As the title says, dealing with guilt.. A little story first. It seems when you are doing good with the ladies the term when it rains it pours takes effect.. Atleast in my case. Anybody notice this or is it just me.. Its not the first time this kind if thing has happened but in the past it stopped my efforts in their tracks I tend to end up focusing on just one girl. So a couple months ago I met a hot lil blonde thing while clubbing.. she was with her friends who were good looking as well.. one if my friends got along well with one of her friends.. But none of us could talk up the blonde but she gave me signs of interest... fast forward a a couple week and at the same venue we run into them and she talks to me, buys me a shot, dances with me, grabs my manhood and then not give me her number because she is in a relationship. Damn!! Wtf! !
So me looking to up my game created an online dating profile... it had been so so until last week where I get the attention of a cute lil thing who I click with real well.. took her on a date saturday night and had legit fun. We were very open and comfortable with each other.. kissed close and dropped her home.. As im heading back home I get a message from my bud.. "legend I need help". Im ask with what. "Wing man, the blobde is here, come to club". Challenge accepted and im there I find them and blonde is mine on the damce floor and all that... every dude in this place had eyes on me.. I was game. Other girls were still tryingvto get my attention even while I danced with her.. We succeed in taking them home. My bud took the opportunity to give his girl the tour and ended in the bedroom ;) Me knowing that blonde is taken kinda holds me back.. but I decide to up it and not give a damn and enjoy myself and be good company.. weend up in a close face to face situation and she says she hates the fact that im so funny.. ding ding ding I go for the kiss and she accepts it.. kiss ends and she says im so wet rught now.. ding ding ding and check for myself... then she fets reluctant and I back off... a bit later bang we are going at it and while im touching her there she says I just want you to ram it in me.. ding im in and man Niagara falls.. then boom she stops me not even mid way and starts crying.. she hates herself... I calm down and stop using one head and switched back to the other.. I let it be... I comfort her and then went to bed. The next day im chatting with girl from the date who I like a lot so far.. and while im talking to her something that never happens does.. a hot 9 messages me online and we are hitting it off... I plan to go mert her especially because she isn't looking for anything serious... But then the guilt kicks in.. Should I have tried to get with thst blonde even though I know she was taken... I am technically single but I feel bad about having an awesomw date then going straight to another chick.. and now without a doubt I dont want to miss out on the hottest one so far... How do you fellas out there deal with this kind of feeling.. do you take the moral high ground not finish banging the hot blonde? Should I have even tried? Should I continue my pursuit for the hottest one yet despite knowing that the one I went on a date with has potential to be my next gf. You know what all this typing and think has helped me figure it out... ill still post it for the sake of field report and so on... But still how do you guys out there deal with this.. Tldr: kinda nailed a girl who's in a relationship, dealing with multiple girls snd feelings of guilt... how do you guys handle this...