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| 4 | Insider tip from a girl: Stop taking so long to ask her on a date!Yeah exactly. I know it's possible to get a number with very few messages, but they're always super flaky. I mean, it's like those videos where guys walk up to Girls and just ask for the number. Sure they get some, but she's much more likely to actually make the effort to date someone they've actually had a bit of a connection with. | /r/seduction | 01/09/14 11:19 PM |
| 7 | I Can't Confidence.From the information I could pick out of this post I think you're having two problems (which I also used to have): 1) Connection. When you get these numbers, are you building an emotional connection with them BEFORE you close? It's MUCH more effective to connect with her emotionally BEFORE you get the number. A genuine legit connection on some level is very powerful and actually pretty easy to do. Challenge yourself like this: in the next interaction, in 10 minutes, cut through the bullshit smal… | /r/seduction | 31/08/14 12:43 AM |
| 1 | What are some awesome, relaxing, and joyful habits that you guys partake in?Holy shit, are you me? Above and beyond group therapy podcasts and Bryan Kearneys Kearnage are the background music to my Daygame. | /r/seduction | 29/08/14 03:59 PM |
| 1 | The Fundamental Differences Between Male and Female Attraction.I wrote a field report about it. :) http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2dr5f7/fr_20_minute_street_makeout_daygame/ | /r/seduction | 24/08/14 01:19 PM |
| 0 | The Fundamental Differences Between Male and Female Attraction.If that's what you take from this post then great. But there's an underlying point that if you know why those things work, you can sculpt yourself in ways outside of just confidence and social skills and still otherwise be attractive. You can look at the way you're acting and see how it does/doesn't fit in with what's attractive. For example, other things that fall into this framework include: passion for a cause, motivation, knowledge of a subject, sense of adventure, security in oneself. You c… | /r/seduction | 24/08/14 10:11 AM |
| 1 | The Fundamental Differences Between Male and Female Attraction.Yeah. Pre approach iois are awesome. A while ago, I was given eye contact and a smile by a cute French girl while passing her on the street on a Saturday afternoon . I approached, and after vibing well and connecting, I was able to kiss her. It was insane. | /r/seduction | 24/08/14 10:01 AM |
| -1 | I need a few great openers for girls that are sitting by themselves on a seawall/boardwalk at the beach."On a scale of 1 to 10, how weird would it be if i sat here an spoke to you?" "Erm.. 9 (Or any number)" "Close enough!" sit down "Hi, I'm Matt. I gotta dash in a sec but.." | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 09:01 PM |
| 5 | How do I start a social circle for the purpose of trying non-pickup game?I've been following one simple rule now which has gotten me very far with my social circle and helped me develop a great group of socially active friends. Just say yes! Literally every time someone has invited me to something or do a small favour. I say yes. Suddenly I'm the guy to know, the guy people can count on to not flake and follow through. Once you've established a rep like that with a few people in different areas of your life, you can start bringing them together for house parties, nig… | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 08:56 PM |
| 3 | [FR] 20 minute street makeout - Daygame."what's the craziest thing you've ever done?" "ask me any question you like. The filthier the better" "You reminded me of an embarrassing story about when I lost my virginity.. " The idea is to talk about your own sexual experiences first in a playful and casual way. She'll hopefully have some of her own to share in response (or if she doesn't, ask her what she'd like to do) , and then after a while you can direct it by saying what you'd like to do with her. If you displayed your sexual intent c… | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 09:09 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 20 minute street makeout - Daygame.He vanished. For 2 sets and stuff, we winged, but We actually had a goal of getting instant Dates that day. So if we were in a single set longer than 2 minutes we assumed it was going somewhere and went solo for a while. He came back my way 30 minutes later when he was on an instant date and saw me making out with Lison. | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 09:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] 20 minute street makeout - Daygame.Totally agree. If I had approached first time I would've had enough time to take her back to my apartment 5 minutes walk away. | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 08:59 AM |
| 25 | [FR] No Expectations, Generating Social Proof, fuck those anti-nice posts, and F-closeYou. I like you. Awesome story, a pretty natural pick up. Great work. Maybe you should elaborate more on what you think you did to make her like you/sleep with you. It kind of sounds like it was more the whole situation she liked. She was feeling excited, in a new place doing new things. However, thinking about it, I guess you played into that a fair bit and she could see that you were a catalyst for more adventures, which turned her on to the idea of sleeping with you. I'm hesitant to say it wa… | /r/seduction | 12/08/14 11:45 PM |
| 2 | "You're a really good listener"; how do I introduce sexuality and attractiveness into conversation?Not the op but I did this within 10 minutes of meeting a girl at a house party. We had sex on our first date and now she's my girlfriend. And that's just the one time is worked. It's really does work. | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 09:31 AM |
| 1 | How can I stay out of the chasing frame with direct game?"I saw you and I thought you looked attractive, so I came over to see if you're interesting, too" | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Choking and hair-pullingYes! So much this. It works very well and gets a girl turned on in literally seconds if you're coming across as dominant in your interaction too. Good body language, confident kino, sexual and direct topics of discussion. Etc | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 09:27 AM |
| 5 | Trouble removing bra...?The image of this in my mind is hilarious | /r/seduction | 10/08/14 09:23 AM |
| 3 | Should you use ultimatums?I kind of use ultimatums, but they're heavily implied rather than laid out clearly. I think this way is more powerful. For example, if a girl says we should meet "just as friends" I reply: "No thanks, I have enough friends already. I'd rather take you on a date" The implication is that you're either going to take her on date, or you're not going to take her out at all. I.E. an ultimatum. | /r/seduction | 09/08/14 10:57 PM |
| 6 | My buddy approached two women THROUGH THE WINDOW while they were having drinks in a bar during the day. [pics]A real ham planet. | /r/seduction | 08/08/14 10:00 PM |
| 1 | My buddy approached two women THROUGH THE WINDOW while they were having drinks in a bar during the day. [pics]Yeah, when I was done. I went to wing him shortly after but the dude already nailed the close. | /r/seduction | 08/08/14 09:25 PM |
| 8 | My buddy approached two women THROUGH THE WINDOW while they were having drinks in a bar during the day. [pics]Arent really any more details to be honest. Dude just walked up with a fairly standard "Hey i know this is crazy but I saw you back there and you looked like you were having a good time so I wanted to get in on that" | /r/seduction | 08/08/14 09:08 PM |
| 1 | My buddy approached two women THROUGH THE WINDOW while they were having drinks in a bar during the day. [pics]I was involved with another girl across the street. The dude just decided to take it upon himself to approach these two while I was chatting to mine. | /r/seduction | 08/08/14 09:06 PM |
| 4 | So you've got her in your bed... How many of you care about being a great lover? How important is her sexual pleasure to you?Do you invest time in learning about female sexuality, reading books on sex, watching seminars, etc? Oh yes. I love everything about women. It's why I do what I do. Nothing beats having a woman writhe in pleasure for you like a goddess in ecstasy. I take great pride in being able to hold true the lofty promises of sexual pleasure that I whisper into a woman's ear on a date. Being a good lover makes women go crazy. They become addicted to your sexuality. You go crazy for each other with a deep bu… | /r/seduction | 06/08/14 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Anyone from UK, Birmingham/Coventry area?I'm your man! You may have even seen me before if you've ever been out in Birmingham city Centre on the weekend. ;) | /r/seduction | 06/08/14 08:53 PM |
| 1 | [LR] Post-rave Threesome - A Benefit of Long Term Inner-Game Development.Thanks man! | /r/seduction | 06/08/14 10:11 AM |
| 1 | [LR] Post-rave Threesome - A Benefit of Long Term Inner-Game Development.I'm 25, they're 23. | /r/seduction | 06/08/14 10:11 AM |
| 3 | [LR] Post-rave Threesome - A Benefit of Long Term Inner-Game Development.Haha, thanks dude. :D 1) I was aware of seduction self-improvement for a long time before I actually started to take action on it. After a break up about 6 years ago I just decided that I wanted more adventurous women in my life, and then just started to improve myself in every way I could with seduction and PUA being a part of that. 2) I've been going at this for quite a long time, but about a year and a half ago my life basically collapsed in on itself after I lost a serious girlfriend to trag… | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Using a spot for daygame too muchI live in the City centre of Birmingham UK. I roll out of bed and I'm instantly in one of the best locations for day game in the UK. I approach girls on these same streets every day of the week. After work, on lunch break, on weekends. Every. Day. For the last two years. It's gotten to the point now where I see girls I've dated or slept with on a daily bases. Is it an issue? Nope. I'm always honest and always break up on good terms so most of them actually stop and chat. I have a reputation here… | /r/seduction | 23/07/14 09:56 PM |
| 3 | When asking a girl on a date through text, which do you prefer?"I'm looking at my plans. I'm free on Monday or Tuesday evening after 5. Pick whichever works for you." If she refuses both days and doesn't offer a third, my flake detector goes off big time. | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 11:49 PM |
| 2 | How do I structure a date properly and make a connection with a girl?I wrote an article that perfect explains how to structure a first date: http://live-love.co.uk/2014/03/create-the-ideal-first-date/ I'll copy in some relevant parts: The goal of a first date is to create a fun, interesting space that allows both of you to efficiently… Express both of your personalities and desires openly and uninhibitedly which will cause you to… Polarize one another either towards or away from one another, and if towards… Connect on emotional and situational compatibilities and… | /r/seduction | 20/07/14 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Just grow some balls already.For now at least. She's fast developing feelings for him, and I'm happy for them. The core dictionary definition of polyamory is actually quite simple, it's simply multiple consensual open relationships. Imo simply allowing your partner the space to develop feelings for another person is being poly, (or at least having a poly mindset) even if they're not actively engaging in something just yet. You should know that polyamory is all about playing within the blurred lines and grey areas. Every ope… | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Just grow some balls already.That's actually a far better way at looking at it. I actually introduced my girlfriend Kay to polyamory. She had never been in an open relationship before. She had a lot of concerns at first, but when she met her first other romantic partner she really opened up to the idea. She said "I get all the love and care and excitement from a normal relationship, while still having the option to have a bit if fun with others. So long as everyone is in the know." | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Just grow some balls already.Bears, beets, beautiful blondes. | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Just grow some balls already.You sound like you're talking from experience. Is that the case? But you're right. I'm very honest with people about my lifestyle, it's part of my strategy on finding others that I can date openly. But it does invite a lot of questions and misunderstanding. The biggest being "loving more than one person isn't real love" To that I reply bullshit. You love both your mother and father. Love is fluid and dynamic, not static like society has raised us to believe. Still, being able to have your cake a… | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 07:29 AM |
| 3 | Just grow some balls already.I'll copy this to everyone concerned. Basically, I practice polyamory. I have multiple open relationships, and so do my girlfriends. Currently Kay is my primary girlfriend, and I'm dating others, too. Kay herself is dating other guys also. But we are still very much in love. I actually mention this on my website on the main page at the bottom, and I even have an article on how to get over jealousy in order to practice polyamory: http://Live-love.co.uk My next book will be able practising honest … | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 07:05 AM |
| 1 | Just grow some balls already.I'll copy this to everyone concerned. Basically, I practice polyamory. I have multiple open relationships, and so do my girlfriends. Currently Kay is my primary girlfriend, and I'm dating others, too. Kay herself is dating other guys also. But we are still very much in love. I actually mention this on my website on the main page at the bottom, and I even have an article on how to get over jealousy in order to practice polyamory: http://Live-love.co.uk My next book will be able practising honest … | /r/seduction | 18/07/14 07:05 AM |
| 9 | Just grow some balls already.Don't worry, I'll jerk off and play league on your behalf | /r/seduction | 17/07/14 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Daygame physical escalation - Some simple tips.That's great to hear! How did it go? | /r/seduction | 17/07/14 07:08 AM |
| 4 | [FR] #-Close, great deal on a bong, and was invited to a hawaiian partyHanging out with others and really mixing in is a fantastic piece of advice here. You'll want to meet everyone and keep yourself entertained and build social status this way. Equally after a while, you'll want to hang with her a little, and when you do, express your desire for her. Physically escalate, tell her she's cute. Flirt, tease, and finally pull the trigger. If you mix this with talking to everyone else in a push/pull manner, you'll do great. | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 08:41 PM |
| 12 | Going out right now to try this new method: if she gives an excuse to the firm date, i'll walk away from setThe theory is great. No need to be a dick about it though, you don't have to just walk away. How about instead try saying something like "that's a real shame, you seem awesome but it looks like we'll be too busy for each other. Well, nice to meet you." and then say goodbye. Just randomly walking away just seems a tad childish. Anyway, like I mentioned, the theory is great. I have a "fuck yes" or no rule. If a girl isn't saying 100% fuck yeah to hanging out with me, then she's a no, and I move on… | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Rejection is a tool to help you get to what you want.Just added my site to the main post, too. :) http://live-love.co.uk | /r/seduction | 12/07/14 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a quote from "Models" By Mark Manson over self responsibility?God I love this book. | /r/seduction | 12/07/14 12:41 AM |
| 1 | What's the goal in an approach?I like to go for the honest and bold angle. In this case the goal of an approach is to screen them for potential compatibility with yourself, once compatibility is shown, she'll show interest. Allow her to qualify herself to you, and if she does, get the phone number so you can connect over a date or something. Screen, qualify, connect, escalate, close. | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 09:17 PM |
| 6 | "If I could teach you any one thing about being a PUA, it's that being a PUA has nothing to do with picking up women."Absolutely brilliant write up. I call this the difference between being a pick up artist, and a seducer. A pick up artist is someone that's good at picking up girls. Sleeping with them, and moving on. A seducer is someone that focuses on having an attractive and seductive lifestyle. And therefore invites truthful, honest and quality relationships of all shapes and sizes. Which do you want to be? | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Not aping technique, but going for the attitudeBang on! That's exactly right. It's all about expressing your truest honest self in a fun non-desperate way. Might I consider you check out this article?: http://live-love.co.uk/2014/04/video-the-mindset-of-an-attractive-man/ | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Good places for practicing cold approaches for a noobI think considering your age, if you don't live in a city and can simply frequent the high street, you might want to consider more sociable options. Perhaps something like languages classes or dancing lessons. For example, one of the 23 year old girls I dated actually dated a 40 year old before me, he was a member of her salsa dancing class, apparently the dude was smooth as hell and dated a few girls in the class. At a certain age it becomes more of a game of demographics and mutual interests, … | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Good places for practicing cold approaches for a noobYep! I've been doing that almost daily for about a year now. Of course I mostly walk in an around the mall as an excuse to listen to music, which isn't too much of a stretch since I live in a city centre apartment just 3 minutes away.. But I'm also very much out on the approach. There's a huge shopping mall near me which I frequent and have scored dozens of dates from. | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 08:09 PM |
| 4 | How to.. well.. not give a fuck?That's a very good way to look at it. Just to add to that, there are plenty of ways you can be comfortable knowing that you'll be fine if you don't impress her: Beginner: You know you're practising and gaining experience, so you're focused on yourself and just trying to understand social interaction better, anything more than that is a bonus. (writing failure off as experience) You know you'll get better with each girl, therefore there are hotter and better girls just over the horizon as you imp… | /r/seduction | 05/07/14 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Tip: Be honest and don't back down.This girl was just a fairly standard Daygame number close. Met her at the train station, 10 minutes chat, she was receptive, and I liked her, arranged a date in person (and mentioned clearly it was a date) but she kinda backed down a little over text when she found out I was 25, as she guessed 21. Hence her pulling back and saying we should meet as friends. I explained the age issue was silly and I don't have an issue with it, then this happened. | /r/seduction | 01/07/14 07:58 AM |
| 5 | Is it really neccessary to have sexual conversation during the first date?Talking about previous sexual experiences is a must. Just talk about them in a fun relevant way. For example I have a story where I nearly drowned from giving a girl head one time. So if I'm having trouble making the conversation sexual, I'll start with the unrelated question "Ever had a near death experience?" and then when they've finished their story (or lack of story) I'll explain mine. Which makes the vibe funny/sexual. From there it's easy to continue talking about sex. There are loads of … | /r/seduction | 30/06/14 11:25 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Pretty as a painting - Daygame k-close - With pictureSure thing dude. Thanks for having my back. | /r/seduction | 28/06/14 11:53 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Date Report - Hungry For Hungarian.They've never given me a fake number. It's just a joke to show that you're self aware. Understanding how weird a situation is but acting brave anyway is a cornerstone of charm. | /r/seduction | 27/06/14 09:40 AM |
| 3 | FR: Yogurt Shop Daygame- First Date F- CloseDude. Sick. Congrats, you nailed it. The way you screened her near the start by asking probing questions to open her up is vital, not only for figuring out who you're dealing with like you mentioned. But also because it implies to the girl that you have standards and are trying to figure out if she's worth your time. I'm sure if you think about your interaction with her you'll notice a theme of her trying to win you over just as much as you was trying to win her over. Also, thanks for the shout … | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 03:57 PM |
| 2 | [LR] Four words - Same Day Daygame Lay.Spoken French, for sure. Girls light up when if can speak their language and they're outside of their home country. Whenever I meet a Lithuanian girl and I start asking her how her dad was in Lithuanian, she freaks (I dated a Lithuanian girl for 6 months and she taught me some of the language) I would've been physical anyway, I always am. I often go for both physical and in depth discussion and push pull between the two to create an intense tension. In this instance it was proven to me that ofte… | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Uncovering The Power Of Touch - My beginners article to physical escalation.Birmingham is like any other large city. It is what you make it. I've Dated (from Daygame) American Girls, eastern European Girls, South American, Asian... People here are a tad friendlier than in London I've found , not to mention we have 3 unis and a massive student population of student Girls are your thing. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 01:29 PM |
| 1 | [LR] Four words - Same Day Daygame Lay.I totally agree to this. That's exactly how you do it. | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 01:27 PM |
| 2 | [LR] Four words - Same Day Daygame Lay.Yep! | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Uncovering The Power Of Touch - My beginners article to physical escalation.Sorry dude, I'm aware that's a problem, looking at making a mobile friendly version of the website soon. Thanks for reading! | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 09:21 PM |
| 0 | I'm increasingly becoming interested in one of my attractive female friends/ wing woman. Not sure how to proceed.The difference between an AFC confession of love and what I'm suggesting is that the AFC approach implies neediness, which is actually what turns the woman off, NOT a lack of mystery and challenge. My method implies challenge a different way... What OP is doing by acting in the way I suggested is creating a window of opportunity with a time constraint. She knows that he won't be available for long, hence why he's not bothered by it not working out with her, he'll just find another option if she … | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Tinder has given me 3 #'s...0 dates. Help please.My favourites are direct and invite them to screen themselves to me. "Hey Name, You're cute. Tell me, what's your favourite thing in the world?" does the trick every time for tinder. | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Having a great convo w/hb on okc every was going great until....I'm using it as to improve conversation skills as a whole You might get a kick out of this article I wrote on the subject. | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 08:40 PM |
| 4 | Tinder has given me 3 #'s...0 dates. Help please.How much would you say is too little emotional investment/texting versus too much? I guess that's my new question. That's subjective. Screen her enough against your values to figure out that YOU would enjoy HER, then ask her on a date. This whole things gets a lot easier when you stop thinking of it like you're trying to impress her, but instead she needs to fit into your standards and you're willing to walk if she doesn't. (And then really do drop it if she doesn't) As a person, I definitely do… | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 08:10 PM |
| 8 | I'm increasingly becoming interested in one of my attractive female friends/ wing woman. Not sure how to proceed.You're right, this subreddit isn't really the correct place, but I'll give this stab since it falls under relationship dynamics. I know a lot of the guys here might come up with some roundabout ways to try and show interest and other techniques and bullshit, but I'm gonna be real with you here. You need to talk to her about this. But, when you do it, you need to ensure that she knows you're chill with whatever outcome. See, there is nothing more attractive than a man who is honest but also compl… | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 08:02 PM |
| 21 | Tinder has given me 3 #'s...0 dates. Help please.There is literally no emotional investment happening in any of your messages. This combined with your desire to meet is coming across as super needy. Meeting a guy is a large investment of time and energy, a girl needs to know that she's going to get along with you before she considers that. If you're a man of value, then your time is valuable, so you will have standards and values to screen against before you decide to meet with a girl. You should be screening her against those, asking her what… | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 07:52 PM |
| -1 | What did I do wrong, help me improve.I can't give you super accurate advice based on the info you've given, but honestly I don't need to, I just need to say the following: As long as you acted truthfully to your desires in your interaction with her, and did everything you wanted to WHEN you wanted to (Like going for the kiss when you did) then you did everything correct. Having "game" is simply the ability to to turn women who don't know you receptive quickly and easily. This is actually simple to do. The idea is that you put yours… | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 07:40 PM |
| 0 | Having a great convo w/hb on okc every was going great until....I know this isn't the answer you're looking for but.. Okcupid and other online dating is waste of time for many reasons. Girls are generally lower quality (really hot and sociable girls don't use online dating) Girls will rarely reply due to inflated value, and if they do, they rarely put their money where their mouth is because they're too happy to be non-committal and enjoy the attention. Think of the amount of time you put into messaging one girl on okcupid who you haven't even seen IRL. Cons… | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 07:30 PM |
| 3 | This can't be a coincidence.I agree with this guy. You're probably giving off some major good vibes knowing you're about to meet a girl you've been chatting with. I've had it happen to me a fair few times. I'll approach them even if I risk running over on time and having my date show up. After a couple of minutes of chat I just say "I have to meet my friend but you're really cute, let's hang out sometime". Get in and out quick. | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 07:20 PM |
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