greenpoe Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Other hobbies that are transferable to seduction		greenpoe	/r/seduction	15/10/18 05:33 PM
2	Where to do daygame?		greenpoe	/r/seduction	09/10/18 10:18 PM

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1	My favorite author, Robert Greene, dropped a new book Okay maybe I didn't explain correctly. I can offer my results (failures) but maybe not the best explanations. When I read Greene (read the 48 laws of power and the art of seduction) then tried to apply it, I just know it didn't work out for me. I wasn't being genuine enough. Maybe it's supposed to be little tiny adjustments in your everyday self rather than a total makeover, maybe that was my issue.	/r/seduction	26/10/18 05:03 PM
2	My favorite author, Robert Greene, dropped a new book Mark Manson	/r/seduction	26/10/18 02:52 PM
2	Am I bothering women? You gotta make good eye contact and learn to read body language. Now granted every woman is different, some will intentionally hide what their true feelings are, but often times they're happy to have a brief interaction with a stranger. You have to remember that even though you're taking 2 minutes of their time, a lot of the time, they were just wandering around doing nothing anyway and they're happy to get the validation. You are offering them value. If you're really against it still, then appr…	/r/seduction	26/10/18 12:20 PM
1	My favorite author, Robert Greene, dropped a new book As someone who's read mutiple books from Greene, I have to warn that unless you are already extremely observant and socially adept, DO NOT bother with Greene. You really want to read Models, practice and cement all that into your brain FIRST - because if you cannot first master being genuine in everything you do, you will fall flat. The instant that a woman notices you're not being genuine she will not be interested. (I believe this is why women sometimes like unconfident guys, or guys who aren'…	/r/seduction	26/10/18 12:04 PM
0	I Want to Share my Most Successful Technique With you All (The Option) Or it's confidently exposing your own vulnerability. It's confident because it's openly getting out there, "Yeah I'm not expecting anything, I'm not forcing you to do anything, and I'm open to being shot down." Women like non-neediness.	/r/seduction	26/10/18 12:00 PM
1	Do you set a time in the week to practice seduction, such as weekends only? How do people manage to balance this with having a full time job? Say whatever comes to mind. Comment on something in their cart, or be like, "Excuse me but do you know the best kind of (food type) to buy? There's so many choices and I'm trying to (eat healthier, try new things, work on a recipe, etc)." If they've been standing there for a few seconds they're probably indecisive too. Or comment on something in their cart. A person's cart says a lot about them.	/r/seduction	26/10/18 11:54 AM
1	Used this line! What should I reply? can't really see her in pictures, so can't say she pretty. Help out It was a miracle so I could meet you	/r/seduction	23/10/18 04:11 PM
1	Boring dates? Eh, if I get to the last step then it's not about impressing her or trying to escalate, it's just about sharpening my personality at that point. I don't really care that much at that point because I've got other girls to hit up, and if they don't like me, that's their problem, not mine. Either way I'm going to keep trying to gain valuable experience from it. Remember that everything they say and every action they make, what they're wearing, it's all hints for their inner self - which may be very…	/r/seduction	23/10/18 04:02 PM
2	Do you set a time in the week to practice seduction, such as weekends only? How do people manage to balance this with having a full time job? Personally, I try not to think about it as seduction, I feel that mindset can cause yourself to get too much into your own head. There's a lot of "sting" behind that word, which I've noticed because if I tell a friend "I'm reading a book on seduction" he'll be like "what the hell?" but if I say "I'm reading a book on how to be charming" he'll say, "Cool, good for you." I was referring to approaching but that's definitely seduction. Other elements include the learning aspect (reading books/watchi…	/r/seduction	23/10/18 03:57 PM
1	Ask a girl why she ghosted I actually got a response from a girl who ghosted me once, she said that "it wasn't your fault I was just going through a tough time." Maybe it was BS I don't really know. Women are so volatile though, like literally their brain totally flips directions depending on their emotions. If you REALLY want to persist with a girl then go for it, but the only methods I'd suggest would be this: Send a second text, just one more and that's it. She probably won't respond. Then wait a week, maybe two, send …	/r/seduction	23/10/18 05:03 AM
2	Boring dates? I can only speak for my personal opinion, you can "disagree" but this is only my perspective: Disclaimer: The language barrier is a major disadvantage so you might've been screwed from the start but otherwise.... First, I would've viewed it her as a challenge. Getting mixed signals? Date isn't going that great? Ok how can I improve it? How can I use illusion, mystery, subtlety, body language, jokes, or whatever to appeal more to her? (Caveat: Need to still be genuine, as soon as you stop being g…	/r/seduction	23/10/18 04:59 AM
1	Do you set a time in the week to practice seduction, such as weekends only? How do people manage to balance this with having a full time job? Practice while you're in everyday life. I practice when I'm grocery shopping. I can only get time in once or twice a week though.	/r/seduction	23/10/18 04:47 AM
19	Dont text a girl with low/lukewarm interest Calls depend on the age of the girl. 35+? Go for it. 25 or younger, they see phone calls as things for either emergencies or something. If her interest is low she's probably not about to pick up. If you both have iphones suggesting face time can work. However the nice thing about calling is if you do it once and she's cool with it AND you know her schedule, then keep calling her and it's really good for the connection.	/r/seduction	22/10/18 07:09 PM
19	Why am I a social person in a social gathering but fucking nervous during cold approach? Fear of rejection + its not a normal way to have an interaction. In social gatherings you know what's ok and what's not. Cold approaching is not a normal social situation because you're forcing something that's supposed to be natural. If the girl detects that you were scheming this then your chances diminish. Everyone gets nervous even the experts. But the thing is the more you do it the easier it gets.	/r/seduction	20/10/18 06:25 PM
1	I (16M) am thinking to much instead of doing In the moment, do your actions. Force yourself to do them, flying by the seat of your pants. Have your actions in the moment and reflect on them later. Afterward, write out your experiences, what you could've said, what you noticed, and so forth. Also if you've been studying theory at all, LIMIT how much you take in at a time. If it's a pickup book, read a chapter then STOP and implement what you learned before reading any more of it.	/r/seduction	19/10/18 07:47 PM
2	I need a starting point, but don't know where that is Start challenging yourself in little ways. Ask a random girl for the time, say "Hey do you speak English? Sorry my phone is dead, could I ask you for the time?" Then no need to keep talking or anything afterward, just thank her and be on your way. If phone calls make you nervous try talking to girls over the phone if you can manage it (though a lot of people think phonecalls are only for emergencies these days). One thing I did was when I bought my first tanktop I felt really semiconscious weari…	/r/seduction	18/10/18 10:40 PM
1	Finding a girlfriend in college It might be tough if you're an introvert and alone, but just look for opportunities. If its like a movie night or a lecture or something, then yeah it might be hard to meet people. But if it's like a bike repair club or gardening club or volunteering or something where you're doing something alongside others, then conversation can just naturally happen a lot easier. Even if not you can still meet people in line by just introducing yourself (easier if they're alone too) or by noticing something a…	/r/seduction	18/10/18 10:35 PM
1	Going to the club with a friend tonight any advice? You can barely hear anyone in a club anyway, but I heard that if you put a finger on your ear (as if it's too loud) then it gets easier to hear voices? But anyway get used to talking really loud and getting really close to their ears, you can only say a couple words or they won't know what you're saying. Be confident and approach confidently, but your dancing likely won't be that good since its your first time. Also set your expectations low. In general guys really don't like dancing, they just …	/r/seduction	18/10/18 08:29 PM
2	Recommend us some good books on seduction, which will help us pick up women Models by Mark Manson = This one is absolutely critical. He's making an argument for a certain style of pickup but it's essential to understand this, and in fact if you read multiple books on it (or listen to the audiobooks like I do) I would strongly suggest referencing this book between each other book you read. Manson helps me stay grounded so I don't get too full of fluff from the other PUA stuff I read. The Noble Guide to Seduction by Keziah Noble. Gotta take this one slowly, read a bit, im…	/r/seduction	18/10/18 08:10 PM
10	Finding a girlfriend in college Approach indirectly, because in college there's a high chance you might see that person again. Maybe cold approach at parties or something where the usual norms are relaxed. Find excuses to talk to people, and go to lots of events. There's so many events, clubs and other things going on in college, just check it all out, don't waste time playing videogames or whatever - I'm serious you can play videogames when you're older, now is the time to be social.	/r/seduction	18/10/18 08:04 PM
1	How I Get Laid On Tinder I swipe right 70% of the time. Is that too much?	/r/seduction	18/10/18 08:00 PM
2	How I Get Laid On Tinder Yep this guy's whole post is either totally fake, or he's a supermodel, or he's willing to sleep with anything that moves. Getting 6 to 10 matches before messaging one? It took me a month to get 5 matches lol.	/r/seduction	18/10/18 04:01 PM
7	Should I meet a girl twice in the same week for dates if she has suggested it? Yes be genuine. If you want to talk with her or see her and she's responding, then go for it. There's nothing wrong with showing honest intentions as long as you're not being needy.	/r/seduction	17/10/18 06:36 AM
1	I'm a straight female and welcome any serious questions from guys wanting advice on how to approach women/dating etc. (if this isn't the right place to post - sorry!) What if after a first date with a girl I met online, I messaged her and she never responded? I sent her a joke city Jupiter that she was driving to, no answer. A few days later I sent her another message saying that I had an opportunity to volunteer at a Pride event which she said she was interested in, no answer. What should I do now? Forget it and move on, even if I really like her? Wait a few more weeks and ask her something? I'm thinking I'll shoot her a message saying that I'm looking for a…	/r/seduction	17/10/18 06:26 AM
2	My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and Lessons I think in a small town, you "cold approach" in the same careful way that you would almost like if in a gym, workplace or as a student. In regular daygame each opportunity is throwaway. In a gym however, it's ok only when you get to the point where you're talking to EVERYONE - the staff, the guys, the girls, making jokes, greeting people, waving, etc. So if you're in a small town then probably just try and find excuses to start a little conversation with people you don't know and take it slower.	/r/seduction	17/10/18 06:22 AM
2	My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and Lessons You mentioned there's ways to read a woman's nonverbal cues before a single word is spoken? What are these nonverbals? The only one I can think of is how fast/slow they're walking. Everything else is going to be neutral, isn't it? It's not she's going to be crossing her arms or smiling like a lightbulb while she's grocery shopping or whatever.	/r/seduction	16/10/18 05:08 AM
0	Bad night sleep after daygaming (cortisol? adrenaline?) Try meditation right before going to bed and/or keeping a journal of your experiences for the day.	/r/seduction	16/10/18 03:38 AM
2	My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and Lessons that's fine I just want to make new friends	/r/seduction	16/10/18 03:09 AM
1	I don't enjoy going on dates, not even sure what I want to do when we meet. You need to figure this out for yourself then. Take a close look at what sparked your passions in the past, then think deeper and deeper about it. Try to figure out how to link together all the things you've been interested in to a common thread or discover new hobbies. Write everything down and figure out, "Ok what could I potentially be interested in? Money, progress, power, community?" then get more and more specific and pursue things based on that. What I do is I challenge myself to go outsi…	/r/seduction	15/10/18 07:49 PM
1	I don't enjoy going on dates, not even sure what I want to do when we meet. Perhaps you need to figure out what you're looking for, then each interaction is an opportunity to screen them for your standards, testing the girl and seeing if she's worth your time. Now don't be TOO pompous, remember that guys are chasers of course and women are choosers, but still, define what you want and then pursue that. What I do is I like the power to draw people in, I have a friend who's so charming it's like hypnosis talking to him, and everyone he interacts with, we always want to se…	/r/seduction	15/10/18 06:33 PM
11	My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and Lessons -Are there any openers that worked really well? I get that your supposed to observe them and notice something about their style or personalize it somehow to them, but I'm not very observant. -Is it true that saying "Excuse me but you're really cute" doesn't work on 9s and 10s? Again it's hard for me to think of good openers. -How often did you get a "hard-shutdown" where the girl either just flatout ignored you, or bolted at the first chance she got (like if your opener was a question, she answe…	/r/seduction	15/10/18 06:24 PM
0	Maintaining eye contact without being a creep If it were me, I'd smile and do a mini-wave or nod.	/r/seduction	15/10/18 04:40 PM
3	My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and Lessons You can just approach girls while you're on the way doing other things. Going to the store or if you're out with friends anyway, just take 2 seconds to go talk to her.	/r/seduction	15/10/18 04:36 PM
2	5 Ways to Know If You’re: Playing to Win? Or Playing Not to Lose? "Think about it this way. You read a lot about game. You discuss game with other dudes. Have you ever seen anybody say: do this kind of game in order to get 8s, but do that kind of game in order to get 10s? Of course not. There’s no difference in what you’re supposed to do in order to bed 8s versus 10s. The game is the same." That's just objectively wrong. I've seen videos where they do talk about the different approaches for 6/7s vs 8's vs 9's/10s. For example with a 6 or 7 you can compliment t…	/r/seduction	14/10/18 08:59 PM
1	If a Girl Counter Offers You is She Interested? Dude the thing is it's better to hear no or maybe than it is for her to agree to plans and then cancel at the last minute or worse, not replying at all. She's still staying in touch & showing interest = that's good. Remember women are much less direct than men.	/r/seduction	14/10/18 07:19 PM
1	It's So Frustrating Seeing Everybody Else In A Relationship But Me A lot of guys just accept a girl into their life or they just fall into their lap. By studying, practicing and dedicating yourself to improving your life & learning to attract women you will be able to CHOOSE a girl rather than have be "assigned" to you that you both stick with just not to be alone.	/r/seduction	14/10/18 05:19 PM
2	X-year-old still a virgin Impossible to answer this question without knowing you personally. If you have to ask it's probably not the reason, if you've always been like that it's probably linked to some long held desire you've had since you were a teenager or even a child. Maybe something really deep like your father's approval or a desire for attention or it could be anything really, not necessarily sex.	/r/seduction	14/10/18 05:17 PM
6	X-year-old still a virgin 27 year old here, just lost my virginity for the first time recently. It's not as great as people make it sound to be honest. It's fun, sure, but playing boardgames with friends is fun too. It's just like anything that your brain reacts to - drugs, drinking, or even eating something really tasty....it's all good, but it's totally replaceable with other stuff. I think this is why being healthy is so important. Working out teaches discipline, eating healthy teaches restraint, and trying new things…	/r/seduction	14/10/18 05:15 PM
9	X-year-old still a virgin I've never seen a post that's simultaneously depressing but also inspirational. "Most people's lives suck" makes me realize....man, I don't really have a right to complain. Sure my own life gets hard sometimes but overall I've had it pretty good compared to most people.	/r/seduction	14/10/18 05:04 PM
3	Solo pickup for the first time It's understandable to feel bad after what feels like a failure, but remember that you're like a character in a game on level 2, you've got a long way to go if that's only your first night going solo. Mark Manson (author of Models) said he was going out 4 or 5 nights a week - not just on weekends, not just when he felt like it. You've gotta find value in the incremental successes. If you've Remember to lower your expectations of success. If you said hi, that is a success! You approached! If you'…	/r/seduction	13/10/18 06:43 PM
1	This shit is so fucking hard So what'd you end up doing if girls weren't into your hobby? I don't like bars or clubs. I can do pickup at grocery stores or shopping malls but man it feels weird to prowl around scouting for girls and just buying stuff so I look like I belong...and sure I can just do it while I'm there anyway...it's just weird.	/r/seduction	12/10/18 10:57 PM
3	How do I approach someone at work? I'd say don't bother, don't shit where you eat, but... RSD max made a video on this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r-aH85Tze0s	/r/seduction	12/10/18 06:51 PM
15	Pro tip: Delete tinder and use bumble Less women but they've got more initiative. Personally out of 50+ matches on tinder, I've met up with 2. With only about 12 matches on Bumble, I've met up with 3 (ignoring the ones that I matched with but never messaged me). I like Okcupid too. The thing is on Bumble you'll get fewer matches but the ones you do get are more likely to actually respond. Another thing is, Tinder has "boost" which if you've got money it's a huge benefit. The first time I boosted I got tons of matches (but I got mad …	/r/seduction	12/10/18 06:09 PM
1	She takes very long to reply Women like emotions and using communication to bond. But on the other hand, a lot of the times women are text because they're bored, so something funny or totally ridiculous can brighten their day. "Can you keep a secret?" is one I like, then you can either heighten it more by saying "I'll tell you only if you promise not to tell any of my friends" or follow it up with something ridiculous like "I'm batman" (credit to RSDMax) or something else that's appropriate to your relationship. Don't take …	/r/seduction	12/10/18 05:58 PM
2	She takes very long to reply 2 months ago and you've had only 2 dates? She's hedging her bets. Probably talking to other guys but wants to keep you around in the background. Potentially she's very busy or if the messages are long responses or particularly clever maybe it takes her a while to think of a response. Possible solutions: -Change what you're saying in your messages. There's so many different ways to appeal to a person, perhaps by tapping into their imagination, or making them feel important, or just sending them a…	/r/seduction	12/10/18 04:54 PM
1	Where to do daygame? I don't really go to coffee shops. So like starbucks, a lot of girls will come in and just sip their coffee, hoping a guy comes to meet them? Worth a try I suppose	/r/seduction	10/10/18 07:21 AM
1	Where to do daygame? I'm a guy who's got nerdy interests (anime/games), but I also work out a lot and eat really healthy. I don't really go to bars because I don't drink usually and I don't want to sit around at a location just to try to meet girls (but if I can walk in, talk to the people there, and then leave that's cool I suppose). I heard bars are mostly guys, whereas the girls go to clubs, but I hate clubs (loud music = can't talk, and I want to charm via conversation not dancing). I do like going to events (li…	/r/seduction	10/10/18 12:36 AM
1	Dating on job Proceed with extreme caution. If you're not sure if you should date a girl from work, don't. Don't shit where you eat.	/r/seduction	09/10/18 06:04 PM
3	14 Ideas For 'Showing Intent' When You've Just Met A Woman I can attest to this. Had a date with an incredibly hot chick, and I was just happy that we were on a date, I was too scared to try anything ambitious. Guess what....no second date happened.	/r/seduction	09/10/18 06:03 PM
1	You’ve got her number, now here’s when to call Yeah but if they don't pick up, do I leave a voice mail, do I forget it and just send a text....I dont know what to do. Maybe if they see a miss call they'll just text me back anyway?	/r/seduction	08/10/18 06:19 PM
5	You’ve got her number, now here’s when to call Do people still do phone calls? I feel like today, people only call each other if it's an emergency and everyone just texts.	/r/seduction	08/10/18 04:19 PM
4	How the fuck do i stop seeking approval stop being a doormat nice guy? And take action??? Read Models by Mark Manson. You want them to prove to you that the are worth your time, and an unfettered honesty which fuels your confidence.	/r/seduction	08/10/18 02:18 PM
4	I Have Too Much Feminine 'Energy', How Do I Become More Masculine? You don't have to! Robert Greene in the Art of Seduction talked about "the dandy" as a seducer type, I'd read up on it if I were you. It incorporates both.	/r/seduction	08/10/18 06:18 AM
-1	Why are comments like this allowed? Too many posts/not enough moderation?	/r/seduction	08/10/18 03:55 AM
3	Cold Approach Pickup is Way Harder than I Thought it Would Be - Openers Did you try other openers? My problem with asking for directions is that it's training wheels. It's seems schemey to me to ask for directions and end up asking for directions, because you're starting with a practical purpose. Now if you just have anxiety from just talking to strangers or girls in general, then sure start with that, but if you're going to ask for numbers, then I wouldn't use it. The two openers I use are: a) "You're really cute, I just had to say something" b) Something observed …	/r/seduction	08/10/18 03:41 AM
1	Guys who actually improved themselves, how did it affect your social life outside of dating? (no high school and college kids allowed in this thread) Oh no, you don't have to quit at all. It's just for me I'm the kind of guy who goes all in anytime I decide to do anything. In fact it's actually a lot better to work on dating on the side - because what you REALLY want to do is learn a little bit about how improve yourself, incorporate that thing, learn a bit more, incorporate that, and so on.	/r/seduction	07/10/18 08:00 PM
10	How do I pick up a girl walking down the street? The best way to start conversations is in a way that's totally natural. If she trips or if she looks lost or something. The other day I was just at the library, heard a girl slam her fist on the desk while at a computer, I walked up and said, "hey, I don't work here, but can I help with something?" Then we just chatted from there. If it seems forced she'll get creeped out (I've made this mistake where I see a girl walk past, then I walk beyond her, wait for her to cross my path, then i approache…	/r/seduction	07/10/18 05:30 PM
5	How the fuck do i improve my self and stop being the WEAK PATHETIC NICE GUY? Slow down and try to focus on just one thing at a time, good things to start out with early on would be: -Working out. Exercise releases a lot of built up tension and gives you something to do to get your mind off everything else. -Read. Models by Mark Manson, the book is ridiculously helpful.	/r/seduction	07/10/18 03:15 PM
6	Please, help me with my issue at clubs. Clubs are a place for body language, not for talking. You can only really communicate with body language, eye contact and maybe a couple words. I'd suggest starting with establishing eye contact, smile, and hold it at least until she breaks it or smiles. If she smiles, move in and signal her to dance. When you touch the girls, have you checked for any signs of interest? Did you dance up confidently to them, or did you just float around while looking at them and think, "I hope she notices me!" if…	/r/seduction	07/10/18 02:57 PM
1	How do i talk to people? I have no idea how to. Shift your frame. Think about their perspective. Try focusing on questions about what they said, and statements of empathy ("That's so exciting" or "I'm sorry to hear that" or whatever depending on what emotion is attached).	/r/seduction	07/10/18 02:41 PM
26	Guys who actually improved themselves, how did it affect your social life outside of dating? (no high school and college kids allowed in this thread) First I'm listing my methods for background, but you can skip to the end if you prefer. Preparation. First, I quit playing videogames altogether (my whole life I was a hardcore gamer, but I realized I can play videogames when I'm older, right now, I need to focus on this). I started spending more time outdoors (walking, running, working out) and focused on being healthy (learning to cook, cutting out candy, soda and fast food, eating fruits & veggies on a daily basis). 2.Books. Read Models by Ma…	/r/seduction	07/10/18 04:47 AM
1	Doesn't everyone have 'game' -Remember it takes a lot of work to get good at this, to me, it seems like a series of psychological tricks, but to a woman, it appears as being socially competent -If you've been playing videogames instead of sports, haven't been going to parties or other social events, been a nerd (aka socialized by other nerds) or haven't spent much time with girls through your life, you may be at a disadvantage What do I say now that I didn't before? I try to fill my words with emotion, I watch for their bod…	/r/seduction	05/10/18 04:55 PM
2	Any way to recover from a long text? A seducer does not whine, complain, act needy or actively appeal for sympathy. Just don't, cut it out of your system. You want to vent? I get it. But RESTRAINT is the first thing to learn then. Just because you can say something, even if you really want to....doesn't mean you should.	/r/seduction	05/10/18 05:48 AM
2	Is it foolish to save your first "love" for someone that means something to you? Before having sex, it was this strange and mysterious thing, and I kind of wanted it. After having sex, it was like...yeah that was really fun, but a lot of things in life are fun. It's totally replacable. All in all as long as it's with someone you really appreciate as a person AND are attracted to, then it's fine. Like there's so much tension about it, but it's just a natural thing to do. Honestly my perspective? If a girl wants to fuck then sure I'll do it, but I'm not the kind of guy to "con…	/r/seduction	04/10/18 09:05 PM
3	My gf broke with me. How to get into the game with her? I wouldn't suggest it, but if you insist, all you can really do is don't contact her, get with other girls, post pictures on social media of doing really exciting and interesting things (insta/snap/fb) with people.	/r/seduction	04/10/18 07:21 PM
1	The 100 Approach Challenge It's not a numbers game it's a skill game. If you want to literally play it as a numbers game just ask every girl at a bar or club "Do you want to have sex with me?" I'm dead serious, because my friend told me even this works about 5% of the time (try it 20 times and it might work once!) Similarly, at a cash register, This American Life (podcast) reported just saying each time at checkout, saying, "Hey you're a good guy, I'm a good guy....can you give me a good guy discount?" works about 20% of …	/r/seduction	04/10/18 04:59 PM
1	Improve your social skills before cold approaching Are you serious about learning seduction? It comes with hard work. Remember that work is not: -Doing something a lot -Feeling like you deserve results -Making excuses or saying you can't do it Hard work is: -Reading books (Robert Greene's Art of Seduction if you want serious hardcore theory, or Models or Keziah Noble's Guide to Seducing Women if you want practical) -Living your moments and reflecting on them. -Taking notes. Notes on the books, notes on your interactions, ideas of what you could'…	/r/seduction	04/10/18 04:54 PM
2	This is the best time to approach a girl No need to do the "sniper" approach where you wait for the perfect opportunity or worse, try to force it, better to just be direct. Yeah admittedly it's ideal if it's natural, and it's good if you can make it seem natural even if it's not, but if you make it seem natural and she KNOWS it isn't? That's really bad.	/r/seduction	04/10/18 06:32 AM
1	Anyone used paid dating apps such as Match.com? OKCupid is the best dating app, because you can specifically look through all the (potentially up to 200 something) questions they answered, and for an ACTUAL seduction, this is tremendously helpful, because it gives you an idea of how they see themselves, paints a lot of the puzzle so you can figure out what "type" of person you're dealing with, from there, try to figure out their need (someone who is completely content cannot be seduced - it could be a sense of adventure, or a father-figure), …	/r/seduction	02/10/18 01:57 PM
9	What to do when you didn’t made a move on a girl and she lost her interest in you? Re-engage. Girls change so much, even if they were mad at you, after a while they'll forget why they were mad because they often get mad over such little things.	/r/seduction	02/10/18 01:52 PM
2	Would it be a bad idea to do cold-approaches in high school Cold approaching is based on the idea you won't see them again. In HS you can be more casual and do an over-time thing. Maybe one day you just make a comment about something they said or something they're wearing, ask them a question or something similar. Next day say something else, see how receptive they are to you.	/r/seduction	02/10/18 01:51 PM
1	Is the advice outline in this video useful or complete garbage? Legit but remember this is a LONG journey and it's not easy.	/r/seduction	02/10/18 07:20 AM
8	What does it mean if a girl jokingly says "I love you"? Don't put much stock into it. For a woman, it doesn't matter WHAT you say but HOW you say it. It's not relevant in a major way, she probably tells that to a lot of people. Some people use the word very loosely.	/r/seduction	02/10/18 05:00 AM
1	How to make myself go out and approach? Yep. My sister met her husband because he saw her in Publix and said, "You are so beautiful." Sometimes I feel like this crap won't work on high value women, but hey, it gets your foot in the door.	/r/seduction	02/10/18 04:58 AM
1	How to make myself go out and approach? Lower your expectations of success. Success is saying hi. Success is hesitating as little as possible after you get your first opportunity. You could approach in a library or even a gas station or while standing in line. Remember that the girl you're staring at across the room might be the girl you spend the rest of your life with. I started approaching girls recently and it's still terrifying. Each approach feels easier than the last, but for me, most of the fear is just walking up to the girl,…	/r/seduction	02/10/18 03:03 AM
4	Shit test practice thread Freedom of speech	/r/seduction	01/10/18 09:22 PM
1	Shit test practice thread My biggest concern is wondering if it's ok or not to talk about other girls. Its weird because girls will say not to, but I guess there's a difference between it being in an abstract way vs. talking about having a date with another girl on the following night or something? I dunno, I've just heard it's taboo to talk about other girls. (like with the harem-thing or the idea of "I approach every cute girl I see" or whatever).	/r/seduction	01/10/18 06:57 PM
10	Shit test practice thread I'll give 3 for each, any feedback is welcome, they're not the best: 1) I bet you say that to every girl? 1a. Yep - to so many girls that my lines have been turned into worldwide memes. I'm honored that you recognized my line. 1b.Me talk to a girl? You're the first girl I've talked to in years, haven't even said a word to my own mom since I was born! 1c.You wanna join my harem? I'm cool with it but its first come first serve. 2) I have a boyfriend 2a. Just one? I bet you have a dozen, but let's …	/r/seduction	01/10/18 06:38 PM
1	Thoughts on this? RSD is brought up a lot here and I’m doing one of their former instructors programs How do you indicate the "stop" while showing it was intentional? I guess you kiss her really briefly then immediately stop and move away?	/r/seduction	01/10/18 06:09 PM
9	Eye contact is the single most effective way to create attraction I get that eye contact is important, but how do you learn this? I have no idea how much eye contact is too much. 80% of the time if I'm looking at them in the eyes, is that too much? Maybe 60% is better? If I do what feels natural I'm not "working" on it. If I force it then it could be unnatural.	/r/seduction	30/09/18 02:32 PM
1	How do i stop looking for others to give me approval/affection/attention/validation and stop looking for it? Stop pleasing them to be my friends? Keep a journal, not only of your actions, but your thoughts. And most importantly, when someone says something that's powerful or really resonates with you, write that down! For me, when I heard one PUA say "I can talk to anyone I want" that was huge. I realized....he's right! I can talk to anyone I want, it's not illegal to have a conversation or anything. So I wrote that one down and I think about it everyday. Try to think about what your role models would say about your own thoughts and feeli…	/r/seduction	29/09/18 04:30 PM
5	Am I overthinking this? Brought a girl home last night, but I got last minute resistance I suspect you're just being selfconcious. Now if you're legitimately uncomfortable with something, bring it up and communicate it. But at the same time, remember that NOT everything is for your pleasure. A lot of girls don't like blowjobs, but they want their partner to be happy. Remember compassion/empathy.	/r/seduction	29/09/18 04:17 PM
2	10 Rules I Follow On How I Finally Get Tinder Matches and go on Dates My problems with tinder: 1.You have to lower your standards to get results. 2.Huge waste of time. I've gotten over 50 matches on tinder....and I've met up with 2 girls. That's the lowest success rate out of ANY dating app I've used. 3.The high-value women (highly attractive, or great personalities, etc) either aren't on there/don't use it often/only use it for validation or maybe you got lucky and found one, but the high value women get off the app and find a boyfriend fast, OR they just get ove…	/r/seduction	29/09/18 03:43 PM
3	First tinder date after many matches! Any advice? When you first see her, say "Hey, long time no see!" and go for a hug (or side-hug if she looks uncomfortable, or even a handshake) just to break the awkwardness. Expect her to look even worse in person, it's typical. Remember that even if she's not as great as you might think, that it's practice. Practice different stuff (i.e., saying something flirty, getting an excuse to touch her, being funny, confident body language, whatever you're trying to work on)	/r/seduction	29/09/18 02:47 PM
1	Curious? Do you think Max is a weird coach, if you've heard of him? I've watched a lot his videos and he seems really legit, but yeah some of the others are kinda off. What would you recommend instead? (books, youtubers anything)	/r/seduction	29/09/18 01:55 PM
5	How to never run out of things to say I think the trick is to remember that when there's tension between a guy and a girl with chemistry, lots of things become funnier, and the amount of things which you can say which become innuendos also allow for a huge increase in the number of potential funny things. My point is even if you're not typically funny, you can draw on so much more when you're approaching a girl, for example: The ridiculous: "What are you doing this weekend?""Iceskating on Jupiter and drinking the milky way." The inn…	/r/seduction	29/09/18 12:33 AM
1	Curious? 3 for sure. I am a child in a 27 man's body with little understanding of anything. Been soaking myself in pickup (RSDmax on youtube, Art of Seduction by Greene, and Keziah Noble's Noble guide to seduction - just been using these 3 resources almost exclusively) and learned a ton from it all.	/r/seduction	28/09/18 05:55 AM
0	Good places to daygame in Houston? Anywhere dude. Libraries, shopping malls, yoga classes, even at the gas station. Just not the gym. Run errands and do stuff you'd do anyway and just approach girls you way. Sure there wont be tons of hotties everywhere, but this morning I went a local library and saw 3. I was only there to print something.	/r/seduction	28/09/18 12:47 AM
1	I got a “Yes” but I think I should’ve worded things better It doesn't matter. If you get her number then it's implied anyway. Even if you treat her like a friend that's cool too, you can still rotate it into a relationship. Remember you're in control.	/r/seduction	28/09/18 12:26 AM
2	Someone smack me I do it by just pulling my phone out and saying "I don't normally do this but...." and I've had girls finish the sentence for me.	/r/seduction	27/09/18 07:07 PM
2	Why would my therapist lie to me about being friends with girls first and not hitting on random girls. Here's the thing, there's 2 big factors here: 1.The biases of the person you're talking to. Someone else went over this so I won't. 2.The way it sounds....If I tell a friend "Hey I'm making it a habit to talk to people I see and have spontaneous conversations even in grocery stores" it sounds cool. If I say "I've been trying to hit on girls in grocery stores, practicing my pickup game and hitting on them" then it sounds sleasy and weird. TO ME, both are the same. but to other people, they either…	/r/seduction	27/09/18 06:50 PM
5	How to apply art of seduction by Robert Greene in daily life? You have to think of things abstractly. But here's concrete examples I can think of or relate to, hope it helps: My friend identified with The Rake. It can be hard or impossible to emulate the public reputation aspect of the rake, but he does have the relentless sexual desire. Now he's still subtle about it and takes time, but he's mastered the art of insinuation to use certain words, pacing, movements, eye contact, and everything to slowly generate an "aura" of sexual energy. I can't do that, i…	/r/seduction	27/09/18 05:52 PM
2	Tinder matched with an old crush, but hasn't gone the way as planned... If you feel like she's lost interest, then whenever you see something funny or think of something funny to about a situation or you're in a really exciting place with a lot of people, post a public snap (not to her specifically). If she sees you doing all these fun and exciting things it may incite her interest again. She may think "I want to be with that fun guy." After a week or two send her a message.	/r/seduction	27/09/18 06:39 AM
1	Two dates in and I think I messed up Its only not-salvageable if she stops replying altogether imo. Just sit back and relax, worst case scenario you stop texting her altogether for a week and she might reply back if all else goes south (i.e., if she misses you). The "last resort" imo is to have the girl already added on snapchat then take lots of photos of being out doing fun things posted publicly then the girl would see them and think "i wanna join him"	/r/seduction	05/09/18 11:21 PM
1	Deleted Tinder a while back.. much happier now! In the U.S. (where everyone speaks English unless you're in some suburb) what would you replace "Do you speak English?" with? I feel like the initial question should be something just to grab their attention/eye contact before you go into "the approach" right?	/r/seduction	05/09/18 07:54 PM