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Field Reportafterthe_fapocalypse/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 10:58 PM
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Field Reportafterthe_fapocalypse/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 04:26 PM
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Red Pill Theoryafterthe_fapocalypse/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 05:09 PM
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Blue Pill Exampleafterthe_fapocalypse/r/TheRedPill29/09/19 08:09 PM
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Red Pill Theoryafterthe_fapocalypse/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 10:56 AM
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afterthe_fapocalypse/r/RPChristians23/11/19 05:34 AM
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afterthe_fapocalypse/r/RPChristians05/12/19 05:49 PM
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afterthe_fapocalypse/r/RPChristians02/01/20 10:35 PM
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afterthe_fapocalypse/r/askTRP11/10/19 12:44 PM
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afterthe_fapocalypse/r/askTRP21/09/19 04:09 PM
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Red Pill Theoryafterthe_fapocalypse/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 04:25 AM
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afterthe_fapocalypse/r/askRPC02/11/19 11:56 PM
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afterthe_fapocalypse/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:02 AM
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Blue Pill Exampleafterthe_fapocalypse/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 07:20 PM
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afterthe_fapocalypse/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:38 AM
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afterthe_fapocalypse/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/20 05:07 PM
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afterthe_fapocalypse/r/askTRP27/10/19 06:49 PM
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it's basically as thick as the man makes it
/r/askRPC02/09/20 07:49 PM
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You said it already: do they pray? Do you pray? Ask God about them. You may get an intuition, and if you know your intuition and your conscience, you bloody well should listen to it and should have been listening to it all along. Pay attention to your insides and your own emotions and thoughts around them. Because odds are they could be saying something important to you. Do they obey God? It's one thing to know, and another to obey. Is their obedience like a Chinese menu? IOW do they obey someth…
/r/askRPC27/06/20 06:30 PM
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This is a very natural and virtuous question. There is a difference between romantic attraction (eros) and love, but the two are often mingled together. In the marital relationship, I would argue that it certainly helps to have both there, and in a healthy relationship one will reinforce and support the other. But the question you pose is a different one. It involves both concepts of duty and of natural bonding - which if not present is unnatural and an indication that something is wrong. Let me…
/r/askRPC27/06/20 06:23 PM
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Love is a choice. It doesn't have to be an emotion, but it's often helpful if supported by affectionate feelings. When you love someone, you will their good - through words, actions, and in your heart ultimately. This is how we can love even an enemy. We don't have to feel lovey dovey about them, and I'm sure we often don't. Ultimately TRP is a perspective on human behavior, particularly intersexual dynamics. It provides a framework of analysis, but doesn't need to be THE analysis. God says what…
/r/askRPC24/06/20 08:44 PM
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Because what if you don't have to 'struggle' - i.e. fail, try again, fail, try again, etc. etc. What if you could be free of those things permanently? Repentance is about seeing what is really going on in your life. What you are really doing to yourself. You see that by masturbating to porn you've hardened your heart not just against your wife or gf, but against all people. You are killing your opportunities with people. You aren't as friendly. You remember the way you were as a child late in th…
/r/askRPC19/06/20 04:51 PM
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have sex with them in front of her okay maybe just introduce them instead
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:51 PM
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If my definition of godliness isn't widely shared, neither is yours of artful ;-)
/r/RPChristians16/04/20 09:20 PM
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No I'm not, and you have misunderstood my point. Godliness in a man is cultivated in the substrate that man is, namely his masculinity. It grows from it and IS it, but is not it ... in the same way that a tree is made from carbon, but we do not call it carbon. It is a tree. This does apply to women, as well, and it doesn't take an artful mind to perceive it and is not a mark of intelligence to deny it. Holiness and godliness are cultivated in what a woman is, essentially her femininity. The more…
/r/RPChristians14/04/20 09:00 PM
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Disagree. My entire life when I have decided to follow God I became more masculine. I stopped watching porn. I stopped trying to impress people. I became more honest, sometimes brutally so. I stopped being so sarcastic and trying to get people to laugh. I noticed that I would automatically get girls' attention much more than before. MUUUCH more. I noticed that the longer i did this the better the girls were I attracted. They were more feminine. More attractive. More had their life together. Less…
/r/RPChristians13/04/20 11:07 PM
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I used to listen to him a lot. I liked his presentation at 21 Studios on the family. EH is the one person i know who said to think with your balls. He says that society (and he didn't say the church does this but it's the ne plus ultra of this example) forces you to think with your mind, to always be up in your head. But a man acts from his balls. He does what makes his balls swell. It was such a potent and spicy remark when i heard it, and so intuitive and easy to see ... I was blown away by it…
/r/askRPC13/04/20 11:03 PM
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Lifting: 3/7 days this week lifted. Have seen increased energy after going 0/7 last week. Am athletic and toned. Mental/Emotional: took steps (Gray Rock) w narcissistic relatives I can't leave. Felt urge to reach out but pulled back. Listened to gut. Last week I disobeyed that, and got kicked in the head for it figuratively. N has been steadily trying to provoke fights, but I'm not giving in. Moving out in a month. Spiritual: This is where the crux of my life is. Masculinity isn't about lifting.…
/r/RPChristians08/04/20 05:23 PM
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No. We do. Whether we do through marriage, or some other way, it is always the man who lowers his own SMV. He follows the lead of his wife too often, or he gets fat and lazy and watches TV instead of wrestling with the world via his interests and passions, or he gets stressed out about money and image and peerage ... on and on. It's always the man.
/r/askRPC04/04/20 10:59 PM
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We're all in this together, my brother. I need these words as much as you do. God bless.
/r/RPChristians31/03/20 02:39 AM
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I can't tell you what to do with regard to your wife, but praying once every 1-2 weeks tells me that God is not the priority of your life. Something else is. Not trying to beat you on the head w that or to shame you. It's just an observation on data you provided. Maybe it doesn't bother you. But do you wanna call yourself Christian? DO you wanna BE a Christian? If you talked to the people you most cared about only once every 1-2 weeks, what would that tell you? Maybe your values hierarchy is con…
/r/RPChristians26/03/20 05:38 PM
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well said
/r/askRPC09/03/20 09:24 PM
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Initially I thought he was asking how to act like a beta fucktard in order to throw her off his trail. OP, you may not be beta but if you fuck her, you are a fucktard.
/r/askMRP07/02/20 05:10 PM
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OYS - ATTITUDE STATEMENT OF THE PROBLEM: I have a tendency to blame others for the attitude that I have toward them. Instead of simply choosing to be happy, I operate under the conviction that bad people don't deserve a good attitude. When really the answer is that I want to look badass instead of being gracious and warm and bright. I also find it really difficult when around toxic people to maintain an attitude of brightness, and tend to take things personally (they make a lot of personal accus…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/20 04:51 PM
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why are you talking about mission and vision and intricate details (big picture) when you aren't even sure if you like her. slow down Gonzales
/r/askRPC20/01/20 10:39 PM
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The Church is a place for forgiveness. But a woman who is not really penitent and just ongoing hypergamy should be kicked out.
/r/askRPC17/01/20 03:03 AM
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idk if it's so much jealousy as human desire for justice. the younger one got no profit from his pleasure. he ruined his life. but all the while he was still a son of the father. It's a story of the Pharisees as the elder brother, who obeyed all the laws but forgot basic truths like they were part of a family, the same family that the people Jesus was sent to save were from. Don't RP the Bible where it isn't explicitly stated such. Sure, it can offer perspective, but to consider that a hermeneut…
/r/askRPC17/01/20 03:02 AM
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bro, i can relate. i was there. it gets better when you start putting things right in your own life, telling the truth (or at least not lying), and listening to your conscience. focus on your own decisions. there's a term in RP called OYS - own your shit. when you start doing the right things, you start having higher standards for real. not just because you want to have higher standards or to DMV or whatever. when you refuse to lie, you don't put up with dishonesty in your woman. and you have gr…
/r/askTRP03/01/20 10:25 PM
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give her a small amount of your money to see what she does with it. make her babysit some children you know for a day, and see how she likes it meet her friends and her parents, and get a sense of them. and evaluate her as a person, like imagine she was a guy. would you for a moment put up with her? girls are all a little crazy, but some are really not worth it ... the hots wither
/r/askTRP03/01/20 10:17 PM
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bro, you need to start working on your morality and conscience. i read things like "she broke my trust" and then i see you cheated on her multiple times and have been thirsty the whole relationship. ask yourself if what you're really afraid of is that she's just like YOU
/r/askTRP03/01/20 10:05 PM
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LOL maybe you want a guy
/r/askTRP03/01/20 10:02 PM
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LOL you remind me of myself and my situation. My parents are soul-leeching toxins and totally abnormal and dysfunctional. I love them, but loving them doesn't mean i don't see what's going on. I pity them. Even evil people feel pain, too, and sadness and regret at times. I just wish they'd do the right thing about it. You probably love your parents, and you're not wrong for that. I'd hope you do. However, you also provide some material reasons for staying which have nothing to do with love. For …
/r/askTRP03/01/20 10:01 PM
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i too have parents that are downright toxic to be around. I'm not an MD but i believe my father is NPD/psychopath/OCD and mother is BPD/histrionic/OCD/depressed. Both i believe are addicts to something, and both pick fights A LOT and punch way below the belt in a dispute. they're both pathological liars and refuse at all turns to let others see the way they treat me, and they have done some truly horrible horrible things . I'm 34 and have done a good bit of looking into these things, and what i …
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:14 PM
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i had a girl that would do this shit. eventually it got to the point where it didn't matter what she could offer. she was downright annoying and juvenile. i dumped her and man i could breathe again; it was great. when i get into a woman's frame, it's an easy way to buy approval. but it's an easy way to lose my own.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 05:02 PM
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paint the toenails of alpha gorillas, use trampolines to repair high wire electrical issues, go hunting for great squid, bury treasure and create ancient maps on parchment ...
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:56 PM
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If you'll search through my username to my posts, one of the recent ones is "Ending Loneliness" by Voyle Glover. It's a carbon copy of the original article that isn't searchable in Google anymore. Been a few years lol. I'd just post the link here to make it easy, but this sub removes posts and comments that link to other reddit web addresses. Best ...
/r/askTRP03/01/20 04:37 PM
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I was at the top of my class in graduate school going into some cool government work. I had just gotten out of a relationship where i banged the hottest girl i"d ever known, and had some serious experience in Arabic as an American. Things were looking up. But I couldn't shake the loneliness on the inside. It was like I had this wound at my core, in the center of my chest, this knife that was stuck in there making me bleed. I didn't know what to do. It wasn't something I could touch. It was a kin…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:28 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that you've reached a total lack of fulfillment with the girls you're sleeping with now. The funny thing is, you're still unfulfilled by this girl you're confessedly addicted to. You say she hit the spot, but look at you, man: if she hit the spot, why are you writing this? It's like saying a steak hit the spot, but then tomorrow you're hungry again. Your belly doesn't care what you feed it. It just wants. Sex is like hunger. If you're addicted to it, if you're not a master over…
/r/askTRP02/01/20 04:06 PM
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God can help a person not need to explain himself. God gets it - us, and what it's like to be us. Women DO NOT. Idk what you're after, but if this tendency of yours is more a compulsion than a tendency, you may have some inner work needs done.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:00 PM
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The same way we expect them to be goddesses no matter what we do. It's a beta-woman characteristic.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 05:52 PM
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shit tests are fun
/r/askTRP19/12/19 09:51 PM
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where you feel good
/r/askTRP18/12/19 04:06 AM
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how to have your cake and eat it too
/r/askTRP15/12/19 09:30 PM
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This may have terminated the relationship but would be a hilarious story.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 09:17 PM
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i'm really glad i asked this question because the responses here have really cleared up a misunderstanding, and tightened up definitions
/r/RPChristians08/12/19 05:14 AM
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well said. you've found this "keep her home" strategy to be worthwhile? Have you seen it work?
/r/RPChristians08/12/19 05:13 AM
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Quote: In my humble opinion, AWALT is nothing more than a simple reminder that all people are inherently sinful. Well said, Cowboy
/r/RPChristians08/12/19 05:10 AM
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A couple other members pointed out the usefulness of clarifying that AWALT pertains to desire, rather than to actions. Honestly out in the world, it seems that the two are synonymous. Of course there is free will, but this over-sexed society many are just indulging and yielding to desire. Essentially merging with it. But in Christianity those who really are born again are the salt of the Earth. We're made different. We have free will, too, but we have a chance to be free from our sin. This is wh…
/r/RPChristians05/12/19 08:01 PM
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I honestly am of the opinion that everyone is hypergamous. It's the delusion that women AREN'T that the red pill shatters. Thanks for clarifying.
/r/RPChristians05/12/19 07:46 PM
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There's a good bit of propaganda out there, non red-pilled individuals think that AWALT means all women ACT like that, not that their desire is constituted similarly. Do you have some experience with church women that sets them apart? Or is it mostly still down to free will and the individual's conscience? I know a woman who is going through a really hard time with her husband, and I think she's attracted to me. I doubt she will act on that, though, and I respect that about her. Is this consiste…
/r/RPChristians05/12/19 07:45 PM
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God decides who goes to heaven and who does not. I can't speak for God, but from an earthly POV the damage an alcoholic does to his family is significant. I'm not talking about someone who drinks from time to time, or when she's drunk she acts out, but more the classical addict kind of person. Anyone who is an addict is hard to be around in general, but is damaging to those close to them in significant ways. I see this around me, I used to be a porn addict myself, and it's not good for others. O…
/r/RPChristians03/12/19 02:25 PM
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For Christians, the red pill is a means of de-throning women, freeing us if we choose to, to enthrone God, and to seek first His kingdom. He gives joy. I don't think you read this part of the post.
/r/RPChristians26/11/19 05:40 AM
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Reminds me of Matthew 21:44
/r/RPChristians25/11/19 04:47 AM
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This is pretty awesome. Thanks for sharing, especially with how much you typed out on a phone for crying out loud. Those are some marathon thumbs you have =-D So what's BJJ? You defined that down near the end, where you "practice BJJ" and lifting, etc. Wanting to be a prize for whatever situation was next ... what a line. Wanting to be the prize instead of gaining the prize as your source of gravity. Would you mind shining a light on your relationship with God during this conversion from BP to R…
/r/askRPC10/11/19 03:07 AM
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I admire your sophisticated use of language, and your ability to string together reasonably complex sentence structures into a framework of an argument. You also hit on many similar points with mainstream Christianity (which as you correctly diagnose, is not perfect nor should it be seen as such). It was also helpful to clarify your position on self-hate as one that is unreflective of modern usage. I think this perhaps confused some people, and you may wish to coin a new term for it. Such as fle…
/r/RPChristians10/11/19 02:57 AM
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please stop replying
/r/askRPC05/11/19 04:12 AM
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where do you find a woman like this? lemme guess :- ) "when you're on your mission"
/r/askRPC04/11/19 07:12 AM
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I'd be kind of curious as to what kind of home you grew up in, because the kind of Christianity you're talking about is cultish and definitely not mainstream. You end up at this problem that you're trying to interpret, striving for a balance between self-love and salvation, at irreconcilable concepts ... but the problem to solve here exists because you don't understand the fundamentals yet. It has nothing to do with theology or anything "out there" but rather inside your own head. You're mixed u…
/r/RPChristians04/11/19 07:06 AM
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This was very helpful and I understood what you said well. thanks. how did you end up handling her disrespect and disloyalty? Like what was your response to this? How did you deal with it? I'd also like to ask what led to her becoming disrespectful and disloyal ... were you two Christians when you met? Were there signals? Did you act disgracefully initially and then move into RPC? Or am I way off and she's just off her rocker? Thanks again for your response, and I mean no insult by the preceding…
/r/askRPC04/11/19 06:33 AM
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Same experience with temptation and secular manosphere, and attracting what you are essentially with players-sluts pairings. you're married. is your life better? are there good women out there? Even in church? A peer of mine and I were talking about this today, about whether there really are women who make a man's life simpler, who strengthen him and want him strong, and who are a good influence on him. She doesn't have to be, like, King Leonidas wife in 300, which was a ridiculous caricature. O…
/r/askRPC04/11/19 06:30 AM
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I think you are just looking for a way to seem smarter than me. if you can't explain concepts in the Bible using experience, you don't understand Tham or it's just a head game. thanks for nothing.
/r/askRPC04/11/19 06:21 AM
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thanks. which 'players' turned to religion? I realize sex is empty. It feels amazing, though. The thing I'm chasing in sex I find in prayer. I often feel that religion is a tool to keep me down, rather than a tool to keep me up. Mind if I ask you this then: how can I avoid (not 100% obv) ending up with a fat church wife with short hair who wears slacks? what is the best way of establishing interest in church with girls? Do I just walk up to them and talk to them and get to know them? See if I li…
/r/askRPC03/11/19 03:41 AM
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Haha "if she finds out ..." that you have a penis. I think you should be concerned if she finds out that you don't!
/r/RPChristians31/10/19 04:09 AM
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Typical bitch. Not even sorry. Blame the guy for it. ​ Typical guy. Stays way too long. Gives the woman back the power by listening to her shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/19 11:40 PM
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my reply is human; not wreathed in contempt masquerading as illumination
/r/askTRP29/10/19 05:46 AM
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people are complex, man. you're writing to a bunch of strangers about someone you know more about than any of us ever will. We will go off our experience dating other women in OUR lives. You make up your mind what kind of behavior you want to tolerate from someone. She might be reacting to having been policed before, preempting it from happening again. Then again, she could be doing it because she likes to talk. Or because she thinks that's how other people act. Or because her childhood nobody b…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:53 AM
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yeah move on
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:49 AM
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yeah, keep bragging about being all big and bad while wearing those flashtreks. nobody cares about your experience if it leads to illogic and racism.
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:48 AM
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lol "white fear", check your privilege. Maybe someone's intimidated by him because he doesn't smile (read posts below) and arguably has caught a case of RBF. Maybe he's jacked and combine that with not smiling and being quiet, he just has an aura of strength or danger that has nothing to do with race. It's a great simplification to walk around explaining rejection in terms of racial profiling, but it also leads to you becoming kinda racist yourself. Are white people never afraid of black people?…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:43 AM
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reading this and some of the comments are really discouraging. I can hear the RP god's voice booming, "Don't trust women to be the ideals we are looking for." And yet, there is something in me that cries out, "Is it too much to ask for her to just not fuck other guys while being with me?" Never mind pedestalizing her. I'm just talking about simply not welcoming other dicks inside her while we're together. And yet there are her actions. Are you friends with her friends? IOW do her friends respect…
/r/askTRP29/10/19 01:38 AM
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Last summer I dated a girl who turned out to be a stage 9 clinger. When I realized that she needed constant attention, it colored every interaction we had. I began to realize that when she did things for me or even praised me, these actions were attempts to obtain attention in the future, and over and over again I would see this play out. Video phone calls I remember her pouting and complaining if I took a day to myself to take care of me. I told her about this (my mistake) and she never 'got it…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 09:45 PM
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deep shit huh glad I bought my boots :-)
/r/askTRP28/10/19 04:37 AM
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you rock. welcome to RP. I'm on the guy side and lifting and getting my shit together career-wise, and it's good to see a sister doing this. you just took responsibility for your situation and I admire that intensely. lots of great advice for you here looks like, u/ShadowInSoul posted some especially great stuff to attend to. all the best with your campaign and I look forward to you feeling A LOT better.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 06:22 AM
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look. the issue is not whether she is one, but whether you are one. Treat her well. Be a man, and hold your own. But YOU be the unicorn. I'm not talking about being nice, either. Don't confuse what I'm saying. Anyway, at that point she'll respond how she does. You decide who you want to keep around in your life, bro. She sounds pretty neat. Don't come undone. Men should bare their souls to God, not to women.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:54 AM
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exactly as u/spinplates said. if people's hearts are just that made of stone not to appreciate a truce like that, or a calm in the storm, then you have nothing to be ashamed of. It'd be better if you weren't drunk while this happened, because then people could doubt the authenticity or sovereignty of your outburst. "Look at him, he's just drunk" or maybe your parent(s) took some flak from others on your conduct. Advice: don't get drunk next time. But crying for happiness and the reprieve? It sho…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:52 AM
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basically what they taught me in hunter's safety is you see some land that you want to hunt on, you go ask the owners if they'll let you. You have to stay I think 100 yards away from the house itself. if they don't let you, be gracious, they may be testing you (RP moment) for next year. It's not that hard. I signed up about a week before the class was starting, pretty late, and they took me in. $5, you study online and test online, then in-person two days and another test and then you go to Walm…
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:17 AM
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confidence comes from God. Ask Him.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:13 AM
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stay focused. keep your eyes on God. these women are approaching the wall. Keep yourself you. There's a proverb: do not be weary in well doing. Maybe you're looking at the wrong girls.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 05:19 AM
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Psalm 68:6 you got this
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 04:56 AM
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I've been out in the woods the past three weekends, and going out tomorrow and next weekend, too. first two times were with a friend. it's fucking awesome. the crisp clean air and tracking something, not to mention the power in your hand. get out there.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 03:27 AM
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If you catch her in another lie, stand by your word.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 03:21 AM
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you're not a sperg. your last edit shows you're an alpha. you don't fucking care. up top, bro. you're like me in that you just don't know your way around online, and even dating. I've had a lot of gfs but running this RP stuff is so new.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 03:10 AM
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Your desire is good, and sacrificial, and even heroic. I'm impressed. I'd like to include that if you get new parents, things can be different. Of course, you're still related to the biological ones. But when you bond to someone else, when you let someone else 'father' you or 'mother' you in the sense that you look to THEM for validation, and you look to THEM for role modeling for your identity, and when you look to THEM for morality itself: you will be a son or daughter as new as an April lily.…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 03:01 AM
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bro she wants your dick! just kidding. go find something more interesting than her.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:29 AM
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ask your balls what to do
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:28 AM
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anon fucks three girls in three weeks. ostensibly can call them back up for more. thinks this is a problem. just get away with humble bragging. that or your appetite is out of control.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:22 AM
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baking painting toenails gossiping shopping oh wait. Guys, right. hunting sports work find others who share your goal and team up to make a difference
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:17 AM
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I knew my friends and I were missing out. There was always that little distance between us which none of us could figure out. But now I know how to fix that so we can all be together and have no separation between us anymore.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:13 AM
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I have a problem with my own sexuality like what you're saying. You 'apprehend' something, but you don't quite feel it. It's not in you yet. As far as I can tell, man is looking for a God among gods. Man to God is as woman is to man: hypergamous. When the man finds a better god, he dumps the former. And when he finds God, nothing else matters. You see this in conversions, and even to a lesser extent in a man's creation of ideology (Communism, Libertarianism, Republicanism, ... all -isms) and whe…
/r/askTRP19/10/19 02:01 AM
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This feminist spirit goes right back to the beginning of creation in Genesis, where God cursed Eve for eating the fruit. "Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you." Doesn't sound so bad, not like a curse. But a couple pages over and we read about Cain, and he was warned not to give into sin, because "sin's desire is for you, it is crouched at your door to rule over you." I get it: women have to work. But the desire for equality has become pathological. Women and men are no…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 01:46 AM
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you were under attack.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 08:43 PM
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I find it amusing how many people write on here (myself included) asking from others an opinion on just how much bullshit you should put up with. Hows this for an answer: YOU DECIDE! It's your life! You're the only one feeling this problem here, and you're the only one who's gonna benefit by the answer. Why trust someone else? Listen to your gut. Honestly, it's really that easy. If you like being lied to and having drama, then keep her around. She'll deliver. Or if you want sex that bad. Kinda s…
/r/askTRP18/10/19 08:38 PM
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Option 1: "Well, you know, I presume by this you want to hear me say that I love you back. Hm. Well. (scratches around neck), let me see here. Not that I don't have feelings for you, but not that I do love you right now, though not that I couldn't ever love you in the future, but not that I even know what love is or that anyone does, yet not to take away from what you just said ..." Option 2: "shut the fuck up"
/r/askTRP18/10/19 08:30 PM
1

it probably seems beta to do these things for ungrateful bitches. but you shouldn't be out with them anyway.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 06:24 AM
1

you're gonna lose that friend. and you're gonna be a cheater on your friend, too. you don't want to be that guy. to have that reputation, but also to be that guy, or walk back from that. Just do the right thing and avoid this hoe. Tell your friend she's asking. She'll reject you hard, but you'll save his life. And yours.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 06:23 AM
6

The fact that you come to women to get perspective shows just how effeminate you've become. Go to men. It's men you need - brothers and fathers. If you're repulsed by them, it's your own nature you've learned to loathe. Men are awesome. But you will never be masculine while you are a man hating your manhood or asking your mothers from under their skirts what it is to be a man. Go out from under her legs, and meet the men in the jungle. Learn to be a cowboy. Learn to not pay attention to what wom…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/19 06:12 AM
-2

you simply do better things. you're trying to fake it. you don't deserve it.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 06:06 AM
1

Whenever my frame was fake and not based on my heart, on God in my heart, I cracked. But the foundation I've built myself on, and on which I lean is strong. It holds me. The more I build, the more I am able to do. Things I was only able to simulate years before without this. Without the rock to hold me up.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 06:05 AM
1

I admire your spirit. you've got some fight. bell curves, however, do defy likelihood of women being smarter than men. Men compose the dumbest, but also the smartest in the species with wider tails in the distribution. To paraphrase Emerson, you can learn something from anyone. What makes you interesting?
/r/askTRP18/10/19 06:02 AM
1

I get that focusing on one sex vs the other is unhelpful. "Ridiculous" is a strong word, as is a great deal of your response. it is passionate, though. However, where we part ways is where there are as many intelligent women who are enjoyable to talk to as men. that, frankly, reeks of not knowing a lot of women. Or enjoying talking too much. :-)
/r/askTRP17/10/19 07:33 PM
5

because you hate them. because they didn't live up to your standard. because it was their fault you had to take the red pill and leave Disneyland behind. Haha, maybe some of that acidity, but tbh what if women really are just annoying? What if it's a pain in the ass to talk to them? What if there's nothing wrong with just wanting to be around your guy friends? I'm not talking about MGTOW, because some women really do help a man. They're rarer now. But some really seem to do that. I'm not saying …
/r/askTRP17/10/19 04:29 AM
1

It's interesting when you look at Mystery and Neil Strauss, that these poseurs had nervous breakdowns because they did this shit. I'm waiting for RSDTyler to fall, too. The guy looks one step away from psychosis. Are these people smart? Yes. Have they seen things that I haven't? Absolutely yes. They've awakened me to a lot of reality about women and in my own behavior. But so have Elliot Rodgers and Ed Kemper and Charles Manson. So what if they're smart. Look at what they do, and then why do the…
/r/askTRP17/10/19 03:24 AM
1

To be honest, I just had a conversation with my father tonight about his psychopathy. He calls it 'shallowness', but it's really just a kind of inability to feel the things that others do. It was kind of a breakthrough. He didn't talk much. But I can tell there's something deep in there that I maybe don't want to see in him. But something that's there anyway. A stoniness inside. That's all over the family I grew up in, an inability to feel, and an unwillingness to talk about it or look for somet…
/r/askTRP16/10/19 06:07 AM
1

https://www.awmi.net/audio/audio-teachings/
/r/askTRP15/10/19 04:19 AM
1

yw. A good way to maintain joy and freedom in your actions is to do a good thing for him because it's what YOU want to do, instead of working a situation to obtain a desired outcome. If you can do actions that make your heart glad, regardless of his response, you have found something not many people know. Something beautiful and enduring.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 05:22 AM
1

Of all the problems you have with memory and depression, tackle porn and masturbation. You make progress on that ONE thing, and you'll have more energy and drive to deal with the rest. Your memory will return, too. As will your personality. What you're experiencing though is a life without purpose. A life without calling, and are a slave to your sins. What if I told you there was a way to be free? Would you stand up and run? Or would that just make you angry, perpetuate your misery?
/r/askTRP14/10/19 05:20 AM
3

when a person is depressed, everything feels harder than it really is. Not making an excuse for OP, just explaining.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 05:19 AM
11

I would encourage people to strive to be worthy of attraction. To seek the good and the honorable. To choose strength over weakness, and to cut out addiction. To look for God and honor Him. To find other men, good men, and assimilate into their tribe. It's these people who can assume attraction. We should not strive for attractiveness to everybody. We should not want to be attractive to everyone. Nobody who stood for something that mattered was loved by everyone. And especially not loved by all …
/r/TheRedPill13/10/19 07:15 PM
1

No one presented a list like what you're describing. I would encourage you to go back to read what others have written, and then if you have something to criticize, base it on that. Some of the points you made are good, but your thesis is built on a straw man.
/r/askTRP13/10/19 07:09 PM
2

What a weird post, I didn't know there were women in Germany. You see one?!
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:12 AM
7

haha same observation. let me know what works for you. I find prayer and meditation help. obviously lifting, too. but just not caring what others think, and stopping myself from putting my own insecure thoughts and calumnies into their heads ... man my mind is way to active destroying myself
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:11 AM
0

it's off topic but not useless. Mom did hypergamy, thought it would work out somehow, guy doesn't care and that family is a plate. I get it, it's not helping the kid out now, but the mom has some accountability here to that is being ignored. She is not the villain, and idfk what's going on at ground zero with this fam because I'm not there. But I get the impression she's enabling it. Maybe not. But what if she is? At least she's the one who should be writing to a subreddit asking for advice, not…
/r/askTRP13/10/19 12:08 AM
11

Bro, you're badass for wanting to fight him. That's the man in you, but the problem is, you came from that man's testicles. My parents beat me up all the time as a kid, and my mother worse, and I've wanted to kill her many times. I've also been worried about being like psychopathic myself because I don't care about her at all and if she died, I would actually be relieved. she's a monster. But hating your father (and mother maybe for not standing up) will make you similar to him. I'm not saying d…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 11:58 PM
0

Jordan Peterson offers a great value therapy session through self-authoring suites. Google that, and buy the 2-for-1 deal and give one to a friend of yours in need and in want to improve. If you don't have that friend, wait til you do and hold onto your bonus. Anyway, work out what is in there. It's easily 20-30 hours worth of work, maybe more. And you can save/export results and then delete/redo everything years later. Lifetime access. I can vouch the questions are really thought- and memory-pr…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 11:42 PM
1

I get like this. Awkwardness when I'm desired. It's just a surprise. I grew up not wanted at all, and I still baseline feel like this. It really surprises me when a woman I didn't think wants me, wants me. I approach sparingly, and had a closet porn addiction for years. Fucked up man. Maybe you're awkward around it because you're awkward around your own masculinity, or around being appreciated and wanted. Maybe there's something there for you to think about.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 11:39 PM
1

Don't give an explanation. Just tell him you'll meet him wherever the date is. TMI is TMI
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/19 11:37 PM
3

ha, my mother said the same shit about my penis. I can still hear her talking about how skinny it is. NVM that my first girlfriend was really happy with it. It's pretty fucked up she's doing that to your kid. I wonder if you could get that on recording. It's abuse. Plain and simple. Plus, you've gotta stop being defensive about this and start going on offense. Around here they say OYS. Own your shit. Shut up and take action. Get to the gym. Start doing things that are good for you, too. Ever hea…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 11:30 PM
2

What we can do is pray and listen and obey. These are situations people can lose themselves completely in. I know what you're talking about, that breeze or drop of water. It's like the torn-off corner of a forgotten page in an old book, or a little flash of a star in a dark sky. Remembering yourself for a fragment of a moment feels good, you are yourself again. And then as soon as you experience the relief, it's gone. You're back to being on alert again, and making sure other people aren't seein…
/r/askTRP12/10/19 11:14 PM
1

Yeah, dipping pen in the company ink can make things complicated. Sounds like you've been in this rodeo before. Other commentators neglect to acknowledge that this situation is basically like having a girl move in and live in your house after knowing her a handful of weeks. She's in your house, it's been a couple weeks, and you're banging. So a live-in fuckbuddy. And she's not even your gf. She's basically a stranger and already this important to your 'needs'. They're not needs. But BIG fucking …
/r/askTRP12/10/19 11:01 PM
2

haha good one ;-) but where's your apostrophe bro?
/r/askTRP11/10/19 08:37 PM
3

this is when you realize you care way too much about attention
/r/askTRP10/10/19 06:20 AM
1

gives me hope bro; this is exactly the dynamic I want. been single awhile now and for shitty reasons, haven't really tried. been feeling out how to you know, imagining management styles for a woman in my life. wrote a post a week ago about hiring an employee as a metaphor. but this ... having what you're talking about, that's worth working toward, and working for. thanks for posting.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 06:07 AM
1

I like him for his representation of the Return of the Patriarchy. He's an alpha. Trump is an alpha. And he's part of what's waking everyone else up in the manosphere. Do I think every single decision he makes is made of rainbow skittles? No. But I love the guy. He's honest. And the swamp hates him, much as it hates me.
/r/askTRP10/10/19 05:52 AM
5

great post. so many times I'm on autopilot in society, mirroring and half-aware of my surroundings. but you know why I do this? fear. fear of ... well, disappointing expectations that are really just my own.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 05:37 AM
3

I have male friends for partnership and friendship. If I find a woman who is meant for that, so much the better, but the odds of finding a woman willing to work for a man and help his mission are as slim as a man who is willing to do the same for God.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/19 05:27 AM
8

if she's sucking your dick it's a good sign she wants to go on a date, too
/r/askTRP09/10/19 10:13 PM
9

quit masturbating and using porn that's how. guarantee it
/r/askTRP09/10/19 10:06 PM
3

make sure you have a well-groomed mustache
/r/askTRP09/10/19 10:05 PM
4

I can tell you that the alternative to ride the cock carousal will result in hitting the wall. It seems otherwise but the girls you see I hooking up aren't getting what you're looking for - nor will they. Whatever anguish you feel now will multiply if you compromise principles that are RP and are good for you long-term. Maybe get more exposure, not to hookup culture, but around: library, church groups, coffee shops, etc. and if you have to flash a smile or say hi.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 04:52 PM
1

you'd get over that feeling pretty quick in the face of a good therapist
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:46 PM
-1

here's a tampon
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:45 PM
5

he's hanging out by the women's locker room entrance
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:31 AM
5

especially if they crash into your vehicle with theirs
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:30 AM
2

Sounds like an insecure girl. If this is a pattern in your relationships, why are you dating needy bitches?
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:30 AM
10

stop masturbating
/r/askTRP08/10/19 04:23 AM
2

Guys who confide to loose women are lighting the fuse to a bomb and rolling it toward their reputation. I made this mistake. No woman you sleep with who is not your wife can be trusted, and even then, you have to take precautions. When I slept with her and just stayed, that was one thing. But gushing about insecurities after sleeping with someone is a betrayal of frame. The woman is now forced into a maternal role. And naturally hypergamy kicks in because the guy beta-ed himself.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/19 04:21 AM
2

YOUR MISTAKE IS WANTING TO BE HIRED BY A DOUCHEBAG. You did fine. You don't want to work for that company.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 08:20 PM
1

your anxiety is telling you something.maybe listen to it for a change instead of numbing through video games, computer, porn, masturbation, weed, etc. You have a man inside you who wants you to wake up and listen to him because he knows what's up.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 01:53 AM
1

care to share?
/r/askTRP03/10/19 04:01 AM
3

malice? now why did you go there? is that how your family talks? Is that how think you're going to set frame? the only malice here is in your imagination. if you want a discussion I suggest you stop playing Dr. Phil or I'll walk away. I don't have time to deal with armchair psychologists who theorize others' moods on reddit. that's part of the propaganda, little ad hominem skirmishes like that intended to derail discussions when your fact ammo is running out. a central piece of the propaganda su…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 03:58 AM
2

I get it, in the female brain both these realities can be true simultaneously. this is why we posit that woman is stupid
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:37 AM
27

I am a beautiful snowflake, reeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 03:04 AM
1

they don't do it because they want to test you. it's not some tactic. women aren't that smart. this is actually one of the biggest oversights of many red-pillers imho and it's straight out of Esther Villar. They play with men for the sake of playing, not because they're out to find "the one". if you think that's incel,you don't have intel
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:02 AM
1

tides are turning. metoo ruined a lot of white knights
/r/askTRP03/10/19 03:01 AM
3

FUCKHOLE - faggot unit chides kool hero on linguistic etiquette
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:59 AM
1

"Oh, I forgot matches, brb"
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:52 AM
1

so is not wiping your ass but you do it so you don't get an infection.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:46 AM
1

haha don't get me started brotha
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 02:45 AM
2

you're saying the p-value was what? you can talk probability all day but that only works if A: your assumptions were correct, and B: you didn't overfit your data. That probability you just furnished is like an R-squared of 1. It fits your training data well, but won't count for shit in the future because of high variance/flexibility. You've mapped the data well, but you cannot forecast with that low a bias. The climate is incredibly complex. People who think they can map it and simulate it are .…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 02:40 AM
1

trust is something earned. men earn it more often.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/19 02:37 AM
1

she has the time to spend behind bars then
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:36 AM
1

you are ignorant about how much women enjoy this shit
/r/askTRP03/10/19 02:36 AM
1

sounds like you're through it. breathe. I think people with egos hurt the most from all this. I got hit a lot as a child, and I forget just how little I was when it happened and blame myself even now for taking all that shit. not having an ego is a lot more peaceful. by ego I mean: frame = being AMOG. that's dependent on others. you be AMOY. of yourself. best thing is to guard your spirit. pray. you're an honest guy and you're someone I'd love to have as a friend. people get defeated, man. it ha…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:33 AM
3

I can see marriage in a tradcon environment. or conservative religious society. but outside of that, I really don't see women as marry-able. my guy friends are more trustworthy.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:25 AM
2

agreed. you don't say this. it's just the reality that should be lived.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:22 AM
6

the issue isn't whether the weather is changing, but whether civilization is responsible for it. course-correction at this stage will mitigate by fraction of degrees centigrade. it's unrealistic, and for the money poured into it to enrich otherwise lazy bureaucrats ... it's stupid. 40 years ago we were going to experience an ice age imminently. now it's all fire. climate change is real. but so is the propaganda. and I'm not a fan of paying more taxes or hurting the business class here just so so…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:21 AM
2

it's exactly what's happened with churches. you turn a place into a cult of niceness, and you're left with ... you're left with a bunch of fucking simp women
/r/TheRedPill02/10/19 12:18 AM
8

had this problem. in my case it's narcissistic supply. even the sex is about approval, not about my own pleasure, let alone just sharing a moment with someone I value and who values me back. the chase is fun. but it's a high. I like Jesus better than women. with him it's different.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:14 AM
45

if your ex apologizes in writing or whatever, take that to your lawyer, counter-sue, and let the winnings cover your legal expenses from before. have your criminal record expunged.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:12 AM
1

that's funny
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:06 AM
2

girls who send nudes are walking porn. I gave up porn and masturbation, and I got tremendously sick for awhile after, but I am not reaping benefits I either never had or haven't had in a LONG time. stay clean. block those numbers. porn is for those who love death and weakness.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:05 AM
10

girls just love this shit; totally fucked up morality. "hey, I'm a slut. what are you gonna do about it? nothing. right? because you wanna fuck me too and you're in line like the rest of them. let's watch you squirm" ... like that's some kind of celebrity status you can spread your thighs
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:03 AM
5

hurricanehughes gave some real advice; I've been in this situation before and it's just a consequence of not being respected. my relationships all went downhill, and I saw this with my father, too. he'd put down a boundary, and my mother would bully him and push it forward. the more he insisted, the more it looked like he was whining, and the more he backed down, the more power she got. he should've kicked her out of the house. bitch. do you want her to respect you? or do you want to get sex fro…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:00 AM
1

thanks
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:53 PM
2

if you had experience in this you'd know why
/r/askTRP01/10/19 08:37 PM
1

agreed. great book. have to read this book again; been a few years and back then giving how I was living not very much sunk in. thanks for posting a link to the file very much.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 08:35 PM
3

it's a classic sign of narcissism for someone to pick on another person in a helpless situation. the waiter is rarely responsible for the problems that occur in restaurants. And he cannot stand up for himself when abused because he's holding out for that tip that comes at the end of a meal and will be fired if he retorts. So when someone picks on a waiter, who literally cannot say anything back (I've worked in restaurants ~4 years), you really see just how they act when they know they won't get …
/r/askTRP01/10/19 07:48 PM
1

have you ever read Borges' story Al-Muitassim? the more interesting life is to be your own mental point of origin and look for God.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 07:38 PM
4

she's an ungrateful bitch with pretensions and bit the hand that fed her. she burned a bridge of yours with a recruiter by showing A. you make lousy friends and B. smearing your rep. Tell her you want $100 from her for blowing that slam dunk hire. What a loser she is haha
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:57 PM
6

no. show him these things in your actions.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/19 02:52 PM
1

jealousy will destroy anyone. I am really sorry to hear about your present family dysfunctions. You're probably hurting a ton. I look around at the wreckage around me in this used-to-be-a-family, and the way I wish things were sometimes is just so painful to think about. so I'm sorry. if you can patch things up with your brother, if you can at least apologize, it would be good for both you and him to just have those words spoken. the shame you've felt for being less loved than your brother is so…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 02:50 PM
23

Why did she do this to me? Your answer: she could have told me ... so that I could go my own way. but she didn't. Don't you see? She wanted whatever it was you were providing, and then the other guy to fuck her too. To her, she just wanted what she wanted. She wanted that sex bad enough she risked this happening for it. She also risked being framed as a slut and a cheater. You should ensure that her future bfs know about this if you care about them, because they'll likely feel like you do. She p…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:22 PM
1

they're drunk in some other guy's house screaming the new name
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 11:27 AM
1

encouraging prescription. I've been meditating, too, feeling it all. as much as is there. sometimes I feel like it's tearing me apart. but after every time I feel better. glad to hear that this helped you with your neuroticism and anxiety, because I've been meandering in this direction and now I'm more confident about it. thank you. my standard is just to sit somewhere quiet, where I can feel the elements in nature like wind or sun or temp or whatever, close my eyes, and just feel everything in …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 11:21 AM
1

this cuts me inside to read. I'm sorry for your loss. I can see your dad trying somehow to help you by buying your video games, doing the little he is able to do while drinking ... did you hate your brother? I made that mistake. the shitty thing is my mother won't change. at every chance she chooses evil. every chance. have you ever been able to talk to your father about this?
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 11:17 AM
1

great perspective. and helpful pointer to walk toward. thanks.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/19 11:15 AM
4

The Greeks invented four kinds of love in antiquity which modern Christians have incorporated into their theology (for better or worse). They're easily researchable on Wikipedia (eros, storgia, agape, philia) if I spelled them right. You know, probably the best way I can refer to love is in the Bible. Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-8. That's love. Love doesn't quit on someone when that someone gets defeated or runs into a streak of bad luck. Love doesn't give out when you ask it for help. Love doesn't …
/r/askTRP29/09/19 08:37 PM
1

did. they referred me to you!
/r/askTRP29/09/19 08:22 PM
7

"All great things are slow of growth; nay, this is true even of a grape or of a fig. If then you say to me now, I desire a fig, I shall answer, It needs time: wait till it first flower, then cast its blossom, then ripen. Whereas then the fruit of the fig-tree reaches not maturity suddenly nor yet in a single hour, do you nevertheless desire so quickly, and easily to reap the fruit of the mind of man?—Nay, expect it not, even though I bade you!" - Epictetus
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/19 02:13 AM
2

The only way I could stop caring has been learning Rollo's rule that women can't love a man in the way he understands love, and that only God can. Don't let yourself misinterpret what I'm saying: is my life perfect? Have I found all the answers? At one point I had them, then I threw it away. Now, I'm clawing back toward that moment. It hurts. It always hurts. But women are not your answer and they never have been mine. All the pain through my childhood and since ... a woman never answered that a…
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:09 AM
-1

32 But the man who commits adultery is an utter fool, for he destroys himself. 33 He will be wounded and disgraced. His shame will never be erased. 34 For the woman’s jealous husband will be furious, and he will show no mercy when he takes revenge. 35 He will accept no compensation, nor be satisfied with a payoff of any size. repent
/r/askTRP29/09/19 02:04 AM
2

you have a dick with balls and testosterone, and she doesn't . how is that equivalent to 3cm
/r/askTRP29/09/19 12:49 AM
0

funny, I was just thinking about writing a question like this last night. the sex is never that good man. it's never as good as you think it's gonna be. doesn't matter. listen to your gut. you sound young; if you can start listening to your gut (like in this case, she's turning you off so go away and respect your conscience/intuition) at your age now you will save yourself so much trouble later. trust me bro
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:53 AM
2

Look, this is a great question. I was raised in the church and have been wrestling with your question for awhile now. Below are a couple thoughts. I think there's a difference between the God we're taught to believe in and the God who really exists. I wouldn't say that unless I knew both. Our culture tells you that God wants people who kneel and fold hands when praying, who are nice all the time, who give away shit for free even when they don't want to or think it won't help, who never say a bad…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:44 AM
2

depends what you're in the market to buy. a decent wife is a jewel.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:13 AM
0

you care too much. if we worry about a lull - which is gonna happen - how are we gonna handle her?
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:11 AM
5

"been dating a few months ... She's nuts ..." You can start with not dating one. Of course you never reason with them, not unless you're untwisting their racist, sexist, misanthropic opinions back onto them to watch them squirm.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 05:07 AM
2

I'm hearing that over and over in the manosphere, not caring
/r/askTRP27/09/19 04:54 AM
1

when you see something it isn't about belief anymore; you have to deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 04:53 PM
2

great username and thanks for the encouraging comment. yeah, the other guys don't get it, but it's comments like these that are worth evoking. This is the kind of masculinity that I'm looking for. I look at RSD Tyler on youtube, and he's hilarious and fun, but I think he hates people secretly deep down. And I KNOW God exists. It's literally now I HAVE to integrate things with him. And this feminist bolshevism as you put it, this is a major obstacle now. We are trained the only ways we can relate…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 04:48 PM
1

great username and thanks for the encouraging comment. yeah, the other guys don't get it, but it's comments like these that are worth evoking. This is the kind of masculinity that I'm looking for. I look at RSD Tyler on youtube, and he's hilarious and fun, but I think he hates people secretly deep down. And I KNOW God exists. It's literally now I HAVE to integrate things with him. And this feminist bolshevism as you put it, this is a major obstacle now. We are trained the only ways we can relate…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 04:48 PM
2

I held a girl while she puked, too. We ended up having sex later in the future, but she just was in control of the relationship the whole time. And it was because I let her get away with it from the beginning. Drunks aren't the kinds of girls you wanna associate with. And believe me girls can be drunks. They're like loser freshmen college boys who can't handle their liquor. When we impose different expectations of conduct on women as opposed to men, how can we not expect to have them think thems…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 04:39 PM
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Backsliding ... Reminds me of 'edging' in the NOFAP forums. It's lying. Thanks for the qui vive. I was just watching some bullshit by Kezia Noble last night. Even if she says something true, it's just so fucking hard to listen to her go on and on and on. I really don't think anyone watches those videos to listen though.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/19 03:12 PM
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I agree with you almost completely. I haven't gone to church in about a month now I'm so pissed off about how effeminate and wasteful it is. I get basically nothing out of it, except what you say, the social aspect. That alone is kind of worth looking into. But I can't just sit there day after day and throw away 1/4 of my weekend on some dumb shit. Look, God is real. I've seen him. Idc what you or others think, I know he's real, and I'm working out what a masculine approach to God is, because th…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 04:44 PM
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look this post isn't for people like you
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 04:39 PM
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David Tian in his presentation "The Reality of Women" at the U21 Convention said that its men. It's men who are addicted to the fantasy of the virtuous women. Our own narcissism, as Rian Stone would put it. Narcissim for fantasy. It's not that women are so bad. They've always been deceitful and evil. You look as far back as Hesiod who in "Works and Days" wrote about the creation story of women in the Pandora myth. He was so red-pilled. Women are liars and cheats. And it's men who are liars, beca…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 04:37 PM
1

what does your intuition tell you
/r/askTRP23/09/19 04:55 AM
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idk what OP did but there are laundromats, and the gay guy would probably have a washer/dryer at his place
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 04:47 AM
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This is absolutely fucking incredible. What a psycho bitch. I don't even know a man who would possibly think of something this deceptive and long-term manipulative. Fucking life, man. Using fucking life for your own sick empowerment. She should be tried with execution as a potential punishment.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:31 AM
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Not trying to convince you of religious sentiment or sense. Your thoughts are your own, freely. A desire to dominate. If when the man displayed alpha traits then the woman permanently backed down (knowing she'd bedded an alpha), then I'd say it's a test. But women constantly do this. If you're a beta, they already won so they don't need to do it anymore. But when you're an alpha, they'll relent for a bit, but as Bill Burr hilariously portrayed it in his psycho robot skit, women just fucking keep…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 03:29 AM
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honestly had to read this again. truly epic writing, u/BurnoTaurus. I thought I was reading something off the runes in Prometheus or Stargate. I agree with you that a religion that promotes masculinity, creativity, and well-applied destructiveness is a religion I can call home. Never thought of looking at it like that, but when I read the Old Testament and the New Testament (keeping in mind the idea of a masculine form of grace and truth), it makes a lot of sense what you wrote. Have you publish…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 03:25 AM
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it's annoying when people aren't asking advice on how to improve themselves or their responses to the challenges in their lives. Instead when you see things like "where are the easy lays at" and other dumb posts, you can feel disappointment. But there are still good posts. Just downvote them and comment on how they aren't focusing on real game. They're looking for the easy fruit and littering on the sub.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 04:27 PM
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weird. u/life036 I think hit the nail on the head. the way you put it sounds like she's showing off one of her prisoners to you at a slave market. if she's a total socio then yeah, but if not, then probably just some dumb insecurity of hers she impulsively covers with proximate dude presence.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 04:23 PM
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very strong post, thanks brother.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 04:20 PM
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this is actually really good advice for people like me who just don't talk a lot or have much to say
/r/askTRP21/09/19 03:10 AM
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one thing I've found is that when I masturbate or look at porn, my autistic/aspergers-like behavior spikes. When I'm clean, and when I'm more doing things that are better for me, I'm better off. I'm not pushing anything or missionary-ing but praying to God and asking for the Holy Spirit and following him helps center me and helps me learn to relate to people in healthy ways. That combo, Christ and no porn, I actually find autistic traits just go away. Anyway on a second note, there's a really in…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 03:08 AM
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do you have an STD? if so, deal with that. you may have your priorities backwards.
/r/askTRP21/09/19 02:59 AM
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do you like people? are you naturally defensive and suspicious? do you want to be close to others? I think you concern is well placed, or at least your curiosity. I've found that when I choose to do good, to like people, and to follow the Holy Spirit and just do good to others and forgive them and accept them (doesn't' mean put up with shit but hopefully you understand what I mean), people are more drawn to me. when I'm giving. when I'm not lookin at porn and masturbating. when I'm doing the thi…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 02:53 AM
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well I was at your mom's house the other night ... jk bro
/r/askTRP21/09/19 02:42 AM
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Bro, what an outstanding post. Much love to my latino brother. I worked with many latinos in restaurants over the years, and one thing that always stood out to me was the heart. Your culture is so much more real, and the men stick together. They actually talk to each other and it's not about drugs or video games. It was just like music man, the way I would stop what I was doing and just listen. Such a better world. I'm shocked to hear that it's easier in other countries. I had thought the US was…
/r/askTRP21/09/19 02:32 AM
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yes, and isolationism is almost marketed in our culture as masculinity itself. If you need help, or have to ask for directions, you're not a real man. If you want to spend time around other guys, you're either not getting enough pussy or you might just be gay. I literally was talking with a friend of mine the other day about this, about how in Lord of the Rings you had this deep fellowship between male characters there ... and it wasn't gay. It was guys actually loving each other, and from their…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 02:24 AM
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yeah no surprise at all about mid-aged men. Perhaps women really are to blame for the confusion that precipitates mid-life crises. I don't mean that we blame women, because it's our own damned fault and we have the power to turn around, but you see what I'm saying. interesting point. thanks.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 01:42 AM
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haha maybe we would benefit. Edit: nah you know what, you missed the metaphor by going all aspergers on pronouns. maybe change your pronoun and you’ll win a war and actually be free.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 01:36 AM
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thanks bro, yes, looking forward to it.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 01:36 AM
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I hear you bro. totally see it too. there's this verse in the Bible in Genesis, where God curses the woman for her sin. He says, "Your desire shall be for your husband, and he shall rule over you." It echoes another verse where God tells (I think it's Cain later in Genesis) Cain that he should master sin, because it's (sin's) desire is for him and to overcome him. Women strive to dominate their husbands, and when they do, they're completely unhappy. It's literally a curse. If women saw it they w…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 01:35 AM
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lol it's not an argument. it's an association. the feminization of culture in a sense proceeds from a corruption in motherhood.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 01:32 AM
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jump into a tiger den. drunk. pick a fight w the tigers.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:26 AM
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video record her (check your state laws first, in my state you only need your own permission provided it's in public)
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:17 AM
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well I can always be your father
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 04:47 AM
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LOL doesn't know what to do with his life. Thinks Air Force counts for not thinking about it. Provides no basis for attraction to Air Force. wtf question is this. AFAIK the AF hires thinkers. You're all impulse. Not bad to have your energy, but you're scattered and wasting it. Do you want to get married or stay single and travel? Do you want to have freedom and independence? Or security and structure as dominant values in your professional life? Do you play COD or HALO and think that your milita…
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:39 AM
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looking forward to being as repulsed by that as you are
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 04:37 AM
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appreciate the advice. I'm hearing that a lot ... hold frame, don't let the women change you, answer to yourself and not your woman
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 04:36 AM
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she was on her period and you tried to hook up? ew. come on bro. Deal with your OCD. It's not something to blame for your actions, but an illness to treat and get through. You can make it bro.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:21 AM
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I love this sub. great post, what a brilliant excavation from Western antiquity and art. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 03:10 AM
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thanks for putting that idea together for me about a more manly context. The 'how' as you put it. She was all over and done with me because of my tone. If I was, like you said, using the terrible experience from a position of strength, boom, total different situation. I was so weak then. Spiritually so weak and sick. But you're right bro. I'd be interested in a copy of that book. PM me sometime when it's released if you're interested.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:14 AM
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it's a lonely world bro. but the loneliness and dearth of any compassion is a prompt to go to God about it. Shitty situation, I'd feel if I were God like "oh, big sacrifice the guy's making. nobody loves him. so he comes to me last." but you know, God doesn't think like this because I can feel his kindness to me. Good point, thanks for writing
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:11 AM
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oh absolutely; I'm very glad she's gone
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:10 AM
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Very good points. Women want a strong man, but they don't want to give him any strength. User-oriented.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:10 AM
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yes. I was not in a position to father any of them in the playful and strong sense you described. not then. not now. but more now than then. it's a process, but TRP is great because with so many of you guys writing in I'm really consolidating a lot of good advice and pointers.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:07 AM
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yes very true, other commenters have pointed out that my frame was wack from the beginning, and they're right. pointing out problems as a challenge instead of a burden, and coming from a position you're talking about as having overcome them. Not looking at them to be equal with me or anything.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:06 AM
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totally bro. fucking called it. telling the truth at the start, just telling the fucking truth all the time is the only answer I want for this.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:04 AM
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thanks for venting bro. I've heard that the one thing that's worse than being abandoned by a mother is one dying. So that's serious. I right now wish my mother were dead at times. But yours, she actually did die. I'm sad for you man. I feel really sad about that. I'm sorry. Fucking sucks. Shouldn't have happened. Small wonder you're looking for her in other women. It's such a predictable pattern (look at me man! same!), and yet so understandable. Don't blame yourself. TRP isn't about fake-fixing…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 02:03 AM
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Brilliant post, and thanks for your disagreement. I agree with everything you said. The women I've known are not capable of loving men. There are a few that I've seen in the Catholic Church who if not come close, or at least simulate it. But I think Church is a good institution to put women in because it keeps them from going crazy like liberalism has done through feminism. Anyway, I've heard that story about a guy confessing he was raped before. Amazing isn't it? Such a double standard. I saw t…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:58 AM
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Your situation isn't enviable! Sorry man :-) I bet that girl was cute. Do you often do that? like psyche yourself out? I think it's an interesting pattern, because we don't know what the girl thinks; neither does she know what we're thinking. And yet reading your post, you imputed that you knew she was thinking you looked 'scrawnier'. Which if she was interested in you to begin with, was not true. And yet in this 'projection', you assumed that you could read her mind, and also that she could rea…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:52 AM
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yeah, another user wrote something about this, and I totally went about it the wrong way. I was so blue pill, I so didn't think about what I was doing, I had dug myself a hole and wanted her to pull me out. or at least be there to encourage me out. the red pill hurts man. hurts less than going through that though.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:39 AM
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wow. I had to read that a couple times. amazingly deep statement. wow. I'll be digesting this. this is literally a thousand posts in one concise compressed sentence. bam. thanks for that.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:37 AM
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interesting because your username dovetails well with the post title
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:36 AM
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LOL ... not at your suffering but at the sheer dishonesty. I see these female paragons like Capt. Marvel or Wonder Woman and literally NO woman acts like this. None. They run. They're the ones who run to the life boats in the Titanic, not the ones who are saving their children or their husbands. Back then we knew they were weaker. Now we're supposed to still confer on them all the benefits of before, but to think they're secretly and have always been stronger than us. total bullshit. sorry man. …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:35 AM
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heard that from a different source ... kind of a crack in the armor thing
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:33 AM
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def would've been a lighter post!
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:32 AM
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Two books really helped me figure some of this shit out: "People of the Lie" by M Scott Peck, and "They F**k You Up" by Oliver James. IIRC the latter actually recommends that people take a course before becoming parents. I'm just thinking about 'screening' a woman. You realize that it's offensive to screen a woman for anything anymore these days? So fucking weird.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:31 AM
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Yeah, it's very general, you're right. And great point at the end of your post. Very true. I came from the wrong frame the whole time with this girl.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:29 AM
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that's interesting. I wonder if my perspective has blinded me to this option, in that a man who comes across as an alpha but then opens up to being beta, this will alienate a woman. But a woman who has been attracted to an alpha all along who won't break frame, maybe she tries to shit test him into being beta if he doesn't beta-fy himself.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:15 AM
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very much so. I get these invitations to come to mens conferences and mens groups, but all they do is sit around and talk about virtue. Where's the hikes? Why don't they meet outside instead of inside an A/C room on soft chairs? Why don't they play cards during the talk? It's boring. They talk about encouraging men to be masculine, but they never define what that is, and the guys who attend that stuff just leave feeling high, but don't change the shit they do. Some things are cool. We had a soft…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:13 AM
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Perhaps. If Islam can be dominated. If not, they'll probably overthrow a feminized West. The core Muslim population hasn't lost its balls. Nor has our military, but it's headed that direction.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:11 AM
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a natural alpha might not be on TRP. why would he care? I'm fine with who I am, it's what I do that matters. And that I can change.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:11 AM
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yeah, the guys I know who pull girls just lie to them all. girls eat that shit up. I'm not the kind to lie, but I'm seeing that my behavior, as evident from this post, has not been getting me in the position with women that I want to be in.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:09 AM
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There's a silver lining: you get to see how NOT to live life. And the more you blame them for their shitty behavior instead of yourself, the easier it gets to live. It has taken me a LONG time to lean away from "It's my fault" to "it's HER fault she acts this way". A LONG time. Good book on this: Susan Forward "Toxic Parents" if you're interested
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:08 AM
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Yeah. They're not there for your healing. I find that TRP gets it right with hypergamy. It's heroic to see otherwise, and definitely NOT the norm. Usually it's the man who sticks it out I hear. I know ONE woman who has stuck it out with a man; very staunch Catholic. Her husband had a seizure and lost his dental practice. Yet she sticks by him. She never disrespects him as far as I can see. Is she disappointed? Yeah. Does she want more from him? Yeah. But she's been there. And that's the only exa…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:05 AM
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Let me ask you then: why is Liberty depicted as a female? Females are the antithesis of liberty. If anything, they're freedom destroyers. This is the direction is was going with its inclusion in the analogy, not literalism.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:02 AM
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bro hug. sux. You know, I was listening to this song "A Boy Named Sue" sung by Johnny Cash. Kinda like that, a bitch mother can make a man weak, or a lot stronger than anyone else.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 01:01 AM
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And here I'd just thought "when my friends get married I'll never see them". This community is eye-opening. I didn't know there were guys out there who wanted to keep their guy friends front and center when they marry. I swear, the culture IS blue pill. It's THE expectation once you get married that you just disappear. But friend after friend I see gets unhappier as time goes on. I know one guy who has panic attacks. But they have to make their wife happy. It's a rule. No one thinks about doing …
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 12:59 AM
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porn and masturbation
/r/askTRP19/09/19 11:33 AM
1

too hungry bro. women can smell hunger like sharks blood. only the evil ones respond positively to hunger, and they will control you, your emotions, and your money through it. examine your hunger. why? what are you missing in life? what is a woman going to bring you that you can't get through God or through others?
/r/askTRP19/09/19 11:28 AM
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bummer. sorry bro. Try to get proof for your side. Emails and texts. Your lawyer can subpoena texts from your cellphone company but I think it has to be within a certain window or they're wiped. So look into that if it helps. Cooperate with the law in all areas, but through your lawyer. Be respectful. Cops may automatically assume the girl is innocent, but they're not stupid once they start seeing what's going on. I also recommend prayer. Jesus is powerful. Saved my ass when a woman used a 'nucl…
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:15 PM
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Reminds me of the proverb that a poor man with contentedness is richer than a rich man who never has enough. Sometimes someone can have everything, including popularity, but neediness is a turn-off. OP isn't content, doesn't have abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 11:07 PM
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Someone correct me here if I'm out of line, but my intuition tells me probably two parts to your answer: sex lib in the 60s w BC pills, and selection. In Darwinian evolution, the environment naturally selects the traits which it sees worth preserving. If you see men as the environment, and women as the organism endowed with 'traits', you'll see that it's men who are chasing the big-titted, loose-thighed, shameless personalities. So, a woman who hasn't taken the red pill herself, she'll just thin…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 10:44 PM
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"fuck off"
/r/askTRP18/09/19 10:32 PM
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stop masturbating to porn. forever. sleep. assert your needs interests and damned personal will at work. stop envying your colleague. envy destroys anyone it touches. pray
/r/askTRP18/09/19 03:22 AM
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Thirty-four. yeah. I'd been addicted to a particular drug, and coming down from it I'm seeing this is a problem of mine: not dealing with shit
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:54 AM
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perception changes in the wake of actions. change your actions, and actions change your perceptions. worked every time for me. decisions are also actions. when I decide to do something different, and I mean it (and my body/spirit knows when I'm lying to myself just to try to feel better), then I feel better.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:35 AM
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Tara Palmatier has some interesting remarks on this if her website(s) are still up. Your ex sounds like my mother. You could work to learn to spot crazy better. Was your family a little nuts? Sometimes people grow up and their 'normal' is constantly getting them into trouble, blindsiding them. Anyway one of my favorite examples of a dumb fucking dude is Nick Dunne from Gillian Flynn's "Gone Girl". This is hyperbole as far as examples go, but it illustrates a point. Guy wants sex, blind to everyt…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 12:42 AM
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Sounds like a real modern woman. When she contributed nothing but SMV to the relationship, kind of a red flag. Guy sounds like a junkie for the V
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 12:35 AM
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uh oh. everybody, hide your grandmothers!
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 12:32 AM
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I look substantially younger than I am. Although I don't wear my age on my T-shirt, I've learned that when I'm just up front about shit, people don't really care. It's when I'm hiding that people are weirded out. I used to think they would be weirded out by the age, but the correlation is that people are disturbed by the concealment. There's a difference between lying and just omitting details. But there is a difference between owning one's characteristics and running from them. It's a lesson. A…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 04:18 PM
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So stop trying to create some perception in others, and just get the shit done with head down and focused on said shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 04:08 PM
4

Guy: "So you want to go on a date ... who would you like to go out with?"
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 12:24 AM
2

Remember in the old stories this character called "the black knight"? Not from like Monty Python's Holy Grail, but from the older tales like Ivanhoe and Robin Hood. The black knight is the good guy. People like the Die Hard vigilante. Like Jack Reacher. Fucking James Bond. I don't mean to pick fights with users here and if you want to delete the above post, you're a mod, it's your call. When I saw change in heart in OP and his choice to be compassionate (but not to become a white knight or a res…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 12:21 AM
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Yeah NOFAP definitely distracts you. But it its benefits are just brilliant. I'm like falling apart inside rn bc it's wreaking havoc on a part of me that really just wants to run from my problems into fantasy. So instead of trying to prove shit, what do you do? Idk if you read me that well in one post or not, but I have been one of those guys almost all my life. I was in a conversation with a pal of mine awhile back, and he was feeling the same way w his career. He wasn't doing the things he wan…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 12:10 AM
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Fuck man that hit me in the heart. I'm sorry for what happened to you and the men here. We have something in common. I have a lot to learn from you. I think the problem I had with goodness is I thought that having it would get me laid, and it didn't. I confused goodness with niceness, and threw them both out. But life without goodness was even worse. I didn't appreciate it for itself. I'm not talking about niceness, but 'goodness' ... something that men like us can understand. It makes your hear…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:51 PM
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completely true. I've as you can tell from my screen name lived a life dominated by masturbating to porn. Coming off this, I can feel masculinity in me. I mean it's not always a feeling, but it's different. People are looking at me different ... peers take me more seriously, I'm not so needy and whiny, women are checking me out, and I'm like not giving a shit too. Why? Because it's right not to give a shit, to try to eke out some little pleasure on someone else's approval, and to instead listen …
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:31 PM
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completely true. I've as you can tell lived a life dominated by masturbating to porn. Coming off this, I can feel masculinity in me. I mean it's not always a feeling, but it's different. People are looking at me different ... peers take me more seriously, I'm not so needy and whiny, women are checking me out, and I'm like not giving a shit too. Why? Because it's right not to give a shit, to try to eke out some little pleasure on someone else's approval, and to instead listen to my conscience and…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:31 PM
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thanks. empathy ... something many psychos don't know a thing about. I with everyone on TRP was a good guy. some know the truth but use it exploitatively. yeah, OP probably wanted to have sex with her; it's not like he just flipped a switch. but there are things in life that are better than genital stimulation.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:29 PM
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can't save her, but your decency showed her there is a better way. maybe she'll think she doesn't deserve it, but maybe she thinks, "you know what I have a choice". Yeah, it pays the bills, but there are other ways to pay the bills. Might not be as easy as lying down on your back, but the journal posts are a lot better. Me, life was easy when I was younger and was a good-looking guy. I'm not bad looking now, but the lack of an established career and life sets me back from guys my age by a lot. a…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 04:27 PM
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this > coffee shops, outdoor groups, church , heck, even the grocery store.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/19 04:20 PM
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