alekspetrakov Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	[FR] Show up to a pool party and nobody is there. #-Close		alekspetrakov	/r/seduction	21/06/14 05:55 PM
4	I'm almost out of the friendzone, but I need some guidance for the last steps.		alekspetrakov	/r/seduction	07/11/14 05:21 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Need help on keeping a conversation going. I had a lot of similar issues for a long time and I don't know if I have a quick fix for you, but talk to a lot of people. Watch for the cues that people are enjoying the conversation like if they become more relaxed, changes in voice tone etc. And if you think you are interesting, then let them know why you are interesting. For instance, I have been involved in a lot of research at my school. I used to think no one wanted to hear about it other than math people like myself since I felt it was h…	/r/seduction	15/09/14 04:58 AM
2	Girl losing interest after first date. Texts are not an indicator of anything especially when you try having conversations over them. If she wants to go on a second date thats all that counts. I wouldn't sweat it too much. If the date went well (or you think it did), then go ahead and schedule another one.	/r/seduction	14/09/14 06:28 PM
4	The cellphone wall of death This is sadly the truth. Be more interesting OP!	/r/seduction	14/09/14 06:15 PM
-1	Would you have sex with a fat chick? If she has nice hair and dark skin, yes.	/r/seduction	28/06/14 03:38 AM
3	Confessions of a raging experimentaholic: Bayesian bar hopping, Einsteinian insanity, and the seduction of soft science As a math guy, and one of those "soft science" haters, i thoroughly enjoyed this. I'm just a little surprised that the physicist hates statistics as much as he does in the story. I was under the impression that thermodynamics and quantum mechanics and even modern astrophysics rely heavily on statistics. Maybe one of the physicists of seddit can clear this up lol.	/r/seduction	22/06/14 06:26 PM
0	What did I do wrong, help me improve. Yes try again. It really never hurts to just try. It probably starts getting creepy the third time lol but the second isn't a big deal. But also: yes it will happen that she will not respond. So you move onto the next one.	/r/seduction	22/06/14 06:13 PM
-2	What did I do wrong, help me improve. Texting has no good indicators of anything. I wouldn't sweat it too much. I would try again later, maybe invite her to get coffee or drinks or whatever. This is something that took me a long time to get my head around but it is extremely important: No matter how good your initial interaction was, no matter how good your game was, sometimes the girl will not respond. I'm afraid its just how these things go. Especially when you are meeting people in clubs or bars. There is a certain amount of exci…	/r/seduction	22/06/14 05:45 PM
3	Smiling without an obvious reason? Quite a few people tell me I'm always smiling, but I don't realize it most of the time. There was a girl on my bus route last semester who I went on a few dates with told me I was always smiling and always looked happy. Why am I smiling on the bus, who knows. It didn't work out with her though, we messed around one day, she became really uncomfortable then it went downhill. Turned out she was cheating on her boyfriend. So yeah smiling can do wonders sometime lol	/r/seduction	22/06/14 04:24 AM
7	[FR] Show up to a pool party and nobody is there. #-Close Shit, you are completely right lol	/r/seduction	21/06/14 10:00 PM
1	[FR] I need some serious advice here guys. Went to a huge house party last night and there were a lot of ups and downs. One last tip, make friends with as many people as you can. You never know who will introduce you to that great girl, so take a blanket approach. When I'm leaving, and everybody is saying bye to me and doing that handshake hug to me (you know what black people do, I hope thats not racist), I know I did a good job.	/r/seduction	21/06/14 09:32 PM
4	[FR] Show up to a pool party and nobody is there. #-Close I was thinking about this today and thats one of the reason I posted this FR. I've always had a slight nervousness about escalation, especially since this was technically our first interaction. Next time, for sure though.	/r/seduction	21/06/14 06:32 PM
1	[FR] I need some serious advice here guys. Went to a huge house party last night and there were a lot of ups and downs. This is very true. I've gone to parties where I end up hanging out with dudes the entire night. But did I still have a great time? Hell yes. House parties have been always extremely hit and miss for me. The best formula for success I have found is just to have a good time, and eventually you will make the rounds with the women. The parties where I just think about meeting women are the ones that always go bad. Its one of those "build it, and they will come" type things.	/r/seduction	21/06/14 06:09 PM
2	Always initiating the conversation first? (Text Game) Perhaps that is best. One thing that I have learned is that while you often have to go with your gut feeling, sometimes just do the opposite just to see what will happen. When you are facing the dichotomy of walking away or continuing things that aren't working, why not try something else? Keep it lighthearted and easy, because you don't really need her anyway right? If what you really want is to talk it over and figure out the deal between y'all, you are not playing the game right lol.	/r/seduction	18/06/14 02:27 AM
1	Always initiating the conversation first? (Text Game) I will not repeat I'm not an expert, I have fucked up more times than I count. Try just being really direct with her. Say what you want to do and when you want to do it right off the bat. If that doesn't work, just ask her if she wants to make out again sometime. At that point, if I was in your shoes, I would be already at the point of walking away anyway. Its extremely cliche, especially on this sub, but don't develop oneitis. It cripples your ability to meet new girls. And if things work out w…	/r/seduction	18/06/14 02:10 AM
3	Always initiating the conversation first? (Text Game) Uh honestly...I move on. I'm not really a pro at this stuff. But I haven't found phone numbers that hard to get if I'm really trying to get 'em. I will usually give it a few chances but after a while I just get tired of trying. When all you have between y'all is the initial interaction where you got the number and some texts, for me anyway, its not too hard to walk away. EDIT: I hope I'm not reading too much into this but is this a girl that you actually like a lot or just some rando?	/r/seduction	18/06/14 01:54 AM
2	I'm growing up now I have found that to be the best approach to these things. Just know you want to be a better you and figure out how to make that happen. Articles and videos on the side are helpful, but you gotta go out and live.	/r/seduction	18/06/14 01:21 AM
11	Always initiating the conversation first? (Text Game) I can't speak for others but I haven't found texting to be a good indicator of anything. Some girls will carry on a conversation really well others won't. The real indicator is if she is willing to do something in person. The same girls who hardly ever text me are very willing to go out to eat or grab coffee. Sometimes the girl who texts a lot will make up excuses a lot.	/r/seduction	18/06/14 01:18 AM
7	Best ways to dance? I can finally add my 2 cents to seddit: I'm still trying to improve my game but when I go to night clubs I am always the coolest guy there. The trick is just to not give a shit and just start dancing. Pull your Michael Jackson moves or your hip hop moves or whatever and just have a great time. Don't wait for your friends to do it either. Girls always come up to me wanting to dance. It seems silly but if you look around the club the majority of guys fall into two categories: 1) Dancing with girls…	/r/seduction	18/04/14 03:54 PM