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I like making assumptions as a way to keep the conversation moving and keeping them talking about themselves. Like "I'm from Italy", Id say something like "it must have been so [feel in the blank based on your actual impressions] to grow up there". I'm kind of turning it into an assumption instead of another question. If she doesn't go into it right away, i might ask a follow up.question showing curiosity. Like "why would anyone leave such a place for the US?" I live in the US so that would be m…
/r/seduction22/12/24 02:58 PM
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Your follow up question makes no sense, as pointed out by others already.
/r/seduction10/12/24 02:50 AM
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I personally pee seating down… it’s the most hygienic and prevents piss from splashing all over your bathroom. Just saying.
/r/seduction10/12/24 01:31 AM
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Number 1 is so classic. I usually say something like "it would be great to take you on a date sometime if you'd be open to it" or something. I think women appreciate the straightforwardness.
/r/seduction21/06/23 02:51 AM
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Unpopular as in most popular, yeah!
/r/seduction22/10/22 11:46 PM
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Number 2 is huge... Several times already i have told a girl after the "sorry i didn't respond I was xyz" something along the lines of "it happens, but I'm starting to see a pattern I shouldn't ignore. I wonder if we could ever find a good rhythm".more often than not, they found it attractive and changed the dynamic a little bit... But in general, it's not something you can easily turn around. Just move on.
/r/seduction17/04/22 02:48 PM
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Anywhere in Asia
/r/seduction27/01/22 07:15 AM
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I wear Carolina Herrera Classic. I get compliments for it all the time. It has been a conversation starter where a girl just complimented it randomly. I usually respond with "thank you, what's your name" and take it from there.
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:12 PM
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Yea, this is over text... We are going dancing next week. She is one of those girls that is super cute and is probably used to guys being all like "of course, whatever you want baby"... I like your response!
/r/seduction23/05/19 05:58 PM
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I see it like learning a language. Its a slow process... I couldnt tell you the exact date I learned english. One day i suddenly knew i was an english speaker but still to this day i say im still learning. You guys will "become" boyfriend and girlfriend eventually if you have the chemistry, independently of wether you agree to ot or not. In the words of the Talking Heads... "The less we say about it the better, make it up as we go along".
/r/seduction15/04/19 12:05 PM
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cool
/r/seduction09/06/18 08:23 AM
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posting her photo is not cool bro...
/r/seduction09/06/18 08:13 AM
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I run into the same problem in Washington DC. The place is small enough that I always run into people. So when I go out with a girl in trying to hook up with, I avoid mainstream places. there are a few lesser known places that I use, sometimes I tell the girl I will show her a "hidden gem" I like. It makes it kind of adventurous for her and it keeps me from running into anyone.
/r/seduction25/04/17 06:49 PM
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Im not surprised...
/r/seduction04/11/15 12:10 AM
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I typically say something like "hey her name, it was nice meeting you today", she might answer "yeah likewise", and from then on, just try to meet up with her by offering a plan (bar, coffee, open mic, music event) whatever that would get you guys to hang out. I hate it when girls try to get to know you through text, and you will stand out if you use text only to arrange where and when to meet up.
/r/seduction14/10/15 02:57 AM
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So right... Its nice when they are trying to seduce you precisely because you played your cards right from the beginning.
/r/seduction18/12/14 06:48 PM
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Simply put... Its not you, its them. I promise you, there will be a guy who will look you in the eyes with confidence and be completely comfortable around you. Don't put too much energy into taking a "relationship" or "friendship" somewhere it wont go to naturally. If its not natural, then its not worth it. Good luck beautiful!
/r/seduction11/12/14 08:10 PM
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Great post! I give some merits to red pill ideas, but a lot of times I wonder if people are drawn to this because they are "sour and charmless" to begin with. A lot of the anger people express because the "way women are" makes me think that sometimes they cause those same behaviors they hate so much in women. Dont hate me for this, but sometimes I feel that a lot (not all) of people who identify themselves with these ideas don't understand women, and are drawn here by the frustration associated …
/r/TheRedPill11/12/14 06:32 PM
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Even without sources or methodology on how they got to those percentages.... I think it makes a lot of sense. So often I see my friends stressing about what to say to a girl. I'm like, "say anything", especially when there is an initial attraction there is very little you can say wrong. I think it all comes to how you carry yourself, and how you express your ideas (not your ideas themselves).
/r/seduction10/12/14 06:01 PM
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dont apologize too much. Obviously, you want to be a gentleman. But it could happen to anybody, and it was truly an accident. You can offer to make it up to her, but not in a "i owe you" way, and more in a "i want to be nice" way. turn the "let me make it up to you" into a second date. Like, "Hey, needless to say, I don't want to go down in history as the guy that injured you lol. The least I can do is to take you out again, this time in a safer environment". When she says "sure" you don't reall…
/r/seduction24/11/14 03:32 PM
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I dont want to seem insensitive, but I think it is all in your head. I can't relate to you, but I have a really good friend who is fucking ugly, He has a huge nose that resembles one of a Pig (nostrils pointing forward), his nickname among our group of Friends is Bacon just because of his nose (he is saved in my phone as Baconator). He laughs about it, and sometimes makes fun of himself, he doesn't take it personal, he knows he is ugly, but he also knows that that doesn't matter He is ugly bro. …
/r/seduction17/11/14 04:43 PM
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I like this... you dont have to be super intelligent to be sexy, just learn how to ask good insightful questions, and then just listen. Be curious
/r/seduction17/11/14 04:17 PM
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You are over thinking it.... people with healthy self-esteem are usually really good company, so enjoy yourself and have fun with her. There one thing for sure here. She likes you, so work on your own self-esteem and ask her out for a good time. Let her know you think she is cute and fun and that you would like to steal a kiss at some point haha good luck!
/r/seduction10/11/14 07:20 PM
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next time try to start a conversation. Hi, Im x, what's your name? good to meet you... and then just make a comment ("your friends must love you, keeping you company at the bus stop"), or a question ("do you work around the bus stop? do you like working there?) really anything will do. Just like with everything in life... the more you do it, the more second-nature it becomes. Just have a normal conversation like if she was not good looking at all... haha good luck!
/r/seduction07/11/14 11:31 PM
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Your smiles are earned. Awesome!
/r/seduction06/11/14 10:09 PM
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You should consider seeking out new experiences. It is when we are experiencing things we have never done before that we feel most alive and in the moment. This can be monumental things, like taking a trip to Thailand by yourself (i mention Thailand because its beautiful, women will literally love you, and your dollars reallyyy go a long way), or something small like trying a new dish for lunch... Like everything in life, the more you do it, the more second-nature it becomes. Before you know it,…
/r/seduction04/11/14 11:37 PM
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Are you hitting on me? ;) lol
/r/seduction04/11/14 03:34 PM
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haha yes! Its all in how you go about it. By saying what I want and seeing her reaction I can reassess lol... but at least its out in the open now and it can make for a fun dynamic...
/r/seduction04/11/14 03:32 PM
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Thank you!! lol
/r/seduction03/11/14 10:54 PM
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obviously, I dont say to a girl that "I have been wanting to kiss her for a while" unless there is enough rapport and good feeling in the air. I really enjoy good conversation, and i'm pretty relaxed and genuine....I don't think you would feel disturbed... plus if you told me something like "oh i see how it is, you just wanted to get in my pants and didn't care about getting to know me", i think I would probably say something along the lines of "i don't think that wanting to get to know you, and…
/r/seduction03/11/14 10:51 PM
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I've been wanting to kiss you all night.... that's my go to line before going for a kiss. You can tell exactly how it will turn out based on her reaction. I have said this to girls that I knew it would be a really long shot, and when they said "no, I can't" or whatever rejection line I usually say something like "its ok, I just thought you should know".... from then on, even if nothing happens, there will always be fun looks and flirting
/r/seduction03/11/14 06:51 PM
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I feel that i get enriched by every love affair/sexual experience I have. Literally, I believe that the more (and better quality) sexual relationships a person have, the richer the character of that person will be... Also, sex is so much freaking fun... and I love women. So....
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:31 PM
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I'm here to have a great time with everyone. Being outcome independent is probably the number one source of my success with girls. They like you for being a good time and being good company so they want you in their pants.... not because you say the right things to get in their pants.
/r/seduction31/10/14 03:59 PM
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AMEN!
/r/seduction29/10/14 04:23 PM
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what is your own?
/r/seduction27/10/14 08:53 PM
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lol... make plans with her bro. "are you free Saturday night? lets grab a drink!" could be good. The fact that you are asking here what to say to a girl tells me you need to work a little on your inner-game. just know that she likes you, otherwise she would have replied "idk we'll see"
/r/seduction24/10/14 08:24 PM
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She wants your dick in her mouth bro... lol... good job!
/r/seduction24/10/14 07:55 PM
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Great post... I think this goes along with the whole "outcome independent" approach to things. You are definitely onto something.
/r/seduction24/10/14 05:12 PM
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I can't say it enough.... be "outcome independent", go in with no expectations and it wont matter if it goes good or bad. Eventually it will be a lot easier and you will look more calm, cool and confident because you will actually be more calm, cool, and confident. good luck!
/r/seduction23/10/14 06:36 PM
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I would say... realizing how hot and sexy women will find you when you come in a genuine "outcome independent" mentality. When you are there just to have a good time, and if you end up getting laid, even better. Just like with everything in life. the more you do it, the more natural it comes to you. Go in with a outcome independet attitude and you will have an ah-ha moment soon enough...
/r/seduction23/10/14 06:33 PM
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You are in, all you have to do now is Not Ruin It lol. Go on your second date JUST like you did in the first one, if it got you a devilish smirk "not tonight" then you did good. I am in a similar situation... we've made out a few times only... after second date she said "i shouldn't drive after drinking", to which i replied "yes, please do us a public service and spend the night next time:, she said "yeah, sounds good... but not funny business though"... haha she is agreeing to spend the night w…
/r/seduction23/10/14 06:30 PM
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so, What are you looking forward to these days? Depending on the answer, I know if a girl is interesting or if she is a dumb bitch lol...
/r/seduction22/10/14 08:27 PM
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NICE MAN!! haha I need you to be my "local contact" to meet those local brazilian girls. The least they are expose to tourist on a daily basis, the hotter a foreign seems to them lol Let us know how it was!
/r/seduction22/10/14 05:26 PM
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I am Venezuelan and I can tell you I had a lot of fun in Germany. I was all around the country for two months. Girls seemed interested and curious, they loved my accent. I would literally ask " do you speak English?" most people will say "yes" in Germany. And then simply ask for a cigarrete, or a dumb question and it almost always led to a "where are you from, how do you like it here, blah blah blah". Sometimes I would be casually talking to a girl, and another girl would walk up and say somethi…
/r/seduction22/10/14 03:11 PM
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Carolina Herrera (ORiginal) has never let me down. I get compliments on it all the time, to which I just smile and say a nice and simple "thank you". Its a panty dropper lol
/r/seduction09/10/14 03:59 PM
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the best way i can put it is that you should be curious about her. If she tells you she is from x city, dont just be like, oh yeah? nice, and leave it at that. Be curious about her city, and about her situation. "oh nice, i've never been, is it a cool place?", "I always wonder about that city... do you like being from there?", "do you miss it?, or are you glad you got out of there?" Her major is an easy one to be curious about. "how did you choose psychology?" "do you find yourself psychoanalyzi…
/r/seduction30/09/14 05:57 PM
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Yeah, but I am pretty sure she is going to say, no I haven't. And thats why she feel free to ask. She is not the slut type, and i know she kind of wishes to date me, but she hasn't flat out said it. She is a great laid though lol... so far i just said " I can't either confirm nor deny" haha but I know she wont let it go
/r/seduction23/09/14 09:30 PM
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Right, but she is asking in a "don't think im getting attached, im just curious" sort of way. She wants to know how many women i've fucked since we met... Im about to just lie and say i've fucked one more girl. when in reality its been like 6
/r/seduction23/09/14 08:14 PM
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I have even mention in conversation that I want to ignite a spark with her... usually the reaction is something like "oh really??" and I just say something like YUP! very unapologetic. As long as you make it known, it doesn't have to be weird. I also say things like, "come on, you can act like you didn't know I liked you", they will say something like "noo i just thought you were nice", to which you say, "I am nice, but with you its easier because i think you are sexy". Another line I use often …
/r/seduction12/09/14 08:12 PM
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for sure! thanks!
/r/seduction29/08/14 04:03 PM
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excelent... thanks!
/r/seduction29/08/14 04:02 PM
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HAHA YES! thank you... wish me luck!
/r/seduction29/08/14 04:01 PM
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I hear you man... im just gonna play it by ear. Wish me luck!
/r/seduction28/08/14 09:54 PM
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haha I dont need help... I am worried about what will happen afterwards. After I fucked her brains out, took her virginity, and now she thinks i am meant for her or something. have you ever had to deal with the "what are we" sort of shit. I am worried that I am gonna end up with a big problem. I was wondering if others had experienced this. Thats all!
/r/seduction28/08/14 09:52 PM
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HA good point, thanks!
/r/seduction28/08/14 09:50 PM
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Yeah, but I can tell this chick is really sexual. Just from flirting and talking about sex and stuff. Like she told me she wanted me spank the shit out of her until she started sucking my dick right. haha she said "you could teach me how to fuck you right". And she loves the idea of being man handled. I can't imagine it being THAT bad. Plus I get to see what its like fucking a virgin. The part that worries me is what happens afterwards...
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:44 PM
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I think is mainly mental... I wouldn't blame it on porn. try viagra until you can relax and get natural boners... good luck!
/r/seduction22/08/14 07:49 PM
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I would "bump" into her again and tell her that you would like to take her out, maybe a quick afterwork brew. If she says something along the lines of "that would be lovely", then save her number in your phone (i dont know what Seddit's opinion is on busines cards, but I dont like them)... take her number, and let her know you will shoot her a text to plan the logistics. When the dynamic is right, I have gone as far as saying "let me see your phone" and calling myself so we both have eachothers …
/r/seduction22/08/14 05:19 PM
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This happens to me pretty often too... haha... its good to know i am not the only creeper. I am usually pretty unapologetic about it... I usually say... "look at you how, like I think you are cute? impossible!" or something silly, it really depends on the dinamic between you...
/r/seduction18/08/14 09:26 PM
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never eve think about it as a one generic thing to every women. There is a lot talked in this community about calibration. recognizing how a girl operates and then calibrating to that so you can get it just right.... so yeah!, whats flirty to one could be creepy to another for sure. I thik you will be able to tell almost right away.
/r/seduction15/08/14 07:44 PM
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I like to go towards questions that will lead to a date... like Where are you from? turns into... are you born and raised here? if she says yes... I would give her a skeptical look and say: do you have a favorite local hidden gem? let her talk about it and eventually we go there haha.... if not you can recommend some of your own hidden gems and then take her there lol Any question you ask will give you enough material to keep it going. Let her talk about the things that are important to her.
/r/seduction13/08/14 06:32 PM
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I think you have to be flirty in subtle ways (eye contact, smiles, being attentive, quick, witty, and excelent company) with every women in the world. You will have a reputation of being a delightful person which happens to fuck with a lot of women haha It has happened to me that ladies in the breakroom had said to me "why can't my daughter have a BF like you?" in front of other girls with whom i'm kind of flirty with. Needless to say, It is the most atractive thing to all the female kind. Worry…
/r/seduction13/08/14 06:25 PM
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Sure man! Another thing to keep in mind is that we can be pretty harsh on our selves. Most my female friends tell me we (men) over-think it when it comes to seduction. Just know that the more you practice talking to women the more confortable and natural you will be. Being outcome independent is huge. Eventually it will be effortless...
/r/seduction31/07/14 05:00 PM
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You may want to have a nice little bar, coffeshop, or a fun activity in mind (wine tasting, cool live show coming up). Whenever you find yourself with her number saved on your phone, naturally and confidently let her know that you want to take her out soon. I have a few places that are my go to's for that. Like I would say, have you ever been to The Imperial? she usually says no, and then I say something like "Its a cool antique shop that turns into a bar in the evenings and they have anice beer…
/r/seduction30/07/14 06:03 PM
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I think that those that get really into books, and trying memorize lines are missing the point about this community. You can come her to see what others are experiencing. I am sure some of us here can relate to some of the materials that come up in Seddit. From there, we can make up our way to go about things. If you are trying to unfold a preconcived strategy, no matter what you are going to have to improvise and be natural, and relaxed and everything else that only comes with practice.
/r/seduction24/07/14 10:01 PM
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For us that frequent this community is ot about taking people's lines and using them ramdomly... but more about seeing what others are coming up with for inspiration to create one's own. Plus... You can ask someone something like "what are you looking forward to", and then is up to you to either comment or question, or share something from your live with ease, confidence, and masculinity. I dont think there is nothing wrong with us learning from each other... there is a lot wrong with those of u…
/r/seduction18/07/14 05:20 PM
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usually something related to their pictures... like if she has a picture doing a sport, and one dressed up for the club, I'd say something like: "athletic, great taste in fashion, and gorgeous... did you fall from heaven?" you can jazz it up with things like, packers fan, red-head (if you like them as much as me)... it all depends on what they have on their pics/bio.
/r/seduction16/07/14 07:24 PM
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be present and aware of your sorroundings and the people in it. Think of anyone as a potential friend. Be friendly and polite, and above all, relaxed and confortable. Thatis the beauty of being outcome independent
/r/seduction16/07/14 07:13 PM
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haha true, you just have to time it right. Its probably better if you dont bring it up until after both of you are so fucking turned on from making out and touching eachother in the car. When you bring up the hotel she will scream YESSSS haha
/r/seduction30/06/14 10:19 PM
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To me, the best options is to get a room. You can look at her in the eyes and tell her "I really want you but we can't come to my place, how about we get a hotel room so we can be confortable". There are always rooms available for cheap.
/r/seduction30/06/14 08:43 PM
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Listen to NPR all day long... and also listen to some TED talks and subscribe to a real newspaper (I have the phone app of the New York Times and I get all the content thru there, So instead of playing candy crush, I read the New York Times). The Wall Street journal would be good too. Those few tips will be plenty to eventually be up to date in terms of culture, arts, fashion, politics (national and international), literature, and what not... Good luck!
/r/seduction30/06/14 01:08 PM
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yeah bro, just relax a little. Give your self some days so that when you counter attack you will be more clearheaded!
/r/seduction26/06/14 09:22 PM
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damn bro, that was worst than the icecream text. I wouldn't pour myself out like that, but then again you must know what you are doing! Good luck...
/r/seduction26/06/14 08:41 PM
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Or maybe she is seeing someone else... haha it really is a possibility dude. Wait for the right moment and bring it up, but always in a confident and relaxed way. in a just-out-of-curiosity way.
/r/seduction26/06/14 07:01 PM
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what I do in situations like yours is I text back something funnt but I dont start a conversation thru text. If its going into a conversation like "what is your favorite food, or band" or whatever, I usually try to turn it into a quick phone call just say hello. I usually end a phone conversation with something like "but hey I have to let you go now, plus we are going to run out of things to talk about when I see you in x days"... That way you are able to build some attraction, you remind her th…
/r/seduction26/06/14 03:12 PM
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It sounds to me like she is seeing someone else. I have had situations like this happen to me as well. Even after having good sex a few times. I got the "im sorry, i have boyfriend I should have told you before" haha so these things happen. I'd agree that the icecream text was prob not the best thing but hey, its whatever. I would say that whenever the opportunty comes that you see eachother again, and when it fits in the conversation, bring up the day you made out. Confident and nonchalantly sa…
/r/seduction26/06/14 02:59 PM
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