Because I really don't have much interest in going to meet people who don't put in equal effort, but that's a lot to ask these days. A lot of the numbers I get can always lead to a date, but I genuinely don't want to go on a date, and I don't like deciding what we're going to do because I honestly don't think there's anything I want to do anyway. I went on 4 dates last week, all were just coffee, talking, making out, some sex, but that doesn't even interest me anymore. I enjoy hanging out with my friends more than anything, it's always a blast. Going out with a girl is a decent time too, but it's always hit or miss. Sometimes they're just boring as fuck to talk to, even though they were interesting at the point where I got their number. I just don't know what I want to do anymore in terms of girls. I've taken a completely different approach and I've decided I'm only going to talk to girls with my main intention being to become friends, because these days I've found that the girls I'm meeting aren't stimulating enough to make me want to fuck them even.

What ways do you guys improve yourselves when you're getting bored with girls? I've been hitting the gym for 7 years, so that's one thing I've been doing. I have some hobbies, mostly involving instruments but I'd like to expand that. I also want to look into reading books, as I haven't read a physical book in many years.

I'm just kind of bored with life now, because all I've known aside from work and friends is dating. I'd just date, date, date and its made me feel empty (for lack of better term), so I'm not sure what else to turn to to improve myself as a person. Anyone been here? What kind of things would you do to be happy and enjoy your life more?