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I can’t drink bc I’m on medicine that doesn’t let me that’s a really good excuse!
/r/seduction14/11/21 02:30 AM
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Hey man this is Reddit, you can say fuck!
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:49 AM
1

Gotta have a girl with experience too otherwise it’s hard to explain what to do
/r/seduction04/11/21 03:25 PM
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Losing yo virginity ain’t even fun. Everything gets better with practice, so don’t focus on losing it quickly focus on a strategy to have lots of sex to get that practice in!
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:00 PM
4

Alright. We can delete all other r/seduction posts. Jk but this is super awesome stuff dude you are a legend
/r/seduction15/10/21 05:14 PM
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This makes so much sense since men severely out number women on dating apps
/r/seduction12/10/21 03:02 PM
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Social media kinda is toxic tbh
/r/seduction12/10/21 01:16 PM
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I feel that. I hate dating apps and dating app culture but caved in and made a profile because I could be certain that single women were on there. In the “real world” all the women I’ve hit on are taken, if I can find any at all :(
/r/seduction09/10/21 05:52 PM
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Solid advice
/r/seduction09/10/21 05:26 PM
1

Being a woman in 2021 is strange. Most women seem to be uncomfortable going places alone so you’ll likely only see them with their boyfriend or friends. Go to a dog park or the regular park or join a cooking class or take dance lessons or anything else you like to do!
/r/seduction09/10/21 05:25 PM
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genius
/r/seduction08/10/21 06:00 PM
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Mind elaborating on the fade? I need to get a haircut and might consider it… just don’t know if it’d look good on my round face
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:38 PM
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I got my body looking exactly how I wanted it to look. Girls still say my face is “cute” and since I’m short I look like a “sweet baby boy”. I have a beard and they still say this! Working out does help but it won’t improve an ugly face or height and I always get rejected bc of one of those. :( Edit: I’m also in my 20s
/r/seduction08/10/21 11:56 AM
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I don’t put women up on a pedestal. Anyone I date needs to reciprocate my efforts. If I’m putting all the effort into everything I will just stop doing it. If the girl likes me enough she’ll come back but they rarely do. It’s standard for the man to approach and pay for the first date, but after that if she’s truly into you she needs to put effort in. You are the prize, not her. If you guys sleep together she got lucky, not you. Keep that mindset and you’ll feel confident in yourself!
/r/seduction05/10/21 03:36 PM
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God damn this guy fucks a ton
/r/seduction03/10/21 06:52 PM
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Congrats!
/r/seduction02/10/21 11:46 PM
1

Shy girls usually are virgins from my limited experience but it’s harder to get to know them. Church is the absolute best spot but good luck convincing them to sleep with you 😂 FIW, first times are usually not special and often disappointing for both men and women so I wish you the best of luck!
/r/seduction02/10/21 10:02 PM
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Take a breath and realize that she’s a human just like everyone else. Treat her no different than the cashier at the grocery store or your grandma.
/r/seduction01/10/21 07:11 PM
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If it’s clear you both had fun you can wait a bit to see if she’ll ask and if not just take the lead, if she is interested she’ll say yes
/r/seduction01/10/21 04:54 PM
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While studying flirt a little bit (not too much bc studying is important) and if she seems to enjoy it go from there, if not you might be friend-zoned. But that’s not a bad thing, she definitely has friends you can get to know as well!
/r/seduction01/10/21 03:11 PM
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Doesn’t matter, had sex. Move on there’s plenty of fish in the sea. My first time I wasn’t attracted to the girl and barely got it up and didn’t finish, it happens to a lot of people bc of performance anxiety. You have a hella cool story to tell tho!
/r/seduction30/09/21 09:24 PM
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Society i think
/r/seduction29/09/21 09:03 PM
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Funny thing is that normalizing not complimenting men means that any compliment will get engraved in our brain for years
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:17 PM
5

You’re very attractive. Women are shy bc society allows them to be :(
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:16 PM
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Fair point. I definitely agree that society exaggerates these differences. It sucks but it is hard to change society quickly, it usually takes multiple generations to fully do so.
/r/seduction28/09/21 09:05 PM
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This. A lot of people have told me to not say this but I don’t care: women and men are very different (especially mentally). This is just biology. I’m not saying one is less than the other I’m saying they’re different. I wish I could just speak my mind and not have to carefully craft my thoughts and words so that the girl I like won’t lose interest or get creeped out. All that is what fuels my social anxiety and really makes it hard to socialize with women.
/r/seduction28/09/21 02:57 PM
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I’m around your age and I developed an attraction for older women when I saw how flakey girls our age are. Girls in early to mid 20s seem to not know what they want. Girls in their late 20s and up seem to have solid goals and aspirations in life and know what they want. Note: both statements are very very general and not specific to any person at all! But overall that’s what makes me attracted to older women.
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:45 PM
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“Would you like to grab a drink at XX on YY at Z:00?”
/r/seduction25/09/21 04:54 AM
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I’d say I’m pretty confident and secure in myself but as soon as I’m in a social situation with people I don’t know it’s like my vocal cords stop working 😂
/r/seduction24/09/21 12:56 AM
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I’m probably an 8, I’m quite muscular, but I’m short for a guy and most women I’ve been with call me “cute” not “hot” or “sexy”. I have social anxiety so my game is literally 0 and that drags me down to a solid 4 😂
/r/seduction23/09/21 10:20 PM
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That’s a good point!
/r/seduction23/09/21 08:44 PM
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Holy shit bro I looked at your post history and all I can say is: damn, this guy fucks. I’d bet money you’re a 9 or 10/10
/r/seduction23/09/21 07:38 PM
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I literally had to put in my bumble bio “please don’t open with “heyyy :)” and my matches went down by a ton but the few I do get actually start a good convo, but very few hold it. I’ve only had one girl actually propose a date idea, the others I have to bring it up! Come on it’s 2021 let’s put the women in power but they don’t like that apparently 😂
/r/seduction23/09/21 07:31 PM
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Social anxiety. Stops me from talking to people in general. It fuckin sucks because I’m an extrovert deep down. I wish to turn off the part of my brain that worries.
/r/seduction23/09/21 01:53 AM
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It’ll only be awkward if you make it awkward. Just be forward and honest “hey can we pay separately this time?”. It sounds like you aren’t having fun which is a big red flag!
/r/seduction21/09/21 03:15 PM
1

Good shit, might not be a conversation but small talk is good practice
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:11 PM
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Just like walk up and say “hi how are you”?
/r/seduction19/09/21 11:00 PM
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Good to hear! Any tips for starting a convo with a total stranger?
/r/seduction19/09/21 10:35 PM
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I’m trying but not having much luck. I have social anxiety so it’s hard to just walk up to someone and talk to them, and in the handful of times that I’ve tried it I’ve gotten a “I have a boyfriend” or the actual boyfriend comes up and tells me to leave. And I’m really just trying to make a friend not ask her out right then and there. Do you have any suggestions of places to hang out that will likely have women who are okay with being approached? It’s 2021 so most women seem to be on defense mod…
/r/seduction19/09/21 09:37 PM
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Women.
/r/seduction19/09/21 09:25 PM
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For real. I get not responding for a day or two but I will simply not believe someone won’t check their phone for a week straight unless on vacation or have no service.
/r/seduction19/09/21 09:24 PM
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This is stupid but true. The girl initiated the idea of a date, asking for OPs insta and mentioning drinks. Imo it’s up to her to organize a day and time and place since it was her idea.
/r/seduction19/09/21 09:23 PM
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21M - I have pretty high standards and have yet to meet a woman that meets them. Most past “relationships” I’ve had were pretty one sided with me doing most of the work, so I gave up looking for someone and maybe one day I’ll organically meet someone who meets my criteria.
/r/seduction19/09/21 09:11 PM
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Yes this is great advice! Best way to do it is just be direct. Before you approach just remind yourself embarrassment is all in your head and then go up to her, say hi, compliment something she’s doing or wearing or just how she carries herself, and introduce yourself. Then just have a convo with her and try to get her number after in a organic way like “well I don’t want to take up too much of your time but could I get you number and we can continue this convo?”
/r/seduction17/09/21 08:08 PM
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Of course there’s hope, you’re very young! Focus on college and getting a career. If you have time, start going to the gym. Find your favorite hobbies and do them often. Keep your head high and you’ll find someone!
/r/seduction16/09/21 02:24 AM
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Dude the whole idea of having a reason to talk to someone in the first place is so true. I have too much anxiety for a cold approach but if the ball is easy to get going I can take it very far.
/r/seduction14/09/21 12:04 AM
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I’ve heard this advice from a lot of people and it’s very true! Do you have any tips for expanding your social circle (especially if your on the shy side like me, lol)
/r/seduction08/09/21 09:58 PM
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