| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 194 | Nayyirah Waheed's poetry speaks directly to my soul. | afroteacherism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 03:11 PM | |
| 3 | She has spoken. | QUEEN SH*T | afroteacherism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 08:59 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 127 | I’m crying y’allLmao so frigging accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 01:34 PM |
| 53 | Guys who persue you but don't give a sh*t about your interestsI take this as a sign of a guy who just wants to fuck. I've come across this a lot, and recently ghosted someone because of it. The conversations were dealthy boring, repetitive and he never asked me any kind of interesting question about me. It was like he was texting me to lay groundwork to sleep with me. Nah. Just lessen your replies and don't keep the conversation going, let them fade. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 05:19 AM |
| 15 | This gave me a good chuckleLmao my ex said he was 5 '10. This guy stared me in the eyes when we kissed. I'm 5' 5 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 10:21 AM |
| 27 | Spoiling me too much?I know someone like this, constantly giving and generous and kind. I was suspicious of it at first, but some people are like that. This isn't a red flag unless it's things that are super inappropriate and over familiar, offering to order you some food is just a nice thing to do, I do it for friends. Are there any other red flags? Combined with certain other things it may be a sign of love bombing but I wouldn't consider it to be on its own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 10:14 AM |
| 2 | She has spoken.Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 09:00 AM |
| 9 | Would you go on a first date if you didn’t have a spark?If you had a good time, and you feel excited to see him again, go ahead and go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 04:34 PM |
| 13 | If you agree to have a casual sexual relationship with a man, he will NEVER see you more than a sex partner. No matter how "cute" or "romantic" he seems to be. When he gets tired of you, he'll discard you ASAP. His feelings will NEVER change.Everything you said, i identify deeply with. I literally just went through this, for the second time. I am not gonna keep seeing someone I don't find attractive and whose personality i dislike, so of course naturally if I am seeing someone regularly, emotions will develop! I can't compartmentalise the way men do, like the OP says they put sex in one drawer and love in another. Fucking depressing but luckily I withdrew myself both times before the attachment became too great. I've decided to stop… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 08:38 AM |
| 6 | "H*e culture is wonderful" --> Can we dump this narrative in 2020?Yep. I used to think it was/could be. I tried on a few occasions. Never worked out. Always led to feeling crappy or empty, what's the point? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:47 AM |
| 12 | Some of them are _married_ to these men, smh.This whole thing was absolutely cringey and embarrasing for all involved. They really do not give one solitary shit about you. They just tune in to get what they can get from you and the rest is just white noise to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:50 PM |
| 11 | Man dumps GF of 1 year, two years ago. He didn't think she was marriage material. He broke her heart. She begins getting closer to another man, appears to move on. He surprises NO ONE by suddenly feeling very hurt. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN. ZERO SHIT!!!!!😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 06:46 PM |
| 2 | Sorry, last post for today! I'm not trying to slam the site.Amen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 12:51 PM |
| 24 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜It should be called FWNBFTW. Friends with no benefits for the woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 10:16 AM |
| 3 | This is why EVERY woman needs FDSAnytime a person says not to be racist, you can be sure that the next thing they will say is racist. This is racist as fuck. Take it down and apologise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 10:14 AM |
| 20 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: VALENTINE'S DAY 2020 EDITION 💜Haven't even had so much as a text from my FWB who I get along with really really well and respect a lot. But his lack of acknowledgement of me as someone who he spends so much time with has really turned me off. I've been thinking of locking it off anyway because I am getting bored of the arrangement so this has definitely cemented it for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:08 AM |
| 7 | Cautiously optimisticHonestly, i no longer get optimistic, cautiously or otherwise until i get to know someone well enough that they have proven why i should be optimistic about him. I get the feeling of wanting to be excited over a seemingly good man but that excitement has sparked and fizzled out so many times that now i just wait. Because time will tell everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 06:09 AM |
| 6 | Nayyirah Waheed's poetry speaks directly to my soul.Absolutely!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 05:35 PM |
| 9 | You gals were right. Thank you.This is a really good thread and i really need to read this right now. I posted a similar thread on dating advice a few months ago, about a guy i met who was doing EVERYTHING right and everything pointed to him being really into me. But in the end he just wanted to keep it casual. I was baffled. So baffled! Because i just couldn't imagine being like that to a guy i was not invested emotionally in or wanted something serious with. But we have to remember that its not the same with men. They liter… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:31 PM |
| 2 | You gals were right. Thank you.Lol i swear its some sick game the gods are playing im sure ...somewhere out there are some celestial beings having a right laugh at us here on earth 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 11:16 AM |
| 2 | It’s been a big day for meWinning! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 11:06 AM |
| 8 | As expected, men in the tweets calling her “childish” and “materialistic”. Lol it ain’t hard to put effort into a relationship, men are just lazy and entitled.Sad and depressing. I was in a relatonship for 5 years and we argued or it got ignored, the best was some generic chocolates and flowers. Haven't had a good one since from guys ive dated, been with or chatted to. Guys will try convince you its all bullshit and materialistic and a made up holiday- well- all holidays are made up. It just means they don't value you. Fuck them. I'm gonna do a galentines dinner with friends and spend time with my parents and be happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 10:30 AM |
| 15 | I'm enjoying the 90s Pickmeishas, but how about a 00s Queen for inspiration ;)Oh I love this movie. Makes me wanna watch it again. Bend....AND SNAP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Beautiful mix between Eartha Kitt and Mahalia. “I’m the prize, uh, I’m the blessing”.I love her shes awesome, great song | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 09:04 AM |
| 24 | I mean.. There must be something wrong with us to resist such a perfect specimen.. LolLegit like a horror film mask | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 11:32 AM |
| 5 | It’s February! Let’s open a thread for Valentine’s Day advice!!!I'll be spending it with my parents, I'll take them for a nice meal and do something nice with them as they will be coming to visit me. I have a FWB but I'm working on letting this go pretty soon, we are friendly and he's proven to be a good guy but we are just not compatible long term. So nothing to be expected on a romantic front. I'm looking forward to it being a family event, I might even get my mum some roses and dad some chocolate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 07:17 PM |
| 6 | FDS Therapy Tool: The Johari WindowI love this and will be taking this information forward. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 12:58 PM |
| 7 | LOL some lurker decided to sexualize my dog after I posted on here saying how happy I was that I adopted her. Talk about projection!Wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 02:56 PM |
| 7 | My sister told me that her husband believes that when a man sees a beautiful woman, he’s wired to imagine her naked.Beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 07:35 AM |
| 2 | LVW on this sub are usually described as being doormats, but does she have any traits that actually hurt the people around her?Exactly what I thought of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 07:05 AM |
| 7 | This made me laugh.Et voila! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 04:34 PM |
| 7 | THISThe dating phase is what I imagine the 7th hell to look like. Just an endless loop of dates 1-5 getting excited then being let down, starting to fall for someone then they blow it and starting all over again. Hell, I tell thee!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:40 PM |
| 25 | “Men are logical, women are emotional” is a lie. Anyone have go-to shit tests that will quickly show you a man’s ability to use reason and logic?😂😂😂 it's not funny but it is kinda funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:37 PM |
| 23 | THISThis is what I always do, immediately. In fact, sometimes I do it during the dating phase just so I don't get too obsessive or reread message threads and allow my imagination to take over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 08:38 AM |
| 15 | Reminder: the best way to get over a man is to think about him negatively/realistically.Girl same, with my last ex I kept a document called "his complete bs" where I would just write down all the shit he did and seeing that list accumulate really helped me to break up with him and stay broken up with him, especially because I forgive too easily so it was a necessary reminder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 01:23 PM |
| 0 | Opinions on Checking a Girl vs Not CaringYou sounds like a hideous human being. | /r/askTRP | 16/01/20 07:28 PM |
| 10 | ConsequencesI imagine you're right!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 11:10 PM |
| 63 | ConsequencesDo they even have the self awareness get this?? I fear not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 02:16 PM |
| 3 | For every woman who thinks she "doesn't deserve" a high value man.Necessary reminder. Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 10:54 PM |
| 11 | I created a Spotify playlist with all your recommendations.Cash shit meg the stallion 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 10:48 PM |
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