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Wants you to be a mother **
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/24 04:30 PM
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This is a strange one bc in my mind if he wants to be a mother to his kids he needs to allow you FULL autonomy to do that role properly. Not allowing you to only to when it suits him. It’s difficult bc you don’t want to become a glorified baby sitter for this kids and the last thing you want is for him not to allow you to actually do the role properly. In my mind it’s either ‘do it all’ or don’t do anything at all. Also keep in mind they they are his kids so he also needs to be pulling his pants…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/24 04:29 PM
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Submission is very much earned and conditional. Some men in the past want submission but did absolutely nothing noteworthy to earn it. On the other hand my husband would protect me (big broad 6ft hairy beast looking man), financially and would defend me all the time. If I needed help with anything including some domestic tasks he would help. So he does have my submission. Not blind submission though. That’s something entirely different.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/24 08:26 AM
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As a woman reading this made me cringe. Silent treatment is very off putting and immature. Men want women to treat them like men. Women don’t want to treat men like children.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/24 10:28 PM
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Hate to break it to you hun but he is pulling the wool over your eyes. You’re being used. Also with an age gap that big there is a slight power shift. Red pill men would pay 100% of everything and still help you out when they can or in fact pay someone else to help if they can’t. Please do listen to the advice on these comments because many men say they’re red pill or traditional but are far from it
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/24 09:26 AM
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South Asian here. South Asians are probably worse than Eastern in regards with DIL. You can’t find this fight. Focus on you and your husband and kids. Keep your relationship with husband good. Don’t contact or bother with MIL. DIL will always be the bad person not matter how you are or behave. They want to marry their sons and you can’t help psychologically messed up women like that.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/24 09:41 AM
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I keep it simple. I have a makeup bag at work and a mirror. I do my makeup when I get to work because id rather sleep in
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/24 08:36 PM
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To be honest I don’t think this about women hating you about dating or being with rich men. Might be more of your attitude maybe 🤔
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 06:02 PM
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Muslim women here. Don’t do it. Plenty of good men who are into monogamy. Islam actually does encourage monogamy. Polygamy was only necessary due to the very specific socioeconomic factors 1000s of years ago. However men use polygamy for inappropriate often selfish reasons and religion as a way to control women. Also this man you’re speaking about sounds like shit. In current society polygamy is not necessary and I would run far from any man wanting to practice it. -Love from a married Muslim wh…
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/24 03:02 PM
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With all due respect to other commenters here. I heavily disagree with most of them. You cannot redpill your way out of men like that. A person cannot be disrespectful and abusive and somehow it’s ‘you’re who needs to fix that. It’s inherently wrong. Especially when you mention how he wanted a SAHW but now is saying you don’t financially contribute etc. I recommend you get back into the workforce part time with a schedule that fits you and the kids and keep yourself preoccupied. You are right yo…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/24 05:03 PM
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Muslim? Me too x
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/24 02:18 PM
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They just don’t meet. Mention you have a friend to your husband. Tell him about her as in what she is like in personality, her job ect. But realistically my friends only come over when my husband isn’t home. Or I go out to meet them.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/24 02:18 PM
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This may be controversial. But I am of the nature that my friends are my friends. My husband doesn’t need to know them. He can be aware of them but my friends and husband are not hanging out. I don’t have many friends anyway but I have always kept the golden rule of friends. Family. Relationships and work being separate. When you mix then you can be left with a mess. In my opinion men and women can never treat be friends bc they’re will always be an element of attraction.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/24 02:05 PM
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Seems like there is an element of him using you
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/24 08:00 AM
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You need to move out when your lease is up
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/24 07:23 AM
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As a Muslim woman. Run far from this man. Is he Asian by any chance? Sounds like a lot of men I have come across in the past. Wanting to only meet you at night he is using you for sex. Not wanting to go out in the day means he doesn’t want to be seen with you. I wouldn’t be surprised if he is cheating tbh.
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/24 09:33 AM
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If you want to find someone with Christian conservative values I recommend seeking out African men. Lots of African men are inherently traditional
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/24 12:28 PM
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Girl. You’re a free live in maid here
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/24 08:32 AM
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They're two complete different situations
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/23 12:16 PM
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My issue arises when men who have slept around want a virgin. You can't have your cake and eat it too. I fundamentally disagree with hypocrisy.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/23 07:49 PM
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Muslim and south Asian here (23 and got married 2 years ago). I would say try to abstain from anything like that further. The best thing to do is be cheeky and playful but hold back from sex. Say you want to save yourself for marriage. Is he a virgin? This relationship seems very new. If he cannot hold back from or wait until marriage then it's something to reconsider with him. Is he practicing? Pm if you like
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 11:13 AM
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Boyfriend of 6 years? Girl run. Imagine being like that when he's not even put a ring on it (not that it's okay when there is a ring on but you get what ime saying). You deserve better. Men who are insecure like this are often doing things themselves.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/23 10:02 AM
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You're not crazy. Please don't let him gaslight you into thinking that. I recommend that you leave temporarily. Love in with some family if you can because this man is not a leader or an alpha. Everything you describe is men who say they are but their actions say otherwise
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/23 01:13 PM
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You are NOT crazy. Please don't be gaslit into you are. I saw in another comment you mentioned he's watching porn. If a man does this they are horny. Just not for you. But they're turning to porn to get their fulfillment but this can easily leave to infidelity and cheating. If you have no kids I recommend you get out of this relationship because it doesn't seem worth it. What religion are you a part of (if you do have a faith)?
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/23 04:31 PM
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He is not being a man or leader. I recommend you think about whether or not you want a future with him. One of the key things about marriage is sex. You're 28, dont waste your best years with a man who only cares about himself. We may be red pill here but we are not women being door mats
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/23 02:15 PM
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Is he going to take turns Cooking. Cleaning? Looking after the home? If not. Then run far away from this man. Because when shit hits the fan he doesn't sound like some you can rely on. You will always have your guard up and this will affect your feminitity.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/23 07:42 PM
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A few things to unpack here. 1. Boundaries. I personally expect my husband to have no female friends and I don't have male friends. Bc I personally belive men and women cannot be platonic friends. Especially if you are remotely good looking. Thats a deal breaker for me. (I've ended relationship in the past because of this) 2. If anything were to go wrong with you. She would be the first person he would go to for emotional support. 3. Give him an ultimatum. You say your man so I'm assuming you're…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/23 04:51 PM
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Real men like natural women from my observation. Women who look fake attract men who only want them for sex
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/23 06:10 PM
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He should buy the groceries if he wants you to cook more. Yes doing wife things helps become you a wife but he should be doing husband things as well.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/23 10:43 AM
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Not much. I always dressed in elegant classic style. Got my clothes tailored to fit me well one of the reasons my husband is attracted to me
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/23 01:45 PM
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That's why he's a boyfriend eind and not a husband.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/23 11:00 PM
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Not saying it makes you masculine at all just saying it makes you less feminine which is true in my books. And letting go of control in some areas is what eventually causes the boat to sink. It doesn’t happen overnight but it’s the mentally of just ‘one thing it’s okay if I don’t do that because the kids don’t give me time’ ect
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 09:07 PM
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Yess you put it better than I did. For me to be an overall good woman and wife I need all my eggs in basket. Kids break eggs and suck you dry and it can really change you as a person
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 05:59 PM
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I’m very red pill but ironically I don’t want to be a mother and I don’t really like children. Yet I’m still extremely feminine, I’m a good wife and a great homemaker. Me and my husband are happy as can be. Not having children doesn’t make me less than compared to a women who does. In my personal experience and with what I’ve seen childless women are much more feminine than mothers because they have the time to work on themselves ect
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/22 05:00 PM
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I’ve seen in some of your comments that you might get an arranged (I’m Pakistani abs very familiar with this) even if it is an arranged marriage have high standards and do not accept and shitty men
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/22 10:58 AM
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I’m a teacher. But I work part time 3/5 days a week. So that allows room for me to be a homemaker too. I don’t want children nor does my husband so that’s something we dont need to worry about but atleast in the UK it’s difficult to be solely a home maker or live on one salary. Cost of living is insane and although I do not spend much of my own money and my husband pays 99% of everything’s it reassuring to know that I have qualification/ job as a back up
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/22 07:31 PM
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I feel you! I come from from a very conservative immigrant family who has value education and working to but also value being a goof housewife/mother too. its hard to keep a balance but they want the best out of both for us
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/21 10:19 PM
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my favourite stores are: Zara, mango, Dorothy Perkins, matalan, Aldo and Dune those are the ones off the top of my head. A lot of stores have a workwear section in store and online so that's a good place to start looking. Im pretty small 5ft0 and im a uk size 6/8 so my options are pretty limited, I also look in the petite section too
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/21 01:23 PM
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I am (F) and 21, I LOVE the work wear sections of stores! I dress mostly and wear classic styles like ankle length trousers, tailored blazers, court heels (loafers on days I want to wear flats) are you in the US or UK? if youre in the uk I know many stores!
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/21 12:31 PM
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