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| 1 | I went to the party (2 weeks later) FRDon't rush it. From her point of view, she might be thinking 'this guy wants me on lock down because he doesn't think his value is high enough to keep me without us being labelled official'. Maybe not, just my 2 cents. | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 07:12 AM |
| 3 | (Serious) found out I also like slightly older women, need help!There are many ladies who like younger guys, and some bars have a reputation for being 'cougar bars'. That might be a decent start. | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Thank you seddit.I realize it was almost certainly a typo, but the first mantra should be "be outcome independent". Just to avoid any confusion for others. Cheers! | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 07:08 AM |
| 2 | [FR] D3, First night of gaming.You're moving too quick. Some people recommend using indirect for bars/parties, and direct for day game. I mean, within two seconds you're already asking her if she came with anybody? I can't ever recall ever asking that to a girl. Why? In my opinion, asking that questions simultaneously brings up: Are you single? Are you interested in me? I'm interested in you. Don't get too caught up in asking the same questions, and following a routine. What happens if the other girls see/hear you going aroun… | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 07:04 AM |
| 1 | How do a bring up sex?If you've physically gotten her to the point where she is ready for sex, a line such as, "I have a condom" will suffice and I've successfully used it many times in the past. Just remember that they need a good amount of foreplay. | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 06:46 AM |
| 1 | What is you're opinion on bringing a second girl (friend) on a second or third date with another girl?If you went on a date and she brought her guy friend it would be weird. Especially if you didn't expect it. And how are you supposed to know that the aren't more than friends? Furthermore, they probably would know each other better than you know her so they would have much inside jokes and mutual stories. It might make you feel sort of left out. | /r/seduction | 22/10/13 03:06 AM |
| 2 | What is you're opinion on bringing a second girl (friend) on a second or third date with another girl?I would rather not use a harness and jump off at the top. | /r/seduction | 22/10/13 01:41 AM |
| 1 | What is your highlight for this year so far in terms to the game?Realizing that doing the opposite of my first instinct is often better. | /r/seduction | 04/10/13 01:34 AM |
| 6 | DON'T BE CONVENIENTIf you valued yourself higher than her (as itseemstoberaining said you should do at a fundamental level), you would not intrinsically give off the vibe of being available whenever she wants. Valuing yourself more than her is not a transition you can make easily. But as the phrase hints, it means to give yourself priority over her. If you have something on the go, don't just bail so that you can see her. Sure, if you had plans to hang around at home watching TV, and she wanted to see you, by all … | /r/seduction | 23/08/13 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Losing guy friends due to changeBy being an alpha male, you add value to everyone's life, which makes you a more enjoyable person to be with. If anything, you should get more guy friends as you do this. | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 10:23 PM |
| 19 | "Can you carry my bag for me? I'm tired."Why does everyone ask me this at the border?! | /r/seduction | 03/05/13 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Does not paying for the date fuck things up somehow?Yea exactly. I've had female friends tell me they like splitting the bill anyways, so I figure why not. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Does not paying for the date fuck things up somehow?I always split because I can't afford dinner for two. Doesn't really make a difference I find. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 04:56 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First Ever Field Report: First Ever Date: First Ever KissThe same often happens to me, so it's not just you. Once it's 'mission accomplished', my mind subconsciously wants to move on even though I can't logic it out. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 03:27 AM |
| 20 | A new thought on kinohttp://i.imgur.com/PdfBD.gif Am I doing it right? | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 03:32 AM |
| 1 | My friends held a small intervention to get me out of the game! How do I explain it to them!?My friends constantly push me to become a better person. If I suspect someone will be an anchor in my life I cut them loose. I'm going up, not down. | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Her place or mine, does it matter?I like her place because then I can duck out early if needed. | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 03:28 AM |
| 1 | What do you prefer. (Preferably meant for ladies)It matters to some girls and doesn't matter to others. Unfortunately this is how everything goes (height, how muscular, level of income), there is no universal type that spans every girl's wants and needs. | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 03:00 AM |
| 3 | What do you prefer. (Preferably meant for ladies)Basically 'it's not the wand, it's the wizard'. | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 02:58 AM |
| 3 | [FR] WingmaningBro's before ho's regardless unless you clear the waters with him first. Just be like 'hey man you don't seem to be putting any effort into this, have you lost interest in her?' | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Talked to a super hot girl tonight but froze after introducing myself...It's common. But opening weeks after first seeing her definitely didn't help your case. But yes it happens to people all the time, at least you made it one step farther than having complete AA and not going for it! | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 02:58 AM |
| 0 | I need your advice on my next move..You texted her the right thing (bravo, I'm impressed!), and don't over-analyze her response (it's not a bad response to be honest). You'll really know if she actually comes, or not. Just give her the minimum details, and the ball is in her court. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 02:55 AM |
| 3 | whats my next move? im a newbieNot getting a reply is a HUGE indicator of disinterest (I can't emphasis this enough - especially in the day and age where girls constantly have their phone and it's no accident when they don't reply). Don't send a second text, at least not at this point. As shitty as it seems, move on to another girl. It may seem hard to grasp, and pretend you sent a second text, she might be overly apologetic for not replying (e.g. "oh sorry I was really busy! how have you been?!"), and then you think it's all… | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 02:52 AM |
| 0 | Just got out of a very long term relationship, looking to get back into swing of things - How does one reset their 'inner game' ?Go through it mentally, and you'll basically have to try it out and see where you fail, and then improve. It shouldn't take too long to hit your stride. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 02:46 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Tried to make it two in a week but failed.There's a cool trick where you put a scrumbled piece of paper in your armpit, and when you squeeze down, the pulse in your wrist cannot be felt. So it appears you can control your pulse at will to some extent. Might be fun to try it on her, unless it's well known in the nursing community. I would have went in for a kiss no doubt. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 02:45 AM |
| 0 | Female pickup artists and the alpha female?I think the term you're looking for is 'matriach'. Basically other women trust her, and men view her as the alpha female, which means that she is the most ideal mating partner. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Average guy. My short life-story with my weekend recap.Listen man, go with your gut. If you thought something was off, you could have easily been right. The risks far outweigh the benefits. Good read though. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 03:23 AM |
| 14 | [FR] Trains, French Girls, and Blow.You did blow while she was sleeping, I know it! | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 04:35 AM |
| 7 | She doesn't want the D yet? (Follow-up post about girlfriend and her relationship with her ex-fuck buddy)I don't think waiting 3 weeks is a big issue, but any further interference form this Michael character would be unacceptable. | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Something to remember when family or friends hate on you for learning seductionI view learning seduction as a self improvement, which basically gets merged with my other self improvements to make me a better person as a whole. I don't tell everyone I'm learning guitar, I play for them and amaze them. I don't tell people I learn seduction techniques. | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 03:25 AM |
| 1 | After the opener, some of us freeze up and don't know what to do. What are some great transitions?After going to the strip club and EVERY stripper asking me "Where are you from?", "What school do you go to?", "How many times have you been here?", basically always in that order too, I was ready to pull my hair out and it made me realize how lame it is for a girl to get asked the same mundane questions by guys. Also them knowing the guy is likely after a hookup, just like I knew the stripper would eventually ask if I wanted a dance. A real eye opener. EDIT: my point is, don't ask routine quest… | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Tennessee MTSU Sedditors look inside for details.Also try the "Find a wingman! using SEDDIT LOCATOR" down the sidebar. I haven't tried it out, but it's there. | /r/seduction | 27/03/13 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Frustrated Beyond BeliefI agree with everyone else - your texts are too long, and use less emoticons and exclamation marks. As hard as it is, you have to play it cooler. | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Should i answer the text, or just leave it be?I'd probably leave it be for now. It's good to have the last text in the convo sent by her so when you spark it up again it's not a double text. | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 05:52 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Strip Club in another city. K-Close and mass confusion....Sometimes when a heated moment temporarily ends (same thing as if you're grinding hard with a girl at a club, you both agree to leave and she says she'll go get her stuff, often she'll never come back). It's just something girls do because their logical mind comes back to life and they change their mind. | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 01:42 AM |
| 4 | What is a good response for this shit test? (if it even is a shit test)"You may recognize me from a prominent TV show." "Oh, which one!?" "To catch a predator." | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 01:34 AM |
| 3 | [FR] New Years Eve, first time going to a club, first time dancing with a girl, and first k-close of my life. 2013 is starting off well.Great read haha. Sometimes those stupid inconveniences make for the best stories. That was impressive coordination. Thanks for sharing! | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 04:31 AM |
| 2 | [FR] New Years Eve, first time going to a club, first time dancing with a girl, and first k-close of my life. 2013 is starting off well.How did you get your friend in? I didn't see anyone ask and I really want to know. Also, congrats, it only gets better! | /r/seduction | 03/01/13 02:23 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Sarged on Friday night, # close, got my car towed, and more HB approachesI'm half way done reading and you've really entered jew mode eh? I love it. | /r/seduction | 30/12/12 04:53 AM |
| 3 | Shit test? How to respond.I think it's wrong to attend to every detail because a girl keeps on complaining. It's almost like she was seeing how far you'd go to get her to go and then she left anyways once she figured she had you wrapped around her finger. If she won't wait without whining, then f her and try and re-schedule without coming across as soft/desperate/needy/clingy. If not, move on. That's my 2 cents anyways. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 03:53 AM |
| 3 | How can I distinguish myself when at a bar or a party?Don't always expect people to acknowledge your presence with fireworks. It might take you to say hi to everyone as you walk in, and soon enough the favor will be returned. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 03:47 AM |
| 2 | My response last night to "Is this seat taken?"I like you | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 03:14 AM |
| 2 | I don't understand it when guides tell you to "develop a sense of humor"It can be developed. Or in my case fine tuned. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Seriously considering going out by myself for the first time. (I've never even approached anyone before)Do it! It will be an awkward start but it doesn't take toooo long to hit your stride. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. DO IT. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 02:06 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First few days out for a noob - feedback appreciatedIf I did want to get her name and escalate, how do I do it smoothly? I feel as if the 3rd or 4th time asking her to repeat would get annoying. Just get out your phone and have her put her name and number in. Don't as more than twice I'd say. I tend to do this a lot because I'm a bit self conscious about my age (I'm 22 and most girls outside of college towns are a few years older.) What do you guys think of that line? I'm not too fond of saying you have a kid but the 38 y/o thing is good. I wasn'… | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 01:51 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Successful sober night at the clubI had this too but it goes away after a while. Just keep on keeping on... | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 01:31 AM |
| 8 | [FR] Successful sober night at the clubHold a girl's hand and go to kiss it but then last second rotate your hand so you kiss your own hand not hers. I've never had a bad response with it. | /r/seduction | 07/10/12 01:30 AM |
| 1 | New Mindset that's Helped my Game: Everytime I Get a Number, I Expect Her to FlakeIt's like 'what happens, happens'. Hope for the best. Prepare for the worst. Don't take it personally, there are oftentimes reasons beyond her control. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Is this progress?Also, watch Simple Pickup on youtube. It literally changed my life and perspective on approaching girls. They have a nice channel, the in-field vids are by far the best. | /r/seduction | 29/08/12 01:35 PM |
| -7 | The best tip for beginners.I'm a little stuck on step 3. How many things can you open? Opened my door to leave my house. Opened my car door to get into my car. Opened my car door to get out of my car. Opened the door to the bar. Opened to a girl. Opened my beer. Opened my zipper. Now I have mandatory court ordered community service? Halp! | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 10:04 PM |
| 0 | sedditors who have had three ways, i need help!Group massage will do the trick. There are also some lines from 'The Game' that seem okay. Something about 'If 2 people massage you at the same time your brain disconnects this information and it feels like a thousand hands are massaging you. Want to try it out?' And if I remember it correctly, you and a chick massage the more dominant one to disarm/relax her. Then touch some boobies, fondle some sideways smiles, and profit! Edit: childish grammar | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 10:00 PM |
| 2 | [FR] First day game and first day at University. 6 Approaches. Feeling like a boss!Call her, don't text her when you ask her for lunch. And yes, you'll probably be a shipwreck for the 5 minutes it takes you to muster up the courage but to get the pussy, you can't act like one. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Is this progress?Sorry for the late reply, I'm new to reddit. Touch her arm, hold eye contact for a bit longer than usual. You know when it's a jiffy longer than normal and you shy away? Hold your gaze for one jiffy more. Also, if you catch her staring at you from across the room, it's a sure sign (I literally know it's a lockdown and won't take much effort). Furthermore, if you catch her looking at you and she looks down - she's interested. If she looks to the side, she's not interested. Of course these are not… | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Online Dating: Not many emails are responded to. Tips?Have every email subject read "Hey Dipshit", and thank Tosh for that one! | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 04:01 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Another first day of classes report, bombed it...Don't let one bad day ruin your stride. It happens to EVERYONE. Just an unexplainable bad vibe for the day, who knows where it comes from. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 04:00 AM |
| 7 | Awkward silences 30 minutes inIt's only awkward if you make it awkward. Your body language is the huge majority of your conversation so why not talk with your body during the silence?! It works, I promise. | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 03:54 AM |
| 1 | How useful is a hot female wing(wo)man?Extremely effective. Make sure your target knows she's just a friend however. Not all chicks are down for a threesome. Pam! | /r/seduction | 28/08/12 03:52 AM |
| 1 | How NOT to chat up women (with real example)I'm glad I'm not the only one cringing at this. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Is this progress?I bet at least some of them were throwing indicators of interest at you that you didn't notice. By accidentally ignoring them they think you aren't that into them. Try making a small move when you think you see interest from her, and see how it is received. If she kind of rejects you, then make a mental note that what she did might not show interest (note that every girl has different signals). You'll start to pick them up quick. One of the biggest indicators I found was if I am doing something … | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 02:54 AM |
| 2 | I turn 28 soon, I haven't had sex whilst being 27. Going on holiday soon, help give me a pep talk and dispel some thoughts I can't shakeI'm tall and lanky and some girls specifically tell me that's what they want, don't let that hold you back. Also, just relax and don't feel pressured. Girls can sense desperation from a mile away. Just have a good time. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 02:49 AM |
| 2 | [FR] First day game and first day at University. 6 Approaches. Feeling like a boss!I usually just wait to see their name on something (binder, test, homework) and memorize it then. If you don't ask the second time, it's the point of no return and you shouldn't randomly ask like a week later. Or get them to put their contact info in your phone (NAME and number). That'll solve your problemo. Just say something like "give me your deets" as you pass them your phone with the new contact thing open. It's smooth and not cheesy or anything. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 02:45 AM |
| 10 | A little game I like to play....At first I jumped to the conclusion that you run into traffic as per usual, but then make sure to stare intently into the driver's eyes as they careen towards your fragile body. Both 'players' automatically lose when the bumper makes impact. Then I read the rest. | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 02:41 AM |
| 5 | If you're going to talk to someone you don't know...?Focus on learning body language. I can not say anything for at least 15 seconds and still keep her attention if there's mutual interest. If you're focusing on spewing words at a certain rate for it to be considered an acceptable conversation in your standards, you're doing it wrong! Just relax! | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Say yes. Say yes to everything.Will you stop saying yes? See what I did there! I made a funny! | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 02:35 AM |
| 2 | New Mindset that's Helped my Game: Everytime I Get a Number, I Expect Her to FlakeI would like to say that instead of assuming that she will flake, I just tell myself I don't care if she texts me and if she does that's a bonus. And if she doesn't, by then I'll have another number. Assuming she'll flake is kind of self depreciating. But I see your angle. Cheers! | /r/seduction | 23/08/12 02:32 AM |
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