What did I do wrong, help me improve.

Orifice_Space · 2014-06-22T20:41:56+00:00

Some people don't text back. The beauty of human interaction is that none of us are mind readers and therefore none of us should be burdened with trying to figure out why someone did whatever they did.

Move on bro, if she texts back later cool, if not then that's cool too. But don't let one girl not responding to your text stop you from meeting and chatting up new girls next time.

Also, the three other responses to this post are trash.

2014-06-23T02:27:20+00:00

Just text her with something unrelated and interesting. That's what I do. It's less needy than "did you get that?"

Live-LoveMatt · 2014-06-22T19:40:55+00:00

I can't give you super accurate advice based on the info you've given, but honestly I don't need to, I just need to say the following:

As long as you acted truthfully to your desires in your interaction with her, and did everything you wanted to WHEN you wanted to (Like going for the kiss when you did) then you did everything correct.

Having "game" is simply the ability to to turn women who don't know you receptive quickly and easily. This is actually simple to do. The idea is that you put yourself forthright, you're honest and direct with you who you are and how you feel and think. You take action when you want to and without shame or fear, and you engage with the situation from a place of curiosity and just do what feels right for you.

This behaviour will push women that don't like what you have to offer away, turns on women who DO like what you've got further, and forces neutral women to get off the fence and decide if they like you. Simply doing this demonstrates true confidence and will inspire many neutral women to like you and invest attention in you.

Every interaction you will have with a woman is 60% her and 40% you. When you start to meet a lot of women, you'll notice that you can speak, act, and dress the same way but each time get vastly different responses.

Well, duh, right?

There are millions of different variables to a woman AND the situation you're in. It's impossible to control the situation and control her personality and her reaction to you, ultimately she can leave or flake if she wants to.

So don't worry about this. Perhaps she just got some bad news? Or she doesn't like skinny/chubby/short/well built guys? Or this or that...

This is way we approach based on honesty and curiosity. If we approach thinking "I hope she likes me" we're going to take it personally when we get rejected for arbitrary reasons. At the end of the day, she's just a random stranger and the rejection has very little to do with us, and a lot to do with her personality and her mood in that moment.

Keep your 40% under wraps, and push the interaction as much as comfortable, that's all you can do.

alekspetrakov · 2014-06-22T17:45:45+00:00

Texting has no good indicators of anything. I wouldn't sweat it too much. I would try again later, maybe invite her to get coffee or drinks or whatever.

This is something that took me a long time to get my head around but it is extremely important:

No matter how good your initial interaction was, no matter how good your game was, sometimes the girl will not respond. I'm afraid its just how these things go. Especially when you are meeting people in clubs or bars. There is a certain amount of excitement in the moment, but a day or two later, the magic may be gone.

SinisterSilence · 2014-06-22T19:42:16+00:00

I've had the same thing happen to me before plenty of times. I'll get a girls number and we seem to hit things off well, but then she just stops texting me. You're not the only one experiencing this. Don't have any advice for you besides try again with a different woman bro

Title	What did I do wrong, help me improve.
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	9
Comments	7
Date	June 22, 2014 4:45 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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