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My male friends also ask for these things....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:30 PM
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It's only socially acceptable in hot people of either gender
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 11:13 PM
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Most men are adults and know that there's aways a cost for everything Woman have extra annoying costs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:11 AM
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I know some.....they are picky, conservative, and slow to everyone not making under $300k a year and/or 6'3+ height. If you meet their requirement, it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 03:08 AM
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Looooooooooool, Have you ever been friends with an easy girl? Also, hot guys have standards unless it's the end of the night. I'm not a chad but even I had to make a rule to not take home so so girls before 11 pm just because they like me. I've seen hot or ugly easy girls date every level of attractiveness except bottom of the barrel. Easy girls tend to get horny and like trying new things IME....plus easy girls eventually get tired of or piss off all the hot guys they known so they shoot downwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:19 AM
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I get your perspective, you’re right. That’s a good spin on the mindset. I still think a lot of them half the time they would like to be an exclusive relationship if she keeps doing him though. Some men are good for sex, not relationships. My super fit, tall conspiracy theorist friend was that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:15 AM
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Ehhhh, I've dated a few girls like that who were very interested in me. They are culturally playing hard to get or just shy/introverted/socially awkward. Its most likely the person doesnt want to try. Why they dont want to try could be for a number of reasons. Never had to try, poor social skills in general, found out a dealbreaker at the date itself, etc. They just suck at basic social interaction or super anxious. Hell, there one time I even brought cute ice breaker questions and the guy still…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:10 AM
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Ehhhh, I've dated a few girls like that who were very interested in me. They are culturally playing hard to get or just shy/introverted/socially awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:05 AM
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People don’t randomly have sex, there’s meaning behind sex. Befriend some woman and you'll learn just how desperate and horny they can get.....and those are the good girls who go slow.....honestly, the biggest difference between good and bad girls IME is the good girls tend to be picky as hell. They don't want to marry or date every cute guy.....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:02 AM
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Having sex back him is problematic due to reputation, creepy/weirdos who stalk them after sex, men who won't take a hint, guys bragging to friends/spreading rumors etc. For example, making a guy wait if you really like him sucks for the girl too if she's horny. Woman like hookups.....just not the BS that goes along with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:00 AM
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Even in a club, odds are pretty good if your well above average. Whereas my hot ex who met me her first day on the app, showed me my competition for dates that week if I didn't get there first......2 buff, six pack surgeons who met her narrow requirements for looks. She was was on the app for one day and paused it. C'mon....even in a club, these guys would probaly never get around to even talking to my girl because they were busy flirting someone else up/left early/were dancing/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:55 AM
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Women do guys on vacations. OP's whole theory is that most woman are hooking up for other reasons than fun sex and generally don't like it/get burned. Yet, woman are notorious for vacation hookups where there is no benefit beyond sex for fun since they are unlikely to ever form a relationship from them. I don't like carrots....nothing about vacation will make it suddenly desire them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:51 AM
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I'm someone who does well on online dating: Your going to get better in person IME solely due to higher competition. There is not always a better dude in the same room but there is in online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:47 AM
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I'm one of those people who is almost 40 but looks 10+ years younger. These guys are doomed to failure.....Usually the older woman in question will bring up I'm too young and prepare to shoot me down("your cute but I'm _____") until I correct them on my real age. Attractive older woman IME do not need help getting men IME unless they want giga-chad. Un-attractive woman of any age equally have trouble.....age ain't the main factor. Actual attractive cougars tend to be much more experience and hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:44 AM
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How old are you? 17?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:35 AM
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According to the OP, if woman didn't enjoy hookups, they wouldn't engage in them on vacation....probably even less than back home since people avoid doing non-fun things on vacation. Yet, it turns out a lot of woman who don't even normally like hookups seem to magically do them on vacations.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 01:34 AM
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I don’t think that many women sleep with guys simply for fun. Then just hop onto the next guy. Most women aren’t like that and most men aren’t like that. Sex usually involves some sort of feelings, and if those feelings aren’t shared one of them is going to end up hurt about it. Women hookup with desirable men because the opportunity cost not to results in no chance, so to get their attention they use a hookup to get his attention and further access to him. Woman hooking up on vacation or with v…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 09:53 PM
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That's an extremely low threshold for partners.
/r/ExRedPill11/08/18 06:01 PM
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Women are they're strawman villain who rarely fights back becuase so few actively talk to them on the red pill forums.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/18 10:07 PM
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Black pill is silly unless your milking a very specific looks niche. For example, if your the hottest _______ among a few.... Your basically the only romantic option for those hooked on it. I see it all the time with dudes who have Asian fever.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/18 10:01 PM
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Cognitive behavioral therapy is pretty effective.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/18 09:47 PM
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Your in college, do a study abroad semester. Extra bonus, you might actually get laid a lot as a foreign student unlike your red pill pals.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/18 09:27 PM
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Ehhh.... I go on a lot of online dates due to a bot I wrote and also back when I lived abroad. I'd say actual "stood you up" dates with no follow up excuse were extraordinarily rare. More common was ghosting if you screwed up or pushed alot for a meeting. I do suspect some who cancel a lot are either ultra busy, giving you a hint it ain't gonna happen, or have mental issues like depression that can flare up.
/r/ExRedPill10/08/18 09:16 PM
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I don't think that's the case. It is not about smarter people not finding dates or women/men to breed. Just that once they find a LTR material person (doesn't matter is it a woman or a man), they decide not to have babies. Nah, they just start later. The woman popping out babies at 19 has 10+ years to have more accidents.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 06:52 AM
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Women are repulsed by intelligence Woman like men who have good jobs .....men who has good jobs are almost always somewhat intelligent: Does not compute.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 06:51 AM
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Smarter people usually are able to delay gratification and have more discipline over themselves and their emotions. I tend to exclusively date smart women(IDK, partly due to demographics and partly because people perceive me as a good catch with a brain). They tend to be picky....if they can conquer a PhD or MD residency program, why da fuq would they not try to maximize the dating game and get the "A" or 4.0 guy assuming they are decent looking. Quite a few had rock hard abs....they prepared to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 06:41 AM
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Haha, make it real... Reddit would go insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 06:51 AM
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Men love to blame all of society’s ills on women like this for not “picking” and vetting better men, but the reality is a lot of them can’t do better I've known a few. I'd chalk it up to how they were raised or not being very smart. They would definitely get into relationships with good looking, well off guys....and somehow not get married but have a kid with a bum dude. I'm a dude who has his shit together... For some reason I disportnately attract the same league. Poor woman don't even try or …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 06:49 AM
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The unknowns are their server side infrastructure and what gets logged there. Data in, Data out. You can peak what the server gets from the client. Im surprised what they aren't measuring. Stuff like time spent viewing a profile, etc.
/r/seduction01/02/18 01:02 AM
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Just know they log everything that everyone does. Thats a lot of data to run machine learning on or some other regressions. Perhaps, based on the api I saw on the web version, it's unsually barebones what data it sends back to tinder HQ related to your profile. I assumed the same but it's just basic with no timed data. Maybe the app does but not the web interface.
/r/seduction31/01/18 09:59 PM
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sorry, ELO score: https://www.fastcompany.com/3054871/whats-your-tinder-score-inside-the-apps-internal-ranking-system
/r/seduction31/01/18 07:44 PM
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Lol, let's just say you won't see anybody marketing this stuff but beating an EoL system is just math.
/r/seduction31/01/18 07:33 PM
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did that, results still suck. My latest hack I'm 90% sure will work
/r/seduction31/01/18 07:23 PM
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I bot online dating sites: They changed it to EOL matching a few years ago. I have a hack I'm halfway done on getting around that. Tinder used to be great to bot but now I barely use it. Also, alot of women moved on to competitors: tinder used to have both relationship and hookup women, but now less due to the stigma(tinder used to be the only game in town that wasn't match.com or okcupid.com).
/r/seduction31/01/18 04:53 PM
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No guys job has ever made a girl wet. End of fucking story. You need to have some cool jobs under your belt...sometimes they work in your favor.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/17 11:45 PM
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Agreed. Though it is still a full time job to raise children from what I see among my friends. When they're in school, not so much. If you spread it out like a kid every 3-5 years then yeah, it's a full time job for a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 08:07 PM
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It makes perfect sense. She was planning to break up the marriage and go for an upgrade. My utility to her had ended as I had paid off her student loans. Yeah, not sure why you did this....wait, please tell me she at least had kids to justify being a house wife. If not, you walked into that trap unless your just mega rich. That only means that they see their day job as secondary. Their main job is you and the home they are trying to construct (not counting party girls). Unless you own an estate …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/17 03:53 PM
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Most women would dump a guy if he had a history of going to prostitutes, even if it was years ago. Not in most of the world....it's more uncommon not to have been to one in most places. In the USA, it's associated with seedy motels and sketchy pimps....not really comparable. Escorts are a whole other ball game....a smart gal who makes $2k a night hanging out with CEOs versus some girl making $300 and and gets chased down by vice cops while dressed in fishnets. Would you not hold it against a wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 11:07 PM
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Female ambition is usually social and family oriented. I have never met a woman with zero ambitions. Ehh, every house wife I met has something going on beyond social and family....by zero ambition, I meant the ones who can't see higher than a cashier job. When my ex wife quit her job, she also quit participating in the home life, and left her share of chores also for me. That makes no sense.....she sounds cray cray.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/17 11:00 PM
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How much a woman makes is irrelevant to most men, and I am no exception. I married my ex wife for her mind, not her bank balance. She was broke, and heavily under student loan debt the day we wed. She was in a stable career, with me having paid off her loans the day we signed the divorce papers. Go figure. IDK, I've met some loser women with zero ambition and it was a gigantic turn off. Women with money are great....more confident, independent, and less likely to lean on you for paying for stuff…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 08:32 AM
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male strippers or hookers? Hookers are just generally shadier to go get in the USA.... I wouldn't say they would dump the guy on the spot unless he inferred he's going back for more while dating her or it's a thing for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 08:21 AM
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Double standards, man. Ladies, if you're grossed out by the thought of your man visiting a hooker, then you know what it's like when he finds out about your locker room gangbang or when he finds out about your real N count. It's pretty normal in most parts of the world.....in the USA, your average hooker tends be a bit more um.....shady as fuck. Buying hookers in other countries is like going bowling instead of cruising around for some pimp in a bad neighborhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 06:46 AM
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My point is that a woman can have something like this in her past and still get a decent man. No woman would be interested in a man with even a couple year history of visiting hookers. I think the closet comparison would be make hookers and strippers.....I don't think women would care unless he was broke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 06:46 AM
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Guys KNEW she had been a literal whore and had done God know what with God knows who. Yet they were still competing to wife her up. And things get worse. Escorts tend to be charming and a joy to be around, it's their job. Probaly rocks it in bed too. She is totally upfront about her past so all of his friends and all of his family know he married a whore. There is a difference between stripper and high class escort. Much like the difference between dating a street level drug dealer and a drug ki…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 06:43 AM
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A woman has a start value of 4 or 5. Even if very out of shape, mean personality, food stamps, criminal record, multiple "baby daddys", she still has men after her who may be several points above her, even if it's only the short term or one night stand (or one hour) stand. A lot of this goes back to where we are in society, unbalanced ratio (sorry there's no exact data on this but it's obvious to anyone rational). It probably wasn't this bad in previous generations. The issue for her is that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/17 06:35 AM
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In a way, I kinda hate the idea of people being "adults" in the sense that everyone is nice to each other. Thanks to TRP I am going to hit my peak in my 30s and I rather compete in that game, throw my weight around, and teach em who's boss instead of having to deal with the whole "oh we're adults now" garbage. Your nice to each other becuase nobody has time for that petty shit anymore. You spread bad rumors about somebody at work and they could get fired, lose their house, etc.....worse, they ge…
/r/askTRP19/03/17 05:04 AM
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"omg even a fat 2/10 uggo can get a hot Chad to fuck her, now she thinks she's a 7". It doesn't.....if anything, we're usually looking at the guy and saying "WTF! You got low standards or something?!". However, there are some girls who are merely okay but brag & strut proudly like they're a 9/10 becuase they know how to flirt or live in a manhole with few competition("every guy in the company tries to hit on me!"). I've been out on dates with a few and felt like calling them out on it by saying …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/17 06:31 AM
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The thing is.... I tend to attract brown anything like crazy... Indian and middle eastern girls like that I'm mixed so response rate for them is crazy high. Know any popular ethnic websites.
/r/seduction27/03/16 11:08 PM
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Try coffee meets bagel.... The girls I've meet there fit your criteria....on okcupid and pof, how important is a well crafted message? I just plan on botting those sites becuase I hated making unique messages for each girl.
/r/seduction27/03/16 12:05 AM
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I did best of coffee meets bagel as well.
/r/seduction26/03/16 02:28 PM
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mind sharing via pm?
/r/seduction03/03/16 01:52 AM
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Im a dev who cobsidered making one of those....how far have you got
/r/seduction03/03/16 12:46 AM
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Cities are way better....i used to fly out to a new usa city every week and used the auto liker app...id usually managed to score a date or two in a few days...
/r/seduction02/03/16 11:47 PM
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Autoliker is your friend....and your right about the ugly ones....i usually get a bunch. Ive had good luck on some of the newer apps though.
/r/seduction02/03/16 11:44 PM
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Pay money for good pictures and get an auto liker. It works best in cities. Sign up for all the mobile ones too. Much better luck on some other ones like coffee meets bagel and hinge.
/r/seduction02/03/16 11:43 PM
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Ill second this....i rember having friends who sounded like scientists discussing game...meanwhile id just walk away to grab some girls.
/r/seduction02/03/16 11:41 PM
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I used to live in korea...you might have picked up a hardcore christian girl.....there were a lot. Anyway.....yeah, go get sloshed....if she wont make out at least after getting tipsy, its gonna be a long slog....she may not be interested(stringing you along) or just have a weird hang up. Ive been out with a few of those types....never did bang one and just moved on....too much work...theyre banging somebody and it aint you or nobody for a long time. As far as thier views of sex....theyre not pr…
/r/seduction02/03/16 11:25 PM
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Either she is a prude(unlikely ime with asian women) or she aint getting turned on by you. You mentioned some kissing....making out? Fingering? How far have you gone? And im not sure if shes asian american or a fob asian girl...but generally it was common to get trashed during a date in asia(then again everyone did often) which gave the girl a plausible excuse for her sexual misadventures. I dont mean blackout drunk(ie: not date rape) but dont shy away from doing some shots unless shes really ag…
/r/seduction01/03/16 07:04 AM
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College scene is also heavily social. Lastly if you got a dad bod you still got a few months to go. Tinder sucks for most guys....pay the subscription and get the autoliker. Much better results when you got robots on your side....coffee meets bagel and other apps(hinge) have been better for me.
/r/seduction01/03/16 06:50 AM
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Most people are more so classist than racist ime. A nicely dressed black guy is far less likely to get harrassed than a sketchy dressed white dude in the wrong area. I've lived all the world....you'll get treated alot differently depending on where they think your from than 100% just race. Screw twitter....trolls are always the loudest.
/r/seduction15/02/16 05:28 PM
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I look half Arabic or movie star Indian(super light skinned, buff, tall). It usually keeps the chodes at bay since they can't 100% confirm I'm not them(they ask sometimes outright or assume yes). Although one cock block did try on my date last night. She's super tall 6'1+ and invited me to a hookah lounge. I asked the desk rep if a 6 foot girl tall arrived....answer was no but when he did arrive she straight up told her I described her as super tall as the only attribute....in front of me.
/r/seduction15/02/16 02:14 PM
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We all know that's the most horrible worst case scenario ever, ask anyone anywhere nothing is worse than being black. Be happy sir, be happy... That's sarcasm right?
/r/seduction15/02/16 11:48 AM
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You said pua would likely still be around if not do the red pill philosophy. I don't keep up on pua....has it been down hill since I left the USA? I rember they had TV shows but now it seems the popularity boom has disappeared.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 07:43 AM
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PUA went away? I think if people had been raised to be actual adults instead of incompetent trash, and hookup culture was disincentivized People say that about every generation. Its probably not much different. I'm not sure why hookup culute would go away. Some people just like hooking up with alot of people....granted some just really want a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/14 12:45 AM
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