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| 277 | Let’s translate “he’s bad at texting”He doesn’t care about you He has no interest in a long term relationship with you He’s dating multiple other women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/22 08:30 AM |
| 130 | This man really saw a woman’s standards of “has a job, showers daily, and has all his teeth” and came to the conclusion “nah, asking too much, men just can’t meet that”. If we lower our standards, there’s always someone trying to push them even lower.Return this clown to the circus 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 06:37 PM |
| 70 | I cringe. Why are women not allowed to care about the way a man present themselves? Why does he act like men don’t treat women they find unattractive like shit all the time? Also women are not that simple minded, a good looking scrote is still low value. Being HV is not based on mere looks & income.Yes, whenever an attractive man hands me an object I’m just DYING to shove it into my vagina! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 02:42 AM |
| 141 | Left my fiancée today. Here is the letter I left him.There is nothing to think about or reflect on, you need to leave him ASAP and you know this already. RUN!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 06:18 AM |
| 70 | Why LVM love walk/hike/coffee datesHaha my favourite one is “let’s walk our dogs together, just casual yunno see if we have a connection” 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 12:16 AM |
| 44 | The F*ck boy hotline. See? Men know what they’re doing.I once talked to a guy on tinder who said we wouldn’t get along if we met in person. Then he said wait no the real reason I can’t meet is because I’m currently in a psychiatric hospital. He said he was using tinder as a “relaxing escape from what’s going on” 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 08:41 AM |
| 9 | My family has ZERO boundariesI’m really sorry to hear about your situation. I had an extremely violent mother and a shitty LVM father- cut him off, I’m sure you won’t regret it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 03:18 PM |
| 21 | Today I was told to be less professional at work...Perfect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 05:35 AM |
| 12 | Red flag - married coworker randomly negging me?Ewww what a jerk. Don’t be hard on yourself, this was a good learning opportunity. Now you know not to spend much time with this guy and keep things strictly business. You also know not to reveal that you were cheated on, which is a great thing to know. I always pretend my previous relationships were good even though they were shit. Otherwise scrotes start to think cool maybe I can take advantage of this dumb girl too! It’s really disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 05:31 AM |
| 32 | Planning to end things with LVM tomorrowOmg I’m so disturbed reading that he picked the lock. I’m sorry that happened to you. An ex of mine used to try and open the door when I was in the bathroom/showering then he’d complain that it was locked and whinge like “why did you lock me out 🥲”. It’s so disturbing thinking about it now. He also wanted to watch me get dressed so I’d go get dressed in the bathroom and lock him out. WHY ARE THEY LIKE THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 01:59 AM |
| 41 | If he still uses Snapchat, lovebombs you in the talking stage, and/or attempts to triangulate you against his ex/gf while seeing you or otherwise uses EtHiCaL nOnMoNoGaMy to justify why he needs multiple women, DISCARD HIM. Do not be the unwitting participant in any scrote’s harem 🤮I did the same thing, stopped giving out my number until I’d met them in person. Some would just text a good morning every single day and NOTHING ELSE, even when I replied. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:02 AM |
| 68 | If he still uses Snapchat, lovebombs you in the talking stage, and/or attempts to triangulate you against his ex/gf while seeing you or otherwise uses EtHiCaL nOnMoNoGaMy to justify why he needs multiple women, DISCARD HIM. Do not be the unwitting participant in any scrote’s harem 🤮Because I used to get a million “good morning 😊” messages when I used OLD, it’s always part of some dumb strategy like this where they are trying to have sex with as many women as possible for the least amount of effort. It’s manipulative, they want you to think that they have feelings for you but in reality they just send this to every women in their phone. I probably wouldn’t mind a good morning if I was in an established relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:57 AM |
| 285 | If he still uses Snapchat, lovebombs you in the talking stage, and/or attempts to triangulate you against his ex/gf while seeing you or otherwise uses EtHiCaL nOnMoNoGaMy to justify why he needs multiple women, DISCARD HIM. Do not be the unwitting participant in any scrote’s harem 🤮Lmao I would have blocked after he said “add me on Snapchat”. Nice try scrotes 🖕 Also I fucking hate dudes who send “good morning” every single day, BLOCK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 08:34 AM |
| 46 | 'Spiritual'/hippie menLol I agree 100%. I actually am spiritual myself but “spiritual” men are fucking awful, LVM, usually hobosexual and don’t believe in relationships because “hey let’s just enjoy the moment no need to put a label on things” They put in the least amount of effort possible and expect me to chase them and go 50/50 because “equality”. Everything is tit for tat so if they asked me out on a date, they expect me to ask them out on the next one because ~equality~. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Married at 17 to a man 11 years my senior, 3 kids by 23. I need to share my story.The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 02:46 AM |
| 17 | Another day, another scrote abandoning his pregnant gf...She probably dumped him lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 04:31 AM |
| 73 | How to Spot a PAWhen he’s in his 20’s and his dick can’t get hard When his dick just goes soft in the middle of sex When he gets bored and FALLS ASLEEP during the middle of sex Speaking from experience 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:27 AM |
| 3 | Great book to spot ScrotesThanks for the recommendation, I’m gonna give it a read on audible 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 12:03 PM |
| 14 | Woman asks if she was wrong to tell her ex's girlfriend that he had 3 kids he abandoned. The first responders say yes absolutely, but the fact they are heavily downvoted gives me some hope.Reddit is a mistake. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 12:39 AM |
| 16 | Nah sis 🤢🤢Oh thank god, it’s a joke 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 04:45 AM |
| 58 | Nah sis 🤢🤢Wow. Imagine posting this on the internet and not feeling ashamed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 01:21 AM |
| 107 | A comment on an article about disrespectful things men have said to their wives during labor. He literally got off to her being in pain, and she doesn't seem to see this as a problemYeah I really hope that some of the things I see on here are made up. They seem too disgusting to even be real 🤢. Men are so disgusting it literally defies belief... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 01:08 PM |
| 149 | A comment on an article about disrespectful things men have said to their wives during labor. He literally got off to her being in pain, and she doesn't seem to see this as a problemWhat the fuck 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 12:46 PM |
| 27 | Watching women gaslight themselves is so painfulI have a similar situation, my Mom was abusive and I got a restraining order against her when I was 5 and I haven’t seen her since. My Dad is not that great either but I usually tell people I’m close to him and his family and that my Mom died. If I say I’m not close to my parents people judge me and think I must be a bad person for not caring about them or I must have a lot of emotional problems. It really sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:07 AM |
| 345 | A guy once told me, "I'm the last thing you need right now." Then got mad when I said, "Okay."Some scrote: “I’m a terrible person and I will only hurt you” Me: “oh that’s too bad, bye” Scrote: “wait where are you going 😡” 🤣🤣🤣 Wtf do they they expect seriously. For me to disagree and say oh no you’re great? I’ve fallen for that before and they all turned out to be abusers. Whenever a man tells you he is not a good person, fucking RUN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 05:54 AM |
| 248 | Things That Perturb LVM 🤡When they say wow you are really attractive/cute/whatever and I say “thanks I know” 😊 Edit: a normal person will just laugh and then say something else, a LVM will immediately be like “wow pretty full of yourself aren’t you, no man will want a women with that attitude, blah blah blah” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:26 AM |
| 46 | Scrote wants pity for getting dumped after stringing ex along for 10 years.Lmfao yeah sure. My last ex “really wanted to propose to me”, he even THOUGHT about doing it once! The one before that said “but I was going to marry you one day” but when we had talked about it he laughed and said marriage is stupid. Fuck these manipulative scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 12:29 AM |
| 211 | Women are being shamed online for having standards now“ItS tHe ThOuGhT tHaT cOuNtS” - that is exactly the f*cking problem. Giving someone a cheap fake ring shows exactly how LITTLE you think of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 04:18 AM |
| 52 | LVM Use Their Depression as a Guilt-tripYep, I am all for mental health awareness and acceptance. But if some guy is telling you all about his depression/life problems and he barely knows you - that is just manipulation. He is trying to affect your emotions in order to get something from you. If he was genuinely trying to get to know you he would ask questions about your life, or share simple things like his hobbies and interests. Dumping serious shit on someone you don’t know is always done with selfish intentions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 05:24 AM |
| 67 | “Does my emotional support woman have to just put up with my shit or INSPIRE me to wipe my own ass? WheRe IS ThE LiNE?!” - The ruminations of an uninspired scrote:Saw an ex on a dating app once. It said “looking for someone to help me become a better person” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 12:44 PM |
| 421 | Being repeatedly ignored sounds sooo fun! Let's get hitched ASAP! 🤡 Why is this normalized?Pick mes desperately want to believe that all marriages are shit to cope with the fact that their husband hates them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 12:12 PM |
| 23 | How To Make A Sandwich For SexistsShe spent so much time making this video when his comment didn’t even deserve one second of thought... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 11:38 AM |
| 42 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreHoly hell... the fact that his boss just deleted the folder and didn’t fire him and report him to the police. F*cking disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 03:12 AM |
| 39 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreLiterally my ex - “I didn’t call you stupid, I just said you were being stupid. It’s totally different!!” Isn’t it funny how LVM all literally use the exact same lines. It’s like they are all basically the same person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 03:05 AM |
| 13 | I love tiktokI’m short and yeah I’ve noticed recently in the past few years that scrotes love it, I’ve gotten a lot of weird comments about it. Like it’s some kind of pedo/“petite girl” fetish. It’s really disturbing actually. Complete strangers think it’s fine to make sexual comments about my height and they have absolutely NO SHAME | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 02:36 AM |
| 18 | Have you seen the male-targeted ads on this subreddit?The ass blast one 🤣🤣 that’s hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 05:36 AM |
| 111 | Every “girls should make the first move!!” Post in a nutshell 🌰 🥜Absolutely, the one time I actually asked a man out he said he’s not interested and if we went on a date we’d just end up having sex 🤢 and then my poor feelings would be hurt because “all there would ever be between us is sex” 💀 Promptly blocked and deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 05:21 AM |
| 6 | C-PTSD therapyI do this it’s called “somatic experiencing”, you can look that up for more info 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 06:14 AM |
| 25 | Health benefits of leaving a LVM and NVMI’ve gone back to a normal sleep cycle, been working out 4 x a week and gained a lot of muscle, lost weight, stopped using a prescription pain medication. My mental and physical health has improved so much that I was able to start University this year 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 12:26 AM |
| 43 | He's 48, she's 19. They met when he was her tennis coach at 13 YEARS OLD. I'm disgusted and outraged for her and at him.Eewwwwwwwwwwww what the fuck 🤢 this shit should be illegal or something. Idek what to say | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:33 AM |
| 1 | This is a thing on IG/TikTok now. I hope she gets picked!How do you know they didn’t have sex? Maybe they did and she cleaned after | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 01:20 AM |
| 11 | Empower the women in your life by introducing FDS to them! (A template)I always want to share FDS with people but I’m scared of how people will react tbh. My aunt needs to see this place - she complains that her husband does nothing for valentines or birthdays and that he’s her “3rd child” 🤢 oh and once he kicked her out on the street with literally nothing and she had to stay with her sister | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 03:47 PM |
| 6 | Guys who have a problem with sex during your period are LVMThe first one I ever used was Lunette and that worked great for me. I still use it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:55 AM |
| 274 | Men really do know and they’re much more socially adept than they let onOmg... If they are CoNfUsEd about what they did, that’s because a list of their shitty deeds is running through their heads like the credits at the end of a movie. This is so true and I’ve never thought about it like this before. They know they’ve done a whole bunch of awful shit to you, so they need you to pick out which thing specifically because it could be so many possibilities! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:51 AM |
| 7 | Men are such crybabiesI used to always get “yeah you’re right, I’m a horrible person, I don’t even deserve to be alive, I should k-ll myself” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:21 AM |
| 9 | Scrotes act like we have a biological clock as though adoption doesn't exist.Thanks, hopefully by the time I’m ready it will be possible! 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:34 AM |
| 18 | Scrotes act like we have a biological clock as though adoption doesn't exist.I’m looking up the adoption laws in my country and apparently single people aren’t allowed to adopt 🙁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 01:14 AM |
| 1334 | I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off?Lmao what. Women are human beings not fairies Also I can’t offer you a bathroom Ew... do you just go outside on the ground? 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 12:18 PM |
| 10 | On the MRAs, TRP, MGTOW and IncelsI’m interested in this too. I watched an interview with him and at first he seemed alright then he started saying really crazy shit like women’s purpose is to have children and how the patriarchy and women’s issues don’t even exist. He also said something like women don’t have more difficulties in society than men we just have a “different set of problems to deal with” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 05:15 AM |
| 75 | What are ways that emotionally immature men are "too sensitive" that society ignores?Spiral into a serious depression when a women breaks up with them because they can’t handle being single Threaten suicide if a women breaks up them Break down into tears at the slightest criticism/suggestion of how they could improve their relationship These are more like serious mental illness, not just being “too sensitive” but I’ve experienced all these frequently from men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 01:13 AM |
| 19 | Poor women, who gon tell ‘em?it is so important that we highlight that men struggle too. Lol no it isn’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:19 AM |
| 4 | What are physical insecurities that a man has drilled into you?Wishing you the best in your recovery ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:23 PM |
| 25 | What are physical insecurities that a man has drilled into you?Glad you are healthy! I’m very short and a size 2 but he would always point out how I was “fat” then he would say it was a compliment and he loves how I’m fat, he doesn’t like skinny girls 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:35 AM |
| 57 | Why we don’t do clapbacksThis is really important. Also some of them actually like getting an angry response from you, they feel good that they were able to provoke you and affect your emotions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 04:04 AM |
| 52 | What are physical insecurities that a man has drilled into you?I was going to say none, but actually my last ex bf used to call me fat. He literally said “I like the fat” 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:55 AM |
| 57 | Online dating strategies (research and warding off LVM)You could give 1000 tips and it still wouldn’t ward off all the LVM on OLD. Don’t watse your time ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 11:44 AM |
| 16 | Sick and tired of hearing i "look good for my age"Ughh. I’m 30 and a lot of people think I’m 18-21 it’s so weird. Idk what the best comeback is but when a LVM says something like that I just reply with “I know right” or “yeah my face is pretty great!” then scrotes get mad and aren’t interested anymore because how dare a woman have confidence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:51 AM |
| 51 | I don’t know which replies to this are worse, the NVM saying they don’t care or the Pick Me’s saying they only care about pleasing their man.Nah, they have absolutely no shame whatsoever lol. They’ll probably just blame the woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 12:13 AM |
| 26 | Pregnancy and Its DiscontentsI was going to comment this too. My Mom had postpartum psychosis, I’m not sure if she ever recovered. I got a restraining order against her when I was 5 and I never saw her again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:17 AM |
| 13 | I'm getting so frustrated with the number of drinks/coffee/walk dates I'm being offered and would love to discuss this phenomenaI agree with you. I stopped last year and I’m doing so much better now it’s unbelievable. For the first month or so I wasn’t sure but now I 100% am never going back! I strongly encourage anyone reading this thread please at least TRY giving up OLD! 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 04:16 AM |
| 7 | M'kay 🤨🤣Omg I hate these “you didn’t seem interested” guys. They expect you to chase them, they think they are the prize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 04:58 AM |
| 3 | The nest post reminded me of this gem where a woman finds her husband's cumrags and thousands of piss bottlesIt’s exactly what it sounds like 💀 read at your own risk! Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 10:43 PM |
| 1 | The nest post reminded me of this gem where a woman finds her husband's cumrags and thousands of piss bottles😂🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 10:37 PM |
| 16 | The nest post reminded me of this gem where a woman finds her husband's cumrags and thousands of piss bottlesOh my god... 💀 I think this is even worse than butt crumbs guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 10:41 AM |
| 5 | The only response to neggingLmao they can’t stand it when women have the slightest bit of confidence. I used to get a lot of messages on tinder like “you look attractive but not cocky about it/not too full of yourself” 🙄 basically they just want a hot girl with low self esteem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 04:01 AM |
| 3 | She told him straight and held to her ideals - a Reddit GOAT post from years ago.That’s awful (I’m not from the US) It sounded to me like she wanted to have an abortion but he manipulated/coerced her into having the child anyway. For that reason I don’t think this is “goals”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 10:10 PM |
| 70 | She told him straight and held to her ideals - a Reddit GOAT post from years ago.Wouldn’t holding to her ideals have been actually getting the abortion? I don’t think this is really “goals”, I really feel for the child 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 12:49 AM |
| 30 | “Doesn’t like men”Yep, I used to volunteer for a dog rescue group for 6 years and a lot of them were afraid of men. Never saw a single dog that was afraid of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 09:45 AM |
| 88 | Seen this a few hours ago and couldn’t resist sharing with you ladiesAn ex of mine told me once that he enjoys it when women don’t want to have sex with him and he has to force them into it until they give in. He admitted to being a literal rapist to his girlfriend, and acted like this was a perfectly normal thing to say. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 05:20 AM |
| 10 | I guess this is my cue to delete bumble cuz I’ve finally seen it allFotos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:05 AM |
| 51 | Can someone break down this guy's motivation for posting this?Me: you hurt me physically during sex so I’m breaking up with you Ex scrote: yeah you’re right I’m an awful person and don’t deserve to be alive, I’m going to k-ll myself [2 days later sends me long ass fake s*icide note saying it’s my fault] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:58 AM |
| 52 | Scrote tropes decodedSad but accurate! “Looking for someone to help me become a better person” = looking for a women to heal my trauma for free and put up with my abuse Also usually anything about “connection” or “looking for great connections” = looking for all the benefits of a relationship without actually being in one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:43 AM |
| 21 | Boyfriend said he wanted to go to a strip club at our anniversary lunchHoping to see an update from you letting us know that you’ve dumped him 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:17 AM |
| 25 | Should I leave my boyfriend for not being romantic?Sorry but it’s not that he just “doesn’t know how to show he cares”... he just doesn’t care, period. Dump | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:05 AM |
| 66 | This is the kind of prompt answers I’m trying to see! Too bad they are few and far between.Whenever I would tell men on dating apps about what book I was reading they would say “oh I’ve never heard of that” and then recommend stuff like “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck” and Jordan Peterson 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:08 AM |
| 6 | Which red flag shall we pick first?Thank god he outed himself like this so no one has to date him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:44 PM |
| 48 | I Need Scrote Repellant“you have my number. If you’re interested, call me” Omg I’m deaddd. Where do they get the f*cking audacity? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 01:03 AM |
| 2 | If you aren't easily offended, G.L Lambert gives you some straight NO-BS advice and insight into the male mind and dating 📖 Didn't see his books in the FDS recommended books but they are some legit LEVEL UP books where he takes no prisoners and gives no f*cks!“like do you keep another guy you use” -You | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 10:39 PM |
| 12 | Ladies, how are you treating yourself this Valentine's day?I’m going to order delicious food for lunch and watch movies. Haven’t decided if I’m going to buy myself a gift or not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 09:10 AM |
| 77 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?That they do what they do on purpose. They know they are trash and their actions are hurting you they just literally don’t care. That 99% of them only speak to me because they think they might get sex out of it one day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:56 AM |
| 6 | My friend has been using OLD recently and told me 10 men in a row have asked her for a PARK DATE. I AM GOING TO SCREAM!!!!Yep me too. Yesterday one asked if I wanted to come to the dog park near his house and drink wine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 06:53 AM |
| 5 | Legitimately good sexYeah I’m 30 and never experienced this either lol. Maybe one day 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 11:56 AM |
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