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agreatfuckinusername/r/askMRP20/01/17 06:52 AM
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agreatfuckinusername/r/askMRP31/03/17 02:53 PM
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Plus strong game is huuuuge and may still get you there someday
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 12:15 PM
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now give a few non-DEER responses
/r/askMRP26/05/17 01:26 PM
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meditation not medication
/r/askMRP23/05/17 09:34 PM
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lift. Now. All of that anger, all of that aggression. GO TO THE GYM. Download the 5x5 stronglifts app and fucking start with just the bar and learn the movements. Go. As soon as your schedule allows it. Tonight. Tomorrow morning. This is your new normal routine, no different than brushing your teeth. It's just what you do. If you truly struggle with motivation, join a crossfit gym or some other group exercise involving lifting. If you do, learn the shit out of form to avoid injury and shy away f…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 05:08 PM
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Lay it on me. I've been learning how blind I am to my own weaknesses. Allegedly I'm at dread level 5, but my foundation seems to crumble under me a lot. Body Goal: 180 lbs, 12% bf, good looks, big arms, functional strength and conditioning 165 lbs, 25% bf. Was skinny-fat at 145 lbs; I've been eating like crazy to get up to this weight. Hitting the gym 3x a week hard to make the most of it. Been in a local lifting club getting good coaching for a month. My lifts have drastically improved in a sho…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 04:57 PM
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this really ties into WISNIFG well. YOU are the ultimate judge of yourself. I still haven't internalized this, but OP has internalized this and knows that he is a good father and husband, so her criticism is truly a non-event for him. No DEER-ing. No guilt. Just a bit of lighthearted fogging/pressure flip.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/17 03:17 PM
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I'm sure having great game and frame has gotten plenty of ugly dudes laid
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 12:29 PM
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and it doesn't sound like OP has nearly that much sunk cost into this. Go nuclear. Either she falls in line, or she's already gone anyways.
/r/askMRP12/05/17 02:47 PM
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Defend Explain Excuse Rationalize. You are getting upset by an anonymous internet strangers stinging observations enough to go off the handle. This is not an alpha trait. Your answer from now on is "thank you may I have another" and you embrace the kernel of truth behind that observation while ignoring the stinging. Because those ugly little kernels of truth about yourself are what you came here to address in the first place. Edit: clarity
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 03:42 AM
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I know many beta men who aren't really growing up either
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 02:00 AM
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Good luck! Just know that you live on a world of abundance and things generally work out
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 02:29 PM
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dinner and a movie is the worst date. don't do this. There's no talking during the movie, the only game you can run is physical, which means you're on a tight deadline for rapport and escalation with the dinner which is already an anxious thing for most women.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 01:47 PM
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If a dude talks about warcraft for 45 minutes and she gets bored(the worst emotion), at least he's putting himself out there and learning from the situation. He'll learn next time to not talk about the boring math parts of how his Paladin's armor stacks with his high evasion b/c x+y/2=z and when he gets 2,000 more gold he can buy these sweet boots that blah blah blah. Instead hopefully he tells the tale of Leroy Jenkins, or an epic retelling of the most dramatic raid he's ever been on and how th…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 01:41 PM
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step 1: start asking people what their favorite dinosaur is force yourself to ask 1 person this question in a playful way every day for a week. it won't always go well because you haven't exercised that muscle much step 2: start asking people what their favorite flavor of ice cream is this will probably be a bit less awkward as you learn to be more playful step 3: make up your own version. talk to everybody like they're a playground friend. people you see on the street, the girl at the checkout …
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 01:11 PM
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everyone reading this, do your part. Report LOW EFFORT posts to the mods. downvote low quality posts. Upvote good quality posts. We get a lot of noobs here, it's up to us regular readers to help the mods with the daunting task of separating the wheat from the chaff
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 01:15 PM
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installed and already better. What was with the redesign last year removing all of the filter buttons at the subreddit header? Were they just not valuable enough? Or was the clean theme worth the loss in functionality?
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:58 PM
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welcome, glad you've unplugged. Start by following a lifting regimen (I recommend 5x5 Stronglifts for a beginner, but others here have more expertise than I do) and read all of the sidebar. THEN read No More Mr. Nice Guy and When I Say No I Feel Guilty. I also suggest filtering posts by top of all time, and pay special attention to Endorsed Contributors. Study, read, lift, digest, then join in the discussion of theory and field reports. If you simply want a step by step how-to-pick-up-girls guid…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 02:16 PM
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if we just had a filter, that allowed you to view only EC content, that would make a huge difference along that same vein.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 01:46 PM
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I've been really working on this for the last 6 months: on becoming High Energy life by grabbing life by the pussy. I spent every last moment of my weekend doing something productive/fun/important to me. Working late on Friday to get an important rush shipment out to a key client, then drinks with coworkers. Saturday, cooked family a power-breakfast, played with my kid, had a friend visit and we worked on a project while chatting about life, family bike ride, dinner out, watch a movie in, playin…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 07:43 PM
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I more agree with /u/jacktenofhearts that combining everything into one sub would yield better results https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3h0uv8/meta_subreddit_fragmentation/
/r/askMRP21/04/17 05:56 PM
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see edit
/r/MarriedRedPill18/04/17 12:56 PM
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That's the uncomfortable part. It's like learning to swim: can't stop Edit: can't stop paddling. I'm a reforming nice guy and am used to shying away from confrontation and mentally resting on my laurels. Even treading water takes effort, and I'm finding red-pill is about bringing energy and mindfulness to every moment of my life; especially in areas where life once was easy. It's uncomfortable for me to find confrontation that I once avoided and, instead, LEAN-IN. Swimming lessons were at first …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/17 07:11 PM
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I've done this a few times (left to get a part to fix a thing as she's getting pissy about it) and have wondered what I was doing wrong to be getting all of those emotional texts similar to yours. So this is doing it right? Anything OP could've improved upon? Why do I feel like it's going so bad when I do this? Most importantly, how do you turn it into make-up sex? Slow-learner over here
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/17 05:38 PM
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with IDGAF, amused mastery, frame, and abundance mentality... it probably really is that easy
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 05:51 PM
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Keep at it, dude. This is awesome that you've made yourself get out there and TRY. Keep failing, keep learning. Every failure is a good lesson. Big improvements from approach 1 to approach 7. Study, refine, and try again.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 05:34 PM
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it's a shitty sailor who curses the wind
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 05:22 PM
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didn't realize theultimatecad deleted his username, he had some good stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/17 02:42 PM
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If you did an AMA on here, it could be very successful with good topics like this
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/17 02:36 PM
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Lightbulb Dawning realization right now about all the little things I do for her. Anytime I'm home it's like she's ringing a bell for the butler (granted she keeps busy at home, rarely lounging). Those were shit tests?? I'm blind.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/17 02:33 PM
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Gym habits: Undisciplined I've been good at following a regimen at the gym, but my habits around the gym are shit. Not often 3x a week, even though that was my original goal when I started lifting a year ago when I weighed 145 lbs. Eating enough has always been a problem for me. Sometimes I take it seriously, but it often falls by the wayside. Sleep as well, I WANT to sleep 8 hours a night or more, and have the time to, but sometimes I let myself read until midnight. All of these hurt my progres…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/17 12:54 PM
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I'm going to do this
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/17 12:47 PM
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I would ignore. Better yet, turn off your phone when you're writing.
/r/askMRP09/04/17 12:48 PM
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marriage should be strictly religious, unless the gov't is going to start making it financially appealing again
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:15 PM
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marriage has become INCREASINGLY dangerous over the past 40 years. Of course the boomers were less hesitant
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 01:56 PM
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That would be a hilariously pathetic shitshow. OP, when she says "you got a job without asking me??" Say (playfully) "yup, as a male stripper. I gotta go back tomorrow afternoon to pick up my Chippendale bowtie"
/r/askMRP04/04/17 12:19 PM
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If it works, it works.
/r/askMRP04/04/17 03:31 AM
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My thoughts exactly: Dressing like you're obviously not a refugee. Stay dapper. Nice shoes are key
/r/askTRP03/04/17 02:44 PM
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no expert, but I met a dad who was teaching his son eye contact. When I spoke with his son, he encouraged his son to make eye contact with me when responding. Seemed like a good starting point that many adults still haven't figured out fully (including myself)
/r/askMRP03/04/17 01:27 PM
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Black Phillip? I've only listened to Being Phillip show with Date Nero which was good but felt too unstructured for a newbie so I stepped away for awhile, can't find Black Phillip in Google podcasts or app store. I'll be wary of Jordan's BP bend, thanks for the warning. I like Art Of Charm's very introductory style in the Toolbox episodes, need the remedial class before the master class.
/r/askMRP02/04/17 02:31 PM
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Downvote because I'm more focused on her feels than my reals. I deserve that.
/r/askMRP02/04/17 02:18 PM
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Gimme an example, when I try to do this it usually comes across butt-hurt
/r/askMRP02/04/17 03:03 AM
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I'm fucked up in the head. How do I get past this petty bullshit??
/r/askMRP31/03/17 08:27 PM
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Any tips for breaking those? What works for you?
/r/askMRP31/03/17 08:22 PM
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I don't think I want to. I think I need to use this opportunity to evaluate my relationship with, approach to, and motives regarding sex. Also really focus on owning my shit and mastering shit tests without the Blue Pill habit of "how will my response to this affect her odds of sleeping with me" hanging over my head. If it's all for naught, what am I out? A few rounds of okay sex with a begrudgingly willing partner.
/r/askMRP31/03/17 07:48 PM
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You're right, I am all over the place. This is a bad habit, like a golden retriever. Does meditation help with this? I'm thinking I'm going to go through with it, and focus on owning my shit all three months. The only cost of this Monk Mode is a little mediocre sex. I'm trying to turn the ship around, fully knowing it might not work, but knowing that at least I'll be better prepared for whatever comes.
/r/askMRP31/03/17 07:22 PM
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Rewrite: I'm still a blue pill pussy and am on this sub to get my head out of my ass. I need to lift and build frame to be attractive. It's all my fault and I need to stop being a butt-hurt twat. I've said as much in my OP, dude. Self-improvement goals that I'm working on, because I don't like these things about myself.
/r/askMRP31/03/17 06:49 PM
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Making it about me: I'm a validation junkie and use sex to feel better about myself, which is why our shitty sexlife makes me feel so pathetic and resentful. Having trouble breaking that cycle.
/r/askMRP31/03/17 06:33 PM
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Short and to the point. Thank you. Three month break: so I'm talking to an entire community of guys that have also read this book, and I'm the only one who followed through on this part of it? Well now I feel sheepish. How fucked is this idea? Feels like there's no way to back out without looking weak and wishy washy.... I was pretty resolute last night.
/r/askMRP31/03/17 06:26 PM
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Thanks for heads up on CrossFit dangers. Not big into group hugs, either.
/r/askMRP31/03/17 06:16 PM
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We're only fucking a couple times a month, practically dead bedroom. Don't overestimate her desire. Starfish is fucked. Not gonna do it. I'm not that desperate. Obviously I'm​ unattractive to her because Blue Pill, totally agree there.
/r/askMRP31/03/17 06:11 PM
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I should have skipped all that and let her hamster run wild? She's already really tense about everything, not in a good way. See elsewhere in the comments. Am I really that far out in left field?
/r/askMRP31/03/17 06:01 PM
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What does Monk Mode do for single guys? I'm planning on focusing ALL my efforts on TRP building blocks. Primary motivation is to get out of the rut of shitty sex, guilt over not having sex, guilt over being a bad wife, frustration with herself on her end. She's a really high strung woman (I doubt things will work out between us in another year on my TRP journey unless she learns to chill out) and has this especially nervous energy around our sex life. Some of this is certainly my fault for being…
/r/askMRP31/03/17 05:30 PM
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NMMNG was pretty explicit. Explain better, trying to be less autistic but need help
/r/askMRP31/03/17 04:03 PM
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10-4. She also went off the rails when I told her I was switching my gym membership from the Y to the local Cross-fit gym (only 2 options in town). Should've just started going to the new gym without talking about it. Why do I get huge outbursts from her about simple things like this when I talk about it ahead of time? I need to learn to STFU more. yeah, NMMNG was all about talking it over, I decided to do it "by the book" against my better judgement. Super overt. She's been working on her own "…
/r/askMRP31/03/17 03:56 PM
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Eh, I post anywhere I like and just delete my Reddit account from time to time
/r/askMRP29/03/17 05:30 PM
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I've had an ex stalk me before... It takes work. Block her on all social media, block her number, delete Facebook, and be the first to tell any mutual friends so that she can't spin the story against you.
/r/askTRP29/03/17 05:21 PM
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Took me a few years to get that shit out of my system. Great for concentrating, bad for everything else
/r/askTRP20/03/17 02:07 PM
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We all know the stats, but this isn't a men's Rights activism sub. IMHO drafting women would be a terrible idea. I wouldn't mind seeing some huge shifts on family court though
/r/askTRP15/03/17 11:44 AM
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I would've left her there without a ride back
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 08:33 PM
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because the covert plan has too many ways to backfire because its sneaky and underhanded. Be alpha about it. "your dog was attacking my kid, I stopped it." reread When I Say No I Feel Guilty
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 01:17 PM
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getting caught poisoning dogs, or the poison accidentally killing more than the intended targets... SUREFIRE WAYS TO MAKE ENEMIES. Talk to your neighbors. Maybe they won't do shit, but at least give them a chance to be tools about it; you'll respect yourself for having the spine.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/17 01:14 PM
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elsewhere in this thread: he went to the doctor with her, saw the ultrasound in person :/
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 02:54 PM
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I like to drop red pills about the wall shutting down southern border criminal activity. Lots of fun to close with: I'm against human trafficking, aren't you?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 10:53 PM
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good progress. good use of kino. Next time, I challenge you to kiss-close and spend less money.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 08:35 PM
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Game and Kino both of them, for starters. Give us more information, for seconds. Have you slept with either of them? Prior interactions? Personality?
/r/askTRP25/02/17 12:33 PM
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who wants who more. its all in the power balance
/r/askTRP24/02/17 07:38 PM
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How do you distinguish between having a girl as a fallback option vs. being her beta orbiter? Is it all in the flirting?
/r/askTRP24/02/17 01:12 PM
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It's a bell curve. I've never met a 10
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/17 03:08 AM
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Effective
/r/askTRP19/02/17 11:30 PM
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Especially if you show up with a red rose
/r/askTRP15/02/17 09:54 AM
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It sounds like you're looking for a marriage. I have a feeling your mother is going to have a lot of intuition to offer here, women can usually sense these things about each other. I would go through the traditional arranged marriage process for the best success. Pay particularly close attention to how a potential mate is with her mother.
/r/askTRP15/02/17 09:35 AM
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I'm an intermediate MRP (~9 months in), and I needed to hear this message.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/17 07:12 PM
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Using words like "i feel like you think that" come across as indirect and confident. "You have the prettiest eyes. My name's 24601" even better examples are in this thread: accuse her of checking you out, for example. Make it fun and intriguing. Or at the very least, not full of meaningless filler words that try to soften your message in hopes someone doesn't get offended https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vsayg_S4pJg Edit: you only have a few moments to make a first impression. So make eye contact…
/r/askTRP10/02/17 11:13 PM
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you've gotta be trolling me. advocating for rape isn't gonna go over well here, buddy.
/r/askTRP10/02/17 06:12 PM
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start forcing yourself to do things you enjoy when you aren't depressed. At least twice a week
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:42 PM
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that's kind of the point. Insert cliche about hard things worth doing. Long and the short of it is, steel tempers steel. Which one builds you up into a better man? One takes guts, charisma, and resiliency (gotta let those rejections roll off your back). Approaching women in real life forces you to adapt these skills quickly. It won't be comfortable at first, but with practice it will become easy for you. And its far less pathetic than sitting in a dark room touching yourself watching a recorded …
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:40 PM
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don't have the first words out of your mouth be a wishy washy mamby pamby jumble like "Hey, this is a bit unusual but I thought you are " keep it simple, stupid
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:29 PM
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"did I see that nice ass in a dream once?"
/r/askTRP10/02/17 04:27 PM
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"nice eyes"
/r/askTRP10/02/17 03:26 AM
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Clue tracker app works well for me
/r/askTRP01/02/17 06:59 PM
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If it doesn't redpill her, it would rile her up with pro-Trump discussion enough that she does something rash; that would help with the ensuing custody battle.
/r/askMRP24/01/17 02:28 PM
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I'd spam her with pro-trump articles and facts relentlessly until she joins your frame again. Everytime she brings it up, drop another uncomfortable truth bomb: "Hillary was funded by Saudi Arabia, where women are stoned to death as punishment for being raped" "Donald Trump filed a lawsuit against Palm Beach to be able to desegregate his Mar-A-Lago golf resort" "The woman who organized the Women's March this weekend is in favor of sharia law, where women are sold by their fathers as brides" Eith…
/r/askMRP23/01/17 07:10 PM
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I'm going to figure this out eventually. I'm a bit thick-skulled though. I have trouble seeing which shit I'm not owning so I can work on it. Don't know enough to know what I don't know
/r/askMRP22/01/17 11:51 PM
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Yes I'm the beneficiary of a trust fund, most of which I haven't earned, as is the case with most trust funds. I work my ass off to become the kind of man who can triple it. I didn't grow up going to soirees like Paris Hilton. I cut my teeth in the welding shop and at plant start-ups. I'm not telling you all about this for validation, just to provide context to my situation so I can get actionable advice. Obviously I was a blue pill idiot before I unplugged. No idea what point you're making here…
/r/askMRP21/01/17 02:27 PM
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I've never tried a 1 Rep Max. These numbers are at 5x5 (1x5 on deadlift). Is there a benefit to doing a 1RM? I've pretty much stuck strictly to the stronglifts 5x5. Here is the spreadsheet, I could really benefit from some advice. There are a couple big gaps where I didn't go much whe n my daughter was in the hospital or it was crazy busy sales season at work. Here's the link to the file: https://1drv.ms/x/s!Aq5OajgqteBxprg-fBDr0hqzRCaGxg I am stupid skinny. I have to work hard to put away enoug…
/r/askMRP21/01/17 02:02 PM
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This is all my fault. Just trying to provide some context.
/r/askMRP21/01/17 04:45 AM
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You called it on the crutches. Makes a lot of sense. Moving on to the game stage of dread should help me control her hamster better. Even though I know this is all my problem to solve and my issue I created I can't help get over the urge in the back of my mind to have a gotcha moment where I get to tell her this is what I expected the outside of our marriage and I was very clear about that you've been very lackluster in providing it. having a come-to-jesus moment. I know that won't be very produ…
/r/askMRP20/01/17 06:42 PM
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Your job is to be a valuable man I guess this is the hardest one. I'm rich, hung, good looking, and gaining the muscle I needed to round that out. I'll be a 9/10 on a good hair day when my gains start to show better. But I'm struggling to overcome this limp noodle mentality I've developed with each marital failure (I know I need more IDGAF).
/r/askMRP20/01/17 05:59 PM
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uh.... focus on Dread Level 6 and read Bang, Day Bang, MMSLP while doing catch and release on the side? I also suspect I need to revisit Dread Level 3 and really commit to getting involved. its stupidly obvious now that I say it.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 04:59 PM
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Just doing me is what I've been focusing on for months now. The dread is working, judging by the comments I get from her. But it seems her efforts to "fix us" are focused on us doing couples therapy books together, something I consider to be a waste of time. Do I need to spend 2017 just doing me as well? At some point this needs to start to change her response to me, or I need to go to the last steps of dread. At the very least, I'd like to learn how to get her to respond to me better before I p…
/r/askMRP20/01/17 04:51 PM
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Make sure you are gaming her during the day. talk about this more. I think this is one of my flat spots
/r/askMRP20/01/17 04:16 PM
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Sex once a week right now may have to be something you have to be willing to tolerate that's been most of our marriage and I have spent most of my patience by now, especially after the shitty response I got after 5 months of no sex. I've done a lot of research on sleep training to make sure that my daughter is now sleeping through the night a majority of the time.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 04:16 PM
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i've added some updates to my post worth Edit: I've been unplugged since that big argument about 8 months ago, but I still need to work on accepting the low opinion she has of me. My opinion of her has drastically lowered in 2016.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 04:02 PM
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added stats. I'm generally owning my shit, but she's a very demanding person. Her father was and is the perfect beta husband.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 04:00 PM
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not breast feeding. Covert contracts... I thought I got rid of those, but they just keep seeming to pop-up.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 03:58 PM
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added my read least to the original post. yes I'm most of the way through NMMNG
/r/askMRP20/01/17 03:58 PM
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haha. yeah there's no way I'm getting her pregnant again and doubling my child support if this doesn't work out.
/r/askMRP20/01/17 03:55 PM
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she is not
/r/askMRP20/01/17 03:53 PM
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When I was in a relationship I truly didn't want anything with those women because I thought it would put unnecessary stress on my ex and our relationship. So blue. This sentence. You're giving me flashbacks.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 10:08 PM
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ITT: Guys who want step by step instructions as if its akin to assembling IKEA furniture.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 09:51 PM
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agreed! newbs like myself need to focus on: sidebar lifting listen better than speak. I come here to learn. I have little to teach yet. Low effort posts waste my time.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 06:38 PM
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he said wake up at 6am, not 4am. If you're asleep by ten on a school night like most responsible adults with day jobs should be, then you're fine.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 08:05 PM
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sounds like you're moving in the right direction. keep it up!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/17 03:31 PM
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Religion keeps some of them in check here in the Midwest
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 01:34 PM
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Second the strong dad thing. My father in law (who I do like and respect) has a very weak presence in his home. A month after the wedding, she turned into a baggy bitch just like her mom.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 01:32 PM
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props to you. its hard to maintain. you will fall off the horse at some point, don't let it dishearten you. just remember, physical change takes long term lifestyle change. Be stubborn. Stay dedicated to being a you that you can feel good about. also note: even a mere handjob administered lovingly, patiently, and sensually with a spirit of service and enthusiasm can go a looooong loooong way.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/17 05:00 PM
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Body fat comes from diet. Muscle comes from exercise. Watch what you eat. Eat clean and eat appropriate portions for your activity level. MyFitnessPal has been a real helpful app to many.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/17 04:28 AM
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slightly offensive is better than boring. Boredom is the opposite of attraction
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 07:49 PM
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your salty politics belong in another sub
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 07:46 PM
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I know we're not all religious here, but this proverb has stuck with me since I found TRP "Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but whoever hates correction is stupid" Proverbs 12:1
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 03:20 PM
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They seem like a dick move because nobody likes being corrected. Their fragile egos don't like it.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/16 12:49 PM
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This is not quality content. You two should take your bitch fight elsewhere. Responding to his neck beard insult is losing frame.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 03:51 AM
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ITT: shallITinder losing frame, and doing so ungraciously.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 03:49 AM
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Mindfulness over not accidentally shooting yourself is a great way to force yourself to pay attention.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 12:39 PM
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don't wait to work on game. there are ugly dudes out there who can pull hotties with good banter and vibes. getting fit will certainly lower the difficulty level for you; so get out there and fail fail fail until you start to see success. A lot of it is a numbers game, and not letting rejection get to you.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 05:00 PM
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Speak to a woman's emotions, not her words. By making fun of the situation and her concerns you show her it's not that big of a deal and her mood will lighten. how do you get into that mindset? that's the biggest part I struggle with.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 04:55 PM
2

read sidebar like your life depends on it.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 10:46 PM
2

so much this
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/16 10:45 PM
3

check the website. I'm not going to do your homework for you. If it's just for yourself, sorry mate no idea if its on torrent
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 02:31 PM
1

If it weren't for White Knights and their faux "chivalry juxtaposed with feminism" it wouldn't exist.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 05:25 PM
10

Cassie Jaye has a website for the movie, I think you can schedule a screening for a small fee. I'm sure you could torrent it somewhere, but find a way to put some financial support behind Cassie Jaye. Gotta cast that economic vote in favor of this kind of stuff. That's why feminism is so strong: lots of money in it. Edit: if anyone is in Southern MN/twin cities and interested, I'd be willing to host a viewing.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 05:19 PM
3

To keep to the point of this sub: what does this tell us about women in general? Feels>Reals
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 05:14 PM
5

Why do you think the standard response is to interrupt and accuse? Its to avoid the discomfort of cognitive dissonance.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 05:12 PM
65

And to follow that up by spending evenings out on the town with his phone turned off. Bonsu points: He could ramp it up by immediately taking a shower when he gets home.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 02:15 PM
6

let's walk through what happens if you're unprepared when you get served papers. If she has even a mildly vicious lawyer, you will get little to no custody: alcoholism, the recent arrest on your records, pornography addiction. If I were a family court judge I wouldn't want to give you custody at all. (BTW family court judges have near limitless power over you) Alimony & Child Support: if you're totally unprepared, her lawyer will easily demonstrate to the judge that you caused all of this and yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/16 02:36 PM
0

Do tell. I slap ass at least once a day, I'm still stuck in once-a-weeksville. How can I be doing it wrong?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 11:03 PM
1

Haven't made it that far in the book (switched to other sidebar books). In a similar boat as OP, going to go read it tonight.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 11:01 PM
4

He will be in two weeks when she starts slipping back into old habits.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/16 09:11 PM
3

again the trick to 5x5... don't take it TOO seriously. Get the form right and don't obsess over hitting exactly 25 reps. If you can go over, go over. If you're short, you're short. Just get in there and work hard.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 09:27 PM
3

Read the sidebar in order. Lift. Start with stronglifts 5x5 workout if you are a noob.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 07:26 PM
2

Hopefully he internalizes the feedback instead, but a hard pill to swallow
/r/MarriedRedPill01/11/16 04:42 PM
1

if he would have passed the shit-tests, he'd be doing fine.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/16 05:25 PM
36

TRP created the Married tag for a reason: to bring it all under one roof (especially with some of the pro-marriage 2.0 attitudes over there). If you don't want to read married content, skip it.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 04:24 PM
3

everything you're saying is true about ALL women, regardless of LTR or ONS. Feels>reals.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 04:23 PM
1

they will continue to weaponize this further until Ivanka Trump is our only hope.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 06:07 PM
7

source please I want to read/share this
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 05:37 PM
0

Who is this, what school is this, and where do I donate?
/r/MensRights10/10/16 07:20 PM
4

So the obvious solution is to date younger.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 09:38 AM
7

You're forgetting about the 80/20 rule. Most women want an alpha (or what looks, to them, in their circles, to be an alpha). Maybe the lowliest of betas gets lucky once or twice. But getting an N-count >5? Takes a modicum of self-respect
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 09:37 AM
7

HOW IS THIS DIFFERENT THAN "PRAY THE GAY AWAY" CAMPS??? how quickly the cultural pendulum swings
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 07:21 PM
108

children shouldn't be voting. Repeal the 19th Amendment!! /s
/r/MensRights03/10/16 01:51 PM
7

if you ever get a time machine, do me a favor: go back and slap 20 y.o. me HARD
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 10:10 PM
2

Ar5ent we all. I look back and shudder at how much of an effeminate supplicating little boy I was
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 12:51 AM
4

I meant leave. An alpha would leave. Or leave her at the bar/party/altar. With abundance mentality, no girl is worth that.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 06:45 PM
1

does OP think that some people are just naturally large-muscled?
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 05:39 PM
4

nobody cares about BETAS. An unplugged guy isn't going to put up with that shit. I'm glad you got out of that situation, Dustin.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 04:39 PM
5

painful dedication to the narrative right here. we're no better than SJWs if we lie to ourselves. yeah, it was a bit crazy, but considering the circumstances, I'd want the same dedication from the woman raising my kids.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 01:37 PM
1

for celebrities with a parade of younger hotter options, definitely. There is a way to make it work, but its not a young man's game and its not without its huge financial risks that need mitigating (my major assets are all protected, thankfully).
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 01:32 PM
5

or he did everything right to sell magazines to the masses? Probably not though. doesn't hold up to occam's razor.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 01:30 PM
2

right? Brad has plenty of options. I'd get bored if I had that many options. I'm surprised anyone famous and good-looking stays married.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 01:00 PM
3

yeah but Brad Pitt is married to a very famous woman. Jolie has plenty of wealth, orbiters, and top-notch options.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 12:58 PM
1

it's a journey. looking forward to taking that next step
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 11:45 AM
17

came here to downvote a boring rehash of AF/BB. Pleasantly surprised at the insight.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 07:09 PM
3

I've redpilled exactly ONE person. It was a casual conversation and he was already coming to most of these conclusions on their own. So while on a road trip I read to him the first 4 pages of Rational Male. He took it from there, asking me about book suggestions. Every other attempt I've made has been an absolute failure. He has to already be there on his own for it to work. At which point, is it really red-pilling??
/r/MarriedRedPill19/09/16 04:20 PM
12

Certainly don't discuss them. that's the problem. AFC's are used to "discussing" as their conversation. Very boring. Then they read all of this stuff, don't internalize it, and choose it as a "discussion" topic. Very boring AND pathetic. Learned the material, but still don't "just get it" Honestly, I probably still fall into this group. I don't talk about fight club, but I still don't "just get it" either yet. Still working on overt vs. covert communication and playful conversation.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 04:07 PM
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I caught some noob over in the short subreddit bitching about how men have it so hard talking about redpill. "Pity on me I'm not a 6'6" greek god" Super pathetic. This is WHY we say don't talk about fight club. You look like a 10-year-old saying "I'm trying really hard to be a MAN"
/r/TheRedPill19/09/16 04:01 PM
3

natural alpha born of the circumstances of his life.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 08:58 PM
26

I have a coworker who spins plates, he says it like this (regarding a recent top plate he downgraded). "well, for now we're just going to keep things casual. It just works better for us that way. That way I can do what I want to do, and she can do what she wants to do" people generally accept that. He never uses redpill terminology. He is divorced so maybe people accept it better in that context, but I can't see the outcome being much different without his past
/r/TheRedPill14/09/16 03:00 PM
2

Leave the top level comments here for new questions. If you have a question that is on the same thread as another one, feel free to comment to it, so Rollo can see questions in greater depth.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/16 05:18 PM
2

man-boobed apology excellent post. exactly what we need to hear
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:22 PM
1

well, I HAVE been spending less time with my geeky wimpy thin friends and spending more time at the gym since unplugging
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 12:03 PM
1

my dryer doesn't operate very well. sometimes things come out wrinkled. I only need to iron a few things a month.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 05:49 PM
20

Who is John Galt? An explorer, the greatest explorer that ever lived. The man who found the fountain of youth.John Galt spent years looking for it. He crossed oceans, and he crossed deserts, and he went down into forgotten mines, miles under the earth.But he found it on the top of a mountain. It broke every bone in his body, it tore the skin off his hands, it made him lose his home, his name, his love.But he climbed it. He found the fountain of youth, which he wanted to bring down to men. Only h…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:42 PM
6

get out there, get involved in something positive, meet others who have escaped the crab bucket. Surrounding yourself with positive influences will do wonders for your future journey down this path. And don't dwell on these toxic people you've removed. Rather, go boldly and get laid like you're James Kirk Crab bucket example http://www.nytimes.com/2007/07/25/health/25iht-fat.4.6830240.html
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:39 PM
3

nobody wants to be the sperg at the office with wrinkled khakis and unkempt hair
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 03:32 PM
2

My LTR was alright at it, really doubled down when she became an LTR. Spends a lot of time learning new recipes. Still refuses to iron though...
/r/TheRedPill12/09/16 02:30 PM
5

Men in Love vs Women in Love. classic sidebar
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:17 PM
6

wait, did the writers of How I Met Your Mother borrow this from this guy?
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 03:16 PM
2

reminds me of the last line of Boy Scout oath [I will do my best to] keep myself physically strong, mentally awake, and morally straight.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 01:13 PM
0

Gotta finish killing the beta first, then time will tell if she's on board.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 09:47 PM
5

stumbled across TRP when marriage was in trouble. At least beta me had the good sense to marry "one of the good ones", although no unicorn. We'll see if she stays around, but some days she is truly on-board as first mate. Edit: in response to downvotes... I'm not pro-marriage. Legally, it is a trap so enter very very carefully, if at all. I've seen too many idiots living life on autopilot fall into marriage. Like I did. Fortunately all of my major assets are protected. If we didn't have a kid, I…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 08:57 PM
1

great response, staying within their narrative on the rest of the convo. No need to set yourself apart on TWO divisive topics for the whole night.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 08:41 PM
2

overt vs covert communication. understanding this separates those who "just get it" from the rest
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 08:37 PM
3

keep it up! You're inside my head and I appreciate the succinct actionable feedback
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 08:27 PM
2

Mistake #6 is classic Nice Guy. Something I've had the most trouble with.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/16 08:25 PM
2

weak men were the cause of the rise of feminism. Remember when we saved Europe from the Nazis? Gone are the days you can find men like that on every corner. If you were a woman and all the options were Nice Guys or fuckbois, wouldn't you try to dismantle the patriarchy too?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/16 09:28 PM
2

Needs something about lifting in there
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 04:35 PM
6

perhaps next time turn down the proposition in a less clear manner? Respond with "sure" but then... your schedule is just always too busy isn't it a shame wouldn't that be nice oh look at the time gotta run see ya! OR find a way to turn her down in such a way that she feels good about it, like it was her decision not to pursue. Just some thoughts. Curious to hear how the proposition and turn down went
/r/TheRedPill26/08/16 03:53 PM
9

I think you got the translation wrong. More like, "thank you for letting me bottle your bathwater so I can drink it at my desk at work"
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 04:10 PM
10

unfortunately they are top notch professionals at painting people as conspiracy theorists.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 03:56 PM
2

so is there an isolationist political movement in Germany at all, like there is here in the US? With the immigrant crisis and Merkel's newfound unpopularity do you think there will be a shift in thinking?
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 03:55 PM
3

haha. what a desperate beta you would have to be to humiliate yourself like that.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/16 03:53 PM
1

that was definitely not the best position to be in
/r/MensRights22/08/16 09:27 PM
1

right. My problem is I still have this knee-jerk reaction of trying to save it, so I start to DEER. I'm just gonna tattoo this on the back of my eyelids No option but to handle your fucking shit like a man.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/16 11:17 AM
2

how did he respond???
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 05:00 PM
3

right. marriage is way easier when I get the lawn mowed before she mentions it.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/08/16 04:59 PM
1

too bad i didn't find this stuff when I was 19 and suffering my first oneitis
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 02:05 PM
2

which WILL BE TEMPTING because of your former one-itis for her. It will be doomed: she will know that you're the kind of guy who gets back together with girls who cheated on him.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 02:04 PM
3

MRP talks about this concept (outcome independence) a LOT in a slightly different setting (obviously). When you make a move on your wife, already have some other plan in mind. If she turns you down, go on to the next activity. Problem for me with that though, was connecting the dots. The attitude. The actual way to do OI right. This was a very very good post for me.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 10:06 PM
1

seconded. didn't talk about fight club, but talked about practice for fight club. BAAAAD IDEA. But an Average Frustrated Chump (such as me, 6 months ago), is addicted to validation and will have a hard time following this advice.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/16 08:11 PM
17

I slap my girl on the ass and tell her to leave. she loves it.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 07:52 PM
18

At bars they bump into you and still stand there expecting something but they don't initiate conversation. trying to initiate the ol' rom-com meet-cute
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 06:03 PM
1

I listen to podcasts in the car exclusively. Any way to make that happen without streaming from youtube over cellular data?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 05:58 PM
7

second this. OP, YOU also had the capacity to stay fit, active, and socially connected during the last 8 years. But you didn't. Can you blame her for following your lead into mediocrity. Own it. Be angry at yourself. Now channel it: Dig deep. Work on you. Comfort/complacency are your enemies, not her. Guide her into coming along this journey with you. See how far she comes. Under the right leadership, some people are capable of impressive change. According to BluePillProfessor's 12 levels of dre…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/08/16 03:39 PM
15

I see this as a good thing. hear me out: the further PC culture pushes, the sooner everyone is going to realize they are hamstrung by these 21st century jim crow laws. The sooner either: 1) the pendulum starts to swing back or 2) western civilization collapses and we can start over. Preferably #1, because I'm a big fan of western civ.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 06:59 PM
5

part of why i love this sub
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 05:32 PM
40

This is why we lift and build frame
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 02:09 PM
4

more succinctly: make your life about owning your life
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 02:17 PM
9

Don't become obsessed with any online forum. This is just a resource for you to live a real life. This is not a substitute for whatever else you were using to avoid your life before. IMHO, its probably healthiest to 1) buy the books on the sidebar and start reading 2) go to the gym regularly 3) stay off any addicting internet. The best posts and theories from here are already on the sidebar, you're not going to miss anything earth shattering.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 02:16 PM
2

there are plenty of fish. were I OP, i'd rather start at ground zero than start at ground -2 (which is where he's at now). She now knows that he's enough of a cuck to stay with a girl who cheated on him. He will always be a beta in her eyes. I'm also a married man who frequents MRP as well. I would kick out my wife if she cheated mostly for the above reasons and self-respect.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 02:12 PM
7

repeat: dump her. She obviously doesn't have respect/attraction for you. She never will. Search your feelings, you know this already.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 04:49 PM
19

congrats on your first post and your progress. Reminder that the format for posts here is: Intro: (text) Body: (text) Lessons learned: (text) TL;DR: (text) Just like scientific articles need an abstract and a conclusion section to help everyone use their time effectively, we value our own time here. Your post will get more responses if it is concise and formatted correctly
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 02:28 PM
2

I don't have much scarring. Very light scarring on my cheeks and corners of my nose. In fact, I am mistaken as being younger than I am, and could use a little more scarring;) To be fair, since I started lifting, I don't get mistaken for a young age as often. I think my small frame wasn't doing me any favors.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 03:14 PM
1

2 sets of accutane, dry ice treatments, and lazer treatments for me. Finding the right dermatologist is key in these situations.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 02:56 PM
1

ugh. i forgot about how much high school sucked for me b/c of this. My heart goes out to you man. My dermatologist put me on "accutane?" and it finally cleared up just in time for my senior year. Ask around and try to find a dermatologist who specializes in this. If you're in the midwest, PM me.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 02:54 PM
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my mom had to bring in newspaper articles she had clipped about the dangers. All just to make sure that I wasn't clipped. I haven't bought her flowers in a while. I should buy her flowers.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 02:47 PM
5

and that most of us are white supremacists, just in case the first label doesn't stick
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 02:35 PM
15

right? I wouldn't blame her for dumping him.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 06:23 PM
1

exactly. That would've been more my style.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 04:32 PM
1

IMHO, at least they could have bought ice cream together (regardless of who paid for what) so she didn't have to stand in line all by herself. That is probably where she got bored and started hamstering.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 01:42 PM
1

Maybe. That was my experience. I definitely WAS hamstering my justification of a Nice Guy (tm) identity
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 01:16 PM
2

I really want to see this sweater now
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 05:52 PM
2

Awesome first step! Many people never make it as far as you have. Don't let it go to waste. 1) befriend this gym bro. to the experience lifters among us, be that gym bro. 2) keep going. 3x a week. No exceptions. 3) study! on the stronglifts website, read every page. watch every video. print off the tip sheets. 4) back all of this up with nutrition, hydration, and sleep.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 04:34 PM
2

heeeeeere's the thing. I am moral. I neither lie nor cheat nor steal nor rape nor murder. I vote, I pay taxes, I pay my mortgage, I go to church. I follow the spirit of traffic laws if not the letter. Even after swallowing the pill, I am in the top 10% of morality. A model citizen. In fact, now that my wife is sleeping with me ~weekly (still not where I want to be, but that's another topic) I'm less likely to go apeshit. My business is going better now that I'm focused on my mission, creating va…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/16 01:36 PM
2

if you're getting biblical, don't forget Proverbs 12:1: Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but whoever hates correction is stupid. the Word, people. Your Grandpa's sidebar
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 08:38 PM
1

Right? The worst part for me was the obsession over it. I would think about the most moral way to talk to women. I would obsess over the most moral way to open the door for a woman. I wasn't a thief or rapist or murderer, so I was already a really good person. But I was fucking obsessed because that was my whole identity. I was a Nice Guy (tm)
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 06:22 PM
1

I know what kind of life I want to lead. My only enemy is comfort.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 06:16 PM
1

update in my first comment
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 05:11 PM
1

update in my first comment
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 05:11 PM
1

update in my first comment
/r/TheRedPill25/07/16 05:11 PM
1

I made the mistake of arguing with a beta friend who posted this article on Facebook where he defended his stance that (in his words) "There's definite sexism in looking for a stay at home spouse as compared to looking for someone awesome, and then having them decide they want to focus on the home." takeaway: delete facebook, hit the gym
/r/TheRedPill22/07/16 04:43 PM
6

you saw it here first, folks. /u/HeatseekingLogicPROPHET
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 07:16 PM
3

funny b/c their job is to words
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 05:03 PM
2

explore that more. I'm lifting but I think I'm getting gunshy at weights at or above my own bodyweight. Trying to keep progressing, but I think my mental fear is holding me back from benching/squatting/deadlifting something that big.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 06:00 PM
1

OP, I like the idea of a Things That Keep You Beta series. More please! Or as a friend says about receiving criticism "Thank You may I have another"
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 05:57 PM
1

Life isn't fair. This is all some Disney aftertaste karmic universe kind of stuff. Once I grew out of that, I found it easier to accept a more pragmatic view of the world. Some people get the shaft. Why? Not karma. Sometimes shit happens, but often its because they lied to themselves about the way of the world and were blindsided.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 03:34 PM
2

By carefully maintaining your own frame, and giving someone who has broken some social rule a chance to emerge from the situation with dignity, it elevates, rather than diminishes, the status of the leader who can be gracious instead of ruthless when others are cooperating. offering plausible deniability
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 03:10 PM
2

great post. society gets this so wrong and doesn't really teach this. I really noticed in the examples that the assertive response tends to result in the best outcome for all parties, and always makes the speaker look good.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/16 03:08 PM
0

you say responsible like its a good thing. I'm all for getting my own and making sure my children are taken care of, but beyond that? I don't owe anybody my good behavior.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 06:46 PM
1

she'd shake your frame that hard? I'd grab her wrists, wrestle her to the ground, get her all riled up and invite her back to my place.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 02:45 PM
1

thank you
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/16 02:26 PM
1

The Book of Pook?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/16 09:49 PM
1

whoah. This explains the issues I've been having.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/16 07:52 PM
3

still swallowing that pill, huh?
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 04:18 PM
1

i've met a few women like that on tinder. Talk like a man, but can't walk like a man.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 04:07 PM
3

The difference is between OVERT and COVERT communication. Rollo explains it well here: https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 05:53 PM
6

the pretense is the game. That's why its called a game.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 05:47 PM
7

Agreed. For me it was one moment. Every change I've made since then has been as a result of that one dawning moment of sick-to-my-stomach clarity and dizzying realization that I was enveloped in a lie of a worldview. I have a long road of changes ahead of me, but I couldn't go back even if I wanted to. Lucky for me, I stumbled across a TRP reference in deadbedrooms or relationships the very same week.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 04:28 PM
2

How about No More Mr. Nice Guy? It has really helped me stop caring what other people think. Regular exercise and meditation also has helped me clear my head quite a bit. The biggest struggle for me is finding the inner peace necessary to go into things with a fun and IDGAF attitude. I'm definitely still working on that. Some days I have to fake it really hard on the short trip to the gym where I can work off my frustrations.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 02:26 PM
2

read the sidebar. It's gonna help you out a lot. The pill is bitter, I know.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 10:02 PM
18

Plug for No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:53 PM
3

I love these mods. Keep up the good work!
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:52 PM
1

yes. Now focus on that weight. You need those suits.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:39 PM
1

I bought 10 of the Banana Republic Soft-wash V-neck off of ebay a few years back in several colors. To be fair: with the weightlifting I've been doing in the last 3 months, I may have to buy another set in a size up soon
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:37 PM
2

even on the cross country team we had to do weightlifting. it's hard to escape.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 08:13 PM
1

I'm guessing its not a bluff on OP's part. If she doesn't apologize, he's moving on.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 08:51 PM
1

Thank you. One of those is going to happen, time will tell which one
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 05:36 PM
3

this is what makes me tempted to get a dumb phone. Unfortunately I need work email. Maybe there's a way to disable everything else?
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 02:23 PM
1

What is your game plan to compensate for your age?
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 09:42 PM
3

guys, lets be real here. Is forcibly sending women to war en masse going to be productive? fuck no. This is stupid. Maybe I'm old fashioned
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 09:30 PM
5

haha. I just set a PR for my squat at 135 lb, 5 sets of 5 reps. Definitely working to overcome my dainty betaness. Got a way to go. But I've stubbornly committed to a lifestyle of improvement. I will admit I am still a pussy. First step of Alcoholics Anonymous is to admit it. I am a pussy.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 09:26 PM
11

nobody said it had to be fair. it just has to FEEL fair.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 08:55 PM
1

At first glance this post doesn't seem very substantive until you realize that everything hinges on attitude. Frame is all about controlling your attitude. Rule 0: be fun This is the pep-talk I needed today OP.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 03:17 AM
5

more like don't hate the player, play the game
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 02:28 PM
2

was the divorce as cheap as the wedding?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 09:47 PM
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