Giving your number vs getting a number

MagnusRoundstone · 2021-12-23T02:58:30+00:00

Give you number and there is a good chance she will never text or call. Get her number and at least you can reach out to her.

zx91zx91 · 2021-12-23T17:35:15+00:00

Here’s my little theory ( not sure if I’m correct, so just a theory)

If you give a girl your number there’s obviously less pressure on her because she can just not text you back without knowing that you have her number. From her point it’s a pretty safe deal. Also if a girl was really interested in you giving her your number would result in an obvious text back. You already showed interest in her and if she feels the same she’ll most definitely text back. However, if her interest level is low then she won’t text back and you can move on with life without wasting time.

Only positive I see with you getting her number is that you have chance of increasing attraction if she didn’t have it during the initial contact.

YesImTheAsshole_ta · 2021-12-24T05:00:28+00:00

Everyone has their style. Mine ain’t the high energy straight forward, this is a guy asking a girl out thing… mine is more, hey - i’m effortlessly interesting and smart as fuck, if I want our numbers will end up in each other’s phones without you even realizing it and you will wonder if I did it out of attraction but deep down hope that i did. My game is laid back and mysterious.

Here’s how it goes on a very basic level - build common ground on anything and have a good conversation. Show your more attractive qualities, if she seems interested, Steer the convo over to something like restaurant/bars/parks etc in town and tell (don’t ask) her to send you the website/page/pin of her favorout spot.

If you want to really slow brew it, wait til she is most into you and then dip for the night. Wait 4-7 days and hit that joint up, send her a pic of what your up to telling her how much you appreciate the solid rec. she’ll be aching to get together again, let nature take its course, she’ll make it easy for you from there.

hyxhufchy66666666 · 2021-12-24T22:01:04+00:00

Neither of them matter, if the woman is physically attracted to you she will contact you. Given my number to hundreds of women and none of them ever texted.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2021-12-23T05:36:44+00:00

Unpopular opinion: connect with her on IG instead of getting her number. Many benefits to doing so.

i_love_crazy_hobos · 2021-12-25T08:26:37+00:00

It sounds like it won't work as well, but if you're curious go out and field test it. Write in a journal how many of the girls you got their number you went on dates with, and how many when you gave yours.

Mr-Kabuki · 2021-12-23T15:46:02+00:00

Get her phone, add yourself as a contact, and text yourself.

Leviathansplunge · 2021-12-23T18:08:13+00:00

Grow a set and get her number. If it's fake she wasn't interested anyway. Giving out ur number i think is only ok if u also get hers right then and there. Just giving out your number with nothing in return is just going to give her an ego boost that wasn't earned, it's giving free approval, so that p_$$^ gonna dry up.

2021-12-25T02:55:58+00:00

Lmao you guys don’t got that IT factor if she thinks you’re attractive and you know you’re attractive and you give her your number it is almost guaranteed that she will hit u up. You guys got to let her do the work and btw I have 99.9 % success rate with this method if you don’t value your time then go ahead and get her number

Title	Giving your number vs getting a number
Author	aidsjohnson
Upvotes	10
Comments	19
Date	December 23, 2021 2:52 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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