aintdainty Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
39	Are hippie and festival girls actually mostly just "Cool Girls" that just pretend to be feminist to post nudes of themselves in the woods? And the polamory trend?	DISCUSSION	aintdainty	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/20 08:26 PM
22	Some notes about Tinder and using OLD with intention.	DISCUSSION	aintdainty	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/20 12:56 PM

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5	Somebody needs to hear this... life without you is his punishment. I mean, incompatibility is not a mistake....it just is. No reason to beat yourself up if incompatibility is the culprit. Not everyone you love is meant to stay forever. Sad, but very true. Whatever you like in this person, you can definitely find it again in someone you're more compatible with!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/20 03:59 PM
13	Somebody needs to hear this... life without you is his punishment. I agree with the energy here but the "you did absolutely nothing wrong" art lacks self awareness. In SOME situations yeah definitely the guy is a loser narcissist gaslighting douche but otherwise I think both people contribute to a failing relationship or make mistakes, we are all human, playing the victim is not Queenly. Hopefully, whatever happened, you learned aomething about yourself too and will use it to improve.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/02/20 08:28 AM
5	How do I distract myself from being sad that I’m single? Most women who have relationships at that age, early twenties, are not with truly good men, or THINK they are with good men until they wake up 10 years later with two and a half kids, depleted finances, unmet life goals, disappointment, and thoughts/intentions of divorce. Being single has nothing to do with not being worthy....there's really not much in the dating pool these days. Better to be single and available should someone good come along than be tied down to dead weight. You're really not…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/02/20 12:46 PM
5	Are hippie and festival girls actually mostly just "Cool Girls" that just pretend to be feminist to post nudes of themselves in the woods? And the polamory trend? Yeah, I enjoy instagram to show off my artwork, travel pics, and occasional nice selfie but I am wary of most men who use it much. Lots of men use it to find spankbank material, message cam girls and "models" and create extremely false, cooler personas than their truth. They also use it to keep tabs on and sometimes stalk their exes. Not to mention its a huge validation hole for pickmeisha women that rate their own desirability off likes and dm's instead of their real life. Ive considered deleti…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/20 12:05 PM
1	Are hippie and festival girls actually mostly just "Cool Girls" that just pretend to be feminist to post nudes of themselves in the woods? And the polamory trend? Again, Im talking about a lifestyle, not a one off weekend or a year in college of playing around.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/20 12:01 PM
2	Are hippie and festival girls actually mostly just "Cool Girls" that just pretend to be feminist to post nudes of themselves in the woods? And the polamory trend? Most every fest Ive ever been to had a ton of smaller versions of that girl. Burning Man is the ultimate hippie festival and like the Mecca of the subculture. I don't understand why you think we're talking about different things.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/01/20 05:13 AM
10	Are hippie and festival girls actually mostly just "Cool Girls" that just pretend to be feminist to post nudes of themselves in the woods? And the polamory trend? This is less about festivals as individual experiences and more about the lifestyle, values and subculture as a whole.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/20 02:28 PM
11	Are hippie and festival girls actually mostly just "Cool Girls" that just pretend to be feminist to post nudes of themselves in the woods? And the polamory trend? I don't know which festivals you're going to, because practically any hippie festival, even the more expensive and upscale ones, will have wooks and travelling hippies. These people make their living on selling drugs and crafts at festivals, bumming rides or places to stay off both friends and strangers. This isnt something just from the old days, plenty of people still do this even now. The thing about the "woke spirituality" is that ig directly has come with a ton of free female nudity, women …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/20 07:55 AM
4	Again, what wall? 41 y.o. Woman with 6 kids still beating 20 and 30 y.o. men off with a stick. Tbh, Ive had multiple young male friends and even an ex tell me they were into older women because it boosted their ego if they could bag an experienced woman. I also got the feeling they were looking for a mother type of figure, maybe a bit of an Oedipus complex.No problem if thats your thing, but I really do not understand women who act like fucking a man twenty years younger is special. MILF is a popular porn category.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/20 06:26 AM
14	Are hippie and festival girls actually mostly just "Cool Girls" that just pretend to be feminist to post nudes of themselves in the woods? And the polamory trend? Agreed, I also think the toxic positivity trend is getting so old, especially since these "Lightworker" types are supposedly all about doing imner work and shadow work yet completely avoid discussion or expression of anything negative or dark, even though this is a legitimate half of human nature that should not be repressed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/20 05:47 AM
5	My recent dating story and I learnt the hard way. He sounds a lot like my ex. My ex really drilled it into me repeatedly that whenever someone did something nice for me, it wa because I was a pretty woman and they wanted to fuck me. I wa niave about some of my male "friendships" so he did open my eyes somewhat, but mostly he darkened my perspective. This guy is trash which is why he calls others trash. Any man who uses terms like e thot, slut, whore, etc. is not worth your time. It is a major red flag. He sounds supremely abusive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/01/20 08:51 PM