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My dad is going through the same shit. Sorry to hear man.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 01:05 AM
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Origin, meaning, morality and destiny. Any belief system has to answer these components when searching out your existential quest
/r/askTRP19/04/19 10:13 PM
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Is it safe to say should all these criterias be met no husband in America would be divorce raped? Or by definition of divorce rape these could be steamrolled?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 02:29 PM
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Curious, How well does a prenup hold in your country?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/19 05:50 AM
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Run for the hills!
/r/askTRP02/04/19 03:54 AM
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You can be sad but never cry
/r/askTRP30/03/19 02:08 AM
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I wish I had that problem. I’d gladly show my boner off
/r/askTRP26/03/19 12:31 AM
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What culture specifically?
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:28 PM
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Have you tried being a “friend who listens and cares as well?” How beta are we talking about Hahahha
/r/askTRP13/03/19 02:49 AM
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Pretend to be a beta man, maybe that would dry her pussy hahaha
/r/askTRP13/03/19 01:50 AM
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People see what they wanna see man. For me. Everyone’s guilty until proven innocent that’s how I see things now.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 09:19 AM
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I’m from Southeast Asia. Slut shaming is too strong here. There’s a divide though. Girls who live in the business district are more open to carrousel. While a vast majority will be on tinder saying “not into hookups” they want a serious relationship. And that pretty much how they circumvent the slut shaming, “if I’m in a serious relationship with boy, ain’t nobody gonna call me a slut.” Eventually they wanna turn a beta buck into a more beta buck. This way the resources stay with her all the whi…
/r/askTRP03/03/19 01:31 PM
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I’ve ghosted someone. 4 year relationship. Blocked her from everything. It was necessary because she’s a narcissist and frequently gaslighted me. She knew how to push my buttons. Literally went on frequent anxiety attacks including ruminating at night. So, for me even though I hate it when it’s done to me. Can’t say I haven’t done it myself. Sometimes it’s just necessary. Not saying anything is a reply in itself
/r/RPChristians28/02/19 06:39 AM
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Take comfort in the thought that now is the time and only time you’ll see who your true friends are. If you need to be a lone wolf so be it. But get out of This, strong.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:53 AM
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Sorry to hear man, you don’t deserve that kind of treatment. Just know it’s bad before it gets better. But it will get better. Like everyone says, Lift and love yourself.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:49 AM
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How did you inform her? This is totally something new to me
/r/askTRP17/02/19 11:26 AM
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Some details please
/r/askTRP17/02/19 06:15 AM
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I don’t wanna judge as I’ve not had one that stuck around for 6 months no commitment. I imagine the girl would have to be in a desperate state. But I’m open to the idea
/r/askTRP17/02/19 05:06 AM
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I hear you, I’ll take that into account, thank you
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:24 AM
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Thank you, appreciate the wisdom.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:23 AM
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Got it, thank you for this!
/r/askTRP17/02/19 02:00 AM
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I’ll keep in mind, thank you!
/r/askTRP17/02/19 02:00 AM
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She wants exclusivity. My question is: is being last on the list of priorities a red flag. Should I move on? Or am I looking too much into her being overly responsible.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:44 AM
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Two months, knows I go out in the evening a lot doesn’t mind. Know I (May) be seeing others on the side but hopes I’m exclusive it’s her
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:35 AM
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I agree, I may have been too eager. To remedy the growing oneitis, on my Upcoming birthday going out of town with another potential plate.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:33 AM
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I hear you, maintaining frame in LTR is twice as hard. Margin of error is smaller. It’s hard to reframe once you screw up. I don’t have a plate as I’m going monk mode till I met this girl. Self improving: killing neediness, working on doing what I want and saying no. Basically I’m a nice guy who’s learning how not to be
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:20 AM
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This is good insight. What I like about her, Highly motivated with work goals Her family and relatives she always makes time for Understands what I am and doesn’t try to interfere with my interests Since she’s super busy, it’s a good practice for me to kill my “need” to communicate with her or be with her. Of course this is hard as I’ve only started getting unplugged for 6 months. And As we know here in RP neediness kills.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:06 AM
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Thanks for the insight. For the sake of argument let’s assume it’s true. Let’s assume she’s not lying. How do you think I should proceed? Not gonna get serious till I become top of the list?
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:28 AM
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Mobile reply I’ve had a similar case She likes to party, Strong frame , High pride, Loyal to a fault, Likes me to keep frame and be ambitious, Does not like romantic gestures except if it will look ,good on social media and does not look cheesy. She’s never ever sweet Problem Passive aggressive Eating disorder Narcissist
/r/RPChristians15/02/19 01:42 AM
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Just noticed the username hahaha
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 05:56 AM
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A PILOT in here?!! This is insanely motivating!
/r/TheRedPill14/02/19 01:03 AM
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Thank you for your reply, I now feel like I Really have to take the time to read both books now. Appreciate it!
/r/askTRP08/02/19 04:28 AM
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What’s the focus on preventive medicine and positive masculinity? Excerpts from amazon doesn’t help explaining it
/r/askTRP08/02/19 02:37 AM
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Whenever I’m intense in my prayer and worship, I realize I notice women less. Then when I give in to sexuality I notice them more. Dare I say, finding a woman although not impossible for I’ve met women like these in the past who is focused on the Spirit of God denying her natural instincts, is challenging but all the while worth it. Yes some are quite boring, by red pill or Worldly standards. But that’s a topic I don’t really wanna dwell on. I’m still single, nearly 30, no mortgage, debt, kids. …
/r/RPChristians07/02/19 02:57 AM
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If she’s toxic, cut her out. If she can be a good plate it’s your call. But you seem to be over thinking so I’ll call that a slippery slope.
/r/askTRP01/02/19 07:46 PM
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Dodged a bullet actually. If he did his best to his capacity believing in his definition of “a good man” then I hardly think any of it is his fault. A bit naive? Yes Will he learn from it? Maybe Is he wrong for trying to be a good person based on virtues and values he believes in? Definitely not
/r/TheRedPill22/01/19 03:44 AM
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Can’t blame him for moral choices. If he’s a real man he’ll do what he wants, he chose his path regardless of what majority here would look at as losses. I respect that. He shouldn’t feel bad for choosing what he thought was right. He just put his faith in the wrong person is all.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/19 11:43 PM
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Not a sit but “Vikings” is pretty masculine fucks whoever he wants does whatever he wants
/r/askTRP17/01/19 08:58 AM
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Happy to hear brother keep moving forward!
/r/RPChristians15/01/19 12:52 AM
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Thank you for this, I always look forward to your posts OP!
/r/RPChristians14/01/19 10:29 PM
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Not if you remove all the stimulants. You need to be intensely fixated on the outcome (goal setting theory). So much so that the very thought of sex or intimacy does not even cross your mind. If nofap discussions are taken seriously, it would take 90 days to reprogram the brain to respond differently to stimulants. This has to do with your dopamine (chemical that is responsible for reward system) Again, fixate on the outcome you want, everything else is just noise, and what do you do with noise …
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:04 AM
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People don’t change perspective unless they find out and decide for themselves. No matter how much you show them the truth. They’re their own stumbling block.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 11:22 PM
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After a while, you’ll see what you really value in your life. But they’re right, this has to be your choice.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 05:51 AM
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Being with like minded friends is the shortest path, crab mentality just makes progress more difficult.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 10:19 PM
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You must a person that trusts too easily. Work on that you’ll get affected less.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:48 PM
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You’ll need to work on your oneitis tendency then
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:20 PM
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Keep your expectations low, very low with women. Can’t be disappointed if you set the bar low.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:40 AM
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You don’t need people who just leave you man. Just a small circle you can trust. Love but never need. Sorry about what you’ve been through. Investing in yourself is one of the loneliest time. It’s only when you’re someone to look at and gaze upon that the roaches fester in front of you saying you’ve been friends all along.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 07:38 AM
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In Japan things are different. 60% of men don’t want to marry. Maybe this is a problem for countries that believe a lot in romance. Where divorce rape exists. Where women cry out for men, but get disgusted when men wanna be men. Like say murica!
/r/askTRP30/12/18 03:40 AM
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Can anyone verify, that the best women we can have in LTR is the one we forge. Finding one is one thing, fine tuning is another.
/r/askTRP28/12/18 11:33 AM
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That’s a very tough question OP. One can love unconditionally. But the moment you insert “need” into the picture like how they do in the movies. You’re ruined. Love, but be outcome independent. Love, but never show you need. Think like Rick in “Rick and morty. Don’t need anyone, or anything.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 03:26 AM
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Which province? I’m from Cebu but based in Manila now. If you’re not growing in the church you’re in I don’t see why you should continue.
/r/RPChristians23/12/18 12:53 AM
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Mission can be a hard goal you wanna achieve. If you want a man that’s focused on a mission chances are he’ll want a girl to be a driven as him. CCF has so many missions if that’s the kind of mission you’re thinking. It’s a good place to start in, serve God there and grow at the same time. They have youth fellowship for singles also. Some have good teachings on masculinity reminds me of the book “wild at heart”
/r/RPChristians23/12/18 12:52 AM
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I’m from same country, In a country where men are raised by stay at home moms and titas. I can’t imagine the how the competition will be for the unicorn red pilled Christian I rarely see. Fire begets fire, be as passionate on a mission as you want you future partner to be.
/r/RPChristians20/12/18 11:26 PM
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Excellent post bro!
/r/RPChristians12/12/18 11:09 PM
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Gaslighting is a real thing bro, sorry to hear
/r/askTRP12/12/18 02:41 AM
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I imagine Vito Corleone saying, “never let anyone know what your thinking” That being said only people historically who’ve gone against the flow have changed things. If you don’t wanna change history best to keep it shut.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/18 10:26 AM
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Doesn’t change much. Some wives would even outsource the duty to prostitutes.
/r/askTRP08/12/18 08:19 AM
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I like where all of this is going, keep going guys!
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:48 PM
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Perhaps ripped isn’t for everyone. But we are to take care of our bodies. Many athletes dedicate their training as an offering. If you’re gifted to achieve more why offer something less. Don’t let certain thoughts stop you from achieving what you can, what’s given to you.
/r/RPChristians29/11/18 12:38 AM
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Best answer! If I might add, be mindful and stay in the present, thoughts will surface because you’ve exercised neurons to trigger a response to those thoughts. Do 1 thing at a time. It’s a long journey.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 12:35 AM
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I find that despite the biological aspect for their preselection. There are some who use good “choices” so to speak. Many women in my predominantly catholic country would like a stable boyfriend who they’ll sleep with. Slut shaming is quite strong here so that may be a factor. But I have met some who are firm in their conviction to save it for the “one”. In a sense they develop their own oneitis It’s when they fall off from faith where they start indulging in their biological urges. I don’t see …
/r/RPChristians26/11/18 03:41 AM
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You can do it OP, oneitis sucks only if you let it get to you
/r/askTRP23/11/18 07:27 AM
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Happy reading about this, more power bro
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/18 03:03 AM
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Yes I agree with this, thank you!
/r/RPChristians22/11/18 12:46 AM
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Looks like thirsty women are after you. Don’t get me wrong there are hot thirsty women too. You’ll just have to do something a little further than lifting
/r/askTRP20/11/18 11:01 PM
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Thank you very much! I’ve always liked your insights brother! I’ll digest these really. My main reason for asking this is to have a sort of counter measure against bad behavior. While we may want Godly women. Human behavior cannot be predicted that easily no matter how mature someone is spiritually. The Bible is full of Godly characters that fail the test after all.
/r/RPChristians20/11/18 10:06 PM
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Needed this, thank you!
/r/RPChristians20/11/18 12:11 AM
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I see, so as a substitute for that method what might work best?
/r/RPChristians19/11/18 08:23 AM
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This could be a good case study for all RP
/r/askTRP18/11/18 08:59 PM
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This is the best answer!
/r/askTRP18/11/18 06:13 AM
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Love how your answer has psychology, anthropology, economics in a very concise form
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:06 PM
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i did it! i believed and made a conscious effort to upvote this!
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 03:22 AM
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Sounds very pragmatic, I’ll give it a shot
/r/askTRP12/11/18 01:08 AM
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Agreed. You’d think the fierce woman would need a compliant man. But she’ll lose respect for him. Especially in the presence of an even more dominant man outside the relationship. I’d say in this case, fight fire with fire, or find an ultra submissive woman.
/r/RPChristians09/11/18 01:38 AM
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From experience with fierce women. They still want decisive, someone with initiative, doesn’t want someone who gives up easily. You’ll need to work a lot on “frame”. Should you let yourself be under the wife, you’ll be headed to the same path most miserable marriages end up in. Work on it here and now before marriage else regret comes when finances and children enter the picture.
/r/RPChristians09/11/18 12:40 AM
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Waiting for fifth 🍿
/r/askTRP09/11/18 12:30 AM
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Frustrating isn’t it how intelligence makes you think of risk vs reward.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 08:19 AM
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I’ll try to digest this, can you give some examples?
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:55 AM
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Well she’s 5 inches taller and she always did mind the gap. I don’t look like shit though. She’s a 9 and she knows it. She just gradually transformed into a starfish eventually making so many excuses and explanations as to why that is.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:52 AM
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I left her. Been tying to leave for 2 years, till I just blocked her because she still wants to continue
/r/askTRP06/11/18 09:50 AM
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Thank you, this might help me sleep better. Value your insight greatly!
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:34 AM
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She’s got experience, she just went cold after 2 years of being together. So what’s eating me up is “what if I knew RP” before and just held on. That’s what keeps me up at night.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:49 AM
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I don’t have much reference you see. Only been in two
/r/askTRP06/11/18 03:19 AM
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Traditional roles are harder to assume now that after just a few decades only few men are masculine, and fewer females are feminine. It’s like they wanna swap roles. So far this is what’s in demand. An empowered independent female. A sensitive caring man. That’s where we are. Japan can be a sample demographic if you want, they assume roles so much it’s killing their marriages leaving 60% of their men not wanting marriage now. While I do support gender roles, it’s just not the whole answer to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 02:38 AM
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Just let it be. You can keep her if you want since that’s what I think you want, but keep in mind she’s not worth marrying if she can’t do the adjustment. She’s lost that privilege.
/r/askTRP13/10/18 09:37 AM
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Compound lift examples are deadlifts, squats, and other exercises that target multiple body parts all at once.
/r/RPChristians13/10/18 12:36 AM
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This would be a good screenplay for a movie. But not IRL bro
/r/askTRP11/10/18 07:39 AM
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At times yes. How you can just be yourself, believe for a moment a girl genuinely loves you for who you Are. Then I remember all the shit I’ve been through just being myself and believing in love, then I’m back to the reality of trp. Reddit is a blessing. But also an asshole for the quarantine. I’m thirsty for more knowledge that empower us men. But hey, feminism must have its day day.
/r/askTRP11/10/18 02:53 AM
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Bro Just leave sorry to hear
/r/askTRP03/10/18 06:43 AM
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I’m okay not settling down. My problem is my father is giving me his business. I’m his “heir” so to speak, and he wants me to make my “heir” already.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 03:43 AM
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To simplify, I’ve given you two outcomes, both of which could be true or false. A. You find out she’s faithful, great, would you treat her differently? B. She’s not , will you keep her as a plate but not LTR I’m merely pointing out that if you are to put trust and investment it should be on yourself. It is easier to set the bar low for her, so you don’t get disappointed should she fail. It is easier to keep in mind that all things are temporary. I’m curios though, what set of criteria do you hav…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:21 AM
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Having knowledge might change your judgement, you seem to be doing so well. Proceed with awalt mentality, do your best for yourself still, that’s what caught her to begin with. You are the prize as they say. So what if she’s head over heels, it’s temporary etc. So what if she’s cheating, awalt, hypergamy etc. The best thing to do is maintain composure and minimize emotional investment. LTR material takes years to discover.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 07:30 AM
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Against this thing called hypergamy, we’re gonna have a lot of actions justified. You are right to next her. He who can say no is the one who has power.
/r/askTRP25/09/18 12:03 AM
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My whole country seem to be that way. Most marry or start a family Before 25 here
/r/askTRP22/09/18 02:15 AM
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If I say “fuck you” to my ex when she demands something, will I lose frame?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/18 05:30 AM
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Shit test, the gift that keeps on giving
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 05:56 AM
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I am just fucking inspired
/r/TheRedPill04/09/18 02:47 PM
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I had a 5 year LDR. Wasn’t married, I didn’t take the “sex before marriage” path. Communication was constant, like very constant. That’s why it lasted so long. The distance was great in the sense that it increased longing and desire for each other. I know RP literature doesn’t support it. But I find there’s always an exemption to the rule. I did not separate with her on the account of unfaithfulness. It was more about getting out of the toxic dynamic we had. We’d fight all the time while apart, …
/r/RPChristians04/09/18 01:34 PM
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I apologize, I will be sure to comply with the rules mentioned. I will delete the post as soon as possible. Thank you for your patience.
/r/RPChristians26/08/18 08:29 AM
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My father listened to my mother initially, letting her control all finances. The business suffered. Then my father took that away from her, my mother ran away taking me and my brother. She made sure to take us so she could continually take child support anywhere she went since she was jobless. They got back together, got pregnant again and split once more. So my dad has to give even a larger child support. My mom’s wishes were that she control all the finances, and any major decision in the busi…
/r/RPChristians19/08/18 11:53 PM
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Can I fantasize about having a strong, capable of independence yet submissive to me kind of girl?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 11:59 PM
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Since there are a lot of good advice here I’d add one more, but easier. Don’t do it man! Run to the hills, run for your life!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 11:11 PM
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I’ve had both. I’d say this depends on where you are in life. My friends all believe you need both simultaneously. I for one have never been sated by the attractive low sex drive, fucked 9/10 but it’s not worth fucking someone who doesn’t wanna fuck you for a few years. First year is great though. Unattractive high drive, ultimately I’ve felt high frame against her, believe it or not she’s made me finish 8 rounds in the evening, 4 rounds the following morning, Pros and cons. At the end of the da…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 03:53 PM
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I like how you’ve used suck so many times. Good job brother! I’m so pumped!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/18 03:12 AM
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Should I now start looking for a “submissive” wife?
/r/RPChristians11/08/18 02:54 AM
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I’m in awe and inspired by this testimony!
/r/RPChristians09/08/18 01:22 PM
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That’s a great insight, one that I’ve always agreed with. But in today’s feminist world it’s hard to bring it up. In another light, I’ve read the RP proponents disagree with Jordan Peterson saying he’s very much blue pill. Even though Peterson also thinks nice guys finish last. One thing I know for sure. No matter who, there will always be disagreements.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/08/18 01:05 PM
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I envy you. I always had the impression Christianity and red pill would not work.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/08/18 12:42 PM
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You want different you should turn to Islam. A traditional view of the Quran, (not the watered version of leftist) dictates women to submit to their husbands every whim. Multiple wives are allowed as long as you can provide for all. Basically acquiring a wife is similar to getting assets. I’m sorry I just refused to water down what the left is trying to cover up. There are good Christians and bad Christians, just as good Americans and bad ones. It’s impossible to categorize into one. A real foll…
/r/MGTOW01/08/18 05:14 AM
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