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1

It’s your personality, social skills, or lack of lifestyle that holds you back. All things you can change if you want to.
/r/seduction28/03/22 09:02 PM
5

If you don’t have it in you, give up. Nothing wrong with that. But it isn’t your physical looks. I was a balding, morbidly obese dude with a facial deformity when I was dating. If I can kill it with objectively beautiful and fit women, anyone can. Looks are just an excuse.
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:04 AM
7

Yeah, but no woman wants a desperate dude
/r/seduction11/01/22 07:21 AM
5

Nope
/r/seduction11/01/22 07:20 AM
2

Meh, you don’t necessarily need to go through a lot. You just need to go through enough to find someone close enough to make it work. One person may find their woman very early into dating. Someone else may never find her. It is all a bit of luck in when someone meets “her”.
/r/seduction05/01/22 03:32 AM
3

No, tipping is not flirting. Also know that someone in the service industry flirting isn’t flirting either. They are hustling for tips.
/r/seduction02/01/22 01:18 AM
1

Make her go crazy? Text her “I can’t wait to see you too”. Then leave her on read. That should make her go crazy.
/r/seduction30/12/21 09:52 PM
3

Depends on the girl. I’ve had fun gun range dates
/r/seduction28/12/21 05:36 PM
16

Give you number and there is a good chance she will never text or call. Get her number and at least you can reach out to her.
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:58 AM
1

I should have phrased that better. Let me try again… you don’t outright tell people about your attractive qualities without them asking for more information. It’s perfectly okay to talk about yourself. Answering questions is all a part of conversation. Just be mindful of humility. Being humble in itself is attractive. When asked about my philanthropic work, I would often say something along the lines of “I work with a 501(c)3 on the administration side”. Never “I’m the chairman of a non-profit”.…
/r/seduction16/12/21 12:15 AM
1

Developing a social circle is a process of figuring out what you want that social circle to look like. The majority of my acquaintances and friends came from business, activities/hobbies, and volunteer work. Although, it can be very diverse. Two of the closest friendships I’ve made in my adult life include a lawyer I randomly struck up a conversation with at the county courthouse lobby and the other is a tattoo artist that did a few of my tattoos. In both those cases, we discovered there were co…
/r/seduction12/12/21 09:25 PM
1

Ha! I didn’t mean to imply volunteer work was the only thing I had going for me lol. I had two MAJOR things working against me when it comes to attraction. I was obese and I have a facial deformity. So, it took a bunch of positive factors to outweigh those (successful in business, phd, stand-up comedian, volunteer with kids, interesting hobbies, etc). Altruism happens to be a personality trait that ranks very high for attraction. The reason I suggest volunteer work is because lots of guys make e…
/r/seduction12/12/21 02:57 PM
1

Nah. I told each that I dropped out of law school. I already had a lucrative career and was only going to law school for personal enrichment.
/r/seduction12/12/21 02:23 PM
3

Not sure how cuck comes in here but okay lol.
/r/seduction12/12/21 02:21 PM
1

Nope. I dropped out of law school. Women found it entertaining that I was only going for fun.
/r/seduction12/12/21 02:19 PM
3

My experience has been different. Before I got with my (now) wife, I dated a LOT. I found that girls connected most with the primitive part of their brain. That evolutionary side that seeks out men that are leaders and have resources. The non-primitive part also wants an interesting man. That is where volunteering comes in. Women LOVED hearing about my volunteer work as a Court Appointed Special Advocate. Even more so when I tell them I started that during my first year of law school. I agree th…
/r/seduction12/12/21 03:24 AM
10

Hookers might be your best option. Or figure out a way to get more efficient at studying. The truth is, women find lifestyle attractive. If you don’t have time for one, women won’t have time for you.
/r/seduction12/12/21 02:42 AM
58

I’m calling bullshit on the “I don’t have time” excuse. But, if we go with your premise that you don’t “have time” to make friends or to do fun things, you don’t have time to date. Wait until you have time to date and then become attractive. Problem solved. On the other hand, if you want to be real, recognize there are 168 hours in the week. Spend three of them volunteering. That is attractive to women. Spend four of those hours doing something interesting. That is attractive to women. Spend thr…
/r/seduction12/12/21 02:32 AM
4

You would have to ask her
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:34 PM
1

Lol “young” is all relative and there is no societal definition. An 80 year old may consider her 35 year old grandson as young.
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:45 PM
1

Considered by who?
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:20 PM
3

I’ve always thought of cub as being young. But do the labels really matter?
/r/seduction16/11/21 02:11 PM
1

Text the minimum about it takes to see her in person
/r/seduction02/11/21 07:59 PM
1

You don’t meet her after a one night stand. That’s what makes it a one night stand 😂
/r/seduction31/10/21 11:53 PM
2

You are boring. That is why they flake on you/ghost
/r/seduction26/10/21 02:49 AM
1

I’ve had lots of success on Bumble, Hinge, and Match. Absolutely killed it on Match.
/r/seduction24/10/21 11:20 PM
10

There is your answer. If you want to be more sexually attractive to women, get fit. I know it’s not easy but it is really that simple.
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:12 PM
1

Are you a jacked/ripped 235lbs or are you fluffy?
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:08 PM
1

Wondering if she did what on purpose? Like ask you if you can see or feel the stain? Yeah, I doubt she asked you a direct question by accident 😂
/r/seduction09/10/21 09:35 PM
1

Confirmed! I’m 6’5 and she won’t leave me alone!
/r/seduction08/10/21 03:27 AM
2

To me, a “maybe girl” is a definite no girl. It is best to find someone that is excited to see you.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:50 AM
3

No response = not interested.
/r/seduction05/10/21 07:09 PM
8

OLD and meeting people in person are not mutually exclusive. Do both. BTW, if it takes you more than 3 messages on a dating app to set up a first date, fix that first.
/r/seduction05/10/21 04:18 AM
7

Depends on if your “standards” are realistic
/r/seduction24/09/21 01:11 AM
1

Totally overthinking
/r/seduction19/09/21 01:33 AM
3

How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie.
/r/seduction16/09/21 03:24 AM
22

You are way overthinking things. Be cool, be interested, talk to women, ask out anyone you are attracted to.
/r/seduction09/09/21 09:09 PM
3

Anything other than being direct will come across as creepy or insecure. Women are attracted to men that make moves.
/r/seduction09/09/21 12:05 AM
3

Nobody is “involved”. Just you and her. What are you afraid of happening if she isn’t interested?
/r/seduction08/09/21 10:13 PM
1

If you like her, ask her out. What do you have to lose?
/r/seduction08/09/21 09:46 PM
7

They aren’t interested. Sorry.
/r/seduction05/04/20 04:05 PM
5

It’s a weak move
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:32 AM
1

Yup
/r/seduction02/04/20 01:39 AM
3

You are conflating correlation and causation. She likes a guy that happen to get annoyed with her. That doesn’t mean that she likes him because he gets annoyed with her.
/r/seduction30/03/20 11:28 PM
3

She won’t like you. Way too insecure.
/r/seduction29/03/20 02:02 AM
1

lol
/r/seduction28/03/20 11:30 PM
3

Don’t interview her with questions and don’t talk about yourself. Interesting conversation is the way to go.
/r/seduction28/03/20 11:22 PM
1

Yes
/r/seduction28/03/20 02:47 PM
1

Strong and confident are personality traits that are generally highly desirable. Dominant isn’t as universal as an attraction trigger.
/r/seduction25/03/20 11:27 PM
1

Mate, I didn’t say anything about status for looks. I just mentioned Value. As in the Mate Value system that is grounded in psychological journals.
/r/seduction25/03/20 05:20 AM
1

I think it is relatively rare for people to meet in social media compared to dating apps. I’d focus your attention on dating apps - where the opposite sex is actually looking.
/r/seduction24/03/20 08:33 PM
2

The key is becoming high value enough that your type is attracted to you.
/r/seduction24/03/20 04:25 AM
1

What is your question?
/r/seduction23/03/20 04:27 AM
2

Studies have shown that mate selection criterion are different for long term relationships vs casual hookups.
/r/seduction19/03/20 01:01 AM
2

Give us an example
/r/seduction17/03/20 03:35 PM
1

End game is to take her home. Next best option is to leave with her for a date. Best option after that is a phone number to confirm date plans for another night.
/r/seduction14/03/20 05:53 PM
1

That’s good if she is someone you really want to be with.
/r/seduction08/03/20 03:09 AM
2

I think you are missing the big picture. If you just want to be friends for now, do that. You don’t need her number to be friends. A bunch of texting small talk will just land you in the friend zone. If you want to ask her out, then ask her out. If she says yes, then get her number so you can text just enough to set up a day/time/place. A number should never be the goal. It is just a tool to reach the goal. Used incorrectly and you are friend zoned. Used correctly and you will be on a date.
/r/seduction06/03/20 05:02 AM
0

Don’t verbally express how you feel about someone until you have been dating them for a while.
/r/seduction29/02/20 07:19 PM
2

In all events she said she found someone new. What more do you need to know?
/r/seduction29/02/20 12:47 AM
1

Unfortunately she doesn’t feel the same. It sucks but there it is.
/r/seduction29/02/20 12:40 AM
2

Move on to the next
/r/seduction29/02/20 12:28 AM
8

Don’t try to figure out the behavior of others. Just move on to the next.
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:50 PM
3

Whoever brings it up is insecure. The truth is, if YOU want to just see her and put others on hold, you can do that without ever telling her. You don't need her permission for you to not date other people. When you ask a girl to be exclusive, what you are really saying is that you want HER to stop seeing other people. Go ahead and bring it up if you really have to but think about the message it sends. IMO, the power move is to tell her that you are only seeing her (if that is the case) and you d…
/r/seduction11/02/20 06:00 AM
5

You are fucked
/r/seduction20/12/17 02:48 PM
1

Just back off the texting and focus on seeing her in person
/r/seduction16/12/17 02:46 PM
2

Respond with "yes I am" and "you can't"
/r/seduction15/12/17 07:29 PM
8

Don’t tell them. Why would they need to know?
/r/seduction14/12/17 05:31 AM
1

She probably swiped right by accident. Many people swipe right on tons of profiles so sometimes you don’t catch yourself when you are in the groove. If she went back to I Match, it just means she isn’t interested. No big deal. When it comes to matches, quantity means nothing and quality is everything. As long as you are going on dates with people you are really attracted to, ignore the numbers.
/r/seduction13/12/17 02:54 AM
1

Don't just ask for her number. Tell her you don't like talking on Snapchat. Be confident and assertive. Like I said, if she is attracted to you, she will give in (just like you did with her request to snap instead of text).
/r/seduction12/12/17 11:34 PM
2

If it’s some you have seen in person for a date or two, they may just be trying to be sexy. If it is someone you have never met in person, it is a dude catfishing.
/r/seduction12/12/17 10:42 PM
3

Haha. It’s still good advice for anyone that gets annoyed when a girl only wants to Snap.
/r/seduction12/12/17 10:32 PM
2

Did you tell her you prefer texting or a phone conversation? If she is attracted to you, she will be flexible about how you communicate.
/r/seduction12/12/17 10:29 PM
13

Pro tip: churches are usually heated and have tons of ladies on Sunday mornings
/r/seduction12/12/17 09:31 PM
5

Tell her to let you know when she has some free time for a date and keep working other options in the meantime. Sounds like you are headed into penpal territory.
/r/seduction12/12/17 09:00 PM
2

There aren't a "lot" of them on any app. You just have to use several apps and cast a wide net.
/r/seduction10/12/17 03:16 PM
1

You are probably asking interview type questions then.
/r/seduction10/12/17 01:30 PM
10

Don’t try to come up with things to say. Come up with things to ask. Being interested is more attractive than being interesting.
/r/seduction10/12/17 01:43 AM
23

Of course it is possible to talk to much.
/r/seduction10/12/17 01:34 AM
5

LOL. Strong user name to content ratio.
/r/seduction10/12/17 01:33 AM
1

Definitely meet in public so you don't get killed. Once you are comfortable she is legit, take her back to your place. Going to her place is dangerous because of the dude hanging out in her closet.
/r/seduction08/12/17 10:38 PM
3

Just find people with similar interests
/r/seduction08/12/17 07:19 PM
9

You answered your own question... "am socially awkward as hell, get angry easily, and get anxious easily"
/r/seduction08/12/17 06:51 AM
1

Don't text other than to set up days/times/places to meet for dates. She is probably bored with the vapid small talk that is inherent with never-ending text conversations. Your goal should be dates, not pen-pals. Keep your eyes on the goal.
/r/seduction07/12/17 07:16 AM
3

The best way to get over it is by living an amazing life in your 30s. It only gets better!
/r/seduction07/12/17 06:37 AM
1

Maybe you are coming across like you want to hookup. Not all women are into one night stands.
/r/seduction07/12/17 06:35 AM
1

Eye contact requires 2 people. Some people just want to figure out why a person keeps looking at them. Others are just polite and confident. OP should quit trying to find "signals" and just ask her out if he is interested.
/r/seduction07/12/17 06:23 AM
1

That chance would be there even if she didn’t smile back or look back at him.
/r/seduction07/12/17 05:50 AM
1

Most people look at those that are looking at them. She looks at you every time you walk into class because you are looking at her.
/r/seduction07/12/17 05:26 AM
8

Most likely fear of rejection. That is why you find yourself attracted to people that are automatically disqualified.
/r/seduction06/12/17 04:53 AM
1

Nope, still the same dude
/r/seduction05/12/17 07:31 PM
1

Because real life isn’t the same as a movie?
/r/seduction05/12/17 05:14 PM
1

Because real life is different than a movie?
/r/seduction05/12/17 05:13 PM
3

You don't need an invitation to talk to people. Its what humans do. We interact with each other. Don't wait for an invitation to approach anyone.
/r/seduction04/12/17 03:06 PM
1

Match her level of interest
/r/seduction03/12/17 04:34 AM
1

Back off a bit and see if she starts to initiate.
/r/seduction03/12/17 03:54 AM
1

Lol, some people get really weird about labels like that. Of course, not liking a label like “dating” doesn’t change what it is.
/r/seduction01/12/17 09:05 PM
1

Lol, I’m. It sure many therapists could help with seduction. Self esteem/confidence, yes. Seduction, no.
/r/seduction01/12/17 02:24 PM
2

Yup. Sounds like dating with no exclusivity. Not all dating is done with the goal of it “going somewhere”.
/r/seduction01/12/17 02:23 PM
1

Sounds like dating. How is that different than people dating non-exclusively (casually)?
/r/seduction01/12/17 04:29 AM
1

You are dating
/r/seduction01/12/17 03:31 AM
2

See a professional (serious answer).
/r/seduction30/11/17 10:24 PM
1

Fix your self esteem and everything will fall into place.
/r/seduction30/11/17 09:44 PM
1

It would be awkward to ask for her number before you have had at least one great conversation. Don’t get ahead of yourself. Talk with her and her friend and enjoy the conversation. If it flows nicely and it seems like she is attracted, ask for the number the next time you see her.
/r/seduction30/11/17 08:46 PM
1

Go talk to her and her friend. Why does she have to be alone?
/r/seduction30/11/17 08:03 PM
6

The greatest canned opener ever is "Hi". But if you need something else, I'm sure we can find it. What interests you?
/r/seduction30/11/17 03:35 AM
1

Tea, dinner, it doesn't really matter. If she is attracted to you, she will say yes.
/r/seduction30/11/17 03:22 AM
1

Don't overthink it. Do whatever comes naturally. If she isn't into it, then you weren't a good match anyway.
/r/seduction30/11/17 02:48 AM
2

You have a ton of stuff in common. You go to the same university! Strike up a conversation and see if you hit it off. If you don't, just move on. Don't ask her to study together unless you are studying the same course and that is all you want. Don't make the mistake of sending the message you only want to be friends/study partners.
/r/seduction30/11/17 02:47 AM
1

Nothing wrong with responding to her. Just don’t look like you are more eager than her.
/r/seduction30/11/17 02:36 AM
1

If they aren’t asked and spontaneously give their number out, they are interested in being friends or more. If they are asked for their number and they give it out, it could be anything from panic and wanted to be nice to friends to romantic interest.
/r/seduction30/11/17 02:22 AM
1

Act like it is no big deal and continue to have fun conversations.
/r/seduction30/11/17 02:16 AM
7

The only "hookup" sites that work for men are ones that cater towards gay men (like Grindr). Women don't need hookup sites. They can hookup any time they want. If you can't hookup on Tinder, the problem is with you, not the app.
/r/seduction29/11/17 06:56 PM
8

If a girl acts disinterested, believe her.
/r/seduction29/11/17 03:23 PM
1

Don't do anything other than bang and leave. If you start going out and doing things, hanging out in a non-sexual capacity, having deep conversations, etc, you are no longer FWB. You are dating.
/r/seduction29/11/17 03:20 PM
18

She doesn’t want to have sex with you, she wants to try sex with a girl, and she got you to pay for it.
/r/seduction29/11/17 05:54 AM
1

This type of video is worthless as they are always heavily edited.
/r/seduction28/11/17 09:24 PM
11

Don't try to make a field or job sound more interesting than it is. That would be a sign of insecurity. When someone asks you what you do, tell them and follow up immediately with something interesting that you like to do in your free time. Like "I am a developer for my day job but I work as a stand up comedian in my spare time". Or, you can just blow off the question and tell them "I'm a secret agent. Please don't ask me to get into specifics. For your own safety, of course.". In the end, girls…
/r/seduction28/11/17 04:35 PM
1

Nope. I'm just being logical. Something doesn't have to be in written form, in Europe, in the 1500s, for it to exist. lol
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:51 PM
1

Not all authors are famous. In fact, most aren't. I'm guessing you are a pretty young dude with a naive thought process like that. Content goes back to whatever is being referenced. As I said, a WWI book written today doesn't mean the war is being fought in 2017. The world still doesn't need a science to pick up women. Just as it has always been, it is fun and easy. The world is good on that. A small portion of men struggle with it so there are books on seduction to help that segment of man. The…
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:50 PM
1

This ^ /thread
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:44 PM
1

You are conflating the existing of something in written and published form with the existence of the concept in nature.
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:42 PM
1

You clearly haven't read it. It was written after the industrial revolution but the content goes back to caveman days. By your logic, if I write a book about the first world war today, then the first world war didn't happen until 2017 lol.
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:40 PM
1

This isn't knew. In fact, it is very old. What gets attention from women today is the same stuff that got attention from them hundreds or thousands of years ago. Social skills, status, resources, etc.
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:38 PM
1

I didn't say it had to be in print, in Europe, since the 1500s. That was you, brother. You clearly haven't read any of the seminal books on seduction. The theories they posit are HEAVILY weighted on evolutionary psychology. Books on evolutionary psychology go back at least to Darwin's "The Descent of Man, and Selection in Relation to Sex" which was published in 1871.
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:34 PM
1

What "new science" do you think exists?
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:28 PM
1

Your logic is flawed. So anything that wasn't in print, in the 1500s, in Europe, is new?
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:28 PM
1

Its commonly an issue of diverging goals. Men are hard wired to be attracted from a perspective of sexuality. Women are hard wired to be attracted from a longer term perspective of offspring survival. Accordingly, men have books on how to seduce and women have books on hot to not be seduced. There is no new social science. Hundreds of thousands of years of evolution can't be changed by recent social perception changes.
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:16 PM
1

You want it to be harder for women to seduce men?
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:03 PM
3

Women shouldn't waste their time. A girl can "seduce" men on command with some time in the gym and a skirt.
/r/seduction28/11/17 01:53 PM
1

In general, no
/r/seduction28/11/17 01:50 PM
10

Nope. You need therapy.
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:17 AM
16

You need lots of therapy
/r/seduction28/11/17 02:03 AM
4

Why IG and note her phone number? Is it possible she just hasn’t been on IG?
/r/seduction28/11/17 01:40 AM
6

We all have the same amount of time. 168 hours a week. Even with school and work, you have plenty of time to do interesting and fun stuff.
/r/seduction27/11/17 07:09 PM
1

Still not a connection with knowledge of a foreign language (context of this thread).
/r/seduction27/11/17 01:50 AM
2

You are grasping. Lol. Puppies are magnets for girls but not for any sort of patience or dog parenting characteristics. They are magnets because they are adorable. In the context of this thread, there is zero comparison between the attention getting abilities of a puppy and the attractiveness of knowledge of a second language.
/r/seduction25/11/17 03:16 PM
2

How is a puppy a skill?
/r/seduction25/11/17 03:32 AM
2

Since when does puppy = a foreign language? LOL
/r/seduction25/11/17 02:51 AM
1

Not even close. There are exceptions to everything so of course we are only talking about generalities. But in general, a Lamborghini or some other overt example of financial success will capture female attention exponentially more than fluency in Portuguese or some other foreign language.
/r/seduction24/11/17 07:57 PM
20

“Humility” implies it could be something someone would find impressive. I know a foreign language was just an example but probably a poor one in the dating context. Not bragging about owning a Lamborghini is a good example of humility. Hiding knowledge of a foreign language seems pretty tiny.
/r/seduction24/11/17 05:55 AM
3

Your sample size is so small it is statistically insignificant. Maybe for you the breakdown is 33/33/33 (I doubt it) but that doesn't mean it is a rule for all, most, or even some guys.
/r/seduction24/11/17 03:05 AM
11

Seems like a silly rule. Those numbers would probably vary greatly based on the man.
/r/seduction24/11/17 02:39 AM
10

Switch to Grindr
/r/seduction24/11/17 02:08 AM
4

Your insecurity is repulsive to both guys and girls. Although, you post your pics so often, I'm stating to think you may have narcissistic personality disorder and are compelled to constantly seek out the praise of others. As for age, maybe early 30s. Taking into account your horrible selfie skills, mid-late 50s.
/r/seduction22/11/17 08:26 PM
2

Dating is never pointless. It is fun.
/r/seduction18/11/17 06:01 AM
2

I would have preferred to hear that you just don’t start conversations with nice looking girls on a regular basis. That is much easier to fix than physical unattractiveness, or worse a low self esteem issue. We can’t offer any suggestions to move forward until the root problem is uncovered. Don’t be so defensive and presume what I want to hear or what I would tell you to do.
/r/seduction17/11/17 05:45 AM
1

They are everywhere you go. If you aren’t finding them, you either aren’t taking to enough different girls or you aren’t attractive enough yet to pull them. Which is it?
/r/seduction17/11/17 05:17 AM
1

Genuinely nice is easy. They are absolutely everywhere. What do you mean by “chill”?
/r/seduction17/11/17 04:24 AM
3

Don’t communicate with her much at all other than setting up a time and place to hang in person.
/r/seduction16/11/17 10:18 AM
3

You wouldn't be the first guy to think that regular telephone calls put you at an advanced stage on the first date. The dynamic is totally different in person. This is a first date regardless of how many phone hours you have logged.
/r/seduction16/11/17 08:43 AM
7

Agreed. Movies are horrible dates.
/r/seduction16/11/17 08:42 AM
5

Wtf? It takes two people to have eye contact. How can they make eye contact with you but you not make it with them? Lol
/r/seduction13/11/17 04:25 AM
2

Nope. She just want to know if you have repeated your exploits.
/r/seduction13/11/17 01:52 AM
1

Sure
/r/seduction13/11/17 01:31 AM
1

Just move on to the next
/r/seduction12/11/17 07:01 PM
1

If you are going to give up after one (not even bad) experience, this game probably isn’t for you. On the other hand, keep opening two and three sets over the next few months and you will be already prepared for the bars when you can get in.
/r/seduction11/11/17 11:32 PM
2

An ultimatum will just make you seem butthurt. Is it possible they say yes just to be nice but aren’t actually interested?
/r/seduction11/11/17 10:14 PM
1

You don't have to actually use the word "date". Why do you think they are flaking?
/r/seduction11/11/17 09:03 PM
1

Maybe they flake because they don’t think it is an actual date?
/r/seduction11/11/17 08:39 PM
1

You are doing something wrong in between asking them out and the actual meet. How much time goes by between them saying yes and the actual date?
/r/seduction11/11/17 08:26 PM
9

The only thing you can do is move on to the next.
/r/seduction11/11/17 08:12 PM
3

What happened when you tried to kiss her?
/r/seduction11/11/17 07:10 PM
6

Sounds like she is into Tom. But if you like her, ask her out. You really don’t have anything to lose.
/r/seduction11/11/17 03:27 PM
1

Doesn’t matter.
/r/seduction11/11/17 05:04 AM
1

Could be anxiety or anything else. Means nothing. Don’t let it change how you act around her.
/r/seduction11/11/17 02:51 AM
3

IMO, it is less creepy with a group. One on one it is pretty obvious what you are after. I’d treat a group the same way. “Hey, is anyone using this chair?”
/r/seduction11/11/17 02:28 AM
3

Stop talking to solo girls. Talking to pairs or more is actually easier since they are more likely to be comfortable.
/r/seduction11/11/17 01:57 AM
1

Just say “hey, haven’t heard from you in a while. How are things?”
/r/seduction11/11/17 01:30 AM
-3

“The Game” is a seminal work on being more confident with girls.
/r/seduction11/11/17 01:29 AM
1

A sudden drop of in libido could be a couple of things. Same for inability to reach orgasm. Has he started any new medications in the past 6 months? And idea how often he masturbates?
/r/seduction10/11/17 11:46 PM
1

What she does when she isn’t with you isn’t a boundary you can set. Either enjoy dating her and have the exclusivity talk down the road when it is appropriate or don’t date her at all. Trying to set boundaries on her behavior is controlling and insecure. Very unattractive.
/r/seduction10/11/17 09:25 PM
2

Calm down. It has only been 2 dates. She isn’t “your girl” yet. Pushing for exclusivity so early makes you look VERY insecure. Sit back, let her see other people. Welcome the competition.
/r/seduction10/11/17 08:44 PM
1

How long have you been dating her? How many times have you seen her?
/r/seduction10/11/17 08:01 PM
2

Ignore it and pretend you never saw it.
/r/seduction10/11/17 07:32 PM
3

If she snaps you directly and asks you a question, then respond. Otherwise, don’t talk just for the sake of doing so.
/r/seduction09/11/17 10:33 PM
1

Stop texting. Being too available with constant texting is a good way to end up in a familiar friend zone. Use text to set up times to hang out in person.
/r/seduction09/11/17 10:21 PM
7

This ^ Don’t overthink things
/r/seduction09/11/17 10:12 PM
1

Did she friend you or did you friend her? Will she remember you?
/r/seduction09/11/17 09:58 PM
1

Her profile status doesn’t really mean anything. As to how to message her, you just do it. How long have you two been Facebook friends?
/r/seduction09/11/17 09:35 PM
9

She means it is you, not her and she wanted to move on. Don't spend another minute thinking about it. There is nothing you can do but to move on too.
/r/seduction09/11/17 05:52 AM
2

One technique that helps people overcome situational social anxiety may work well in your example. The technique is act as if the bar is your home and you are throwing a party. Your mindset should be to make sure everyone is having a good time. Its not about you - its about them. Just like you would at a house party, you go up to groups of people, ask how they are doing, if they are having fun, how do they know each other, etc. Then move on to the next group. As you get to know different groups,…
/r/seduction09/11/17 03:06 AM
1

My bad for not picking up on the joke. So your flirting game needs some work. When you are out, do you smile much? Light up the room?
/r/seduction09/11/17 02:51 AM
12

We can tell which girls are looking for free drinks. Not attractive at all.
/r/seduction09/11/17 02:39 AM
1

If it makes you feel any better, there is little she could do about it anyway. Once they are online, anyone could have a copy.
/r/seduction09/11/17 01:51 AM
1

I’ve moved a LOT as an adult. Usually took a month or two to be fully settled in.
/r/seduction08/11/17 04:43 AM
4

She was friendly and then later turned cold. Don't stress over it and don't give it a second thought. Some people just don't have the emotional energy to be friendly to everyone all the time. It's her, not you. If you are attracted to her, try a conversation or two and gauge her willingness to interact.
/r/seduction07/11/17 03:16 PM
1

Asking if height matters a lot in dating is like asking if breast size matters for women in dating. Sure, some physical attributes matter to some people but that doesn’t mean someone is universally unattractive because of one particular physical attribute.
/r/seduction07/11/17 01:32 AM
1

Relax. Don’t be so rattled. I didn’t have a problem. Just pointed out you like to make this same post. No big deal. Don’t let people get to you so much.
/r/seduction06/11/17 08:19 PM
1

That must really have you rattled. Sorry I upset you so much.
/r/seduction06/11/17 07:51 PM
1

You are replying too. That must mean I have you rattled lol.
/r/seduction06/11/17 07:43 PM
1

Lol, yeah, totally rattled.
/r/seduction06/11/17 07:41 PM
1

23% though you looked trustworthy and smart (voting either yes or very). 36% thought you were attractive. What more do you want to know?
/r/seduction06/11/17 07:40 PM
1

Your looks and the photos are the same thing. All we have to go off is your photos. Same answer you get all the other times you have posted.
/r/seduction06/11/17 07:33 PM
1

You do not look attractive in those pics.
/r/seduction06/11/17 07:29 PM
1

You asked 92 people on photofeeler, and the overwhelming majority did not think you looked smart, trustworthy, or attractive. Why would you think a couple people here would give you a different answer?
/r/seduction06/11/17 07:16 PM
1

He posts these a lot and always gets the same answers
/r/seduction06/11/17 07:13 PM
2

You would kill it on Grindr.
/r/seduction06/11/17 07:04 PM
2

Having a nice car and not telling anyone is a huge DHV when you later go out to your car, she sees you have an expensive one, and you didn't need to use it as a crutch. The value is all in acting like it is not a big deal to you.
/r/seduction06/11/17 05:55 PM
0

Your play at the bar is no different than anyone else’s.
/r/seduction06/11/17 05:48 PM
3

Play “just the tip”
/r/seduction06/11/17 05:47 PM
2

Having a nice car but not telling anyone is a DHV. Bragging about a nice car, if you can afford it or not, is a DLV. There is a LOT of value in acting like things are just things. Reminds me of something a friend of mine said. It was something along the lines of "you know you have made it when you fly in private jets and you don't feel the need to post it on instagram." When someone asks what kind of car you have, for example, here are two possible responses: 1) "I have a 2017 Mercedes G63" 2) "…
/r/seduction06/11/17 05:31 PM
3

Probably doesn’t mean anything but don’t let that stop you from asking her out if you are attracted to her.
/r/seduction05/11/17 05:01 AM
2

Just be upfront and put it in your profile. You would be a douche if you weren’t upfront about it.
/r/seduction04/11/17 01:39 PM
10

Stop giving her the attention and move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction03/11/17 09:30 PM
8

She likes the attention you give her but doesn't want to date you.
/r/seduction03/11/17 09:16 PM
3

2 weeks. Will never do that again.
/r/seduction03/11/17 08:46 PM
5

Say something like “let’s go back to my place”
/r/seduction02/11/17 11:15 PM
3

The answer is that escalating to sex is natural and easy when you are in an environment where sex is possible. When you are in a private place, hands start exploring while making out and clothes come off. You won’t even have to think about it. You just need a place.
/r/seduction02/11/17 10:12 PM
1

Sounds like you already know the next step. You need your own place, go to her place, or an alternative like a hotel.
/r/seduction02/11/17 09:20 PM
1

Use the word “date”. Dinner and a movie is still something friends can do (not to mention movies are shitty dates). I would use something like this: “I want to take you out on a date sometime. When do you want to go?”
/r/seduction02/11/17 06:19 PM
2

Lots of guys conflate confidence and arrogance. Are you sure you were the former?
/r/seduction02/11/17 02:14 PM
1

Why did she think you were “douchey”?
/r/seduction02/11/17 01:22 PM
1

As I stated, this isn’t my area of specialty. You seem to have VERY strong feelings on this. Can you point me to anything that supports an alpha/beta model in modern social circles? Something that would satisfy your standard of rigor?
/r/seduction02/11/17 05:07 AM
1

There is an amount of literature on social dominance in humans. Admittedly, that isn't my area of expertise so I would defer to the literature itself and not my interpretation. It would appear as if those "in the know" would posit that human behavior is more complex than a simple alpha/beta model. I take everything with a grain of salt but this seems legit..."anthropologist Tim White, who said that alpha males likely ruled the common ape ancestor humans shared with chimps roughly 7 million years…
/r/seduction01/11/17 10:10 PM
2

First we would have to get past the fact that alpha/beta personality types, as commonly used by the layperson, are a sort of pseudo-psychology that isn't grounded in true knowledge. Most guys positing such classifications don't know much about psychology. With that out of the way, the personality traits guys (frequently on the internet) associate with alpha behavior, don't align with the type of person that would care the alpha/beta classification of others. In short, an "Alpha" would never call…
/r/seduction01/11/17 09:39 PM
13

The whole alpha/beta BS is woman repellant.
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:32 PM
3

Your friend is trying too hard to be profound.
/r/seduction01/11/17 01:22 PM
3

She just sounds friendly. I would look into too much. If you want to know if she is attracted to you, ask her out on a date. Be explicit and make sure she knows you want to take her out on a date; not just hang out like friends.
/r/seduction01/11/17 12:21 PM
1

Much better to stick to randoms in person than to friend randoms on Facebook. IMO, of course.
/r/seduction30/10/17 11:57 PM
6

“Nice guy” in dating vernacular actually has nothing to do with being nice. “Nice”, in this context, is usually conflated with “boring”, “weak”, “awkward”, etc. Most girls are really attracted to charismatic exciting nice guys. Conversely, they are not attracted to boring awkward nice guys.
/r/seduction30/10/17 09:38 PM
1

Correct. Not matching, through act or omission, has the same effect. In both cases, a girl is not expecting to be contacted off the app.
/r/seduction30/10/17 08:58 PM
1

In the world of Tinder where people don’t think about a profile for more than a half second before swiping left or right, 10 mins looking up a non-match is a LOT more effort than the norm.
/r/seduction30/10/17 08:09 PM
1

I guess we can agree to disagree. It isn’t a move I would make but I also wouldn’t get hung up on a profile of someone I have never met. To each his own though.
/r/seduction30/10/17 07:44 PM
1

In my analogy, both people are inside the same singles event where the girls get to pick what guys they talk with. For whatever reason, the girl doesn’t pick creepy dude so he follows her to the grocery store to talk with her there. Again, a girl not hiding her identity isn’t an invitation for people to contact her off the app.
/r/seduction30/10/17 07:32 PM
1

I can’t tell if you are being serious. There is a huge difference between not minding if people know your identity and wanting people to contact you off the app. Tinder is designed in a way that both parties need to opt-in for contact. Circumventing the app and contacting a girl via another platform takes away her option to choose who she talks to. She can still ignore conversations on other platforms but that isn’t the point. It’s like a girl going to an organized singles event and then some du…
/r/seduction30/10/17 06:49 PM
2

That random tinder profile may seem like the perfect person for you but that doesn’t mean she would have swiped right. People on dating apps don’t want to be tracked down and contacted outside of the app even if it is easy to do so. That is creepy.
/r/seduction30/10/17 03:16 PM
1

Just say, “let me know what day you are free and I’ll try to work it in my schedule”. Then forget about her. If she texts back with a day/time, then cool. If not, also cool because you have already moved on.
/r/seduction30/10/17 07:40 AM
2

Give up and move on. There is no way for a stalker to not seem creepy.
/r/seduction30/10/17 07:27 AM
5

Those fireworks are more lust than love. You are still super young (unless you took lots of time off between high school and college). What up have plenty of time. Just keep dating and don’t settle anytime soon.
/r/seduction30/10/17 12:11 AM
4

There may be some level of interest but it isn’t strong since she didn’t mind her friend crashing your date. Don’t give up on her but stop putting in effort. Leave it with her to tell you when she wants to hang out again. I’m the meantime, keep your options open.
/r/seduction29/10/17 12:36 AM
2

1) text her now 2) don’t send a pic 3) reminder her what costume you had 4) ask her out 5) if it isn’t fun, don’t ask her out again
/r/seduction28/10/17 07:14 PM
5

IMO, the gym is a unique environment. But you are right, it doesn’t fully make sense to think that everyone takes their workout as seriously as I do. Point taken.
/r/seduction28/10/17 03:10 PM
3

I go to the gym 5x a week and don’t talk to any while I’m working out. I’m there to lift, not socialize. Only exception might be if someone asks me for a spot and we are both sitting around waiting for his next set. Generally speaking, people (girls especially) aren’t into talking to random people while trying to work out. Totally different if they are already friends though.
/r/seduction28/10/17 09:24 AM
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1) The eye contact means nothing. She could just be trying to figure out why you keep staring at her. Don’t let shit like this get in your head. 2) Don’t interrupt someone’s workout. That includes talking between sets. This is a gym etiquette basic. 3) Run into her either on her way in or on her way out and start a conversation. It can really be about anything. If she is interested, she will want to talk regardless of the topic.
/r/seduction28/10/17 09:03 AM
1

Agreed!
/r/seduction28/10/17 12:11 AM
1

She just wants attention.
/r/seduction27/10/17 07:11 PM
17

There really is no way to tell. In all events, if she is with someone, you don't want any part of that. Worst case is that she is just seeking attention. Best case is that having a boyfriend means nothing to her so even if she was with you, she would keep her options open.
/r/seduction27/10/17 03:14 PM
108

They like attention and know that attention will go away if they are truthful about being unavailable.
/r/seduction27/10/17 03:06 PM
5

If you aren’t into her, just move on.
/r/seduction25/10/17 03:03 PM
3

Yes confidence is very important but it is more of a minimum requirement than a deal maker all on its own. In the context of meeting girls, a guy needs to have the self-confidence to believe that a girl is going to be drawn to all the amazing things about him. That won't help unless there are actually amazing things about him lol. I've seen this many times in the comedy club circuit. There are some horrible comedians that are confident at a delusional level. But since they don't have anything to…
/r/seduction25/10/17 06:44 AM
3

Forget her and move on.
/r/seduction25/10/17 06:03 AM
1

Say something like "sorry for ghosting you, it wasn't intentional. Just got really busy. Can I make it up to you by taking you out for a drink this week? What night is best for you?"
/r/seduction22/10/17 09:34 PM
31

"Nice guy" sounds more like "awkward guy". Not sure why "nice" was used as the moniker in this case.
/r/seduction22/10/17 08:43 PM
2

If it's been more than a couple of days, she isn't coming to you. You really don't have anything to lose by texting her.
/r/seduction22/10/17 08:27 PM
3

I know you are hoping it was an ioi. That is usually why guys try to make something out of nothing. Maybe she was looking just to try to figure out why you kept looking at her.
/r/seduction22/10/17 03:14 AM
3

Lol, what you asked about 2 messages up. Manufacturing indications of interest. Taking normal occurrences like eye contact, smiles, and brushing of finger together as some sort of message that she is interested.
/r/seduction22/10/17 02:55 AM
2

Yup, decide on an actual day and get it on the calendar ASAP.
/r/seduction22/10/17 02:33 AM
2

I think you are manufacturing this. I also think her interest doesn't matter. All that matters is your interest.
/r/seduction22/10/17 02:18 AM
16

Dude, you have to let go of obsessing over every glance or every time your fingers touched. Girls can sense that sort of neediness. Quit trying to manufacture a feeing of her interest and ask her out.
/r/seduction22/10/17 01:35 AM
2

Try again. What do you have to lose?
/r/seduction21/10/17 11:47 PM
2

No
/r/seduction21/10/17 03:18 AM
1

Quit trying to read "signals". If you like her, ask her out on a date. If you don't like her, then quit thinking about her. The only reason you want to believe in "signals" is so you can grow the balls to ask her out. Just do it. Worst that could happen is rejection and that really isn't a big deal.
/r/seduction21/10/17 03:18 AM
9

Just a matter of preference. Most adults view it as a more intimate type of kissing.
/r/seduction20/10/17 09:30 PM
1

Lol, your game will advance much further once you stop trying to make something out of nothing. Don't try to decipher some magical code to figure out if a girl is interested in you. All that matters is if you are interested in her.
/r/seduction20/10/17 09:26 PM
1

Dilated pupils could mean drug use so in that case staring could just be that.
/r/seduction20/10/17 09:09 PM
6

Most women find a highly educated and well traveled man sexy.
/r/seduction20/10/17 08:10 PM
2

I call it polite. All socially adjusted people do it.
/r/seduction20/10/17 07:53 PM
7

Pickup lines work well but only as well as the guy delivering them. You could have 10 different guys use the exact same line/words and have it work phenomenally for some and totally bomb for others. It isn't WHAT you say. It is all in HOW you say it.
/r/seduction20/10/17 06:11 AM
6

You have a classic case of low self-esteem. The good news is that it can be treated through therapy. As for the girl, this is a typical situation. Guy and girl are friends and the guy thinks there is something more to it when the girl doesn't see it that way. It happens to lots of people. Don't let it get you down. She was being friendly, you wanted it to be more, and she didn't. Neither of you did anything wrong. She won't hold it against you and you shouldn't hold it against her.
/r/seduction20/10/17 06:06 AM
2

Get with LOTs of attractive girls. There is lots of benefit to social proof.
/r/seduction20/10/17 04:59 AM
2

Just a self esteem issue. Work on that and other people won't hold power over you.
/r/seduction20/10/17 04:56 AM
1

The Notebook
/r/seduction19/10/17 05:03 AM
1

You are bitching out. You are afraid of rejection so you are trying to avoid taking the risk of asking her until you know for sure she will say yes. Man-up. Girls like guys with confidence.
/r/seduction17/10/17 10:18 PM
14

This ^ You are looking for a "unicorn". Your best shot is for your girl to find someone that is down and pray that girl also finds you attractive.
/r/seduction17/10/17 05:18 AM
5

You ask her out
/r/seduction17/10/17 05:17 AM
14

You were very insecure by telling her she was giving you mixed signals and you don't know what she wants. You have only been on 2 dates. Calm down. Ask her if she wants to go on a 3rd date. If she says yes, she is interested.
/r/seduction14/10/17 06:57 AM
1

Okay, so you ask her out on a date and if she says yes, tell her you want her number so you two can work out the when/where.
/r/seduction14/10/17 06:26 AM
2

How well do you know each other and why do you want her number?
/r/seduction14/10/17 05:59 AM
1

Attraction is part looks and part personality. Sounds like you have average/above average looks. Do you have an amazing and charming personality?
/r/seduction13/10/17 06:41 AM
5

Only she could tell you. My guess is it means she isn't interested and wants you to pursue those other girls that are checking you out.
/r/seduction13/10/17 06:26 AM
5

You were being needy when you asked her if she was actually interested. That is an insecure move. Asking what happened will just firm up that insecure vibe. No, don't try again. This one is blown. Just move on to the next and don't make your insecurity known on future dates.
/r/seduction13/10/17 06:25 AM
8

Experience
/r/seduction12/10/17 05:42 PM
3

Game is game. Get out there and start opening.
/r/seduction12/10/17 05:06 PM
1

Nope, not weird
/r/seduction12/10/17 01:17 AM
3

Never talk about people you have been with in the past. Nothing good can come of that. Someone asks why you left your frat, just say "I thought the frat brothers were dicks and I didn't like the way they treated women". Any more info than that is totally unnecessary.
/r/seduction11/10/17 10:34 PM
4

You are creeping her out.
/r/seduction10/10/17 08:03 PM
1

You are only fucked if you refuse to put in the work to learn conversation skills.
/r/seduction09/10/17 08:12 PM
1

Stop weirding he out and she may look at you less if that is making you uncomfortable. She's probably trying to figure out why a dude at the front keeps looking at her. Talking to girls isn't any different than talking to guys. What part is hanging you up?
/r/seduction09/10/17 07:01 PM
2

Lol, first, when you are sitting at the front of the class and look back, of course she is looking at you. Half the class of probably looking at you. Stop being weird. Just go talk to her. It doesn't matter if she is with a large group of friends. Talk to them all. Get to know her and her friends. Talking to girls isn't any different than talking to guys and you already have something in common - the class.
/r/seduction09/10/17 06:32 PM
6

You didn't friend zone yourself. She is either attracted to you or she isn't. Until you ask her out on a date, you won't know which it is.
/r/seduction09/10/17 04:49 PM
8

I can't imagine a situation where a guy would "slip" and accidentally use one of these terms. But, with that aside, if normal people in society don't use PUA language, how would a woman recognize it if a guy used it?
/r/seduction09/10/17 01:40 PM
5

Talking to girls really isn't any different than talking to guys. Just start talking.
/r/seduction09/10/17 01:21 PM
2

Ask her out on a date. That will tell her you are interested.
/r/seduction09/10/17 04:27 AM
1

Don't comment on looks Start a conversation Get a phone number Go on a date
/r/seduction08/10/17 04:20 AM
14

Take it as a compliment, say "Thanks, brother. Us average dudes need to stick together", and then give him a high five.
/r/seduction05/10/17 03:19 PM
1

The "middle ground" isn't as much of a cohort as it a spectrum. As such, there are varying degrees. Of course there are certain women that, for whatever reason, are antisocial and just don't like meeting new people. But, the majority of women don't mind friendly and interesting interactions. If you are running into lots of women that aren't receptive to your approach, change your approach.
/r/seduction05/10/17 02:42 PM
3

Women don't want to be approached by creepy guys. Women DO want to be approached by charming guys. It has much more to do with the guy and his approach than the woman being approached.
/r/seduction05/10/17 02:25 PM
1

Move on. She clearly loves attention from lots of guys and will be a nightmare.
/r/seduction05/10/17 05:09 AM
3

Depends on how you define catcalling. These days, some people seem to consider saying "hi" to a woman as catcalling.
/r/seduction05/10/17 05:04 AM
4

Your best bet is to try a swingers club. Even then, it is probably a swap situation. You simply won't find a girl who is into NSA threesome sex on a mainstream app or in a bar. In the swingers lifestyle, an unattached female looking to get with a couple is called a unicorn. The guy has zero chance of finding a unicorn. The girl has a small chance so let her do the work.
/r/seduction05/10/17 04:09 AM
1

When you are more experienced, the 10/10s won't throw you off and you can treat them like anyone else. Just keep at it.
/r/seduction05/10/17 04:04 AM
1

You should have walked up and started a conversation. But you already knew that.
/r/seduction05/10/17 02:47 AM
1

I guess it depends on what someone considers "fast". Online is easy and quick.
/r/seduction04/10/17 05:25 AM
1

If you aren't getting lots of dates fast with the apps/websites, you are doing it wrong.
/r/seduction04/10/17 03:06 AM
4

Nope
/r/seduction03/10/17 09:23 PM
1

Agreed!!
/r/seduction03/10/17 09:11 PM
2

Could be anything. Why don't you ask her?
/r/seduction03/10/17 05:49 PM
1

Sooner is better than later. The later day can be your fallback if she isn't available tomorrow.
/r/seduction03/10/17 03:18 AM
1

Yup, ask her
/r/seduction03/10/17 03:09 AM
1

If you like her go to her party
/r/seduction02/10/17 09:07 PM
3

Nope. Just move on.
/r/seduction02/10/17 03:16 PM
1

She probably agreed to be nice. People do that sometimes if they feel put on the spot. No, it had nothing to do with you not pleasuring her.
/r/seduction02/10/17 05:23 AM
1

She just isn't into you. On to the next.
/r/seduction02/10/17 05:14 AM
2

When you see her again in person, tell her you want to take her out on a date.
/r/seduction02/10/17 04:52 AM
1

So confused. Did you have sex with her or was it just a handjob? Was this on a first date? When did she bail? Second date?
/r/seduction02/10/17 04:38 AM
1

Nope
/r/seduction01/10/17 02:57 PM
4

Makes her feel better
/r/seduction01/10/17 07:17 AM
1

Putting aside the getting laid part, what stops you from getting a girlfriend. Are girls just not giving you a shot at second and third dates?
/r/seduction01/10/17 07:16 AM
12

With experience, you will realize there will be lots of these people that come in and out or pass by your life. Just smile and move on to the next.
/r/seduction01/10/17 07:14 AM
1

Why are you still talking to her on an app and not seeing her in person?
/r/seduction01/10/17 07:11 AM
2

Congrats! Nice work!
/r/seduction01/10/17 12:21 AM
1

Nope, they just lost interest.
/r/seduction30/09/17 07:42 PM
2

Its hard to be witty without a good vocabulary but people can have a great vocabulary and not be witty at all. The two are a great combination but are far from mutually inclusive.
/r/seduction30/09/17 07:16 PM
6

He just isn't into you. That won't change. Time to move on to the next.
/r/seduction30/09/17 04:17 PM
1

While Viktor Frankl's work is fantastic, I'm not sure if the author of this article has actually read any of it. Frankl was only at Auschwitz for 6 days and then was transferred to another camp.
/r/seduction30/09/17 03:32 PM
2

Shouldn't matter either way presuming the male to female ratio in both places is similar.
/r/seduction30/09/17 03:25 PM
1

Nope
/r/seduction30/09/17 03:21 PM
2

This ^
/r/seduction29/09/17 06:53 PM
2

It's only a few years. She is going to be more self-conscious about it than you are. If it comes up, tell her and be unapologetic.
/r/seduction29/09/17 01:11 PM
1

You don't do anything. You can't control what she is attracted to. If you don't know for a fact that she lost interest, try asking her out on a date. If she says no, just move on to the next.
/r/seduction29/09/17 03:40 AM
1

The only way to proceed from here is to move on. Sadly, you can't undo this sort of thing. Take it as a learning lesson and focus on the next girl.
/r/seduction28/09/17 05:05 PM
3

Good news and bad news here. The good news is that there is nothing you wrote that can't be changed for the better (and relatively quickly). The bad news is that I suspect you don't want to change. I can tell by your post that you are an intelligent person. You probably already know what you need to do and how to do it. With that said, I, and others no doubt, am happy to offer suggestions. Do you really want your life to be any different? What would your ideal lifestyle look like at your age?
/r/seduction28/09/17 05:00 PM
3

Take her to Denny's for a 4pm early bird dinner. Old people love that shit.
/r/seduction28/09/17 03:11 PM
1

Text her Friday. Waiting any longer than that won't increase your chances. She is either interested or not.
/r/seduction27/09/17 11:32 PM
2

If she is gun shy about guys using her for sex, you can suggest a mandatory moratorium on sex for 10 dates and 90 days (when both milestones are reached). That should show her you are into her for the right reasons.
/r/seduction27/09/17 06:51 PM
1

The question isn't if I consider those interesting. You have to ask, what do the girls you want to date consider interesting. My guess is those won't cut it.
/r/seduction27/09/17 05:58 PM
7

Women generally want a well educated, sociable, funny guy that has interesting and fun hobbies. Your (presuming) undergrad degree is a start. I'm guessing sociable is an issue since you aren't comfortable cold approaching. Do you have a great sense of humor? Do you have interesting hobbies?
/r/seduction27/09/17 05:33 PM
2

This ^
/r/seduction27/09/17 03:11 PM
2

Say something like "I've found that it is nearly impossible to get to know someone through text or messaging. How about a phone call, we can talk for a while, and decide if we want to meet".
/r/seduction27/09/17 01:05 AM
1

I wouldn't joke about it with anyone; if I liked them or not. That just isn't my style. However, I've had friends that would joke about it with everyone. For men, there are two distinct types of attraction, sexual attraction and romantic attraction. The former is a much lower bar than the latter. If you really want to know how he feels, you will have to ask him.
/r/seduction26/09/17 07:25 PM
2

What was the issue then?
/r/seduction26/09/17 06:25 PM
1

What makes you unattractive?
/r/seduction26/09/17 05:40 PM
3

Got it. A one time comment probably doesn't mean anything. Many times, a joke is just a joke. What is the issue? Did it make you uncomfortable?
/r/seduction26/09/17 05:30 PM
13

Work colleague? Never. Classmate? Never. With that said, there are some guys that are naturally crude and have little social awareness. Is this a friend? Stranger?
/r/seduction26/09/17 05:20 PM
1

Are you willing to lose her as a friend? If so, your only real way to make the transition is to tell her you like her and want to take her on a date.
/r/seduction26/09/17 04:09 PM
2

Possibly. Some STDs are slim to skin contact and can transmit without penetration.
/r/seduction26/09/17 03:21 AM
11

Serious answer: you can't destroy competition. You can live a better life but do that for you, not them.
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:46 AM
1

All depends on if you have the personality to back it up. What kills for one guy could crash for another.
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:33 AM
3

Of course. Girls don't approach guys. With guys, it doesn't really matter what he says. The point is just to start talking.
/r/seduction26/09/17 02:11 AM
1

I would have said "a friend of mine told me penguins have kneecaps. Does that sound right to you?"
/r/seduction26/09/17 01:27 AM
3

What you describe almost NEVER happens. Only the most insecure of dudes would even get mildly upset if a guy respectfully approached his girl. Turning it physical just won't really ever happen. There is a higher chance that a car will hit you while crossing the street.
/r/seduction26/09/17 12:39 AM
2

You can't change that stuff. A guy is either possessive or he isn't.
/r/seduction25/09/17 11:58 PM
2

There can be a fine line between protective and possessive. Give some examples of protective behavior you would like to see.
/r/seduction25/09/17 11:20 PM
1

Send her a message on Tinder.
/r/seduction25/09/17 09:59 PM
1

As with anything, it all depends on the girl and her dating goals. Research has shown that muscular guys are very attractive to women for sexual encounters but are not all the desirable for long term relationships. As with anything, there are almost infinite degrees. Like how skinny or fat a person was to start with and how lean or muscular he is later on. It could make a big difference or a little difference.
/r/seduction25/09/17 09:50 PM
2

Of course it makes a big difference. But like any other facet of a person, it isn't the only thing that matters.
/r/seduction25/09/17 09:25 PM
1

"Attractive" isn't a yes/no descriptor. As I note above, there are many factors that contribute to attractiveness. Each individual factor is a sliding scale. Guys that are the total package have the easiest time.
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:32 PM
1

If people have to tell you, then you aren't a part of the group that is so attractive they get their choice of women. The guys that have women lining up for them all have very predictable traits. Just think of the things a woman would want in her dream long-term partner. Those traits would include fantastic facial symmetry and bone structure, are very fit with an athletic body, are highly educated, exceptionally successful career, are charismatic, great sense of humor, sociable, self aware, kind…
/r/seduction24/09/17 05:21 PM
1

Very attractive women have lots of guys to choose from. Very attractive guys have lots of women to choose from. None of this is surprising.
/r/seduction24/09/17 04:59 PM
1

Game has everything to do with success if all else is equal. But that doesn't mean physical shape, how you dress, hair style, etc won't matter. It all matters. A fit guy with game will be MUCH more successful than a fit guy without game.
/r/seduction24/09/17 03:18 AM
1

Lots of girls want people to follow them on IG to build their follower numbers. Regardless, send her a DM and start a conversation. You really have nothing to lose.
/r/seduction24/09/17 01:08 AM
1

I mean stop looking for signals and just ask her out.
/r/seduction23/09/17 10:44 PM
1

Energy and enthusiasm is more of a personality thing than the person they are talking to. But don't focus energy on trying to construct "signals" out of nothing. You just have to man-up.
/r/seduction23/09/17 08:55 PM
2

Of course they get blown out a lot. Many even mention this.
/r/seduction23/09/17 08:43 PM
1

Sure. Making conversation.
/r/seduction23/09/17 08:32 PM
3

Yes. She is most likely nice to everyone and in no way is trying to convey interest or some secret signal. Guys just try to convince themselves of those secret signals when they are too timid to actually talk to a girl and need some sort of subconscious invitation. The only way for you to know is to man-up and ask her out. The worst thing that could happen is she continues to not go out with you and you continue to lift. No big deal.
/r/seduction23/09/17 08:12 PM
3

Yup
/r/seduction23/09/17 07:11 PM
1

Depends on the girl, I'm sure. Same for preferences guys have. A smoking hot body can do a LOT to offset an average or below average face. A charming personality and colorful/interesting life can do a lot to offset the physical aspects. People look at the package as a whole. You are correct to prioritize. Think of the things you CAN change and get to work if you want to do well with girls. If you prefer to be defeated, don't change a thing and just feel sorry for yourself. Just remember it is a …
/r/seduction23/09/17 06:57 AM
2

How can you say there isn't anything that can change your lack of success with girls when you aren't even trying to change the first thing girls see? (your body)
/r/seduction23/09/17 05:44 AM
2

With the exception of facial bone structure, there is little about yourself you can't change. Are you in amazing shape physically? Are you charismatic? Do you have lots of cool and interesting hobbies?
/r/seduction23/09/17 05:32 AM
5

Ask her out on a date and turn her on then
/r/seduction22/09/17 09:18 PM
2

Depends on your end game. Are you looking for a quick bang or more of a long term deal?
/r/seduction22/09/17 09:12 PM
2

Something about the escalation is turning them off. Try backing down from that unless you are looking for one night stands.
/r/seduction22/09/17 09:02 PM
2

If the dates went great, asking them to hang again wouldn't turn them off. Sounds like the dates went great for you. How was it for the girls?
/r/seduction22/09/17 08:38 PM
31

Ignore them
/r/seduction22/09/17 07:11 PM
1

Every club in every casino
/r/seduction22/09/17 06:09 AM
3

Try creating attraction and a connection with girls off the dance floor and then dance with them once they are already into you.
/r/seduction22/09/17 05:59 AM
2

This ^
/r/seduction22/09/17 05:34 AM
1

WTF does "make a move" mean? Kissing? Touching? Sex?
/r/seduction21/09/17 10:28 PM
1

You can suggest your place but that is pretty transparent for a first date. I would go for somewhere public and then suggest your place while you are already out.
/r/seduction21/09/17 09:51 PM
1

How many times have you seen her?
/r/seduction21/09/17 09:39 PM
1

Sounds like she isn't interested. Move on to the next.
/r/seduction21/09/17 09:25 PM
1

Use text to set a date and escalate on the date
/r/seduction21/09/17 09:22 PM
21

If you walk past a random person, guy or girl, and they look at you in passing, it means absolutely nothing.
/r/seduction21/09/17 09:12 PM
2

They aren't going to take you seriously. Any 40 year old woman getting with a teenager is in it for sex (if the guy is hot enough) or attention (if the guy isn't sex toy material). If all you are getting if interest but no sex, you need to develop a bodybuilder physique and move from being an attention provider to a sex object.
/r/seduction21/09/17 03:03 AM
2

Just be in amazing shape with an attractive face. A bodybuilder physique and good facial aesthetics is really all you need.
/r/seduction21/09/17 01:24 AM
1

So having sex with them isn't as interesting to you as getting nude pics?
/r/seduction20/09/17 09:40 PM
2

Why aren't you seeing these girls in person?
/r/seduction20/09/17 09:14 PM
1

Sounds like there is a chance of interest. Hard to say without a specific date offer. The next time you see her, suggest a specific day and time. If she accepts or offers an alternative day/time, then she is interested. If she is busy but doesn't offer an alternative or has to check her schedule, she probably isn't interested.
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:25 PM
2

What did she say when you asked her out?
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:11 PM
1

You two are looking for different things. No big deal. Move on to the next.
/r/seduction20/09/17 06:51 PM
2

this
/r/seduction20/09/17 03:12 PM
1

Lol, don't say "I want to fuck"! That sounds like something a teenager would say. Just say something like "I'm just looking to connect with cool people and you seemed cool".
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:39 PM
1

I'd start with "good morning"
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:38 PM
2

Okay, so women that want relationships, generally go for men that are older than them. Do you honestly think a 40 year old woman is looking to date a 19 year old? She probably has kids your age. She is just looking for fun. Probably wants to make sure you aren't going to get all clingy afterwards.
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:28 PM
1

Why not? What are your ages?
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:22 PM
1

Just tell her the truth. What are you looking for?
/r/seduction20/09/17 02:19 PM
1

Attraction alone isn't going to get you to your end game in 99% of situations. To your point, having a place to go isn't going to help without attraction. Both are needed but attraction comes first.
/r/seduction20/09/17 01:30 PM
14

Move on. She isn't interested in you and just likes attention.
/r/seduction20/09/17 10:19 AM
1

Just talk to her and ask her out
/r/seduction20/09/17 04:08 AM
3

Could be. It doesn't really matter though. If you are attracted to her, ask her out. If you aren't attracted, just steer clear.
/r/seduction20/09/17 03:34 AM
6

I don't know what "make a move" means but it sounds like she likes you.
/r/seduction20/09/17 03:13 AM
1

Just text her "so when do you want to hang out again?"
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:59 PM
1

Time to get to work then
/r/seduction19/09/17 02:23 PM
1

She just wasn't interested. Move on to the next.
/r/seduction19/09/17 05:42 AM
1

Being a "good dude" is just one dimension. Girls usually want nice guys. But that isn't the only criterion. They want a nice, cool, funny, intellectual guy.
/r/seduction19/09/17 05:25 AM
1

What kind of guy do the girls you like normally date?
/r/seduction19/09/17 01:22 AM
2

Only add her after you have personally established a friendship with her.
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:34 PM
13

"Ruin the friendship" is just a way of saying not interested. Just start becoming the person they want to date.
/r/seduction18/09/17 09:41 PM
2

It would be creepy.
/r/seduction18/09/17 09:40 PM
2

Sending flowers is an alpha move but I get what you are saying. If you want a way out, apologize profusely and say one of your friends is f'ing with you and they sent them.
/r/seduction18/09/17 08:57 PM
11

Go for it
/r/seduction18/09/17 06:17 PM
3

She isn't interested. It doesn't really matter why. Just move on to the next.
/r/seduction17/09/17 07:04 PM
10

Skip the compliment and start a conversation. If it flows nicely, then suggest you hang out to discuss more.
/r/seduction17/09/17 07:01 PM
8

Got it. Guys like that probably don't care if a woman has rock hard abs. You are in the clear :)
/r/seduction17/09/17 04:08 PM
1

My question was what type of guy are you usually most attracted to
/r/seduction17/09/17 03:56 PM
12

Most likely, hearing it makes her feel like she isn't a slut or some other deprecating feeling she may have. Just say it. She told you she didn't care if you meant it or not. I don't get how someone can have sex with a girl they barely know but saying a few words is beyond their scope of abilities.
/r/seduction17/09/17 03:28 PM
2

I recommend Buddha's Brain.
/r/seduction17/09/17 03:21 PM
3

Depends on the man. As with anything, people tend to be attracted to those that are similarly situated. When it comes to physical attraction, age tends to play a large part. What type of men are you attracted to? Successful business owners that look like they are in the gym 5-7 days a week? College age frat bros? Late 30s dudes that live in their parents' basement?
/r/seduction17/09/17 03:17 PM
1

What does "success" mean to you?
/r/seduction17/09/17 11:45 AM
1

What does "success" mean to you?
/r/seduction17/09/17 11:45 AM
2

This
/r/seduction17/09/17 11:43 AM
1

The best way to get over her is to be dating and find someone that is into you.
/r/seduction17/09/17 11:37 AM
5

Nope. If she sees you live in a dump, you may never see her again lol. Clean up your stuff.
/r/seduction17/09/17 04:52 AM
1

Ask her out. If she is interested, she will say yes.
/r/seduction17/09/17 04:03 AM
1

If the goal is to spark a connection, don't even think about getting a phone number. That is a red herring lol. Your goal is to spark a connection so focus on that.
/r/seduction17/09/17 01:56 AM
2

Depends on what your interests are. What are your hobbies?
/r/seduction17/09/17 12:11 AM
1

What is your goal? Just to get a phone number from someone that may never answer when you call or build attraction/interest that results in a date?
/r/seduction17/09/17 12:09 AM
6

Good luck!!
/r/seduction16/09/17 07:19 PM
1

It doesn't really matter where you take her. Lunch, dinner, bowling, golf, Hot air balloon ride, walk in the park, etc. It doesn't really matter. Just enjoy getting to know her.
/r/seduction16/09/17 06:48 PM
8

Own it and say "yes"
/r/seduction12/09/17 11:28 PM
11

Just tell him you want to have NSA sex. If he is into it, he'll be there in minutes. If he isn't into that sort of thing, you can safely move on.
/r/seduction12/09/17 10:55 PM
3

Just ask her out
/r/seduction11/09/17 04:33 AM
1

You are looking way too far ahead. There is a lot of dating that will happen in between a first date and a relationship. Just ask her out, go on a first date, and don't spend any time thinking beyond whether or not you want to see her for a second date. It really is that simple.
/r/seduction11/09/17 03:55 AM
1

Because it would seem as if she wasn't into it. Acting like it never happened is the least creepy/weird.
/r/seduction08/09/17 09:59 PM
1

Yup, act like it never happened.
/r/seduction08/09/17 08:27 PM
16

All good advice. Not just in dating but in all social aspects of life.
/r/seduction07/09/17 06:26 PM
4

Relationships take a natural progression. Becoming exclusive is kinda the first step. There is no way for a person to know where things are headed with one person while they are still seeing/sleeping with other people.
/r/seduction07/09/17 03:57 PM
5

Whenever you move to a sexual relationship, it is totally okay to discuss exclusivity.
/r/seduction07/09/17 03:42 PM
12

Don't say anything. Pretend it didn't happen.
/r/seduction07/09/17 01:57 AM
1

Usually to be nice.
/r/seduction06/09/17 09:27 PM
1

Yeah, zero chance a person would ever fake it.
/r/seduction06/09/17 07:31 PM
1

They are just ghosting you because they weren't into it.
/r/seduction06/09/17 01:10 PM
1

I think I see where you are trying to go with this but it still doesn't make sense.
/r/seduction05/09/17 11:17 PM
1

I presume you met them online. How did you meet the girls initially?
/r/seduction05/09/17 11:15 PM
1

It it isn't a person's responsibility to satisfy another person's desires.
/r/seduction05/09/17 09:32 PM
1

For some reason they didn't have a good time or they weren't attracted. Are your pics representative of what you really look like?
/r/seduction05/09/17 09:24 PM
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