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I've already gave up on that one haha. I was bummed out for a bit but got over it within a few days. I know it's just a silly crush that we all get.
/r/seduction11/12/18 04:01 PM
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Just give a nice, regular hug man. When I met a girl for the first time for sex I just hugged her, had her walk me to her room, talked to her about random shit for a minute, then kissed her and went from there.
/r/seduction11/12/18 04:04 AM
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Ah okay perfect. I felt pressure to replicate other peoples more popular ways of meditation, so I was confused.
/r/seduction10/12/18 06:33 PM
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In my case, if I'm wrong and someone corrects me, I just say "Oh damn really? Never knew that." or something along those lines. I don't care at all to be right, and I know people enjoy being correct, and if they're worth keeping around, they enjoy educating someone respectfully and they respect you for being able to admit that you're wrong. People really need to understand that NOBODY cares if you're wrong or right, NOBODY cares if you've listened to a song first, or done this or that first. May…
/r/seduction10/12/18 06:32 PM
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Oh lmao I'm high but I doubt I'd have gotten that even if I was sober. But yeah, just hit the gym, hit the hairdresser, look like Adonis like myself, get matches. Ez.
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:16 AM
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That's just life bro. I had a fantastic date 2 days ago yet this girl is on the verge of ghosting me. I don't really mind it, like yeah it sucks but I know that this will happen and that I'll date plenty more girls, and they'll probably ghost me too, but the ones that don't are where you put your effort.
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:14 AM
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I assume you mean these rules?: Don't say "hi" Instead. Start talking as if you were messaging a friend you didn't contact for 3 weeks. Keep it contextual. "You know, I used to think that diving is for weirdos, but recently I tried it and found a whole new side to life I didn't know existed." For rule 1, Instead of saying "hi", say something about her bio or her pictures. If she has a witty bio, respond with something witty, if she has a cool photo, say something about it that might interest her…
/r/seduction05/12/18 02:08 AM
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Dude stop thinking about alpha or beta it sounds so pathetic. You're overthinking SO hard. It doesn't make you alpha to let your girl dance with other guys, you look like a pushover tbh. If you don't want her to dance with other guys, tell her that. It's SO normal. I'd never like it if my gf at the time would've danced with other guys, and so she didn't, and I didn't dance with girls. It's called a relationship, it's called being exclusive, it's called trusting each other to not be physical with…
/r/seduction29/10/18 05:18 PM
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This is so ridiculous lmao. You let her dance with other dudes, apparently you guys found that attractive to each other? Clearly you have a lot more boundaries you want to discuss with her. The fact is, SHE can dance with WAY more guys than you can with girls, because she's a girl and you're a guy, that's it. It's a great deal for her and not so much for you. You should set more boundaries, you should just be an exclusive couple and keep away from dancing with guys/girls at the bars, my opinion.…
/r/seduction29/10/18 05:15 PM
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200,000 is a lot. You're fine. Your rep is fine. Also why do you associate meeting people as a negative thing? "Wow this guy came up to me and introduced himself and complimented my style, Julie. What a POS creep right?" Doesn't happen often.
/r/seduction26/10/18 09:23 PM
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That's fair and all but I just have no interest in meeting these people. It's a chore for me now. I have no issues with how I interact with these girls, it almost always ends in sex, makeouts, whatever but that just doesn't stimulate me anymore. Sure sex is fun and all, but I'm not looking for a relationship or sex right now. (Just exited a 3 year relationship about 2 months ago) I'm not sure what to do really. What options do people have to improve themselves that don't involve women is also wh…
/r/seduction15/10/18 07:46 PM
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Tinder makes sex incredibly easy to find. I sent one girl this message first "#?" and got her number and set up a sushi date. I wasn't attracted to her in the slightest though but I did it because she seemed genuinely funny and to possibly make a new friend. Another instance a girl just said that she likes straight forward people and cutting to the chase and all I said was "Sit on my face." and she said "Yes. (insert number)" and I went to her house and the condom was broken so I refused to fuck…
/r/seduction08/10/18 04:47 AM
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"I love white meat" and calling a guy who is just doing his thing a loser. I mean, nice story but do you need to look down on people like that?
/r/seduction30/09/18 10:45 PM
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Why fuck friends? Just be friends with some girls and fuck other girls.
/r/seduction29/09/18 05:34 AM
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Haha sorry man
/r/seduction28/09/18 03:32 PM
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I went on a date yesterday and before I read your reply I notice that I do play to their emotions without thinking. Talked about what makes her angry, sad, happy, etc. without obviously asking "what makes you angry, sad, happy, etc." and it really helped her to open up, as she told me she was having a panic attack before coming to meet me. Anyway, ended the night in her car (it was like a 5 hour date damn), made out with her, she told me to message her if I'm ever bored. Also, information gather…
/r/seduction28/09/18 03:26 PM
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Man idk what you want from me. I have a bunch of dates lined up for this week and next week. I used Tinder 3 years ago and went on over 20 dates through it in a short time span. I use Tinder, I get dates. I could've said that instead of saying that I go on many dates, but I did not and nobody got hurt.
/r/seduction28/09/18 04:03 AM
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Wait, why viagra? What do you mean by extends your window for sex?
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:22 PM
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Yeah, I could've said that. It's just less impressive to say matches as opposed to having confirmed dates. I've been on so many tinder dates in the past that I just believe that a lot of those matches will turn into dates, so might as well say it.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:13 PM
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Your profile is either really bad, or you're just not good looking. My friends will get 1 match every few days just because they aren't models. It's not for everyone man, don't stress about it. Your personality probably shines.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:12 PM
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Appreciate that, I probably will from time to time. I'll add you, if that even means anything on Reddit lmao.
/r/seduction27/09/18 05:15 AM
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Here I am bobbing my head, speaking as if I'm doing the intro to a rap song for a rapper who is about to throw. the fuck. down. Am I doing it right?
/r/seduction27/09/18 05:13 AM
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I appreciate the message, and I wanted that so that's not at all rambling to me. I totally understand that it's not about getting girls to like me as well, I honestly don't care much about that. I know that girls may like me for the way I look and I'm super thankful for it, but ultimately I'm self aware enough to know that I'm unhappy with my personality and I'd give up a lot of things to genuinely love my personality and have those additions to my personality that I really want, such as being o…
/r/seduction27/09/18 05:11 AM
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Yeah I just went back to college at 22 for a new degree.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:47 AM
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Yeah, it's something I'm trying to fix. Physically, I have zero self confidence issues. I've been lifting for 7 years and I have great genetics. (sorry) The problem is that I hate my personality. I play everything really safe, which is why I always cut off my stories, because I care WAY too much if somebody doesn't want to listen. Not sure how to fix it exactly. I've tried really hard, usually alcohol makes me likeable though, I think.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:31 AM
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Depends on your schedule. You're definitely overthinking it man. You just ask if she wants to grab a drink and figure out logistics later. In 1 year it won't matter, hell, in 1 week it won't matter if she rejects you.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:25 AM
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I should read up on speaking with passion. I love technology, but I always try to move on from talking about my own passions because I'm hoping not to bore them, so naturally my storytelling is pretty weak, as I always feel like they'd rather not hear it.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:23 AM
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That's not even the point of the question however to elaborate, I meant to say that I've gotten 25 matches in 2 days from Tinder and I have a few dates lined up (Just lined one up for tomorrow, unless she flakes) for this week and leading into the next week.
/r/seduction27/09/18 04:22 AM
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Even if you're the best looking guy in the world, you're going to fail every now and again. You can't expect to always get the girls number, because then you'll just be depressed. Most people get rejected many, many times before they start getting more consistent, positive results.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:27 AM
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Of course. That's WHY you're talking to her, to get to know her. Also, girls like guys that are straight forward.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:23 AM
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Just tell her that you'd love to make her feel better during sex, and ask what kind of things she'd like you to do to her.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:21 AM
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Here's how it goes. Ask her. Hey, I'm LoveMockdown, I thought you were cute and I'm interested in getting to know you. Want to grab a coffee sometime? She says yes, doesn't matter if you walk with her or not. Get her number, say something like "Alright, I'll text you" and walk away, or walk with her and talk to her and text her later. She says no, just say something like "Well I'm glad I asked, I'll see you around!" Smile, don't be salty, it's all good my man.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:18 AM
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There is EVERYTHING in NYC. Just look.
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:16 AM
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Ooh okay thanks man
/r/seduction27/09/18 03:15 AM
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Genuine question, but how will this improve me/OP? Are you referring to reading this sub, Models, Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, meditation books among other self-improvement books, or do you literally mean reading cool fantasy novels or something?
/r/seduction27/09/18 02:59 AM
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Yeah I'm gonna do this. I found myself doing it so much, even when I didn't want to.
/r/seduction26/09/18 06:19 PM
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I'm still getting there. I've been rejected a few times, and every time it wasn't weird and if anything it's a story I'd tell my friends. Despite that, I'm still afraid of it. I asked out a 16 year old once while she was at work, and it was very wrong and I escaped quick, but she looked much older. That was about 3 years ago, and until then she has changed jobs and she works at my favorite restaurant that I frequent the most. Best part, she probably doesn't remember me at all and I don't care if…
/r/seduction21/09/18 04:45 PM
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Heavily agree. I've brought up anime, games, D&D to women before. As long as you're fun to talk to and you carry yourself well it's fine. "Nerdy" things are stigmatized in some societies but only because of the people that appear to be engaged in them allegedly come off as a little "off". Just don't be like that.
/r/seduction21/09/18 04:42 PM
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Very much. Sometimes I think too much because I analyse myself very hard.
/r/seduction20/09/18 09:47 PM
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Been for 7 years.
/r/seduction20/09/18 09:47 PM
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Haha yeah but it's a lot harder to find time as an adult but we all love to hangout with each other so we find a way usually once a week. I know physical changes will make me feel perhaps more confident, but I'm not sure they'll have a huge impact as I'm already very confident in myself physically. It's just I want my personality to improve.
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:25 PM
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I will, thanks. :)
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:19 PM
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Oh man my friends and I are so fucking tight. Those guys are my brother's and I genuinely feel that way about them. Nice response though, I agree with the changing appearance. I've been looking to get a full sleeve tattoo and also get glasses purely as an accessory. Sounds really hipster, but glasses look good on me and I believe they can definitely be used as an accessory.
/r/seduction20/09/18 06:19 PM
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I think I'll read some books. Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck seems great.
/r/seduction20/09/18 05:29 PM
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Oh man who put you on the keto diet? Fire him.
/r/seduction20/09/18 04:43 PM
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Girls with daddy issues, allegedly, eat this shit up. Also, an old man who keeps himself in shape and isn't just plain weird can actually come off as extremely charming and classy.
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:21 PM
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"Excuse me, you're beautiful."
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:11 PM
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This is really silly. Girls can go out to clubs wearing whatever they want with or without boyfriends. So what? He trusts her. Some girls just love to dance, some want to feel and look good. If a girl says she has a boyfriend, move on to someone else, or just don't go to clubs.
/r/seduction20/09/18 03:01 PM
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I absolutely HATE the dynamic here sometimes where guys are going out strictly to game girls, get laid, then do it over and over again. People forget to just be human. Plain and simple, a lot of the stuff here is manipulation. I'm not against it because it's not toxic, but a lot of guys will put pressure on themselves to be a certain way because the community said so and that's just fake. Use the tips here, have fun, but don't treat others differently / let it consume your life. I did and it dra…
/r/seduction20/09/18 02:56 PM
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Yeah you'd be SO surprised at the number of guys who SUCK at tinder. I have a large group of friends, many of them use tinder daily and they maybe go on 1-2 dates per month, if even that. People don't know to number close and WHY they should, they don't know how to initiate, they don't know not to discuss sex over text before you've even met, etc. There are so many little things to consider but so many guys don't think like that and I've tried to give my two cents in the past but they genuinely …
/r/seduction12/09/18 02:57 PM
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I'd leave it. If I'm interested in a girl, I text her to ask her out on a date. If I want to be her friend, I'll text her like a friend. Small talk is also shit, nobody likes it. It's all about big talk. You should've had confidence, say it was nice meeting her, tell her you'd like to grab a drink, set up a date and time, message her a day before the date and ask if you're still on for it. I hate texting girls I'm trying to fuck or date. In my opinion it puts pressure on both of you, makes you h…
/r/seduction08/09/18 05:02 PM
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If you can get hard, that's half the battle. I struggled with that because I was so terrified of not getting hard that I never got hard. Once that hurdle is done, foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. They love it, you love it. I love it a bit too much. Talk a bit dirty, "I want you to ride my dick right now" or some shit. Get her riding your dick, slap her ass, pull her hair, titty action, etc. Switch positions if you want, whatever. Ultimately listen to her. If she's a quiet starfish, best of luck. If…
/r/seduction08/09/18 04:57 PM
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I loved Tinder. Still do, although I have a girlfriend now. Went on countless dates, some girls sucked but some were great. Made some friends, new experiences, just pure fun. Sure you yourself felt more introverted because of it, but that wouldn't be the apps fault.
/r/seduction05/09/18 06:09 PM
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Yeah, that'd probably be the best thing for me to do.
/r/seduction07/08/18 06:32 PM
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