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2	“Just as friends” I like to ask women out to coffee "to see if I want to take you on a for real date or not." Frame is, you seem cute, but I haven't made up my mind yet. So let's see if we have chemistry. Then on during coffee, you want to kind of playfully screen them, asking a mix of get-to-know-you Qs, mixed with what kind of guys they like, romantic/sexual questions, and some teasing/qualifying. She will ask you stuff too. Basically, you two are negotiating how you two will relate. You want to show her 1. You…	/r/seduction	02/08/18 08:41 PM
2	What was your most brutal rejection? Have you ever had a girl just flat out roast you for approaching her? Deep.	/r/seduction	02/08/18 08:12 PM
1	What if how Interested She is has More to do with Her than You? 8 types??	/r/seduction	02/08/18 08:11 PM
1	What if how Interested She is has More to do with Her than You? You make a good point. Think about Annie Duke's book "Thinking in Bets." It's about how to think about decision making in poker. You don't want to give too much thought to how individual hand goes, but rather to refine your decision-making process and optimize your expected returns over time. While you might lose an individual hand because of a bad card on the river or w/e, overall your performance should track with your skill level. So how you approach has a probabilistic relation with outcome,…	/r/seduction	02/08/18 08:09 PM
1	How do I pick up fat/chubby/bbw white girls? Are you sure about this? I've noticed that a lot of the bitchiness of fat girls, at least when I interacted with them, seemed to be a front. One group would test on me really hard and be bitchy, but there was fear behind it. They wanted to lower my self esteem and appear selective so I'd like them better. They were negging me. It kinda worked until I figured out that they were just being rude and a cute girl right over there would be pleasant because I didn't threaten her. After a while, I left …	/r/seduction	25/07/17 05:41 AM
2	I asked a girl to have coffee with me. She insisted a dinner so I agreed. I wanted to be a date, but I didn't specify. Now she wants to bring a friend. I asked who she wanted to bring she said she didn't know yet. How do I handle this situation without being awkward? I think you have asked the wrong question. She already made the situation awkward. A better question might be how to handle it with integrity and show you have a spine. She isn't treating your offer like a romantic offer, so if you want a yes/no answer for whether she's down to date I'd just put it out there that romance is your intention. I might say something like this: "I'm sorry if I miscommunicated earlier. I got your number to arrange a time for coffee because I enjoyed our conversation an…	/r/seduction	25/07/17 05:26 AM
2	Is this normal? Dude that is a great setup! I'm at uni too now. Depending on what your goals are, I might consider joining several groups and working on being more outgoing and making some buddies who have social skills. The more you socialize, the more your brain will chill out in social situations/tell you that you are the man. I do salsa dancing and I'm checking out improv comedy soon. Salsa gets me moving women around and literally leading their bodies through space. Improv forces me to get out of my head a…	/r/seduction	26/02/17 01:16 AM
2	Is this normal? Hey man, I hear you on the rationalizations that tell you not to approach. I also hear you about working out. It seemed so clear to me that when I got in shape, my self-doubt would disappear... it didn't. So, when I go out to clubs, I DEFINITELY feel insecure pretty much every night at the beginning. So do my most successful friends, which blew my mind. What's funny is that if I just do some bullshit approaches outside the club (just saying hello, high-fiving people, giving compliments, w/e), ev…	/r/seduction	26/02/17 12:16 AM
1	Dealing with guilt Banging a girl in a relationship is questionable. People shouldn't cry after you have sex with them....	/r/seduction	18/03/14 03:21 AM
1	Dealing with guilt You can date whoever you want and however many women you want until you have an explicit conversation about being exclusive. Until that happens, do whatever you want.	/r/seduction	18/03/14 03:20 AM