alchemischief Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	What to do when the girl shows plenty of sings she is into you but she continues to be hesitant/shy, or maybe too conservative, to even kiss after the 5th date (and 2 months of phone calls before that)? I can see why it can be a buzz kill fir the guy, because there’s a chance she might say no. But speaking from the perspective of a woman, I’ve always found it sexy if a guy asks, because it shows he is confident enough to put himself out there like that and it shows he doesn’t want to overstep my boundaries by kissing when he’s unsure of my signals. Most women I know agree with me here, the question is sexy.	/r/seduction	07/08/21 06:02 AM
1	What to do when the girl shows plenty of sings she is into you but she continues to be hesitant/shy, or maybe too conservative, to even kiss after the 5th date (and 2 months of phone calls before that)? I mean, yeah, two people should come together like magnets, but you’re on this sub asking for advice because it hadn’t happened that way yet. I agree with what you’re saying but that’s the ideal outcome. We come to expect it because we watch a lot of movies and maybe some porn, but real life doesn’t always unfold that way. I’m glad everything went well for you, and I’m sure she appreciates you asking, and not pouncing on her without any verbal or bodily cues, good on you.	/r/seduction	07/08/21 05:55 AM
1	[deleted by user] Yep. Where are the decent subs with actual seduction happening?? Asking for a friend.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 10:19 PM
0	Understanding and following basic attraction rules doesn’t make you manipulative. Not putting a woman at the center of your universe doesn’t make you a jerk You’re exactly the kind of man I aim to avoid 🙄	/r/seduction	06/08/21 10:14 PM
2	Understanding and following basic attraction rules doesn’t make you manipulative. Not putting a woman at the center of your universe doesn’t make you a jerk Finally a decent man on this sub. All I want is for a man to be playful and teasing, but with respect. Hot.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 10:11 PM
0	TWO Reasons Men Have Evolved a Taste for eating Pussy Lol	/r/seduction	06/08/21 10:05 PM
2	[deleted by user] Solid advice. Communication, who’d have thought?	/r/seduction	06/08/21 09:56 PM
2	[deleted by user] “Get it done” geeez you make a woman sound like a to-do list.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 09:54 PM
1	[deleted by user] Good advice.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 09:53 PM
1	What's a good way to apply pressure? Pull away. If she’s interested she’ll contact you. She’ll be “hmm, where did he go?” and most likely she’ll text you. As a woman, we can feel the kind of “pressure” you’re talking about and I assure you, it’s the easiest way to make her run for the hills.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 09:52 PM
2	This sub is probably cock-blocking you OP has it right. I stumbled upon this sub thinking it would have some sexy seduction stories but instead, I found myself reading it for entertainment. Had no idea some men are so clueless 🤦🏼‍♀️	/r/seduction	06/08/21 09:50 PM
2	What to do when the girl shows plenty of sings she is into you but she continues to be hesitant/shy, or maybe too conservative, to even kiss after the 5th date (and 2 months of phone calls before that)? This is terrible advice, lol. You know what one of the sexiest things a man has ever done in my life? Ask me if he can kiss me. Seriously. When the eye contact is intense and you’re feeling it, move a little closer and say “can I kiss you?” Confidence and consent are HOT.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 09:47 PM
1	Is approaching a girl in the gym a good idea? Then let her just be there to workout.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 09:44 PM
1	Is approaching a girl in the gym a good idea? Yes I HATE when men hit on me while I’m on the treadmill. I feel trapped, and I’d have to interrupt my exercise to be able to walk away.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 09:43 PM
1	Is approaching a girl in the gym a good idea? Eye contact/sexy smile from across the room, then ignore. You’ll get her attention, and she’ll find a way to get yours back if she’s interested. If not, you’ve given her plenty of space to walk away. I’m a woman and I hate being confronted at the gym, but if a man did this I’d be intrigued.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 09:41 PM
3	Is approaching a girl in the gym a good idea? I’d watch this movie 😆	/r/seduction	06/08/21 09:38 PM
1	Need some advice You’re asking for tips on how to manipulate the situation because your end goal is to lose your virginity? Wow I feel sorry for this woman.	/r/seduction	06/08/21 09:33 PM
3	[deleted by user] As a woman, I can say this is so true. We can detect the nice-guy routine a mile away, and it’s a huge turnoff. Of course, “nice” gestures are always welcome when they’re genuine. It’s the difference between getting a gift on your birthday vs getting a gift on a random Tuesday. The random gift feels better because it’s more genuine and it’s more of a surprise. Women want to be surprised and we want to be challenged. There’s almost nothing sexier than having a mild disagreement, or “natural frict…	/r/seduction	06/08/21 09:28 PM