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aimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 10:50 AM
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aimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 02:37 AM
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Question For Womenaimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/19 01:06 AM
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CMVaimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:23 PM
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aimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:44 PM
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Discussionaimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 11:12 PM
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Question For Womenaimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 02:06 PM
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Discussionaimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/19 02:55 PM
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Discussionaimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:03 PM
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Discussionaimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 10:33 PM
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Question For Menaimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 11:30 PM
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Discussionaimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:28 AM
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Discussionaimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:24 PM
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Discussionaimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 06:33 PM
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Question For Womenaimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 06:18 AM
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aimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 04:15 AM
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aimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 02:37 AM
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aimlesssouls/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 12:55 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEaimlesssouls/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 10:26 PM
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Doesn't this apply to men too? Men don't care about eating disorders or how much effort it takes to be skinny, they just want a hot girl and they wanna divorce her once she gets fat after giving birth and losing her metabolism. Oh god this subreddit has made me so bleak.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 12:32 PM
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I just don't understand how to convince people that being a fuckhole is a shitty ass thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:15 PM
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Sex is also psychological. I'm saying bad sex and feeling used is not better than no sex. I'm trying to say that just because an ugly girl can get laid doesn't mean her life is better than an ugly guy who can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:13 PM
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You're saying most women. I'm only talking about ugly women and men. Most men dont care about an ugly girl's pleasure. I'm trying to debate how men on here always say that being an ugly woman is far better than being a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:11 PM
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Having bad sex does not fulfill their sex fix because they aren't orgasming. Would you rather have only your left hand and porn, or be only used for giving oral to girls who don't give a fuck about your pleasure? I don't think guys realize how hard it is for women to orgasm without help.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:08 PM
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I'm trying discuss solely based on ugly men and women. An ugly girl has no value to a man. Her only value is to give him an orgasm. I'm saying that sex does not feel good because the other person is not attempting at all to pleasure her. Most women aren't ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:04 PM
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If we assume that an ugly guy and an ugly girl can get the same sex, the ugly guy still works crap-tons harder for it, while the ugly girl just has to be a girl. The viewpoint is about that both ugly women and men have equivalently hard lives. The problem is your ranking is based on who can get laid and who can't. I'm focusing on quality of life, as in it's more than who can get laid first. I'm saying that if a pretty guy has sex with an ugly girl, it's definitely to pump and dump. Being used as…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 04:01 PM
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I feel like I've seen so many more unattractive men be with average women than the other way around. Unattractive men just don't settle for more unattractive women while the vis versa occurs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:56 PM
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That's why I'm saying it's like only going down on girls and never getting anything back. Would you rather never have sex or only go down on girls and constantly see that the girl does not give a fuck about your pleasure/happiness? It's demoralizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:52 PM
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I think it's hard to imagine for guys because when they imagine sex, it's usually PIV and ends with an orgasm. That's what porn shows what sex is. But from a woman's perspective, that high of an orgasm does not come when you're ugly and they guy isn't trying to please you. I think people who aren't having sex just can't comprehend that because male orgasms are so easy to attain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:48 PM
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I agree too. That mediocre sex isn't enjoyable, I dont think men realize that. It's just feeling used for the man's pleasure and orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/19 03:43 PM
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Coffee, gas, and time can be split between both parties so it's not him completely "working for it" while she's not working at all. Why is trying to build a relationship and friendship seen as work without any inherent benefits?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:04 PM
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Yeah, I feel like casual sex really doesn't help a LTR develop because I dont want a guy to see me as cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:00 PM
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Yeah, I feel like casual sex really doesn't help a LTR develop because I dont want a guy to see me as cheap
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 05:00 PM
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I only had one casual fwb and it ended shitty because they felt like I lied to them when I said it's only casual and no feelings were there before we fucked around but I didnt realize fucking would make me really like them. Fwb does not work for me at all I've realized because I really get attached.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:50 PM
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Sorry for trying to gain new perspective?? Every week I see a question on askreddit about some form of "women/men, what do you want to know about women/men?," clearly people ask all kinds of dumb questions on reddit. If you don't like the question, find a new thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:47 PM
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That fucking sucks, I'm so sorry you went through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:43 PM
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But sexual orientation doesn't change. What you want in life does change. Casual girls can change to wanting sex with only someone they see a future with or want a relationship with after seeing the negative sides of casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:43 PM
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Woah that was such a great argument and put things in perspective. So what do you think is better than? Just have sex with someone you're interested in for a LTR to take sex off a pedestal and then the other person can focus on the aspects of a relationship other than sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:26 PM
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Yeah but they talk about confidence? Maybe if there was a therapy aspect included?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:04 PM
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Yeah but you're thinking from the mentality of someone who wants sex, not a relationship. I think through waiting, it weeds out people who just want free pussy. A long term relationship isn't as transactional as waiting at a restaurant, it's trying to find a friendship that works well and that friendship makes the sex better. Relationships take effort for both parties and someone who doesn't want to bother with all that should go find the free pussy instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 04:02 PM
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Yes, very true. I think oxytocin really makes me think I love anyone I fuck and any cute moment makes it feel more than just sex. Kindness makes people feel gas lighted.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:58 PM
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I mean like if you fuck, they may just want you for your body. If you dont fuck first and they like hanging out with you, that means they like your personality and the relationship has more substance and potential for longevity because you both didn't just like each other cause you guys like fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:56 PM
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I think this helps me understand more. I think I'm just of the mindset that if you want a long term partner, you gotta try to find someone who's like a best friend to you otherwise life is gonna suck between the times when you're fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:54 PM
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Yeah I changed it to some guys, I think I just don't see relationships as sexual transaction and naively see it as a best friend you fuck and love?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:51 PM
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I think the issue is that, at least for me, if I engage in sexual activities with a guy, the release of oxytocin immediately convinces me that "he's amazing and I love him and blah blah." That can blind a person to not notice red flags or not see that their personalities don't match. I just think waiting to have sex for a while lets both people see the person for their personality first and remain rational instead of going based on hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:49 PM
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Not work for it, I'm not saying wait to have sex after having him spend money. I'm all for splitting the check or women paying for shit and gifts, I'm talking more about: Her: "Hey I used to fuck around but realized they only liked me for my body and didn't actually want a substantial relationship with me. I feel like we have a connection and I don't want to confuse sexual feelings for each other with thinking we're a good personality match. How about we get some coffee and talk and wait to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:43 PM
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I think I'm not understanding the "being used for something" part. I mean he's getting the "potential future long term partner" part for free when others weren't even seen as that. Like eventually people have sex of course but isn't there a value in waiting a bit? Like what if you just end up with someone because you were just hungry for sex and confused that for a real bond and now after a while when that initial spark wears off, you've realized you wasted your time because you dont actually li…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/19 03:39 PM
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What are your hobbies then? What do you see as "actual hobbies"?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:39 PM
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majority of women don't have real hobbies and spend most of their free time trying out restaurants and bars, dating, listening to music, fucking around on the internet, and watching Netflix. I just don't think you're going to have luck with women if you trivialize their interests and make yours superior. That's like saying the majority of men just like to play dumb video games. I feel there are deeper reasons why people like things, for example why is that musician their favorite band? What's th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:34 PM
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If you want friends and deep philosophical conversations about shared interests, hang out with guys. If you're horny and want to make small talk for an hour over drinks and go home for sex, meet girls. That is so fundamentally flawed, jesus are you 12? Do you seriously think that girls don't like deep conversations?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 02:21 PM
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Exactly, I don't mean blind trust. I just mean being aware of the halo effect. It's like telling someone to be aware of their racial biases, it doesn't mean liking and befriending every freaking minority you see. However, if you are casting judgement on someone, there should be a moment when you ask yourself, "am I being fair to this person or am I being biased?" I'm not talking about dating, I'm talking about general human decency. I feel like people here are taking my words to an extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 03:09 PM
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What did you learn while reading about evolution and its patterns?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/19 02:58 PM
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I think womens metabolisms are just slower or decrease more rapidly than men. They also put on weight easier because evolutionarily, more fat is more protection for the baby. Almost all the women I know who are skinny have some sort of eating disorder. I do agree that men work out more women, so maybe effort is a large contributor. However, I think it's much harder for women to remain the same weight throughout her 20s to 30s, especially after giving birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/19 06:28 PM
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Because I'd catch feelings for sure and don't want them to reject me. Or I'm not attracted to them sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 09:02 PM
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