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aidsjohnson/r/seduction30/08/17 04:10 AM
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Prostitution
/r/seduction19/05/25 04:07 PM
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It already has. All this talk about height preferences and how much a partner should make etc. It’s all such a turn-off if you’re an average guy. That combined with everything else in the world doesn’t help (bad economy, tate influencer types, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/25 11:41 PM
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Are you kidding me? Even more so on the apps lol: they can reject guys under a certain height on Hinge before they even get a chance
/r/seduction07/05/25 01:07 AM
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Not to women
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:08 PM
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Seems like you asked us a question perfectly well. I would apply these same skills to him in a simple way that isn't creepy and see if it works. Good luck!
/r/seduction24/12/24 10:41 PM
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How tall are you and what's your race
/r/seduction02/12/24 07:43 PM
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It’s 100% relevant. Chinese guys and white women aren’t a common match, so it stands out. It def made me click lol
/r/seduction01/12/24 09:05 PM
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How tall are you and what’s your race
/r/seduction07/11/24 03:00 AM
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What do you mean by Rules 1 and 2?
/r/seduction06/11/24 01:10 AM
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Not what I said at all. YOU said that. I just said he had to play his cards right. That doesn’t mean manipulation. You might be projecting.
/r/seduction05/11/24 09:28 PM
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It’s both. He still had to play his cards right.
/r/seduction04/11/24 10:33 PM
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What if having sex with lots of women is my passion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/24 01:21 AM
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Hell yeah dude, go for it. If I had your life I’d definitely go for it.
/r/seduction26/10/24 01:10 AM
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Okay so bang a girl and then strike a fruity pose. Got it. Great advice, thanks!
/r/seduction23/10/24 08:09 PM
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Lol I forgot about this guy. He should post more, I used to like his videos.
/r/seduction21/10/24 08:21 PM
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Everything you mentioned, and also a lot of weak men have let it happen tbh. A lot of men are so desperate to get laid women know they'll always be able to get away with shitty behaviour to a certain extent, and have the upper hand in the dating world.
/r/seduction14/10/24 12:31 AM
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When I figure it out I’ll let you know🙃
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:32 PM
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You nailed it; someone can be super hot but just not good for the long term. One of the hottest girls I’ve ever been with is not that great personality wise. It’s like she’s cursed.
/r/seduction17/09/24 08:29 PM
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I agree that Toronto isn’t great, but with your height you should be able to make something happen, come on man lol
/r/seduction01/09/24 04:42 PM
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I wouldn’t go that far, I mean I’m fairly happy otherwise in life, it’s just something women place a high value on.
/r/seduction04/08/24 09:30 PM
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For me it’s height, not much money, and skin colour.
/r/seduction04/08/24 08:25 PM
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Well I mean yeah, if you’re not someone’s type then you’re just not their type. That’s how it is. No amount of charm will work if someone just doesn’t like you.
/r/seduction31/07/24 08:12 PM
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If I saw you on the subway or something I’d assume you were getting laid way more than myself lol
/r/seduction29/07/24 01:40 PM
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It isn't, but the dude said he isn't older than 30 yet himself so it's technically older for him.
/r/seduction03/07/24 11:32 PM
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It's a variety of things: I doubt anyone wants a short guy like myself, I don't have much to offer a woman at the moment (no money to waste), I haven't met anyone worth sacrificing my long term peace and happiness for, I'm not really putting myself in situations that would involve me meeting new people regularly because I'm usually too busy taking care of other important things. My lifestyle is basically just a perfect recipe to not have a girlfriend overall lol.
/r/seduction30/06/24 04:42 PM
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By not making women your whole life and just trying to be happy otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 04:55 PM
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Not what I said, but go off
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 04:36 AM
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Are you kidding me? Girls in big cities are out there partying and socializing. You don’t always even have to be that good looking, just a fun guy to be around. Of course it helps if you’re a Chad or whatever, but girls these days are very liberal. It’s never been more easy to get laid, you just gotta take care of yourself and go to a bar or club or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 08:07 PM
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Jacking off to regular people you know is more normal than jacking off to porn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/24 08:01 PM
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Meditating, exercising, and reading books helps me. Other hobbies are important too, like writing and watching movies. Going for long walks. A nice mushroom trip once a year. I don’t worry too much about what I can’t control, I just try to focus on my inner peace and maintaining that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 04:59 PM
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I'm shorter than that🥴but that's still pretty cool !!
/r/seduction22/01/24 04:40 AM
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Well aside from the obvious answers like having a job, keeping yourself in shape, etc, it’s just objectively hard work for men to sleep with women because it’s harder. A woman can do zero of those things (no job, no exercise, no wardrobe) and still find someone to sleep with her within an hour or less probably. For a man it would take a bit longer. That’s what men are referring to when they say it’s hard work. We can’t just leave the house and get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 03:37 AM
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I think you're wrong. Lots of women out there like chubby guys, and there's been an interest in the "dadbod" in recent years.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:35 PM
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I don't agree with it, but I get it. Imagine you've tried your whole life to improve your situation and nothing works. Over and over and over. What is there left to do? Let off some steam and bitch about it. Again, not saying I agree with that, but I understand! They're hurt. Hurt people hurt people, as the saying goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:55 AM
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First off I'd have to ask you: what do you mean by "red pilled"? If you would define it as a guy who seems to be more cynical or "aware" of certain things, then I'd have to say: my thinking on this is that it doesn't have much to do with the usual reasons people would give, such as guys like Andrew Tate becoming popular or reading the internet too much or whatever. I think this is just a natural phenomenon that is a reaction to what life is like for most average young men. The average guy doesn'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 01:31 AM
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There’s nothing weird about it if you’re just looking for casual sex. But if you’re looking for a life partner and you’re willingly settling down with anyone based on looks…yeah that’s definitely weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 01:16 AM
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I’ve been with lots of working girls and I’d have to disagree with you: just because they’re sex workers doesn’t mean they let you do whatever you want with them. They’re still human beings and will speak up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:20 AM
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Dude this is my exact situation. Like eerily accurate lol: I am 31, never been with a “real” girl, have only ever paid for sex. I’ve thought about this a lot myself and I’d say that the sex counts as sexual experience, but nothing more. I don’t consider myself mature in the area of relationships because I’ve never been in one and have no clue what that’s like. But I do consider myself well educated in matters of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 06:18 AM
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I’m short and I wouldn’t date any of these girls if I was tall tbh lol. Height stuff aside, I don’t think I could date someone who uses Tiktok.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/09/23 02:38 AM
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Usually a person gets married if they meet another person and wants to build a relationship and grow old with them. If you’re happy alone then you’re doing fine, no need to change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 06:25 AM
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This is only ever an issue for judgmental women or men who have listened too much to judgmental women. Unless there’s grooming or breaching the legal age gap or something involved…it’s not a big deal lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 08:05 PM
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Nah I’m completely fucked. I am very short and I’m attracted to death by snu snu ass women. It’s over for me😭
/r/seduction22/09/23 03:26 PM
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By that logic you could say the same for men. You’re not wrong, but it doesn’t apply to all people. Some people still continue to form relationships and don’t like being alone. What you’re describing is very hollow and empty after awhile and I don’t think is very healthy in the long run. The human brain likes forming connections with people, it can’t process being fucked by a dildo everyday for 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 03:38 PM
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It’s weird, on one hand I’ve been very fortunate to have a very wide range of all these great experiences with all these beautiful women lol. But then on the other…..I’ve never had a girlfriend or attracted a woman naturally without my money, so I suppose I am stunted in some ways I guess. Like in other words I’m good at sex and very comfortable talking to women now (which I wasn’t really before: I was very shy), but most of them probably still see me as a nerd and the same guy I was before star…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:49 PM
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Yes I do. (And before you say username makes a post: I’ve already heard it a million times lol). I’ve never been with a woman who isn’t a sex worker. I started seeing em at the age of 20 and I’m 31 now. It started out of necessity at first and then I just sort of got used to it. I’ve tried to get a “real” girlfriend, but I can’t lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 05:22 PM
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Yeah I think so. People can split hairs about what the word better means but we’re essentially talking about the same thing. More money, taller, stronger…that means better lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:49 PM
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Stopped reading after 6’3”
/r/seduction19/09/23 03:27 PM
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No offense man but it’s probably because you need to work on your social game more than your career game. That’s why there’s lots of broke losers who get women, they’re fun to be around and socially skilled. You’re more of a career guy and might be considered boring. Anyway, thanks for this post though. It’s true, overall you’re correct: you can’t just focus on one thing above all others because something else will be lackluster. In your case I think it’s the lacking social skills thing/being se…
/r/seduction11/09/23 05:26 PM
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In my 20s, hell yeah. These days I'm a bit more selective.
/r/seduction13/07/23 08:51 PM
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Talking to them is not the hard part, sealing the deal is
/r/seduction25/04/23 01:27 AM
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It definitely matters, but that doesn't mean it's impossible and you should stop trying.
/r/seduction11/10/22 11:22 PM
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You know what, now that I think about it, same here. I think what happens with women is they don't like the pressure of having to be in the position of telling a guy, "No," or whatever if he seems desperate for her attention and he's expressing interest. Meanwhile, the guy who is just doing his thing and chilling is more attractive because there are no stakes or danger level for her. If she likes or does not like him, he looks like he'll be fine either way, and she's way more comfortable with th…
/r/seduction11/10/22 06:20 PM
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5’3”
/r/seduction08/10/22 03:19 PM
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I'm an average dude, so most of the time I don't get any of that stuff. But sometimes I feel like they do notice, due to stuff like dressing well and stuff like that. The problem is I'm very short, so whatever attraction they have doesn't last very long. It's just a fleeting thing, but I do notice it sometimes. Women check dudes out all the time, they're people just like us lol
/r/seduction08/10/22 03:17 AM
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Why would you even say this, isn’t this obvious
/r/seduction23/09/22 10:19 PM
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No, I don't remember doing that at all wtf?
/r/seduction14/09/22 08:54 PM
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Number 15 discredits everything you said. Anyone that is good looking can do this, I wouldn’t be so proud of yourself if I was you lmao. This subreddit is for average dudes trying to better themselves and you’re good looking, clearly you don’t have to do as much work as the rest of us. This doesn’t count lol
/r/seduction12/09/22 05:12 PM
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Nice, this warmed my heart. Good luck bro.
/r/seduction26/08/22 02:10 PM
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5’9” is not short
/r/seduction25/08/22 03:20 PM
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Sort of. I feel like a couple of girls in my social media only keep me around to keep tabs on me so to speak. They don't give a shit about me really, they just keep me there in case they need someone one day. I mean, we do the same shit to them all the time. It's human nature lol
/r/seduction18/08/22 03:58 AM
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Sheer stupidity on my part. I let my guard down. Never again, I'll say that much! lol
/r/seduction11/08/22 02:55 AM
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Awww poor you lol, I would kill for those problems. Girls sexualize you? Imagine if they didn’t think of you sexually at all. Way worse lmfao. If you’re more attractive you’ve got it made, stop pretending it’s difficult in any way shape or form. Gtfo here w that shit lol.
/r/seduction08/08/22 01:57 AM
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That is great to hear. Good for you honestly. I still say that people like you are not the usual, that’s a rarity. Which sucks, but it’s the truth IMO
/r/seduction07/08/22 09:19 PM
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Ok fine, but can we at least agree that that's a rarity and not the norm?
/r/seduction06/08/22 09:26 PM
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I am not an attractive guy by any means, but listen man: you're kidding yourself if you think attractive guys don't have to do any work at all. Of course it's easier for them to a certain extent, but one thing on here all of us dudes have to get through our thick skulls: the girl will NEVER MAKE THE FIRST MOVE. They may make themselves "available" to you or put themselves in your proximity and give you looks or whatever, but they'll never approach you first. And the ones that do are only gonna g…
/r/seduction06/08/22 09:06 PM
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Yeah it's topsy turvy out there. I heard some dude say, "we live in a sneakylink culture" recently. Too true lol
/r/seduction06/08/22 08:38 PM
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100% true, cool and nonreactive is the best way to go about it. Sometimes women just wanna see what will happen if they say "no" to you lol, you have to show em they're not your whole world at first because that can be a turnoff.
/r/seduction05/08/22 04:27 PM
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I mean I guess we all go through it😂. I feel like it's a common thing, especially when you're younger. I guess it's a self-hating thing a little bit, mfs see it as validation or some shit. But after you've experienced it a few times it's really not that big of a deal, they're just women like other races are, nothing more or less lmao.
/r/seduction05/08/22 01:22 AM
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I know this girl who works as a sex worker but isn’t very public about it. I think she just wants to look cool without letting the world know the dude she’s with isn’t the best looking. And the other thing is: sometimes there’s really no dude there. It’s just her taking her friends out and they’re trying to make some dude who isn’t making a move jealous.
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:37 PM
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Ok then he should’ve said that then lol. “Immature” is entirely different. Boyish optimism you mean? I feel that, v true.
/r/seduction04/08/22 02:28 PM
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Women like dudes who act like little kids? That can’t be right
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:19 PM
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It’s because he has money and a fairly successful career. Not to mention the social proofing: women see other women happy with him and think they’ll be happy with him too. They’re not geniuses, it’s monkey see monkey do. In another life, any dude on here could easily be a Pete Davidson.
/r/seduction04/08/22 01:16 PM
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I think very attractive women in general can be very boring and bad conversationalists. I've experienced the same with all races. TBH, hot women are awesome to look at, but it's rare that they're actually fun to talk to as well. Those are the unicorns lol
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:40 PM
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"A career is in your control," it's true that working hard is a variable you can work on, but I wouldn't go so far as to say you have control over that stuff in this economy. And as for your comment on "can't get rich," same thing: just because you have a "career" doesn't mean you'll be rich. But I get your point overall, we should focus on what we can control, like working on your charisma etc. I just hate how people use Peter Dinklage as an example of a short guy who got a girlfriend lol he's …
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:37 PM
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He married his wife in 2005, he had roles at that point (including Elf), so not really "pre" fame. I get your point, but it's important to remember: he wasn't just a short guy, he was a short guy with a career.
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:29 PM
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Yes it is a little bit. I'm 30 and never had a girlfriend at all, so that's kinda inspiring even though you were already doing better than me to begin with. I'd kill for a girlfriend who cheats on me😂
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:15 PM
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Congrats buddy, can I ask yr age? I’m trying to see if this story is actually inspiring or if you’re just a young dude who was pretending to be hopeless
/r/seduction30/07/22 04:39 PM
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No, I'm not attracted to fat women. I think they're gross IMHO. I exercise and expect them to take care of themselves too. What I would tell a guy who caught feelings for one is...cool, good for you.
/r/seduction25/07/22 03:39 AM
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IDK man I never had much luck with women, but I would imagine it's like playing tennis or some shit. If it works between you two, there's a game going down and you both know it. If she's not receptive...there's no game lol
/r/seduction25/07/22 03:08 AM
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Yeah I never had much luck with Tinder. The most that happens is I match with a couple girls here and there, we talk, they ghost. Or they don't even respond at all. It's dehumanizing.
/r/seduction25/07/22 01:44 AM
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I can honestly say that I am generally at the same level of niceness to everyone. Am I more attracted to an "8/10 blonde girl"? Yes, of course. But I think it's so obvious if you're more nice to someone just for attraction reasons. Super cheesy, I wouldn't do that lol.
/r/seduction25/07/22 12:10 AM
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How
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:37 PM
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lmfao you're fine. I'm 5'3" and very unlucky, you should be grateful for that kinda height man.
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:29 AM
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None of em ever choose me
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:42 AM
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Not in one because I can't find the right person
/r/seduction18/07/22 04:42 AM
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I was never successful in high school because I was the only brown dude there, but from observing the whites I'd say be friendly with people, try to make friends w a girl in "your league" so to speak, make sure the feelings are mutual etc, and before you know it you got yourself a girlfriend and the getting laid stuff might happen. Also you gotta be going to parties and be real social w everyone in general.
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:45 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:32 PM
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Yeah I wish I had some guidance regarding that. Will never understand how my father was able to get a wife, and here I am in 2022 an incel lmao. It’s fucking pathetic.
/r/seduction06/07/22 03:17 PM
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Yup it’s awesome
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:01 AM
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I'm a brown dude and I've fucked lots of white girls. It's not a big deal, man. They're nothing special lol. I mean I totally get it, because you probably never saw girls that looked like that in India, and the novelty of it is cool to you. 25 is not too old, and if anything, some of these girls actually dig the accent. It might work for you, at the very least you might end up being a funny story for some girl who wants a fun night out and ends up fucking some random Indian dude.
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:44 AM
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If you're just looking for a ONS just go to a bar or some shit like that. To be honest though, if you wanna avoid hassle and wasting time and effort and shit, and pussy is all you want, I'd just get a hooker lmao
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:25 AM
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Why’s that? At least you got a foot in the door, they don’t even think of me as a person, it’s like I’m invisible
/r/seduction08/05/22 03:22 PM
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Height definitely matters, I'm short and it doesn't help, trust me lol
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:26 AM
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Not really resentful, just more amazed every day how dumb my parents were. I mean, I learned everything about this shit on my own lol. My teachers didn’t really do anything for me the internet didn’t already. It’s insane to think that sex is such an important aspect of life and my parents didn’t tell me shit lol
/r/seduction21/02/22 03:41 AM
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We all feel that way sometimes. It’s just loneliness, it happens. I’ve gotten lots of pussy and never had a girlfriend and I feel that way very often. Those guys are lucky and I wish I could find someone that wasn’t a total drag lol
/r/seduction23/01/22 02:50 AM
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Lmao you’re 17 and 6’4” and think you know shit? With all due respect, go fuck yourself kid. I’m gonna be 30 next month and I’m 5’3” and believe me: height matters.
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:41 PM
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Yeah absolutely, you never know who might be different haha.
/r/seduction16/01/22 08:21 AM
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I'm not a pornstar, but I have only ever gotten laid from lots of hookers, and some of them have OnlyFans and do work of that nature, so I relate to your post. You are right about the too much pleasure part, there is an emptiness feeling one gets with hookups and no relationship attached to it. When sex becomes transactional like that it's just another rote thing in your life like anything else. Like it's still fun, don't get me wrong, but it also becomes mechanical because you know exactly what…
/r/seduction16/01/22 07:14 AM
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I'd say you nailed it. It's lack of passion, "starfishing" you as the phrase goes. Basically not being into it, like they're doing you a favour and don't wanna be there. And when it comes to head, I've noticed the better looking a girl is, the more likely it is she's awful at blowing me. A couple times I've been pleasantly surprised, but I'd say more often than not when the girl is too hot she just doesn't have to put in the effort at sucking dick because she's never had to. Don't mean to be vul…
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:12 AM
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Yes, and I've found that hot girls are often bad at sex. They've had a lifetime of no one correcting em so they think they're doing fine. It's disappointing.
/r/seduction16/01/22 04:11 AM
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Yeah it's a bummer lol. All that money to get pussy and it's not even a sure thing. Incredibly time consuming and most of them are not that fun to talk to in all honesty.
/r/seduction16/01/22 04:09 AM
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Dude relax, even if she leaves you can still make it happen. I once had a little work crush on this girl who left a job I was at in like late 2016, I quit shortly after in early 2017, then later I accidentally found her on IG and fucked her in 2018! If anything it's probably even better that you're not working together, because now if it doesn't work out there's no pressure. Good luck man! Definitely doable.
/r/seduction16/01/22 12:23 AM
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If you're a woman: you should know how to suck dick properly. Get as much of it down as possible. Don't just suck the head, the whole dick needs attention. You also need to know how to be filthy and talk dirty. If you're a dude: look up Patrice O'Neal's material on "finger popping technique." This was a real game changer for me. But this is just me generalizing. It's best to talk to your partner about whatever they want!
/r/seduction15/01/22 10:20 PM
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You're not wrong, women are more social people than dudes. There was some study that said the average woman talks more in a given day than a man, so they do like a man that gets out there. As for the other part of your post, that stuff definitely matters lol. Height, ethnicity, money, looks, and dating scene these days sucking are all factors. That's why I don't do well on these apps and shit, makes it easier for girls to not give me a chance. But you are right that if I were to go out I'd have …
/r/seduction10/01/22 05:04 PM
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Yes they do.
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:52 PM
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Shit is painful bro, your post got to me, but you know what: on some level that is their job as women, trying to break us as men. It’s similar to the shit test when you’re dating em; they try to ruin you a couple times to see what you’re made of. Best thing to do is never get too attached to anyone so you’re in the right mindset constantly. Sounds cynical if you grew up on romance movies and that type of horseshit like I did, but they do the same damn thing. I can’t tell you how many girls I kno…
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:37 PM
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Damn I feel that man. I’m 29 and a buncha girls I know are getting married rn before old age sets in and Father Time comes to ruin them lol. Man, the worst is when you think you’re over a girl and have the funeral and she reappears in yr life. Some of em can be very manipulative in that regard, like a cat playing with a toy or some shit, you gotta be real careful.
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:16 PM
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Yeah I know I get that a lot on here.
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:14 AM
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Ugh those crushes. Painful. Getting over a person you never even dated is the worst😫😫😫😭😭🤣. Going through it rn tbh with you.
/r/seduction08/01/22 04:17 AM
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Yeah it really makes no sense. The only times I’ve seen this work is when the dude is just absolutely slaying pussy and isn’t insecure. If you stay friends with the girl after the fact and you don’t get any other women it’s bad for your mental health and you’ll just suffer from oneitis. The best thing to do is cut off all contact. Don’t follow, don’t cyber stalk, don’t even text. Just pretend she’s dead, have a funeral for her in your brain, and move tf on.
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:28 AM
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IDK I think you should do it in your own way but tbh “awwww” is feminine language haha. Also the you don’t have to feel bad is being too polite; she’s in the wrong here. I like the assertive last line though. Good luck king lol you got this one in the bag bro👑
/r/seduction07/01/22 10:54 PM
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Like that but less nice haha
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:49 PM
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Make her feel bad about it in a playful way and offer a flirty invitation over to your place to make up for her negligence
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:01 PM
3

Yeah exactly this. If she's already wasted your time and you guys have already met and she's hitting you up now she probably wants the D.
/r/seduction07/01/22 08:08 PM
7

My NYR is to get pussy without paying for it. I never have.
/r/seduction07/01/22 07:39 PM
15

Dude this is so true, the girls that like me I'm not really into, and the ones I actually want it's harder. That's life I guess. As for your university question: yes and yes. You should be getting your dick wet every opportunity you can get. Make some memories while you still can bro, these are your fuck years.
/r/seduction07/01/22 05:48 PM
1

I am still horrible with women but slowly getting better. I honestly think it's just because women like older guys and I am now, naturally, older. That's really it, nothing I have personally done, they just like feeling confident that they're making the right choice with who they're with and more often than not that tends to be an older dude who seems like he knows more than them and is somehow a "leader."
/r/seduction07/01/22 05:06 PM
4

That's not too much, an hour by car is nothing dude. What do you expect, hot available women to be around wherever you are at all times? You're def gonna have to do some travelling and work lol. Now if it was like a 10 hour road trip, that would be a different story. I'd stay my ass home. But 1 hour? That's a podcast, who gives a shit.
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:50 PM
1

I just want to comment on the Instagram part. A common sentiment I've seen from girls these days is that they actually like a guy with ZERO Instagram, almost as much as a guy with a really cool Instagram. Because if you don't have one you're more of a mysterious dude. So just something to keep in mind: if you have one, you better make it cool. But if it's lame, you're better off just not having it at all.
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:33 PM
2

It's obviously your life and choice to make, but I would personally never get involved with anyone at work regardless of what floor they're on etc. Securing your finances is more important than any potential flings that may come your way at work. There's just too much potential for things to go wrong. It's especially not worth it when you consider the fact that there's a great big world out there filled with women you don't have to worry about your job over. This isn't the 70s, you can get in tr…
/r/seduction07/01/22 12:03 AM
1

I'm 5'3" and never had much luck with the ladies. Height definitely matters. However, I will say this: although I'm not Brad Pitt over here or some shit I do still have a small window of opportunity with certain women able to get past the height stuff. Some women can be very forgiving.
/r/seduction06/01/22 08:40 PM
5

https://libgen.is/search.php?req=models+mark+manson&lg_topic=libgen&open=0&view=simple&res=25&phrase=1&column=def
/r/seduction05/01/22 11:21 PM
22

Is Models really that good? I keep seeing it get recommended on here. I guess I'll finally have to download and read it today.
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:43 PM
19

Dude relax, you got this. You're only 17 and you're working on bettering yourself. I'm 29, never had a long-term girlfriend, and only starting now. Good luck brother.
/r/seduction05/01/22 04:42 PM
0

Man it’s just a numbers game. Don’t take shit too personally, women are emotional creatures and a no could easily turn into a yes if the circumstances are right. Don’t let those “no” bitches ruin your confidence at finding a “yes” bitch. Being a man is all about how well you take rejection and get back up, don’t worry bro. Good luck king.
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:15 PM
2

Exactly, that's my New Years resolution lmfao!
/r/seduction03/01/22 05:33 AM
7

If you're average looking you just gotta try and become one of the ones who gets laid. Personally, I've never gotten pussy without paying for it, but one of my New Years resolutions is to work on that and fix it. Good luck, king.
/r/seduction03/01/22 04:01 AM
9

No, you have standards and that’s fine. I personally only go down on a woman if I really like her or if it’s so well groomed and clean I just have to lol. A big problem with a lotta women is they have this unearned sense of pride about their pussies because everyone wants to bang ‘em, and as a result they often have no clue if they need to work on things down there or not. Not saying that to be a dick, I’m just saying it factually.
/r/seduction30/12/21 10:58 PM
2

I don’t think it matters for a job like that. It’s not like an office where you’re expected to be boring and formal lol
/r/seduction29/12/21 06:04 PM
1

My point is we're men and complaining about it doesn't make it any better. You want to be respected? Become a guy worth respecting. It's no one's fault, that's just the game. If you want it easier than you got it now go get a sex change operation and become a woman or some shit.
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:52 AM
1

No, but almost just as unappealing to a woman looking for "Mr. Right" or whatever: a short glasses wearer
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:40 AM
2

Personally I would choose to be a dude every time if I had to choose. Sure, they have it easy in some respects: the average girl can just start up an onlyfans or become a hooker and make a decent chunk of change easily and blahblahblah. We all know that argument. But I would rather be a dude and deal with the miseries of rejection. At least I still get to piss standing up and have no periods, haha. Who gives a fuck if you're not listened to or treated with respect. We're men, we're supposed to b…
/r/seduction29/12/21 12:03 AM
0

You can disagree all you want, but we all have our challenges in this life.
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:58 PM
8

I get the point you're trying to make, but think about 9 million sweaty fat dudes trying to fuck you at every turn when you're just trying to go to work lol. Or even just having a period. Being a woman must be tough.
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:46 PM
1

If you're a successful writer, yes. If you're just some guy living in his parents' basement like I am who is a writer but still has to have a day job, then the answer is still yes but a bit milder. I've noticed girls are kind of into it, I guess because it shows I have an interest outside of them, but it fades away fast after they figure out I'm really a loser and my life isn't actually going anywhere.
/r/seduction28/12/21 11:20 PM
2

It’s all about having a spine and showing em you aren’t just some subservient dude. They don’t like a guy that agrees with them on everything. Nice guys are boring and predictable: who wants to talk to a person that is always like “yes, yup, true, oh my god I love that movie too,” with no opinions of their own.
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:06 PM
1

Bartending. Everyone that works in a bar is fucking each other or the customers constantly.
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:03 PM
58

Of course not. That’s our burden to deal with, just like they have their burdens we won’t ever fully grasp.
/r/seduction28/12/21 09:59 PM
2

Yeah I get that a lot on here haha
/r/seduction27/12/21 05:58 PM
27

I fuck hookers, so it’s a lot
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:56 AM
1

"Don't worry, I haven't had an outbreak in awhile."
/r/seduction26/12/21 08:14 AM
0

Since caveman times lol. It sucks, but that’s just the game bro. No one is coming up to us and buying us drinks, if you want pussy you gotta work for it. In their brains they gotta be protective over their pussies because psychologically they can’t be just giving that shit away to anyone: innately, even if it’s a hookup or whatever, they are looking at the dude as “who is the best possible option for me right now/would he be a good protector/provider/father.” I know that sounds crazy, but that’s…
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:53 AM
1

Find a trustworthy dude friend, communicate your feelings on this matter to him like you just did to us, start fuckin, bing bang boom, confidence issues taken care of.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:47 AM
15

One thing about women is they don’t like simps. A guy giving her attention on social media is just that. She could always use one of those dudes to make you jealous down the line, but you gotta remember: she likes you and you’re doing something right. She probably likes you because you seem to have things figured out a bit more than some of those IG simps. And BTW, that ideology you have of girls not liking older guys is totally wrong. A lot of em actually love it because of how much different o…
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:45 AM
5

I think you’re reading too much into the giggle lol. You should be happy that she’s being pretty open about that shit with you. There are a lot of girls who don’t know what they want or are too embarrassed to talk about shit. I actually think her communication level is pretty damn good. It’s not like she’s some hypocrite who is regretting her decisions and making lies up to cover things up or whatever, she’s telling you straight up, this is what I wanted in the past, and this is what I want now.
/r/seduction26/12/21 05:41 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction25/12/21 06:16 AM
2

It obviously definitely helps. A dude with more money has more options and can show em a better time. He'd have to be a real boring piece of shit to fuck something like that up. If you have money you can take a woman to the Eiffel Tower or some shit like that and let your money do most of the work for you.
/r/seduction25/12/21 05:51 AM
0

Yeah I fucked up. Just another L, whatever.
/r/seduction24/12/21 10:16 PM
2

Yeah but it's for the benefit of us kings lol 👑👑👑
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:38 PM
3

Good. Fuck her. Don't let women waste your mf time.
/r/seduction24/12/21 08:11 PM
3

You take the L & move tf on, that's how you do it.
/r/seduction24/12/21 05:18 PM
3

I agree with this comment. This is what I was thinking: of course it's better to get her number, but I do think that with the right person/circumstances, if you give her yours it's not as bad as most guys think. Obviously a girl will never take initiative to set something up and blahblahblah, but I feel like if there's a connection there, you give her your number, and she reaches out, the setting up stuff is on you later. IDK, I'm just experimenting here. I guess I'll find out lol. Just another …
/r/seduction23/12/21 07:09 PM
8

I wouldn't get involved with someone like that. Sounds like she doesn't really know what the fuck she wants and is mentally unwell. I'd suggest getting away from that type of behaviour before it escalates.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:43 AM
1

It definitely matters that they enjoy themselves. But in terms of going down on a ONS, I personally would not do that. I'm not eating anyone's pussy if I don't know them well. I mean, that's just my personal rule for myself, but I only go down on a woman if I really like her. Sometimes girls will sit on your face and take it to that place, but I prefer to save that for special people lol.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:37 AM
1

I think you've been watching Saturday Night Fever too many times🤣
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:29 AM
2

I would usually agree with you and have had success in the past on IG, but this is a bit of a tricky one. I don't think she wants me to know what her IG is and I think I stand out to her precisely because we don't know each other there yet. If we follow each other it'll ruin it too fast I feel.
/r/seduction23/12/21 06:00 AM
4

I don’t have a brother but I’ve had best friends that were way better than me with girls and it was always very annoying. It sucks & I understand the frustration, but I guess what I’d say is just focus on yourself and your own improvement to the best of your ability. Can’t go wrong there.
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:51 AM
2

I feel you man, that's what I struggle with and why I've never had a girlfriend etc. You have to be the exact opposite of who you really are to get pussy, I hate it.
/r/seduction22/12/21 07:15 PM
3

Yes, I've gotten that many times on here lol
/r/seduction22/12/21 02:21 AM
2

Dude I am 29 and I started seeing escorts at 20 because I was a virgin and couldn't find girls that liked me back etc etc. To this day I haven't kissed a girl without paying for it. So all I'd say is just be careful if you choose the escort route: it's so easy that you might be doing yourself a disservice like I did lmao. I mean, it's definitely fun to get it over with, but I've never had a girlfriend or what you'd call "real" experiences.
/r/seduction22/12/21 01:55 AM
1

If you ask her to coffee then you pay.
/r/seduction22/12/21 12:00 AM
1

IDK, I've never had a girlfriend but I'd probably just watch and do nothing. If I speak up I look possessive, and if she flirts back with the guy or leaves with him or some shit then I've just learned a valuable lesson.
/r/seduction21/12/21 09:22 PM
3

I think there are definitely "leagues," but at the same time it kinda doesn't really matter.
/r/seduction20/12/21 07:17 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/seduction18/12/21 05:10 AM
1

(Cory Smith has some great material on really understanding this) Can you please elaborate or link to this material? Sounds interesting and this is something I am terrible at. I feel hella aspergery with women at times.
/r/seduction18/12/21 12:49 AM
1

What a weirdo. Will never understand women like this. Imagine talking to someone like that lol. The level of shitheadery and blind confidence she must have, Jesus.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/01/21 09:09 PM
44

It's just leftover genetics from caveman times and shit man. Women want to feel "protected" by men, that's why they tend to look for the easiest indicators of that: height and money. That's all it is. And of course a lifetime of pop culture brainwashing them doesn't help our cause either; they're conditioned to believe that a woman has to "look up" to a dude or else she won't feel womanly and shit.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/20 12:54 AM
143

Hahaha I saw one of these where the girl said “I don’t usually go for short guys but I’m down” and the guy said “well I usually like super pretty girls but I’ll still date you.” It’s reposted for a reason: these bitches don’t change!
/r/PussyPassDenied30/01/20 12:29 AM
1

Never. Trust me, I'm not great looking and not a good candidate. I'm only a lurker here. I pitched in because I thought you were taking a consensus of who is from Toronto here, sorry lol.
/r/seduction04/09/17 10:53 PM
1

What is RSD?
/r/seduction01/09/17 12:52 AM
2

Toronto guy here. But not a good wingman.
/r/seduction01/09/17 12:51 AM
1

Tried it out. You're right: the girls seem to be not only hotter, but real too. But either way, still no luck. I fucking give up. Maybe some people are just born to live a certain life. Maybe I'll travel the world and walk the earth or become a monk now, who knows.
/r/seduction31/08/17 07:45 PM
1

Damn, really? I didn't know people actually use that. I'll check it out, thanks!
/r/seduction30/08/17 08:48 PM
1

I did this, but be warned: it's really addictive if you have enough money saved up and you have an addict personality. Girls don't seem to like me without me paying for it, so this is pretty much all I do. It's depressing and simultaneously amazing. Good luck to you with whatever you choose. (As a side note: I wrote a book about this. https://www.amazon.com/Escort-Project-Jeff-Winneke-ebook/dp/B01DTA00SO/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1504076348&sr=8-1&keywords=escort+project+jeff+winneke )
/r/seduction30/08/17 06:59 AM
1

I'm 5 foot shit tall, I look like I'm 12, and I do awfully with women as a result. I feel like slapping you for even posting this nonsense, lol. You've been given an amazing gift: use it. Women love height.
/r/seduction28/08/17 06:40 AM
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