try to talk to her. It literally didn’t pop in my head. I was awe struck. On the outside I looked normal. But I suddenly lost my ability to think. When she walked past me. I was able to think. But by then it was too late. I keep missing my chances. I have to vent. I only see women like this a couple of times a year. And this is what I was practicing cold approach fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/25 03:12 PM
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Please go into detail and explain
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 10:30 PM
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Hey I’m thinking of starting a sub. Not exactly the same as this. I don’t necessarily need help. If anyone wants to mod. Or idek. Because I’ve never done this before. And it’s not competing with this sub. Because this sub is the power of friendship. The worship of personality. And the state of being in a relationship as the ultimate goal. Mainly rmv associated topics. That’s why looks post and age based topics and body/physique topics and etc are discouraged. It makes sense when you think of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/25 12:10 AM
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No it’s not what I’m looking for. Emotions are not an important part of life. Intelligence is an important part of life. Emotions are important when you lack intelligence. As it’s supposed to relay information when you can’t actually understand cognitively or mentally. Yet most people just focus on the feeling of their emotions. Which is why I don’t focus on emotions or debates or discussions around that Rp does talk about both. But you can choose what you want to focus on. Someone could be rp a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:55 PM
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Thank you for the direct link. But like I expressed to that other person. That sub is dead. Plus I don’t know what it used to be. But at the present. Seems more like an echo chamber and a place where people share their experiences and feelings and perspectives on women or etc. and that’s not necesarily a bad thing. It’s just not what I’m looking for. I’m looking for the male version of this place. I value debates and disagreements. As it’s a way to test and verify if something’s true or not. Jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:44 PM
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That’s not even on Reddit. I looked and couldn’t find it. I saw other adjacent sub reddits. Non of them were what I was looking for. I clicked the link on google. And it said couldn’t be found. So idk what the point of you typing that out was. Unless you were unaware of this. Or if I’m the one at fault for not being able to find it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 02:07 PM
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I asked people where the sub was. If there was any. It was a question. Because I’m looking for answers. You can be emotional and express yourself. I don’t understand what your emotions have to do with me and why I should care. You didn’t have to insert yourself. And you didn’t actually have anything to add positively. You literally wasted time. The only thing that happened was I saw how much I’ve changed between how I would’ve reacted to you. Which would’ve been emotional. To how I reacted rn. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:10 PM
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That thread is not what I’m talking about. I’m talking about all things that are male perspective. Discussed and debated. With mini topics and etc as the focus. Like this a rmv sub I acknoweledge that now. And it’s a place to talk about female oriented things. And I’m not saying you shouldn’t be able to talk about that. I’ve really never said what you should do. I only asked to be shown to a place I want to be at. And I asked if anyone knew. Which has 0% to do with you and isn’t an attack on you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 01:03 PM
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Actually all the looks post and male sexuality perspective posts get taken down. I know for a fact people get shadowbanned and no longer get allowed to post debate topics. I never said what women could or couldn’t do. I asked for a space that the focus was male oriented. Where that can be expressed or debated and where the focus was on truth and not opinions and emotions and group agreement Also the thing is. That i never cared if you agreed with me or not. That’s the thing I’m not looking for f…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 12:59 PM
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No this is a rmv sub. You can’t talk about looks or body counts. Or male perspective things. You can only talk about blue pill/rmv things. Which are mostly subjective opinionated positions. Like being “nice” “love” and “good personality” and etc. so the topics allowed on here are mostly those types. Meaning yes it’s pointless. And since this sub is limited to rmv/blue pill topics. This will be and endless cycle of repeating topics with repeating arguments that are always going to be opinionated/…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 11:04 AM
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Somebody please tell me a sub that’s like this but more male focused. Where a man can discuss the male perspective. Talk about looks. Other things. With the major focus being on truth and not agreement and emotions This place is so female dominated in perspective and ideology. All I learned was all the the traits I had that were actually feminine and I started eliminating them one by one. I was more emotional when I first came here. But after having to argue with emotional people and seeing how …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/25 10:36 AM

Bro I saw someone that I thought looked attractive. And she made it a point to walk past me. Basically there’s 2 ways to get from point A to point B. POINT A is the shortest path where you don’t have to be around anyone. POINT B is longer and involves walking past me. She chose POINT B and like looked at me then looked away. I lifted my headphones to say something. But it was soft. So either she didn’t hear me or she ignored me. Idk. But like I’m aware I have to be more dominant and agressive an…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 04:52 AM

They both have had sex before. The point being the person wants someone with sexual experience and that’s had sex with women and is not inexperienced. I’m not saying that everything is exactly the same 1 to 1. But the concept specifically on wanting a man that has had sex before is the same. But phrased differently. To make it seem. Like there’s a difference. When actually both phrasings have the man having sex and being experienced have priority and seemed as beneficial from the women pov
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 09:09 AM

Basically. They still want someone with experience and etc. but they don’t like how you phrased it. So they rejected what you said. And said it in a way that makes them feel better But somebodies going to hear that and believe them and think that they don’t want a man with experience. Not all women guess. But I’d say a majority
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:36 AM

So in other words you do want someone who has experience and has been with other women. The phrasing would only matter if you were actually disagreeing with the statement. If you agree in different words. You are still agreeing with the concept. So to say no to something you agree with because you don’t like how it sounds. Is something I see a lot of people in a certain demographic of the population do. You see how I said all that but could of said it sounds like what a lot of women do. But what…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:34 AM

It’s frustrating. Because phrasing or tone doesn’t change the subject or concept or reality of what’s being discussed. Their trying to make it sound different. Yet they are actually agreeing with the op.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:29 AM

So you will be with a virgin? Or will you say no you actually want a man that’s been in relationships and has sex before and knows how to please a woman and etc etc. Who cares about the words and phrasing that’s used
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/25 08:01 AM

The one that I said something incoherent to that looked at me and looked away. Just walked past me. And I instinctively put my head down. And looked at my phone. Bro istg tomorrow will be different
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:23 AM

Yesterday I tried to talk to that woman and all that happened was she got mad at me. Said she was going to block me. But she didn’t block me. And some drunk woman called me while she was with her boyfriend. And another woman stood me up That was yesterday. And today I was a coward. But things will change soon. Like if I know what to do. I should do it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:14 AM

Bro today I was a coward. A woman looked me in my eyes twice on two different occasions I didn’t say anything. I said something incoherent to another woman and she just like looked at me and walked away. Like I’m too passive and not masculine at all But it’s funny because today I also spent an hour flirting with a woman. And also flirted with another one successfully. So idk. There’s levels to this and I’m just not where I want to be rn.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 07:10 AM

Quick thoughts Women and feminism are like ads. They constantly tell you and berate you. And try to condition you on what to do or think or believe in or etc. no matter how unappealing it is or ineffective the proposed action or thought is. And it’s usually mainstream politically correct and etc Men and masculinity are like porn. They try to attract you. Figure out what works and do that. Try to be as appealing and enticing as possible. No matter the cost. No matter the feelings. And it’s not in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:14 PM
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I’ve done it plenty of times. It’s not that complicated. I don’t feel bad about it. But my feelings are not important. Idk what the problem is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 08:11 PM
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That just dawned on me as well. I’ve been thinking of everything as you say. Smv. But the reality most men who are in relationships are focusing on rmv. Which has less or little or nothing to do with smv. Most of the things I’ve said or pontificated on has been about smv. And the only time I branched off was to include the goal of having a family. Which could still be applied to smv I take rmv to be a blue pill concept. And smv to be a redpill concept. If we look at it in binaries. Of course the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 02:16 AM

I need to vent real quick. Then I’m off back to real life. The woman that has been sending me nudes. Has been found by goon groups. And now they are commenting amongst themselves about if she’s sent nudes She’s been sending me nudes for years. Of course she’s been sending other guys nudes. Because women. But still. Having other men be interested in her is irritating. Why do all the women I like other men have to really like. I should’ve fucked her when i had the chances. She was open to a relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 11:37 PM
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I already understand it After deep thinking. Most men do not get with women they are sexually attracted to. They get with women for other reasons. Or relative attraction. Relative attraction meaning more attractive than other women. More attractive than him or attractive enough compared to x. But the moral of the story is they are not truly sexually attracted. They can have sex with them. Be intimate. But there is no burning desire and lust and sexual attraction for them. They might watch porn. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 08:01 PM
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No big boobs was and is a rarity. And usually the big boobs on porn like idk what to call them. Companies? Usually they are skinny women. But mostly they are usually like fake boobs and kind of small or like average sized. I don’t really watch that type of porn anymore. But that’s what I remember. The women who had natural big boobs we’re still slimmer. They definitely wouldn’t fit the image of body positivity/fat acceptance They did have like one for obese/chubby women. But those women’s boobs …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:34 PM
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You do realize that you actually have to attract women right? And there’s different ways to go about trying to do that? Basically all you are saying is men who fail at attracting women deserve to finish last? Which kind of doesn’t have much of a point. When it kind of explains itself. The real question is why are men who fail to attract women. Suddenly becoming able to attract women later in life? Doesn’t that seem suspicious. If everything you say is true. Or if they are failing to attract. Why…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:05 PM
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Do you differentiate that from porn? Isn’t that the same concept. Being able to see women you are actually sexually attracted to. That are close to naked or are naked. That you actually lust for? My argument is that true sexually attractive women are kind of rare irl. I see about 2-5 per year. So in the past a guy might just pick relative sexual attraction. Like for example x woman is the youngest or prettiest or the skinniest or etc. whatever arbitrary metric where she’s better than the rest or…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:54 PM
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No. porn is what “influenced” men to like curvy women. Just being able to see different women and compare body types and etc “helped” men to like curvy women more. When you normally picture a fat woman. You picture an obese woman with no curves. That’s still widely considered unattractive. Women with curves. Depending on what clothes they wear can look the same way. + the fact that their faces will look less attractive. Without the knoweledge of what they would look like naked. You would assume …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:42 PM
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Because the truth gets a negative reputation. Calling a woman fat or unattractive or a whore or etc. EVEN if it’s true can you get you attacked or faced with resistance. Women just resist the truth when it’s not in their favor or inconvenient or etc Women value their emotions and feelings over logic and truth. And will only accept logic and truth if it coincides with their feelings or its net nuetral or net positive. Even then that depends. So to recap. If the truth is centered on x (whatever x …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 12:49 PM
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Like I said if you have an internal war between homosexuals. That’s your guys business I’m not apart of your world. From the outside looking in. It’s two homosexuals claiming they are different types of homosexuals. What I’m saying too you. Is you are both engaging in homosexual activities. You are both homosexual. As a straight heterosexual person that’s all that matters. If you have an internal battle between yourselves. I’m not here to intervene or weigh in. I really dc. I only care about if …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 07:14 AM
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No. I’m saying that in our culture if you are gay or do gay things the gayness will be acknowledged always So what’s the difference between saying a homosexual has sex with women. And a bisexual has sex with women. In my mind there is no difference I’m not redefining it because to be homosexual you have to have committed homosexual acts. Therefore if I were to call a bisexual homosexual. I’m obviously highlighting the fact that they’ve engaged in homosexual acts and it’s irrelevant to me whether…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 06:20 AM
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A man is a biological being that has xy chromosomes. That produces semen is fertile has a penis. Then transfers over to looking a certain way A woman is a biological being that has xx chromosomes that carries ova and is fertile and is capable of birthing human beings. Then transfers over to looking a certain way Behavioral patterns for us is split in two parts. Choice and biological advantage/possibility So a woman could act like a man and a woman could act like a man. That’s a choice and perfor…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 02:04 AM
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I don’t like the fact that homosexuals are trying to take over heterosexual discussion and perspective and way of life If a man has sex with another man he is gay. It doesn’t matter if he also has sex with another woman too. If a man has sex with someone who believes they are a woman but was born biologically a male whether they had surgery or not he is homosexual. That’s how it is for a good reason and it makes perfect sense. The only thing we actually are lenient on is women. We actually don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/25 01:40 AM

I am actually only attracted to women. I have 0% attraction to myself or men in general. I respond this way because it’s not real life and i can go step by step in my thought process and etc. if you think I would talk to you irl about any of this. Or even speak how I’m writing. Is essentially you thinking the online world is real life. And it’s not. Also you are projecting how you feel on me. If you feel I hate women. That’s a problem you have to deal with. It has nothing to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:54 PM

Hmm maybe I am focusing more on piv in my argument and from my perspective
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:49 PM

It’s not 1 to 1 the exact same. But it is in general. You put your dick in her vagina. You feel her get wet. Establish a rhythm. Touch her there. Lift her up her. Go faster there. It’s not a loop that repeats the exact same way everytime. Maybe this one is wet on command. Maybe that one needs more foreplay. Maybe this one can take all of it rough. Maybe this one you have to be slow and gentle and then build up the pressure. But that’s part of the experience part. There’s many ways to get to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:28 PM

But that’s not the 1 to 1 equivalent of being good at sex for a man You could summarize your points to she just has to be attractive and you have to want her and she has to let you do what you want willingly and try to appeal and seduce you along the way Which while I agree with. Isn’t actually describing her doing anything to make her good in bed. It’s describing what you feel like would be a good experience for you while you are having sex. Which is still not describing being good in bed. As t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 09:13 PM

Women can’t be good at sex. That phrase doesn’t even make sense. Tbh. I haven’t had as much sex as you. So my perspective could be blind. But there isn’t anything a woman could actually do to be good at sex. UNLESS you as a man are a passive type that wants the woman to perform and do all the work. While you watch and explore your emotions and sensations. Otherwise it’s all on you as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:48 PM

Experience is having tested your theories in action and having achieved repeatable results of success. In other words I can’t mess up in sex in the first try and expect another time or another chance. And that takes practice. The reason why medicine works. Is because human beings are generally the same. That’s why we are called human beings. That’s why WOMEN not individually but as a whole have menstruation and pregnancy and etc generally the same way. Yes sex is advanced excercise. Yes it’s abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 08:44 PM
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Let’s go further. Respect. Kindness. Politeness. Communication. Friendship. Etc etc are not rights either. I don’t know what the overall point of this post is. A lot of things are not rights. You don’t have the right to a lot of things you want. Not friendship. Not respect. Not people caring. Not bonds/connections. Etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:34 PM
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No that’s not what I said. That’s what you said I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:29 PM
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Human being create chat bots. The chat bot doesn’t know anything. It regurgitates its program. Not everything is known. And the chat bot has never had sex with a woman or been a man or etc. it will only speak on things it finds on the internet or is programmed to know. I’m not here or online to conversate or have conversations. I’m not a woman. I’m not searching for that. You don’t understand. And your solutions aren’t actually coinciding with what I said I was looking for. Therefore you are eit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:51 PM
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It’s programmed by humans. Given limitations. And is political correct. And only knows the answers and rules and programs. The programmers gave it. It won’t help me in my pursuit of anything. And was honestly bad advice to give. Tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 10:37 AM
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Women sexuality does not work like male sexuality. So to say if a man was an arbitrary level of attractiveness. That a woman in general on average would have sex everyday or whenever he wanted. Is not understanding the differences between female sexuality and male sexuality. And how women value sex as a whole. I do think men have to focus on attracting women. It’s a tough pill to swallow. But a woman is not going to want you just for existing or doing the bare minimum or etc. at the same time. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:18 AM
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Because I was saying there is no real benefit to a man outside of a few things. And women expect or want alot of things that are for their sole benefit or things men don’t usually want. Therefore the benefits men offer would depend on what the woman was asking for But the overall point is why would they do it. What are they getting out of it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:09 AM
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To say something is logic or rationale has to do with the contents or subject or information presented. Not if you feel someone is ranting or the reason/cause for why they are presenting said truth I’m losing respect for women. Because I see women as human beings. And capable of critical thinking and intelligence. That’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 07:07 AM
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The sex dries up. Consistently. To what extent depends on how it started. And other various factors. The trend seems to be women are not as interested in sex as a concept. And do it enough to say that they have it. Or when they are horny at random times. But it usually is not frequent. And is usually not a concerted focus/effort. Being mad bout splitting bills and living like a roommate. But not wanting to have sex frequently or stay attractive or to try to appeal to your partner or etc is kind …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:44 AM
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There is no benefit for men to be married Unless you want a family you are exclusively commiting to a woman sexually. Presumably having to live with said woman. And then she’s constantly aging and becoming less attractive. On top of the fact that women actually don’t value or want sex the same. And are not trying to have sex everyday. And slowly try to stop the sexualization or sexual activity. On top of the fact that sex is not forever. And when she’s not attractive. Or when your libido lowers …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:21 AM
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You make a valid point. Maybe I shouldn’t look for a male space because it might turn into an echo chamber. Where as this place causes women to mimic irl talking points and discussions. And the atmosphere stops men from white knighting and lying as much as irl. I’ll think about that. And I appreciate that you can understand how online spaces are one of the only closest things to as you put it “a true free marketplace of ideas”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 06:07 AM
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A woman told me she almost got kidnapped recently. You think I told her she should trust men? I understand why a woman wouldn’t trust men. I’ve had women tell me traumatic stories of them getting assaulted or of people they know. I’m aware. But as I said they claim men only want sex then have sex with men they claim are different. So what I’m saying is life is about risks. I think atp in my life that women are capable of being smart and intelligent. But choose not too. Choose to prioritize being…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 03:01 AM
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Irl you have to manage relationships/connections/friendships etc etc Which means you have to be careful of disagreements. Careful of emotionally hurting or causing someone to be emotional in a negative way. You have to prioritize agreement. Etc etc. This leads to there being no fruitful conversations/discussions that are based purely on truth that don’t involve some form of agreement or that doesn’t involve some safety valve of rebuilding or repairing or avoiding the breaking of that situation/r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:51 AM
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Saying the truth. Shouldn’t be associated with how someone else will feel. You are on the side of the fence of people who just want to agree with everything the other said. I’m on the side of the fence that values the truth over perpetual agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:45 AM
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Like I said women only want people to agree with them. Fostering people willing to lie to them or keep thoughts to themselves. And it’s a problem to me because I don’t want to lie or hold my tongue. The truth is the truth regardless of how one feels. And the truth should be accepted and acknowledged regardless of how one feels. But now “misogyny” just becomes not agreeing with women about everything or anything. Also lying and keeping one’s thoughts to themselves becomes women having sex with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 02:43 AM
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So many men think like me. They are just smart enough not to say it around women. Or men that will snitch. Men with girlfriends and wives and pregnant girlfriends and wives. And unattractive girlfriends and wives. Say things to me. And lust for other women. And joke with me and etc. But tell women something different. Lie to women. Withhold the truth. Etc. which makes me lose respect for women. Because they are supposed to be smart enough to understand and see this. Since I think women are smart…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/25 12:22 AM
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You aren’t disagreeing with me then. My argument was never about preventing aging. I feel as if I keep repeating myself or rewording what I’m saying would be counter productive. I should just appreciate that you said what I said in a different way and leave it at that. I’m not going to argue about semantics.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:42 AM
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I’m glad some of you are saying this in different ways to me. I tend to say things bluntly and in a toxic way. And etc. while are points are not 1 to 1 the same. It is the same general idea
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:06 AM
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That’s my argument as well But the distinction is I think sperm quality is more about biology/fitness/health and that’s what determines viability So in a metaphorical example. A 100% score is A+ and passing. If the next year you get a score of 99% that’s an A and still passing. If the next year you get a score of 98% that’s an A and still passing. If the next year you get a 98% again that’s still an A and still passing and etc etc. It’s not an argument of if deterioration. But about how long the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 11:03 AM
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Is their studies on this or is this your opinion? The question being asked because it’s hard for me to see how being in peak physical shape and health etc. would be a hard cut off at 35 or 40 when I see some men in great biological health past those ages. Of course age accelerates negative effects and deterioration and I’ve never argued that. But when it comes to viable sperm. My reasoning is that the deterioration has less to do with age and more to do with biological factors and fitness and et…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:37 AM
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Wasn’t talking about reversing Only about preserving or delaying or slowing the time where sperm is viable which is what fitness and being in great health and etc does. Nobodies talking about preventing aging or degradation of cells or etc. it’s about how does the effects of fitness and peak health factor into the state of viable sperm into late age. And my response is it factors alot to the point that older men will still have viable sperm if they are in peak health and biological health and fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 10:32 AM
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Is 40 the hard cut off? Or a better question has this been studied with fit in physically shape males who are in peak health? Because that’s all my argument is about. It’s not about men having viable sperm who aren’t in peak physical health as they age. I already understand that age degrades cells to an extent. But we are talking about viable sperm. And my response is about viability of sperm of older males who are in shape and peak biological health and etc. That’s all I want you to focus on or…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:48 AM
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And how much is that degradation actually happening with men who are in peak shape and fitness and take care of themselves? Because in every other cell. Peak fitness and health can prevent or slow the negative effects of aging and etc. so in other words what you said doesn’t really disprove my point. Where as no matter what a woman does her eggs will become obsolete and her reproductive organs will “shut down” and deteriorate rapidly. So that’s why I’m saying women do have a biological clock. An…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:32 AM
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From what I read and what people have said that are knoweledgable Men don’t have a time biological clock for sperm quality. It’s about health and genetics and fitness. Meaning that if a man is physically fit and in shape and healthy and takes care of himself. His sperm quality will be high regardless of age. But if he is not in shape not fit. Not taking care of himself. Then his sperm wuality compared to someone younger would be drastic. And also his personally sperm quality will decrease. In pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:18 AM

To simplify my golden rule that I’ll start implementing Tommorrow I’ll treat attractive/sexually attractive women like women. And I’ll treat everyone else like men I feel like that will help me in the long run. And will save me frustrations and headaches. Also save me from wasting time. And from giving my energy and attention and effort away for no reason. I also feel that when it comes to sexually attractive/attractive women. I should limit the effort/attentin/energy if it’s not leading to sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/25 09:02 AM

I don’t find men attractive or sexually attractive at all. Not any man. Not even myself Irl every year I probably see 2 or 3 bare minimum very sexually attractive women. This year. I saw one yesterday. One earlier this year at the gym. And one in a different city. I was too scared to approach 2 of them. And the 3rd one was married. As far as what is being said. The general consensus is that. When horny a man can have sex with a wide range of women. And so this is what men say or women say when t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/25 05:17 AM
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I kept trying to tell them. I just chose to write like that at the time. And I can choose to write differently. I have free will. And will power.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:53 AM
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Like 15 min +
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:51 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 08:50 AM
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I have to say this. So I saw a woman with like decent sized boobs at the gym. And like. Idk I froze. But like I’ve been practicing cold approaches over this year. So I had enough courage to walk in her direction. But I got scared and froze and ignored her and walked past her and just went to the bathroom. Failure. So I walked back and started my workout. While doing my work out I had an epiphany. My work out is split into 3 parts. I fully completed one part. And she was still in the same place. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/25 07:08 AM
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Hmmm. So how far does your acceptance of male sexuality extend. With the clarification that I’m not including actually having physical sex with another woman. You’re not mad or disgusted about if he hypothetically looked or checked other women out in public or etc. or followed attractive women on social media. Or etc etc? Adressing your claim that in this hypothetical your sex life is whatever you wanted it to be. But he also does all these male sexuality related things but it doesn’t include ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:43 PM
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You can hate your job. But still work because you need money. You can hate working out. But still want to do it because of all the benefits associated. You can hate the idea of sweets and all the sugars associated that could negatively affect your health but still crave them. It’s actually easy to see on different levels how you can hate something and still want it. Not really that hard to understand. If you wanted to understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:26 PM
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So if hypothetically you had a boyfriend. You wouldn’t care if they had porn on their phone. Pictures or videos of naked women. Nudes that were sent to them. Following of creators or just hot attractive women on social media. Etc etc? Pressing x to doubt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:23 PM
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That’s what’s funny. All these “women” (because who knows) if they supposedly are in relationships are have sexing with men. Who they claim don’t see women like this or aren’t sexual like this. But yet and still these men are fucking them and having sex with them. Which is funny because there’s literally no difference in the outcome. At the extreme end. Maybe these men are fucking them and experiencing porn irl. And the other men focusing on porn and being openly sexual aren’t. But in general th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:21 PM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:15 PM
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All “porn” is - is the sexualization of women. A woman half naked on Instagram is “porn”. Women at the beach in bikinis is “porn”. Women taking videos of bikinis and posting them on tiktok or onlyfans is “porn”. Women getting fucked by guys on camera is “porn” and so on and so forth. Porn is just a word to describe the medium where a male sexualizes a woman or is attracted to a woman. But usually now a days it’s used in reference to technology. Still looking at a woman’s ass irl. Is no different…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 10:15 PM
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Unless you are elderly. Out of shape. Or about give up on life completely. Giving up on women is a complete waste of time. Either you actually want to be homosexual. You are on drugs or looking for emotional highs. Or you will be constantly looking to complete and start new goals. Or you will dedicate yourself to an impossible task. Which is to say there is nothing in life that you can do that is actually “meaningful”. In the sense it will become a memory. In that sense that anything you can do …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/25 08:48 AM

Women are really nice to me irl. So why do I come on here and say what I say? Maybe it’s because I understand why women are being nice to me. Understanding how women are to other men. And having been in both positions. While also not being able to attract what I want. For reasons that are not personality and humanity reality. And are only attraction based reasons. Which doesn’t even necessarily have to do with looks. I’ll actually self reflect on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 06:15 PM

You won’t believe this. So I finished getting my hair done no homo. And I’m waiting for Lyft. And she is like getting to her car. And I froze. I didn’t want to approach her. Or walk up to the car. Or yell out. So I froze. And she actually did have decent sized boobs. Bro I’m vowing on this day to change my life. I think I should’ve learned everything there is to learn. If not. I’ll learn it all today. I’m literally a coward and not a man. Literally. Literally a bitch. Literally. I vow that this …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 05:05 PM

Hopefully. But obviously I have to change my life and my behavior patterns and etc. because I am not a woman. But I’m operating like they do. And I have to figure out how to be a man on my own. Fml
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:58 PM

I’m a bitch These two women walked past me to go do something. I saw them and said hi. They said hi back. I quickly looked away. Then they came back because they were going back where they came from. I was trying hard to ignore them so I was looking at my phone with my headphones in my ear. I looked up because they walked by me and I had a “sense” that I was being watched. I look up and one is looking up at it me wide eyed but smiling. And when we lock eyes she looks away. I say nothing. And fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/25 04:08 PM

I thought about that. But I’ve seen women who are obese with no boobs or curves. And that’s when I realized I actually am not attracted to fat women or thicc women I just like women with big boobs and curves. And if they weigh more or are thicc they still can be attractive as long as the boobs are bigger or they are more curvier it’s a ratio and proportions But I’m not actually attracted to weight or weight gain. But what I’m attracted to has weight associated in it and it’s genetic. Meaning eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:40 AM

I’m clearly not attractive if women with big boobs aren’t attracted to me. and my bestfriend isn’t choosing me. Just because skinny young conventionally attractive women with no curves like me and older women like me it doesn’t mean anything I’m not having the success I want. So there’s nothing to be jealous of. People irl tell me I’m attractive or I could get a girlfriend easily or x woman is checking me out or likes me. But the women I want don’t want me rn. So I can’t actually be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:35 AM

I don’t like fake or augmented body parts tbh. I’m all natural in my attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:32 AM

That makes sense. But any advice on how to be successful in this environment. With my stated goals and desired outcomes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:25 AM

A well to do women with a current year car who gave me 2k + in one month did it this year. Women have been offering me rides as a stranger like a couple times every year in different cities. Or offering me to visit. Idk it’s not economic. It’s just something that’s happened to me personally. Older women have even invited me to their house and I’ve met their family. Like idk. It happens. It’s not happening every day for me though. Just sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:23 AM

Men I have a question. Split into two parts. So women with big boobs are disinterested in me or already partnered or both. And this isn’t based on personality solely. Even when I’ve said nothing it leans towards this being the case. But young skinny conventionally attractive women are throwing themselves at me or showing overt interest. And this isn’t based on personality. Even when I’ve said nothing it leans towards this being the case. Quick examples of big boobed women. I tried talking to one…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:44 AM
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If you can’t fathom a way to exist without relying on emotions or feelings. That’s not my problem. You can’t understand what I’m saying. So there’s no way to communicate. Therefore there’s nothing left for me to say. I never was trying to change your mind or attempting to have you agree with me. So let this tree fall and stay fallen. I’m walking to another part of the Forrest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:36 AM
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Explain how you equate someone needing to be attracted or wanting or desiring someone is a feeling exclusively? Are you aware you can have attraction or see someone as attractive or want something without having an emotion or feeling attatched? Or is that impossible for you? The second point is not feelings. Having a logical framework and consistency in thought process has nothing to do with feelings. It’s rationality and conceptualism. Because it operates whether feelings are attatched or not W…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 08:09 PM
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All blue pill is emotionality and emotional framing. They mostly reject thinking and logic for their feelings. That’s basically all it is Red pill either adds intelligence or success strictly from the male self interest perspective or power into the equation. That’s why it’s mainly focused on having sex and attracting women. Than things like how to get a friend for example. But red pill is not an organized religion. People are just red pill when they reject feelings/emotions/randomness and luck.…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:39 PM
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They never understand this. Last year. I was frustrated at seeing this constantly. This year I understand why it happens and I don’t care anymore. Men have to fake it. Can’t say they like sex or want it. And can’t voice disagreeable thoughts or perspectives. It’s all fake which is why I was frustrated back then. But I understand it now. Women are just selecting for liars and manipulators and etc. At best they are selecting for men who will keep their true thoughts and opinions to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:25 PM
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Then you understand my thought process. I too was thinking of why I would even do this. And that came to my mind as well. She must be really sexually attractive. Otherwise there’s no other logical reason that doesn’t involve desperation or being forced to do it or Machiavellian reasons that have less to do with the relationship and more to do with outside factors and benefits So to adress your question. In theory the sexual attraction/attractiveness would just have to be raised to not even be ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:19 PM
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My response is that if a woman is going to have high/hard tests or high standards. Or ask me to perform or be legendary. She has to be hot/sexually attractive for me to want or feel it’s worth it to do it. My response is about a lot of things. But that’s the correction to what you are asserting I’m saying. It may sound the same. But what I’m saying is in theory I could be in a “relationship” with a woman I wasn’t attracted to. If the standards were super low or low effort or very beneficial to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:10 PM
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Being romantic is just a female coded word for the pursuer/initiator dynamic. And trying to win a woman’s affection. Or gain your attention. Or make her happy. Therefore romanticism is always relative in usage. But objective in concept. Meaning. Based on the concept. Men are by default the romantic ones. Because they have to be. Not necessarily because they want to be. And that addresses a lot of your response.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:00 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:56 PM

You didn’t read it. So everything you said was irrelevant to what I said or mean. And really is just a random statement that really means nothing in relation or context to what I wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:54 PM

Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:13 AM
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That was his premise that she was honest. So using his premise I gave my answer. It wasn’t based on how women are in real life. Which is why I outlined in my response I was doubtful but if it did exist then it wouldn’t be a bad thing. It would be good. But it would also be a miracle. Yes that’s the sole reason. Men are capable of x amount of traits the same as women. And yet I’m choosing a woman instead of a man. Me choosing a woman over a man. Is explicitly stating I only want to be with a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:45 AM
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I did write a lot that is true. A lot of things could be simplified to a couple words that is true too. But I was explaining the full thought process. Maybe I put too much effort into it? Ok so what? It’s not that she must be hot. It’s that if she’s going to want me to jump through hoops and put in a lot of effort or be a mythical figure or whatever. Yes she needs to be sexually attractive. Because that’s the only way I would want or desire or feel that it’s worth it to do all of that personally…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:35 AM
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If a woman was honest and always held to her word no matter what. And you could trust her to be consistent no matter what she felt. Then for me that would be abnormal. And either a miracle or a man in disguise. Or I guess a woman raised around men or father figures or something of the equivalent. If that did happen it wouldn’t be a negative. It wouldn’t be a problem. I just don’t understand what the waiting would be for. In my view. She would either be waiting to feel comfortable or waiting to s…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:13 AM

I’m not saying I’m going to treat them bad or disrespectful. I’m polite to men. Respectful to men. Etc etc. I just am not attracted to men. Don’t want to be around them. Don’t value them just for existing etc etc. but that doesn’t mean I’m treating them horrible or anything. I actually have a lot of male friends and a lot of female friends. It’s just this will bring me peace of mind and understanding. Because if I operate in this way. A lot of this resentment and emotional arguments and nonsense…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:01 AM

It’s dumb how?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 07:22 AM

Men answer this question and tell me if you agree. So I’ve been thinking. I honestly don’t care about unattractive women or elderly women or kids. But all these topics or frustrations or nonsense is usually coming from unattractive women or elderly women or kids. But if I’m not attracted to them and/or don’t even desire them why does it matter. When most of their opinions and thought process aren’t even logical reasonings and only emotional perspectives or opinions that rely on you caring about …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:30 AM
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Older women are literally less sexually attractive. Literally. Now men are human beings. And women are human beings. And if your overall point is older women can be your friend. Or have money. Or be kind. Or funny. Or energetic. Or whatever quality all human beings share. That is true. That has nothing to do with sexual attraction. If we take sexual attraction and isolate just for that. And ignor all the humanity qualities you attribute to elderly women which could apply to male or female. Then …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 06:20 AM
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Never said I’d do anything for them. Obsession just seems like a feeling or a point of view in context of how you are looking at it. I think of eating every day. Idk if that means that I’m obsessed with eating too. I think of taking a shower everyday. Wonder if you think that means I’m obsessed with showers too. I’ve already outlined all the things you can do. Like I said. If you are homosexual or emotional or just want to complete a goal/purpose for the sake of completing a goal/purpose. Go ahe…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 08:56 PM
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You don’t have to be attracted to women if you don’t want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 05:40 PM
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Your welcome
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:46 AM
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There are days maybe even months or years that I dont think about unattractive women or elderly women or kids But no. Almost every day I’m thinking about sexually attractive women. That’s not all I think about. But as long as I’m healthy and have virility and testesterone. My day won’t be complete and I won’t have ambition if that’s not included The days I don’t think about sexually attractive women. Are the days I don’t work out. I sleep all day. I don’t try. I give up. I do what I’m told. Etc …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 09:53 AM

By real do you mean “proffesional” or like organized competitions? If you mean that then a long time ago. If you mean like debates that are more loose in rules. Just the famous ones. Like Peterson vs somebody. Or x debate over x topic. Whether it’s abortion or whatever it could be
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:58 AM
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I am heterosexual. A true straight man has no reason to be around other men or want to be around other men. The only reasons are survival or benefits that you want or Machiavellian reasons. There is no straight reason to want to be around other men that is for the sole reason of another man exists and you want to be around them: Emotional reasons are slightly homosexual for wanting to be around men. So is intimacy or hugs or close contact or combat or etc etc. you wanting to be around another ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:39 AM

That’s a philosophical thought excercise. Intellectual minds always come up with examples or thought examples to prove a point or understand an idea
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:35 AM
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Bingo. Women think that because they have a relationship or have sex it’s an achievement. No it matters with who. It matters the quality. I’ve had sex and been in relationships with women I wasn’t attracted to. Because I didn’t want to be labeled a virgin at first. Then to try to experience love. Then to practice sex. A lot of philosophies people have is on doing things they’ve never done. Or having something rather than nothing. But there’s something that should be paramount above that. And tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 06:22 AM
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That’s moral framing. “Self respect” and “decent self esteem” is only reflecting how you see their actions and choices. It doesn’t reflect how they see their actions or choices. And it doesn’t reflect what their actions or choices are. And at the end of the day framing a situation a certain way. Doesn’t change what’s actually happening. So in that sense. The arguments proceeding from your statement won’t actually lead anywhere to anything meaningful. So tactically I’m making you aware of this wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:15 PM
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That’s why I added the disclaimer “if they are still straight”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:02 PM

Men were sexually repressed to. Men never got the sexually attractive women they wanted. Just because a woman is young doesn’t mean she’s sexually attractive. Having a woman that looks better than other women does not mean she’s sexually attractive. Men were in arranged marriages too. Men had to be with one woman too. People say men are attracted to a lot if women. No I personally think men can have sex ur be in a relationship with a lot of women. I don’t equate it to attraction though. I even s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 09:00 PM
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Ok. I’m not going to get emotional with you or attack you. So are we done here with this conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:49 PM
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Younger women are sexually attractive that’s the main reason all men in general like younger women An older women can never replicate or attain the same level of glowing or beauty as a younger woman. The only older women I’ve ever been attracted to had nothing to do with their face. It was their body. They had huge boobs. Or big ass or both and their figure was aesthetically or hourglass shape or hip to waist ratio. Idk how it works but not even make up can save an older person from deterioratin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:48 PM
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First of all this sounds like female or feminist propaganda. Men will be happy with sexual access to women they are sexually attracted to. They will be able to secure and protect their happiness. If they think and are intellectual and do NOT focus on love or emotions. Being around attractive women makes you feel happier and motivated and etc. having sex with attractive women reinforced everything and gives you purpose and will power and etc. Not trying to have sex with women or be around women. …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:35 PM
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Women in my experience hate or complain about men. Either because they’ve been hurt or gone through trauma or have had bad things happen to them. Or what they’ve heard or seen or have secon hand experience of men doing. Either way if they are still straight or if they are around men. Pushing docile and passive men away. Only invites men who are agressive and reject boundaries. These are the only men who will approach or befriend or interact with them. Not to say every man that takes risks or cro…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:29 PM
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They are saying the same thing. The second version is vague. And never directly says what the first one says. It hints to it. But is ambiguous and as you say could apply to any gender to where someone who is sensitive and emotional wouldn’t take it the wrong way. It also virtue signals and uses political correctness language. To make it seem like it’s uplifting women instead of disrespecting them. Classic double speak
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:21 PM
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Odd. Doesn’t mean not true. In this context it means something you don’t agree with. Or something you don’t want to hear. Or something uncommon to say. It’s female shaming language. Socially ostracize or shame an individual. Except I’m not trying to be anybodies friend here. I’m not trying to be liked here. And I’m not trying to appeal to you or anybody. So what you feel about me personally is irrelevant. I made a statement. Either it’s true or not. Your feelings don’t matter. Irl. I see couples…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:19 PM
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That’s what every man would say. Maybe minus the sex doll. Until reality sets in. And then they pair up. I’m just talking about what I see irl. Some men actually get what they want. Majority don’t. But they make it work. That’s my observation. Plus what I hear them say to me about their relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 08:14 PM
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Any “attractive” man. That can attract the hottest women of all ages. That has a high sex drive. And is intelligent. Will always go for attractive younger women. Over “attractive” older women for their age. Where it gets murky. Is that a man does not have the luxury of being able to choose the hottest women. Or women they are 100% attracted to. So they will settle. When a man settles. It’s no longer about 100% logic or reasoning. This is where emotions and compatibility and social acceptance and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 04:28 AM

But I still heard what they said. I still “listened”. I don’t have to agree or disagree or take it to heart. I can just move forward and focus on what’s important. I don’t have to argue or address everything. And I don’t have to make a woman mad. I can choose not to create problems. That comes with wisdom and understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:42 AM

In my experience this does not go well. To share certain male perspective experiences that contrast with female experiences. But to each his own I guess. I don’t see how that ends well. Unless that’s one of your close friends or a woman who genuinely likes you. Anything less than that. And your walking on rocks so to speak. For you my advice would be to be more purposeful. Because conversating with women like that in general. Just off the principle of your approach doesn’t seem that wise. The on…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:40 AM

I think it’s more important that you say what you mean. Because we’ve established that I actually do listen to women. As in I hear what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:34 AM

But that put you at a weaker position. Also it makes it seem like you’re looking for sympathy. And it also pressures her to look at her situation as if it’s a good problem to have. Talking to women is like chess. Your moves have effects that are immediate and long term and consequences and rewards that could be immidiate or down the line For instance what is your point of telling her that. What do you expect her to say? Why do you want her to remember that about you? That you don’t get matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:29 AM

Wdym. What does listening mean to you? It’s clear I heard what they said. If I was able to reiterate it to the sub in writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:26 AM

That’s not really disagreeing. That’s more akin to saying yea women have it hard. Or I know other women that say the same thing. Your not saying it’s good or bad. You’re not saying it’s easier or harder. Etc etc. it’s a very political response. And I would encourage you to keep being safe in that way. I still don’t agree with women all the time. I just don’t argue or disagree as much. It’s nuanced. You laugh. Or make a joke. Or remain silent. I still haven’t reached the point of agreeableness. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:25 AM

That it’s bad to have a lot of matches. I’ve been in plenty of situations where I had a lot of choices and not enough time or money or energy or etc. and I formulated a plan and etc. it really shows that x : you don’t really care or are not attracted to men or don’t really want a relationship or sex or etc. or y : it shows you are not capable of processing or sifting through alot of choices or information or are unable to handle a lot of power/options/choices. But at the end of the day to argue …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:21 AM

You understand
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:13 AM

Women are human beings. And men are human beings. And both make up humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 08:13 AM
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I’ve never been attracted to a celebrity or someone high status. It’s funny that women can be attracted to it or look for it. I’ve been independent and on my own. So to look for someone who has money. It sounds like you’d have to be a leach or an opportunist or Machiavellian. And I don’t understand how status would matter. Unless once again you are Machiavellian or an opportunist or into social hierarchies or etc. I just want to be with someone I’m attracted to. Status or money literally doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:18 AM
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Women don’t want to have sex with virgins in the majority of cases. Women don’t want to have sex with men you have no sexual experience or experience with women. Women’s biggest insults to men are their lack of access to sex with women. Their lack of ability to attract women. And their lack of sexual frequency or aptitude. Therefore women are reinforcing that they prefer or want a promiscuous man on average Where as men focus more on beauty and lack of sexual history. And don’t value experience …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:16 AM
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I don’t even think women are attracted to men the same way men are attracted to women I’ve asked women if they saw the most attractive man in the world would they approach or etc. and they all said no. And all that means to me is they aren’t actually attracted to men. Like men are attracted to women. With that understanding. Anything else falls in line adds to this. So whose to say if it’s low libido. Or just not enough attraction. I knew a woman who said she masturbated everyday. But she was no…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:01 AM
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How is this a debate? You are venting. This isn’t formatted as a debate post. You are giving advice and telling your life story. I’m not understanding the point of this post?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:51 AM

I think I realized 50% of the reason I’m on this sub. I can say the truth & I can speak my mind and I don’t have to agree with everything a woman says. Irl I don’t argue with women. They say whatever they want to say. And I just ignore it. Or I’m silent. Or I make a joke about it. Like a woman told me she got on a dating app for one day. And got soo many matches and texts that she was overwhelmed so she turned it off To that I just laughed and moved on to a different topic Here I would’ve had a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:49 AM
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I’m curious what do you have to say about all these supposed “women” who are in relationships or married or having casual sex. Does the same logic apply? Are they not “killing” it either because they are on this sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:41 AM
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You can’t tell women how you feel irl That’s just common sense. For one women behave emotionally and will tune you out. They will try to socially ostracize you and tell other women what you just said to turn them against you. Will attack your character. And it doesn’t matter if what you said is true or not Women are pampered and their ideas and perspectives are socially enforced and positively reinforced. Nobody disagrees with women in public. The most I see or do. Men make jokes about what wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:35 AM
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Women are very emotional and sensitive. So it depends on how you say anything. They literally will overlook the message or truth if it’s not packaged correctly. It’s stupid. That’s why there’s no point in arguing with them. Vs Being disrespectful is uncalled for. Women deserve respect and will not engage in conversations where they are insulted or disrespected regardless of what you have to say. It’s better to be mindful of your words if you want a woman to engage with your conversation. Otherwi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:24 AM
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Bingo
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:20 AM

One thing I learned is successful men feel like inc*ls about women. Because the truth is the truth. But only emotional or angry or etc men are going to tell the truth to a woman. To her face or online or through a third party Small benign example. Let’s say there’s a fat lady in the world. A man whose married most likely won’t call that woman fat. Even though she is. A man fucking a lot of women most likely won’t call that woman fat even though she is. A man that has a lot of women desiring him …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 09:01 PM

That’s all I’m going to talk about on here. Because this sub is about sexual dynamics and relationships Women are human beings. But men are human beings too. So anything that’s mutual I don’t ascribe to femininity or women. It’s just general humanity. When it comes to women. I only really find boobs attractive. So you would be led to believe that I’m boob obsessed. But if we are talking about women specific or femininity exclusive things. That’s one of things I might mention the most. Because of…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 06:39 AM

Who started the trend of women weighing their boobs on a scale. And what hashtags do I look for. Or can people send me links to people who are doing. It’s informational and it’s art So far I’ve seen 4. One said like 16 pounds. One said 24 pounds. And the rest were in between. But it helps with my understanding. Maybe you have to be chubby or thicc to have huge boobs. As it is objectively weighted. Or maybe you can actually be relatively skinny with huge boobs. And the added weight only goes to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 05:59 AM
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You are understanding what I’ve been saying for a while now. That’s why I say I’m here to manage or understand or get rid of my emotions. That’s also why I’ve said this is a female oriented sub reddit. That pushes and reinforces their perspective. The “debating” is just a way for their side to vent their emotions. And everyone else either emotionally vents back. Or tries to debate with reason or logic which will never be acknowledged or even properly debated. It will just be responded back to wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:23 PM

Thanks for the info. It’s a shame. This place is only an emotional place to vent for men. It actually serves no other purpose than that from the male perspective. Where as this is really a female oriented space where their perspective is reinforced and centered and takes the high ground in every situation. In a sense for a man being here will never take you to the next level. This isn’t even nuetral. Female oriented posts stay. Male shaming/bashing stays. Almost every post on here is looks based…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 07:49 PM

Thank you for the info
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:49 PM

So there’s nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:08 PM
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Wdym
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:45 PM

Can men please tell me male spaces on reddit. Like this but male oriented or focused. This isn’t a nuetral place. And I know why I’m personally here. And it’s not for the reasons that I want to know about where the male spaces are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:42 PM
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I’m saying you can have friends without being in a relationship with them. I’m implying that even if you are in a relationship you or your partner will have friends. Your partner can be your friend or not be your friend. To look solely for a friend when you can find friends without involving sex is kind of not smart imo. I’m not saying friendship is bad or unimportant. But to act like a big component of finding a relationship is to find a friend. Doesn’t make sense. When you can find friends wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 04:33 PM
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Knowing other women are having sex doesn’t make me happy or excited period. If my sister is having sex. That’s not going to delight me no matter the reasons or benifits. It’s something that happens. It’s not necessarily bad it happens. It’s not something for me as a man to be happy about. Which is why your comparison makes no sense. My mom had to have sex for me to be alive. Am I happy that she has sex with men? Like think about what you are saying. Nobody is really going to strongly approve of …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:33 AM
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Let’s push back on things I know are 100% not true You can bond with anyone of any age. I’ve bonded with people older than me before for example. To bond is more about willingness and want and vibing and energy than anything else. The same thing with friendship. I’ve been friends with people older than me and younger. It correlates to the same traits as bonding To address other claims. Wanting to be in a relationship because someone could contribute financially doesn’t make much sense to me. As …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 08:24 AM
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Wrong how? Predator how? What does life experience have to do with anything. I’m just trying to understand you. What does life experience have to do with a relationship or why you should get in a relationship. So you only look for a relationship because you want someone’s life experience? lol. And how are you manipulating or taking advantage of someone? To better understand. I just want you to clarify and restate your position in an explanative way. Rather than saying catch phrases
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:26 AM
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Well then she should leave. Nothing lasts forever. Idk why a man would be concerned if a woman is a caretaker or not. A man who needs a caretaker. Isn’t in a position to choose who his partner is. Idk why people conflate a relationship with friendship. They are not the same thing. To choose a relationship because you want a friendship and a caretaker is crazy. (Not calling you crazy it’s slang or a way of talking)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 06:24 AM
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So then she should leave? Why would someone choose a relationship based on if a woman could be a potential care taker or not? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:57 AM
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Why is your basis of a relationship. Being able to hang out with your partners friends? And what society or other people think about your situation? Are other people having sex for you? Are they feeding you and holding your hand through life and there for you no matter what? Why does it matter what other people think when you are living your own life? Why is your basis of a relationship about people being interesting because they are older. Or being able to stand on their feet? Seems very arbitr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:56 AM
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The reason is they don’t want to be in a relationship. But they could if they wanted to. So either they have super high standards. Or are not really attracted to men. Or are trying to achieve a hive mind desirable man that may or may not exist. Or they actually don’t know what they want. Or hate men. Or etc etc For an attractive woman to be single. It’s not rocket science. She wants to be. Or no man wants her. Both could be the case or either one. It’s more likely since she’s attractive. And if …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:52 AM
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The average slob isn’t likely to be in a relationship they want to be with. Or be with an attractive woman in the first place. Or be wantable or desirable in the first place. I actually don’t see your point. If a man is going to settle or choose a relationship over being alone. ATP it doesn’t matter what the woman is or looks like or how old she is because they are settling. They are more focused on having a relationship. In that case they have no ability to be discerning or to care about how at…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:47 AM
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All women use men for something. If it’s not security and stability. It’s attraction. Or sex. Or love or friendship or money or etc. rarely will a woman be with a man for no reason. And be with a man obtaining nothing and no benefits from said situation. So you actually don’t have a point. My job uses my labor and I get money out of it. If an attractive woman is using me and I get what I desire out of the situation I’m fine with the outcome. Nothing lasts forever and no one is entitled to anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:43 AM
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The same guy who has sex with a woman. Would be mad if another man has sex with that woman The same guy who has sex with someone else’s friend would be displeased or not excited if someone was having sex with their friend The same man who is having sex with someone else’s mother. Would be infuriated if a man was having sex with his mother I don’t see your point. Because when is a man supposed to be excited that another man is fucking any woman. Why would a man positively care about it in any sit…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:40 AM
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I disagree full heartedly A man should be with a younger woman for a multitude of reasons. Your sexual attraction will last longer. You’ll put more effort into mainting or extending/rejuvenating/working on the relationship. You’ll be happier/more motivated. Your interest in her desire wise and sexually and want wise will last longer. You’ll be forced to have value or to have a reason to be wantable or desirable or to work hard to maintain yourself or remain competitive. You’ll feel like everythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 05:35 AM
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I had a woman this year pay for everything everytime. Send me money. Buy me presents and give me things without asking. Let me have sex on the first day meeting her. And have sex basically everytime we saw each other. It didn’t work out because women are emotional and I had left the city. So when I enviably said something to make her mad. She just blocked me. She unblocked me recently. So the story may or may not continue But tbh. I’m not a woman. Her paying for me or for anything doesn’t really…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:37 PM
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u/eulenwatcher This one isn’t looks based. Is formatted correctly. And breaks no rules. What’s the reason now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/25 12:22 AM
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That’s how most women act towards male sexuality If you express or are upfront with your sexual desires. Make it known that you are attracted to physical aspects of the female body. Etc etc. basically acknoweledge male sexuality. You’ve literally turned off a majority of women. And even more sexually open women and promiscuous women do not like it being acknowledged a lot out loud. It’s just one of those things. And instead of being open or trying to reason and appeal like I was doing in the pas…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:39 AM

There could be a million explanations in theory. So to say someone is right or wrong based on pure speculation when both outcomes could be true is not wise Personally I’ve witnessed women call other men cute in my presence. AND NOT GO UP TO THEM OR PURSUE THEM OR INITIATE. When questioning them why. They give all types of reasons. Which all boils down to they don’t chase men or it’s embarrassing or men are supposed to approach. What you are failing to acknowledge is for any interaction that enta…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 11:11 AM

u/wtknight Are you still a mod. As a man. No matter what you emotional feel about me. If you are using logic and reason. My post should be allowed. As I’m not breaking any rules. And as my post actually has content in it. As a mod I don’t think it should be reduced to some type of game of thrones emotional charade. Also yes in the past I was rebellious and I didn’t want to change my writing style. For emotional reasons. But logically. You don’t speak Spanish to someone who only understands Swahi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:46 AM

I’m shadowbanned so that’s my post. I’m petitioning for mods to stop being emotional and be actual mods. And actually let my post be presented. So I can debate with other people who I’m interested in hearing their critiques or thoughts. I haven’t broke any rules. And my post should be accepted. If we are using logic and reason. Emotional games are for children
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:35 AM

Essentially the more attractive a woman is. The less likely it is that she will shoot her shot. Or approach men. Or act in desperate ways to secure sex or a relationship This then facilitates her reaching ultimate passivity. And these are where the quotes such as “focus on yourself and the right one will find you”. Or “love will find you when your not looking for it” or etc etc. these are all quotes of passivity. Of being able to attract. Of being in the mode of selectivity when you are wanted. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 10:33 AM
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I understand what you mean completely We spend all this time trying to appeal to women. To have them understand us. When what only happens is we end up suppressing or denying anything that women don’t want. Which only reinforces suppression and lying and hiding anything that’s in opposition to female fantasy or self interest Quick example. Every women that swears her man is different. Or etc. is still a woman getting fucked by said man. So in other for that man to get to that stage/level/access.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:37 AM
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It just shows I don’t care anymore. So I can act “normal” because I’m losing the interest to debate or expose lies or tell truths regardless of how people feel. Therefore I don’t have the energy or creativity or will to do rebellious things or artistic things atm.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 05:05 PM
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Basically I had an intense desire to be able to proclaim and explain and find the truth. And a desire/need to be able to expose lies. And to be able to say what is true. Regardless of how someone feels or etc. But the real question is why is that important to me. And to what end does that serve. For example I can tell a fat person they are fat. I can tell an unattractive person they are unattractive. And I can call a liar a liar. But what is the actual point of doing it. Why is it a desire of mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 04:56 PM
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So is the answer that you would not be with a man whether sexually or relationshipally that spent 0$ on you or provide 0% financially or in forms of financial stability? I’m trying to stay on topic. This is the subject that is of interest If your answer is no. Then by your own logic. You are not choosing to be in consensual relationships. As you “wouldn’t be there for free”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:35 AM
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All you did was avoid answering the question I posed Which could only lead me to believe. That you in fact won’t be with or have sex with a man that spends 0$ on you and provides 0% financial stability or resources to you ever in their life as far as your interactions with them go But that’s my assumption. As you didn’t answer the question. And “quoted” things that were never said. And attempted to change the subject and talk and switch the topic to something you feel you have an advantage debat…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 06:25 AM
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So every guy you deal with is homeless and spends 0$ on you and provides zero financial benefit to you in your life? And you don’t select for any wealth or resources or financial stability indicators or anything relevant or parallel to that genre? If your answer is that you in fact don’t date or sleep with homeless men who provide 0$ or spend 0$ on you and don’t financially benefit you in anyway Then by your logic none of your relationships or sex or future sex or relationships are consensual As…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 05:27 AM
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Honestly I just want to have sex everyday or whenever I want A woman committed to being or looking or etc sexually attractive Her consensually/willingly/etc allowing this to happen Everything else I’ll just do for her benefit. Be her best friend, emotionally support her, entertain her, provide/spoil for her, be around her constantly, put effort into her, initiate/take risks/be spontaneous, etc etc I really don’t need these things nor are they fulfilling A quick example. When I was in that one ci…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:48 AM
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It’s real
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:31 AM
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Well I mean if we have to be specific. Then fine. If we have to be in law school every debate I’m attracted to fully developed women. That look like adult women. With curves. That is above the legal age. Is that ok? Is that specific enough? Do I need to specify more? Yea maybe I meant to say post pubescent. I don’t really know the difference between post prepubescent and post pubescent. Tbh I thought it meant the same thing. The point was to say basically in a biological way. No children and no …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:27 AM
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Based on this sub. I think most men here like women with no curves or minimal curves Ik the opposite. So even if every man on this sub disagrees. This is what I’m attracted to. And what I’m interested in. I’m definitely not trying to change your or anyone’s mind. Or entrapt anybody or influence anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:13 AM
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I’m not attracted to skinny women I’m attracted to women with curves. In a proportional ratio to their height and body mass
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 08:58 AM

Hmmm So to you it’s just codeword for relative competition and attraction based on that. In a social context?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:23 AM

I don’t understand the obsession women have with personality and compatibility Are you going to get fucked by a guy because he’s a good person? Lmao. Because he makes u laugh? Because he’s interesing? lol People skillls and social skills are just optimal ways to communicate. Idk what that has to do with sex or sexual attraction though I could never select based on that. I’d be stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:11 AM

<image> I’m ngl. Idc if everyone thinks women like this are fat and ugly/unnattractive This is what I want. I would marry a woman like this. Negl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:09 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:08 AM
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<image> I would smash. I don’t need a woman to be super pretty or etc. I’m super sexually attracted to the simple things in life. Ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 12:07 AM
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I won’t like every single woman with those baseline criteria. Only because there’s other specific things I look for. That still isn’t controlled by personal action. But it’s irrelevant in me just giving baseline examples Also the use of words is just to be scientific. I.e as plain and bland as possible. Also saying you want a fully developed woman that’s biologically not a child and can have off spring is “icky” Ok Who said anything about a specific weight? You are adding arguments not being mad…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 11:49 PM
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You’re wrong I’m literally attracted to women with huge boobs There’s nothing they did to attain that I’m attracted to genetic/biological women. Who are born women from birth. Whose chromosomes don’t include a Y chromosome There’s nothing they did to attain that I’m attracted to women post prebuscent and pre menopause There’s nothing they personally did to attain that So no. Women are actually blessed with beauty in their existence. The only women not blessed are the women who make their whole b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 09:56 PM
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I confused you with the other one that always tends to say how childlessness is the better option for society and etc and that always proclaims that they are 40-50 + If what I said misrepresented you then I apologize If you do have children. Then your perspective has some value. As you have contributed to the existence of future society. Even if your views may or may not help with the optimal or functional existence of said society.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 09:49 PM
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I’m going to disagree. Women seem to not want sex everyday multiple times a day Women seem to not want to be constantly ogled or groped or viewed sexually Women seem to not want to always talk about sex Women seem to not want to always initiate sex or to be the performer for a passive male all the time Etc etc Just because a woman can get horny. And just because a woman can want sex. And just because a woman may have sexual needs temporarily Does not justify trying to create an equivalence It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 08:01 PM
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I’m not neurodivergent I just disagree with people. Which includes women. Because I’m disagreeable. And stubborn. And I have pride and refuse to kiss someone’s ass. And because of being lied to by people. Which includes women. I have a need to tell the truth or be honest at all times. Because I despise liars. Therefore I came to this place to be able to do what I can’t really do irl. Argue and disagree. And be brutally honest I write this way in this sub because of a host of factors from rebelli…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:45 PM

Says the elderly woman with no children
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:27 PM
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Answer this simple question Can you choose to walk? Can you choose what direction to go? Can you make a choice out of 10 or more possible choices? Etc etc Let’s spin this around and rephrase it You are not offering any true counter points for your position You are essentially agreeing with yourself and saying that their is no choice There’s no real world examples you’ve given. No true evidence. And tbh it sounds silly Because 100% you’ve made a lot of mini choices today And that’s where we will …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:42 AM
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Because you saw me write this way You chose to mimic me. Yet you didn’t have to You can only choose from the choices that are available. Yet out of those choices you can still choose Once an action is made you can look back and say that action would always be done But that’s shortsighted. That’s looking at a finished model with no change or motion or progress present And you don’t even believe that You could jump off a cliff anytime. Yet you won’t because your not stupid and you choose not to. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:25 AM

This is seperated in two parts Some men enjoy a woman’s fantasy Meaning they are with women they want who want them because they fulfill the woman’s fantasy. Meaning the relationship or etc is not set up in a way where they are getting what they want or having their way or being able to do what they want Sure they are having sex with attractive women. Sure. And I’m sure that is fulfilling. But still the distinction is nuanced. Men don’t usually get their way or get what they want from women in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:20 AM
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Let’s take baby steps of evidence You can choose to respond to me or not respond to me Those are options you have. You can choose either or and you have that ability. Therefore you have agency. As each choice is your decision Then we can further extend to how you write. You can write traditionally. Or your own way. Write in English or write in another language. These are all choices you could make and you don’t have to make any of them. You can choose what to do We can do other little examples. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 03:09 AM
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I disagree We have free will and the ability to make choices We can rebel against the “right” thing to do. We can also choose to do nothing. In this way whatever is possible that can be done. We can make that choice. Therefore there is agency. Therefore there is a choice Now if you want to be technical and say you can only do what your able to. And only because of chemicals and energy and etc you exist. And only because of the laws/formula of gravity and etc you move. That is true Yet that also …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/25 02:54 AM
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I can’t deny that Also burning desire isn’t guaranteed to have a woman do what you want or be what you want or let you do what you want A woman’s burning desire could also be wanting you because you fulfill her fantasy and do what she wants or became what she wants or lets her do what she wants And some women may only do what a man wants or becomes what a man wants or lets a man do what he wants because of money/resources etc That’s a fair point I’m still self reflecting on it. Because relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 06:12 PM
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Here’s where we get into the weeds on this topic. And you sparked an epiphany and inspired a new thought that was crystallized with this post. Most of men’s pursuits is being with a woman that is doing what she wants. The whole journey is being the man she wants. Being happy with the relationship she wants. Having the personality she wants and etc etc. So the dynamics are never in a way where a woman has to beg or pay/do deals or etc for what she wants. At least in this era men are vying to be w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 05:45 PM
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“Here's the thing: virtue is NOT its own reward, consequences DO matter, good intentions do NOT necessarily make everything automatically and entirely okay, and morality is NOT just a matter of feeling the right things or thinking the right way.” Mainly this part “And that's merely if we keep the discussion strictly confined to matters of ethical correctness. When we introduce notions of functionalism and public morality into the equation - how to make more people act according to a specific eth…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:49 PM
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“Here's the thing: virtue is NOT its own reward, consequences DO matter, good intentions do NOT necessarily make everything automatically and entirely okay, and morality is NOT just a matter of feeling the right things or thinking the right way.” Mainly this part “And that's merely if we keep the discussion strictly confined to matters of ethical correctness. When we introduce notions of functionalism and public morality into the equation - how to make more people act according to a specific eth…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:48 PM
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You can say these things but he can’t. Because for him to say what he says you or another woman has to either agree or say it first Meaning him by himself can not speak and claim to know what you feel or experience or think as he has no personal way to verify or experience exactly what you feel as a woman I also can’t invalidate your thoughts or desires or etc as being real or fake or anything I could attack the thought process or etc. But I can’t say it’s not what you really think and I also ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:27 PM
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That does not answer how you can speak for women and what they think Sure you can speak for homosexual men since you are one. You can also give that perspective. That’s comparing apples to apples. Unless you think women and men are the same in this aspect. But if men and women are different. Than you can either only assume personally. Or listen to women and assume that applies to all or a majority. But baseline without you actually being a woman. And this not being verifiable as it’s a personal …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:05 PM
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Can you fully expound on this please
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:56 AM
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Are you a woman? If you are not a woman how do you know this? It would have to be obviously because you’ve been told this or read this somewhere Then the question is begged to be answered whether you think this applies to all women who enjoy this type of content? If not would you say it applies to a majority of women who enjoy this content? If not then what is the point of you taking a position on something you cannot actually know 100% or even experience to test your theory but then present it …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 11:42 AM
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1st there’s nothing wrong with watching porn because if we break it down. The act of lusting for women is porn. Finding a woman sexually attractive is porn. Wanting to see a woman in a bikini is porn. In this way you are just literally attacking male sex drive and reframing it as being about a single instance of porn. Where if we peel back the layers it would encompass more than two people fucking on camera. 2nd plays into the first. Telling men not to have sex with willing consensual attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 02:12 AM
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And this is the way you have to respond to them With logic and reason and etc Don’t respond emotion for emotion Stay the course I want to read you defend your point against all that challenge and point out flaws Because I’m trying to understand the overall point of your post If it’s just about this topic or about something deeper And I’m not quite sure rn. But I’m sure it will be revealed in your responses where you have to defend your topic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 01:40 AM

Rate their attractiveness level As in not in your opinion But relative to the opinion of the one making the decision Meaning are these other women not sexually attractive? That’s all I need to know to make my decision
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:42 AM

Never put your life in the hands of someone emotional You can never trust there word There word and loyalty and etc depends on how they feel That’s the main reason you can’t trust women and can’t take anything they seriously They can feel differently Tommorrow Even “women” on this sub say this as well And reframe it as it’s bad to be held to your word or to do things you no longer feel like doing or etc Which boils down to not to trust them because if their feelings change so will their word and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/25 12:38 AM
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If a younger man can have sex with an older woman and doesn’t have to be sexually exclusive or have an emotional connection or put in extra effort Then yea I guess it is ok to do that But to treat an older woman like a younger woman is stupid imo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 08:02 PM
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Yea but they are usually going to ask for sexual exclusivity and emotional connection eventually Like it’s going to be the same thing as with any other woman. If it was you didn’t have to have sexual exclusivity then it might be worth it The emotional connection part means you have to try at the very least but for what and at what cost is the question to ask for why it’s even worth it Like to do all of this for an older woman you just met is stupid tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 05:02 PM
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Yea it’s not like women become more easy emotionally. They may put out easier. But the exclusivity seems to be constant. And the emotional connection seems to be constant. So I think that’s why it’s always men who aren’t thinking that are younger that do it. The men who don’t understand commitment and lead with emotions. And that’s why those situations never usually last.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 11:52 AM
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It’s not worth it Because they will want emotional connection and sexual exclusivity If not initially then eventually And for what There’s no potential children available and they are already old If a man is smart he will understand that that’s a temporary journey only But it’s not worth it IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 10:45 AM
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That’s true too I notice I laugh with women if I’m attracted or we are friends or they are nice to me It’s rarely because they are funny That’s an interesting observation When it’s a woman that I’m not attracted to or is not my friend or is not being nice to me. I do not laugh Also if a man tries to be funny and he’s not. I’m less likely to laugh even if he’s my friend or being nice or etc I’m more likely to stone face a man making a joke than a woman That’s interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 03:00 AM
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True statements You have to assume most women online that don’t show what they look like are unattractive or older Otherwise they would not be here. They could get attention or argue elsewhere You have to assume the guys here either get no women or like to argue or just want to kiss women’s asses by appearing to always be on there side It’s very clear that’s the most accurate generalization
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 02:55 AM

Idk bro. It’s either or But I already know behind the scenes I’m already partially shadow banned here So that’s why I assumed they just made it a full shadow ban
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 12:37 AM

Yea idek bro But I’ll keep my eyes open and let it go this time. But there is a bias against me. But I was wrong. I’ll take it back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 10:20 PM

u/GreatSmashplayer You might be right. Because I see your comment in my notifications but it doesn’t show up in the sub. I even manually scrolled down and I don’t see your comment and that’s what happened to me too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:49 PM

Hmmm. If I’m wrong I apologize but behind the scenes something was explained to me. And I commented on a post and it didn’t show up. So I assumed. And if I’m wrong I’ll accept that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:47 PM

I think I’ve been banned from commenting. Also I know for a fact I’ve already been banned from post commenting But it’s fine I’ve done nothing wrong other than not agree with people. And be in direct opposition if those in power positions and the majority Which shouldn’t matter in a debate sub operating in good faith But such is life Everyone abuses power. Everyone is capable of being emotional and vindictive But at the same time I’m like in a psuedo relationship now. And I already learned a lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:18 PM
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Not having to rely on emotions Not having to find value in being weak Not having to have this desire for people to like me or make me feel a certain way Being able to value logic over emotion Being able to have more energy and be more aggressive and more direct Having a high libido Etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 09:11 PM
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I let them think I am because it doesn’t matter at all when it comes to debates The truth is the truth no matter who the messenger is It only matters if you have a point or if you make logical sense or have logical consistency or not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:12 PM
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Choice. Free will. Rebelliousness. And a host of other reasons. Such as formatting. Creativity. Clarity. Etc etc Why do you write the way you do? Because you were taught to and you accepted it and then the majority does it and etc I only write like this on this sub though It’s tailor made for a debating style I wouldn’t type to a girl I was interested like this Or a manager I was trying to be hired or etc The writing fits the scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 06:05 PM

I don’t really think it’s a crisis I think everything’s going as it should So far I don’t see anything wrong And I think everything’s happening will benefit men in the long run It may be hard to see that in this exact moment But if you understand a little bit about this subject then you’ll understand that this is probably one of the best times to be alive as a man And possibly could be a potential golden era You just have to reframe your focus and perspectives And see the positives
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:19 PM
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The only difference is how you feel about it I’m getting straight to the point and being blunt Like I’m not trying to be your friend. This isn’t about how you feel. I’m not sexualizing you or disrespecting you I’m just getting straight to the point and speaking on topic that’s all You have to grow up one day. Or just never talk about sex and stay off all nsfw topics Because I never made any sexual comments directed toward you or included you in any references related to me or tried to flirt with…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 05:11 PM
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I can defend myself if I want to I can say the truth if I want to Just because you think something doesn’t make it true You are not the arbiter of truth And your thoughts hold no relevance to if something happens or not
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 04:05 PM
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If you’re not going to read it don’t respond. I’m really trying to have a serious discussion about something. That’s deeper than just sex. I’m not going to read what you wrote either. So let’s just leave it here. You’re not going to hear me. Then I won’t hear you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:54 PM
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That makes sense My last question if you could only compare the man you were with that orgasms happened with that took care and time And compared that to the orgasms that happened with the other men of various lower sizes Using only good experiences as a frame of reference Would you still not prefer well endowed male sexual organs Or would it not matter Or would you still have a preference The point of the question being is only negative experiences shaping your statements or preferences Or is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:53 PM
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It’s real life I’ve already posted screen shots I’m dealing with this woman irl Who sent me money. Who I have her phone # Who I’ve kissed and fucked and went on dates with irl The fact that you don’t know me or my experiences or anything but confidently call me a liar Just makes you seem unintellectual and logically unaware But believe what you want I don’t have a reason to lie to someone I don’t know and doesn’t matter at all to me in any way shape or form
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/25 03:43 PM
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