So this summer the girl I've had a crush on for about a year or so finally broke up with her boyfriend of 2-3 years. I saw her crying one day and asked her what was going on. Normally I'd stay away from such confrontations, but considering we were pretty alright friends I didn't shy down and avoid it. Instead I did what I could to cheer her up. By the end of our five minute convo we hugged and said our goodbyes. I texted her that night. It went well. About a month later she stops by my job (a small gift shop) to pick up an application. We chatted until customers came in and she left without the application. It's kinda obvious that's not what she came for. 2 weeks pass and she's in the area again seeking jobs. So I hit her up and ask her on a date for that day. She agrees, we hung out, made out, I went home with the worst case of blues balls I've ever had. (Btw, I have not been in a relationship in almost 2 years.) so we text that evening and she's explicitly explaining to me how she's never been treated/ handled so well and she's excited to meet up again. We sext, text, call, FaceTime etc. until a month later she's in town again. (She lived 30mi out) she comes over, we watch a movie on my bed until we're no longer watching the movie. At the end of the play, the nut score was me: 2 her:0. So i nutted twice. Didn't last so long as I'd like. (Remember it's been a long while. I don't think she ever knew this). So since that day is when things start to go down hill. We stop texting so much, phone calls are rare, and her eagerness to meet again disappeared. I text her and ask what's up, and she says we gotta stop. It all ended so abruptly. Through text makes it feel so cold. Anyway. I really liked her and still do. I figure she doesn't want a long term relationship or my fuck was just that awful. Should I try to start something back up or just call it quits ? Edit: I am 20 she is 18